Deleyed explotions: YES!! I always end up ripping poeples heads of verbally when I´ve had enough. But passive agressive and gossip...nooo.. thet´s too weird and only makes it worse. It´s more like I analyse and try to figure things out as long as I can and then I explode all my analysis on them with some and burn in hell and things like that. Then I feel good after and can finally relax. Then I want to become friends again. Sun: Virgo, Mars and Venus: Libra
Garo Demirjian I have the same placements and totally understand what you are going through. One can only take so much abuse until enough is enough. I hope whatever path you took in life... it led you to happiness
this is exactly me! a lot of times I will sacrifice my own feelings when I get hurt so I don't cause tension in others. like if someone were to say something hurtful, i tend to ignore it and tell myself I will get over it, so I dont start arguments.
ugh just finally told someone off today, and while I should feel fulfilled somehow for standing up for myself finally, but I don't. I just feel stressed and not ok about it. ugh. Why can't I be like Leo or Aries and not give a fuck? The Libra struggle is so real.
+Alyssa Sharpe Hey do you think it's normal for Mars in Libra to be extremely good at making people feel inferior? I'm a Leo with Mercury I Leo and moon in Pisces and Libra rising, even though fighting gives me anxiety, I notice that I make people cry when I argue but I barely tap into my mean side. I give people a warning by commenting on something that they do and how I feel about it and next thing I know, they break down. I feel like Libras also have people flip flop with them because they think we're fake but all we do is make people acknowledge what they are to scared to admit about themselves, so they throw I back at us. Does anybody else feel the same?
+Lace Mitchell I know what you mean, the same crap happens to me. I think it's because we see no point in talking shit or arguing about stupid topics, so we hold off until we reach our breaking point and we always go for personal insults because we observe people and know their weaknesses. They get caught off-guard, and then suddenly we're the assholes.
mars in libra here, and yes when i am angry i tend to seek out girlfriends to try and figure out the situation (that caused me to be angry) but not in a way that defames people--i think my moon in pisces cancels that out. also i tend to release any pent up energy by dancing, clothes shopping, or anything that i think will enhance my physique (libra is vain innit).
Well the first thing is that I also have mars in 0 degrees libra in the third house and it is heavily aspected tension wise. But in all honesty, I'm just sick and tired of Libra's being labeled as these weak non confrontational people who don't stand up for themselves and are other's doormat. Explain other people with Libra mars, like John Dillinger who was public enemy number one and an extremely aggressive youth, or Eminem who jumped into the crowd with both fists towards a fan who was testing him. The most powerful man in the world, Vladimir Putin, while he does not have Mars in Libra (mars in saggitarius) has 5-6 planets in libra in an 11th house stellium and was former KGB. If you look into mixed martial arts and people who are very aggressive, the top level fighters usually turn out to be libra (example Fedor Emelianenko). Libras are just as good with confrontation and aggression as an Aries, they just go about it differently, Aries attempt to express with impulsive aggression, while Libra uses strategy and perseverance.
Word. I'm really trying to learn what kind of common ground, I have w/ certain ppl I don't like :/. Just so things can be more tolerable. I know a Libra. W.ever kinda bs he has in his natal, makes him so damn oblivious to absolutely everything. Including himself. Him attempting to play mind games w/ me, is always an automatic fail. He could leave, come back, ramble about his day, & I could tell him what he did before he even finishes. I'm a Cancer... but it's like, u'd think it'd click w/ him. That he can't bs me. But nope, he continues the way he does. He ignorantly thinks he's a great compulsive liar, is constantly annoying, & out of no where vain. Always negative, always! Far from charming! He could say the rudest, most obnoxious, lowest thing ever & be like, y R u yelling? is he that stupid? I've said this all to his face - repeatedly. Omg, I am nothing like this. I say things to ppl faces so much, I get to a point where I hate repeating myself. Thinking ppl r dense as hell. If by charming, they mean financially secure. Then, I guess that makes sense.. w/ him. I still have 2 other Libra placements. So ... yeah... I see Aries everywhere. I have an Aries moon, so maybe that makes a difference? I can't make up my mind.. heh ___:/ but either like my placements every where, or I don't. I guess if I had more of one thing , certain traits would be more extreme. I'm capable of things, it's just there's always something that balances it out. I'm not a complete psycho! But I'm not a pushover either. I hate drama, but I'm sure some delusioned ppl would diasagree.
My Sun is Scorpio, Rising Scorpio, Taurus Moon and Mars in Libra...I will let somebody talk a little shit. I will just stare at them, analyze them while they are freakin out and say to myself..." As long as she or he doesn't touch me...I'm cool" and then just walk away but the moment they try to become physical..BATTLE IS ON!! I have no time or energy to argue about bullshit.
I also have mars in libra and I can get SO resentful ... like, for YEARS afterwards. It sucks - I need to be better at confrontations, really or just to tell people OFF and set my boundaries once they start nagging on me.
this is so accurateeee.. i mean the part where we take on a lot of shit before we verbally express our anger, It takes about two times for the other person to be pushy abt it and I'll verbally vomit all over you, I don't hold it off for too long. BUT then literally ill fix it with my peaceful diplomatic tendencies, and still be mad abt it later and go tell other people about what the other person did to me even after its all "fixed" .
This is true. I'm an Aquarius sun, with a Libra ascendant and a Mars in Libra. I wouldn't say I'm passive aggressive. I just really don't care about other peoples feelings. I'm detached emotionally due to my Aquarius sun. I only show emotion when necessary because I don't like coming across as weak and I like BALANCE AND HARMONY. I'm disciplined. (Capricorn Mercury and Capricorn Venus) I will kill somebody with kindness and charm. That's how I win my arguments. The person on the other end usually ends up apologizing to me first because they feel guilty. I'm really manipulative without saying anything lmao. I have a Moon in Cancer and I'm very moody. So people normally just give me my space when they see me in one of my moods. I'm not an aggressive person. I just don't care about petty things.
