Joyce + Dave Tell All: Keys to Marriage | Joyce Meyer's Talk It Out Podcast | Episode 67
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 31 ก.ค. 2024
- In case you’ve ever wanted to know Dave + Joyce’s secrets to staying [happily] married for decades, this is the episode you’ve been waiting for! Today they share the good, bad, and ugly of their early years together, how they learned to pray effectively about their marriage, plus a hilarious disagreement over Dave’s shirt that gave us all a good laugh.
Whether you’re single, married, divorced, or somewhere in between, Dave + Joyce’s stories and life lessons will give you tools to help you grow in your relationships.
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Joyce Meyer, one of the world’s leading practical Bible teachers and New York Times best-selling author, shares encouragement and advice to help us enjoy our daily lives.
With a heart to share Christ and love people, Joyce’s messages help people in all walks of life to grow in their faith, learn to study the Bible, find healing from the wounds of life, get answers to life’s questions and encounter the love of God in a powerful way.
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"Stop looking for reasons to get a divorce and start looking for reasons to stay together." -Joyce 🙏
It's a whole WORD.
Bless and admire mr.& mrs.
Meyers
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Yes
@Ela, So true... And the divorce rate would go significantly down, families would be well established resulting in godly nations...
I started listening to you sometime around 1995. I hope one day in heaven you will know how much your openness about your life and marriage has helped me. I loved God but I was a mess. You taught me how to cooperate with the Holy Spirit so God could change me right in the middle of the circumstances I was in. I kept trying to change my husband and my son to make me happy and found out that God was trying to change me. I have asked God to let me have time with you in heaven so that I could thank you in person for your obedience to let God change you and your willingness to share that on cassette tapes. You have no idea what your teaching meant to me. I will always be grateful to you for being so real. Thank you.
81 and 78 years old. They look so strong!🔥🔥
They look amazing and their mind and memory is so strong…my mom started getting forgetful in her 60’s
They look so fresh, but that what the Holy spirit does
DAVE looks like A young boy
Cosmetic surgery
@@kayl7189 💌
I really enjoyed putting Dave’s name with his face today. He’s seems like such a kind and gentle man. A man of God. 🙏
Yes❣️
The Lord continue to bless you and strength you both, some very good words of wisdom. My daughter got married recently, I shared it with her and tell her to watch it with her husband.
@@jacquelinethompson9153 Blessings and love to you Jacqueline! Congratulations 🎉 to your Daughter on her new marriage! So strange you made this exact comment as my sister and I both ended up in tragic endings of marriage. Her husband passed to Heaven while mine was beyond abusive to the point I’ve no contact with two of my now grown boys. I always thought I would be saying that I’m married for 50 years and watching my Grandchildren play and just have the only one thing I wanted. A beautiful, healthy marriage. God HAS to be present and for most in a marriage. To love unconditionally and to climb the mountains together. I’m so grateful my dream came true, I wished I would have slept longer..... God is thee only way.
In Jesus Christ name. Amen!🌹
@@winniebella684 Blessed morning, God is the source of any good relationship, whether marriage, family, friends, coworkers and just people we meet in our every day life. So much broken family relationship in the world, my prayer is that God will help us to bring peace and love in families. I am starting with myself, reaching out to family members I have not spoken to for years, it is so good. Because of me doing that and praying, other family members reach out to each other. To God be the glory, great things He has done. Love conquers all.
@@jacquelinethompson9153 I love your comment! Beautiful! Unconditional love is our reason for being here on earth. God bless and have a peaceful weekend! 🌹
He stuck it out because of his love for God. And she didn’t give up because of her love for God
Well said and you summed it up nicely.
Yeah but love(emotional) for the person needs to be there too, or else its all useless. God wants our heart involved. Love is not just actions. Its emotion that produces actions
Lesbians and homosexuals. Tyler stop your madness
This is soooooo good. Marriage is difficult, but with God's guidance it can work.🙏🙏💕💕
I takes 2 and working together
I didn’t know you could be divorced and remarried. The Bible says stay unmarried if divorced or return to your spouse. Only way is if the pass away and not with your help.
Also says I suffer a woman not to teach
when you fall in love with someone, you hang on every word that they say! The same thing will happen if you fall in love with Jesus!😍♥️
This is so amazing!! It’s true for me. I’m glad to see you have the same perspective. Isn’t it true!!?
@@cr9144 Amen! It's all about a daily saving love relationship of prayer, bible study and witnessing with Jesus! ♥️ Fall head over heels in love with him! ♥️
Amen! I went through that with my estranged husband but the sad part is that most of it was lies. Now the only man I have time for is Jesus!
