How do you know if you're GAY? | Allie & Sam | Lesbian Couple
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- We get a lot of people reaching out to us, asking for advice on coming out, and how to tell if they're gay. So, here, we share our experiences with you. As always, feel free to reach out to us at allielovessam@gmail.com! Comment below how you first knew!!!
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Allie and Sam, November 2017
It's reassuring to know that other people found out through being drawn to girlxgirl media/couples as well as crushes. I've been obsessed with lesbian relationships since I was 13 but didn't have my first crush until 18.
I've always known I liked girls since I was 11 years old but I always pushed it away because of family but in high school I came out as bi had many boyfriends but never was happy so a few months after my 21st birthday ( I'm 25 now) I came out as lesbian.. lost a few family memebers but I am glad I am able to be myself.
So proud of you for coming out!
Tiffany Pollard my story is the same i still have not came all the way out because of my family an now its even harder because i have kids now
Me, as a girl, I am comfortable with girls. Guys, I sorta pushed away. I don’t find guys cute. I was fine with thinking I was Bi.. but then this cute girl comes along and now I’m just confused.
I also see myself with girls more than with boys. Like.. wellppp
I think this is helpful- I’m at a weird place of acknowledging that I like girls but being in denial at the same time, and it’s been a weird few years I guess so needless to say I’m just kind of confused. It’s reassuring to see happy couples like you two and to remind myself that I can be gay and still be me without changing anything! much love
Killua Zoldyck o
It hit the nail on the head, exactly how I feel as well
Omg same! I think now I'm more on the steady side and okay with me being gay but it's a weird new feeling almost? I know it's two years later, but how're you now? :3
My very first girl crush was in first grade, and I didn't know how to handle the emotions so I said, to her face "get out of my school." Needless to say, we were best friends since she moved away in fourth grade and we lost touch.
this was so helpful and the way you look at each other is so wholesome and heartwarming 💕
O my gosh yes. Seeing that there are girls who can be gay and girly was such a big moment for me. And seeing cute happy couples like you two give me so much hope that maybe one day I can have a beautiful girlfriend and come out.
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SO RELATABLE!
I've just discovered you guys but I think I love you already ♥ I'm also from a small village, everyone is straight, christian, white, conservative - you name it. I always thought I was gay because I never had a guy crush like *everyone* else had... But when I came out to my bestfriend she left me, so I hid it. I didn't really like anyone though, so I never knew what I "truly" was. I started dating boys in highschool (age 16) and basically have since, but I still feel like a big part of me is gay, which is why I'm very comfortable expressing myself as either bisexual or pansexual :) I've now experimented a little bit with girls, but I'm currently with a guy, because regardless of gender he happens to be a boy that's my soulmate ♥ Still feel like something's missing though, and I can't wait to meet the right girl♥
I always felt like an outcast because I'm Christian pro life but I'm bisexual may be lesbian so it's hard to find someone who agrees with me on either side
And I'm fem who likes fems so that also makes it difficult cause everyone thinks I'm giving *bestie when I wanna give *lesbi or just into chicks * idk it's so irritating cause I find a Christian who is pro life but then they don't like women and agree with things that is just homophobic or anti women
I have always known I tried forcing myself to like guys and dated them but I couldnt be with them we had problems checking out that same girl. I didnt believe people would except me but most do. Im glad that I came out because the heavy weight of hiding and forcing myself to love people was lifted. I feel free and more care free.
Rose Mirin oml same
Same
I think DeGrassi educated a few Australian young gay people as well.
Such a good show!!
You’re a cute couple!
Awh thanks!
So nice to hear. I feel guilty a lot of the time for not knowing I was bi till the end of high school. But it makes sense when you grow up in a small catholic town and have no exposure! Degrassi and south of nowhere were a godsend. Thanks for being open- it's hard when you think you have to pick one or the other!
Although I reacted by over compensating, going into total denial, and found myself in a doomed ten year marriage, I subconsciously suspected I wasn't entirely straight during my early teens. The clues were basically that all my first sexually charged daydreams and thoughts revolved around fantasies related to being rescued by super heroine types, or casting a spell or using a potion that made them fall in love with me. Sounds so sad, but c'est la vie :)
Why am I watching this I already know I'm gay af
HAHAHAHAH
Same
I did date guys but I don't know it always felt of like if they thouched my lower back I would freak out on the inside in a not good way. Now I went to a Lesbian bar last weekend for the first time I was like out of the closet but still confused and new to all of this. Now this girl thouched my lower back maybe by accident maybe not but butterflies exploded and I wished that moment never ended... that was the moment all my confusion was gone I am 100 % Lesbian uwuw Thank you Girl you dragged me full out and will never forget the kindness you showed me.
Oh my gosh! We're so happy for you! Coming out to yourself is such a huge step!
@@AllieandSam aaw thanks ^_^ yeah it was not easy I live in a verry homophobic area. Thank you so much for responding to my comment hugs
Paws
@@pawspause9234 your story was too cute. Wish you all the best in love, peace and life 💗🙏
These stories are so similar to mine, I grew up in small town NS 💞
OMG I loved Tila Tequila a shot at love!!!! I would watch that in secret cause I was afraid my mom would think I was a lesbian even though I had no idea I even knew I was a lesbian...
