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Jeff Lewis opens up about his relationship with Gage Edward

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  • Jeff tells Megan Weaver and Monika Casey about his recent separation from Gage Edward. Listen to the whole episode here: siriusxm.us/MonikaCasey
    Hear Jeff Lewis Live every Tuesday, Thursday, & Friday at 11amET/8am PT, only on Radio Andy. SiriusXM 102, and anytime on the SiriusXM app. Follow Radio Andy on Twitter/Instagram: @RadioAndySXM

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  • @savetheklavan3558
    @savetheklavan3558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    How many important people in his life need to leave him for Jeff to wake up and recognize.

    • @blognewb
      @blognewb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      20 more

    • @HotMessMemories1
      @HotMessMemories1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      blognewb yes! Even the help, the cable guy, and his brow technician.

    • @AnaLiMFT
      @AnaLiMFT 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      ShadyBear ChowChow he won’t

    • @readingteacher1168
      @readingteacher1168 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He needs therapy -- now that would be a show.

    • @iluvhou
      @iluvhou 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@readingteacher1168 he talks about the fact that he is in therapy. And he admits his mistakes- did you even listen before your commented?

  • @kittygurl6021
    @kittygurl6021 5 ปีที่แล้ว +157

    Jeff can only be in a relationship with himself. Gage was a good dad to the baby.

    • @eastender6846
      @eastender6846 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My only guess is it showed that Jeff is the DNA father - which is why he kept her.

    • @kashking2276
      @kashking2276 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Umm Gage cheated with a younger guy… only whores and bad parents cheat

  • @lc11214
    @lc11214 5 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I knew that relationship was doomed. Jeff treated Gage like a doormat. I felt bad for Gage every time they fought on the show. You can take so much verbal abuse before you call it quit.

  • @TheTcar575875
    @TheTcar575875 5 ปีที่แล้ว +193

    This man pushes everyone away. He must realize...the issue is him.

    • @chronic_payne5669
      @chronic_payne5669 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He'll do everything imaginable to remain in denial to avoid taking any responsibility for his actions.

    • @vanessasouthward9787
      @vanessasouthward9787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Leave him alone and You too need therapy

    • @TheTcar575875
      @TheTcar575875 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm so confused. Too or two ..oh, it doesn't matter.

    • @90sflimlover
      @90sflimlover 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      So agree. It's sad how he did Jenni and so many people. I feel he wasted Gage time.

    • @chadm812
      @chadm812 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      According to this interview he’s totally patting himself on the back and seeking validation. “good job me” and of course there’s anger.. gage is the only one who sees all of this for what it is.

  • @ginadugas5442
    @ginadugas5442 5 ปีที่แล้ว +153

    I hate hearing the cheerleaders in the background. No matter what Jeff says "oh good for you. Yes. Right."

    • @AnaLiMFT
      @AnaLiMFT 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Enablers

    • @readingteacher1168
      @readingteacher1168 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      That's his problem.. People at BRAVO kissing his ass because he brings in the money.

    • @MattTube
      @MattTube 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Agree

    • @bettywith2girls
      @bettywith2girls 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They are all his friends...because of the circumstances, I really do feel BRAVO should not renew "Flipping Out". I know he wants the money (who wouldn't?) but he'll be fine and I think it would be for the best. He can get another show, on another channel, that doesn't include his personal life.

    • @pianoman551000
      @pianoman551000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      they're being paid to be his "cheerleaders." What a disgusting way to make a living!!!

  • @dana8911
    @dana8911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I am glad that Gage moved out. Jeff is horrendously abusive and I always worried about Gage's mental health.

    • @MyRealitywithNicole
      @MyRealitywithNicole 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I think Gage played mind games as well. Look at how he'd make those backhand remarks to Zola. I had dated someone similar to Gage in the past. That shit eating grin that he always gave when he was amused by someone else's pain. Or he'd get Jeff riled up then sit back with that passive aggressive grin. Gage is no innocent in this. The only one that is innocent is Monroe.

    • @dana8911
      @dana8911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@MyRealitywithNicole Huge difference between being sarcastic and being a verbal abuser. Gage did not bully and abuse Jeff. Jeff bullied and abused Gage. Again, Jeff has run off everyone important in his life.

