Sometimes we give too much of our love and our kindness and not get it back, and so our big hearts grows smaller, until we have nothing more to give. One of the most powerful messages ever in a song.
I'm alone at home, drunk, sitting in the kitchen. Watched it about 30 times with headphones at full volume. this clip and track tear the soul and give a feeling of nostalgia
I have a dream that after Covid "ends" or rather restrictions loosen up, Roger Sanchez remakes this video with same actors... And includes real life reactions of people seeing this woman with her giant heart. Imagine those genuine and honest reactions after so long "hibernation" of social life.
That's a great idea. A kind of "Before Sunrise/Before Sunset/Before Midnight" kind of thing. I'll ask him about that and see if it's possible (I'm his brother Gabriel, BTW).
Philip Andre, the director who shot this video in New York, had an excellent insight into matching that shrinking heart with the cold demeanor of the people that Kelky Hutchinson, (the girl in the video) is trying to interact with. A red heart always has a great emotional impact on people.
The 2002 game kingdom hearts has that exact effect. And that's my childhood. This and that game resonate the inner spirit of the 2000s. Only this one particular was about people giving a dame.
No words can express how much this track means to me. This song was bottomless for me. The lyrics and this video got me through some of the most hardest times in my life. Beautiful message, beautiful song. I love it.
@@jimoncken6936 Maybe not though. She is happy at the end and her heart is bigger again. Being herself is more important than what other people think...
It really hit me when the heart became smaller and smaller. Shows that one naturally have a big heart but people consciously or unconsciously does not appreciate it, soon you become a heartless soul, hoping for another change 😢
I noticed in the end she was proud of her big heart, the guy got scared and ran away from her big heart like he was intimidated yet he liked the smaller heart. Interesting video . And the tune is such a throwback memory, remember it so well .
People who live long enough in a big city understand the heart in this video, surrounded by strangers long enough to make you become a stranger to yourself.
Yeah, that's how NYC feels. I'd walk right next to you, maybe we like this same song, but we live in distant worlds that never cross path. But we're still here, next to each other, in the same place.
When this first came out I adopted it as a personal "woe is me" anthem/prayer. Years earlier I had blew it with someone, THE ONE and spent years (Decades) lamenting MY mistake. Well I got Another Chance and after 20+ years we're back together. Its been amazing.
I remember watching Mtv like 20 years or more ago and being mesmerized watching this video. I just got to understand the conversations cuz by the time I didn't speak English at all, but by the size of her heart you could understand what was happening. By that time I didn't know this was New York and it wasn't and idea of possibility of me knowing this city ever and it turns out I'm writing this comment from a computer at work in New York City, where I work.
when this song came out ...ILL remember me and my elder brother were so impressed by the Video and Music and there was also the dream of Him to live in NYC One day....and few years later his dream came true...HUGGS BRO
Some people wear their heart on their sleeve, i guess they should be proud of it and it's about getting hurt yet there's hope to never give up on love .
When I hear this song and watch this video I go back to times when things were a lot different. I remember 2001 and of course I miss it. This song makes me nostalgic for how things were 20 years ago when I was only 23. I miss the people I hung out with back then. Can't believe it's been that long.
I was told that this was the last music video filmed in New York before the towers came down... before the world changed forever. This song and video reminds me that, all these years later, we still have questions. Looking at the recent global changes in 2020-2022 - there again, the world has changed... and maybe 20 years from now, we will still be asking questions. What a great song and video to draw such a line in history!
Me too. I live near Philly and haven't been to NY prior to 9/11. Last time I was there was Aug 2001. My friend who I went with is gone now. We had such a great time...went to Statue of Liberty, Coney Island, NY Aquarium. I have pictures of World trade center that I took. Everything was so different back then. Miss it all and miss my friend.