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@@crystaltinnes6661 💌
Joyce is my pre-marriage mentor and she doesn't even know it. I love her and her ministry so much. Her realness and transparency about who she is, good, bad, ugly, and indifferent is refreshing. Her and Dave are a great pairing. So much wisdom in this video! May God continue to richly bless their union.
Could you please share with me the links to the video /books from which you took your mentorship
@@tushabejudith7653 I don't have specific books or videos however, I've been watching her talk transparently about marriage/her marriage for years.
Yes she's my mentor as well, this is how God is leading me in ministry... It's like she quit her job, but God took me off mine, He won't allow me to go back to work... All I can do is sit home and study the word of God and spend more time with Him... Wow praise God!!!!
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I really like Mr. Dave he brings such balance to Mama Joyce ❤️
Beautiful picture. God bless. GOD LOVES AND CARES FOR YOU AND SO DO I. THE JOY OF THE LORD IS YOUR STRENGTH. AMEN.
I just love Joyce and Dave. A special lady got her special man. God brought them together in prayer and faith 🙏🙌
wow men like Dave❤👏- blessings on all Christian men out there who love and care for their wife as Christ loves and cares for the church. Congratulation Joyce ! you are a blessing
Jay is like my hero. Her strength in this situation particularly and her whole situation is more than an encouragement to me.
I just heard her testimony. I knew that her dad abused her but I didn't quite know how bad it was.
Dave is a true man for supporting Joyce so well.
I got alot out of this. People being real.
it takes a real secure man to be able to do that. I love it.
@@andsoitgoes1142 Hurting people say hurtful things about other people. God can heal your broken heart...Let it go.
Dave looks like such a happy & cheerful being
David is a true man for supporting miss Joyce, bless you 🥰🥰🥰🥰
God gave Joyce Meyer such a godly man. So blessed. He is a picture of the scripture which says husband love your wives as Christ loved the church. May God bless this wonderful couple with this humble great head of the house.
If they ever do a marriage conference, I would sign up. Beautiful and Anointed couple.
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
Yes I sure would too...
This is one of the most honest and useful conversations on marriage I have heard! Thank you Dave and Joyce for sharing your lessons learned - I have gained a lot of wisdom 🙏🏾
We're happy to hear that! We also encourage you to check out the new online marriage study at joycemeyer.org/marriage. We hope it is a blessing to you! -Team JMM
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Same here! I’m blessed to finally watch this on marriage esp about my favorite Ms Joyce Meyer and her wonderful better half! Praise God for this interview. I’ll def save this video. Thank you so much for this!
I think it was okay. However I did like Dave being included in the discussion.. I feel like men are often left out of this discussion..I feel they have a great perspective to give. They are here for a reason.:)
@@joycemeyer God bless you, this has taught me too much, Especially leaving your partner be themselves
Joyce reminds me so much of myself. I came from a pretty unstable family myself. And listening to this really brings hope and light to the situation. I’m so glad I came across this. My husband tried so hard to make me happy for months and I knew I was being controlling on purpose for the very reason she mentioned. I am so happy to have a man that loves me and my imperfections just as I love him and his imperfections.
Often we love people because of their little quirks. We are all unique.
Loved this episode l love Dave, he is a perfect example of a man who can love and redeem his woman more like what Christ did for us
True
True he is so patient n displays de patience God has for us
Yes sir he is, reminds me so much of my own husband... So humble, kind and meek... Takes so much time with me, very patient, just like Dave is with Joyce... That's how Jesus is with all of us, very very patient, Hallelujah Thank You Jesus!!!
Wow what a revelation thank You Holy Spirit.
Ephesian 5 vs 22 to 28
Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with water through the word, 27 and to present her to himself as a radiant church, without stain or wrinkle or any other blemish, but holy and blameless. 28 In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.
Wish I would have heard this 30 yrs ago. My marriage is growing and rebuilding it’s been 33 yrs now married, I finally learned to let him be him and love him for him
May God continue to bless your marriage ❤️
😊🙏 We also encourage you to check out the new online marriage study at joycemeyer.org/marriage. We hope it is a blessings to you as well! -Team JMM
Watching Joyce here, just shows how much she is truly everything that she shows us when she's standing on that stage teaching God's word!
She is true to herself, and true to everyone else, no matter who she is talking to.
Her and Dave have really turned out to be a perfect testimony of how God works peace and unity into a marriage.
I enjoyed every minute of this!
BUT Now, I have to mention the end!!, But, warning ⚠️ what you read next, could be a spoiler alert, if you haven't watched the ending yet!... Omgoodness!!
