Brooke. Those BOYS, because real men would not be intimidated by their woman’s success, do not deserve you. One day you’ll find a man who supports your lifestyle and everything about you. Don’t get discouraged! You’ll find the right man when the time is right.
Maddie Jackson while Brooke is definitely worthy of love and I know she will find someone who will appreciate her when it’s the right time, I don’t think it’s fair to assume that this guy couldn’t handle or was intimidated by her success. She never mentioned success, she used the word lifestyle: it could simply be the fact that not everyone is comfortable with dating someone whose life is very public and who shares a lot on social media. I know I wouldn’t, personally, as I’m a more private person, and that doesn’t make me “scared of people’s success”.
Giulia Battini Yeah I agree with that. At least he was man enough to tell her straight up how he felt and the reasons he felt like that. It sucks when those things happen, but you’ve got to give credit to the guy for being open and honest. That’s maturity.
Brooke, I really admire you’re vulnerability online. I can relate a lot with what you are saying as 23 year old too. It is so comforting to watch your video. You are an amazing, strong person! Keep doing you! Thank you for your videos! It always makes my day and helps me to feel better.
I have never been in a relationship, and i am 23. The same thing happens over and over again. You are worthy of love, and you have more to offer then they can handle. I always felt insecure about it, but now I am secure in myself, and who i am. Stay confident, and strong.
I’m 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship either. Everything else is fine: financially independent, good career, great friends, but when it comes to boys I have no clue 😫
Watching this I really realized this feeling is felt by so many other girls, But its so hard when in our personal lives it constantly feels like its only us unlucky and all of our friends are lucky and happy with significant others, Its so hard to put into words sometimes when you feel like this , but I've come to learnt that the same things like having relationships is not meant for everyone especially at this age, In time we will find something that will bring us more happiness and joy..maybe that is a guy or maybe it is a passion that distracts us and shows us why we havent experienced "love" yet
Brooke don’t cry. Your not the problem. Your time will come, don’t rush it. Girl you keep messing with these clowns so of course they will be intimidated. Leave your typical type alone. Keep living your life ❤️
Brooke this literally breaks my heart! You ARE worthy of love that's the thing and when the right guy comes around he will love you unconditionally. You inspire me everyday and I love you so much!! So many other people love you too FOR YOU!! Don't let a guy make you forget how amazing you are
Brooke Brooke Brooke. I was watching this vlog on my tv while eating dinner and I stopped, pulled out my phone and had to comment. First off, YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID but, I want you to know that THOSE ARENT YOUR GUYS. You are NOT THE PROBLEM (repeat after me), YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM. Your guy is in this world, right now, and when you meet him, you will realize that your current feelings were part of your journey but not worth being upset. You are worthy of love, you are living your best passionate life and so blessed. I was in your shoes last year and it gets better. Your perfect guy will come into your life when it’s right and when you least expect it. Please believe in yourself and keep doing you. Appreciate you being real on here because this is real life but keep your head up and keep killing it girl!!
UGH. Watching you “go through it” (at minute 12) breaks my heart. You deserve to be the happiest -all the time. You are smart, and ambitious and have such a positive presence. Sending you so much love.
"I'm gonna eat my blueberries and probably cry" is such a MOOD. You're amazing Brooke and you'll find your person - someone who isn't intimidated by your success!!
Brooke you are beautiful, so strong, and worthy of having people in your life who are going to root for you & love you for exactly who you are. You are doing everything you can, and your feelings & emotions are so valid. We are here for you ❤️
the fact that someone i look up to so much and think so highly of also has insecurities/struggles (especially about dating and love) and is fully vulnerable about it, makes me feel so so normal for having the same exact insecurities. Everyone I'm surrounded by is doing so great w dating and finding a guy they love, or just have always been good at talking to guys/being wanted by them and to see one of my role models and someone who is absolutely KILLING the game at everything else is so beyond comforting to me and makes me feel so normal. I can't express how thankful I am for being so open. It's something that so many people also struggle with but few ppl have the guts like u to be vulnerable about it.
BROOKE, you are the MOST deserving of love. I think when you finally truly believe that yourself, you will find someone. I know its cliche to say "you need to love yourself first" but you really do. I hate seeing you be so hard on yourself and letting other people get you down. Once you feel confident and fulfilled on your own you won't be looking for a man to give you that feeling, it's in yourself Brooke. I know you can find it
I don' think I've ever watched a more relatable vlog before, I'm also 23 and living with my parents even tho I'm paying rent for my apartment in Boston and went through a "thing" that started before quarantine that just ended when I was home alone for a bit. Its so hard not having people to bounce things off of, or feeling guilty for not being in your apartment but we just have to stop being so hard on ourselves. As someone who also hasn't had a relationship yet I know it will happen to us soon but its hard not to have these insecurities. Thank you for being so open about everything, sending love
Brooke! I totally FEEL you on guys being overwhelmed by a woman who has her act together, expects certain standards, and is in the public eye!! You are a strong, capable, beautiful & intelligent woman. Any man who is scared of having to handle everything that comes with dating you I promise is a weak guy you won't want in the long run! sending you love xox
Literally tearing up watch this and honestly it’s so relatable. I’m also 23 and there are just so many times where I just feel unworthy of love but thank you for sharing it’s nice to know that other people my age go through the same thing
I appreciate your transparency Brooke. A lot of people don't show their emotions on TH-cam, or in real life. and the fact that you do - is actually a strength of yours. This is why i subscribed.
Brooke, thank you for sharing the hard moments with us. There is nothing wrong with you. You haven't found the right guy yet who is going to cherish you and respect you for the life that you live and want to hype you up and show you off! be patient!!! One thing I was thinking about was that when these guys are referring to being intimidated by your lifestyle, I think that guys get nervous when people are on social media because once you do start dating, it will be really public and other people will get emotionally invested. that's intimidating to people. just keep that in mind that it might be less about the things you do and the type of activities you participate in than it is about being not wanting to be publicized. xoxo
I just wanted to say that how someone treats you or how they feel about you says everything about THEM and nothing about you as a person. You are worthy of love, don't let these boys fool you into thinking otherwise.
