I have a fear of being deprived of my autonomy. I can’t stand being told what to do! This manifests as power struggles with supposed ‘authority’ figures, particularly at work. Basically I just need people to leave me alone.
@franseezel yes..I had university degree,over 40 jobs and loved them all, but I have uranus and pluto on my virgo midheaven and like to perfect other's processes..drove bosses 🤪 I work best solo
Yep - it’s getting harder and harder to feel free ….. from everything from punitive 20mph speed limits, to being micromanaged online, to having overly hypersensitive lack of freedom of speech - we genuine are all puppets now being 24-7 controlled
This was illuminating ... I have identified for this year that I want to address "healthy loving relationships" as I recognise that my current life, and history has been fraught with unhealthy bonds. I have chosen to be single for the past fifteen years or so, recognising I am generally much more content and happy single. Yet, I notice that a type of person has ended up in my life in several guises, just not romantically. (A close friend, partner of a relative, and my employer.) So I guess the lesson has to be learned whether I want to or not! I'm sitting with the question of what they are all telling me, as a mirror ... so I can hopefully heal and actually move on to experience healthy (loving) relationships (not necessarily romantic). I learned some time ago that love is not always healthy. In fact, I've recently read up on what I thought were "intense, passionate mutual attractions" that felt like short-lived 'true love' experiences ... are actually trauma informed bonds. Of course they were. Still, there were some fun and exciting times in amongst the mess.
My Mars is in Aquarius and Venus in Aires. Working on the shadow of Mars has helped me find a place in community and learning how to inspire others. Working on my Venus shadow has been about seeing my on worth and taking care of myself.
Libra Sun and Venus in 12th, Mars in Leo in 11th. A shepherd and a leader ( who has put everyone else first her entire life) - both shepherd and leader not wanting to be seen. Taurus North node in 7th. It's been HARD. Lots of shadow work. Learning to trust myself, surrender to belonging to myself first. Cultivating a deep and powerful relationship with with the divine. Seeing people as they are, not as I romanticize them to be. Had to adopt 'if it comes to choosing between you and me - I'm choosing me and my relationship with the divine'.
Thankyou Simon for explaining the dynamic and growth from Venus & Mars areas of life. if venus&mars are conjunct in one's natal chart, does this make these shadows stronger to identify & recognise ? as the enmeshed conjunct energies are muddled / tricky to see?
Thank you so much for this, Simon. It resonated in the core of my being and is themes that I am working on at the moment. I think my chart is about love and accept myself and learning to trust people and not get overly attatched and go for the second best relationship. Which have been a theme in my life.😮
My venus is in virgo is in a balsamic phase conjunct the south node 10th house. The awareness of these patterns came out during my saturn return. It was so painful but needed. I'm glad you are talking about it, I feel like it's not talked about enough. ❤
I lost myself in people and thus lost my faith in them. My Venus, Mars, Uranus and Jupiter are ♒ 8th house. Pluto and Saturn are showing me I can't keep doing this devotional all consuming and destructive patterns. It's been very emotional and unreal psychologically.
Good one, Simon. Plenty to think about. What do I do if I have Mars, Venus and the Moon in 12th? Rulers of 1st, 4th, 5th, 10th and 11th. It is what it is, is it not? A life alone, essentially (?)
Many years back i was told by an astrologer that a mans mars sign is his wife..?I spent 17 years with 2 men who had mars in libra,zero mars in my chart except black moon lilith, but these partners were very patient,fair and tamed my leo mars shadow❤
"Prior" Patterns: blind to all of the red flags, unable to express boundaries or needs, oversharing, enmeshment, resentment, fantasy & codependency...pretty much everything you mentioned.....😓 BTW I hope you you'll include the Natal Mars/Venus square in your Masterclass🤞
Thank you, interesting. I completely had the Venus shadows. And My natal venus receives 2 squares and My natal mars has good aspects, only trine and sextil. Good that i was already working on the shadows for many years. But this video helped me recognize the chart place of the shadows.
I have a fear of being deprived of my autonomy. I can’t stand being told what to do! This manifests as power struggles with supposed ‘authority’ figures, particularly at work. Basically I just need people to leave me alone.
😂❤I have uranus on my midheaven and I must work solo..mars in leo and drove bosses crazy😂I did it my way
That sounds familiar, with Uranus in the 10 H in Leo in my natal chart.