@@sft-9139 I heard the song yesterday on a 1983 version of American top 40 - the original from Toto. I did not even realize until yesterday that "Another Chance" was sampled from TOTO. The entire Toto IV album is fantastic. Africa is a good song as well, takes me back to being 24 years of age - the magic of good music.
@@sft-9139 absolutely. I was in my early 40s, but I still really liked the girl with the GIANT HEART that shrank. Looked like it was too big for the guy that took her out for coffee, when he turned around for another look at her. Left to our imagination.
Damn, I will always hear ToTo "I Won't Hold You Back" .. Was a big toto fan in the 80's so When this track came out, it was a flashback to the 80's in NYC. Great memories both times!
those of us with large hearts are often those who hurt the most and that heart is used and abused to the point of shrinking into nothingness, then when love fills the heart again only to be deflated yet again
This is how I currently feeling applying for jobs. You start out bright eyed and eager to join the world. 2 month go past, you start to lose faith, but maybe once and awhile a great opportunity comes by, you give it your all, and get shot down/rejected. You're now 6 months in with no offers, a great opportunity comes by but you're so defeated you look at it and don't even acknowledge it's there. Your defense mechanism is up because you assume it's just another lost cause. You make the choice, give it another chance? Or just ignore it.
El mejor video de reflexión sobre la humanidad y el Amor, con un corazón tan grande que no cabe en todos lados, da vergüenza y la gente se aleja pues no quiere llamar la atención, que equivocados estamos. -hola -hola -necesitas ayuda? -quien no la necesita? -es ese tu corazón? -si -es grande -es pequeño ahora -de verdad? -era más grande antes. -que miedo... -sí, es mi problema :3 😭😭😭😭😭
Drugs teach me is really find another human same like me. & after all that teach me i feel the sounds & i find music makes me feel like one this. 🙌🏻🌊👽🔥
Love that video and the casting is perfect for that girl cos let's face it fellas, that's a girl we all look for, not what girls think we want, they have no clue. IMHO!
it never gets old, that's music and video (fun fact is i always throught that's Renee Zellweger) i was 11 years old when this came up on MTV and it was amazing when they played that video,look at New York back then and the spirit of it, such a cool city no matter what,all those movies and tv shows located there were really amazing,
Back again 💕 When this song came out I was 16 and ran away to England to meet someone I met on yahoo messenger. We had soooo much fun! He took me all over the country.
We are spiritual beings having a human experience...I have much love for you all. We are connected though music like this, and the feelings that it evokes. Even if we never meet. We are connected.
I relate so much to this video. I feel like I have love to give, but people are so cynical from the atomization of living under the most extreme version of neoliberal capitalism that people see empathy and genuine kindness as having some ulterior motive. I'm almost 30 and have been single this whole time, because I was too afraid of accepting the love of the one person I've ever met who actually understands me - all because I was afraid of how I would somehow fuck it up and then my decade-long friendship would be over. Basically if I had just loved myself and gave myself as much forgiveness and leeway to make mistakes as I try to give others (and had stopped caring about what my father would think about my partner, and hadn't been so shallow about looks), I would probably be married now. But now it's too late. The other person got married, then divorced 3 years later, and now the opportunity is long gone. The point is, when you find someone who genuinely accepts you (flaws and all), don't do what I did. But I guess they deserved better, because I didn't even love myself enough to love someone else. I do now, but it took 9 years from when we first met while I was on study abroad and meeting up with friends from back home at a sex shop in Amsterdam. The saying "if you can't love yourself, how are you ever gonna love someone else?" is more true than any other piece of advice I could ever say to someone about love. Learn to love yourself in a healthy way, and only then will you ever be able to make yourself and another person happy for the long-term.
This is one of my favorite songs ever. It introduced me to Roger Sanchez. Thanks for the posting the full length remaster version. I have only seen the short version. Awesome job!
Always be my favorite song, a teen in the 80s when Toto record the song I won't hold you back, then in my mid 20s when this came out, roger sanchez samples the intro lyrics. It was an awesome time hitting the clubs and dancing for 4 to 5 hours.