How great was that!!
She had that security box key the whole time! AND on top of that, she had the other one too!!
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Hello Juanita..
How are you doing today?
When you go to the therapist,you are. asked to give the right medicine and God is the one you can depend on right away
Is very hard in some seasons in marriage ,but without the presence of God is impossible, my husband and I are so different is the reason we are together, we are living the best time of our live the last 42 years of marriage,
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe?
The way she smiles and laughs at him when he gets up to walk to the stage is so precious and wholesome!
He said; I’ll love you and show love to you. But it’s your choice to receive that love
We need more of this! Watching from Nairobi, Kenya 🇰🇪
This is such a beautiful interview. Every couple, married or planning to marry, needs to hear this message. Thank you.
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
I love the way Joyce praises her husband.
It's so nice to finally see Dave again and in today's time period!
This speaks volume. It wasn’t about the stuff that comes along with marriage. It was about being and staying committed
Certainly helped me through my 28 years of marriage… it’s never been better. God first is the answer.. then patience and less said is best said. Learn to become like Teflon not Velcro… don’t take all so personally. Look for the good and feed it!
Jai looks peaceful. So glad.
Timing is right...Holy spirit spoke to him Dave...important point
Joyce always gives us hope in marriage, and in our lives. God Bless her, her marriage, family and ministry. 🙏❤
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
🙏❤️how’re you doing?
Glad I’ve got someone like Dave in my life 🙏
Dave is ideal man for her!God bless them both
This has been one of the best programs with Joyce Meyer! You should include Dave more often in your programs. I learned and it blessed me a lot! Thank you, Dave and Joyce for being so vulnerable and share your story with us. God bless you both!
We're glad to hear that this episode blessed you! 😊 -Team JMM
I agree, some people are in Dave's position of being with someone like Joyce was in the beginning. So it would really be nice to hear more on how he dealt with it.
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
Omg I ran to this so fast !!!! Omg this is so cool .... The man behind the Wonderful wife Joyce!!! Ministries.....
Yay!!!!!💕✨💕
😊 We're happy to hear that you enjoyed this episode! God bless you! -Team JMM
@@joycemeyer awww God Bless you More! ✨💕✨
This is so good. I had tears running down my face at times due to my own struggles in my marriage. God confronted me so much and I also appreciate this raw honesty so much.
We're glad to hear that you enjoyed this episode! We are praying for you! We also have some great resources on marriage. We encourage you to check out Joyce's teaching Making Marriage Work at bit.ly/2vYv8sw . Another great resource is Joyce's audio teaching Marriage That Works, which you can find at bit.ly/33YJ04i. We hope they're blessings to you. God bless you! -Team JMM
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
@@pollacksharman0147 - Hello - what sort of question is that? I'm sure whoever you are writing to is "safe from the chinese virus" deliberately made & sent around the world. Any other questions?
He is a real man, he wanted to marry some one whom he wanted to help and God gave him Joyce . This is amazing ! Joyce is really lucky!
God bless Joyce for her much needed transparency regarding abuse and how it make ppl act in romantic relationships. I think it’s harder when the husband is the one with rejection and rage issues because the wife can feel unsafe, and men tend to isolate and not seek help or refuse counseling. Holy Spirit can do miracles, but both parties need to be willing. 🙏🙏
I love this couple, they are so real and transparent and through it all they love each other and continue to peruse God together. This is love n marriage goals 👌🙏
Absolutely 🤗
How’re you doing Abigail?
I quite love this. But when someone is consistently unfaithful. He goes back to being unfaithful every time you forgive. Should you keep putting up with such person at the expense of your health
that ending story about the keys just cracked me up 🤣🤣🤣,thanks for sharing
My husband Frank and I could relate to Dave and Joyce. We watched this together and enjoyed it so much! We have been married 13 years. Both divorced and had baggage. I had a lot to learn and so did Frank. But with God and us listening we are still married. Thank you for being open and honest.
That's so great to hear! Check out the new online marriage study that is available at joycemeyer.org/marriage. God bless you both! -Team JMM
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
Good 🤗
How’re you doing Cindy?
I have a new found respect for Joyce Meyers now. Thus was so good but the key most of us miss is being married to committed Christian spouses. Yes, some hard things happen in life but many jus are sloppy over just living life. Lord, help me
54 years is a long time to stay with each other with everything that went on in their marriage. I was standing up listening to this but sat down because I was intrigued by the discussion. Joyce appears to be so humble by her past experiences and realizes that Dave has been a true model and stabilizer in their 54 year relationship. May God continue to use their testimony to help others. "Stop looking for reasons to get divorce and start looking for reasons to stay together." Joyce Meyers.
