Crystal Smith & Tameka Raymond Talk Bold and Bougie, Usher, Ne-Yo, Parenting + More

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  • @Cinabean
    @Cinabean 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +258

    Tameka seems like a go-getter. I love her tenacity ❤, through all her adversity.

    • @twellmaker75
      @twellmaker75 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Yea this interview made me like her

    • @LeshaFBaby
      @LeshaFBaby 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes she is . I enjoyed her interview with willie d on geto boys podcast

  • @Happy-mp7vm
    @Happy-mp7vm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +160

    You can definitely hear the age difference between Crystal and Tameka, being where she is in life knows when to stand down, especially when she senses the conversation may go left.

    • @zahraawolowo6506
      @zahraawolowo6506 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      Nothing to do with age it’s more about social intelligence mixed with common sense and awareness

    • @drecool85
      @drecool85 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@zahraawolowo6506probable correlation with age not causation

    • @ursulanicholson5166
      @ursulanicholson5166 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👍🏾

  • @jcanthony16
    @jcanthony16 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +158

    Tameka has no filter and that's what I love about her.

  • @tropicallymixed.
    @tropicallymixed. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +189

    Tameka has a cool personality. She gives a good interview.

  • @latricegant4440
    @latricegant4440 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +518

    Tameka looks amazing for people saying she look beat. We are not immortal. She is 53.

    • @SeekingGreetings
      @SeekingGreetings 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      ...and she looks 53.

    • @sherwood9917
      @sherwood9917 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

      @@SeekingGreetings Is it a crime to look your age? She is 53, looks 53 and still looks great.

    • @SeekingGreetings
      @SeekingGreetings 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@sherwood9917 That's not the crime. 😆

    • @sherwood9917
      @sherwood9917 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@SeekingGreetings What is the crime?

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I say she looks 56 lol. But looks way better now. Idk why

  • @MsReady4change
    @MsReady4change 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Tameka needs her own show! I love her!❤

    • @jesuisleconqueror
      @jesuisleconqueror 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I do kinda wish she would do housewives cause she’s so unapologetically herself and comes off funny sometimes

  • @Kaye.Nicole
    @Kaye.Nicole 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +147

    "Have you every hid neyo's hats" 😂😂😂😂 Charlamagne play too much

    • @dty6555
      @dty6555 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      lol

    • @chickenandbones
      @chickenandbones 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      😂🤣😭😭

    • @LeshaFBaby
      @LeshaFBaby 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      😂😂😂

    • @Wearenotfriendsxo
      @Wearenotfriendsxo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      i’m crying 😂😂

    • @gzoe4real4ever
      @gzoe4real4ever 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Iam here from the future to let you know. Hes been called Mr.Clean.

  • @heatherro9989
    @heatherro9989 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +135

    I truly love Tameka. She’s such a beautiful soul.

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not next to Crystal

  • @tab0108
    @tab0108 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +264

    My mom left my serial cheating dad at 59 years old and 35 years of marriage. I've never seen her this happy and fulfilled.

    • @simonkalibwani5832
      @simonkalibwani5832 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Cap!

    • @auntmay20
      @auntmay20 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

      Divorce is horrible to go through, but I am so glad your mom found the peace and joy she deserved!

    • @Wonderfulme1989
      @Wonderfulme1989 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      ​@simonkalibwani5832 Some women would rather be single then have to worry about the threats to her life that cheating brings (diseases, jealously...etc). Piece of mind has more weight than being married to a cheater.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      And she will die alone!

    • @Wonderfulme1989
      @Wonderfulme1989 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      @theresonlyonejd Yall kill me with that. Being married is not the end all be all (yes I'm married). I'd rather my daughter have peace & die alone than put up with bulls%&_ in order to say she died a married woman. That bullsh$@$ will probably send her to an early grave anyway.