    • @MyRealitywithNicole
      @MyRealitywithNicole 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@dana8911 Again Gage is not innocent. Mind games/psychological abuse is a form of abuse itself, which Gage seemed to love. Gage would also say things to trigger Jeff. There were times Gage would make comments to Jeff regarding another employee to set Jeff off on that employee. Gage loved that attention, I also believe he really was in this for the TV attention. It's funny that the cameras are gone, Gage is gone. I also have a feeling Gage had something to do with running important people off. Yes Jeff is to blame on some of it, but it was clear Gage wanted Zola gone, he was way to amused when Jeff would go off on Jenni. We have no idea what Gage said about them behind closed doors.

    • @practicalmagic7613
      @practicalmagic7613 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      My Reality with Nicole you are 100% correct

    • @debbiemullett5410
      @debbiemullett5410 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. He is so mean to everyone.

  • @Csob2ye
    @Csob2ye 5 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    What did Jeff expect. Treating people so bad for so many years.

  • @barbaramollmann5990
    @barbaramollmann5990 5 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    Gage was the best thing that happened to you.

  • @ckimlemieux8409
    @ckimlemieux8409 5 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Nothing like trying to work on your intimacy with someone by talking about it in front of tens of thousands of people.

    • @rubentrevino5374
      @rubentrevino5374 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He thinks his life is a show and if he shares his opinion about everything it validates his perception. Not realizing we enjoy his mania and noone believes hes a whole/complete person with genuine intentions.

    • @juliecasey3283
      @juliecasey3283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Gotta CLEAR KARMA ANYWAY YOU CAN!!!

  • @davidpinckney8263
    @davidpinckney8263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    Stevie wonder could see this coming!

    • @rcasey81
      @rcasey81 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      This comment 🤣🤣🤣🤣💀⚰️

    • @theresacasareale8009
      @theresacasareale8009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I never liked Gage!!! He has some nerve wanting to stay in the guest room in a gorgeous house ! He’s been using Jeff for money & game from the start!!!

    • @LeeLee-ux8gh
      @LeeLee-ux8gh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly😂😂

    • @raineyj560
      @raineyj560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾

    • @jacindafriend3606
      @jacindafriend3606 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow lol

  • @krocker321
    @krocker321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    I feel like he can’t get out of his own way! His anger sabotages his relationships. I wish him healing and love

    • @troyp9485
      @troyp9485 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      krocker321 he’s also a classic narcissist

    • @grantnoroyan9275
      @grantnoroyan9275 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      he is a narcissist bi polar ocd obsessive compulsive freak

    • @misspipeliner208
      @misspipeliner208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too! I HATE to compare him to Tamar Braxton but they have a lot in common ya know.

  • @graybridgetipton7921
    @graybridgetipton7921 5 ปีที่แล้ว +83

    I love Gage .

  • @dana8911
    @dana8911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +128

    Please note that Jeff runs off every person in his life because of his abusive behavior. People can only take him for so long before they break from the abuse. He ran off Jenni, Zoila, Gage and a multitude of others. Jeff never learns from his mistakes.
    Jeff, a person cannot "work through the resentment" when you are sill doing the things that CAUSED the resentment. You don't understand human behavior.

    • @LEZLIE_PURPLE_PEONIES
      @LEZLIE_PURPLE_PEONIES 5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Narcsisst usually don't get it. It always every one else. Also they can't keep friends.

    • @bennyfrankderose1046
      @bennyfrankderose1046 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Karma is a bitch

    • @matthewharjo7512
      @matthewharjo7512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He's a male Tamar Braxton. They are the same person.

    • @lilsuckalint2809
      @lilsuckalint2809 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Don’t forget what he did to Jenny too. He’s funny, and I think he can be fun, but he cuts to the bone.
      Why is he so angry at everyone and everything?

    • @bennyfrankderose1046
      @bennyfrankderose1046 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lil’ Suckalint he is on his age stage of menopause

  • @pat3743
    @pat3743 5 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    It’s sad ☹️ and I really love Gage😊

  • @gatrgurlfl3980
    @gatrgurlfl3980 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    All I am hearing from Jeff is I I I he is only about Jeff. You selfish man we should be hearing about Monroe.

  • @rafafan045
    @rafafan045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    Wish you guys the best but Jeff you have a hard time keeping people around. Maybe look in the mirror and ask yourself the question am I doing something wrong or its karma!

    • @vgardner1688
      @vgardner1688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      It's always about Jeff.

    • @teresalockwood8151
      @teresalockwood8151 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I think Jeff needs 2-3 therapists!!!! He’s fricking nuts!!! He talks about all this crying, where’s the baby when he’s doing all this crying?? Jeff should stay off the air, there going to lock him up and throw away the key, he sounds like a nut job!!! Go Gage!! Get that baby out of there!! He is nuts!!!!