Mars in Libra with Scorpio sun Gemini rising and moon here. I wanna be someone that doesn't give two fucks but then it's extremely hard cause I'm a people pleaser. Once an Aries fought with me. She was aggressive asf and was really getting on my fucking nerves on the other hand I was taking that bs because it was on my end perhaps I just took it completely on myself. She kept throwing shades at me. One day I lost my shit and I calmly said one fucking sentence and ghosted her for a year she kept calling me and I destroyed her. Ik it sucks but never underestimate a Libra in Mars cause the other placements might be aggressive savage and glorified by many. But the emotions we've been suppressing for years might destroy people like they never existed. Ik having Libra in your mars sucks but this world is full of pain and everyone are fighting their own battles. World needs people like us with Libra in mars placements. The reason why world still exists is cause of people like us who is allergic to drama. Cause just imagine everyone being savage and aggressive like pretty much a bunch of karens throwing shades at each other thinking that it's cool? C'mon we grew up. They didn't it's not our business. Let's work on it. Work on focusing on good stuffs and not waste our energy on unnecessary BS. We might need a good cry but we look better than people who gets black eyes just cause it's cool/ current trend.
As a mars in libra i have similar experience I made someone cry and kept calling me after they keep pushing it he never try to control other people for years after that Sometime i wish i have aries or scorpio moon though so i can take action easily having mars in libra make me too damn percieving and i have to process a lot of stuff before do one small action
This is so true because I always try to keep calm in conversations but I'm a Capricorn sun so I always have this strong urge to say what needs to be said even if it's harsh but my libra side always tells me to try to make it not as harsh as my Capricorn wants it to be so I tend to make these sarcastic smart ass secret insults which only make it worse because I'm not bluntly saying what I mean
I think the mars in Libra is good for me tho. Bc the Aries moon & cancer sun is prob way more more reactive. I mean, I'd prob be way more aggressive if not.
wow this makes sense. my brother has mars in libra, and he denies we even have disagreements. Amazing talent for making me and my aries moon pissed with just a look.
Hi Alyssa, I think it would be cool if you did a video in your own chart. This would give us all a better idea of your life and personality to the core.
This makes for an interesting placement when it comes to online confrontation (aka youtube comments!). It's pretty ridiculous. People are always confused when I don't play into their trolling, or when I react 'nicely' to their own anger/aggression. :)
Jessica Showalter I knew a few people who hated the fact that I never became very confrontational with them when they were talking shit. It's just like... what is the point of you talking shit for literally no reason? If there's no point in your shit-talking, there's no point in answering! :)
***** I didn't know he had that placement! That definitely makes sense - if there is anything that will get me going, or get me to speak up - it is when I feel something is unfair, or socially I feel obligated to stand up for something/someone. Which is kind of a pain in the butt, since most other things I prefer to be an observer! I also have saturn in Aquarius and so I think that helps with this 'social justice' issue as well :P But I agree, killing people with kindness is a good way to go! It's always funny how some people will back off instantly with their aggression, if you don't respond in like!
I'm mars in libra but I'm very aggressive and confrontational.... Could it be my cap sun, Aries moon, Scorpio rising, or what? Some things describe me well, others don't.
Lol it was for sure your aries moon, mixed with a cap sun, No doubt about it, aries is always that way unless combine with like an aquarious, but a Cap sun is The most outgoing and confrontational out of all the earth, by far. Id say Sag is the most for fire signs, leo and aries are tied, Imo.
Our scorpio rising puts that in our path and usually libra is in the 12th so we could actually use our mars to think out and choose our real life situations.
Ok this explains a lot. I am a Cancer and I have Mars in Libra and ever since I've started living with an Aquarius who's always trying to get in a conflict with me, I've just started to completely resent him and it pretty much destroyed our friendship. Sucks.
I’m a cancer with this placement as well and I hate it. People think they can run me over and when I set my boundaries they try and call me out.. bs. with all my other fire placements it doesn’t help either
hahahaha, yes, you nailed it. I tend to charm people instead of listening to what they say if I know where they are trying to lead the conversation , because i see it boring. And I also feel bored when people come to me with gossipy things towards me .
i have mars in libra and i agree that i have so much anger in me. but i don't show that to people much at all. only my close friends have seen me in that mode. i am cancer sun, so i am moody too.
This is true we are peacemakers i find the best way is always express to the person they are being illogical if they don't give a fuck and their a guy. Just simply use your charm, be diplomatic, just be peaceful, mars in libra doesn't mean physical fighting isn't a option this is just the last option especially for family. We are defintely romantic i do defintely want to make my girl feel like she is a Goddess and i love for her to express to me that she is defintely enjoying it with kisses. I also find i fight a lot harder for other people than for myself, i do protect people who can't protect themselves thats forsures.
Pisces sun, Leo rising ,Gemini moon, Aquarius Venus , Libra mars - IM A HOT MESS!!!!! 😅 I do ripp ppls heads off verbally ,yes!! I'm great at it. but then, I cry about it for fuken hours and my Leo pride won't let me apologize 😣 and I cab talk shit about ppl too although ,I don't even want to...
Doesn't sound like me as I don't start arguments but have no problems having a huge fight if someone starts on me or someone/animal I am protective of (Cancer sun), assume it is my moon in Aries totally dominating this Mars in Libra placement.
🙈🙉🙊 Maybe so eh? I hate my mars in Libra sometimes. Like why the feck do I have to avoid confrontations? Meh...haha..this is why I'd rather isolate myself than get close to many people. I am my own biggest enemy? lol...fair? fair my foot. Lmao!!! Just venting. Haha...
sun in leo, asc taurus and moon in aquarius. mars in libraas well. when my family argues with me, i do fight back but very often i will keep my mouth shut and have no facial expression. it's worse with my friends cuz they might say something that might enrage me but i react with a smile cuz i don't want a fight. I do however get over my anger extremely quick so i guess im lucky.
+TheGTWarriors I have a libra mars and aquarius moon too. People HATE how we react to fights because most people actually want that confrontation. I was real big on "the silent treatment" or just simply walking away after someone said something so enraging that I felt like if I didnt just walk away, I was going to explode and say something that could potentially be unforgivable. That's good you get over your anger quickly. I silently stew over mine forever, but that's probably because I'm a scorpio sun.