  • @lynchisolm4254
    @lynchisolm4254 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +167

    Good for you Crystal... Know your WORTH.... Stand on your morals... You deserve RESPECT 🌹🌹

    • @c-memusic6951
      @c-memusic6951 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Her worth is 0 considering she’s single and she judges based off mistakes but as a gf nobody is perfect which allows you to become the wife so accept your flaws but not his not worth a cent and was nvr worth it it’s clear she got what she wanted out the deal

    • @c-memusic6951
      @c-memusic6951 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I guarantee she’s going to date a old man or be single for ever she not realistic with mistakes and cheaters 🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @blakex2699
      @blakex2699 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      ​@@c-memusic6951she forgave neyo alot until he started having babies outside the marriage.

    • @c-memusic6951
      @c-memusic6951 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@blakex2699not at all she said she left when she first “heard “ things before and came back cause it wasn’t true the baby was a reason to leave she nvr wanted to be there

    • @lca9486
      @lca9486 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Um no she need to shut up. She realized her worth after the 3rdchild Neyo had on her. She left cause he started to publicly embarrass her. She trying to come off all like she don’t play. When he played with her for years. Abd she took it. She’s Trash

  • @sacoope1
    @sacoope1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Tameka is so beautiful and graceful. Wishing her all the best. ❤

  • @truepyt
    @truepyt 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +72

    Not Neyo telling on himself 🤣😭

    • @vexotimmer2675
      @vexotimmer2675 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Word. Neyo was trying to be slick lol He know damn well he was talking about himself in that clip.

    • @candice7148
      @candice7148 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      He sure did!! I’m glad she was smart enough to pick up on it though.

    • @dimepiecetia
      @dimepiecetia 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      When you look back and really listen he really did tell on himself. 😂😂😂 I didn’t think about that at the time of the interview but wow .

  • @drewstar8611
    @drewstar8611 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +276

    The problem with Usher’s ‘Here I Stand’ album is simple….. it followed Confessions… there’s nowhere to go but down. Confessions was essentially Ushers ‘thriller’

    • @cheatcodecharlie
      @cheatcodecharlie 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      It was no way to do better then Confessions...and not only that "Moving Moutains" was one of the worst songs on there and he shot a video for it!! Just horrible song

    • @Forsaken860
      @Forsaken860 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      FActs and that Album was genuinely beautiful. Top to bottom. I had that sucker on repeat. 8701 Usher Raymond Here I Stand Usher v Usher Confessions❤️❤️

    • @letlovereign
      @letlovereign 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      It was also 2008.....different climate for album sales

    • @Forsaken860
      @Forsaken860 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Terrible roll out for that album🤣🤣🤣🤣but beautiful album. This one song is...Long time...sso beautiful​@@cheatcodecharlie

    • @sinder-mariepascalpatterso1663
      @sinder-mariepascalpatterso1663 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      ​@@cheatcodecharlieI wouldn't say it was a horrible song, but its one of those album songs that should have been track eleven that you listen to sometimes. Play in the background type. It absolutely did not need a video. He should have released before I met you. That was required.

  • @tanmc6710
    @tanmc6710 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    Tameka really won me over with this interview…. I am with her in remaining in a peaceful place🥰🥰

  • @ddoubleu170
    @ddoubleu170 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    Just came here to say, I’m loving the show. Loving Tameka and Crystal’s friendship!
    Tameka is my spirit animal 😂
    Mother does not play, okaaaaay!

  • @toccaramabins9509
    @toccaramabins9509 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    I loved this interview. We finally get to see Tameka as a fun, light hearted person.

  • @noname-in6vo
    @noname-in6vo 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Nobody wanted USHER to get married back then he was everybody's man lol

  • @felishasweet7579
    @felishasweet7579 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +240

    I absolutely adore Tamika Raymond. She's always had an old soul and a voice of reason.

    • @emm8348
      @emm8348 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I like her too

    • @maturewoman81
      @maturewoman81 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I like Tameka too! Straight no chaser.

    • @skyndgo.
      @skyndgo. 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nigga she is old but she cool

    • @titohelper3569
      @titohelper3569 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      CAUSE SHE IS OLD

    • @taylenzz
      @taylenzz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@titohelper3569OKKKK!!!!! She’s 53, and looks 53…….why wouldn’t she?!?!?

