When your gramma is Dutch but you don't look Dutch

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
  • What is an Indo ? For sure not someone from Indonesia, with all respect, Indonesians are known to be champions in finding an abbreviation for any word eg. MoNas (Monumen Nasional/National Monument) DP (Down Payment) HP (Hand Phone) WA (WhatsApp) DR (Dari/From) CB (Coba/try) and as many more as much as it has numerous of thousand islands BUT let's not forget heir most famous abbreviation which is INDO as from INDOnesia...
    On the other hand me, myself and I am an Indo as in Indo European or Eurasian with my roots in the former Dutch East Indies which is nowadays Indonesia. Our people have been called for over 3 centuries Indo, a mix between a European parent and an indigenous Sumatran, Javanese, Sundanese, Manadonese, Balinese, Ambonese etc.... because there wasn't Indonesia until 17 August 1945.
    Indos like myself are associated with colonial culture of the former Dutch East Indies, we call it INDISCHE INDOS, don't ask Google because Google describe us as folks from INDIA :-(
    The term Indo refers to people from the former Dutch East Indies who held a European legal status but were of mixed Dutch/English, German, Belgian, French, Portugese, Armenian... and indigenous Sumatran, Javanese, Balinese, Sundanese, Manadonese, Ambonese or any Island descent as well as their descendants today.
    I'm so happy I met Benedict who's Javanese born and raised just like his mom and dad BUT Benedict is also an Indo, enjoy his story, he couldn't have it done better and I encourage other Indonesians who recognize themselves in Benedict to reach out to him or myself and share similar stories.
    Benedict can be reached by email at : sutanto.beni@gmail.com
    Enjoy the video and the song Bengawan Solo written and performed by Gesang Martohartono who definitely would have no problem using his song, unfortunately he passed away in 2010 so I could not ask permission....

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  • @andrewh6898
    @andrewh6898 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thanks for the English captions

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@andrewh6898 my pleasure

  • @RienkvanderMeer-dr4dg
    @RienkvanderMeer-dr4dg 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    being the son of a totok i LEARNed a lot from this very informative vlog, thanx a bunch for this one!

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  6 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I appreciate ur feedback and did u know that there r many toktoks who r more Indo than some Indos who feel more Dutch than Indo 😮

  • @goldcoast.jeffrey
    @goldcoast.jeffrey 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    almost the same as me with different sides. My great-grandfather was Dutch, he married a Javanese. then my grandfather was born, technically my grandfather was Indo (Dutch Javanese) he was born in Malang. He moved to Australia after the war, then he married to my grandma (aussie) . later on, my mother was born in Queensland, historically so I'm also Indo's or Javanese. but I don't know the culture.😂

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@goldcoast.jeffrey hi there and I’m so happy u found this vlog with Benedict so men and women with the same stories could connect and share their stories 🙏🏽 Ask and I’ll answer and each of us Indo people have our own unique story!

  • @bambangtps
    @bambangtps 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Interesting story, he talks about facts that are never discussed. I live in Central Java, I'm interested in his story, I'm sure he's not the only one. he has the mixture of Javanese and Dutch shades at the same time, but somehow he's not ordinary javanese.
    he is handsome anyway.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hello, yes he’s a good looking young man and YES, the purpose of this vlog is to encourage other Indonesians who experienced the same as Benedict and who also have Dutch “Turunan” to reach out to Benedict or myself and hopefully keep on continuing meeting new Indonesian Indo individuals, Benedict’s email is sutanto.beni@gmail.com

  • @indobelanda
    @indobelanda 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    interesant verhaal!! makasih!!

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@indobelanda dank dank, doet mijn best om onze Indo geschiedenis levende te houden!

  • @user-vv1se2qh7g
    @user-vv1se2qh7g 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good... apreciate..

  • @ItsASuckyName
    @ItsASuckyName 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It's interesting to see this search from the "other" side, with that I mean that a lot of people here in the netherlands are looking into their families history that is related to the dutch indies/Indonesia. I'm an Indo just like my father and his parents. It's funny to see that this interest in family history of course goes both ways.
    It somewhat bothers me that still a lot of indos here in the netherlands don't know their own history. Calling themselves indonesian, or part indo, like you said, there is no such thing as a part indo. Indo is indo.
    But to be fair "Indisch zwijgen" here in the netherlands, is a real obstacle that create these misconceptions or unaccessible family information. Not being able to ask about your own heritage really sucks in a world where everyone keeps asking what you "are".