I enjoy listening to everyone talking about the difference they had in their marriage but yet persevered.
God, You are my Strength, my Comfort, my Love, my Vindicator, my All, my Shield, my Protector. 🌄
You repay me so many times over 🕊️🤍
Praise God, I just love Joyce and Dave Hallelujah 😂😂😂😂😂
The Lord really amazes me! He made 2 very special men that i know of. Dave Myers to care for Joyce and her emotional needs and Ken Tada to love and care for Joni Eariksons physical needs.. The Lord knew what kind of help these ladies needed. Of course, we are nothing without the Lord, but, these men stood by Joyce and Joni. We need more men like these.
Ok ~ I just want to age like this couple has!!!!! Amazing! Dave is 80!!!!!!
Papa Dave and Mom Joyce, THANK YOU! This was so incredible and powerful! Ginger and the ladies were tender and sweet. I appreciate the transparency of Everyone! Please teach this more- weekly 🙏🏿. So many Christian marriages are in such need of this!! Love you all!
I love these podcasts all of it * three women in different stages of life wow, thank you so much for everything. This episode is special 💞
We're so happy to hear this! Blessings to you! -Team JMM
How do you know when God has put that special person in your life, and how do you know when it's not from God
@@tammyboland409 Nice question
How’re you doing Tammy?
Absolutely
How’re you doing Honey?
@@joycemeyer j
dave is such an inspiration!! such a gentle soul!!
More Dave - he is so like my beloved . Bless & thank you Dave.
My husband of 22 years David was my blessing 🙏 Jesus took him home July 2020 ✨
My beloved husband of 41 years went home to be with Jesus (very unexpectedly) on August 10th of this year. He was my HS sweetheart and didn’t live to see my upcoming 60th birthday. I’d give anything if he was here and I could apply this godly marital advice.
@@pamcornelius9122 🙏✨✨
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🧎🏽♀️
@@pamcornelius9122 praying for you
@@sarahkwebihaw.7564 Thank you. 💝
I wish this could be a daily show it’s so great ❤️
Love Joyce Meyer!!! 💋 She and Dave must be meant to be!!!
I love the transparency from all of them because people today are too proud to admit that they go through difficulty.
Pride is many people's downfall from happiness
I love the laidback person that Dave
Beautiful-- just beautiful!! I just love this couple!😊
The last part was exactly what happens to every couple at one time or other. how to take it is what I learnt today .praise the lord
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Yes Sis Joyce & Bro. Dave being transparent on these years sharing their Testimony on Marriage.❤❤❤Thanks !
As a male I really enjoy this podcast. I don’t listen of watch them all. But I love going deeper into the teachings. Understand women a little better 😊I always enjoy an episode about marriage featuring Dave and Joyce. A part 2 would be most welcome!
That clip to the end with both Joyce and Dave was awesome!
I love me some Joyce, she explains God's word and it goes straight to my heart😚
Thank you for the transparency, honesty and Christian example. 💜✝️🙏
That story about the safety deposit box keys was HILARIOUS!!! It had me rolling! 🙏🏾👍🏾👌🏾😂😂😂🖤💜💙💚💛🧡♥️💕
I love these podcasts from Joyce Meyer Talk it out
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe?
Absolutely
How’re you doing today Stacey?
Thank you❤ I unfortunately been through multiple doomed marriages because I wasn't healed from trauma. I've always wanted a stable relationship. Yall give me hope
You will have it.
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
Stay positive Kathy. God is faithful
Thank you Lord for this on time word very encouraging and open. God is Good
Thank God for strong couples like Joyce and Dave who are shining examples of faith and love for others to see! Also thanks for these “ talk it out “ videos😁. I have been married for 54 years and even with all the ups and downs, it has been worth staying together! One main issue that couples really need to work on is better communication! Thanks ❤️
This was a special discussion, honest, open and had a male perspective. Thank you.
Thank you so much Dave & Joyce Meyer for Sharing this much needed words. May you both be HIGHLY FAVOR & SUPER BLESSED WITH EVERY BREATH YOU BOTH TAKE!!! BLESS ya'll & THANK YOU again. With much LOVE, RESPECT, BLESSINGS, HOPE, FAVOR, PRAYERS & A SWEET PEACE LIKE SOME OF US HAVEN'T KNOWN BEFORE & ALL YA'LL TOUCH ❤🕊🙏🏻🌹🦋🥰❤😘🤗🙋♀️
Thank you for the HOPE i feel in my heart 🙏🏼❤️❤️😍😭❤️❤️❤️
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How’re you doing today Joanna?