Such a good show right!?
Loved this video. Thank you guys for being so open.
just realised im a lesbian cos legit in those situations hahaha
Great informative and fun video!! Thanks 🙏
You don't know how lucky you are. Back in the last 60's, early 70's, there was NO talking about it,. It was horrible, painful, and incredibly damaging....Recently saw my first love and we had no answers as to why we never talked about it. We just couldn't. We didn't have the verbiage for it. I just knew I loved her. She went on to marry a man for which she was miserable and divorced and she turned to god. I remained a lesbian and had good relationships and bad.....and so I continue
In arabic country is still like that :)
I'm also like this that I never had any male friends. And I think the reason why I've always felt so uncomfortable and like I couldn't talk to them normally is because I've had this thought in the back of my head that that's a potential partner for me and this thought made me really uncomfortable and that's why I've always disliked talking to guys
we loved this vid! we're so excited to see what you have planned for vlogmas
p.s which island are you from, we live in nl!!
PEI! Cool, we want to go to NL so bad!!!
if you do, we should totally meet up!!
YES! We'd love that!!!
I'm in love with these two ladies.
I haven't come out to anybody yet, but I think I'm gay. If anybody has any tips on coming out, I would really appreciate them.
Watch videos about coming out. Basically number 1 priority is to make sure you are financially secured just incase your family doesn't accept you or you can stay with someone else if you get kicked out. 2nd you have to fully accept yourself first before others can accept you
omg i also watched tila tequila :0 such a relief to know it wasn't just me ''x3
You're not alone haha
I thought I was late realizing I like girls, but now I know it‘s ok to come out at 20 ☺️
Omg I loved Degrassi and loved Marco and his bf together and the blonde girl and alex ! I was obvious as I was figuring out my orientation but it was hard in my house as they believed to keep this behind closed doors which brung me alot of shame
I'm so sorry you struggled like that!
I'm just now scrolling u r videos and I get this video I watched it and my life is as well as ur stories of how u got to know u r a gay...and few months back I h'v recently got to know that I'm gay and I'm attracted to girls and that's feel me so...better then before and that's my story right now and searching for like this true love of relationship is so...difficult now a days and some Online dating even their not all profiles true... and it's really hard to get such a true love anyway I m just hoping... and yours such a beautiful love story guys...❤❤💞🌈
Sending you love!
Sam, you said you were from an island off the east coast of Canada, which one in particular? Not Newfoundland is it?
PEI!
Allie talks like me. I have the same name, but it’s Ally.
Twins!
Yay! 💜
Omg y’all are so cute!!!
This was very helpful, thanks!
Love this video.
I don't find, for example, the guys at my school attractive. The only guys I've ever had crushes on were celebrities. Girls, on the other hand, make me feel... Different. I don't know if this means I'm Bi or a Lesbian... Can someone help me out?
Questioning your sexuality is hard! We actually have a video all about this coming out later this week!
Thanks for sharing Great vlog!
I think that most that search up vids like this is gay or Bi Curious tbh, I've been questioning my sexuality, I feel that when I was younger I never really liked liked girls, as I never really had many relationships and they didnt feel right to me, I feel like I have alot of respect for women, I had girlfriends but thry never really lasted a day, In school people always asked if I was gay, I guess they arent wrong but can u give advice if u can
Too me I believe I am gay, for the past 3 years my mobile Keyboard has I ❤ Men with Pride flag in Background and I love everything to do with LGBT, if u like someone do u bite youre lip, might do often
You can identify however you want to!! No one can decide your label but you - but it also isn't important! You can just love who you love!
Hey you look gorgeous and this video is great so i have subsribed because i love this video :) Also i have a challenge i hope you will do :) Its called " What did we say challenge ". The rules are one girl is putting a piece of grey duct tape on her mouth and then she tries to say a sentence and the guy then have to guess what she just said. After that it is the guys turn and when both of you have done 10 sentences you see ho guessed the most sentence correct. When you are done with that you both one at the time make 5 long sentence to the camera that the viewers has to guess. Hope you will do my challenge because i love your channel :)
Still today I don’t tell anyone i like other woman mainly bc of fear of shame idk lol
Oh I'm so sorry! Sending you so much love!
where are you both from?
Canada!
You both are beautiful ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Is it possible that I know I’m a lesbian, even though I’ve never had a girlfriend or a girl crush? I just recently started questioning my sexualty, and I’m pretty sure I’m gay, because I’ve never really connected with boys, and i really dont see myself in a relationship with a boy. But is it possible that I just a couple days ago realized I’m gay, even though I never had crushes on girls when i was younger? I’m 14 btw
Yes, totally! I think that's really common. You can definitely know without ever actually being with a girl!
I’m so glad you answered! I was a bit worried, but not anymore :))
Lovely couple ❤❤❤❤❤🌷🌷🌷🌷😍😍😍🌈🌈🌈👭💖
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That's a silly total how did we know we was gay it's simple u can call if a women a lesbian u can call them gay too a women know shes gay when she fanceys women and not men its simply and she what's to be with women not men and have relationships with women and not men