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ItsASuckyName Thk u so much for ur contribution to Benny’s story and YES while Inwas living in both NL and Belgium it was bothering me too that people didn’t know the difference between us Indos and Indonesians, then the fact that Indonesians use Indo as an abbreviation for Indonesia makes it even more confusing and if a former member of Dutch Parliament Pechtold and often the Dutch Public Broadcaster NPO uses the wrong words it’s indeed something to cry for lololol…

    • @ItsASuckyName
      @ItsASuckyName 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      ​@@SoCalIndo little off topic but have you ever considered making a video about Pa van der Steur? It's a really interesting piece of history, especially when it comes to Indo people.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@ItsASuckyName next time when I go back to Magelan I will spend time doing this because I also wanted to highlight GOOD things during the 350 yrs of Dutch Colonialism 🙏🏽

    • @ffqm
      @ffqm 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Many of us have decided to not use Indo anymore because it's a racist and colonial term. Last 17 August there was also a lecture on it in Amsterdam.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@ffqmI know in Holland they try to change everything that has the word black in it and try to rewrite history and label everything with RACIST well I and majority of Indos will keep on using Indo to describe ourselves and who we are and where our history started, how would u describe urself if someone asks u, just curious though…

  • @sleekoduck
    @sleekoduck 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Trimankasi! Thank you! 🙌
    Please tell your friend Benedict that I think he might be a descendent of the royal family. My Oma, Sawinah Tronowidjono F., was born in 1899 in the Purowedjo Regency and was supposed to be married to the Sultan during WW1. Your friend looks exactly like him. 😮 Oma ended up running away from home and marrying my Dutch Opa instead, partially because 15 year old Oma thought the Sultan was "about a hundred years old" (actually around 50). Opa died in Aceh in WW2, and Oma was able to get the family on one of the first ships to NL when everything went sour. Wegene is an excellent DNA site for anyone with Asian ancestry. Those of us with regal lineage might be surprised to know that our ancestors came to Indonesia from Cambodia and China pretty recently.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@sleekoduck Thk u for sharing ur story with all of us reading and Benedict’s email is sutanto.beni@gmail.com plse plse reach out to him!

    • @sleekoduck
      @sleekoduck 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Will do!

  • @dewisartikamaharani
    @dewisartikamaharani 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    saya banyak melihat vedeo youtube, tapi tidak banyak cerita seperti ini ceritanya sangat sederhana dan masuk akal. 350 tahun bangsa eropa di nusantara pasti terjadi banyak pernikahan yang resmi atau tidak resmi, pasti banyak keturunan campuran apa mereka tau sejarahnya apa tidak. tapi saya yakin saat ini masih banyak keturunan eropa di indonesia tapi tidak tau sejarahnya. saya punya teman seperti bebi ini

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Terima kasih atas kontribusi ya terhadap kisah Benedict. Saya senang bahwa banyak dari orang di Indonesia merespons. Apakah Anda juga memiliki leluhur Belanda?

    • @dewisartikamaharani
      @dewisartikamaharani 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@SoCalIndo saya tidak punya, tapi saya ingin mencari tau juga. tapi saya dulu punya teman sekolah dia keturunan belanda tapi keluarga dia tidak mau pake nama belanda dan tidak bisa bahasa belanda. jadi beni ini kasih ingat saya kepada teman saya dulu.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dewisartikamaharani Ajoh kamu harus ketemu sama Benedict 😎

    • @dewisartikamaharani
      @dewisartikamaharani 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ​@@SoCalIndogimana bisa ketemu sama dia, dia punya wajah mirip sama teman saya. teman saya lagi tampan, dia dulu idola perempuan waktu kami sekolah sd theresia jakarta.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  9 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@dewisartikamaharani kirim e-mail aya sama Benedict dia punya e-mail ada di bawa

  • @virtual30
    @virtual30 7 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Groeten uit Nederland! :P

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hoi hoi 👋 leuk leuk om vanuit NL reacties te krijgen 🙏🏽

  • @TheAzharis
    @TheAzharis 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Nice…❤

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank u, if Blantika Agency was still around I only should have gone to Iwan to meet the next Indo Belanda 🙏🏽

  • @jodylowe
    @jodylowe 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Nice story… from holland

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jodylowe trying hard to find more Indonesian Indos

    • @jodylowe
      @jodylowe 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@SoCalIndo we have lot in Den Haag but less now in Amsterdam.

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jodylowe yes I know The Hague is the widow of DEI

    • @jodylowe
      @jodylowe 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      @@SoCalIndo you did visit Holland?

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  4 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@jodylowe geboren en getogen in België

  • @beatbeat1028
    @beatbeat1028 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Mantap 👍👍👍

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@beatbeat1028 Tk Tk ya

  • @KIMPC-
    @KIMPC- 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Mantap

    • @SoCalIndo
      @SoCalIndo  12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@KIMPC- Tk Tk ya