This is one of my absolute favorites! Real team work graced by God. This is proof if you work through things you will be blessed.
Yeah you are right, Amen 🙏🏾🙏🏾
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
Absolutely 🤗
How’re you doing today Jessica?
Very helpful. Joyce's husband is so sweet.
I really enjoyed this episode of talk it out…especially the story about the keys…thanks for sharing ♥️
Thank you for sharing this with us! We're grateful to hear that you enjoyed this message! -Team JMM
Dave is a remarkable person. Thank you for this sharing this knowledge.
Just a few sentences and you can't tell Mr. Dave is a unique man. God bless them.
Praise GOD...I thank THE LORD for leading me to watch this interview with these precious couple. GOD bless.
Beautiful program. What I loved most was the story of the missing key! What an amazing couple!!
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how’re you doing today?
I’m so glad to hear from Dave as well. I’ve often wondered about his take on their relationship and wanted to hear more from him. I love that they told their story together. Let’s hear more from them!
Joyce supports Dave. Her love for Dave it what makes everyone else love him. I hope she is very blessed and happy. And both in their Marriage!!!!
she is a total fraud. do some research
@@lucyclark1301 oh please. Here is another hater
@@lucyclark1301 Why are you listening to her if you think she is a fraud; that is so illogical. If you allow her words to penetrate your heart, perhaps you would become less cynical.
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
Absolutely 🤗
How’re you doing today Charlotte?
Thank you Joyce and Dave and everyone who made this show possible. Thank you for blessing me and my family in such a great way.
ENJOYED... I was encouraged and have hope for marriage. Always respect Pastor Joyce's testimony about her marriage to Dave. What was so refreshing about Pastor Joyce's dialogue with hubby, is how free spirit they both are. Love the panel and please take care of my rug.😉😁😉
I rarely ever comment on TH-cam but I just want to say this episode was a blessing to me. I’m 26 and found the advice and insight so helpful. Thank you all for what you do! ❤️
Ooo both Joyce and Dave is so so sweet when sharing at the stage..PTL❣️
Thank you so much for sharing today. My husband and I have recently gone thru a rough patch and one thing I have learned is to empty my wheelbarrow every day. I think women more than men tend to fill their wheelbarrows with the small petty things and if we don’t work to keep the wheelbarrow empty it will just continue to fill with small things that are not important until one day it will tip over. We just celebrated 24 years and are stronger today than we have ever been.
This is the man ( Joyce's husband Dave )I respected a lot because in a lot of ways I think he has helped shaped Mama Joyce to become the person she is today! I am grateful to Papa Dave for being who is, for being a very authentic person, I guess it's his cool and calm nature that complements Joyce's personality. They are the perfectly imperfect couple in a sense but wow really they are married for 54 years , congrats 🙌🙌
Love this! My husband and I just celebrated 18 years of marriage (and I am sure if you ask anyone back then they would have given us 2 years tops). We have so much going on between Thanksgiving through Mid-January that by the time it's all over I just need a tiny break. My husband had his last military drill last weekend (retiring after 22 years of service). He wasn't sure if he would be gone the full weekend or not. I was so happy to get a text Saturday saying "I'm done here, heading home." Yay! He walks through the side door as I am busy painting my nails and says "Happy Anniversary". Yeah I know I looked like a deer in headlights! Hmmmm. What day is it? What is the date today. To which I said "Happy Anniversary to you too babe!" He gets me every time. I can't seem to ever remember our anniversary and he knows it! Lol. I am so thankful we got a good chuckle out it!
Hard times are the norm..
High points and joy are moments...they are fleeting and they are sprinkled in among the storms.
Joyce is always my inspiration since 16 years.God bless you.🙏
This was a fabulous panel including Dave and Joyce. Such great wisdom shared. Thank you!!
Wow so informative....the ending is epic
Thank you for your honesty!!! I’ve been married 25 years and this message blessed my soul!! This is true marriage counseling for any stage of marriage!!
Wow beautiful 😍 Thank you so much for sharing Dave and Joyce. May God richly bless every year you still have together ❤
Hello how're you doing hope you're safe due to the covid 19 pandemic?
Amen 🙏
How’re you doing Angela?
Love hearing Dave's side too. Well done very encouraging
Such a blessing of a message not even married a year and wondering if I can make it, but God surely had this one for me.
What Jay said is very very very important I want to hear from my leaders their honesty their truth their trials and challenges
Absolutely 🥰🥰
How’re you doing Joanne?
@@micheall7224 hey 👋 awesome thanks