Chose #2. Spot on, haven’t listened to the extended yet but I’m sure it will be accurate as you usually are. Ours is a bit different situation than other comments- definitely not narcissistic, a word thrown around too much, but we separate, grow/ heal and come back together. If I wasn’t so empathic I would have given up but there is so much love that I feel from him. There’s a deep “knowing “ that we will be together yet occasionally think it won’t. Much appreciated Gemma ! 💖💫 🎄 The extended is so incredibly accurate! Gives me hope
Pile 2- Every single detail is accurate. We met the way you described. I liked him immediately. I felt like I'd known him for years. But something felt off. I couldn't put my finger on it. He love bombed me and that made me nervous. I took a step back, didn't get physical. I said that I wanted to get to know him better. I noticed that he talked a lot about himself and didn't seem to be curious about me or my life. One might say he was a narcissist but that seemed to be too slick an explanation. I had one heart-to-heart conversation with him. It felt like I was finally breaking through his facade but then it was as if it never happened. His behaviour was very mysterious. He broke up with me and then called me a week or so later, acting as if we were still going out. Cognitive dissonance is a perfect description. He said that in the past, he had a benign brain tumour, which was removed. If that was true, that might account for his peculiar behaviour. I didn't answer his last two phone calls. I'm not unhappy that it ended. I felt an enormous sense of relief. I can't get over your reading. EVERY SINGLE THING you said was what happened between us. Right down to the phone wires. I have an old landline phone with a ridiculously long extension cord. You're amazing! Thank you!
Sweet Gemma, hello from Mississippi, USA!!! I LOVE YOUR PIC-A-CARD READINGS. ❤ You are so focused and spot on. I have listened to you since 2017, when my Mama passed away... ugh! You have helped keep me alive, Sister! Thank You for sharing your gifts with me, ❤❤❤ Now, I have resonated with all three readings, of course, lol... 😊
Thank you Gemma, #2! this reading is very right on, I resisted at first because this is done, what is the point, but this is helpful to remember this gut wrenching connection, maybe twin flame and all of the crazy making pieces. This relationship sent me into sobriety it was so impactful, in bringing up core stuff magical, good and difficult.They've moved on literally moved, and are with a new partner but this will probably always haunt me. It was definitely other worldly for me.❤🙏
#2 here, WOW this was a personal reading. The fact that things have been complicated with him brought me on a path of the most amazing healing of my life and I found a self love I didn’t know could exist and am becoming my true self. It’s unclear if we’ll see each other again or not, but we’re not on bad terms, not currently talking.
Thankyou Gemma 😊👌 . You got an unbelievable amount of things accurate that resonated with me in the pile I chose 😊. I’m really grateful for your advice and all the efforts you put in . I really enjoyed this collective pick a card tonight 😊
Gemma I very much enjoyed this ex factor reading, he does have the physical attributes you mentioned for the pile. Also it’s funny you’ve said separately on a Pisces reading before recently how Pisces get often misjudged as boastful, the jealousy from peers or bosses for just pisceing lol 😂 when we don’t mean anything by it, just being our Pisces selves and It’s funny that came out in the pile for the collective I chose here as well, along with being the kinda witchy intuitive empath . maybe a tarot reader in the pile too yep 👍. The pile read had the Pisces type people written all over the messages in it but I picked that pile as a Pisces too 😂😊. Pile 1 . Thanks again Gemma
Just wanted to say hello 👋 and let you know that I really enjoyed the reading! Picked card #1 and #3. Number one had such amazing messages for me. So thank you once again, Gemma! 🦀💫💃
#3- my 29 years of marriage with a narcissist. Calm waters now( missing card, 6 of swords)… Divorced now for 8 and a half years. Healed, and I want the best for him, but not with me. Now… with the love of my life, 7 years, kind, sweet, gentle soul who loves me for me! We appreciate and respect each other. Long road, but worth it!! Spot on again Gemma!!
Thank you for this message (number 2), spot on! This is really a special and strange relationship, my person is not very good at expressing emotions, and throughout the years I have often felt emotionally abandoned because there has been a lack of balance and consistency in the relationship. And yes, I also think that "a bridge" is needed, for us it's about honest communication and daring to show vulnerability. Thank you very much for your reading, it has been of great support to me. You are so good at what you do. Thanks! Love and light to you. 💗🍀🦋
Holy cow, at my age I've had more than one ex and decided to assign one to each, as I felt drawn. #1 is a composer that predominantly uses synthesizers and you are blowing my mind with that detail!! There are many others but it's so weirdly specific
Great-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him*
Pile 2: Crazy-making quest is spot on. I'm glad you are intrigued. Do I win a straightjacket? 😂 Seriously though, feels like a personal reading. Bravo 🙌🏽💜
I typically don’t watch pick a cards, but thought I’d give it a go- and got alot out of it. My first hit was definitely on 1, but 3 stack kept tapping me in the shoulder. The first reading described me to a T, had a few truths about the relationship. Too old to be in and out for a decade, until recently I’ve just been working on myself. The 3rd deck described him, especially the changeable truth part 😂. What really hit for me was when you said we had a strong bond but a delicate connection. Thanks 🙏🏽 and Love 💕
@@Gemstonetarot thanks and love! Just wish we lived on the same street so we could compare notes***tbf, you’d have to consult my dog- she knows everything about everyone. She even has her own chair by the window 😂
Wow Gemma! Card #2 and extended was like a personal reading. Enjoy your readings and banter most days but this one certainly resonated and gave me some clarity. For 4 years now on and off in cycles. Thought I’m going crazy….but what you explained happened. And in my Aussie accent it was a lot 😂 . Going forward, still not sure how I feel, it’s so intense. Truly, Thank you 🙏 so much. Now trying to focus on myself. All the best.