Why in my past life did I ever choose this. I must have been smoking crack in my most recent afterlife to assign myself to the Cinderella story literally especially since I really hate Disney princesses and want to puke every time I see one. This aspect makes me really bad at roller derby since I have a really hard time just slamming into people and knocking them down even though I'm totally strong enough to play and I especially want to take down a certain 400 pound Orca whale because she was bashing on me because I have an amazing husband and she only has a handful of men who would rather go to jail than pay her child support . But anyways If I had to play a Roller Derby girl in a movie or a play, I'd come off as so bad ass that hell couldn't even handle me.
Lmaooo Leo Sun/Virgo Moon, Mercury, Venus/ Libra Mars. Slightly confrontational but I try to be logical. When someone is treated unfairly or treats me unfairly, I go into a fit of rage 🤦🏿♀️. Logic just doesn't work in that moment. But Im very verbal about it. But if I get upset about anything to high degree, I shut down and stop talking. I start cleaning or listening to music or reading a book. My silent treatment is vicious.
talking smack behind people's back due to their passive aggressiveness is so damn true for some of them. it's disturbing. Backstabbing is such a low blow. Sorry don't mean to rant on the mars in libra folks! Luckily others are a bit more mature than that! Thanks Alyssa for the lovely video!
Thanks for the insight. I do believe that I give more than fair respect to others, n if I don't feel ckmpletely loved and accepted, I give up too much yet still try try again. Libra sees the beauty despite all the flaws and i feel expects others to embrace us imperfections n all without judgement. Like a hung jury!(/|\) *mars, venus , pluto, and mercury all in libra,)
I don't debate for the sake of venting, I do it because the topic of discussion is something I'm enthralled by, usually ethical matters, religion, philosophy, history, science, psychology, etc. Communication is a great outlet. What irritates me the most is when the person I'm arguing with accuses me of 'lecturing' them. Yes, you're entitled to an opinion, I'm also entitled to criticize that terrible perspective too. If you can't defend yourself in an argument, then that opinion is fatuous.
Hahaha!! Oh m god, SO true! The defaming does make me take on guilty though, then it's all how to make it right in my conscious to get that inner balance back. It does us more harm than good! I think part of having such a hard time expressing your anger in the first place with this placement, is being LIbra is the sign of balance/fairness, even if outraged/hurt, we can see where that person is coming from in some degree and we question our own logic/emotion.
I've been following you for the past year but finally subscribed!!! Yay!!! I think you're super funny. I was born on December 20th, cusp of Sagittarius/Capricorn, Moon in Cancer, Taurus rising, Mars in Libra, Venus in Scorpio...and I think I am crazy...^,^ luv ya girl!!!
My best friend has mars in Libra, this is her 100%!!!!! I have mars in Virgo, we never fight. I guess it's because she never says anything stupid, and I don't like to argue! Hehehe
Sounds kinda like Mars in Pisces, as they don't like confrontation either. Both Libra and Pisces are pacifist signs but if pushed far enough, WILL explode and that anger may be volatile
Why are all of my signs self deprecating goddammit 😂 I never fight back right away and physical violence is a last resort. I agree with everything in this video. but I don't really charm but I do complain and don't tell them we aren't fine until it gets to the point where they cross the line. Usually I try to talk to the person about it, but sometimes I don't.Sometimes I usually tell people "hey I don't like when you do that" first and if they are like "oh you know, whatever" but they don't stop, that's when the complaining start😂 I'd don't really do it as much like I did when I was younger.
I have Mars in Libra, Scorpio Sun, Gemini Moon, and Aries Rising. Interesting thing is,I don’t really identify with my Rising sign of Aries much at all! I have a feeling that this Mars in Libra is interfering big time with that.. Hmm..
Hi, Alyssa. As far as sex and love styles what Mars and Venus goes well with a Gemini in Venus - Libra in Mars male and a Aries in Venus - Capricorn in Mars female? Where is the good sex for me? -Help!
I don't agree with being self-deprecating. What about Pisces, Virgo, Capricorn? I would think Leo, Libra, Aquarius, and Aries would be the least self-deprecating. But, the rest sounds accurate for the Mars in Libra I know.
libra here, thank God for that moon in aries! my mars is the very last degree of libra....I pray that lessens it, but it could amplify?? crushing on a mars in libra. we'll see. ..... thanks!
Also, Leo sun/mercury, Cancer venus/midheaven/north node, Scorpio jupiter, Sagittarius neptune/uranus, and Capricorn lillith. Just in case anyone's interested (I know they're not, but...)
Found a scorpio guy with capricorn moon, scorpio venus, sagittaruis mercury and libra mars. Im a virgo with venus and mars in virgo, moon in gemini and mercury in libra. What gives. He seams so pent up as you say. He gets angry but in a passive way when I confronted him and then he just bolts. He just leaves. I got libra scendant too. and pluto in my first house , placed in scorpio. Also got some moon, mercury, capricorn and unranus aspects to my ascendant. What gives? Use the anger in art.
My ascendant is in leo, sun in gemini, moon Sagittarius and Mars in libra. Not really true can someone explain this too me? Depending on my mood but if I'm really mad at someone I have no problem stirring up a fight but if I'm not its kinda hard too. But if someone comes at me usually I'm not scared I will give it back unless I'm in a funny happy mood it'll roll off me and I'm just like u win lets not fight and laugh it off!
I'm an Aquarius (Ascendent: Aquarius) and I recently had an argument with my brother (Aries/Leo). And what you said really is true. I love my brother but I kinda gossiped about him (shame on me!)
ahaha I really enjoyed this description, I found it quite funny to say the lease. My Mars is 0.14 Retrograde Gemini so basically Mars in Taurus, although I wouldn't talk shit behind peoples backs like libras I find it quite historical and ironic that they hate confrontation but yet cause it in a way by talking shit afterwards. Oh silly libras :D
I don't have Mars in Libra, but I am looking forward to the Mars in Libra retrograde period in 2014. It will be very interesting, I guess, esp after the retrograde period of Venus in Capricorn and Mars in Libra tapping in to the Pluto Uranus square! I hope people will learn how to confront in a charming and diplomatic way during this period. Thank you for the video...*)))
This was too funny 😂😅 libra playing it cool 😎… I believe when the person matures, they manage to deal with conflict in healthy ways expecting cooperation. Passive aggression is just as pathetic and full on aggression. One thing is the absolute truth, libra mars do not know why people are shouting at them… they like, what??? Until they grow up and decide hey, back off my space, learning to gracefully and peacefully manage problems.