"Hello?"
"Hello"
"You need help?"
"Who doesn't.." 💔
Those few lines of dialogue put so much humanity into a great track
THE RIGHT WAY!
Yeah, but he turned out to be a dick to her too.
Por favor podrías poner todo el dialogo en español?
straight to the kokoro😅
Sometimes we give too much of our love and our kindness and not get it back, and so our big hearts grows smaller, until we have nothing more to give. One of the most powerful messages ever in a song.
People with bigger hearts are hard to find
20 years old, still one of the greatest house track
2001 - Can't believe 😅
I am 46 , great that young people as you like this, my respect 🙏🏻 👏🏼 🎧
20 years? Seriously?
I'm alone at home, drunk, sitting in the kitchen. Watched it about 30 times with headphones at full volume. this clip and track tear the soul and give a feeling of nostalgia
Hanging?
❤
Im doing that now😂
🙌@@pureluck6689
you're drunk
I have a dream that after Covid "ends" or rather restrictions loosen up, Roger Sanchez remakes this video with same actors... And includes real life reactions of people seeing this woman with her giant heart. Imagine those genuine and honest reactions after so long "hibernation" of social life.
That's a great idea. A kind of "Before Sunrise/Before Sunset/Before Midnight" kind of thing. I'll ask him about that and see if it's possible (I'm his brother Gabriel, BTW).
Dont think so but this art style (2000) of filter is already coming back
Great idea!
@@gabrielhill Keep us updated! I'm hyped how this thing is going to turn out.
major revival of the ❤️🩹
Philip Andre, the director who shot this video in New York, had an excellent insight into matching that shrinking heart with the cold demeanor of the people that Kelky Hutchinson, (the girl in the video) is trying to interact with. A red heart always has a great emotional impact on people.
The 2002 game kingdom hearts has that exact effect. And that's my childhood. This and that game resonate the inner spirit of the 2000s. Only this one particular was about people giving a dame.
Wundervolles Video, danke für Deine Erklärungen!😊❤
Hits harder now in 2023 than it did 22 years ago ❤️
Right... Do you remember those 22 years?
No words can express how much this track means to me. This song was bottomless for me. The lyrics and this video got me through some of the most hardest times in my life. Beautiful message, beautiful song. I love it.
What is the message? The guy was afraid of love? She has to become heartless to get love?? I didn't appreciate the ending.
@@jimoncken6936 Maybe not though. She is happy at the end and her heart is bigger again. Being herself is more important than what other people think...
What times! What was the problem? How did you manage to feel better?
It really hit me when the heart became smaller and smaller. Shows that one naturally have a big heart but people consciously or unconsciously does not appreciate it, soon you become a heartless soul, hoping for another change 😢
Oh man, this is one of the tracks that made me fall in love with electronic music completely, absolute masterpiece. Thank you Roger.
This song embodies the heart and soul of house music. Such a simple, yet poetic track.
You're God damn right.
Definitely
I noticed in the end she was proud of her big heart, the guy got scared and ran away from her big heart like he was intimidated yet he liked the smaller heart. Interesting video . And the tune is such a throwback memory, remember it so well .
Thanks to Toto😏
This music video still hits hard :/
for real... right in the feelings
I know man, It does!
Brought tears to my eyes.
nostalgia🥺🥺 i’ll always remember this video
People who live long enough in a big city understand the heart in this video, surrounded by strangers long enough to make you become a stranger to yourself.
Yeah, that's how NYC feels. I'd walk right next to you, maybe we like this same song, but we live in distant worlds that never cross path. But we're still here, next to each other, in the same place.
Fuck, this tracks gonna send me down a old skool worm hole for next few hours
same here ...
Made me laugh this as that’s how I’m here 😂😂😂
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So glad to see a song that helped me through depression and 9/11 help others too. Don't let people shrink your heart!
