Why the hell are people so intent on destroying good relationships by feeling they are missing something or the grass is greener on the other side ? IT AIN'T
😮🥺😭😭😭😭 when I say I NEEDED THAT!!!!! I was just about to give up on my life. I seen no hope. Being a single mother of a 19 month old, work has me busy, my neighbors attacking me, I just have someone take my purse with absolutely nothing valuable in it out of my car in Krogers parking lot. I'm like.. . Lord.... What in the world. I know the signs of the times, but dang, can I at least get a word or strength or something to help me.
She is faithful and yet detached. She is committed and yet relaxed. She loves everyone and yet no one. She is sociable and yet attached, She's a paradox.
Funny she says he’s insecure when really she is the one who is insecure. Searching for validation in the favor of men to hide her own unreconciled self-esteem issues.
Seriously though!! She hella sus with these dudes on the bus and in alleys. Even if she is innocent, I would be thinking she was cheating if I were him simply because of her actions. But when she admitted she told her husband she fantasized about the guy, I lost my shit for him!! Could you imagine how that would feel to hear that?!?
Me too that's why I follow her on IG I love this woman she my virtual aunt in my mind I grew up watching her at a young age at that time I didn't understand what relationship of marriage about lol
Adultery don't start in a bed, but it start in the heart. So iff she thinking about it, it will not be long for her to end up in the bed. #Jesus TEACHINGS 👏🏾
Dude playing watchdog for a reason men"s intuition tells him mentally she has already given that co-worker a slice of the pound cake, the physical ain't normally far to follow. THE WARNING SIGNS ARE WRITTEN ALL OVER HER FACE!!!!
she miss being single and like the attention from other dude I don't blame the dude he should leave her ass and for sure she going cheat on him when she get the chance
Women out here having thoughts about them possibly being a good woman and wanting a good man and this client has a good husband and mistreats him. 🤦🏾♀️
First off I'm married and take no rides from any man that's just how I was taught he needs to go find him some one else she clearly looking for something and it ain't you.
Smh this woman is really causing all his trust issues she’s going dumb stuff telling your husband you like another dude man she seem a little off if you ask me
Wow the judge was off on this one. It isn’t your job to make yourself feel secure in a relationship, it’s YOUR PARNTER’S job to make you feel secure. Love is about vulnerability and security; the ability to be vulnerable but also the ability to render your security to your partner’s possession. THE LEAST you can do in your relationship is to provide the emotional security that your partner needs.
Agree completely. Disagree with the judge. I appreciate that the judge has been married for over 30 years but she advises couples terribly sometimes. Your sesnse of security in a relationship is affected by your spouse's behavior. You can't just blame the person who feels insecure.
The worst thing is when wrongdoers blame the partner for being insecure. Yes, it’s one thing if they think you’re cheating from just seeing you glance or talk to someone else, but if they have proof, then it’s not being insecure, it’s stating facts.
All that woman did, was charging a gun, gave it to her husband and asked him to shoot her. You can think whatever you want, you are entitled to your secret garden, but you don’t have to say whatever it comes to your mind. All things are not good to say. When you are in couple, you are not single so you have to act accordingly.
Judge is ALWAYS light on cheaters. That's what I don't like about her. I appreciate Toler's been married for over 30 years. But she does a poor job advising couples sometimes.
That girl don’t wanna be with him. She’s bored with him and hasn’t had any other romantic experiences. It’s her right to experience that but in the right way. They need to divorce, I’m not seeing it for them. They’re together just to be together. Her wig is blowing me btw
On second thought I think she's falling for her co-worker and she wants out and he fell it so let's just see how this playes out I hope it come out for the best for the both of yous
Judge told him to be cool and comfortable with it. Wtf? Wife's behavior is disrespectful. Would the Judge be cool if her husband was acting like that? Thought Judge's advice was wayyyy off in this situation.
Amen but she also told him if he is right what he needs to do next which is to concentrate and continue being a good father he can't control her being loose I personally would let her roam
I'd ask my spouse to stop. If they didn't I would move on. Life is too short to be with someone that disrespects you. No one should have to be cool with disrespectful behavior.
It was this womans silly games that made this man insecure. Just because she had to take the bus for a short period. Where's the understanding. A young dumb mistake.