WHAT I do with that is blow up like a volcano and splash all around backing them up with my hot magma!! Basically wait for the victim who dares take us there.. unfortunately were the bad guys and scary ones after that😑
gawd, my BF has a mars in libra and it does NOT work well with my mars in cancer.. I'm very fiery (sag sun, leo rising) and super emotional (pisces moon) so when shit hits the fan I am down to argue and just let the emotions spill. I can appreciate a good fight. There's good make-up sessions after you know
I agree with your interpretation however people should also consider any aspects between there sun-mars mars-mercury I have mars square mercury and although I like to discuss the problem first I could argue ALLL day long and make the person resent themselves:)
So I discovered today my actual time of birth. Shit, Moon conjunct Mars in Libra with Venus in Aquarius. Passion, Mind and Love planets in air? Makes much more sense. I fucking love debates, it's a way for me to vent after absorbing the anger of this overly emotional world, which really never works out because people can't handle the least bit of controversy and blow up whenever things get too interesting. You're right about roleplay, Alyssa. There is a reason I joined a drama club last year c:
i do have a sag moon in the 8th and cap mars in the 9th though and i try to stay quiet in fights and arguments but the sag jumps out every once in awhile and i just snap
I can’t relate . Whether it be my Aquarius sun, Aries moon or Scorpio rising, I’m the one stepping on toes and running up on people or pulling up on them. I express myself when I feel the feeling.
Neen waiting a LONG time for this one!..Try being a virgo sun/virgo moon with mars in libra/venus in libra!...Basically everything you said was true...I hate confrontation but will break you down so everyone knows how effed up you are and I hate getting mad bc its NOT pretty...going thru that right now!...and I feel like Im procrastinating on a career bc Im so driven by the need to connect and secure a intimate connection with someone :/..im at the mercy of my emotions always..and luv role-play
Wow that was brilliantly explained. One of my sister's has Mars in Libra (she is so that way) and I do understand it to some extent as I have my Sun and Mercury in the 7th house, so I am very aware of "fairness" issues. Lol.
Ooh this was too real haha! I have all the things in my head on what to retort back... but after the fight is over. After that I am a passive aggressive little B about the whole thing. Sun in Libra/Scorpio and Moon in Leo, yes I am aware that I am crazy 😂 .
Literally came to see what to do about this exiled planet and you say, "What do you do with that? I don't know, what do you do with that? I'm asking YOU. " 🤣 I'm cracking up 3:13
So Alyssa how does one with mars in lib deal with all these conflicts w/o defaming! Sometimes trust me we do try to hash it out but we end being cut off & pummeled to the ground by super crazy aggressive types. It does creates so much weight tt the argument plays over n over. I don't have to go behinds someone's bk really. I simply refuse communicating & being nice to that person in any way until they give me a chance to settle what I have to say. Also, we r better of text msg fighting :p
Totally disagree with this. I am a mars in libra and i dont like conflicts, that is true but I dont gossip my issues with other people. When my patience has already reached the maximum then i confront him/her.
as someone with mars in libra, i try to convert my anger into constructive energy :) makes your life less negative
Deleyed explotions: YES!! I always end up ripping poeples heads of verbally when I´ve had enough. But passive agressive and gossip...nooo.. thet´s too weird and only makes it worse. It´s more like I analyse and try to figure things out as long as I can and then I explode all my analysis on them with some and burn in hell and things like that. Then I feel good after and can finally relax. Then I want to become friends again. Sun: Virgo, Mars and Venus: Libra
Sun in Scorpio, Mars in Libra here. This was uncomfortably true. Thank you for the insight, Alyssa.
How do you handle crushes/people you like?
Garo Demirjian I have the same placements and totally understand what you are going through. One can only take so much abuse until enough is enough. I hope whatever path you took in life... it led you to happiness
Me too
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Ooh same!! I also have my rising sign Scorpio and jupiter libra but my moon is pisces so I guess Im a bit softer sometimes pppp
this is exactly me! a lot of times I will sacrifice my own feelings when I get hurt so I don't cause tension in others. like if someone were to say something hurtful, i tend to ignore it and tell myself I will get over it, so I dont start arguments.
"I'm fixing your leg 'cause it's not there anymore" hahahah love it.
me too. lol
ugh just finally told someone off today, and while I should feel fulfilled somehow for standing up for myself finally, but I don't. I just feel stressed and not ok about it. ugh. Why can't I be like Leo or Aries and not give a fuck? The Libra struggle is so real.
+Alyssa Sharpe Hey do you think it's normal for Mars in Libra to be extremely good at making people feel inferior? I'm a Leo with Mercury I Leo and moon in Pisces and Libra rising, even though fighting gives me anxiety, I notice that I make people cry when I argue but I barely tap into my mean side. I give people a warning by commenting on something that they do and how I feel about it and next thing I know, they break down. I feel like Libras also have people flip flop with them because they think we're fake but all we do is make people acknowledge what they are to scared to admit about themselves, so they throw I back at us. Does anybody else feel the same?
+Lace Mitchell I know what you mean, the same crap happens to me. I think it's because we see no point in talking shit or arguing about stupid topics, so we hold off until we reach our breaking point and we always go for personal insults because we observe people and know their weaknesses. They get caught off-guard, and then suddenly we're the assholes.
mars in libra here, and yes when i am angry i tend to seek out girlfriends to try and figure out the situation (that caused me to be angry) but not in a way that defames people--i think my moon in pisces cancels that out. also i tend to release any pent up energy by dancing, clothes shopping, or anything that i think will enhance my physique (libra is vain innit).
I disagree with this. I have mars in libra and i have no problem expressing myself straightforward and directly showing them that i am angry.