    • @elimontanez586
      @elimontanez586 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It was probably about keeping the younger guy in the relationship,like with cis couple's. Thinking a baby will smooth things out.

    • @rafafan045
      @rafafan045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Justin Stewart That's not cool, if with someone for a decade and have a family you shouldn't even be worried about money. I would share everything with my love/Partner.

    • @ckwarhola
      @ckwarhola 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@rafafan045 Jeff is an extremely difficult person-- esp about money

  • @katiew7757
    @katiew7757 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    God he is the worst person..... in the end he will literally have no one. Narcissist relationships are the most toxic you can have and if the narcissist is your parent you are SCREWED!!!!!

  • @latesha-kharizma
    @latesha-kharizma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Im not surprised. Im actually relieved. ...Idk it has been tension between them for years. I wish them the best and just continue to be great parents to Monroe.....The sad thing is Gage was more of a nuturing figure for the baby.

  • @pinkypilot
    @pinkypilot 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Obviously all the years of counseling has not helped one bit. Acknowledging is one thing, doing something about it is extremely difficult. Jeff's one talented designer, but that's all. He has MAJOR issues with relationships in all aspects of his life. I don't think he'll ever change.

  • @Future-zx9ts
    @Future-zx9ts 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    When someone has a problem with every person in their life, it’s easy to see that the others aren’t the problem. It’s YOU! I truly hope Jeff gets the help he deserves. He really does need it, and I hope he is able to figure out what is the root of the issue, so that he can be an effective and nurturing parent to his daughter.

  • @steelmagnolia5936
    @steelmagnolia5936 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I've been watching Flipping Out since its first season on Bravo. I'm sincerely sad that Jeff has lost so many of his most significant relationships ... his grandmother, Ryan, Gage, Jenni, Zoila, Vanina etc. I'm very glad that he's in therapy on a continual basis. Otherwise, Iveould say he's due for a breakdown. I think it might be good for him to consider an extended, voluntary inpatient stay at a treatment center. I say that with the utmost respect.

    • @LizInTheB
      @LizInTheB 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      His grandmother died, and he is friends with Ryan, Zoila and Vanina.

  • @joanneg2825
    @joanneg2825 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Good for gage

  • @vwgirl
    @vwgirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Jeff loves one person, Jeff. He treated Gage like shit and treated him like a employee not a mate. And that poor baby. HE wanted that kid and basically treats her as a prop. He uses her for attention but doesn't really put any effort. Gage and the nanny have been raising her not Jeff. He treats her like his pets, someone else's responsibility.

    • @dic2504
      @dic2504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow lot's of judgement here. I don't agree with your view at all. We don't know what actually went on.

    • @vwgirl
      @vwgirl 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@dic2504 Have you watched the show ever? Look how he treated Jenni, Zolia, his last ex at the beginning of the shows run. How many employees has he had? They don't always get fired they quit and why? Jeff. Its not being a bitch its seeing someone's behaviour and calling them on it.

    • @eaj7319
      @eaj7319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      VW Girl Jenni wanted her job back so.... she's no angel. The thirst!

    • @dic2504
      @dic2504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes have watched every show and agree with Jeff's frustrations about former employees. Each one should have been let go. Jenni was no angel. She even stated she was embarrassed to continue working for Jeff rather than be an actress. In the past remember she used some of Jeff's clients for personal favors. It was past Jenni's time to move on.
      @@vwgirl

    • @thedriza297
      @thedriza297 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@vwgirl sounds like you need a good pumpin.

  • @Truecrimequeen68
    @Truecrimequeen68 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Jeff, you shouldn't bad mouth Gage....invite him on your show so he can defend himself.

  • @gracemccarter6469
    @gracemccarter6469 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Omg gutted,loved Gage

  • @hudsonoliver5437
    @hudsonoliver5437 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Whilst I like Jeff, he is utterly intolerable...so I am not surprised Gage left. It's always about him and it will never change.

    • @TheSadie58
      @TheSadie58 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can't teach an old dog new tricks!

  • @wendyknoxleet
    @wendyknoxleet 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are changing so much in your life. Mature, kind and loving. Wisdom. I hope Gage finds his way back to you. You have weathered a storm of epic proportions and I believe found wisdom. Everyone is difficult to live with sometimes. Do not listen to the negatives from outside. You are a huge personality and a gifted genius, jealousy breeds negativity. Sending love

    • @nj-1008
      @nj-1008 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh please

  • @gruntnick
    @gruntnick 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It’s your own damn fault! You drive everyone away. It’s all about YOU!