YYES YES YESS thank you for being vulnerable about this!! every time a relationship ends or i get ghosted, no one understands why it's such a big deal to me. It's not about the person, it's about how it becomes a pattern which makes me question MY worth and if ill ever find someone!!!! Thank you for saying this I've never heard it vocalized from someone else this well. i love you, brooke. please know it's not you and you will find your person
Thank you for opening up and explaining why you‘re feeling sad because of course you didn’t have to! I can totally relate, I also always put all of my eggs in one basket and get disappointed when things don’t work out. But I feel like in doing so I am often thinking that the guy is better than he really is. And you definitely need someone who is successful in his career as well and doesn’t get intimidated by your success and lifestyle because that is definitely not your fault! Wishing you all the best and thanks for being open with us 🥰💕
I just wanted to say THANK YOU! Thank you for talking about how being alone encourages you to internalize things resulting in you blaming yourself for things...I have been alone in my apartment for 7 weeks now and I thought I was being crazy, but it's reassuring to know that other people have experienced something similar
Brooke, I can’t even tell you how much this video meant to me and how much this video helped. I LOVE seeing this side of you. It’s so real, raw, and relatable. I went through something like this super recently too and it has also become a sort of pattern for me so everything you said resonated so well it honestly shook me LOL. Thank you thank you thank you for putting out such amazing content like this and becoming more real, YOU, and vulnerable with us. This is what we love to see because we care so much about you. Keep your head up and continue being the ambitious, strong, beautiful woman you are and believe me the right person will walk right into your life. Once again, this has got to be one of my favorite videos. Love you so much ❤️ keep up the amazing work :)
Brooke, you are one of the kindest most genuine people I have met. You are SO worthy of love and any guy who doesn’t see that is insane. If a guy is intimidated of you, they clearly are not worth your time. ❤️ I’m so excited for you to move to nyc! It’s going to be such a good chapter of your life.
I cant even begin to explain how much your vulnerability and honesty with boys means. You're so real and relatable and I can't thank you enough for that. Keep staying strong and beautiful!
don’t let that get you down! ❤️ at least he was open & honest with you! there’s so many other ppl out there. i was single until i was 24 & ran into someone from high school after not seeing them for 8 years & we’ve been dating for 2 years now. it literally hits you when you least expect it to!
To Brooke and any other girl going through a similar situation: As cliche as this may sound but its nothing to do with you and everything to do with THEM!!! if ANYTHING, your lifestyle and the success you've achieved is so inspirational and you've come such a long way, ive been watching before you even got into UGA and if a BOY is intimidated by you, you're doing great and you will find someone who's gonna appreciate that hard work and push you to constantly improve yourself instead of putting you down or not motivating you! Love you xx
brooke, thank you for being SO real and genuine with us. i can’t even express to you how much it helps me not feel so alone. it truly makes me feel like you’re one of my friends. i’m 24 and feel the exact same way. sophie turner is also 24 and having a baby with joe jonas, and then there’s me who’s 24 living at home with my parents and never had a real relationship (i know we shouldn’t compare ourselves to others but, come on we all do sometimes) 😂
I guess there are many people out there, who are easily intimidated, and maybe they aren't too happy with where they are in life, so seeing you being successful and basically slaying at life, makes them feel bad about themselves, but that just means that they have issues and not that there is anything wrong with you!! I've been listening to the pod and watching your vlogs for a while now and they are just my favorite thing ever, because you are such an open, warm, funny, lovable gal. Like you are badass and successful but still vulnerable at the same time, and that is so impressive, I truly look up to you as a person and anyone, who would have the chance to end up with you or even get with you, will be so damn lucky!! You're an icon
My queen! You are going to go FAR on yt if you continue being ur authentic relatable self. Viewers can smell inauthenticity and like hidden truths or putting up a fake perfect life for a lot of youtubers but you are so genuine ❤️ its going to pay off
Brooke, something I have always enjoyed about watching your videos is how real you are. You show your vulnerable side and I’ve always appreciated that. I’m in the same boat as you. I’ve never had a real relationship and sometimes I feel the same way, that I’m unworthy of love and that something is “wrong” with me. Watching this vlog made me cry, I’ve said those exact words, cried those exact tears. Some days it’s super hard, both my younger sisters are married and I long to be in a relationship myself, to have a companion. Sometimes I tell myself that I’m so different and special from other girls that I need a really great guy to appreciate that. Just remember, it’s always ok to cry (I’m a pro at crying, lol) and keep being the very best version of yourself because the person you have to love first is you. :)
Seeing how much happier you got after deciding that you weren’t going to stay (for the time being as well as with your lease) and when you started talking about packing your entire wardrobe to bring home, brought a smile to my face. There is nothing wrong with going back home to family or deciding to move everything into storage during this time as long as you take precautions and you as well as those involved, stay safe.
I've honestly never related to a TH-camr more than I do to Brooke. The strength and thoughtfulness she clearly shows when talking to us is unparalleled on TH-cam. I'm so grateful to have a role model like her.
seeing you cry breaks my heart!! when the time is right someone will come along that will be proud of your success and cheer you on!! sending you such a BIG hug!
Brooke!! This video was so refreshing. I have always related to and admired your willingness to share your struggles and make decisions for YOURSELF, that make you happy and fulfilled. I am so excited to see where this NYC journey takes you.
This hurt me to watch because I really related to everything you were saying. I’ve always envisioned being alone for the rest of my life because boys are never interested and if they are it lasts about 2 days until they get to know me. I’ve never really felt good enough for anyone in my life. I’m usually okay with the idea of never having a boyfriend but sometimes it sucks when you take the risk of putting yourself out there and it doesn’t work out. Hang in there Brooke, you’re definitely not alone. ❤️❤️
I really admire how you’re able to let yourself FEEL the feels for a minute and then move forward from that and come out stronger. Thank you for being willing to include that aspect of your life in the vlogs - especially during this wild time, it’s so important for people to know that emotions are real and raw and normal! Much love! 💞
This is the realest thing I’ve seen in a while. You’re truly my favorite influencer out there. Keep staying true to yourself and I believe with my whole heart you’ll find an amazing guy soon. Love u sm brooke
I feel the same when you talked about not being able to get to the "official" stage with someone. I came to the terms that they will come around with they are ready too. Keep your head up, you have so much going for your career and it is only getting started!! The right person will come around the corner soon :)
So appreciate you being open about this, it’s never easy when a relationship doesn’t work out! But IT IS NOT you!! You’ll definitely find someone who understands and respects your lifestyle! I know it’s easier said then done, but hang in there ❤️
the whole time you were crying i wanted to just give you the biggest hug :( i PROMISE you there’s nothing wrong with you! please don’t be ashamed of your work because a guy can’t handle that lifestyle! keep being yourself and doing things that make you happy and i promise you will find a man who aligns with your lifestyle. you got this babe!! xo you’re so beautiful, thank you for being open with us ❤️
Brooke I’m a little older than you and I’ve def felt like this before. Some unsolicited advice haha that no one ever gave me in my early 20s: figure out why it IS you, it’s who you pick and it’s how you let people’s potential be your reality. You’ll save yourself a lot of heartbreak later. Tough love but how you’re feeling is NOT because you’re too successful, it’s bc your standards are low. Keep going, you have a lot to offer 💕
Brooke, I've been watching you since you were in high school and in a way you've kind of been my big sister. I look up to you SO much and I cannot tell you how meaningful and validating it is to see you in your harder moments, because we ALL have them. One day soon you're going to find a man who is mature and secure enough to be with you. Boys literally take so long to grow up it's ridiculous, but I know you're going to find someone amazing. I feel like you are a very complete person on your own, so you need a guy who is complete, too.
we love an isolating mask wearing queen in all seriousness, your thoughts about overthinking when you're alone and why relationships turn out with guys because they're intimidated by what you do is literally a whole mood and thoughts i've been struggling with for the last 3 years now.
