I absolutely love the professor! She hit the nail on the hammer by saying that the body can heal but the psychological damage done can’t/takes the most time.
Indonesia government and Indonesia polices should watch this. Every women, girls, and those parents who has daughter in Indonesia should watch this. Marrying them isn't the solution.. never ever be a solution.
my blood is boiling just by imagining that this happened maybe hundreds of time and so many people suffered silently or maybe have taken their lives because of the emotional damage, this is just dehumanizing
In most part of asian countries, a women who have sex before marriage is a taboo thing. And parents assume that you already "defective" and it's a shame thing to pair with someone who still keep their "precious thing". in the end to stop that shame feeling they decided to pair up the victim and the rapist and actually that is such a dumbest thing to do. Pair them up will be just make that victim as his/her sex slave and makes it worst.
MiiM X from what I know I think it’s also happened in the US. The youngest age you can get married in one of the states is 12 years old for girls as well, the system for handling young children and pedophilia really is messed up in a lot of places in the world.
i love how she talked about his . how she explained how psychological trauma doesn't have a healing time as does physical trauma ( which may not always heal all the way but does more-so quickly irregardless than psychological pain.) and how even men get raped cause a lot of times people don't think of men at any age of being able to be raped as we don't hear , report or think of man to be taken advantage of that way cause either we think of them as the perpetrators only , when no matter the age or the build a man can be raped by either another man or women. also women can rape other women. there is no gender that cannot have case of such , no gender match up or age match that doesn't. i wish we would go more in detail about the pain and suffering of all types of rape victims so everyone feels they have a voice and place to reason safety.
This issue was once famous in Malaysia in recent years and I believe it still is.☠️Someone 🤢with power in the country said that it's fine for a little girl to marry😠 the rapist so that she can have a happy life!Bullsh*t!👿When a reporter ask him how if it's his daughter?He 🙃
I think I remember this issue? Is it the issue of the girl family is so poor that they married the girl as second wife to a guy who could be call her uncle to continue schooling? Am I right? I don’t remember it tbh.. Too many case like this in Malaysia.. There is also marriage law I don’t remember in which state that say minor could marry as long as the parents consent to it.. I was like the fuck 😤😤
it was maybe until the 90s for the koreans but this kind of thing still happened nowadays, and the reasons are basically for the rapist to take responsibility for the behavior, both families not to be shamed by others and for the victim not to be looked down by the environment 😔 believe it or not the victim is still be blamed by some
This remind me of the movie Silenced🤫 (2011), Gong Yoo is the main actor. The students(👂🏻hearing impaired) were sexual assaulted by their teachers. And they try to close the case with settlement 🤦🏻♂️ If you didn't watch it yet, I SUGGEST TO WATCH IT👍🏻 it based on the true event 😢
That's why there is a taboo about sex too, because they teach ''your body is precious" then people can't be free to talk about these stuff and view it as natural And it's disgusting to make someone marry their rapist, just inhumane
Honestly, something like this really happening in my country until this day. I remember that one of my neighbors got raped by her classmate but end up married to the assaulter the reason exactly the same. In my country, sexual harassment doesn't get a lot of exposure compared to other crimes
I already knew about that law on Korea after seeing some movies based on real cases. I was shocked, so I had to share with my brother so he could feel as mad as I was, because I like to get mad together. Anyway, it took a child to be abused for them to start thinking... This makes me just believe on how many Korean woman had to deal in that time, if people are standing by it to discuss if an assault is a crime or not speaks itself of the people considering not to be. Means at some point they did they or borded the same don't want it to be called what it is, a crime. In Brazil we have law but anyway they are not used as they should. Is more easy for the women to kill the perpetrators and end up in jail than they give them what they deserve. Is a miracle when they give two years of prison to anyone. I remember celebrating a friend's case, because she was young when happened, she had to take to justice when older, and between family blame and all sh@ she got the two years, but as the miss said here it takes time to even start healing, I can't even say you can heal, since I have been through the same, have to say still haunts me to this day and f@ up every aspect of my life that I didn't know could have affected.
