This is Why Marriage is So Hard (And What We’ve Learned)

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  • @athomewiththebeveres
    @athomewiththebeveres  หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What other questions do you have about marriage?

    • @TiffanyPass-1111
      @TiffanyPass-1111 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Clears Throat: Single people have the BEST type of intimacy!! With our bridegroom King Jesus Christ! It's Eternal Bliss that earthly married people don't know anything about, AND YES we do I do schedule my FIRE APPOINTMENT with My King and they are big rocks 😊😂❤because as the scriptures say. 1 Corinthians 7:32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.

    • @ctgrell3302
      @ctgrell3302 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Would love to hear your advice for those survival, seasons, or major life transitions.

    • @disgruntledvet28
      @disgruntledvet28 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How about a situation where stay at home? Mom works as well as the Dad still works to provide. Now there is a power struggle between both parents because new working. Mom becomes an authority position at her job and decides to bring it home and forgot the role of mother and a spouse🤫🤷🧐

    • @halfwaythereatcampdowning6831
      @halfwaythereatcampdowning6831 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How to love and support your spouse who’s spiritual journey is different then yours . Gracious growth… painful patience.

    • @sblvd
      @sblvd หลายเดือนก่อน

      All the questions!!!!!! This video blessed me , thank you so much 🙏🏻

  • @m.i.n.d.y
    @m.i.n.d.y หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    “In a season of survival, you start to operate as an individual as opposed to partners.” Julie is so on point with this

  • @ctgrell3302
    @ctgrell3302 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Y'all just became my favorite couple on TH-cam. Thank you for your wisdom, humor, & transparency. What a gift. ❤🎉

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That’s a great key point: over communication is always better.

  • @marielundstrom7694
    @marielundstrom7694 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    WOW. We were just invited to the Bevers very intimite talk. You two will restore so many people❤❤❤❤

  • @tempesthobson8690
    @tempesthobson8690 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    VERY THOROUGH, TRANSPARENT, AND TIMELY TALK! So on point with the stay at home mom dynamic. Thank you for this talk!!!!

  • @LexiGolenya
    @LexiGolenya หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    i have been married 6 years we have 3 young kids, in a sahm and my husband works 60+ hours per week. This podcast was so extremely relatable… thank you guys so much I felt like it was my husband and I literally talking we have the same discussions! haha…. love this episode and the homeschooling episode! 💯

  • @anastasyadefretes
    @anastasyadefretes 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This is full of wisdom. I am blessed by it and hope others are also blessed by it.😇

  • @elizabethsydnor5247
    @elizabethsydnor5247 4 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love your honesty. Thank you for showing us this raw side.

  • @PrettyTasha-k8q
    @PrettyTasha-k8q หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Watching this captivating video stirs up painful memories of the recent end of my 4 year relationship. My beloved partner chose to depart, leaving me with an unyielding ache. Despite my relentless efforts to reconcile, I find myself grappling with frustration and an inability to envision a future without him. Despite attempts to purge him from my mind, I remain haunted by his absence, feeling compelled to express my longing here.

  • @TheQuest4Peace
    @TheQuest4Peace หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I felt all of this. Thank you both for being open and honest and willing to share your lives with us. What a blessing it is to share the difficulties that you manage knowing others are tackling the same difficulties. I am thankful. God bless you both.

  • @888KingsDaughter
    @888KingsDaughter หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Mariage is difficult
    Challenging as life is not easy.
    Seasons of marriage
    Life is dynamic and constantly changing .You are changing.
    No one has it balanced.
    Different seadons of life

  • @AQIQATZHOL
    @AQIQATZHOL หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I so much love your family and everything you guys do. thank you for sharing your wisdom with us!

  • @jennyc5100
    @jennyc5100 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I’m so glad you’re doing this particular show. Thank you. ❤

  • @abiterrafiore
    @abiterrafiore หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Every episode is a blessing... I had a lot of doubts around these topics. It's been so helpful. You guys are a blessing...

  • @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle
    @TerryCollinsP31Lifestyle 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great choice of words: I welcome your perspective

  • @nwanyibuifeobiako162
    @nwanyibuifeobiako162 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Thank you both for this necessary conversation! As a wife and mom, this is so relatable and relevant🤎🤎

  • @abigailjames5208
    @abigailjames5208 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    What a beautifully honest conversation, you guys are amazing!

  • @artarena591
    @artarena591 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    In Reality I've learned a lot of things with you guys I really love watching your podcasts And please in the next episode brings You're kids ❤❤❤

  • @hollymckinlay5703
    @hollymckinlay5703 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I really loved this! In particular, you both sharing the hard in your week and talking it out together - it was so relatable! Thank you, from a mum of 3 in New Zealand xx

  • @juliamihajlovich
    @juliamihajlovich หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love these videos! Thank you! They’re a glass of ice water on a hot day! I watch while I do chores! It has been so refreshing and I feel like it has helped me process so many facets of my heart.

