How To Write a Good CV

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  • @rickronn6273
    @rickronn6273 8 ปีที่แล้ว +594

    are we all 15-20yrs watching this?😂

    • @ThatBoy122
      @ThatBoy122 8 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Yup I literally have no work experience at all 😂

    • @kitler01
      @kitler01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      +TSUNAMIBOY same bruh don't even want a job

    • @mariandrezzaaparecida865
      @mariandrezzaaparecida865 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      claudio 7898148044795

    • @edfromchowderheads1312
      @edfromchowderheads1312 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I'm applying for an apprenticeship as poundland😂😂

    • @kitler01
      @kitler01 8 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      The Hypno Toad at pondland dam were did your life fuck up

  • @08000121909
    @08000121909 8 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    well- key achievements...i'm fucked

    • @maerosss
      @maerosss 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Burping out the alphabet!

  • @knightowl55
    @knightowl55 9 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Interests & Hobbits....Lord of the Rings & Frodoe

  • @KevinEontrainer381
    @KevinEontrainer381 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My CV for Internship Program (honest version)
    Key Achievement:
    - Graduated High School
    - Managed NOT to drop out from college so far
    - Ran a small business that lasts only 1 college semester
    Employment
    - None. (Not yet... If you guys rejected me, it will always be "None" on my next CV, so please be merciful.)
    Training
    - Oracle
    Interests and Hobbies
    My hobbies revolves around video games. I do competitive video games as well as game development. I'm currently developing a game using RPG Maker and I do it just for fun on my free times. Making games does not only involves coding, but also picture editing, sound editing and story writing. Those are the major skills that I must harness in order to fully enjoy my hobbies.
    End of CV.
    See how short it would be if you haven't got any working experience? There's literally nothing else to write...

  • @vengergreg9594
    @vengergreg9594 8 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    ...and make sure your CV is carefully proofread to avoid misspellings ;)

    • @Noel_13
      @Noel_13 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      haha, hobbits...

  • @jazzzonyourface
    @jazzzonyourface 9 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Do I include my interest and hobbies, or my interest and hobbits?

    • @chrisdmclean6222
      @chrisdmclean6222 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      +jazzzonyourface Hobbits, but don't forget the dwarfs mate!

    • @techman1211
      @techman1211 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      +jazzzonyourface make sure to mention if your taking them to isengard or not

    • @annalastima6017
      @annalastima6017 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      nailed..ahahahahaha..

    • @marcosoliz5873
      @marcosoliz5873 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@chrisdmclean6222 l huh ill difkv Dr olo Dr ooto

  • @TheBlaise91
    @TheBlaise91 11 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    I just have realised how bad my cv is.

  • @morpheuz9
    @morpheuz9 10 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    interests and hobbits:') i didnt get the job cuz i mentioned hobbits too much :(

    • @AnfalBalagamwala
      @AnfalBalagamwala 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hobbies as mention, it should be like, which enhance your profile. Like a captain of team or writing which actually publish. It shouldn't be like playing eating or going out with friends.

    • @AnfalBalagamwala
      @AnfalBalagamwala 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      okay

    • @B1_66ER
      @B1_66ER 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      LOL.

  • @jiansalah1944
    @jiansalah1944 8 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    went so well until I got to part of my key achievements fml

    • @Mushroomhoe
      @Mushroomhoe 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have done nothing in my life

    • @AbzmanGaming
      @AbzmanGaming 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lucy cos media Hahahah I can relate. I mean we all have done so much in life but when it comes down to listing it as achievements, it all amounts to nothing 🤣

  • @mtfcrich431
    @mtfcrich431 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I just write complete bullshit on mine, B in Maths lol I can't even count to B!

  • @skyalicejessi
    @skyalicejessi 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This information was very helpful, no wonder i'm hardly getting any interviews my cv is no good, i'm going to change it today!

  • @Qibilii
    @Qibilii 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I removed interests and hobbies ages ago, no one is interested in that bit. I am applying for jobs overseas so nationality is important.

    • @tshepisanodiketsopitso9014
      @tshepisanodiketsopitso9014 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good for u

    • @Commievn
      @Commievn 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yah, if im gonna be honestly, no one would give a shit. My hobbies are playing with dogs and gaming, lol.