  • @kiki3961
    @kiki3961 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +67

    If every woman left like Crystal left, the world if relationships would be much better than they are today. Some men would think twice if they knew their wives would not give them a second chance.

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Lol I don't think that was the first time he cheated on her

    • @Kaye.Nicole
      @Kaye.Nicole 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      So true....women have more power than they realize

    • @LisaLisaCJ
      @LisaLisaCJ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      My ex husband didn’t think I’d leave and we had been married 26 years and together since teen years. He started having affairs midlife and I left. He is remarried and still bitter.

    • @bettiejohnson2605
      @bettiejohnson2605 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Most people know the entire history of Neyo and Chrystal. The relationship started with cheating except she was the one he cheated with. Its hard to say cheating because they both was doing it but she got tired. Monyetta in a recent interview admitted he didn't cheat on her, they did it together. Chrystal has been through a lot, first foster care issues, stripping as she said to pay the bills and she was in same sex relationships but wanted more out of life. Monyetta said Neyo was her best friend and that's obviously his personality. The video did come out with him and Chrystal "money can't buy" a great video and that's when Monyetta found out. He always say his music is his personal diary so to speak, hes very honest. I believe she's feels her character looks bad but its not true, she's awesome in her survival. Therefore there's no need to sell a fake story. Thanks to him she has a story line to build on, and make those bags.

    • @estherdaniel3783
      @estherdaniel3783 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She was the one helping him vheat from the previous relationship. She knew who his is. She taught she would be treated differently since she shared some of his fetishist.

  • @valenkennedy3879
    @valenkennedy3879 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I don’t believe all men cheat. I have a wonderful husband. Of course I can’t 100% say that he hasn’t stepped out, but women have amazing intuition. I can never say all men, all women, all black people etc. do anything because we are all individuals.

    • @iamjro
      @iamjro 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I totally agree

  • @4everOcean
    @4everOcean 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    Tameka is so down to earth end real

  • @DAD2286
    @DAD2286 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +182

    Cheating isn’t a mistake… it’s a choice. That’s the issue.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s called exercising your options not cheating!

    • @gogobarbie09
      @gogobarbie09 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly I’ve cheated and it was definitely a choice

    • @youngboy2140
      @youngboy2140 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Two things can be truth. You can make the choice to cheat, and regret that choice, and acknowledge it was a mistake. Just like it’s a choice for that partner can choose to forgive and walk away, or work it out. Either of those choices can always end of as regretful. Then realize it was a mistake to do so.

    • @DAD2286
      @DAD2286 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@youngboy2140 I agree with you.
      For clarity, this is how I personally view cheating. I don’t view it as a mistake, as there’s too many opportunities between the thought and the action to thing about what you’re doing and change your mind.

    • @santelaneal5374
      @santelaneal5374 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@theresonlyonejduntil someone cheats on you, then you crying wolf.

  • @bluestblack
    @bluestblack 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    Tameka is BEAUTIFUL! Calling her a man is crazy colorism and racism because how can you look at her face and say she’s ugly or manly.

  • @MLOWG1
    @MLOWG1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Usher’s album Here I Stand was definitely ahead of its time. And it was probably too mature for his fan base at the time. But I feel that those same fans are now probably listening to it now because they are more mature now. Because the song Here I Stand had such a neo soul feel. It just showed his maturity at such an early age, hence the attraction for his ex wife. He just matured quicker than his fans. Definitely not a flop though.💯

  • @thatgirlshaz
    @thatgirlshaz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    Tameka is hilarious 😂😂😂. I didn’t know much about her before this interview but I love how raw and authentic she is. ❤

    • @jayvzrd3349
      @jayvzrd3349 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      if you watch her r&b money interview with tank and j.valentine youll see just how much of a superstar stylus she is - without her the cover of ushers confessions album wouldve looked different

  • @TashaaG
    @TashaaG 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +76

    Not “Do you hide his hatsssss!”😂😂😂😂 no, I am on the FLOOOR!!!!😭

    • @twarner816
      @twarner816 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I laughed so damn hard😂😂😂

    • @clarissar1528
      @clarissar1528 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I read this as soon as he said it!!! 😂😂😂

    • @shirleneflack8896
      @shirleneflack8896 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hilarious 😂

  • @tamikasmith4329
    @tamikasmith4329 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +123

    Tamika showing us why Usher liked her.....❤

    • @MrsMoore1
      @MrsMoore1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      *Loved her and married her…

    • @tiffannibooze9400
      @tiffannibooze9400 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@MrsMoore1 💯

    • @martina9151
      @martina9151 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I was thinking the same thing. She seems dope.