I chose two, and we have been out of touch since 2023. I deleted his number-( a way of letting go, it a took a long time.) and he doesn't use social media. As it would happen, I changed my number later on that year. He is a true gentlemen, an eggshell is a good description, sensitive., but strong. Reads deep subjects, but doesn't share his likes or dislikes unless it comes up. He is a Scorpio, we met online but didn't end up meeting until a year later when I saw him online decided to say Hi. We ended up meeting on a Pisces full moon. Fast forward, I tell him I have feelings, he disappears, but I knew what to expect, what I didn't know was it would seemingly stay that way. I had a dream about him a few months ago, I heard him say my name, it was distant but I liked hearing his voice again.
Pile 2 Im actually very pleased by myself. I do not need the mystique at all. The only reason why im watching this reading is because im traumatized by ups and downs and am trying to do my best to not be submitted by that kinda shit any longer. I wish him well but he can keep himself away from me. Great reading as always youre by far my favorite reader.
No. 2....spot on, love the analogy of the circus performer....the riddle...😮🎉 funny, Im the reader, they dont read. thanks for reminding me to find the true self.... and the required bridge. You are brilliant!
Gemma thank you so much for this. I am a #2 listener and have been made crazy by this guy who is fascinating and fascinated by himself. Works in the entertainment industry and is a shape shifter. No one else including a therapist have been able to clearly describe this situation and help me feel supported. You are an angel.
#2 Prior to viewing I watched Helen Bonham Carter read a passage from Wuthering Heights, which I love (black & white version with Laurence Olivia fave) for the whole harsh but dreaminess love story. I feel I’m both Cathy and Heathcliff with another. The ethereal Lovers card is both meeting in death. Maybe it’s the missing card ☺Thank you Gemma 🙏💞🙏
I picked #2 I am a Cancer and he is a double Pisces with Aries rising. He didn’t give much away and wouldn’t commit or let go. I let go and he still came back. I ignore his last message and maybe that’s it. Too many secrets and masks. It took me a long time to let go. Thank you Gemma, spot on 🫠☀️
Hi Gemma. Initially, I picked deck number one and it sounded a lot like the relationship I had with my late husband, which, of course cannot go forward. I was also drawn to deck number two, and that was very interesting because I think I have mentioned before that there’s a person I met decades and decades ago that I would love to reconnect with, but unfortunately I’m in a different part of the country now, and he’s absolutely not online. I’ve searched everywhere. I started looking for him back in the ‘90s when I got my first computer and was unsuccessful and then after my husband passed I started looking for him again (not immediately), but nowhere, hence (ding) the veil. And he was a very unusual person because he was living on his own at 17 and traveling around the US in a van with some friends. He was definitely in charge and strong, but also extremely caring and nurturing and sweet. I have always wanted to see him again, and I know he was quite taken with me as well. When you drew the wheel of fortune, it made me feel as if it might be fated that we meet again and I don’t need to worry. I’m planning to move back to that part of the country, and I’ve always had a feeling that I will run into him once more. We did meet in a large group of people, over 100,000 actually, at a state sanctioned rock festival, so I was literally chosen out of many, many people for him to focus his attention on. Thank you for these intriguing readings - watching you channel is like watching a great artist paint a beautiful painting. 💕💕
I was drawn to 2 also. I bought the extended reading and would like to thank you Gemma for the clarity this has brought me. I am Cancer sun sign, my person Gemini sun sign (I have Venus in Gemini and many planets in Virgo). I have known this person since I was 17 and I am now 61. He fltted in and out of my life for years and was instrumental in many ways e.g. got me my first job, influenced location of my marital home. I was always fascinated by his darkness, which I felt strongly (I have Scorpio ascendent) and when we reconnected in 2015 after not seeing each other for 15 years, I was convinced that this would be the 'spiritual union' of the century. I couldn't have been more mistaken! Although what out tempestuous, on/off connection has done is bring me back down to earth with a much more grounded view of what love is and what it is not. Everything you said in the extended reading is accurate including my father issues, his troubled childhood and our forest connection (I have recently qualified as a Forest Bathing Practitioner). We parted (again) three months ago and have had no contact since. I have no intention of making any move toward him but I suspect he will contact me in due course. The magnetic force between us is incredibly strong. Thank you for your direct and tough love advice re 'a reconnection will not be easy.' I will sit with this and make a decision. In the meantime - it's all about me and my wellbeing.
I chose pile #2 and it was spot on from when we met (online) and the challenges and our situation (starts and stops, then we were long distance) to absolute radio silence now. Your description of the Hierophant sounds like him too! (gets keen on stuff) He’s a Cancer so looool at the King of Cups coming out in the spread. Off to your extended in a bit, thanks Gemma ✨
#2. A situationship/limerent thing/whatever. I fell HARD and it felt amazing, reciprocated at the beginning. Then circumstances changed. Distance yes, other people involved too. Then covid. We would talk on the phone every so often. I was literally obsessed. The weirdness is how he took over my mind it wasnt my own. I kept telling myself to learn the lessons here... and eventually I was forced to. Taking my healing seriously over 2 years ago and I am just about done, lol the pull of Gemma's reading though 😂😂 It was my biggest lesson, ngl. But well worth it. Out the other side and a different person. Xx I'm a cancerian (surprise!), as was he.
Omg. The bit about 'they just didnt go there'. When I messaged him about something being there between us, he actually replied 'these days when I dont know what to say, I don't say anything', despite the week before holding me so tight and not wanting to let go. That was the moment I realised I needed to heal. It absolutely broke me.