Brooke I can relate to you so much. I’m 23 and also have never been in a serious relationship. Sometimes it makes me feel really shitty and question if I will ever find love too. Just know you are not alone in this and stay strong 💖
Brooke, my heart hurt when you started to cry. I’ve been in your shoes, and I know how you feel. I’ve learned that guys in their twenties can be very indecisive and unsure about their emotions/feelings. Keep doing you & thriving and everything else will come. ❤️ Everything will work out & you are not the problem. You work hard! Love you and your videos, they have been great during quarantine 💫
I’ve never had a serious relationship either...we have so much time to find the right one. I have so many similar thoughts as you, but what keeps me going is that in like 2-3 years boys are going to want girls who can stand alone and are happy with themselves...that’s when our time will come. 💗 The YT thing is hard..honestly on first dates I try to avoid bringing it up because I don’t want it to come off as superficial, but at the same time I just fucking embrace it because any guy would be so lucky to have your stability and love! Thinking of you Brooke 💗
Brooke you are absolutely NOT the problem. One of the biggest achievements in life is the point where you can be yourself and feel comfortable being you. To be honest, I watch your videos and I am always so inspired by you BECAUSE you are yourself. Recently, a 6 year relationship that I thought was going to be it was completely taken from me and I didn't see it coming. Since then, I have felt the way you do and it can be all consuming. I feel good when I watch your videos and you have no idea the positive influence you can have on someone just by being you. I'm going to be in Boston in September and I would love the opportunity to meet you. Until then, keep doing what you're doing. You're a beautiful woman and he wasn't worthy of what you can give. X
People aren’t being negative they are holding influencers accountable because they often have thousands and millions of fans that look up to them and when you’re doing things contrary to public health guidelines during a pandemic, people are going to call you out. You have a responsibility to be aware that your followers may do the same and risk their health and the health of others.
coco marineblu totally agree we should be looking to our public health officials. That’s in a perfect world but common sense isn’t common sense, a lot of the world isn’t educated or don’t have access to trusted sources and many people follow personalities (trump) instead of fact so they don’t know that the random TH-cam video they are watching isn’t fact. Therefore influencers have a responsibility to also follow public health guidelines and propagate the truth.
I'm so so happy for you that you're figuring it out and putting yourself first!!! Allow yourself to enjoy being home too! You have so much time to move out to the city, don't feel like you have to immediately rush into something. And you're a gem, I know the right guys is waiting for you in New York!!!!!
BROOKE you’re so so great. When shit like this happens to me I just remind myself that this isn’t my peak. and yes, therapy would be so beneficial. you’re so funny and one of my favorite people to watch on the internet. love you
You have such a good head on your shoulders and I’ve always found that when you stop looking for love (literally in all aspects) and just devote that energy into yourself, you’ll meet someone on your level. Thank you for being vulnerable and honest :)
Watching you cry made me feel like my best friend was going through a heart break💔 I’ve been watching you for 5 years so I feel like your my best friend. I hate watching you go through a hard time🥺 you’re not alone!!
It's so nice to watch this knowing you found someone who does appreciate you and love you for who you are! It's sweet to watch this and know that your bf is accepting of your lifestyle and you got through this! I'm so proud of how far you've come! So glad to be called your supporter! Keep going girl!
brooke i love you so much!!! it makes me so sad to see you cry :(( everything happens for a reason! you’re gonna look back at this when you’re married to the man of your dreams and be like “lmao i didn’t even know what was coming” because YOU’RE GONNA FIND SOMEONE PERFECT FOR YOU! keep your head up girly 💛💛💛💛💛 you are loved
Thank you for showing the difficult side of things, and be willing and strong to open up. I know things are hard and I just want to give you the biggest hug. we all love you so much and appreciate you opening yourself up to what can sometimes be a harsh crowd and for being you. I think a lot of us can relate and it is truly amazing to have someone like you being so honest on youtube. I LOVE YOU and am cheering you on and supporting you every step of the way
yes. girl, you’re not alone!! I’m moving in June (during a pandemic) and I was scared of people judging me but I’m doing it for me! My lease was up and I just DID it and signed a new lease. Can’t wait to see your moving vlogs 🤩
THANK YOU sis for uploading this, and bring so real and vulnerable!! I’ve been going through a v similar situation and have been having those awful feelings that I’m going to end up alone, questioning why it’s so hard to find love. It’s really nice to know that you’re not alone when it feels like everybody around you is so happy in their love lives. We just need to keep moving forward, being the boss gals on the go that we are! We have so much to be grateful for, who needs boys! ILY ❤️
You’re still young. My husband was my first real relationship. After meeting him it felt like everything happened for a reason. I was dragged through the dirt by a bunch of guys. And then when the right person came and it clicked. And don’t give yourself a timeline. That’s what made me really stress and what has really affected a lot of my friends. Make a life that is boom with or without someone. Someone will come along that will click.
Samantha Dullard yea literally the same thing happened with me! And I would not change it I’m so glad my husband if my first big love story and my last!
Aw Brooke, I’m so sorry. When something doesn’t work out with someone you’re invested in, it’s shitty, there’s no way around it. But it’s not wasted time so long as you learn from it. Like learn what you want in a guy and that you deserve someone who not only appreciates but loves what you do! In the meantime though, it’s so okay to cry and feel and process that experience. Like the vulnerability you show online is absolutely incredible and something to admire. Even though it’s not romantic love, you’ve got a whole community of people here who love you sis 💛 stay strong
hearing you talk about how you feel like you're not worthy of love is heartbreaking. you are so beautiful, strong, and hardworking and you deserve people in your life who love you for you. something that i learned in therapy recently lol that has been really helpful in situations like these is what my therapist calls the '90/10 rule' which basically means that when you're rejected or someone treats you badly, it's 90% them, 10% you. So sure, maybe there's something they weren't vibing with abt you specifically, but it's more about them and where they are in their life. it's brought me a lot of peace in dealing with family relationships that are strained. we all love u so much, and u will find your guy one day !
thank you so much for sharing that side of your life. I'm almost 22 and I also have never been in a relationship, so seeing someone like you who's only a year older than me going through the same thing is really really assuring. I feel like I need to be in a relationship soon and I'm just not even close to that stage. Watching this kind of stuff just makes me feel like I can relate so much so thank you
Girl I had to wait till I was 23 to find the boy of my DREAMS. I literally have never been in a serious relationship before this. Don’t panic, don’t beat yourself up, it’s 100% not you, you’ll find your person when you’re meant to 💕
Brooke, go to therapy and read about attachment styles!! A couple of years ago, I was dealing with similar stuff regarding relationships (choosing the wrong people, never getting past the casual stage of relationships, etc) and reading the book Attached by Amir Levine (It's $2 on amazon right now!) was a huge game changer. Thanks to this book and therapy, I learned a ton about how I function in relationships and how to recognize and break my patterns/bad habits when dating. I'm in a healthy, happy relationship now but more importantly, I finally understand myself and why I act the way I act. I know it's scary and hard to take the first step but it's seriously worth it.