When this first came out I adopted it as a personal "woe is me" anthem/prayer. Years earlier I had blew it with someone, THE ONE and spent years (Decades) lamenting MY mistake. Well I got Another Chance and after 20+ years we're back together. Its been amazing.
F yes❤
Amazing, God bless
❤
I remember this!
It was HUGE.
All over MTV, MCM, VH-1, VIVA
Best representation ever of how this world goes. After all these years, still my favorite video ever!!
This is when the heart was the main focus, before the internet and smartphones. House music remembers and still holds on to it.
Well the internet had taken off by then, but it was Web 1.0 and tech hadn't sucked people in so much as today.
social media you mean
This was SUCH a powerful video.
So many years later, I remember the big heart, not the song or artist.
But I do now. 🎉🎉🎉
I had a massive crush on this girl when I saw this video, I was 17yrs old at the time. When her heart shrinks I just wanna give her a massive hug 😢
I remember watching Mtv like 20 years or more ago and being mesmerized watching this video. I just got to understand the conversations cuz by the time I didn't speak English at all, but by the size of her heart you could understand what was happening. By that time I didn't know this was New York and it wasn't and idea of possibility of me knowing this city ever and it turns out I'm writing this comment from a computer at work in New York City, where I work.
Jamás pensé que algún día visitaría la ciudad de este video. No vivo en New York, pero me pasó algo similar. Cuánto tiempo tienes en NYC?
@@juandager5220 viviendo tengo como 3 años ya
when this song came out ...ILL remember me and my elder brother were so impressed by the Video and Music and there was also the dream of Him to live in NYC One day....and few years later his dream came true...HUGGS BRO
A piece from the soundtrack of my life. I was 11 years old when it was released. I get goosebumps every time I hear this song!
Same age, same feels ❤️
here with you, bro!
Some people wear their heart on their sleeve, i guess they should be proud of it and it's about getting hurt yet there's hope to never give up on love .
Me too
Me too ❤
When I hear this song and watch this video I go back to times when things were a lot different. I remember 2001 and of course I miss it. This song makes me nostalgic for how things were 20 years ago when I was only 23. I miss the people I hung out with back then. Can't believe it's been that long.
This is more than just a song....
I was told that this was the last music video filmed in New York before the towers came down... before the world changed forever.
This song and video reminds me that, all these years later, we still have questions. Looking at the recent global changes in 2020-2022 - there again, the world has changed... and maybe 20 years from now, we will still be asking questions. What a great song and video to draw such a line in history!
What a classic, miss that old NYC.....
Me too. I live near Philly and haven't been to NY prior to 9/11. Last time I was there was Aug 2001. My friend who I went with is gone now. We had such a great time...went to Statue of Liberty, Coney Island, NY Aquarium. I have pictures of World trade center that I took. Everything was so different back then. Miss it all and miss my friend.
"Can't come in to this club.. Heart's too big"
Wow 20 years have passed .. i was a teenager when this song came out . Now it appears more deep and complex ... like wine
20 years old where has the time gone, still holds up to this day.
This was sampled from Toto, "I won't hold you back", released 1983
@@lonespokesperson7254 wow thanks so much for that never would have known. Toto Africa is one of my top 5 tunes ever
@@sft-9139 I heard the song yesterday on a 1983 version of American top 40 - the original from Toto. I did not even realize until yesterday that "Another Chance" was sampled from TOTO. The entire Toto IV album is fantastic. Africa is a good song as well, takes me back to being 24 years of age - the magic of good music.
@@lonespokesperson7254 Amazing. Music is just worldwide, no language barrier or anything could never live without it 👍
@@sft-9139 absolutely. I was in my early 40s, but I still really liked the girl with the GIANT HEART that shrank. Looked like it was too big for the guy that took her out for coffee, when he turned around for another look at her. Left to our imagination.
This sond hurts, here, right in the soul...