@@Gemstonetarot absolutely. And we shared our Leo Venus and Aries Mars, as well as other astrological things. Sadly, it was not to be. A lovely quote I always think of is: 'Our lives may not have fit together, but ohh did our souls know how to dance' (K.Towne Jnr)
#2 - met him online, he is Scottish and I am American. It was definitely a love bombing situation and neither of us came together under the best circumstances. He definitely played fast and loose with the truth and his emotional state was something I couldn't understand and he couldn't articulate. He cheated and I found out so going back in a no go but this definitely gave me some insight on avoiding anything similar in future.
#3 spot on for both exes. I’m a gem, very close to my cancerian recently ex husband of 25 yrs and my scorpion soulmate. So much push and pull and unspoken words. I am waiting and watching patiently.
#2 extended was real good, i recommend it if you're in need of some direction. Thanks Gemma, been with you since 2019, you have been guiding me through these rocky waters. It has definitly been real painful, real mysterious and strange. Wish I could have a cup of tea with you and share the story but I honestly wouldnt have the words.. 😅. The movie 'Redeeming love' always reminds me of the dynamic though. But god its hard to be that strong.. and do i want to. Is it worth it is indeed the question, how much will it take?
I chose #2 I fell in love really fast but now I’m on slow mo , I’ve never been one that is good with patience and so I find a whole mother trigger has been unlocked for me 😅 I am just so frustrated with my LL!
I picked #3. I’m a Capricorn my husband is Sagittarius. We never agree. Been married 25 years. Totally resonate with this reading! Sounds just like us! Love you Gemma! ❤😊
TY Gemma 🫂 🎉 I chose #2 Enchanted Veil Tarot Yes DF is healed and moving forward at last. No desire to reunite. Yes it was a whirlwind until it wasn't and he suddenly left Feb 14, 2019 while i was at work. No contact since 2022 Knew him as children from 1965-1973 then met again in 2018. He is a Pisces 🌞. I suspected addiction, codependency, anxiety and depression. Very keen on religion. To much. Takes all the excitement out of life. I blew that bridge to smithereens!! 💥 💥
Picked #2, I'm a Cancer, him a Pisces with Moon in Aquarius. He's been trying to reach out after a year, but I blocked him. Had a great connection but he was pretty good at "dancing around his feelings". Big age difference here. I'm 47, him much younger. Thankfully I've gained strength over my years enough to know it's not good enough. I'd rather be alone in my pj's with a cup of hot chocolate than be in the middle of that mental and emotional chaos.
Thanks for doing this Gemma! I picked pile two and it definitely resonates. Even though I haven’t heard from this person in so long (and am probably blocked) I just haven’t met someone since who I felt motivated to get to know. When you’re an odd person (as I am), you might be able to see the good in many people, and even love them, but it’s a rare person who’s really a match (I believe)… and I felt like he might be… it’s hard to let go of that.
My goodness, Gemma! #1 is spot on! Except I’m the one with the tattoos and piercings, AND I’m the one who broke it off. If I am casting love spells, it is not intentional. I respect free will. Everything else was 10O% accurate!🦀
#2 resonated. Yep thin veil to narcissism. I’ve done a lot of work on myself (self love) I literally had none before so I guess I was a good target. Thanks Gemma ✨
Just listened to the extended 💯 spot on…Forest, father, their behaviour. It’s strange I’m not even sure I like them that much but I’m so keen for them to like me. Bahh father issues. I’ve been waiting for this information
No1. So spot on Gemma, my Taurean ex who I see and speak to regularly. Strong chemistry and we do have our own soundtrack! Currently doing a tarot course (am using The Guardian of the Night deck, really beautiful). Thank you very much! 🥰
❤ #1 Truely resonates with me in Every way! It's been a challenging & painful journey but it's made me stronger 💪 🙏 I know my worth now, more than ever. I'm empathic and my Faith has helped me recover. Thank you, Gemma 😊
Oh Gemma, you mystical goddess ✨ Chose #1. Incredibly accurate, ex is a Scorpio. Very intriguing to have the view of the other side, and the overall thread of things. Thank you for a beautiful reading 💕
I chose 2 and it was spot on. I am Ok with where I am thankfully. Yes, he is fascinating but I don't care to discard my peaceful state of mind for something I know will disappoint and end badly. Thank you,Gemma.🦂
No 2. You pulled the fool and the hermit. For me those represent Aries and Virgo. His sun sign and mine. For me this reading is so much about the sun and the moon and the balance between the two. And maybe accepting that there might be considerable times of imbalance.
Hi Gemma! I watched the extended, mainly to distract myself, as my dear Dad has had major surgery and complications and I'm trying not to overthink about it. #3 Was like a personal reading - jeeze you're good!😊 No contact for 9 months. I don't really believe in twin flames. TBH I think I'm more likely to win the lottery than hear from him again. Anyway, it was very entertaining. Thank you 💖 from Australia xx #3. I don't know if this comment will stay. YT has been removing all my comments. It's probably due to me being outspoken about the American election. The rock and roll situationship definitely resonates. I will watch the extended later today. Thank you Gemma 💖 from Australia xx
Thank you Gemma ❤ I do not want to pull anyone down with this. I chose pile 3. I had to understand that my ex is a covert narcissist 😢 I had to let him go after only our 1 year relationship he never really comitted to. We stayed friends until recently. I have grown up in narcissistic structures and went through those kinds of connections until I realised what I am entangled in. Today I have found true l8ve with myself and with help of a great therapist and I can give and share my love now fearlessly for that I know that Love is out baseline. He was the last person in my life I was befriended with and it was difficult and not safe enough. Just saying. My experience of course. ❤ Narcisst will never give you closure.