This guy is clearly completely insecure control freak and probably a narcissist I can't believe that the judge is actually trying to keep these two together. this guy will abuse her down the road I'll guarantee it I've been through it
Thank you! I thought I was the only one seeing things differently. This guy knows that Judge T favors the men sometimes if they go in there and play the game right. He clearly isn’t innocent, he has given this woman some reason to seek attention somewhere else. He is most likely controlling and definitely sitting up in court acting like he’s the victim. What time you coming home, where you at now? You should have been home by now. 🤔🤨 She should lie one day and tell him a certain time and really be standing right around the corner to walk in on him doing dirt. I promise you he’s not innocent. She was crying because she probably knows what she has to go back home to and she saw that the judge was not on her side. I’m not excusing what she’s doing but she’s seeking comfort and someone to talk to that will listen to her. 🤷🏽♀️
@@reneewheaton6253 Y'all all sound dumb ASF like the judge said if a guy tells you a another girl gives him butterflies and he fantasize about her you would not trust him and she literally doing everything that only thots do stop getting mad at us for not being stupid for yàll tricks
Wait IDU. Are you saying you told your significant other that it's a fantasy to be with someone else and that person gave you butterflies? But it's your guy 's fault for feeling insecure?
These two are all about tit for tat. It's never fun nor it is ever cool. I think she doesn't feel loved by him in general so when he goes low she goes lower. That's where the Butterflies comment comes into play. You can't say "I don't believe she's cheating" and treat her like she is. He's going to be jealous of every man she comes in contact with. They both need to quit the tit for tat bs but if he can't get over his controlling nature, she need to go.
She's Bored!!! Sis; STAY with your Husband!!! He's your Covering. There's Nothing out there but Sickness & Diseases.
People seek marriage like the miner gold. When they find it, they want to get out. Very silly!
Her excuse is weak! He could’ve said “yaba-daba-do” & she’d been ready to jump on the next dude!!!
The things that she told her husband was not acceptable and what he said was wrong however was from the things she Said
Why the hell are people so intent on destroying good relationships by feeling they are missing something or the grass is greener on the other side ? IT AIN'T
MURDAMAN XXXL what does that have to do with anything...
Exactly!!!!
As my grandmother used to say even if the grass is greener you still have to mow it😊
Because high school doesn't end for some folks. Nothing is that serious and decisions can be reversed because an adult will look out for them
Woman: I have no idea where his insecurities come from
Also Woman: I told him my co-worker gives me butterflies and is my dream guy 🤔🤔🤔
Nice classic. Whoever is reading this God is with you fighting all the unseen enemies and foes Just have faith in Him.
I needed this thanks 🙏🏾
😮🥺😭😭😭😭 when I say I NEEDED THAT!!!!! I was just about to give up on my life. I seen no hope. Being a single mother of a 19 month old, work has me busy, my neighbors attacking me, I just have someone take my purse with absolutely nothing valuable in it out of my car in Krogers parking lot. I'm like.. . Lord.... What in the world. I know the signs of the times, but dang, can I at least get a word or strength or something to help me.
@@esharenee4186 GOD BLESS
@@esharenee4186 Continue to Hold On To God's Unchanging Hands 🙏, for He'll Never Leave You Nor Forsake You, God Always Provide!!🤲💫
Amen, God bless you🥰
Literally 3 minutes in and thinking “ she belongs to the streets” 😭
Your forehead is big.
@@BTCBlizzy I'm bald
Ashley H. 😂😂😂😂 right
@@BTCBlizzy um
i usually don’t ever side with people who say that but ................. she does belong to da streets yall
She is faithful and yet detached. She is committed and yet relaxed. She loves everyone and yet no one. She is sociable and yet attached, She's a paradox.
I love that jasmine ❣️
If your Ex texts you saying "I miss you" that means the other person they tried to replace you with Failed.
JudgeFaith*Fan all day
Dang thats true!
My ex texts me, he wants me back, but I don't reply.
An ex contacting you is not about anyone else but "the ex"..... Its their behavior not anyone else's
Great point
She treats love like a merry go round.
She needs to be honest. She’s bored. Marriage takes work.
She may not be cheating but she’s creating a lot of opportunities for it to happen. That doesn’t make a partner feel secure.
Jealousy is a disease.
A Pretty Face gets Old. A Nice Body will Change. But A Good Woman will always be A Good Woman.
Indeed 💃💫
You think this is a good woman? Either you haven’t been listening, or you are just STUPID!
Funny she says he’s insecure when really she is the one who is insecure. Searching for validation in the favor of men to hide her own unreconciled self-esteem issues.
Awalt.
He had valid reason for "CONCERN"
*Respectfully*
Amen. Thought iudge was way off base telling him to relax lol wtf?
He's more than concerned. What he's doing is unhealthy. They're exhausting just leave
She wants to cheat so bad , but nobody gives her the time of Day ...
🤫😂😂😂😂🤡
Why do u say that
Seriously though!! She hella sus with these dudes on the bus and in alleys. Even if she is innocent, I would be thinking she was cheating if I were him simply because of her actions. But when she admitted she told her husband she fantasized about the guy, I lost my shit for him!! Could you imagine how that would feel to hear that?!?
Lmmfaoooo. I just started watching. I hope not lol.
That's exactly the same vibe I got from her
In my opinion, she is looking for a reason to leave her devoted husband because she is getting so much attention from good looking, young men.