  • @MartynDerg
    @MartynDerg 9 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    interests and hobbits :3

    • @fahadalkamli
      @fahadalkamli 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i don't believe he got the job kkkkkkkkk

    • @ahwhite
      @ahwhite 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Having hobbies and interests is human. Reframe them as examples of your great skills and leverage that strength on your CV ronnie-writes.blogspot.com/2017/05/8-steps-to-cv-heaven.html

    • @MartynDerg
      @MartynDerg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Aaron White the point is; It's a funny typo or an amusing easter egg

    • @ahwhite
      @ahwhite 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hehe I look again and it's right, of course with the hobbits!
      A great way to bring people's attention back to matter!
      Thanks

  • @indianageorge6430
    @indianageorge6430 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    if my interests are hobbits, is that enough "out of the ordinary"?

  • @aunimpyro2269
    @aunimpyro2269 10 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    what if you are 16 and don't have any experience. Only got good grades on the GCSEs I have done and doing A-level as well as gcse because I am ahead.
    What do I put in since it feels like I don't have many things to write.

    • @DJFernandes98
      @DJFernandes98 10 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      yeah, im in the same position as you too!

    • @MinecarftBoy
      @MinecarftBoy 10 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just write the certificates you have gained

    • @chlobo1010
      @chlobo1010 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aunim Pyro I haven't even done NCEA or anything (the equivalent of GCSE where I am from) and I start them next year.

  • @fizz113
    @fizz113 10 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    2:32 The misspelling really hurts me.

  • @hamzaAKAvex1
    @hamzaAKAvex1 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im only 16 and recently left school what Achievments am I supposed to write

  • @Ironbuket
    @Ironbuket 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Confused by the point about keeping font consistent, as in the example the name and contact details use a different font. Is it desirable to have the contact details in a different font or was it a mistake?

    • @jazzysocksdude
      @jazzysocksdude 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They look the same to me. The only difference is that the name is bold.

    • @Ironbuket
      @Ironbuket 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      3:25 look at the j and the f in the contact details, that is not the same font used in the rest of the document. The closest font I could get to the look of the example was Vijaya. It's less clear in the Rule 5 section of the video because they only show the contact details zoomed out at 4:34, but it still looks like a different font to the rest of the text.

  • @AshleyKateHRdelete
    @AshleyKateHRdelete  11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent attention to detail, as you will see further on in the film this is the word that is changed from Hobbits to Hobbies, highlighting the need to thoroughly review and spell check your CV

  • @med3899
    @med3899 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Well done thank you so much lovely CV good work watch to the end

  • @joycelynralph6210
    @joycelynralph6210 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am 17 currently in college n I had no idea how tf to write a CV... this helped a lot

  • @av733
    @av733 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Contrary to your advice, my careers advisor tells me that I should not be specific when describing in my CV.

  • @scubadope
    @scubadope 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    ... Profile is essential in giving the employer an idea of your personality, and whether that will fit with the job role

  • @patrickpockett
    @patrickpockett 10 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interests and "Hobbits"
    Thanks for making it a bit fun there at 2:15

  • @hardik373
    @hardik373 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing video, very comprehensive and informative. thanks a lot!

  • @fionagregory5873
    @fionagregory5873 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was a Secretary so what could I put in achievements?

  • @susantimon
    @susantimon 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love your template. How do I get it?Plus I am asked to attach a motivation letter. How do I go about it?

  • @mufferrs
    @mufferrs 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What about saying work you don't like and subjects at school you don't like.

    • @corteiz
      @corteiz 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michael Janchura never mention that, it just shows that you're picky and you'll probably not like the job you are applying for

  • @davinor28
    @davinor28 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for sharing suchaa quite simple and clear explanation... congratulations!

  • @zakariaeyardi5049
    @zakariaeyardi5049 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    that's very important, I want to know if a CV with 2 pages is important as a one page CV.

  • @aashishacharya8684
    @aashishacharya8684 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    IS it necessary to write declaration on cv??And also please tell how to write and complete cv

  • @TheSm1thers
    @TheSm1thers 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    running a local "comunity" newsletter. Didn't say if it was a good newsletter with accurate spelling haha!

