This pulling of baby’s legs and hands affected my cousin. One of his hands is longer than the other😢. When I gave birth, my mom’s friend came to bath my son. She started pulling his hands and legs, I started crying when my baby was crying and I rushed to tell my mother who is a certified Midwife. My mom came and took my son from her and told her never to try that again. They started gossiping and saying that our family behave like we know everything.
Mama you learn how to look after your children,so your daughter will learn as well,some of us as parent love to Bullie our grown up children too much,when she started you should have send her home.
This is why so much family are suffering because of tradition,many people work so hard to get pregnant and they can't look after the children properly,then they work them like slave,because of what the people in the village is saying.
Hmmm I remember I took authority over my home I bathed my baby before my mom would even come over I would allow her to hold her granddaughter feed her a bottle but the nessesary care was on me to avoid any danger
The husband didn't intervene either. Maybe if he stood up as the man in the house instead of leaving it to the wife when she complained, the outcome would've been different.
@Talesbychikah i don't know. She confronted her mom over and over. She brought it to her husband and he offered no solution. Parents tend to bully their own, but a woman respects a strong man especially in his own house. That's her mother, not his mother and she can't walk all over him like she did her daughter. He should have stepped in to make sure they were clear that they didn't want to continue this unsafe practices. Therefore, he would have to take some blame which i can't see as grounds for him divorcing her.
Can't love my mum less❤ she did everything for me ❤❤❤❤
If that was my mother the outcome would’ve been different. Respect goes both ways.
Was a terrible situation
Great relatable story.
Very interesting story
This pulling of baby’s legs and hands affected my cousin. One of his hands is longer than the other😢. When I gave birth, my mom’s friend came to bath my son. She started pulling his hands and legs, I started crying when my baby was crying and I rushed to tell my mother who is a certified Midwife. My mom came and took my son from her and told her never to try that again. They started gossiping and saying that our family behave like we know everything.
Nice story thank you ❤❤❤❤
You're welcome
I wish that my mother taught me more. but she only sheltered me heavily and did not allow me to grow.😢
She should have listened to her daughter 😢😢😢
Exactly
Mama you learn how to look after your children,so your daughter will learn as well,some of us as parent love to Bullie our grown up children too much,when she started you should have send her home.
This is why so much family are suffering because of tradition,many people work so hard to get pregnant and they can't look after the children properly,then they work them like slave,because of what the people in the village is saying.
😢😢😢😢😢
Hmmm I remember I took authority over my home I bathed my baby before my mom would even come over I would allow her to hold her granddaughter feed her a bottle but the nessesary care was on me to avoid any danger
Not all the while traditional is right
Its hard for me to understand the narrator
I used to struggle too but after a while it gets much easier.
This is terrible 😢is not mama’s fault he was a mistake
Not all the traditions are right 👍👍👍👍
If this happened to me I'd want a divorce I wouldn't even be able to look at my wife or her mother again
Very valid reason for divorce
The husband didn't intervene either. Maybe if he stood up as the man in the house instead of leaving it to the wife when she complained, the outcome would've been different.
@Talesbychikah i don't know. She confronted her mom over and over. She brought it to her husband and he offered no solution. Parents tend to bully their own, but a woman respects a strong man especially in his own house. That's her mother, not his mother and she can't walk all over him like she did her daughter. He should have stepped in to make sure they were clear that they didn't want to continue this unsafe practices. Therefore, he would have to take some blame which i can't see as grounds for him divorcing her.