    • @martina9151
      @martina9151 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I really like Tamika.

    • @bettiejohnson2605
      @bettiejohnson2605 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      At least Tameka is being truthful and not ashamed of her past relationship. If Chrystal didn't want to be honest, why go on the breakfast club.

  • @julz89rosado78
    @julz89rosado78 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    I didnt know then i was young and loved usher but Tameka is funny, stunning, can dress honestly she the baddest personality alone

  • @zelinalittle1451
    @zelinalittle1451 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I love Crystal!!!!! 😊Stay focused on yourself and stop judging her because she choose to give herself time to be happy. She is at peace!

  • @twn5163
    @twn5163 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Tameka has a hell of a personality lol

  • @melmines
    @melmines 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

    Tomeka is speaking “Life is long”

  • @rosetopaz
    @rosetopaz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I liked Here I Stand; Love in this club, this ain’t sex, trading places, moving mountains… pretty much the whole darn thing. ❤

    • @deelee1623
      @deelee1623 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly!

    • @ModelKayNate
      @ModelKayNate 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too!

    • @awuahcurtis
      @awuahcurtis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Trading places is not on Here I stand

    • @rosetopaz
      @rosetopaz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@awuahcurtis it definitely is, might want to recheck the album track listing 🥴

    • @awuahcurtis
      @awuahcurtis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @rosetopaz my bad,you are right,the album wasn't a flop at all because it is one my favourite Usher songs

  • @Forsaken860
    @Forsaken860 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +112

    Crystal cold AF my God. Ten years three kids and dipped in one day. Neyo must had some SH*T on that phone😭😭😭

    • @esw122
      @esw122 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

      He had a baby on her

    • @amylove5500
      @amylove5500 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

      @@esw122lol if I’m not mistaken when she found out the other girl had his baby and was pregnant with the second one… Crystal kept it cute in the interview lol

    • @Dymsx86
      @Dymsx86 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

      He had children with other women while they were married. It would be absolutely done then.

    • @jas1565
      @jas1565 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Ten years, three kids and it wasn't enough for him to stay faithful.

    • @idontdomoviereviews5253
      @idontdomoviereviews5253 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ikr shit

  • @aliciax.perkins9967
    @aliciax.perkins9967 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Tameka is crackin me up 😂 Things change when u turn 50🫶🏽

  • @Happy-mp7vm
    @Happy-mp7vm 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    In my younger days i had the same mindset/mentality as Crystal. Now in my 40's I think the way Tameka does. That doesn't mean you accept disrespect, but as she says, life is VERY long. Nobody's perfect!
    Crystal wanted out before she heard what Neyo said. I don't blame her thou.
    It simply sometimes ain't meant to be and self respect outweighs everything.

    • @abi-ci8lh
      @abi-ci8lh 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      that's what I said. I think she wanted out already.

    • @auntmay20
      @auntmay20 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      I don't think she wanted out. I believe it's the fact that he was not just cheating, but he had and was having children outside of his marriage. It's one thing to move past cheating It's a whole other having kids as a constant reminder. Not to mention it appears he was basically cheating the whole marriage. Plus Neyo is so triflin so many other men and women stop getting married when you know you are not willing to be faithful.

    • @blackbox1911
      @blackbox1911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      @@abi-ci8lh Neyo had two kids on this woman,,, u sound crazy

    • @crystalhill-adams4463
      @crystalhill-adams4463 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@blackbox1911Yes, ✌️two babies. It’s no secret.

    • @sarahjoe2457
      @sarahjoe2457 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good luck with the side babies and STDs. Desperate women really make it hard out here.