  • @shuffls2010
    @shuffls2010 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi.
    What line spacing have you used? Also what is the font size and the name of the font as well please?

  • @scubadope
    @scubadope 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    I disagree with the placing achievements first. Although these are important, I find that the most important thing a potential employer will make the judgement on is personality. Which is why the personal

  • @mohamedyahia1882
    @mohamedyahia1882 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    should i be brief on CV or in resume ?
    i read once ago that the CV should include the details about every thing you do

  • @ThePiePenguin
    @ThePiePenguin 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if you're 17, have never worked anywhere. The only key achievements are that you've finished highschool, are one year into college. You need experience to get a job, and a job to get experience :/

  • @jacobbehm5941
    @jacobbehm5941 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    For my interests and hobbies how much detail should I go in? For example if I were to say reading would I go into books ive read and what I thought about them?
    Also I'm 17 and dont have anything other than my grades to put on my cv. I could majorly exaggerate things that everyone does in school like presentations and group work? Or should I talk about my future plans and relate it to what I'm applying for?
    thanks

  • @ambroseakpobe1589
    @ambroseakpobe1589 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    is there any different between motivational letter and a cover letter?

  • @heavymechanic2
    @heavymechanic2 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Most of these employment documents (CV) are published online for a recruiter who uses software to scan the information for key-words relevant to the job. The use of fancy fonts, bullets, bold and formatting is ignored by search engines...
    Put your most relevant terms in the first 2-3 lines to attract the attention of the reader otherwise it may get discarded as boring... Nothing in this video was helpful to me and these older practices have not worked for me to land an interview...
    I use Notepad software and an electronic scanable format to include as many job title or description terms that an employer will include in a job advertisement to be attractive to any job recruiter or employer.

  • @WaffleTheMonster
    @WaffleTheMonster 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if I'm applying for my first job with no experience?

  • @edwinburggraaff6662
    @edwinburggraaff6662 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    ''Most people think that a personal profile will make that all important positive impression,''
    ''9 out of 10, personal profile have an opposite effect'', she says.
    oke! didn't know that, thanks for the information

  • @zico82495
    @zico82495 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    You see right im trying to do a cv for my first job .. Yeah and i have only just finished my leaving cert i have no past employment or anything all i done was school and its hard to do a cv right now !!:( any one helppp mee out with something uselfull ??!!

  • @nooralam-mh4sx
    @nooralam-mh4sx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I have 7 year's o experience in Mechanical Maintenance/project division. Any professional cv format doc file..??

  • @sorathexplor3r
    @sorathexplor3r 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just a quick question. I have recently left school, and I need help in writing a CV, I do not really have many achievements because I am only 16, I would like to know what to write on the CV for people who are around my age group. The one big thing I can think of is that I am a Senior Prefect, yes I know, that it not much. However, I do believe that my grammar is okay, but there could be some improvements.

  • @karimhelmy6507
    @karimhelmy6507 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, I am a marketing manager 12 years experience.
    Do I add my professional trainings on my CV. Some are relevant to my current Job and others are relevant to my old jobs. or this section should not be in my CV?
    KH

  • @selvammanohar3095
    @selvammanohar3095 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very good video. How do we keep it within 2 pages when we have worked in many companies and have achievements that is worthwhile sharing? Hope you can clarify

    • @thegurutalks
      @thegurutalks 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Selva... For 2 pages short & Brief you will make RESUME not CV. For this Summarize your career by mentioning your designation and exp. & achievements/CERTIFICATIONS only.
      I hope it helps.

  • @carlknightcoph9494
    @carlknightcoph9494 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    is it long sized bond paper or short or medium sized?

  • @cvresumeonlinebyvilancer9116
    @cvresumeonlinebyvilancer9116 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    why you need to spend a lot of time for writing CV and design it, while there a so many CV Resume template on Vilancer , and you also can connecting to people to get advice and networking with them on Vilancer - Talent Network ?

  • @JohnT2001
    @JohnT2001 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    on the employment section..what do i write if i havent worked?

  • @JamieOGman
    @JamieOGman 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if you have no achievements? :(

  • @fionagregory5873
    @fionagregory5873 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am perfect when it comes to spelling and grammar.