Thank you for being so open and honest because so many people relate. You don't need me to tell you this but you are a catch, seriously. You're successful, hardworking, funny. There are billions of people on this earth so it's okay that you haven't found one to be serious with yet (this is coming from someone who also has never been in a serious relationship - I'm 22). Your feelings are completely valid because it sucks when nothing seems to work out but please don't doubt your worth!! I couldn't not say anything because I really admire and respect you.
YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE ❤️ I also just went through a very similar situation so I feel this so bad 😂 You can’t dim your light or change who you are for a boy. The right *MAN* will love you for the real you and appreciate you for the things that you love and bring you joy. I am excited to see these moving vlogs and where the next few months take you!
girly don’t be stressing about guys right now! you are soooooo young! i found my boyfriend when i wasn’t even looking. i met him on tinder by quickly swiping right on him (lol) then we talked for about 2 months before meeting and after 3 years we are inseparable. you have to remember the right one is out there for you and this one wasn’t meant to be and there is nothing wrong with that. you do YOU.
You are one of my FAVORITE youtubers! The main reason is because you are so real and raw! You are not afraid to show your emotions good and bad , you are bold enough to show yourself going from so happy to breaking down with tears , and for that I commend you. You are not afraid to show that you are not perfect and you feel things just like the rest of us. I am right there with you!I really liked what you said on the podcast about you being an influencer but at the end of the day you are just a girl with feelings and everything you feel is more than valid! You are NEVER THE PROBLEM! I have been down that road to and trust me the right person will be attracted to you for all of you and love even the parts that are hard for you to love . All I see from you is an strong ,independent young women who is on a path to great things , and eventually the right person will become part of that path and will not want you to change , only make you stronger. You are beautiful Brooke no matter how insecure you get from time to time , you are gorgeous inside and out! Love you and your videos , thank you for being one of the most real and kind human beings there is💕
Girl I feel you re: boys. I’m sure you’ve heard it all already, just know that a lot of us feel very similarly and it’s 1000% okay to feel everything you’re feeling! 💕💕💕
Brooke, I had to pause and write this - I have felt the EXACT same way as you, and your feelings are completely valid! If someone does not appreciate every ounce of who you truly are, then they're not your person. I promise that person is out there! Never ever stop being completely you.
GIRL, I know that you already know how incredible, amazing, successful, and independent you are and you WILL find a partner who is just as successful and independent as you!!!! You're still SO young; don't forget that!! Just enjoy your life and live it up - what happens, happens !! :)
Brooke, you are not the problem. You are worthy! You’re beautiful and you will find someone who loves you and isn’t intimidated by you! Keep doing you!! Might be hard now when it keeps not working out. But it’ll work out and you’ll be okay! Love you and your videos!
I felt like I was watching my past self. I never was in a relationship and always struggled with guys. I was convinced I was straight, but then I randomly met a girl and now we’re married. Don’t give up. 😂😂
When you were crying and you said that last part "you are enough" literally made me tear up, i truly see you as such a strong person yet vulnerable and its so comforting to see that ppl do go through things like this 💜💜, you're an icon and the right person will come along, you're 23 relax ,hehe! Ily!
strong and confident men do NOT get intimidated by a woman's success. those comments are a reflection of their insecurity, they are not a reflection of you. you will find your person and you are so young still. trust me, someone will come when you least expect it. love you!
I was just thinking how I love seeing how happy and carefree you are. Thank you much for being raw and so vulnerable. The world and TH-cam community needs more of this. It’s OK not to know. It’s not your job to know the future. Live in the present and be expectant of the future ! You have so much worth and value. This string of insecure men is just a road that we lead you to who you are meant to be with ! Praying for you !
I think I agree with another comment who said guys might be intimidated about what you do not money wise but the fact that you are so public with your life. When I started my youtube channel I had to respect my husband's wishs to not be on camera even when I vlog. I minimize talking about him on camera even to respect his privacy. You are so public that it could be a real concern for someone else. Just keep that in mind!
You are right that not many people are open about their relationships and insecurities so I thank you for being open and brave enough to share those insecurities. It definitely helps to not feel so alone.
Continue being yourself boo !! I went through this a few yrs ago , the PERFECT person is otw I promise I would cry & cry about not having love then BOOM my perfect person came and now I couldn’t be happier ❤️.. sending positive vibes to you !
Brooke you’re still so young! You’re absolutely beautiful and I love watching your vlogs, you’re so down to earth and genuine and wear your heart on your sleeve. You have amazing friends and family :- it may feel worse as the timing is total arse with lockdown but you’ll find the right person for you. Sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs to find your Prince Charming! I’m a huge fan of your vlogs all the way from the UK! X
I hate seeing her so down and sad because she’s such an inspiration for not only me but many people and she’s too good to be going through what she is. We all love you and support you no matter what !😘
Brooke. Those BOYS, because real men would not be intimidated by their woman’s success, do not deserve you. One day you’ll find a man who supports your lifestyle and everything about you. Don’t get discouraged! You’ll find the right man when the time is right.
Maddie Jackson while Brooke is definitely worthy of love and I know she will find someone who will appreciate her when it’s the right time, I don’t think it’s fair to assume that this guy couldn’t handle or was intimidated by her success. She never mentioned success, she used the word lifestyle: it could simply be the fact that not everyone is comfortable with dating someone whose life is very public and who shares a lot on social media. I know I wouldn’t, personally, as I’m a more private person, and that doesn’t make me “scared of people’s success”.
Giulia Battini
Yeah I agree with that. At least he was man enough to tell her straight up how he felt and the reasons he felt like that. It sucks when those things happen, but you’ve got to give credit to the guy for being open and honest. That’s maturity.
Maddie Jackson GIRL YES!!! I agree 100%
Took the words right out of my mouth. The right one will come along. Enjoy this time of your life dating and finding yourself.
YES YES
Brooke, I really admire you’re vulnerability online. I can relate a lot with what you are saying as 23 year old too. It is so comforting to watch your video. You are an amazing, strong person! Keep doing you! Thank you for your videos! It always makes my day and helps me to feel better.
Agreed
23 year old too, and totally agree with everything you just said but maybe that’s because of our names 🤷♀️😂
RT!!
The rollercoaster of emotion here is just so severely relatable
I have never been in a relationship, and i am 23. The same thing happens over and over again. You are worthy of love, and you have more to offer then they can handle. I always felt insecure about it, but now I am secure in myself, and who i am. Stay confident, and strong.