Never mind my comment on the short, Graffiti tarot. I hadn’t seen that deck before. I am indeed the rock and he’s my twin - same sign (Virgo) we are different cultures. Maneuvering around his wife. Oddly we are planning on creating a city. Haha we do fight. And we often have miscommunications in fact I told him we had to fix that…In fact I am waiting on 1) divorce and 2) to be able to return back to his (now ours) country literally no flights in. Thankfully I am not waiting I know I’m not going anywhere for a couple months. And I love shoes!! He does too though.
#3 really resonated. I'm an earth sign and my water sign ex never wore shoes. He popped up in my messages this week after four months with the teeniest message, if it can be called that: literally just ° . Of course I tried six ways to Sunday to make sense of it. Tens of swords and wands, so many unspoken words. So much love and so much impossibility, tried though we did so many times. Thank you Gemma 👑
#1 Amazing how you do this! Bursts indeed, 3 months off and on for 3 yrs. Then I woke up. Trouble is we play music together once a month. What I lack musically he,Gemini,fills in and visa versa. I’m done with #1, but, as you say there’s some weird connection. Maybe it is inter gallactic 💫😃🌟
Random question. I picked card 2, but I felt like it could've been about 2 different exes. It was going back and forth. Different details, like one ex is a Virgo, the hermit, very emotionally unavailable, the other ex is very intriguing, handsome and we did meet on a dating app. Is that possible??
WOW G, just started listening to num 1, couldn't choose btwn 1 & 2. He is a Leo,my ex and has a beautiful head of hair, mine in Auburn(dyed). He was the love of my life, but he ran off and married someone else, literally broke my heart. We are now back in contact, I know he will never leave his Wife, but we are friends, only. The other was a situationship, Leo/Virgo cusper, he is bald but has tattoo's, been on/off for 2 yrs, now off totally done , I think 😊❤ Reading 2 was amazing and for me tied in with reading 1, totally 🤯🤯, thanks G, namaste ❤❤ Reading 3 sounded more like the just past, situationship, spot on 😘😘
❤ #1 Truely resonates with me in Every way! It's been a challenging & painful journey but it's made me stronger 💪 🙏 I know my worth now, more than ever. I'm empathic and my Faith has helped me recover. Thank you, Gemma 😊
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Omg number 2 you said exactly my relationship with my ex !! Met online ! He was emotionally detached as they say these days !!
Chose #2. Spot on, haven’t listened to the extended yet but I’m sure it will be accurate as you usually are. Ours is a bit different situation than other comments- definitely not narcissistic, a word thrown around too much, but we separate, grow/ heal and come back together. If I wasn’t so empathic I would have given up but there is so much love that I feel from him. There’s a deep “knowing “ that we will be together yet occasionally think it won’t. Much appreciated Gemma ! 💖💫 🎄
The extended is so incredibly accurate! Gives me hope
Ditto! 😊 Many blessings for continued healing & prosperity in Union 🦋✨🌺
Pile 2- Every single detail is accurate. We met the way you described. I liked him immediately. I felt like I'd known him for years. But something felt off. I couldn't put my finger on it. He love bombed me and that made me nervous. I took a step back, didn't get physical. I said that I wanted to get to know him better. I noticed that he talked a lot about himself and didn't seem to be curious about me or my life. One might say he was a narcissist but that seemed to be too slick an explanation. I had one heart-to-heart conversation with him. It felt like I was finally breaking through his facade but then it was as if it never happened. His behaviour was very mysterious. He broke up with me and then called me a week or so later, acting as if we were still going out. Cognitive dissonance is a perfect description. He said that in the past, he had a benign brain tumour, which was removed. If that was true, that might account for his peculiar behaviour. I didn't answer his last two phone calls. I'm not unhappy that it ended. I felt an enormous sense of relief. I can't get over your reading. EVERY SINGLE THING you said was what happened between us. Right down to the phone wires. I have an old landline phone with a ridiculously long extension cord. You're amazing! Thank you!
Sweet Gemma, hello from Mississippi, USA!!!
I LOVE YOUR PIC-A-CARD READINGS. ❤
You are so focused and spot on. I have listened to you since 2017, when my Mama passed away... ugh! You have helped keep me alive, Sister! Thank You for sharing your gifts with me, ❤❤❤
Now, I have resonated with all three readings, of course, lol... 😊
Thank you for being here along the way 🙏🩷✨🌹
Thank you Gemma, #2! this reading is very right on, I resisted at first because this is done, what is the point, but this is helpful to remember this gut wrenching connection, maybe twin flame and all of the crazy making pieces. This relationship sent me into sobriety it was so impactful, in bringing up core stuff magical, good and difficult.They've moved on literally moved, and are with a new partner but this will probably always haunt me. It was definitely other worldly for me.❤🙏
Glad it gave you some clarity 🌹
#2 here, WOW this was a personal reading. The fact that things have been complicated with him brought me on a path of the most amazing healing of my life and I found a self love I didn’t know could exist and am becoming my true self.
It’s unclear if we’ll see each other again or not, but we’re not on bad terms, not currently talking.
Thankyou Gemma 😊👌 . You got an unbelievable amount of things accurate that resonated with me in the pile I chose 😊. I’m really grateful for your advice and all the efforts you put in . I really enjoyed this collective pick a card tonight 😊
Really glad you liked it 🙏🩷✨🙏🩷✨
Gemma I very much enjoyed this ex factor reading, he does have the physical attributes you mentioned for the pile. Also it’s funny you’ve said separately on a Pisces reading before recently how Pisces get often misjudged as boastful, the jealousy from peers or bosses for just pisceing lol 😂 when we don’t mean anything by it, just being our Pisces selves and It’s funny that came out in the pile for the collective I chose here as well, along with being the kinda witchy intuitive empath . maybe a tarot reader in the pile too yep 👍. The pile read had the Pisces type people written all over the messages in it but I picked that pile as a Pisces too 😂😊. Pile 1 . Thanks again Gemma
Pile 2: so spot on! Thank you dear Gemma 💎🌺🌝💜💚🧡💛 Can’t wait to listen in on the extended. Thanks for using the purple deck again!