"It's not a sexual assault, it is an assault" 👏👏👏 well said! Oh, there's another one "it is not a crime if it can be solved with settlement" (not the actual trans, but the thought is there).
what made me angrier was that i at the age of 18 knew exactly what the judge would've done because i've read so much about such incidents of human cruelty, i hate that i saw that answer coming
Maybe a lot of people may find the verdict ridiculous as I do as well, but in my country, they still do that. They make the guy marry the girl, sometimes even before they become adults.
Idk if this is for sure, but I once read that even now in Korea, the victim usually in disadvantage, even though it happened but no strong evidence could counterback at the victim, like being sued and etc.
the victim sexual assault got damage not in body but emotional and psychological damage. this what must people know but in reality many people take easy on this. i know some case the youtuber who being charge do sexual assault but still can living well and the worst part many his fans attack the victim and living like hell. hope there's some justice for all victim.
This law was also practised in Europe and many Western countries until surprisingly recently. In fact a related law was only repealed in Florida (US) a few years ago. It's still practised in many countries. As a world, we have a long long way to go.
The criminal was not punished, instead a whole system punished the victims by forcing them to marry the person who violated them and forcing them to face their trauma every day instead of helping them...
I think this is why many young girls back then who were raped did not came forward because they were afraid they will be send to marry off their assailants. That's just sick😡
it's happens in india too. not now a days....if a woman get sexually assaulted they got married to that person. they think this is solutions to the problem. Because no one marriage that women....😔
This is why women education is important. We have to know and fight for our rights! Makes me angry to know that it’s still happening in rural countries.
I don't know how to react. When I heard the question, I had the same answer as him (I remembered it from somewhere too). Then, to know it was correct. Sad.
what's sad is that until now in many countries this kind of stuff happens where the raped get engaged to the aggressor, I mean what is so important about the girl being "dirtied" when the body is just a vessel to the person, any girl should be able to get her rights and punish the one who Assaulted her, why does she have to live the rest of her life with her nightmare.
u can see the difference between men and women in this aspect. not to sound like criticism but u should see that the women here were absolutely enraged. sook, eunni and especially professor lee. its horrible how these kinds of verdict comes through
I hope all those victims got away from the rapists. Sincerely. What an awful thing. The fact we've lived in societies for 2000 years and only in the last 50 has equality been a thing absolutely mortifies me
In the Philippines, this kind of law is still written in the constitution. It states that a valid marriage between the offender and offended party shall extinguish the criminal action. Fucking sad.
I agree with most of what the professor said however I do believe your body is precious. Though it does heal, you only have one. Your body in its wholeness includes your emotional and mental state. I can’t imagine what that judge was thinking of by having the victim marry the man who raped her. That’s traumatizing. I think people then and now feel ashamed that they were raped. It’s not the victim’s fault...at all. The one who should feel ashamed is the one who violated someone else.
I like how they look so shocked and it was something that stopped 20 years ago while India still had judges song this bullshit to the victims with parents going along with it
this was the case in my country where they marry the rapist to the victim (because they only think about the image so for the girl to relatively stay pure (virginity) they did these kinds of things) until one day a victim committed suicide and ppl manifested in the streets then this disgusting act was removed forever
Never imagined this thing actually exist in this world.... those poor girl back then,how much they suffered because of this dumb thing they call verdict... 😡😡😡😡
Law is stupid at times how could you let someone who sexually assaulted the girl and let them marry (I feel sad for the girl that she could marry the person she like)(and the law even made the guy like so happy that he did a crime and married his crush 🤯😠tsk tsk tsk)
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I absolutely love the professor! She hit the nail on the hammer by saying that the body can heal but the psychological damage done can’t/takes the most time.
Omg. Same.
I'm literally in tears. The professor is right
Indonesia government and Indonesia polices should watch this. Every women, girls, and those parents who has daughter in Indonesia should watch this. Marrying them isn't the solution.. never ever be a solution.