  • @azariyahsmith6439
    @azariyahsmith6439 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love love love Tameka. They both looked amazing. The positivity they both show, despite what they e been thru is beautiful♥️♥️♥️

  • @notagamingchannelyt1802
    @notagamingchannelyt1802 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I love Tameka. She’s authentic and the kind of person you have to get to know ❤

  • @keonamorrison
    @keonamorrison 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I really love this interview for Crystal i didn’t care to know about her but she sounds coo as hell. Blessings to her.

  • @rotcl
    @rotcl 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +83

    One thing Charla is gonna do is act blonde about his shady past involvements 😂

    • @Kaye.Nicole
      @Kaye.Nicole 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      😂😂😂 every damn time

    • @ukan.536
      @ukan.536 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Why are you even using that terminology? Aren't you Black?

    • @deelee1623
      @deelee1623 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

  • @conversationswithrena3066
    @conversationswithrena3066 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Ain’t no “slipping up” cheating is a CHOICE!!!!!

  • @dorothymcadams7971
    @dorothymcadams7971 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Tameka is my spirit animal❤️. She moves and speaks my language.

  • @shantaewingbooker2876
    @shantaewingbooker2876 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Tameka is a vibe💜🥳 the media didn’t due her justice

  • @MsSHEISHER
    @MsSHEISHER 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Tameka is my Capricorn sister from Oakland. A REAL ONE!!

  • @keishabe3045
    @keishabe3045 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +118

    Everytime the girl crystal speaks im like you are the epitome of "how you get him is how you loose him" 😩😂

    • @tammymorgan5348
      @tammymorgan5348 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      Y'all gon keep following that false narrative huh...

    • @lisaellis7137
      @lisaellis7137 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      Loud and wrong.

    • @keishabe3045
      @keishabe3045 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@lisaellis7137WELL TELL ME WHAT HAPPENED MAMAS!

    • @JFWick-yc3si
      @JFWick-yc3si 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      That "I'm getting to my bag period" comment just proved this broad big 🚩

    • @nycgirltee
      @nycgirltee 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      She already addressed this on the show. Him and Monyetta were already divorced when she got with him. So, it isn't how she got him. Y'all want a gotcha moment so bad when he as the man is the one who betrayed both of the families he helped create.

  • @tomekadavis6967
    @tomekadavis6967 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +42

    Tameka looks AMAZING! 🫶🏾
    Honey, she ain’t aging. 🤎
    She’s so pretty and articulate. 💯❤️

  • @workitladypodcast
    @workitladypodcast 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    👏👏💜💜I respect Crystal so much for respecting her body and her mental health by quickly taking her leave from the relationship! Great example of self respect!!!

    • @tee-rock
      @tee-rock 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She respects her body? I’m just asking but wasn’t she a stripper? She decided to cut her loses because she knew she already secured “the bag”. Her words not mine.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You respect a porn star?!?!? 🤡

  • @Kaye.Nicole
    @Kaye.Nicole 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    "I'm not sharing my husband It's too much nasty ish in the world" message for the people who are okay with sharing and stepping outside their relationship. Is it worth your health.....Move wisely ❤

    • @dnadancetribedancenowafric2986
      @dnadancetribedancenowafric2986 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      When she said that , the question that came to my mind was so if there weren't any nasty diseases in every single person was clean, would you share like don't make that the main decision unless you would share if everyone was clean?

    • @Wonderfulme1989
      @Wonderfulme1989 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@dnadancetribedancenowafric2986😂 That's a stupid question and statement.

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      She was unknowingly sharing her husband for many years. I wonder how many diseases she has had...

  • @BROOKLYNSHOWTIME
    @BROOKLYNSHOWTIME 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Ms. Tameka lives in reality. I love it

  • @dchronicles2516
    @dchronicles2516 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Great interview and I completely understand what Tameka was stating about cheating and leaving when you’re at certain ages of your life.

  • @shhhtellnooneitsasecret
    @shhhtellnooneitsasecret 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    I respected Usher so much more when he was married to Tameka not some "weird faced" whyte woman (in my Kat Williams voice)

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      They were married for less than three years. He has been with the WW for several years and they have two children. Life goes on and on...