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Just wanted to say hello 👋 and let you know that I really enjoyed the reading! Picked card #1 and #3. Number one had such amazing messages for me. So thank you once again, Gemma! 🦀💫💃
Your spot on with him everything you said !
#3- my 29 years of marriage with a narcissist. Calm waters now( missing card, 6 of swords)… Divorced now for 8 and a half years. Healed, and I want the best for him, but not with me. Now… with the love of my life, 7 years, kind, sweet, gentle soul who loves me for me! We appreciate and respect each other. Long road, but worth it!! Spot on again Gemma!!
Thank you for this message (number 2), spot on! This is really a special and strange relationship, my person is not very good at expressing emotions, and throughout the years I have often felt emotionally abandoned because there has been a lack of balance and consistency in the relationship. And yes, I also think that "a bridge" is needed, for us it's about honest communication and daring to show vulnerability. Thank you very much for your reading, it has been of great support to me. You are so good at what you do. Thanks! Love and light to you. 💗🍀🦋
Holy cow, at my age I've had more than one ex and decided to assign one to each, as I felt drawn. #1 is a composer that predominantly uses synthesizers and you are blowing my mind with that detail!! There are many others but it's so weirdly specific
I love this 🤭🌹
Great-videos! My five-year relationship came to an end a month ago. The love of my life chose to leave, and I can't stop thinking about him; I love him so deeply. I've done everything I can to win him back, but nothing seems to work. I'm feeling frustrated and can't imagine my life with anyone else. Despite my efforts to move on, I just can't shake the thoughts of him. I don’t know why I’m sharing this, (but I really miss him)
It's tough to let go of someone you care about. I can relate, my 12year relationship also ended, and I struggled to move on. I tried everything to get him back, even seeking help from a spiritual counselor who ultimately helped me reconnect with him*
That's incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I contact one?
His name is Owen Abiola, and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in bringing back lost loves.
Owen Abiola has incredible powers, and he can assist you.
Thank you for sharing this valuable information! I just looked her up online, and I'm impressed
Pile 2: Crazy-making quest is spot on. I'm glad you are intrigued. Do I win a straightjacket? 😂 Seriously though, feels like a personal reading. Bravo 🙌🏽💜
I typically don’t watch pick a cards, but thought I’d give it a go- and got alot out of it. My first hit was definitely on 1, but 3 stack kept tapping me in the shoulder. The first reading described me to a T, had a few truths about the relationship. Too old to be in and out for a decade, until recently I’ve just been working on myself. The 3rd deck described him, especially the changeable truth part 😂. What really hit for me was when you said we had a strong bond but a delicate connection. Thanks 🙏🏽 and Love 💕
Really glad it resonated 🙏🩷💫
@@Gemstonetarot thanks and love! Just wish we lived on the same street so we could compare notes***tbf, you’d have to consult my dog- she knows everything about everyone. She even has her own chair by the window 😂
Wow Gemma! Card #2 and extended was like a personal reading. Enjoy your readings and banter most days but this one certainly resonated and gave me some clarity. For 4 years now on and off in cycles. Thought I’m going crazy….but what you explained happened. And in my Aussie accent it was a lot 😂 . Going forward, still not sure how I feel, it’s so intense. Truly, Thank you 🙏 so much. Now trying to focus on myself. All the best.
we need more pick a card readings!
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I chose two, and we have been out of touch since 2023. I deleted his number-( a way of letting go, it a took a long time.) and he doesn't use social media. As it would happen, I changed my number later on that year. He is a true gentlemen, an eggshell is a good description, sensitive., but strong. Reads deep subjects, but doesn't share his likes or dislikes unless it comes up. He is a Scorpio, we met online but didn't end up meeting until a year later when I saw him online decided to say Hi. We ended up meeting on a Pisces full moon.
Fast forward, I tell him I have feelings, he disappears, but I knew what to expect, what I didn't know was it would seemingly stay that way. I had a dream about him a few months ago, I heard him say my name, it was distant but I liked hearing his voice again.
send him a Christmas card. He needs to hear from you
Pile 2 Im actually very pleased by myself.
I do not need the mystique at all. The only reason why im watching this reading is because im traumatized by ups and downs and am trying to do my best to not be submitted by that kinda shit any longer.
I wish him well but he can keep himself away from me.
Great reading as always youre by far my favorite reader.
Fantastic 🙌 onwards and upwards 👆 🩷
Wow Gemma, you did it again. I chose #1 and it was so incredibly accurate. The details! Thank you so much. You are an incredible reader 🙏🏼❤️🌹
Thank you! I’m really glad it hit the spot 🙏🩷🙌
@ I also watched the extended and that was the cherry on the icing. Amazing 🙏🏼🌹❤️
Gemma, your readings, and YOU, are awesome. Love YOU. Happy Holidays
Thank you! So glad you liked it 🙏🩷🎄✨
Loved it
Much love Gemma ❤❤❤thank you for being here for us ❤❤
Well you’ve nailed it on reading #2 ❤ thank you xx
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No. 2....spot on, love the analogy of the circus performer....the riddle...😮🎉
funny, Im the reader, they dont read.
thanks for reminding me to find the true self....
and the required bridge. You are brilliant!
Really glad you liked it 🙏🩷🙏🩷🙏
Pile 2 - you've described everything spot on! Thank you.
You’re welcome 😊
Pile 2. Jaw dropping accurate 😲
Gemma thank you so much for this. I am a #2 listener and have been made crazy by this guy who is fascinating and fascinated by himself. Works in the entertainment industry and is a shape shifter. No one else including a therapist have been able to clearly describe this situation and help me feel supported. You are an angel.