Well the first thing is that I also have mars in 0 degrees libra in the third house and it is heavily aspected tension wise. But in all honesty, I'm just sick and tired of Libra's being labeled as these weak non confrontational people who don't stand up for themselves and are other's doormat. Explain other people with Libra mars, like John Dillinger who was public enemy number one and an extremely aggressive youth, or Eminem who jumped into the crowd with both fists towards a fan who was testing him. The most powerful man in the world, Vladimir Putin, while he does not have Mars in Libra (mars in saggitarius) has 5-6 planets in libra in an 11th house stellium and was former KGB. If you look into mixed martial arts and people who are very aggressive, the top level fighters usually turn out to be libra (example Fedor Emelianenko). Libras are just as good with confrontation and aggression as an Aries, they just go about it differently, Aries attempt to express with impulsive aggression, while Libra uses strategy and perseverance.
Word. I'm really trying to learn what kind of common ground, I have w/ certain ppl I don't like :/. Just so things can be more tolerable.
I know a Libra. W.ever kinda bs he has in his natal, makes him so damn oblivious to absolutely everything. Including himself. Him attempting to play mind games w/ me, is always an automatic fail. He could leave, come back, ramble about his day, & I could tell him what he did before he even finishes. I'm a Cancer... but it's like, u'd think it'd click w/ him. That he can't bs me. But nope, he continues the way he does. He ignorantly thinks he's a great compulsive liar, is constantly annoying, & out of no where vain. Always negative, always! Far from charming! He could say the rudest, most obnoxious, lowest thing ever & be like, y R u yelling? is he that stupid? I've said this all to his face - repeatedly.
Omg, I am nothing like this. I say things to ppl faces so much, I get to a point where I hate repeating myself. Thinking ppl r dense as hell. If by charming, they mean financially secure. Then, I guess that makes sense.. w/ him. I still have 2 other Libra placements. So ... yeah...
I see Aries everywhere. I have an Aries moon, so maybe that makes a difference? I can't make up my mind.. heh ___:/ but either like my placements every where, or I don't. I guess if I had more of one thing , certain traits would be more extreme. I'm capable of things, it's just there's always something that balances it out. I'm not a complete psycho! But I'm not a pushover either. I hate drama, but I'm sure some delusioned ppl would diasagree.
sometiem about u still depend on your rising side and the others plantes. but she just focus on MARS in libra is mean ^^
Libra also stands for justice. Everyone thinks Libra is so peaceful but we stand for what is right so we can have a strong disposition.
Jack Davidson I think it also depends on your moon sign
My Sun is Scorpio, Rising Scorpio, Taurus Moon and Mars in Libra...I will let somebody talk a little shit. I will just stare at them, analyze them while they are freakin out and say to myself..." As long as she or he doesn't touch me...I'm cool" and then just walk away but the moment they try to become physical..BATTLE IS ON!! I have no time or energy to argue about bullshit.
I have the exact same placement as you except I have a leo rising
and yes i do the same thing 😂😭
Mars in Libra are calm and collected while under pressure
I also have mars in libra and I can get SO resentful ... like, for YEARS afterwards. It sucks - I need to be better at confrontations, really or just to tell people OFF and set my boundaries once they start nagging on me.
Oh damn, that's exactly how I work. So much accuracyyyyyy !
I usually put my anger towards art or doing tasks constantly (lunar virgo)
Same here, i usually write poetry
Same... When I get really angry, I clean
this is so accurateeee.. i mean the part where we take on a lot of shit before we verbally express our anger, It takes about two times for the other person to be pushy abt it and I'll verbally vomit all over you, I don't hold it off for too long. BUT then literally ill fix it with my peaceful diplomatic tendencies, and still be mad abt it later and go tell other people about what the other person did to me even after its all "fixed" .
BRO SAME
This is true. I'm an Aquarius sun, with a Libra ascendant and a Mars in Libra. I wouldn't say I'm passive aggressive. I just really don't care about other peoples feelings. I'm detached emotionally due to my Aquarius sun. I only show emotion when necessary because I don't like coming across as weak and I like BALANCE AND HARMONY. I'm disciplined. (Capricorn Mercury and Capricorn Venus) I will kill somebody with kindness and charm. That's how I win my arguments. The person on the other end usually ends up apologizing to me first because they feel guilty. I'm really manipulative without saying anything lmao. I have a Moon in Cancer and I'm very moody. So people normally just give me my space when they see me in one of my moods. I'm not an aggressive person. I just don't care about petty things.
We have the same placements 😂 aqua sun, cancer moon, libra rising, cap venus, and Libra Mars .
Mars in Libra with Scorpio sun Gemini rising and moon here. I wanna be someone that doesn't give two fucks but then it's extremely hard cause I'm a people pleaser. Once an Aries fought with me. She was aggressive asf and was really getting on my fucking nerves on the other hand I was taking that bs because it was on my end perhaps I just took it completely on myself. She kept throwing shades at me. One day I lost my shit and I calmly said one fucking sentence and ghosted her for a year she kept calling me and I destroyed her. Ik it sucks but never underestimate a Libra in Mars cause the other placements might be aggressive savage and glorified by many. But the emotions we've been suppressing for years might destroy people like they never existed. Ik having Libra in your mars sucks but this world is full of pain and everyone are fighting their own battles. World needs people like us with Libra in mars placements. The reason why world still exists is cause of people like us who is allergic to drama. Cause just imagine everyone being savage and aggressive like pretty much a bunch of karens throwing shades at each other thinking that it's cool? C'mon we grew up. They didn't it's not our business. Let's work on it. Work on focusing on good stuffs and not waste our energy on unnecessary BS. We might need a good cry but we look better than people who gets black eyes just cause it's cool/ current trend.
As a mars in libra i have similar experience
I made someone cry and kept calling me after they keep pushing it
he never try to control other people for years after that
Sometime i wish i have aries or scorpio moon though
so i can take action easily
having mars in libra make me too damn percieving
and i have to process a lot of stuff
before do one small action
Congrats on your baby!! Take as much time off as you need. We love you, Alyssa!