  • @ChristinaFromFlint
    @ChristinaFromFlint 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    If you can fix it, fix it. If not, make a clean break romantically so that you can co-parent Monroe *in a healthy way because it's all about HER, not you and Gage.* Best of luck, Jeff.

    • @pirigonzalez5329
      @pirigonzalez5329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      All the marriages that stay together for the sake of the children eventually wind up hating each other and making more harm to the baby. Share custody. I really wouldn't trust the baby with Jeff.

  • @misscamino9295
    @misscamino9295 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You know exactly who you are...God, right Jeff?
    Do you have ANY IDEA how many of your sentences begin WITH THE WORD 'I'? You are blessed, not granted, blessed by so many truely good, wonderful, dedicated, loyal people, and one by one you throw them away. You cherish something that is empty inside, without substance or a solid foundation - yourself. Quit yourself, be quiet and still before it's too late.

  • @sunnydae8521
    @sunnydae8521 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    Jeff when are you going to realize you are the common denominator in all of the fractured relationships surrounding you....you treat people terribly and then you rationalize it ....now that you have a child this will affect her too.....you need to grow up and take a hard look at who you are..

    • @readingteacher1168
      @readingteacher1168 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      He will NEVER realize, He is a lost individual

  • @patsyaebischer8251
    @patsyaebischer8251 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I am so very sorry to hear this! I hope they can work this out! The baby is the one that is gonna suffer the most! Jeff and Gage please try to work it out! Love you guys!

    • @youtubecommentpolice2043
      @youtubecommentpolice2043 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Patsy Aebischer why will the kid suffer. She's young enough to adapt if they act like adults and do what's best for her. stay for a kid is shallow and inaccurate. STAYING would be unhealthy

  • @joanieanderson1162
    @joanieanderson1162 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So sorry to hear about your separation. Focus on your work and your daughter. She gives you such joy. She will give you strength.

  • @LeighAnnWagor
    @LeighAnnWagor 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Gage deserves better!!!

  • @danniedandelion8232
    @danniedandelion8232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Aww man. That’s so sad. Sorry Jeff, sorry Gage, most sorry for Monroe 💙

  • @bdavis8397
    @bdavis8397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Jeff needs to work on relationships as hard as he does on properties.

  • @paulabradley5862
    @paulabradley5862 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jeff is great and strong and very focused. I'm sure he will meet someone else soon.

  • @esthercastaneda-wilson285
    @esthercastaneda-wilson285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Omg! All these ppl agree w Jeff! Come on! Gage was ALWAYS there for him and still stood by him even when Jeff went off on Gage like he did everyone else. He had no respect for Gage at all. Gage probably just couldn’t take it anymore.

  • @eddiefniii
    @eddiefniii 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jeff put GAGE in THERAPY Not everyone needs THERAPY!!!! And the ladies interviewing him sound like bullies!!! Gage is way better off. Jeff will never find anyone with his personality ...Heck he doesn't even like himself! Good luck

  • @dana8911
    @dana8911 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Run, Gage, run!!

    • @TheSadie58
      @TheSadie58 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And don't look back!

  • @lorihopkins1246
    @lorihopkins1246 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I hate the way Jeff KEEPS getting interrupted!! For the love of Pete, let him finish a freaking sentence!

  • @relaxboomer8135
    @relaxboomer8135 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Such an ego.. acts like it’s no big deal and he’s not effected at all .. reality is everyone’s leaving him!

  • @MyJOSELU
    @MyJOSELU 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Jeff , I lost my mother at age 13 to cancer. I was next to her when she passed. It was so hard for me to let go but the pain still remained and the anger as to why she died. I hated God for doing this to me. My whole life was dealing with anger and pushing the people I love aside and many times I stopped talking to them. I would embrace anger because I thought by doing that no one would hurt me. So I would hurt people. I seeked therapy too and it helped. Well not completely. I can relate what you are going through Jeff. Im sarcastic too I raise my voice just like you. So many thinks we have in common. I have a boyfriend that has been by my side for 12 years and someone that loves and supports me. He walks away when he knows I’m pissed because he knows I’m going to be rude and saying things to hurt him. Oh, he is 11 years younger than me. Age doesn’t matter ! I know he loves you Why has he been with you for so many years ? Because he knows you are hurting and wants to nourish you. By nourishing I mean , be there for you in good times and bad times. Don’t let him go. He is right for you. But at the end it’s your decision. Hope you guys can work things out. Love.

  • @ninabirdsong9910
    @ninabirdsong9910 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Jeff is crazy... he can't get along with nobody, he's the common denominator in all of his relationships...