  • @kristinanekrasova3167
    @kristinanekrasova3167 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love how you guys are working through a conflict on camera 😂

  • @asukamurase
    @asukamurase หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sorry completely unrelated, but can u pls talk about navigating bullies in school for primary school aged children. Thank you

  • @melissacalderon1515
    @melissacalderon1515 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Marriage is not hard, marraige is what you make it to be if you want it to be hard it will be, that’s why is important dating is because to see where that men future what kind a marriage both want a have

    • @rickm1993
      @rickm1993 29 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      To say marriage is not hard is crazy. Living a biblical marriage is hard. Just like living a life for Christ is hard. Careful about making people feel guilty about this. They aren’t easy, but thank God we have Jesus to lean on.

    • @Chasenoir
      @Chasenoir 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Plus dating isn’t biblical, you don’t want to awaken love or spirits you’re not prepared for

  • @macyhornosky862
    @macyhornosky862 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Loved the video! Thank y’all for being willing to share personal things that you’ve learned with everyone. I related to being someone who compartmentalizes work. Can you talk more about how that affects you and your other close people?

  • @jessyjonas4988
    @jessyjonas4988 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What I hear
    He believes in the importance of what he is doing
    stay at home wife and mother- you need to believe in the worth of what you are doing
    A blow by blow might not happen all the time no matter how many pointers you both set forward
    The Proverbs 31 woman
    Thanks for sharing

  • @TiffanyPass-1111
    @TiffanyPass-1111 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Clears Throat: Single people have the BEST type of intimacy!! With our bridegroom King Jesus Christ! It's Eternal Bliss that earthly married people don't know anything about, AND YES we do I do schedule my FIRE APPOINTMENT with My King and they are big rocks 😊😂❤because as the scriptures say. 1 Corinthians 7:32 But I would have you without carefulness. He that is unmarried careth for the things that belong to the Lord, how he may please the Lord: 33But he that is married careth for the things that are of the world, how he may please his wife. 34There is difference also between a wife and a virgin. The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband. 35And this I speak for your own profit; not that I may cast a snare upon you, but for that which is comely, and that ye may attend upon the Lord without distraction.

  • @SKimilku
    @SKimilku 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sooooooo goooood!!!!

  • @mitc199
    @mitc199 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great episode! Hi julie! Can you talk about your conviction in using social media? Please!! Thank you and Godbless!! 🇵🇭

  • @tushabeann7027
    @tushabeann7027 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you guys

  • @kirstenfeather7677
    @kirstenfeather7677 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for relating to our every day conflicts and reminding us as a couple that we need to be considerate of each other. Does not matter if Dad is a stay at home or Mom is the stay at home. Wow all those feelings resonate.

  • @tushabeann7027
    @tushabeann7027 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May God bless you the more ❤

  • @brendawolf1638
    @brendawolf1638 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great podcast!!!

  • @kristywelsh8855
    @kristywelsh8855 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi from Australia! I absolutely love your podcast, my husband and I are similar ages to you both and our kids are also similar ages so it's extremely relevant to us right now. I'm wondering if you wouldn't mind sharing any other similar podcasts to your own that you know of? Just while I'm waiting for your next episode to drop 🥰🥰

  • @thepuppet6621
    @thepuppet6621 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    How do I as a wife make myself together when I don’t have energy for my husband? ( im in the beginning of a pregnancy)

    • @valw7422
      @valw7422 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Much of what you're going through most likely could be caused by hormonal imbalances. Look into talking vitamins, minerals and supplements like Vit D, Magnesium and Vitex Berry (amazing for hormone regulation)! Those are just a few of the things that have improved my mind and my life.

    • @thepuppet6621
      @thepuppet6621 28 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@valw7422❤️ thank you ! And yeah I tried those but i am vomiting now if i take any kind of vitamins 😣

  • @jonross5899
    @jonross5899 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    oh, Im sorry about your dad

  • @ashleydowns7037
    @ashleydowns7037 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Ps139 examine me. I recite every day

  • @delivered2testify
    @delivered2testify หลายเดือนก่อน

    Amen

  • @thesetruths1404
    @thesetruths1404 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wish I would have first loved and married an authentic Christian woman. My family would have been able to be and stay whole.
    What a blessed guy Addison is.

  • @A_To_The_O
    @A_To_The_O หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yup, this podcast confirmed that marriage isn't for me. Not worth the struggle

    • @workoutmusic4209
      @workoutmusic4209 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Being married has its struggles and being alone has its struggles. The rewards are worth fighting for if marriage is something you're called to 😊

  • @rcchan7618
    @rcchan7618 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've been with my wife for 40 years since I was 20. There's been some bumps in the road, but overall, it hasn't been hard at all compared to my single friends. I'm the King of the family, and she's the queen, and it works great for us. Find people a person with the same goals/philosophy, good character.... We're as strong as ever with two married sons and two grandsons we see all the time. Religion played no part in our lives and we are very happy. If you're religious, why is marriage so hard? Overall the last 40 years has been pretty easy with my fantastic wife never going to church once. It's all up to you to control your future and relationships and religion can be a complimentary tool but not a necessity.

    • @rcchan7618
      @rcchan7618 หลายเดือนก่อน

      P.S. no pills or therapy ever.😁