Wow what you said hit me hard. Im 20, single, and never been in a relationship yet. Thank you
I’m 25 and I’ve never been in a relationship either. Everything else is fine: financially independent, good career, great friends, but when it comes to boys I have no clue 😫
Watching this I really realized this feeling is felt by so many other girls, But its so hard when in our personal lives it constantly feels like its only us unlucky and all of our friends are lucky and happy with significant others, Its so hard to put into words sometimes when you feel like this , but I've come to learnt that the same things like having relationships is not meant for everyone especially at this age, In time we will find something that will bring us more happiness and joy..maybe that is a guy or maybe it is a passion that distracts us and shows us why we havent experienced "love" yet
@@sabrinatatalias4277 ofc girl! stay confident and true to yourself, the right one will come along
@@infinitegraces you'll find the right one, and whoever it is will be lucky!
If a guy is intimidated that’s a weakness on his part not yours. Sis live your best life and f them.
LITERALLLLYYY
Like if u think Brooke needs an older man, not some little boy that’s “intimidated” by her
Macy Thompson 💯
Sally Hudson tbh maybe even 30
Yeah she definitely needs to try dating older guys, like 4 years plus
Unfortunately older men do the same things and can act the same way as an older woman I’ll just say that
PERIOD
Brooke don’t cry. Your not the problem. Your time will come, don’t rush it. Girl you keep messing with these clowns so of course they will be intimidated. Leave your typical type alone. Keep living your life ❤️
Brooke this literally breaks my heart! You ARE worthy of love that's the thing and when the right guy comes around he will love you unconditionally. You inspire me everyday and I love you so much!! So many other people love you too FOR YOU!! Don't let a guy make you forget how amazing you are
Brooke Brooke Brooke. I was watching this vlog on my tv while eating dinner and I stopped, pulled out my phone and had to comment. First off, YOUR FEELINGS ARE VALID but, I want you to know that THOSE ARENT YOUR GUYS. You are NOT THE PROBLEM (repeat after me), YOU ARE NOT THE PROBLEM. Your guy is in this world, right now, and when you meet him, you will realize that your current feelings were part of your journey but not worth being upset. You are worthy of love, you are living your best passionate life and so blessed. I was in your shoes last year and it gets better. Your perfect guy will come into your life when it’s right and when you least expect it. Please believe in yourself and keep doing you. Appreciate you being real on here because this is real life but keep your head up and keep killing it girl!!
UGH. Watching you “go through it” (at minute 12) breaks my heart. You deserve to be the happiest -all the time. You are smart, and ambitious and have such a positive presence. Sending you so much love.
"I'm gonna eat my blueberries and probably cry" is such a MOOD. You're amazing Brooke and you'll find your person - someone who isn't intimidated by your success!!
Brooke you are beautiful, so strong, and worthy of having people in your life who are going to root for you & love you for exactly who you are. You are doing everything you can, and your feelings & emotions are so valid. We are here for you ❤️
“I think I only ate cheese yesterday” I felt that
Obviously a #fitness influencer
@@brookemiccio Manchego is superior tho
I died at that
the fact that someone i look up to so much and think so highly of also has insecurities/struggles (especially about dating and love) and is fully vulnerable about it, makes me feel so so normal for having the same exact insecurities. Everyone I'm surrounded by is doing so great w dating and finding a guy they love, or just have always been good at talking to guys/being wanted by them and to see one of my role models and someone who is absolutely KILLING the game at everything else is so beyond comforting to me and makes me feel so normal. I can't express how thankful I am for being so open. It's something that so many people also struggle with but few ppl have the guts like u to be vulnerable about it.
BROOKE, you are the MOST deserving of love. I think when you finally truly believe that yourself, you will find someone. I know its cliche to say "you need to love yourself first" but you really do. I hate seeing you be so hard on yourself and letting other people get you down. Once you feel confident and fulfilled on your own you won't be looking for a man to give you that feeling, it's in yourself Brooke. I know you can find it
“I’m just gunna sit here, eat my blueberries, and probs cry” I felt that hard lmao
I don' think I've ever watched a more relatable vlog before, I'm also 23 and living with my parents even tho I'm paying rent for my apartment in Boston and went through a "thing" that started before quarantine that just ended when I was home alone for a bit. Its so hard not having people to bounce things off of, or feeling guilty for not being in your apartment but we just have to stop being so hard on ourselves. As someone who also hasn't had a relationship yet I know it will happen to us soon but its hard not to have these insecurities. Thank you for being so open about everything, sending love
Brooke! I totally FEEL you on guys being overwhelmed by a woman who has her act together, expects certain standards, and is in the public eye!! You are a strong, capable, beautiful & intelligent woman. Any man who is scared of having to handle everything that comes with dating you I promise is a weak guy you won't want in the long run! sending you love xox
Literally tearing up watch this and honestly it’s so relatable. I’m also 23 and there are just so many times where I just feel unworthy of love but thank you for sharing it’s nice to know that other people my age go through the same thing
I appreciate your transparency Brooke. A lot of people don't show their emotions on TH-cam, or in real life. and the fact that you do - is actually a strength of yours. This is why i subscribed.
“I’m just gonna eat my blueberries and probably cry” lololol what! A! Mood!😂
Jenna Mayer ikr😂😂
lol
Grace Alexandra p
Jenna Mayer i guess that's my favorite sentence from now on. Never related more to anything than eating blueberries and crying😂😂
Brooke, thank you for sharing the hard moments with us. There is nothing wrong with you. You haven't found the right guy yet who is going to cherish you and respect you for the life that you live and want to hype you up and show you off! be patient!!! One thing I was thinking about was that when these guys are referring to being intimidated by your lifestyle, I think that guys get nervous when people are on social media because once you do start dating, it will be really public and other people will get emotionally invested. that's intimidating to people. just keep that in mind that it might be less about the things you do and the type of activities you participate in than it is about being not wanting to be publicized. xoxo
I just wanted to say that how someone treats you or how they feel about you says everything about THEM and nothing about you as a person. You are worthy of love, don't let these boys fool you into thinking otherwise.