That was i thought. We still do this in Indonesia, though.
It's still happening there???? wtffff I hate men
@@rozhin6055 that's the thing though. Sometimes, both women and men are agree on this act
@@ra-kc9cc which men and women? the victim and perpetrator or the general public?
@@rozhin6055 sometimes the family, sometimes the general public
Wow that's insane, it's like killing her twice and caused trauma for the girl
my blood is boiling just by imagining that this happened maybe hundreds of time and so many people suffered silently or maybe have taken their lives because of the emotional damage, this is just dehumanizing
It's still happen in indonesia
I feel so bad for the victims
And what makes me really mad is cause the parents who ask the rapist to marry the victim
In most part of asian countries, a women who have sex before marriage is a taboo thing. And parents assume that you already "defective" and it's a shame thing to pair with someone who still keep their "precious thing". in the end to stop that shame feeling they decided to pair up the victim and the rapist and actually that is such a dumbest thing to do. Pair them up will be just make that victim as his/her sex slave and makes it worst.
Yeah. Unfortunately.
Not only that, there are many underage woman getting married because their parents arrangements.
This is why I keep thinking, if you're not ready to become a parent, don't have a kid. Your children is a human, not a dog
Idk why but it makes me tear up a bit cause that's so inhumane
MiiM X from what I know I think it’s also happened in the US. The youngest age you can get married in one of the states is 12 years old for girls as well, the system for handling young children and pedophilia really is messed up in a lot of places in the world.
@@hazeltiberiuslee7216 really ? that's so messed up .. I hope my country won't be like that
@@miimx6018 i hope so too
@@hazeltiberiuslee7216 yeahh
i love how she talked about his . how she explained how psychological trauma doesn't have a healing time as does physical trauma ( which may not always heal all the way but does more-so quickly irregardless than psychological pain.) and how even men get raped cause a lot of times people don't think of men at any age of being able to be raped as we don't hear , report or think of man to be taken advantage of that way cause either we think of them as the perpetrators only , when no matter the age or the build a man can be raped by either another man or women. also women can rape other women. there is no gender that cannot have case of such , no gender match up or age match that doesn't. i wish we would go more in detail about the pain and suffering of all types of rape victims so everyone feels they have a voice and place to reason safety.
"Since she's already been defiled"
Gosh....
Insane mood. I can’t agree with the judges!!
Because you have humanity :)
R b and because I have a sense of the justice for every person! The humanity’s a virtue that few people have!!
Cause the judges weren't women back then. Patriarchal society...Patriarchal views and laws.
This issue was once famous in Malaysia in recent years and I believe it still is.☠️Someone 🤢with power in the country said that it's fine for a little girl to marry😠 the rapist so that she can have a happy life!Bullsh*t!👿When a reporter ask him how if it's his daughter?He 🙃
Weh cer citer
Seriousla ? Ada ka
There is something like this? Goshhhh
I think I remember this issue? Is it the issue of the girl family is so poor that they married the girl as second wife to a guy who could be call her uncle to continue schooling? Am I right? I don’t remember it tbh.. Too many case like this in Malaysia.. There is also marriage law I don’t remember in which state that say minor could marry as long as the parents consent to it.. I was like the fuck 😤😤
@@minxbella9342 Yup,M'sia just have too many this kind of cases
it was maybe until the 90s for the koreans but this kind of thing still happened nowadays, and the reasons are basically for the rapist to take responsibility for the behavior, both families not to be shamed by others and for the victim not to be looked down by the environment 😔 believe it or not the victim is still be blamed by some
This makes me so mad and so sorry for rape victims.
I'm glad they brought this topic on the show (since rape is still a big taboo)
There are also same cases in my country, Indonesia, where a rapist can married their victim even when the victim didn't want that 😔
Now I want to start watching this show!😯
So true the body heals but the mind never heals, until the day you die or alzheimer's take your memory it will be with you.
Really sad that mental/psychology harm never get considered 'wound' that would stay forever. 💔
This remind me of the movie Silenced🤫 (2011), Gong Yoo is the main actor.