This is so true because I always try to keep calm in conversations but I'm a Capricorn sun so I always have this strong urge to say what needs to be said even if it's harsh but my libra side always tells me to try to make it not as harsh as my Capricorn wants it to be so I tend to make these sarcastic smart ass secret insults which only make it worse because I'm not bluntly saying what I mean
+Charlotte Piek loool I have the same placement and this is exactly how I react!
same except I have scorpio sun which is a different t\story... *cough* *CoUgH* totally not me
Same..sun in cap/mars in Libra
Wow...me in a nutshell. Whats worst is having moon in aries as well...figure that one out
I think the mars in Libra is good for me tho. Bc the Aries moon & cancer sun is prob way more more reactive. I mean, I'd prob be way more aggressive if not.
ooo i have aries moon too, what does this mean
I'm a Pisces Aquarius cusp & this literally describes me about the procrastination. I've literally procrastinated sex lol
I love the way you explained this lol. I'm a Mars in libra n I laughed watchin this shit fr. too real
I'm a Libra with Mars in Libra, so...yeah, i feel that lol
wow this makes sense. my brother has mars in libra, and he denies we even have disagreements. Amazing talent for making me and my aries moon pissed with just a look.
Hi Alyssa, I think it would be cool if you did a video in your own chart. This would give us all a better idea of your life and personality to the core.
Ugh I had an ex who had mars in libra and whenever I'd get mad him he'd try to calm me down and then behind my back, told people I was an asshole
This makes for an interesting placement when it comes to online confrontation (aka youtube comments!). It's pretty ridiculous. People are always confused when I don't play into their trolling, or when I react 'nicely' to their own anger/aggression. :)
Jessica Showalter I knew a few people who hated the fact that I never became very confrontational with them when they were talking shit. It's just like... what is the point of you talking shit for literally no reason? If there's no point in your shit-talking, there's no point in answering! :)
***** I didn't know he had that placement! That definitely makes sense - if there is anything that will get me going, or get me to speak up - it is when I feel something is unfair, or socially I feel obligated to stand up for something/someone. Which is kind of a pain in the butt, since most other things I prefer to be an observer! I also have saturn in Aquarius and so I think that helps with this 'social justice' issue as well :P But I agree, killing people with kindness is a good way to go! It's always funny how some people will back off instantly with their aggression, if you don't respond in like!
I'm mars in libra but I'm very aggressive and confrontational.... Could it be my cap sun, Aries moon, Scorpio rising, or what? Some things describe me well, others don't.
aries moon would do that , and cap sun,
yeah i'd say its definitely that Aries moon cause I have all the same placements as you do except for the moon, mine is in Sagittarius.
Lol it was for sure your aries moon, mixed with a cap sun, No doubt about it, aries is always that way unless combine with like an aquarious, but a Cap sun is The most outgoing and confrontational out of all the earth, by far. Id say Sag is the most for fire signs, leo and aries are tied, Imo.
Weird something else must be affecting me then hmm...
Our scorpio rising puts that in our path and usually libra is in the 12th so we could actually use our mars to think out and choose our real life situations.
Ok this explains a lot. I am a Cancer and I have Mars in Libra and ever since I've started living with an Aquarius who's always trying to get in a conflict with me, I've just started to completely resent him and it pretty much destroyed our friendship. Sucks.
Ana K I'm also a cancer with Mars in Libra, that sucks as I can relate.
I’m a cancer with this placement as well and I hate it. People think they can run me over and when I set my boundaries they try and call me out.. bs. with all my other fire placements it doesn’t help either
hahahaha, yes, you nailed it.
I tend to charm people instead of listening to what they say if I know where they are trying to lead the conversation , because i see it boring. And I also feel bored when people come to me with gossipy things towards me .
i have mars in libra and i agree that i have so much anger in me. but i don't show that to people much at all. only my close friends have seen me in that mode. i am cancer sun, so i am moody too.
Lol me to
This is true we are peacemakers i find the best way is always express to the person they are being illogical if they don't give a fuck and their a guy. Just simply use your charm, be diplomatic, just be peaceful, mars in libra doesn't mean physical fighting isn't a option this is just the last option especially for family. We are defintely romantic i do defintely want to make my girl feel like she is a Goddess and i love for her to express to me that she is defintely enjoying it with kisses. I also find i fight a lot harder for other people than for myself, i do protect people who can't protect themselves thats forsures.
Pisces sun, Leo rising ,Gemini moon, Aquarius Venus , Libra mars - IM A HOT MESS!!!!! 😅 I do ripp ppls heads off verbally ,yes!! I'm great at it. but then, I cry about it for fuken hours and my Leo pride won't let me apologize 😣
and I cab talk shit about ppl too although ,I don't even want to...
Mars sign of Churchill, Lincoln, Bill Clinton, Margaret Thatcher, Ghandi. Etc hardly a weak placement
Bill Clinton was the epitome of a negative Mars in Libra.
Libra Mars is not their only placement tho so ^^
Doesn't sound like me as I don't start arguments but have no problems having a huge fight if someone starts on me or someone/animal I am protective of (Cancer sun), assume it is my moon in Aries totally dominating this Mars in Libra placement.
Do you thinks Mars in Gemini & Mars in libra can works out?
I'm a Mars Gemini my girl is a Mars Libra lol... I'm more aware now that she shuts down when I yell
🙈🙉🙊 Maybe so eh? I hate my mars in Libra sometimes. Like why the feck do I have to avoid confrontations? Meh...haha..this is why I'd rather isolate myself than get close to many people. I am my own biggest enemy? lol...fair? fair my foot. Lmao!!! Just venting. Haha...
This video is LITERALLY my life as a libra
Awww.. Hugs come let me teach you how to kick ass.. Who is annoying you dear? Come and rest your head on my chest. pay them no mind..
sun in leo, asc taurus and moon in aquarius. mars in libraas well. when my family argues with me, i do fight back but very often i will keep my mouth shut and have no facial expression. it's worse with my friends cuz they might say something that might enrage me but i react with a smile cuz i don't want a fight. I do however get over my anger extremely quick so i guess im lucky.
+TheGTWarriors I have a libra mars and aquarius moon too. People HATE how we react to fights because most people actually want that confrontation. I was real big on "the silent treatment" or just simply walking away after someone said something so enraging that I felt like if I didnt just walk away, I was going to explode and say something that could potentially be unforgivable. That's good you get over your anger quickly. I silently stew over mine forever, but that's probably because I'm a scorpio sun.