YYES YES YESS thank you for being vulnerable about this!! every time a relationship ends or i get ghosted, no one understands why it's such a big deal to me. It's not about the person, it's about how it becomes a pattern which makes me question MY worth and if ill ever find someone!!!! Thank you for saying this I've never heard it vocalized from someone else this well. i love you, brooke. please know it's not you and you will find your person
Thank you for opening up and explaining why you‘re feeling sad because of course you didn’t have to! I can totally relate, I also always put all of my eggs in one basket and get disappointed when things don’t work out. But I feel like in doing so I am often thinking that the guy is better than he really is. And you definitely need someone who is successful in his career as well and doesn’t get intimidated by your success and lifestyle because that is definitely not your fault! Wishing you all the best and thanks for being open with us 🥰💕
I just wanted to say THANK YOU! Thank you for talking about how being alone encourages you to internalize things resulting in you blaming yourself for things...I have been alone in my apartment for 7 weeks now and I thought I was being crazy, but it's reassuring to know that other people have experienced something similar
Brooke, I can’t even tell you how much this video meant to me and how much this video helped. I LOVE seeing this side of you. It’s so real, raw, and relatable. I went through something like this super recently too and it has also become a sort of pattern for me so everything you said resonated so well it honestly shook me LOL. Thank you thank you thank you for putting out such amazing content like this and becoming more real, YOU, and vulnerable with us. This is what we love to see because we care so much about you. Keep your head up and continue being the ambitious, strong, beautiful woman you are and believe me the right person will walk right into your life. Once again, this has got to be one of my favorite videos. Love you so much ❤️ keep up the amazing work :)
it helped me too! Hope you are doing okay
Brooke, you are one of the kindest most genuine people I have met. You are SO worthy of love and any guy who doesn’t see that is insane. If a guy is intimidated of you, they clearly are not worth your time. ❤️ I’m so excited for you to move to nyc! It’s going to be such a good chapter of your life.
NATALIEEE I’m crying ur too sweet. Ugh thank you. SO EXCITED FOR THE NEXT CHAPTER wooooohooo
I cant even begin to explain how much your vulnerability and honesty with boys means. You're so real and relatable and I can't thank you enough for that. Keep staying strong and beautiful!
don’t let that get you down! ❤️ at least he was open & honest with you! there’s so many other ppl out there. i was single until i was 24 & ran into someone from high school after not seeing them for 8 years & we’ve been dating for 2 years now. it literally hits you when you least expect it to!
To Brooke and any other girl going through a similar situation:
As cliche as this may sound but its nothing to do with you and everything to do with THEM!!! if ANYTHING, your lifestyle and the success you've achieved is so inspirational and you've come such a long way, ive been watching before you even got into UGA and if a BOY is intimidated by you, you're doing great and you will find someone who's gonna appreciate that hard work and push you to constantly improve yourself instead of putting you down or not motivating you! Love you xx
literally feel the "what I am even doing here" sooo much. honestly so grateful for you being so real about your feelings on your channel!!
brooke, thank you for being SO real and genuine with us. i can’t even express to you how much it helps me not feel so alone. it truly makes me feel like you’re one of my friends. i’m 24 and feel the exact same way. sophie turner is also 24 and having a baby with joe jonas, and then there’s me who’s 24 living at home with my parents and never had a real relationship (i know we shouldn’t compare ourselves to others but, come on we all do sometimes) 😂
I guess there are many people out there, who are easily intimidated, and maybe they aren't too happy with where they are in life, so seeing you being successful and basically slaying at life, makes them feel bad about themselves, but that just means that they have issues and not that there is anything wrong with you!! I've been listening to the pod and watching your vlogs for a while now and they are just my favorite thing ever, because you are such an open, warm, funny, lovable gal. Like you are badass and successful but still vulnerable at the same time, and that is so impressive, I truly look up to you as a person and anyone, who would have the chance to end up with you or even get with you, will be so damn lucky!! You're an icon
My queen! You are going to go FAR on yt if you continue being ur authentic relatable self. Viewers can smell inauthenticity and like hidden truths or putting up a fake perfect life for a lot of youtubers but you are so genuine ❤️ its going to pay off
Brooke, something I have always enjoyed about watching your videos is how real you are. You show your vulnerable side and I’ve always appreciated that. I’m in the same boat as you. I’ve never had a real relationship and sometimes I feel the same way, that I’m unworthy of love and that something is “wrong” with me. Watching this vlog made me cry, I’ve said those exact words, cried those exact tears. Some days it’s super hard, both my younger sisters are married and I long to be in a relationship myself, to have a companion. Sometimes I tell myself that I’m so different and special from other girls that I need a really great guy to appreciate that. Just remember, it’s always ok to cry (I’m a pro at crying, lol) and keep being the very best version of yourself because the person you have to love first is you. :)
I feel like you admitting that this isn’t your city is such a mature thing! I’m so hopeful for you that the future is going to be way more positive!
Seeing how much happier you got after deciding that you weren’t going to stay (for the time being as well as with your lease) and when you started talking about packing your entire wardrobe to bring home, brought a smile to my face. There is nothing wrong with going back home to family or deciding to move everything into storage during this time as long as you take precautions and you as well as those involved, stay safe.
When you said “I’m unworthy of love” I felt that. Like I know it’s not true, but when I’m in my lowest it’s the first thought I have 😔
I've honestly never related to a TH-camr more than I do to Brooke. The strength and thoughtfulness she clearly shows when talking to us is unparalleled on TH-cam. I'm so grateful to have a role model like her.
seeing you cry breaks my heart!! when the time is right someone will come along that will be proud of your success and cheer you on!! sending you such a BIG hug!
Brooke!! This video was so refreshing. I have always related to and admired your willingness to share your struggles and make decisions for YOURSELF, that make you happy and fulfilled. I am so excited to see where this NYC journey takes you.
This hurt me to watch because I really related to everything you were saying. I’ve always envisioned being alone for the rest of my life because boys are never interested and if they are it lasts about 2 days until they get to know me. I’ve never really felt good enough for anyone in my life. I’m usually okay with the idea of never having a boyfriend but sometimes it sucks when you take the risk of putting yourself out there and it doesn’t work out. Hang in there Brooke, you’re definitely not alone. ❤️❤️
I really admire how you’re able to let yourself FEEL the feels for a minute and then move forward from that and come out stronger. Thank you for being willing to include that aspect of your life in the vlogs - especially during this wild time, it’s so important for people to know that emotions are real and raw and normal! Much love! 💞
BROOKE, you’re amazing! Any guy intimidated is not the guy for you. The right guy will respect and look up to you for your ambition and lifestyle.
This is the realest thing I’ve seen in a while. You’re truly my favorite influencer out there. Keep staying true to yourself and I believe with my whole heart you’ll find an amazing guy soon. Love u sm brooke
I feel the same when you talked about not being able to get to the "official" stage with someone. I came to the terms that they will come around with they are ready too. Keep your head up, you have so much going for your career and it is only getting started!! The right person will come around the corner soon :)
So appreciate you being open about this, it’s never easy when a relationship doesn’t work out! But IT IS NOT you!! You’ll definitely find someone who understands and respects your lifestyle! I know it’s easier said then done, but hang in there ❤️
the whole time you were crying i wanted to just give you the biggest hug :( i PROMISE you there’s nothing wrong with you! please don’t be ashamed of your work because a guy can’t handle that lifestyle! keep being yourself and doing things that make you happy and i promise you will find a man who aligns with your lifestyle. you got this babe!! xo you’re so beautiful, thank you for being open with us ❤️
Brooke I’m a little older than you and I’ve def felt like this before. Some unsolicited advice haha that no one ever gave me in my early 20s: figure out why it IS you, it’s who you pick and it’s how you let people’s potential be your reality. You’ll save yourself a lot of heartbreak later. Tough love but how you’re feeling is NOT because you’re too successful, it’s bc your standards are low. Keep going, you have a lot to offer 💕
omg a 40 min vid she’s too good to us 😩
I've been waitin' for this one.. TURN IT UP!