    • @LeeLee-ux8gh
      @LeeLee-ux8gh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Jeff, dictated the relationship and treated Gage like shit.

    • @danieldulivero
      @danieldulivero 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He’s Aries, after all.

  • @cherylsinks8383
    @cherylsinks8383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm surprised Gage lasted as long as he did. Zoila is gone, jennie is gone, now Gage

  • @rcasey81
    @rcasey81 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This made me very sad. Their little daughter will have to grow up with split households and that can stink a lot of the time. I hope they can just continue to show her amazing amounts of love.

  • @brendadenkeli4526
    @brendadenkeli4526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    You do these podcasts for sympathy and it doesn’t work for me.

  • @garyinpalmsprings
    @garyinpalmsprings 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have no idea WHY such personal details need to be expressed in public here.

  • @JeffreySelbst
    @JeffreySelbst 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Gage won't be back.

  • @nj-1008
    @nj-1008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Gage had zero personality, at least from what I could see on the show. It seemed as if he was just going along for the ride. He sold his soul hanging with Jeff for so long on that gravy train. I hope he has the talent and skill to work on his own but, I don't feel sorry for either of them. I thought they were both vapid and cruel towards people in their lives, espcecially the help.

    • @HeavenlyHund
      @HeavenlyHund 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You're right they actually kind of did treat the staff and other people this way both of them, Jeff to a greater extent. It's sad when they have reality TV and the reality it's not very nice. The worst part is they picked a baby to grow up with that dysfunction and that a surrogate birthed a baby just for that situation.

    • @mintlatte9934
      @mintlatte9934 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      J Whelan right it’s called narcissistic discard. Gage was fine watching Jeff treat others badly even joining in and laughing at times. Now it’s his turn.

    • @justdog5506
      @justdog5506 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I always thought Gage was with Jeff for the money.

    • @bettywith2girls
      @bettywith2girls 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I think you are being a little tough on Gage. So what if he didn't escalate the situation by saying something to stop Jeff when Jeff was doing his usual anger management thing...I have been with guys who are alpha and sometimes it's better and easier to talk to them later, when they are calmed down and work on them that way. Sometimes, frankly, you just have to protect yourself and any kids you have. The only time I saw Gage smile or laugh is when he knew Jeff was joking and good-naturally (hopefully) kidding his staff. Jeff likes to be in charge, and just because you didn't see Gage say something (although he did, to others, on camera), doesn't mean there weren't discussions off-camera. I don't feel sorry for Jeff, but I do for Gage. He thought he could make it work with a difficult guy but it was just too hard...yes, maybe Gage did stay for the money (we all gotta survive) and later, for the child. It's not a good situation, and not a surprise with Gage leaving. I've said this before...I hope Bravo does not renew "Flipping Out"...it's just a mess how it ended up.

    • @anitsazubovichdoesntlivehe4912
      @anitsazubovichdoesntlivehe4912 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      J Whelan Maybe he was afraid to say do anything around Jeff.

  • @asmralbumlyrics8996
    @asmralbumlyrics8996 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I feel like Gage broke his heart and it’s easy to make Jeff the bad guy. But I’ve known Gage’s in my life and they absolutely torture you in a silent, meticulous way until you’re so miserable and alone and then they make their final move and leave. There is literally nothing worse than a passive aggressive, quiet, seething human who’s never been to therapy. ✌🏼

    • @evelynsantos7561
      @evelynsantos7561 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      What therapy have you done? In other words, why would you say therapy? Unless you know Jeff personally. cmon now.

  • @Owen2256
    @Owen2256 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The whole plot of his BRAVO show was furious Queen has temper tantrum du jour -who will she lash out at tonight? What passes for friendship is pathetic really sad. Jeff may have been in therapy since he is 14,but if this is the result he has been swindled. NO ONE acts like this in real life.

    • @nj-1008
      @nj-1008 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Malignant narcissism cannot ever be cured, no matter how much therapy. It's a sad fact.

  • @JohnHolt1111
    @JohnHolt1111 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Poor Poor Jeff. Will he never find someone with absolutely no self-worth who can put up with his constant verbal, mental and emotional abuse? I have no idea where these people come from that demand the slightest bit of respect in a relationship...Jeff, I pray you find that brain-damaged door mat that will validate the god-like immortal that you believe yourself to be.

  • @karena5230
    @karena5230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Jeff knows good and well that Gage did more for Monroe than he ever did! It was as if Gage was the nanny that allowed Jeff to be a successful as he is especially with a baby in tow. Now that Gage is gone Jeff will really have to be a daddy to Monroe and take over where Gage left off.