Why in my past life did I ever choose this. I must have been smoking crack in my most recent afterlife to assign myself to the Cinderella story literally especially since I really hate Disney princesses and want to puke every time I see one. This aspect makes me really bad at roller derby since I have a really hard time just slamming into people and knocking them down even though I'm totally strong enough to play and I especially want to take down a certain 400 pound Orca whale because she was bashing on me because I have an amazing husband and she only has a handful of men who would rather go to jail than pay her child support . But anyways If I had to play a Roller Derby girl in a movie or a play, I'd come off as so bad ass that hell couldn't even handle me.
I actually have this placement and I picked up martial arts! I find they helped a lot with my built up energy.
Lmaooo Leo Sun/Virgo Moon, Mercury, Venus/ Libra Mars. Slightly confrontational but I try to be logical. When someone is treated unfairly or treats me unfairly, I go into a fit of rage 🤦🏿♀️. Logic just doesn't work in that moment. But Im very verbal about it. But if I get upset about anything to high degree, I shut down and stop talking. I start cleaning or listening to music or reading a book. My silent treatment is vicious.
talking smack behind people's back due to their passive aggressiveness is so damn true for some of them. it's disturbing. Backstabbing is such a low blow. Sorry don't mean to rant on the mars in libra folks! Luckily others are a bit more mature than that! Thanks Alyssa for the lovely video!
Thanks for the insight. I do believe that I give more than fair respect to others, n if I don't feel ckmpletely loved and accepted, I give up too much yet still try try again. Libra sees the beauty despite all the flaws and i feel expects others to embrace us imperfections n all without judgement. Like a hung jury!(/|\) *mars, venus , pluto, and mercury all in libra,)
i hate confrontation with strangers, buttt its the opposite with my friends/family/people im close with
I don't debate for the sake of venting, I do it because the topic of discussion is something I'm enthralled by, usually ethical matters, religion, philosophy, history, science, psychology, etc. Communication is a great outlet.
What irritates me the most is when the person I'm arguing with accuses me of 'lecturing' them. Yes, you're entitled to an opinion, I'm also entitled to criticize that terrible perspective too. If you can't defend yourself in an argument, then that opinion is fatuous.
Hahaha!! Oh m god, SO true! The defaming does make me take on guilty though, then it's all how to make it right in my conscious to get that inner balance back. It does us more harm than good! I think part of having such a hard time expressing your anger in the first place with this placement, is being LIbra is the sign of balance/fairness, even if outraged/hurt, we can see where that person is coming from in some degree and we question our own logic/emotion.
I've been following you for the past year but finally subscribed!!! Yay!!! I think you're super funny. I was born on December 20th, cusp of Sagittarius/Capricorn, Moon in Cancer, Taurus rising, Mars in Libra, Venus in Scorpio...and I think I am crazy...^,^ luv ya girl!!!
And this is exactly why it would behoove people to come correct with us, or don't come at all. Cuz we can analyze and break things down to powder lol!
My best friend has mars in Libra, this is her 100%!!!!! I have mars in Virgo, we never fight. I guess it's because she never says anything stupid, and I don't like to argue! Hehehe
Sounds kinda like Mars in Pisces, as they don't like confrontation either. Both Libra and Pisces are pacifist signs but if pushed far enough, WILL explode and that anger may be volatile
Why are all of my signs self deprecating goddammit 😂
I never fight back right away and physical violence is a last resort. I agree with everything in this video. but I don't really charm but I do complain and don't tell them we aren't fine until it gets to the point where they cross the line. Usually I try to talk to the person about it, but sometimes I don't.Sometimes I usually tell people "hey I don't like when you do that" first and if they are like "oh you know, whatever" but they don't stop, that's when the complaining start😂 I'd don't really do it as much like I did when I was younger.
wow that fucking dog keeps on scaring me over and over
😂😂 You are so me! This is the first video I saw that I see all of me in your video. I just made you my best friend in my world. Lol Great job.
I have Mars in Libra,
Scorpio Sun, Gemini Moon, and Aries Rising.
Interesting thing is,I don’t really identify with my Rising sign of Aries much at all!
I have a feeling that this Mars in Libra is interfering big time with that..
Hmm..
•Zon 22° 15' Maagd
•Maan 18° 44' Boogschutter
•Mercurius 07° 20' Maagd
•Venus 21° 06' Leeuw
•Mars 09° 18' Weegschaal
•Jupiter 00° 43' Maagd
•Saturnus 00° 24' Waterman
•Uranus 09° 52' Steenbok
•Neptunus 14° 03' Steenbok
•Pluto 18° 04' Schorpioen
Hi, Alyssa. As far as sex and love styles what Mars and Venus goes well with a Gemini in Venus - Libra in Mars male and a Aries in Venus - Capricorn in Mars female? Where is the good sex for me? -Help!
I don't agree with being self-deprecating. What about Pisces, Virgo, Capricorn? I would think Leo, Libra, Aquarius, and Aries would be the least self-deprecating. But, the rest sounds accurate for the Mars in Libra I know.
I'm a Leo and you're one of my inspirations..you're second after MJ and no one else after you. :3 Keep being amazing hehe!
but what if its in the 8th house? how do u describe it?
You are right I do have problem and sometime I just avoid people or I become more introvert
Yikes, I’m a Scorpio with Mars in Libra. Suddenly my conflict resolution skills make total sense.
libra here, thank God for that moon in aries! my mars is the very last degree of libra....I pray that lessens it, but it could amplify?? crushing on a mars in libra. we'll see. .....
thanks!
Lol Libra moon/rising/mars/saturn/pluto here. I'm learning so much about myself from your videos.
Also, Leo sun/mercury, Cancer venus/midheaven/north node, Scorpio jupiter, Sagittarius neptune/uranus, and Capricorn lillith. Just in case anyone's interested (I know they're not, but...)
I am Mars in Libra. This is so true!