Jessi Ryan lmao i love tik tok
Brooke, I've been watching you since you were in high school and in a way you've kind of been my big sister. I look up to you SO much and I cannot tell you how meaningful and validating it is to see you in your harder moments, because we ALL have them. One day soon you're going to find a man who is mature and secure enough to be with you. Boys literally take so long to grow up it's ridiculous, but I know you're going to find someone amazing. I feel like you are a very complete person on your own, so you need a guy who is complete, too.
i feel so up to date on your life from listening to your insta live. we got the little sneak peek
we love an isolating mask wearing queen
in all seriousness, your thoughts about overthinking when you're alone and why relationships turn out with guys because they're intimidated by what you do is literally a whole mood and thoughts i've been struggling with for the last 3 years now.
Cant wait for brooke to reference back at these vids and laugh once shes in a happy long term relationship
Me too dawg thank u 😭😭😭😭
Brooke I can relate to you so much. I’m 23 and also have never been in a serious relationship. Sometimes it makes me feel really shitty and question if I will ever find love too. Just know you are not alone in this and stay strong 💖
Brooke, my heart hurt when you started to cry. I’ve been in your shoes, and I know how you feel. I’ve learned that guys in their twenties can be very indecisive and unsure about their emotions/feelings. Keep doing you & thriving and everything else will come. ❤️ Everything will work out & you are not the problem. You work hard! Love you and your videos, they have been great during quarantine 💫
I’ve never had a serious relationship either...we have so much time to find the right one. I have so many similar thoughts as you, but what keeps me going is that in like 2-3 years boys are going to want girls who can stand alone and are happy with themselves...that’s when our time will come. 💗 The YT thing is hard..honestly on first dates I try to avoid bringing it up because I don’t want it to come off as superficial, but at the same time I just fucking embrace it because any guy would be so lucky to have your stability and love!
Thinking of you Brooke 💗
LOVE U
Brooke you are absolutely NOT the problem. One of the biggest achievements in life is the point where you can be yourself and feel comfortable being you. To be honest, I watch your videos and I am always so inspired by you BECAUSE you are yourself.
Recently, a 6 year relationship that I thought was going to be it was completely taken from me and I didn't see it coming. Since then, I have felt the way you do and it can be all consuming.
I feel good when I watch your videos and you have no idea the positive influence you can have on someone just by being you.
I'm going to be in Boston in September and I would love the opportunity to meet you.
Until then, keep doing what you're doing. You're a beautiful woman and he wasn't worthy of what you can give. X
People aren’t being negative they are holding influencers accountable because they often have thousands and millions of fans that look up to them and when you’re doing things contrary to public health guidelines during a pandemic, people are going to call you out. You have a responsibility to be aware that your followers may do the same and risk their health and the health of others.
coco marineblu totally agree we should be looking to our public health officials. That’s in a perfect world but common sense isn’t common sense, a lot of the world isn’t educated or don’t have access to trusted sources and many people follow personalities (trump) instead of fact so they don’t know that the random TH-cam video they are watching isn’t fact. Therefore influencers have a responsibility to also follow public health guidelines and propagate the truth.
I'm so so happy for you that you're figuring it out and putting yourself first!!! Allow yourself to enjoy being home too! You have so much time to move out to the city, don't feel like you have to immediately rush into something. And you're a gem, I know the right guys is waiting for you in New York!!!!!
BROOKE you’re so so great. When shit like this happens to me I just remind myself that this isn’t my peak. and yes, therapy would be so beneficial. you’re so funny and one of my favorite people to watch on the internet. love you
You have such a good head on your shoulders and I’ve always found that when you stop looking for love (literally in all aspects) and just devote that energy into yourself, you’ll meet someone on your level. Thank you for being vulnerable and honest :)
Watching you cry made me feel like my best friend was going through a heart break💔 I’ve been watching you for 5 years so I feel like your my best friend. I hate watching you go through a hard time🥺 you’re not alone!!
It's so nice to watch this knowing you found someone who does appreciate you and love you for who you are! It's sweet to watch this and know that your bf is accepting of your lifestyle and you got through this! I'm so proud of how far you've come! So glad to be called your supporter! Keep going girl!
brooke i love you so much!!! it makes me so sad to see you cry :((
everything happens for a reason! you’re gonna look back at this when you’re married to the man of your dreams and be like “lmao i didn’t even know what was coming” because YOU’RE GONNA FIND SOMEONE PERFECT FOR YOU! keep your head up girly 💛💛💛💛💛 you are loved
Thank you for showing the difficult side of things, and be willing and strong to open up. I know things are hard and I just want to give you the biggest hug. we all love you so much and appreciate you opening yourself up to what can sometimes be a harsh crowd and for being you. I think a lot of us can relate and it is truly amazing to have someone like you being so honest on youtube. I LOVE YOU and am cheering you on and supporting you every step of the way
yes. girl, you’re not alone!! I’m moving in June (during a pandemic) and I was scared of people judging me but I’m doing it for me! My lease was up and I just DID it and signed a new lease. Can’t wait to see your moving vlogs 🤩
THANK YOU sis for uploading this, and bring so real and vulnerable!! I’ve been going through a v similar situation and have been having those awful feelings that I’m going to end up alone, questioning why it’s so hard to find love. It’s really nice to know that you’re not alone when it feels like everybody around you is so happy in their love lives. We just need to keep moving forward, being the boss gals on the go that we are! We have so much to be grateful for, who needs boys! ILY ❤️
You’re still young. My husband was my first real relationship. After meeting him it felt like everything happened for a reason. I was dragged through the dirt by a bunch of guys. And then when the right person came and it clicked. And don’t give yourself a timeline. That’s what made me really stress and what has really affected a lot of my friends. Make a life that is boom with or without someone. Someone will come along that will click.
Samantha Dullard yea literally the same thing happened with me! And I would not change it I’m so glad my husband if my first big love story and my last!
This is So true! You will meet your person oneday and you will know. Just like that.
Aw Brooke, I’m so sorry. When something doesn’t work out with someone you’re invested in, it’s shitty, there’s no way around it. But it’s not wasted time so long as you learn from it. Like learn what you want in a guy and that you deserve someone who not only appreciates but loves what you do! In the meantime though, it’s so okay to cry and feel and process that experience. Like the vulnerability you show online is absolutely incredible and something to admire. Even though it’s not romantic love, you’ve got a whole community of people here who love you sis 💛 stay strong
hearing you talk about how you feel like you're not worthy of love is heartbreaking. you are so beautiful, strong, and hardworking and you deserve people in your life who love you for you. something that i learned in therapy recently lol that has been really helpful in situations like these is what my therapist calls the '90/10 rule' which basically means that when you're rejected or someone treats you badly, it's 90% them, 10% you. So sure, maybe there's something they weren't vibing with abt you specifically, but it's more about them and where they are in their life. it's brought me a lot of peace in dealing with family relationships that are strained. we all love u so much, and u will find your guy one day !