  • @heatherae3164
    @heatherae3164 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    good interview! they both kept it very classy and elevated their energy. love to see that from black women. 💚

  • @trinitystevens4968
    @trinitystevens4968 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    It’s crazy because Here I Stand is my favorite Usher album

    • @Babycakesj
      @Babycakesj 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Thank you. People sleep on that album but it was/is great!!!

    • @ShotByChuka
      @ShotByChuka 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It was a good album. Had memorable tracks like ‘Love in this club’, ‘What’s a man to do’ and ‘His mistakes’ on it. But Raymond vs Raymond and 8701 come on top for me.

    • @tasharichmond7488
      @tasharichmond7488 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Right.

    • @Ladybugg1118
      @Ladybugg1118 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I really loved that album as well!!

    • @tiffanynicole3910
      @tiffanynicole3910 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It was DEFINITELY underrated! Like people really need to listen to that grown @$$ album!

  • @chasityclay212
    @chasityclay212 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I hear you tamekaaa girl it’s the wisdom! I’m loving you both

  • @natashayoung5130
    @natashayoung5130 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +88

    Tameka seems to be very intelligent

    • @ddoubleu170
      @ddoubleu170 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      You can definitely tell why Usher was smitten.

    • @teresamarie7460
      @teresamarie7460 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@ddoubleu170Their marriage lasted less than three years.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She’s ghetto AF!

    • @guestguest3756
      @guestguest3756 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Obviously, the world's opinion of her being a dark skinned older woman had something to do with that. ​@@teresamarie7460

    • @johnsteen74
      @johnsteen74 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      With Age comes Mature and Growth from Life's Lesson. Tameka has definitely healed from her Tragedies and turned them into Testimonies❤

  • @msatutude17
    @msatutude17 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    I love a woman that sticks to her her morals. So encouraging

  • @kaydies2782
    @kaydies2782 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Tameka’s perspective on cheating is situational. From what we know of Crystal’s relationship there’s no way Tameka would work through it. That situation was a definite dealbreaker.

  • @harvemedharvemed7796
    @harvemedharvemed7796 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I was not expecting to like this interview, but in the end, I am really surprised. I am going to watch their show.

  • @MarvelousSteph
    @MarvelousSteph 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love Tameka she’s so real ❤❤❤

  • @KiKi-vf3yq
    @KiKi-vf3yq 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Tamika is beautiful. I’m surprised so many people judged her looks. Had to be jealousy

  • @ldsrealestate2
    @ldsrealestate2 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Glad to see Tameka Raymond, she looks and sounds amazing. But I'm 52 & I ain't sharing a man. Life is too short & I don't want to spend the rest of it watching my back. Especially with a person who claims to love & have my back till death due us part. 🤷🏿‍♀️

  • @DaniTheAlchemist33
    @DaniTheAlchemist33 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +49

    9:46 Tamika talks about Usher😊
    28:56 Crystal talks about Neyo😊

    • @hotndangerous
      @hotndangerous 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you 🙏🏾

    • @UnseenWhispers420
      @UnseenWhispers420 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you because you know this what some ppl come for lol my self too 😅

    • @IAMWATER7
      @IAMWATER7 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      That’s all anybody wanna hear them for… but they always gonna tell this story of triumph like they self made lol

    • @Cmarie118
      @Cmarie118 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This comment needs more likes

    • @jasmic38134
      @jasmic38134 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@IAMWATER7Tamika was Usher's stylist....she was "self-made" neither of these women claimed self-made nor bashed the men...so next

  • @shannonminor9196
    @shannonminor9196 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I love Tameka personality❤

  • @beatbydamitajomua
    @beatbydamitajomua 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    “Did you hide his hats” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @charlita25
      @charlita25 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🎩🧢

  • @StephanieYounger-jn7tb
    @StephanieYounger-jn7tb 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great interview! Love realness of both ladies. TAMEKA is my girl!