The students(👂🏻hearing impaired) were sexual assaulted by their teachers. And they try to close the case with settlement 🤦🏻♂️
If you didn't watch it yet, I SUGGEST TO WATCH IT👍🏻 it based on the true event 😢
As a girl, this hurt sooo much 😭😭
Poor girl 😭😭
this is such a good thing to talk about 😭😭
That's why there is a taboo about sex too, because they teach ''your body is precious" then people can't be free to talk about these stuff and view it as natural
And it's disgusting to make someone marry their rapist, just inhumane
Wow what a torture....
I really enjoy this program, it's giving me the knowledged especially now it's still lockdown in our country.
Sexual assault is assault! 👍
A movie was also made about the case discussed above called 'Hope'.
the movie was sad feel horribale for the child and her parents
I'm glad KBS is coming up with this topics
Honestly, something like this really happening in my country until this day. I remember that one of my neighbors got raped by her classmate but end up married to the assaulter the reason exactly the same. In my country, sexual harassment doesn't get a lot of exposure compared to other crimes
Holy crap! Where are you live? Such a insane. It’s 2020. Sorry for the victims..
I already knew about that law on Korea after seeing some movies based on real cases. I was shocked, so I had to share with my brother so he could feel as mad as I was, because I like to get mad together.
Anyway, it took a child to be abused for them to start thinking... This makes me just believe on how many Korean woman had to deal in that time, if people are standing by it to discuss if an assault is a crime or not speaks itself of the people considering not to be. Means at some point they did they or borded the same don't want it to be called what it is, a crime.
In Brazil we have law but anyway they are not used as they should. Is more easy for the women to kill the perpetrators and end up in jail than they give them what they deserve. Is a miracle when they give two years of prison to anyone. I remember celebrating a friend's case, because she was young when happened, she had to take to justice when older, and between family blame and all sh@ she got the two years, but as the miss said here it takes time to even start healing, I can't even say you can heal, since I have been through the same, have to say still haunts me to this day and f@ up every aspect of my life that I didn't know could have affected.
I don't know what to think but imagine how many girls were forced to marry and still alive today..
What an insane verdict is that 😳
I'm speechless 🤐
I'm just so scared to hear this !
"It's not a sexual assault, it is an assault" 👏👏👏 well said!
Oh, there's another one "it is not a crime if it can be solved with settlement" (not the actual trans, but the thought is there).
I watched the movie Hope.... it was heartbreaking 💔
Something clicked in my head after hearing this. It's like I finally found the answer I was looking for.
Indian government and judges should watch this, they still say to marry the perpetrator.
what made me angrier was that i at the age of 18 knew exactly what the judge would've done because i've read so much about such incidents of human cruelty, i hate that i saw that answer coming
This is still a common practice in south Asia (countries like :India, Bangladesh etc does give this type of verdict and have no remorse)
omg thats so true... body heals but the emotional and psychological effect was the hardest to deal with
Maybe a lot of people may find the verdict ridiculous as I do as well, but in my country, they still do that. They make the guy marry the girl, sometimes even before they become adults.
Idk if this is for sure, but I once read that even now in Korea, the victim usually in disadvantage, even though it happened but no strong evidence could counterback at the victim, like being sued and etc.
This is maddening omygod
This used to happens in my country. Sad reality. Very inhumane.
the victim sexual assault got damage not in body but emotional and psychological damage.
this what must people know but in reality many people take easy on this.
i know some case the youtuber who being charge do sexual assault but still can living well and the worst part many his fans attack the victim and living like hell.
hope there's some justice for all victim.
This law was also practised in Europe and many Western countries until surprisingly recently. In fact a related law was only repealed in Florida (US) a few years ago. It's still practised in many countries. As a world, we have a long long way to go.
Its actually very sad to see where in some countries this kinda law to marry the girl with the rapist exist till now.
The criminal was not punished, instead a whole system punished the victims by forcing them to marry the person who violated them and forcing them to face their trauma every day instead of helping them...