I absolutely love this wow. I needed to hear it. Thank you so much for sharing
thank you so much for sharing that side of your life. I'm almost 22 and I also have never been in a relationship, so seeing someone like you who's only a year older than me going through the same thing is really really assuring. I feel like I need to be in a relationship soon and I'm just not even close to that stage. Watching this kind of stuff just makes me feel like I can relate so much so thank you
Girl I had to wait till I was 23 to find the boy of my DREAMS. I literally have never been in a serious relationship before this. Don’t panic, don’t beat yourself up, it’s 100% not you, you’ll find your person when you’re meant to 💕
Brooke, go to therapy and read about attachment styles!! A couple of years ago, I was dealing with similar stuff regarding relationships (choosing the wrong people, never getting past the casual stage of relationships, etc) and reading the book Attached by Amir Levine (It's $2 on amazon right now!) was a huge game changer. Thanks to this book and therapy, I learned a ton about how I function in relationships and how to recognize and break my patterns/bad habits when dating. I'm in a healthy, happy relationship now but more importantly, I finally understand myself and why I act the way I act. I know it's scary and hard to take the first step but it's seriously worth it.
a 40 minute vlog with a short & subtle title, this is gonna be GOOOD
Thank you for being so open and honest because so many people relate. You don't need me to tell you this but you are a catch, seriously. You're successful, hardworking, funny. There are billions of people on this earth so it's okay that you haven't found one to be serious with yet (this is coming from someone who also has never been in a serious relationship - I'm 22). Your feelings are completely valid because it sucks when nothing seems to work out but please don't doubt your worth!! I couldn't not say anything because I really admire and respect you.
YOU ARE WORTHY OF LOVE ❤️ I also just went through a very similar situation so I feel this so bad 😂 You can’t dim your light or change who you are for a boy. The right *MAN* will love you for the real you and appreciate you for the things that you love and bring you joy. I am excited to see these moving vlogs and where the next few months take you!
There’s bravery in being vulnerable and sharing that part of your life with your subscribers!! I really appreciate that. Love you 💕
girly don’t be stressing about guys right now! you are soooooo young! i found my boyfriend when i wasn’t even looking. i met him on tinder by quickly swiping right on him (lol) then we talked for about 2 months before meeting and after 3 years we are inseparable. you have to remember the right one is out there for you and this one wasn’t meant to be and there is nothing wrong with that. you do YOU.
You are one of my FAVORITE youtubers! The main reason is because you are so real and raw! You are not afraid to show your emotions good and bad , you are bold enough to show yourself going from so happy to breaking down with tears , and for that I commend you. You are not afraid to show that you are not perfect and you feel things just like the rest of us. I am right there with you!I really liked what you said on the podcast about you being an influencer but at the end of the day you are just a girl with feelings and everything you feel is more than valid! You are NEVER THE PROBLEM! I have been down that road to and trust me the right person will be attracted to you for all of you and love even the parts that are hard for you to love . All I see from you is an strong ,independent young women who is on a path to great things , and eventually the right person will become part of that path and will not want you to change , only make you stronger. You are beautiful Brooke no matter how insecure you get from time to time , you are gorgeous inside and out! Love you and your videos , thank you for being one of the most real and kind human beings there is💕
Girl I feel you re: boys. I’m sure you’ve heard it all already, just know that a lot of us feel very similarly and it’s 1000% okay to feel everything you’re feeling! 💕💕💕
Brooke, I had to pause and write this - I have felt the EXACT same way as you, and your feelings are completely valid! If someone does not appreciate every ounce of who you truly are, then they're not your person. I promise that person is out there! Never ever stop being completely you.
GIRL, I know that you already know how incredible, amazing, successful, and independent you are and you WILL find a partner who is just as successful and independent as you!!!! You're still SO young; don't forget that!! Just enjoy your life and live it up - what happens, happens !! :)
Brooke, you are not the problem. You are worthy! You’re beautiful and you will find someone who loves you and isn’t intimidated by you! Keep doing you!! Might be hard now when it keeps not working out. But it’ll work out and you’ll be okay! Love you and your videos!
I felt like I was watching my past self. I never was in a relationship and always struggled with guys. I was convinced I was straight, but then I randomly met a girl and now we’re married. Don’t give up. 😂😂
When you were crying and you said that last part "you are enough" literally made me tear up, i truly see you as such a strong person yet vulnerable and its so comforting to see that ppl do go through things like this 💜💜, you're an icon and the right person will come along, you're 23 relax ,hehe! Ily!
strong and confident men do NOT get intimidated by a woman's success. those comments are a reflection of their insecurity, they are not a reflection of you. you will find your person and you are so young still. trust me, someone will come when you least expect it. love you!
I was just thinking how I love seeing how happy and carefree you are. Thank you much for being raw and so vulnerable. The world and TH-cam community needs more of this. It’s OK not to know. It’s not your job to know the future. Live in the present and be expectant of the future ! You have so much worth and value. This string of insecure men is just a road that we lead you to who you are meant to be with ! Praying for you !
I think I agree with another comment who said guys might be intimidated about what you do not money wise but the fact that you are so public with your life. When I started my youtube channel I had to respect my husband's wishs to not be on camera even when I vlog. I minimize talking about him on camera even to respect his privacy. You are so public that it could be a real concern for someone else. Just keep that in mind!
i love how real you are its so refreshing
"thrive szn" on top of the fridge yes queen
You are right that not many people are open about their relationships and insecurities so I thank you for being open and brave enough to share those insecurities. It definitely helps to not feel so alone.
I clicked so fast I have been waiting for this
You are doing the best for you. Someone who actually appreciates you and what you stand for and represent will come along girl. I feel you.
don't feel bad! i have friends in their late 20s/early 30s just meeting their first boyfriends. wait out for the right guy!
Continue being yourself boo !! I went through this a few yrs ago , the PERFECT person is otw I promise I would cry & cry about not having love then BOOM my perfect person came and now I couldn’t be happier ❤️.. sending positive vibes to you !
Brooke you’re still so young! You’re absolutely beautiful and I love watching your vlogs, you’re so down to earth and genuine and wear your heart on your sleeve. You have amazing friends and family :- it may feel worse as the timing is total arse with lockdown but you’ll find the right person for you. Sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs to find your Prince Charming! I’m a huge fan of your vlogs all the way from the UK! X
I hate seeing her so down and sad because she’s such an inspiration for not only me but many people and she’s too good to be going through what she is. We all love you and support you no matter what !😘