So nostalgic ;(
Tu corazón le queda grande a la gente . Es una hermosa canción ✌️
Hola
1 of the best music videos ever! Had tears
Easily the best song ever 🎧 Roger Sanchez has kept me dancing for 20 years ♥️
It was only a few weeks ago I realised the sample Sanchez used was Toto's 'I Won't Hold You Back.' 👍🏽
Toto made some great songs.
old but gold... hach war das schön, als Kommerz noch weniger gezählt hat, als die Message der Musik
This is a masterpiece. Amazing song and video that just collapsed beautifully together.
Damn, I will always hear ToTo "I Won't Hold You Back" .. Was a big toto fan in the 80's so When this track came out, it was a flashback to the 80's in NYC. Great memories both times!
How am I just hearing this song for the first time? Damn
those of us with large hearts are often those who hurt the most and that heart is used and abused to the point of shrinking into nothingness, then when love fills the heart again only to be deflated yet again
We all need another chance
Woo! What a classic, can't wait!
That was great, thanks MoS.
This is how I currently feeling applying for jobs. You start out bright eyed and eager to join the world. 2 month go past, you start to lose faith, but maybe once and awhile a great opportunity comes by, you give it your all, and get shot down/rejected. You're now 6 months in with no offers, a great opportunity comes by but you're so defeated you look at it and don't even acknowledge it's there. Your defense mechanism is up because you assume it's just another lost cause. You make the choice, give it another chance? Or just ignore it.
Don't let it bring you down. Cheer up! Don't take life so seriously. It will all pass. Be nice to yourself.
This song gives you the sweetest kiss on your lips and rips your heart from your chest at the same time, might as well call this it "Julia"
El mejor video de reflexión sobre la humanidad y el Amor, con un corazón tan grande que no cabe en todos lados, da vergüenza y la gente se aleja pues no quiere llamar la atención, que equivocados estamos.
-hola
-hola
-necesitas ayuda?
-quien no la necesita?
-es ese tu corazón?
-si
-es grande
-es pequeño ahora
-de verdad?
-era más grande antes.
-que miedo...
-sí, es mi problema
:3 😭😭😭😭😭
Un pisto
Beautiful, Thank you Ministry Sound. Thank You Roger Sanchez.
Hard to imagine this was filmed in July 2001 - over 20 years ago. Looks like it was yesterday!
I was just listening to Toto greatest hits CD yesterday and realized this song is not the original but this Roger Sanchez version is still brilliant.
Drugs teach me is really find another human same like me. & after all that teach me i feel the sounds & i find music makes me feel like one this. 🙌🏻🌊👽🔥
Such a brilliant house song!
Thank you for this track and all the goosebumps Roger Sanchez 🙏🏽
Love that video and the casting is perfect for that girl cos let's face it fellas, that's a girl we all look for, not what girls think we want, they have no clue. IMHO!
Yes women are delusional with what they think is beautiful: Fake lashes, massive coverup makeup, long nails, etc
.
Be yourself, no matter what. Be you.
Purely one of the best Ibiza anthems ever! Also this video looks great remastered! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🔥🔥
Algun latino en el estado de México de esta rola le invito una peda.
One of the best dance tracks of all time if not THE best! The genius of Roger Sanchez!
it never gets old, that's music and video (fun fact is i always throught that's Renee Zellweger) i was 11 years old when this came up on MTV and it was amazing when they played that video,look at New York back then and the spirit of it, such a cool city no matter what,all those movies and tv shows located there were really amazing,
Mad to think people who were 18 years old when this song came out are now 38
❤ this song is a story of my life... Can't identify myself more with a song than this.. damn..
Steve Lukather's longing vocals make this song and Roger has utilised them perfectly.
Back again 💕 When this song came out I was 16 and ran away to England to meet someone I met on yahoo messenger. We had soooo much fun! He took me all over the country.
Simple, but brilliant, 20 years gone so quick and the song is still relevant...