Really glad you liked it 🙏🩷
Was just checking for a new reading on this topic ❤
I've been feeling it for a while! 🙏💕
@@Gemstonetarotthank you for the extended- just poured myself a large g and t 😊
#2 Prior to viewing I watched Helen Bonham Carter read a passage from Wuthering Heights, which I love (black & white version with Laurence Olivia fave) for the whole harsh but dreaminess love story. I feel I’m both Cathy and Heathcliff with another. The ethereal Lovers card is both meeting in death. Maybe it’s the missing card ☺Thank you Gemma 🙏💞🙏
Great comment 🙏🩷🙌
@@Gemstonetarot thank you 🥰
I chose #2. You are spot on. This explains our situationship. Thank you ❤
You’re welcome 😊
#1 Myself ♊️ him ♌️ all you said it. I m a pianist and into the mystic arts, many synchronicities even breathing. A lot to consider here❤
#1 - I did the extended.
Blimey Gem!
Very accurate ✨
And I’m the redhead 👩🏼🦰 btw 🦀💫🎄
Nice! Really glad it resonated 💋♥️🌹
I picked #2 I am a Cancer and he is a double Pisces with Aries rising. He didn’t give much away and wouldn’t commit or let go.
I let go and he still came back. I ignore his last message and maybe that’s it. Too many secrets and masks. It took me a long time to let go.
Thank you Gemma, spot on 🫠☀️
I love this episode 😍 ❤️ xxxx
Hi Gemma. Initially, I picked deck number one and it sounded a lot like the relationship I had with my late husband, which, of course cannot go forward. I was also drawn to deck number two, and that was very interesting because I think I have mentioned before that there’s a person I met decades and decades ago that I would love to reconnect with, but unfortunately I’m in a different part of the country now, and he’s absolutely not online. I’ve searched everywhere. I started looking for him back in the ‘90s when I got my first computer and was unsuccessful and then after my husband passed I started looking for him again (not immediately), but nowhere, hence (ding) the veil. And he was a very unusual person because he was living on his own at 17 and traveling around the US in a van with some friends. He was definitely in charge and strong, but also extremely caring and nurturing and sweet. I have always wanted to see him again, and I know he was quite taken with me as well. When you drew the wheel of fortune, it made me feel as if it might be fated that we meet again and I don’t need to worry. I’m planning to move back to that part of the country, and I’ve always had a feeling that I will run into him once more. We did meet in a large group of people, over 100,000 actually, at a state sanctioned rock festival, so I was literally chosen out of many, many people for him to focus his attention on. Thank you for these intriguing readings - watching you channel is like watching a great artist paint a beautiful painting. 💕💕
I was drawn to 2 also. I bought the extended reading and would like to thank you Gemma for the clarity this has brought me. I am Cancer sun sign, my person Gemini sun sign (I have Venus in Gemini and many planets in Virgo). I have known this person since I was 17 and I am now 61. He fltted in and out of my life for years and was instrumental in many ways e.g. got me my first job, influenced location of my marital home. I was always fascinated by his darkness, which I felt strongly (I have Scorpio ascendent) and when we reconnected in 2015 after not seeing each other for 15 years, I was convinced that this would be the 'spiritual union' of the century. I couldn't have been more mistaken! Although what out tempestuous, on/off connection has done is bring me back down to earth with a much more grounded view of what love is and what it is not. Everything you said in the extended reading is accurate including my father issues, his troubled childhood and our forest connection (I have recently qualified as a Forest Bathing Practitioner). We parted (again) three months ago and have had no contact since. I have no intention of making any move toward him but I suspect he will contact me in due course. The magnetic force between us is incredibly strong. Thank you for your direct and tough love advice re 'a reconnection will not be easy.' I will sit with this and make a decision. In the meantime - it's all about me and my wellbeing.
I chose pile #2 and it was spot on from when we met (online) and the challenges and our situation (starts and stops, then we were long distance) to absolute radio silence now. Your description of the Hierophant sounds like him too! (gets keen on stuff) He’s a Cancer so looool at the King of Cups coming out in the spread. Off to your extended in a bit, thanks Gemma ✨
Enjoy! 🙏🌹
#2. A situationship/limerent thing/whatever. I fell HARD and it felt amazing, reciprocated at the beginning. Then circumstances changed. Distance yes, other people involved too. Then covid. We would talk on the phone every so often. I was literally obsessed. The weirdness is how he took over my mind it wasnt my own. I kept telling myself to learn the lessons here... and eventually I was forced to. Taking my healing seriously over 2 years ago and I am just about done, lol the pull of Gemma's reading though 😂😂 It was my biggest lesson, ngl. But well worth it. Out the other side and a different person. Xx I'm a cancerian (surprise!), as was he.
Omg. The bit about 'they just didnt go there'. When I messaged him about something being there between us, he actually replied 'these days when I dont know what to say, I don't say anything', despite the week before holding me so tight and not wanting to let go. That was the moment I realised I needed to heal. It absolutely broke me.
Two Cancerians is a very intense match 🙏🩷✨
@@Gemstonetarot absolutely. And we shared our Leo Venus and Aries Mars, as well as other astrological things. Sadly, it was not to be. A lovely quote I always think of is: 'Our lives may not have fit together, but ohh did our souls know how to dance' (K.Towne Jnr)
Thank you! Reading number 2 spot onnnnnn (as us usual!) Love your voice. 💐✨🩵🦀
Thank you! 🙏 🩷✨
I was definitely drawn to number 3 but also number 1 so when you said it in pile 1, I knew I was in the right spot ❤ I love it when that happens
My heart chose #2 and as soon as you said love bombing its knew i picked the correct card. You are always so spot on.