Found a scorpio guy with capricorn moon, scorpio venus, sagittaruis mercury and libra mars. Im a virgo with venus and mars in virgo, moon in gemini and mercury in libra. What gives. He seams so pent up as you say. He gets angry but in a passive way when I confronted him and then he just bolts. He just leaves. I got libra scendant too. and pluto in my first house , placed in scorpio. Also got some moon, mercury, capricorn and unranus aspects to my ascendant. What gives?
Use the anger in art.
It’s difficult because I’m a Leo sun/Rising so once my mars in Libra is activated,there’s no off button
My ascendant is in leo, sun in gemini, moon Sagittarius and Mars in libra. Not really true can someone explain this too me? Depending on my mood but if I'm really mad at someone I have no problem stirring up a fight but if I'm not its kinda hard too. But if someone comes at me usually I'm not scared I will give it back unless I'm in a funny happy mood it'll roll off me and I'm just like u win lets not fight and laugh it off!
I'm an Aquarius (Ascendent: Aquarius) and I recently had an argument with my brother (Aries/Leo). And what you said really is true. I love my brother but I kinda gossiped about him (shame on me!)
ahaha I really enjoyed this description, I found it quite funny to say the lease. My Mars is 0.14 Retrograde Gemini so basically Mars in Taurus, although I wouldn't talk shit behind peoples backs like libras I find it quite historical and ironic that they hate confrontation but yet cause it in a way by talking shit afterwards. Oh silly libras :D
So Alyssa, what about Mars in Libra in the 1th House? Doesn't that do something Aries-like to it?
I don't have Mars in Libra, but I am looking forward to the Mars in Libra retrograde period in 2014. It will be very interesting, I guess, esp after the retrograde period of Venus in Capricorn and Mars in Libra tapping in to the Pluto Uranus square! I hope people will learn how to confront in a charming and diplomatic way during this period.
Thank you for the video...*)))
This was too funny 😂😅 libra playing it cool 😎… I believe when the person matures, they manage to deal with conflict in healthy ways expecting cooperation. Passive aggression is just as pathetic and full on aggression.
One thing is the absolute truth, libra mars do not know why people are shouting at them… they like, what??? Until they grow up and decide hey, back off my space, learning to gracefully and peacefully manage problems.
WHAT I do with that is blow up like a volcano and splash all around backing them up with my hot magma!! Basically wait for the victim who dares take us there.. unfortunately were the bad guys and scary ones after that😑
gawd, my BF has a mars in libra and it does NOT work well with my mars in cancer.. I'm very fiery (sag sun, leo rising) and super emotional (pisces moon) so when shit hits the fan I am down to argue and just let the emotions spill. I can appreciate a good fight. There's good make-up sessions after you know
Mars in Libra 1st house opposing Saturn in Aries in The 7th
I agree with your interpretation however people should also consider any aspects between there sun-mars mars-mercury
I have mars square mercury and although I like to discuss the problem first I could argue ALLL day long and make the person resent themselves:)
So I discovered today my actual time of birth. Shit, Moon conjunct Mars in Libra with Venus in Aquarius. Passion, Mind and Love planets in air? Makes much more sense. I fucking love debates, it's a way for me to vent after absorbing the anger of this overly emotional world, which really never works out because people can't handle the least bit of controversy and blow up whenever things get too interesting. You're right about roleplay, Alyssa. There is a reason I joined a drama club last year c:
i don’t have this placement in my tropical chart but i do have libra as my sun and merc sign and this is so relatable lmao
i do have a sag moon in the 8th and cap mars in the 9th though and i try to stay quiet in fights and arguments but the sag jumps out every once in awhile and i just snap
I can’t relate . Whether it be my Aquarius sun, Aries moon or Scorpio rising, I’m the one stepping on toes and running up on people or pulling up on them. I express myself when I feel the feeling.
OMG I LOVE YOU SOO MUCH!! Im a libra October 7th..and My Mars is in Libra too!! You are sooo right!!
It's not right to defame someone but its sure as hell fun to do it
Neen waiting a LONG time for this one!..Try being a virgo sun/virgo moon with mars in libra/venus in libra!...Basically everything you said was true...I hate confrontation but will break you down so everyone knows how effed up you are and I hate getting mad bc its NOT pretty...going thru that right now!...and I feel like Im procrastinating on a career bc Im so driven by the need to connect and secure a intimate connection with someone :/..im at the mercy of my emotions always..and luv role-play
I think my Leo rising drives my method of dealing with confrontation as well.
when someone's virgo has venus in scorpio and mars in libra, rising in capricorn and moon in tauros this AWESOME!! ahahah
Would the house placement make it more different because my Mars in 12th
is mars in libra an attractive sign to have like libra ascendant?
Wow that was brilliantly explained. One of my sister's has Mars in Libra (she is so that way) and I do understand it to some extent as I have my Sun and Mercury in the 7th house, so I am very aware of "fairness" issues. Lol.
Plays over n over in our heads*
Ooh this was too real haha! I have all the things in my head on what to retort back... but after the fight is over. After that I am a passive aggressive little B about the whole thing. Sun in Libra/Scorpio and Moon in Leo, yes I am aware that I am crazy 😂 .
My Libra mars and Aries moon FIGHT for the spot light😭😂😂
I know you said people often tell you that you look like other people, but has anyone ever told you that you look similar to Amy Lee from Evanescence?
Hey Alyssa:) I was wondering if you could do a Mercury in the signs series?
Literally came to see what to do about this exiled planet and you say, "What do you do with that? I don't know, what do you do with that? I'm asking YOU. " 🤣 I'm cracking up 3:13
I was hoping you were gonna tell me what to do with it!!
This is so accurate my Mars is in libra
Well it definitely explained libras. The sign I try so hard to figure out.
So Alyssa how does one with mars in lib deal with all these conflicts w/o defaming! Sometimes trust me we do try to hash it out but we end being cut off & pummeled to the ground by super crazy aggressive types. It does creates so much weight tt the argument plays over n over. I don't have to go behinds someone's bk really. I simply refuse communicating & being nice to that person in any way until they give me a chance to settle what I have to say. Also, we r better of text msg fighting :p
Totally disagree with this. I am a mars in libra and i dont like conflicts, that is true but I dont gossip my issues with other people. When my patience has already reached the maximum then i confront him/her.
>what the FUCK?!
I laughed way too hard at that.