  • @Inkulabi
    @Inkulabi 11 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My interests are Frodo baggins and my hobbies and my hobbits

  • @FraAnkanCHT
    @FraAnkanCHT 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can I get the template please ?

  • @wasilijsaizev1
    @wasilijsaizev1 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's very important to see this video to the end. Se at 3:55

  • @pseudonym6929
    @pseudonym6929 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    FINALLY ! now I have a JOB! I'm an extra in The Hobbits :D

  • @explorerchanneld5366
    @explorerchanneld5366 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the useful tips ...Excellent brief

  • @Ilfautcultivernotrejardin
    @Ilfautcultivernotrejardin 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    When her name came up on screen, I began reading it to the tune of "Daddy Cool."
    Jenny, Jenny Cole!
    JENNY, Jenny Cole!

  • @eumaeus
    @eumaeus 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    OK too little room here. however, you should firstly investigate the role and organisation. next Google common interview questions. you should be prepared for the 10 or so most common, such as why do you want to work here?'. you should prepare a set of questions to ask, this demonstrates you've paid attention during the interview and are interested in the job and organisation. present yourself suitably, and smile. you're expected to be nervous, it is OK to ask for a moment to think of a reply. the interview (for most roles) is to get to know you a little more, not to make you uncomfortable. oh, do learn the contents of your CV - your key skills and qualities for the job, your career history (where possible relevant to the role) finally any qualifications and training that would be of benefit. speak with positivity and a desire to work for this organisation because you admire the product or service etc. be truthful, lies are often quite easy to pick up on.

  • @pyroBlastM
    @pyroBlastM 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi. Anyone knows what time of font is on the CV presented here? Regards.

  • @WaqasNabi
    @WaqasNabi 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for your true guide lines.

  • @Alfoncos
    @Alfoncos 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's not their business what my interest are. Wheater I'm doing fotball or whatever it mostly doesn't care regarding the job position. Like the point is that I have a hobby that means I'm an active person and therefore well suited for the job? Everybody must be so smart and important. I wonder what are her hobbies watching TV, driking cola and eating chips?

  • @missfavoured
    @missfavoured 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Is this also applicable for US CVs?

  • @mattybones2757
    @mattybones2757 11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you this was a eye opener

  • @Vik-jc5dc
    @Vik-jc5dc 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What kind of software do I need to use to make a good cv?

    • @AshleyKateHRdelete
      @AshleyKateHRdelete  7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Vik it is how you format the cv not necessarily the programme you use. Word would do fine, it is just making sure spelling, punctuation and the format is neat and tidy with the appropriate paragraphs, wording, bullet points etc. Follow this video and give it a go in word.

    • @BeatsByClover
      @BeatsByClover 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      microsoft word

  • @nishachowdhury7535
    @nishachowdhury7535 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    thanks but the personal profile bit doesnt really make sense because people would want to know a little about yourself so i dont agree with her saying dont write a personal profile

  • @BASSLINE_BIBBY
    @BASSLINE_BIBBY 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    i have no experience in work how much will this effect the chances of me getting a job?

    • @kokaneepsycho8471
      @kokaneepsycho8471 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      i hv got that problem

    • @yaya_n1981
      @yaya_n1981 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      To solve that issue you could do some work experience. Pretty much any company would love a volunteer. You don't get paid but you offer your helping hands to a company and gain important skills and a reference in the process.
      A tip: I would try to get work experience for a place that is similar to the type of job that I would want to get paid for. So that I develop the skills I meed for the job I want :)

  • @fionagregory6647
    @fionagregory6647 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am the best person to detect mistakes.

  • @LogiSpecloli
    @LogiSpecloli 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Do charity work or find a club so you can wright you can work in a team?

  • @TimothyMoananu
    @TimothyMoananu 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is very helpful. Thank you very much.

  • @ASAPgem
    @ASAPgem 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much for posting this, was very helpful

  • @TheJaimeGamingShow
    @TheJaimeGamingShow 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Excellent info, thanks.

  • @frofficial4436
    @frofficial4436 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    You didn’t mention anything about ATC tracking systems and how to pass the testing software.. A Cv is only good if it passes the ATS otherwise the document is useless.