  • @vgardner1688
    @vgardner1688 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Wow no one saw this coming said no one ever.

    • @suzyukla
      @suzyukla 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Valerie Gardner lmao are you joking? The poor guy was miserable with Jeff

    • @sweetpeace5
      @sweetpeace5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Susan Marie You need to re-read her comment (and recognize sarcasm.)

  • @ammaopoku5397
    @ammaopoku5397 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gage was a wonderful laid back person. Jeff is the one who needs therapy... he really does. It cannot be everyone and not him... He needs to take responsibility and fight for the relationship...tell him that you love him, that you need him and that you want Gage to stay and be a family.

  • @Misskittycatcat
    @Misskittycatcat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hope “he” see clarity???? Over the top narcissism Jeff.
    No hope here!

  • @eastender6846
    @eastender6846 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Jeff can't even hold down friendships. I have no idea what he's doing with the child - he's going to ruin her big time. And who are these hosts who are being enablers. Shame on them.

    • @hopenoneya8161
      @hopenoneya8161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Enablers, I'd call them ass kissers. They aren't even going to say anything negative to Jeff for fear that he goes off, and says exactly what he referenced here about people how they can just "fuck off". The man is incapable of have deep feelings for anyone, just hope his daughter comes out of this unscathed.

    • @alexperkins8433
      @alexperkins8433 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hopenoneya8161 i hear you....impossible....she has a rough road that kid

  • @70sfan64
    @70sfan64 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He treats everyone around him like human garbage. Doesn't surprise me one bit.

  • @Misscollage
    @Misscollage 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The thing that frustrates me the most is that if this was “a long time coming”- why have a baby???!!!!!!! They should’ve figured out their relationship before pursuing the child route, since there’s no rush. It could have easily been put off. People who split up within 2 years of having a child- clearly these were very unstable relationships before there was a child.

  • @mvk72
    @mvk72 5 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    WTF Jeff has the baby?? He is so not a father. Gage always took care of her and did everything with her. I'm disappointed in gage

    • @raineyj560
      @raineyj560 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I bet $$$$ had a lot to do with it.

    • @esthercastaneda-wilson285
      @esthercastaneda-wilson285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      M K plus I’m sure Jeff wasn’t going to let him take her that easily!!! Gage always wanted a baby. I really doubt he wanted to leave her at all probably why he wanted to stay in the guest room. No, there is more to that part of the story

    • @brendadenkeli4526
      @brendadenkeli4526 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Don’t be disappointed in Gage, look at Jeff’s behavior.

    • @Kmmchi
      @Kmmchi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Jeff is Monroe’s biological father so it makes sense that he has the baby

    • @adrichats
      @adrichats 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Tiger Cub yeah but if gage did a legal adoption (which is typical) then he of course has rights :) we don’t know the details and either way as long as that baby is happy and taken care of that’s what matters

  • @sandismith2480
    @sandismith2480 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That writing was on the wall a long time ago. Gage was never treated as an equal and Jeff was always demeaning him. Gage lasted way longer than I would have. Jeff will be alone until he changes drastically.

  • @deadliza2034
    @deadliza2034 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Testosterone - You - ?? Well we'll just be anticipating the impending murder charge!

    • @jodieduffee7691
      @jodieduffee7691 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      james berczynski 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @mcromero72
    @mcromero72 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    This is so sad!!

  • @panamarubia1283
    @panamarubia1283 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Oh gosh, I’m so freakin heart broken to hear this. Definitely not what I wanted to EVER see happen.

  • @glendaggreen
    @glendaggreen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We only see what they want us to see. They always make Jeff look like the bad guy. I love Jeff!!

  • @jennifersavitch5122
    @jennifersavitch5122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wish he wouldn’t have brought a child into the relationship.