#2 - met him online, he is Scottish and I am American. It was definitely a love bombing situation and neither of us came together under the best circumstances. He definitely played fast and loose with the truth and his emotional state was something I couldn't understand and he couldn't articulate. He cheated and I found out so going back in a no go but this definitely gave me some insight on avoiding anything similar in future.
Onwards and upwards 👆 ♥️
#3 spot on for both exes. I’m a gem, very close to my cancerian recently ex husband of 25 yrs and my scorpion soulmate. So much push and pull and unspoken words. I am waiting and watching patiently.
#2 extended was real good, i recommend it if you're in need of some direction. Thanks Gemma, been with you since 2019, you have been guiding me through these rocky waters. It has definitly been real painful, real mysterious and strange. Wish I could have a cup of tea with you and share the story but I honestly wouldnt have the words.. 😅. The movie 'Redeeming love' always reminds me of the dynamic though. But god its hard to be that strong.. and do i want to. Is it worth it is indeed the question, how much will it take?
I’m going to have a look for that movie 🍿
I chose #2 I fell in love really fast but now I’m on slow mo , I’ve never been one that is good with patience and so I find a whole mother trigger has been unlocked for me 😅 I am just so frustrated with my LL!
I picked #3. I’m a Capricorn my husband is Sagittarius. We never agree. Been married 25 years. Totally resonate with this reading! Sounds just like us! Love you Gemma! ❤😊
Glad you liked it 🙏🩷✨
TY Gemma 🫂 🎉
I chose #2 Enchanted Veil Tarot
Yes DF is healed and moving forward at last. No desire to reunite.
Yes it was a whirlwind until it wasn't and he suddenly left Feb 14, 2019 while i was at work. No contact since 2022
Knew him as children from 1965-1973 then met again in 2018.
He is a Pisces 🌞. I suspected addiction, codependency, anxiety and depression.
Very keen on religion. To much. Takes all the excitement out of life.
I blew that bridge to smithereens!! 💥 💥
Very apt reading. Thank you👌💜
Picked #2, I'm a Cancer, him a Pisces with Moon in Aquarius. He's been trying to reach out after a year, but I blocked him. Had a great connection but he was pretty good at "dancing around his feelings". Big age difference here. I'm 47, him much younger. Thankfully I've gained strength over my years enough to know it's not good enough. I'd rather be alone in my pj's with a cup of hot chocolate than be in the middle of that mental and emotional chaos.
Love this 🙏🩷💥
know what you mean 🦀☕️
Thanks for doing this Gemma! I picked pile two and it definitely resonates. Even though I haven’t heard from this person in so long (and am probably blocked) I just haven’t met someone since who I felt motivated to get to know. When you’re an odd person (as I am), you might be able to see the good in many people, and even love them, but it’s a rare person who’s really a match (I believe)… and I felt like he might be… it’s hard to let go of that.
My goodness, Gemma! #1 is spot on! Except I’m the one with the tattoos and piercings, AND I’m the one who broke it off. If I am casting love spells, it is not intentional. I respect free will. Everything else was 10O% accurate!🦀
Really glad it resonated 🙏🩷✨
#2 resonated. Yep thin veil to narcissism. I’ve done a lot of work on myself (self love) I literally had none before so I guess I was a good target. Thanks Gemma ✨
Brilliant 🤩
Just listened to the extended 💯 spot on…Forest, father, their behaviour. It’s strange I’m not even sure I like them that much but I’m so keen for them to like me. Bahh father issues. I’ve been waiting for this information
I choose number 2. Gemma , this was a very intriguing reading
1,Libras ,past life problem.Strange conection.Perfect reading
Number 2 ,I'll be secretive like the reading
Plié 2, I’m a Scorpio and yes, yes, yes, Gemma spot on. Thank you 💛
You’re welcome 😊🙌
No1. So spot on Gemma, my Taurean ex who I see and speak to regularly. Strong chemistry and we do have our own soundtrack! Currently doing a tarot course (am using The Guardian of the Night deck, really beautiful). Thank you very much! 🥰
2 chose me. ♉️ 🌞 🌙. I’m in a Hermit year. Hierophant 👋🏼. Thanks Gemma.
You’re welcome 😊
❤ #1 Truely resonates with me in Every way! It's been a challenging & painful journey but it's made me stronger 💪 🙏 I know my worth now, more than ever. I'm empathic and my Faith has helped me recover.
Thank you, Gemma 😊
SOLD on the extended reading for pile 2… 😂💜 Whoaaaa.
Oh Gemma, you mystical goddess ✨ Chose #1. Incredibly accurate, ex is a Scorpio. Very intriguing to have the view of the other side, and the overall thread of things. Thank you for a beautiful reading 💕
You’re welcome 🥰
Me too. He’s also a Scorpio 🤦
Eek. Thought I'd choose number 1 but found number 3 most resonant. 😮
I chose 2 and it was spot on. I am Ok with where I am thankfully. Yes, he is fascinating but I don't care to discard my peaceful state of mind for something I know will disappoint and end badly. Thank you,Gemma.🦂
Sounds like you’ve got a good solid core and won’t give that up for anybody 🙏🩷💥
It’s like you are in mu mind with the themes… always 🤣 Needless to say: pile 3. 🤣Thanks, Gemma!
Brilliant 🤩 I'm so glad it resonated ♥️
I couldn't decide btwn #1 & ultimately picked #3....I always listen to all of them though ~
All 3 resonated,🃏❤❤❤😊🦀
Brilliant 🤩
Amazing🦋🦋🦋🙏
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I literally dreamed about this reading last night and what deck I should pull. 🤣🤣 Before you even posted it. We seal see what it says!