  • @nicholefountain5566
    @nicholefountain5566 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Y'all earned those last names when you said I Do period

    • @TeeDaHotboi
      @TeeDaHotboi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They said they don’t do give it back

  • @stampdeapproval
    @stampdeapproval 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

    How is Charlamagne still the funniest one on the show with a “comedian” next to him 🤦🏽‍♂️

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Damn! That’s facts tho. Jess whack

    • @kenyab3526
      @kenyab3526 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Cap and I supposed o girl was better?? Stop it..

    • @stampdeapproval
      @stampdeapproval 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      @@kenyab3526 Yee had a couple jokes from time to time just like Jess. Only thing is different is Yee can conduct an interview and can read well 🤣

    • @kenyab3526
      @kenyab3526 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@stampdeapproval lmao 🤣 ok ok she might not have been a scholar reader in school .. that’s all people can say she did brings jokes and energy.. I do feel the guests like her and no names would allow the men in the room to dominate her voice and option. I just think the older people r having a hard time with change. They needed younger cast so that’s what they got .

    • @stampdeapproval
      @stampdeapproval 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@kenyab3526 She brings energy I’ll give you that. But I’m older and felt it’s a couple more people better than her. I think they got her bc she is like a charlamagne 12 years ago but just a female. She doesn’t care what she says.

  • @cmecme3772
    @cmecme3772 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Tameka is funny 😂❤

  • @keriberi
    @keriberi 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    I actually really like Tameka now after the show and hearing her side of things. I also appreciate her saying that life is long chile and ppl make mistakes.

  • @JakeDeville
    @JakeDeville 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Damn Crystal should be an example for every young girl out there!!!! Respect yourself MORE than the situation you’re in and don’t take sh!t from anyone !!!!

    • @lca9486
      @lca9486 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Oh please Neyo was cheating on for years and she stayed. After he got a woman pregnant the 2nd time that’s when she left.

  • @Nita143
    @Nita143 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +45

    Crystal!!! You know your worth! That’s so important! ♥️🙏🏽

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Luckily she’s light skinned, so she wail always attract quality. However, she is a single mom. If she doesn’t want to be cheated, she has no choice but to lower her standards.

    • @Keemccray
      @Keemccray 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Took me a while to find this comment, but yessss. I respect how she handled herself during that interview and how she knows her worth! Loving yourself is far more important than staying for the kids etc. It speaks volumes. Her children will respect her decision one day.

    • @theresonlyonejd
      @theresonlyonejd 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her worth is the gutter as she’s a former porn star!

  • @Jay1miami
    @Jay1miami 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Life is funny cause the black community didn’t care for tameka when her and usher were married but she has a great personality!!!

  • @akeelaanderson5635
    @akeelaanderson5635 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Love these women and what their standing for!!!!

  • @MeS-xn2nf
    @MeS-xn2nf 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It's quite hilarious how Crystal commented on Tameka's writing style and the length. I'll compose a text, and my family will seriously say, "Nobody's reading all that!" But the truth is, sometimes those messages can be truly life-changing

  • @MrsKelly-ly4et
    @MrsKelly-ly4et 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Tameka book is really good! ❤

  • @RheVued
    @RheVued 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I’m here for Ms. Raymond.❤Tameka. Crystal is cool. ❤Jess!

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Is it becuz you and Jess dark skinned?

    • @guestguest3756
      @guestguest3756 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Why does that have to be reason? What made you ask that question? ​@qikstar

    • @qikstar
      @qikstar 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@guestguest3756 hmmm just stating the obvious

  • @noninons9317
    @noninons9317 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love Tameka’s honesty

  • @shap9610
    @shap9610 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    No one person can give you 100% of what you need.

  • @oboo100
    @oboo100 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Both ladies look great and are 😎 It was an interesting interview. I enjoyed hearing them. I wish them both successful careers and relationships

  • @offsetchyck53
    @offsetchyck53 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Crystal definitely found men in that phone….Best of wishes to both women on their healing journey.

    • @blackbox1911
      @blackbox1911 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      no she found on that he had fathered a baby with his side chick and she was pregnant with the second.. thats well documented.