  • @fakiola9184
    @fakiola9184 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This really made me so sad I was rooting for them to make it. Gage is such a lovely man he is the opposite of Jeff in every way possible & he helped ground & balance him out. As cliche as it sounds Gage made Jeff a nicer person. When they had Monroe the first 6 months were tough for them.Jeff hadn't anticipated the disruption & hard work that comes with a new born. Gage stepped up & took on the majority of the child care. Once Monroe turned 18-24 months Jeff became more engaged but for Gage it was too little too late. It doesn't matter what the circumstances are if you're the one doing more physically, emotionally or financially resentment sets in super fast then it festers & grows even quicker. If one of you is consumed with work & the other holds everything in & doesn't communicate how they're feeling or thinking it becomes impossible & toxic. I hope with a little time, distance & work on themselves they can come back together happier & stronger as a couple. I wish Gage had took over temporary custody of Monroe with Jeff having regular access & over nights of course, because if Jeff was honest with himself he hasn't the time or the emotions to take care of Monroe himself it will be a nanny when she could of had more one on one time with Gage at a very confusing time in her life. I don't imagine that all of the fighting, commotion & upheaval with Jenny last year helped their situation. The business that Jeff runs dealing with risks involving millions of dollars every day is a great deal of stress alone. And they don't call January the break up month for nothing! When your relationship isn't in a great place during the festivities the slightest thing about your other half annoys year. Last year wasn't a good year for them all round but maybe this time next year things will be all change in a positive way. Try & remain amicable though guys for Monroe if nothing else. You had 8 fantastic years together & one not so great but given your lifestyles I'd say that's pretty good going. Sending love to you all at a trying time 😘😘😘

    • @practicalmagic7613
      @practicalmagic7613 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      No clue what show you are watching

    • @Angela-oi1jy
      @Angela-oi1jy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Jeff does not deserve Gage! or anyone else. Looks what he does to Jenni , Zoila etc . He uses them and spits them out. Do not think they should be together at all . Glad that Gage and Jenni is free to live the best life. Jeff will not change, he is what he is !

    • @bettywith2girls
      @bettywith2girls 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are right...but I don't agree that Gage and Jeff should get back together. Gage is a great guy and was very good for Jeff, but hasn't Gage suffered enough? I think so, and I hope you are right that Gage gets primary custody and Jeff can have "regular access & over nights" (all of which with a nanny there, of course)...but I'm afraid that Jeff's ego won't let the best interests of the child to prevail. Hopefully, they can convince Jeff that "to free him up to run his business", to do the arrangement you indicated.

  • @purselmer5931
    @purselmer5931 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So many comments about Jeff "pushing people away" and everyone "leaving Jeff" etc. His problem is that he hires everyone he's close to, and/or becomes too close to those he hires. Every one of his personal relationships seem to involve him HIRING them. Then he feels used, or taken advantage of when they don't do the work he thinks they can bring to the table. Keep your professional and personal lives separate. The show would still work!

  • @jaymelko9818
    @jaymelko9818 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Jeff is the problem with every relationship something wrong with him

  • @mojoniro8328
    @mojoniro8328 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope you guys get back together. Love you too together. I just hope he gets the counseling he needs and sees things clearer. Good luck to you Jeff Lewis, I think your incredible. 😘🤗❤️

  • @maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083
    @maryelaine-blinstrubchambe6083 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jeff, I’m crossing fingers & toes & prayers that your whole family gets back together again. I have had you in my prayers ever since i heard your Grandmother died. She was a special lady.

    • @nj-1008
      @nj-1008 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Don't waste your prayers on Jeff. His grandma was a cranky, mean person too. Quit idolizing celebrities. There are a lot of poor kids, hungry kids, abused kids, kids in war zones and kids being taken from their parents at the border that are much more deserving of your sympathies. Get real.

  • @redbird14able
    @redbird14able 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m in support of you Jeff, and I love your show.

  • @sharoncooper5110
    @sharoncooper5110 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sad but for the best you will be happy in the future bc of this❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @adamben-shimon7513
    @adamben-shimon7513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The lack of respect on Jeff’s part caused the destruction of their relationship. You would think that Jeff would open his eyes and see that he is the problem. Jeff is an asshole to everyone around him.

  • @jenniferlove4791
    @jenniferlove4791 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW....wish Gage had a podcast to give his perspective

  • @spokezman
    @spokezman 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Jweezy ! Love ur show !

  • @francesquinn2003
    @francesquinn2003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wishing Jeff and Gage the best. Relationships are always tricky no matter the situation. And no one really knows or understands what’s going on between a couple.

  • @fabiolagutierrez1616
    @fabiolagutierrez1616 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish you BOTH the BEST!

  • @rhymeandreasoning
    @rhymeandreasoning 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Jeff. Jeff. Jeff. I find you amusing. But dude. You are the problem.

  • @MP-yz6sb
    @MP-yz6sb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow I really feel sorry for Gage. He has put up with so much over the years. If he’s as angry as Jeff says he is then who can blame the guy???
    And I don’t know that I’d be saying I’ve been in therapy since I was 14 and still have as short of a fuse as Jeff does. People go into therapy to help with that. I can’t imagine what he’d be like without all these years of therapy 😳😮.