  • @MrMrbeanscar
    @MrMrbeanscar 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    dude im always getting rejected just because i got D in english..was 3 marks of C
    ;'(

  • @kitty9375
    @kitty9375 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can someone please tell me what she said at 3:10 to 3:18? please

  • @Judgey19XX
    @Judgey19XX 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    What if my only hobby is mad vape tricks and that?

  • @B1_66ER
    @B1_66ER 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you very much @AshleyKateHR

  • @dazzagong
    @dazzagong 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very useful, Jenny. Thank you.

  • @anthonysandoval965
    @anthonysandoval965 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    hope this isn't a stupid question ❓ what's a c.v????

    • @thegurutalks
      @thegurutalks 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      C.V stands for "Curriculum Vitae"...

  • @kamalahmedhurre8330
    @kamalahmedhurre8330 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please dear tutor could you send me an academic CV of any to be a reference for me???

  • @josesecavunisautu6722
    @josesecavunisautu6722 11 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you very much.....happy new year....

  • @lindaaneline3011
    @lindaaneline3011 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    LOL, IM IN SOUTH AFRICA, AND IS GOING TO USE THIS TO FIND A JOB, ITS SHORT AND PROFESSIONAL, IM ALMOST 40.

  • @lucianasilva7947
    @lucianasilva7947 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    nao consigo visualizar o video.. :(

  • @Baz87100
    @Baz87100 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Interests and hobbits!!

    • @Almo3tamd
      @Almo3tamd 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah I just saw it myself and I was going to write the same comment so I guess it is obvious now, shall I continue to watch this?

  • @LADYVIKING05
    @LADYVIKING05 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys.... What's a cv?

    • @LADYVIKING05
      @LADYVIKING05 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for replying. Wow! I've never heard of a cv.

    • @343GuiltyMoo
      @343GuiltyMoo 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      ***** NZ as well, but yeah resumé most other places.

    • @PapaZeus.
      @PapaZeus. 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Feisty_Azz_Feline 05 Wait,Wait,Wait. You're telling me you don't know what a CV is I hope you're younger than 10 cause i knew what a freaking CV was when i was 8.

    • @LADYVIKING05
      @LADYVIKING05 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Gamer GabeHD WHO GIVES A DAMN HOW OLD U WERE WHEN U KNEW. I DID NOT KNOW SO I ASKED. GO TAKE YOUR RUDE ASS REMARK ELSEWHERE!

    • @uegk-zb9xp
      @uegk-zb9xp 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Feisty_Azz_Feline 05 Feisty!

  • @CesarSantosLopezYolo
    @CesarSantosLopezYolo 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    am i the only one who see many pointless statements?

  • @CeynteShow
    @CeynteShow 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing Tips

  • @toniderrick2781
    @toniderrick2781 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    i havent achieved anything, im 16 almost 17 and has never had a job before so wtf do i write aghhh

  • @mufferrs
    @mufferrs 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Well written CV's doesn't help. They go by the way you look that counts in other words if they don't like your face you don't get the job

  • @hbhell
    @hbhell 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    whats the reason for that?

  • @abdullah6z
    @abdullah6z 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    can help me please for writing my cv ?

  • @KhuldonAlsonaine
    @KhuldonAlsonaine 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    nationality is so important in Arabian countries

  • @Jazzyjace007
    @Jazzyjace007 10 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Is this CV for Gandalf? Lol!

  • @abdulfatayusuf9536
    @abdulfatayusuf9536 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really helpful. Thank you!

  • @MRDanial
    @MRDanial 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    The video for CV Preparation ever!

  • @njkatakiya8227
    @njkatakiya8227 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to tailor cv Plesas help me

  • @BashmentCrew1
    @BashmentCrew1 10 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good video and very clear.

  • @KaneCameronn
    @KaneCameronn 12 ปีที่แล้ว

    writing my girlfriends CV and I nicked the personal profile bit of the video lol

  • @jordanryder1920
    @jordanryder1920 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you this video is very helpful

  • @fatimacamara5442
    @fatimacamara5442 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I know now how to write a good cv in my life

  • @touchoffairy9975
    @touchoffairy9975 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One employer asked me about age and why divorced