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We are spiritual beings having a human experience...I have much love for you all. We are connected though music like this, and the feelings that it evokes. Even if we never meet. We are connected.
Thank you so much for this comment, and I love your screen name ❤️ namaste
Just a cool fake sentence in a social network.
Another chance ❤
An amazing video. Sometimes sad, sometimes happy. This song has alot of meaning to it. From being sad to happy.
"Can't come in tonight"
"Why not?"
"Heart is too big"
💔
This video and song breaks my heart everytime
1:45 This is me and the world. Everyone out there looks helplessly sad and pissed with anyone slightly happy with themselves.
Wow. The first bar of this song and I’m 21 again. Timeless song!!
I relate so much to this video. I feel like I have love to give, but people are so cynical from the atomization of living under the most extreme version of neoliberal capitalism that people see empathy and genuine kindness as having some ulterior motive. I'm almost 30 and have been single this whole time, because I was too afraid of accepting the love of the one person I've ever met who actually understands me - all because I was afraid of how I would somehow fuck it up and then my decade-long friendship would be over. Basically if I had just loved myself and gave myself as much forgiveness and leeway to make mistakes as I try to give others (and had stopped caring about what my father would think about my partner, and hadn't been so shallow about looks), I would probably be married now. But now it's too late. The other person got married, then divorced 3 years later, and now the opportunity is long gone. The point is, when you find someone who genuinely accepts you (flaws and all), don't do what I did. But I guess they deserved better, because I didn't even love myself enough to love someone else. I do now, but it took 9 years from when we first met while I was on study abroad and meeting up with friends from back home at a sex shop in Amsterdam. The saying "if you can't love yourself, how are you ever gonna love someone else?" is more true than any other piece of advice I could ever say to someone about love. Learn to love yourself in a healthy way, and only then will you ever be able to make yourself and another person happy for the long-term.
Hey you have plenty of time at 30 and it's never too late sometimes you have to get lost to learn the way.
video still hits hard after all these years
Love This!!! Makes Me Feel Good And Saddens Me At Same Time!!! Do You Need Help?!? Who Doesn't?!? Is That Your Heart? It Used To Be Bigger!!!😥💓
Мое сердце росло на этой музыке и так же разбивалось. Как же давно это было . . .
Fantastic quality
Video its simple yet it sends a tremendous message, and the track uffff brings back memories.
One of those tracks that cemented my love for house music, growing up in South Africa🇿🇦. Where has all this time gone?
One of the most beautiful house classics with evenly great music video. Never gets old!
Beautiful song, good vibes 🤩
This is one of my favorite songs ever. It introduced me to Roger Sanchez.
Thanks for the posting the full length remaster version.
I have only seen the short version. Awesome job!
So many memories to that song… I’ve got tingles head to toe.
Song always gets me in my feels who else??
21 years later, and this is still a house music fave....
Always be my favorite song, a teen in the 80s when Toto record the song I won't hold you back, then in my mid 20s when this came out, roger sanchez samples the intro lyrics. It was an awesome time hitting the clubs and dancing for 4 to 5 hours.
Gosh, this video is sad... it has aways been sad 😢
Back to reminiscing! Love it @Roger Sanchez! 💓
Returned from a trip to New York last week. Ive watched this video every day since. Perfection
Big hearts are scary in the big city.
"Yeah... now..."
-"Okay."
"Okay."
*SLAP SLAP*
You have just witnessed the MASTERPIECE.
ebay brought me to this song, love it!
this song makes me fell so young again (L)
When I hear this song, I just want to run. Unsure where but it brings me so much joy :) x
Roger Sanchez @ 1:21 😊
Is it your heart?
💔
I was a kid when this came out checking MTV Top 100 and waiting till they played it between the other tunes ...
Chanson un oeu triste mais magnifique et réaliste sur l'amour 😢peu
We need a Layo & Bushwacka Love Story remaster as well.