  • @wendyeskelin8765
    @wendyeskelin8765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Obviously plenty of us are listening, but I feel bad for Gage that you are sharing too much information. No one needs to have access to this kind of information. So unless Gage is on talking about it too, I think the public outing is too much.

  • @innerlight10
    @innerlight10 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I wish you both the best and all the happiness, maybe time is needed to calm down , space and to think through

  • @pete123434
    @pete123434 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Jeff, I loved your show, but really you do run everyone off. Get a grip and take a look at yourself!

  • @foxymama4321
    @foxymama4321 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    he sabotages all relationships with people so sad treating people like dogs

  • @SamStarbucker
    @SamStarbucker 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love how people give advice like they asked. Not knowing that reality tv only shows one side of a person.

  • @EHCBunny4real
    @EHCBunny4real 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gage knew that communicating was useless because Jeff's ego wouldn't receive it.

  • @PaulDoe79
    @PaulDoe79 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For someone who has been in therapy since he was 14 he sure doesn't behave like he knows anything

  • @bonnyjmorris1261
    @bonnyjmorris1261 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pay attention to what most of your faithful fans who want you two to compromise and raise this precious child
    together. I wish you both love and peace. You can’t just discard important people in your life . Commitment is hard and Monroe needs you both. Sending all of you love.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🥳

  • @yahairavidana3787
    @yahairavidana3787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Send you both a lot of love and hopefully u both can make it work if is good for your life and daughter why fight in front of you baby 😍😘😘😘😘😢

  • @BinaBina221
    @BinaBina221 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so sad to hear this! Jeff is a lot to take but at the end of the day he’s always willing to apologize and to talk things out! Jeff is very sensible, reasonable (after the blowup 😂) and he communicates! Gage holding everything in and not being a communicator is very hard on someone who needs to talk things out! We don’t know their intimate times so everyone should respect that and not just blame Jeff!! I hope they can work it out and be ok together or separately🥺! I get Jeff, I have from the beginning, his wrongs, his rights and I love watching him💜! Gotta respect someone who is always willing to apologize and who can sit back laugh at themselves and see where they may b wrong👏🏽! He has a low tolerance for bs and many people are full of it!! 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @EverythingGirl9850
    @EverythingGirl9850 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so sad for Monroe. Jeff it will be fine. Gabe - miss you. Hope you guys work it out. You are a family.

  • @senoraantero2836
    @senoraantero2836 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sad to hear that

  • @lindab424
    @lindab424 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He can't keep anyone in his life. Since he is the common denominator in all these soured relationships I think he need to look in the mirror and do some serious work on himself so he can enter into healthier relationships.

  • @reginavs80ify
    @reginavs80ify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I wish the ladies didn't interrupt as much. I was trying to hear Jeff's story and they kept interrupting...😒😒

  • @cherylq1685
    @cherylq1685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Actually I love both of them and I like Jeff. But if I was his his friend I would call him out on the BS I'm hearing from him. He's saying that Gage is focusing on the bad and not remembering the good like Jeff does. You want to know why, Jeff? Cause he's the abused one! Of course you're not the one with the anger and resentment! What do you have to be angry about? How he abused you? Treated you like crap? Made you feel like a fool? OH NO! CAUSE GAGE NEVER DID THAT! YOU'RE THE ONE WHO DID THAT! What the hell? YOU are the one that dumps a load of abusive crap on him and then asks him to remember the good times! Are you kidding me? OF COURSE HE'S THE ONE WITH ANGER AND RESENTMENT. The fact that you don't have anger and resentment is not a feather in your cap of your evolved growth through therapy! It's a symptom of your total lack of ability to see yourself honestly. Get your crap together! And for the love of God don't get involved with anyone until you've fixed yourself. The world has enough abused dysfunctional people....so on that note, I would give that sweet baby girl to Gage to raise and you can have supervised visitation. God have mercy on that child.

  • @donnadesanctis9620
    @donnadesanctis9620 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you jeff, wishing you the best .

  • @tamiecervantes7051
    @tamiecervantes7051 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    im sorry to hear a love lost. i hope you co parent as best as your child deserves

  • @margaretmann4533
    @margaretmann4533 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish you guys the best I hope things work out for you but if not it wasn't meant to be just go on with your life and be happy with your life and your little one. God bless Kenneth Lewis I watched your show since the day it started me my husband enjoy it . Design homes and so pretty .

  • @GERONIMORE
    @GERONIMORE 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Come on you guys
    You’ve come such a long way.