I think this is why many young girls back then who were raped did not came forward because they were afraid they will be send to marry off their assailants. That's just sick😡
it's happens in india too. not now a days....if a woman get sexually assaulted they got married to that person. they think this is solutions to the problem. Because no one marriage that women....😔
This is why women education is important. We have to know and fight for our rights! Makes me angry to know that it’s still happening in rural countries.
I absolutely support your statement! But I think the girl was educated... Even with the education she couldn't go against the patriarchial society.
@@goldi1018 yes. one educated girl cannot make a change alone. that's why it needed more and more educated girls to change the system.
I really want to see more with this Professor with English subtitle.. very educating
im not even surprise that this happens in south korea.
I'm sad here in india still some court judge say this its 2021
whoever disliked this must be a psychopath.
What an absolute nightmare
I almost google Nth Room 😅 when suddenly I remembered what is it
I don't know how to react. When I heard the question, I had the same answer as him (I remembered it from somewhere too). Then, to know it was correct. Sad.
Everyone don't believe what Doni said huhh
what's sad is that until now in many countries this kind of stuff happens where the raped get engaged to the aggressor, I mean what is so important about the girl being "dirtied" when the body is just a vessel to the person, any girl should be able to get her rights and punish the one who Assaulted her, why does she have to live the rest of her life with her nightmare.
Why i came here again when i know i will be more than furious again, WAE?!
u can see the difference between men and women in this aspect. not to sound like criticism but u should see that the women here were absolutely enraged. sook, eunni and especially professor lee. its horrible how these kinds of verdict comes through
my god my blood is literally boiling
I'm in shocked..
This law still exi6in many countries, and rape still seen as a damage to just the body, like its damaged good can be replaced
This still happens in India ...
I don't know why but i guess the answer and it is right..
However it is so saddened me to know it is right..
I hope all those victims got away from the rapists. Sincerely. What an awful thing. The fact we've lived in societies for 2000 years and only in the last 50 has equality been a thing absolutely mortifies me
Sadly this still happens in many countries.. people who support this should also be sent to jail!!!
Sadly this still happens in a lot of countries :/
I’m glad that this doesn’t happen anymore and if those judges are still alive karma shall come
In the Philippines, this kind of law is still written in the constitution. It states that a valid marriage between the offender and offended party shall extinguish the criminal action. Fucking sad.
I agree with most of what the professor said however I do believe your body is precious. Though it does heal, you only have one. Your body in its wholeness includes your emotional and mental state. I can’t imagine what that judge was thinking of by having the victim marry the man who raped her. That’s traumatizing. I think people then and now feel ashamed that they were raped. It’s not the victim’s fault...at all. The one who should feel ashamed is the one who violated someone else.
The criminal must've been a son of a conglomerate.
Jung hyundon-nim read agatha christie books? Omg i never imagine that
I like how they look so shocked and it was something that stopped 20 years ago while India still had judges song this bullshit to the victims with parents going along with it
What a trauma,poor girl had to get married and live with her assaulter her whole life.
Who is that professor? Each words she said literally awed me.
I wonder how these women lived afterwards...
I'm curious what happened to the girl after they were married and how are they doing after.. This is so sad and infuriating!
this was the case in my country where they marry the rapist to the victim (because they only think about the image so for the girl to relatively stay pure (virginity) they did these kinds of things) until one day a victim committed suicide and ppl manifested in the streets then this disgusting act was removed forever
Never imagined this thing actually exist in this world.... those poor girl back then,how much they suffered because of this dumb thing they call verdict...
😡😡😡😡
Law is stupid at times how could you let someone who sexually assaulted the girl and let them marry (I feel sad for the girl that she could marry the person she like)(and the law even made the guy like so happy that he did a crime and married his crush 🤯😠tsk tsk tsk)
This sort of law still exists in some countries cuz of their "beliefs"😡
My god that is so fucked up it makes my blood boil
Wtf😭😭😭