@franseezel yes..I had university degree,over 40 jobs and loved them all, but I have uranus and pluto on my virgo midheaven and like to perfect other's processes..drove bosses 🤪 I work best solo
Yep - it’s getting harder and harder to feel free ….. from everything from punitive 20mph speed limits, to being micromanaged online, to having overly hypersensitive lack of freedom of speech - we genuine are all puppets now being 24-7 controlled
This was illuminating ... I have identified for this year that I want to address "healthy loving relationships" as I recognise that my current life, and history has been fraught with unhealthy bonds. I have chosen to be single for the past fifteen years or so, recognising I am generally much more content and happy single. Yet, I notice that a type of person has ended up in my life in several guises, just not romantically. (A close friend, partner of a relative, and my employer.) So I guess the lesson has to be learned whether I want to or not! I'm sitting with the question of what they are all telling me, as a mirror ... so I can hopefully heal and actually move on to experience healthy (loving) relationships (not necessarily romantic). I learned some time ago that love is not always healthy. In fact, I've recently read up on what I thought were "intense, passionate mutual attractions" that felt like short-lived 'true love' experiences ... are actually trauma informed bonds. Of course they were. Still, there were some fun and exciting times in amongst the mess.
Awesome take into the dynamic interplay between the inferior & superior imbalances that occur in our Drive & value system
My Mars is in Aquarius and Venus in Aires. Working on the shadow of Mars has helped me find a place in community and learning how to inspire others. Working on my Venus shadow has been about seeing my on worth and taking care of myself.
Talking my language here!! Brilliant share! It’s fascinating isn’t it?! 👏
Libra Sun and Venus in 12th, Mars in Leo in 11th.
A shepherd and a leader ( who has put everyone else first her entire life) - both shepherd and leader not wanting to be seen.
Taurus North node in 7th.
It's been HARD. Lots of shadow work. Learning to trust myself, surrender to belonging to myself first. Cultivating a deep and powerful relationship with with the divine. Seeing people as they are, not as I romanticize them to be.
Had to adopt 'if it comes to choosing between you and me - I'm choosing me and my relationship with the divine'.
Thankyou Simon for explaining the dynamic and growth from Venus & Mars areas of life.
if venus&mars are conjunct in one's natal chart, does this make these shadows stronger to identify & recognise ?
as the enmeshed conjunct energies are muddled / tricky to see?
Thank you so much for this, Simon. It resonated in the core of my being and is themes that I am working on at the moment. I think my chart is about love and accept myself and learning to trust people and not get overly attatched and go for the second best relationship. Which have been a theme in my life.😮
Thanks Simon,
Wow ,Brilliant 😊
My venus is in virgo is in a balsamic phase conjunct the south node 10th house. The awareness of these patterns came out during my saturn return. It was so painful but needed. I'm glad you are talking about it, I feel like it's not talked about enough. ❤
The workshop sounds amazing. Thank you. I have mars/venus conj in the first house Pisces rising
Thank you Simon with the crazy hair!🤣
Thank you for this... 🙏 Helpful. 🙏
Extremely very helpful😮eyes wide open..thank you❤
Brilliant! Thank you. ❣
Sooo on point !!! THANK YOU !!
I lost myself in people and thus lost my faith in them. My Venus, Mars, Uranus and Jupiter are ♒ 8th house. Pluto and Saturn are showing me I can't keep doing this devotional all consuming and destructive patterns. It's been very emotional and unreal psychologically.
Good one, Simon. Plenty to think about. What do I do if I have Mars, Venus and the Moon in 12th? Rulers of 1st, 4th, 5th, 10th and 11th. It is what it is, is it not? A life alone, essentially (?)
Many years back i was told by an astrologer that a mans mars sign is his wife..?I spent 17 years with 2 men who had mars in libra,zero mars in my chart except black moon lilith, but these partners were very patient,fair and tamed my leo mars shadow❤
Very interesting. Understanding so much more
Thank u!
Outstanding message ❤
"Prior" Patterns: blind to all of the red flags, unable to express boundaries or needs, oversharing, enmeshment, resentment, fantasy & codependency...pretty much everything you mentioned.....😓
BTW I hope you you'll include the Natal Mars/Venus square in your Masterclass🤞
Thank you, interesting. I completely had the Venus shadows. And My natal venus receives 2 squares and My natal mars has good aspects, only trine and sextil. Good that i was already working on the shadows for many years. But this video helped me recognize the chart place of the shadows.
I have Venus ret 3rd sag sq mars in Aquarius 5th Virgo rising I'm bad what to be free in a relationship alot of fighting
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