  • @DenaSimone
    @DenaSimone 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Tameka is soooo pretty 🥰🥰🥰

  • @tdavis47
    @tdavis47 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    HERE I STAND is one of his best ❤ albums

  • @jerichomerkson7275
    @jerichomerkson7275 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Sorry to say Jess is not smart enough...Angie Yee was smart and had a wealth of information

  • @QueXopa79
    @QueXopa79 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Crystal vocabulary is one of a 16 year old… “period, got to get to the bag, we lit, etc… you’re 37. wtf.

    • @Kaye.Nicole
      @Kaye.Nicole 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

    • @aliciaepps1993
      @aliciaepps1993 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yesssss

    • @TDC1980
      @TDC1980 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right 😂😂😂😂

    • @MissTaylorMade101
      @MissTaylorMade101 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Now I agree.

    • @natalie8105
      @natalie8105 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Right

  • @trams313
    @trams313 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Jess you are doing a great job and while pregnant 🤰🏽. Sending positive energy ❤

  • @kutfromdifferentkloth
    @kutfromdifferentkloth 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Neyo ex is really hurt, CTG gotta send her some healing energy. At first she came off as bitter but after a while it's just the pain talking. She probably do need to be single for a good while

  • @TirhasGebru-b5o
    @TirhasGebru-b5o 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I love crystal’s energy!!!!!

  • @ifyouweremeforreal
    @ifyouweremeforreal 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Ushers Here I stand is one of my favourite album

  • @thedon8939
    @thedon8939 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    These women are capitalizing off of their ex husbands plain and simple.

  • @sparr5132
    @sparr5132 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I really came to appreciate these women by watching the show Bad and Bougie. I am happy they are able to tell their story.
    Great interview!

  • @shaunieibe2081
    @shaunieibe2081 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Go Tameka!!

  • @k.simmons862
    @k.simmons862 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Crystal, you lost him how you got him. He cheated on you with Monyetta and you knew. 🤷🏾‍♂️

  • @Suddenly_Inspired
    @Suddenly_Inspired 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    Charlamagne wants to know about Usher so bad 😂😂

  • @PurpleShadePodcast
    @PurpleShadePodcast 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    "That is the death of the relationship and we're parting!" Exactly ma'am. Do not listen to this woman who is encouraging you to settle for a cheating man just to be in a relationship. No thank you! Good for you for focusing on being your best self and I hope the man who is looking for a his blessing finds you!

    • @Kaye.Nicole
      @Kaye.Nicole 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I don't think she was encouraging her to settle for a cheating man....smh. when we're dealing with HUMAN BEINGS, everything is not black and white. Her point was that when you sign up to commit your life to someone, there will be all kinds of ups and downs. Nothing in life is straightforward. A serial cheater is quite different than a man who cheated once he learned his lesson, and it never happened again... Those are two different men. So people should be careful when applying general advice to every situation... infidelity shouldn't always mean the end. Imo

    • @PurpleShadePodcast
      @PurpleShadePodcast 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Kaye.Nicole we didn't hear the same thing.

  • @VixR9
    @VixR9 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Whoever hires for this show really dropped the ball not hiring Claudia

  • @amaris8084
    @amaris8084 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The people who continue to complain and still watch this show is the walking definition of insanity 😳 🙄 😅😅😅

  • @patrickpowell601
    @patrickpowell601 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    What makes me sad is every time I see an interview with the most beautiful black woman in the world. The story is always the same: Divorced, dealing with multiple BOYS, or trying girl. WHY, why can’t we be happy together

  • @jgj5369
    @jgj5369 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    That Ninja Turtle Neyo always has beautiful women lol.

    • @Rg11195
      @Rg11195 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      That successful writer, singer, performer, producer… yeah

    • @shaylaforever9048
      @shaylaforever9048 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Lol

  • @darkcocoakiss
    @darkcocoakiss 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Salute to both Queens! “Here I Stand” was 🔥🔥🔥🔥! It was a great follow up to “Confessions”, if people actually gave it a listen.

  • @julielove8932
    @julielove8932 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Love Tameka...i enjoyed this innerview

  • @Pou1gie1
    @Pou1gie1 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    @27:41 TR: Till death do us part.... CS: That [cheating] is the death of the relationship, and we are parting 🤣