Wow! 😮
No 2. You pulled the fool and the hermit. For me those represent Aries and Virgo. His sun sign and mine. For me this reading is so much about the sun and the moon and the balance between the two. And maybe accepting that there might be considerable times of imbalance.
Hi Gemma! I watched the extended, mainly to distract myself, as my dear Dad has had major surgery and complications and I'm trying not to overthink about it. #3 Was like a personal reading - jeeze you're good!😊 No contact for 9 months. I don't really believe in twin flames. TBH I think I'm more likely to win the lottery than hear from him again. Anyway, it was very entertaining. Thank you 💖 from Australia xx
#3. I don't know if this comment will stay. YT has been removing all my comments. It's probably due to me being outspoken about the American election. The rock and roll situationship definitely resonates. I will watch the extended later today. Thank you Gemma 💖 from Australia xx
Comment is here! Hello! 🙌🩷💥
No 3 totally doing my head in🙄😂
Thank you Gemma ❤ I do not want to pull anyone down with this. I chose pile 3. I had to understand that my ex is a covert narcissist 😢 I had to let him go after only our 1 year relationship he never really comitted to. We stayed friends until recently. I have grown up in narcissistic structures and went through those kinds of connections until I realised what I am entangled in. Today I have found true l8ve with myself and with help of a great therapist and I can give and share my love now fearlessly for that I know that Love is out baseline. He was the last person in my life I was befriended with and it was difficult and not safe enough.
Just saying. My experience of course. ❤ Narcisst will never give you closure.
Fantastic 🙏🩷💥
@@Gemstonetarot thank you for seeing it as goodness ❤💫💆🏻♀️🌙
No.3 completely confounded and ghosted and unsure and sad. Spot on Gemma 🦀😩
Never mind my comment on the short, Graffiti tarot. I hadn’t seen that deck before. I am indeed the rock and he’s my twin - same sign (Virgo) we are different cultures. Maneuvering around his wife. Oddly we are planning on creating a city. Haha we do fight. And we often have miscommunications in fact I told him we had to fix that…In fact I am waiting on 1) divorce and 2) to be able to return back to his (now ours) country literally no flights in. Thankfully I am not waiting I know I’m not going anywhere for a couple months.
And I love shoes!! He does too though.
Honestly I’m doing both 2 & 3
Let’s see
#3 really resonated. I'm an earth sign and my water sign ex never wore shoes. He popped up in my messages this week after four months with the teeniest message, if it can be called that: literally just ° . Of course I tried six ways to Sunday to make sense of it. Tens of swords and wands, so many unspoken words. So much love and so much impossibility, tried though we did so many times. Thank you Gemma 👑
That thing about not wearing shoes was a big channel for me 🙏🩷✨
2, that was so accurate,, 🦀v🦀
#1 Amazing how you do this! Bursts indeed, 3 months off and on for 3 yrs.
Then I woke up. Trouble is we play music together once a month. What I lack musically
he,Gemini,fills in and visa versa.
I’m done with #1, but, as you say there’s some weird connection.
Maybe it is inter gallactic 💫😃🌟
pile one: runner here 👋🏼
3-so much potential … I’m just at a loss here 💔
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Felt drawn to pile 1 today 😅 as if pile 2 wasnt enough...
Random question. I picked card 2, but I felt like it could've been about 2 different exes. It was going back and forth. Different details, like one ex is a Virgo, the hermit, very emotionally unavailable, the other ex is very intriguing, handsome and we did meet on a dating app. Is that possible??
Absolutely 💯
Pile 2
Resonate with my karmic situationship I had false hope I could have someone whom I could trust but not and he just ghosted me
Flipping Heck😮 #1 ✅️✅️✅️
Interesting. 25 years as since either if us ex's however curious to listen as old wounds can linger. Always room to heal.
3. Rock and roll yes😊🕶🎼🖤I don't really care anymore, tired of maneuvers, it was complicated. Thanks❤
You’re welcome 😊
2 💯 🤯 extended
NEVER TIRE of the way you say, "The Lovers"!
WOW G, just started listening to num 1, couldn't choose btwn 1 & 2.
He is a Leo,my ex and has a beautiful head of hair, mine in Auburn(dyed).
He was the love of my life, but he ran off and married someone else, literally broke my heart.
We are now back in contact, I know he will never leave his Wife, but we are friends, only.
The other was a situationship, Leo/Virgo cusper, he is bald but has tattoo's, been on/off for 2 yrs, now off totally done , I think 😊❤
Reading 2 was amazing and for me tied in with reading 1, totally 🤯🤯, thanks G, namaste ❤❤
Reading 3 sounded more like the just past, situationship, spot on 😘😘
Our first encounter was going to the record store together in 1969. Damn I'm old. I'm an Aries... he's Aquarius... LOL
I chose 1, but it feels like it may be 3???
My ex emailed me this morning 😂 after 2 years... which didn't have a good ending
Oh gosh, that's a long time coming! How are you feeling? 🙏♥️
Ohhh nooooo
(yes, yes, yes) *makes huge hot chocolate *
Checking my bank account preemptively because I'm guessing I'll be on vimeo later 😂😂
Nice 👌
This shifted my whole headspace
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I have no interest in knowing about my ex but thanks anyway Gema
We never spoke about feelings in 2 years ! Yes the veil was between us ! Yes he worked away a month at a time on oil rigs .
Havnt heard from him for 4 years omg he used to phone me on the landline when he was away 😱
❤ #1 Truely resonates with me in Every way! It's been a challenging & painful journey but it's made me stronger 💪 🙏 I know my worth now, more than ever. I'm empathic and my Faith has helped me recover.
Thank you, Gemma 😊