I am nine minutes into the show, and I think he needs to leave her. She really doesn't want the marriage.
They got together too young. She experienced nothing and is curious. It is unfortunate.
I love this show, the lessons I learn - from behaviours to avoid to limitations in relationships. I’ll miss Judge Lynn 😢
Me too that's why I follow her on IG I love this woman she my virtual aunt in my mind I grew up watching her at a young age at that time I didn't understand what relationship of marriage about lol
@@MsRhonika We are cousins!!! She is my virtual auntie too!
"Go home and do what you do best, you know what I mean" Don't come Back.
Give your Heart and Soul to the man you Love..😘
Adultery don't start in a bed, but it start in the heart. So iff she thinking about it, it will not be long for her to end up in the bed. #Jesus TEACHINGS 👏🏾
Agreed. Think the judge should've sided with the husband. Wife's behavior is unacceptable.
She's just not happy anymore... she checked out. There's something she's not saying
Dude playing watchdog for a reason men"s intuition tells him mentally she has already given that co-worker a slice of the pound cake, the physical ain't normally far to follow. THE WARNING SIGNS ARE WRITTEN ALL OVER HER FACE!!!!
That's for sure. I bet she already cheated. And those tears are just conscience killing her.
She checked out of the marriage for sure.
she miss being single and like the attention from other dude I don't blame the dude he should leave her ass and for sure she going cheat on him when she get the chance
👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
Women out here having thoughts about them possibly being a good woman and wanting a good man and this client has a good husband and mistreats him. 🤦🏾♀️
First off I'm married and take no rides from any man that's just how I was taught he needs to go find him some one else she clearly looking for something and it ain't you.
I wish divorce court did lie detector test lol.
Smh this woman is really causing all his trust issues she’s going dumb stuff telling your husband you like another dude man she seem a little off if you ask me
That was well put at the end to the husband by judge Lynn Toler
She was wrong
How?
@@sevenmoore9208 Red flags waving in the air. I never would have suggested to this man that he's acting insecure.
It is advisable to make a comment rather than interfere with someone's comments.
I just watched this a few days ago
I did too!!
I also did too
Since it aired I was on
Darcelle Sylvester - What was the title of your episode?
Agreed. Not sure why its 'premiering' today.
Love the advice
She don’t want him someone will gladly treat him good
She doesn't want you! Boy leave her!
She has no respect for herself, him or the sanctity of marriage. Run Mr. White!! 🏃🏾
Sounds like she don’t wanna be married she seeking any random man attention
Agreed. Not sure why the judge wanted him to be married anymore.
He’s insecure, he’ll never trust her. It’s not worth it ❗️
Wow the judge was off on this one. It isn’t your job to make yourself feel secure in a relationship, it’s YOUR PARNTER’S job to make you feel secure. Love is about vulnerability and security; the ability to be vulnerable but also the ability to render your security to your partner’s possession. THE LEAST you can do in your relationship is to provide the emotional security that your partner needs.
Amen
Agree completely. Disagree with the judge. I appreciate that the judge has been married for over 30 years but she advises couples terribly sometimes. Your sesnse of security in a relationship is affected by your spouse's behavior. You can't just blame the person who feels insecure.
She definitely will cheat on him
Great Judge Toler.
Yayyyy 😍😍so happy to watch her again
Ms green feels and looks guilty
Delicate... True, but even more important, she needs to keep her damn mouth shut!!
YOU BETTER THINK!!! / Aretha Franklin voice.
He seems to be verbally abusive and controlling. She has to report her every move, that is making her very uncomfortable.
Just now seeing this Classic Divorce Court episode airing on Roku TV ch. 660.
I think if you brought her a 🚗 your troubles would be over 😆😂🤣 ..Rs.!
The worst thing is when wrongdoers blame the partner for being insecure. Yes, it’s one thing if they think you’re cheating from just seeing you glance or talk to someone else, but if they have proof, then it’s not being insecure, it’s stating facts.
All that woman did, was charging a gun, gave it to her husband and asked him to shoot her. You can think whatever you want, you are entitled to your secret garden, but you don’t have to say whatever it comes to your mind. All things are not good to say. When you are in couple, you are not single so you have to act accordingly.
I cannot believe how lite this judge is giving this woman’s dishonest, cheating behavior!! If I were him... I would walk out the courtroom!
Judge is ALWAYS light on cheaters. That's what I don't like about her. I appreciate Toler's been married for over 30 years. But she does a poor job advising couples sometimes.
Alyssa Gillespie well said
That girl don’t wanna be with him. She’s bored with him and hasn’t had any other romantic experiences. It’s her right to experience that but in the right way. They need to divorce, I’m not seeing it for them. They’re together just to be together.
Her wig is blowing me btw
😭😭😭😭😭
I love this show so much
On second thought I think she's falling for her co-worker and she wants out and he fell it so let's just see how this playes out I hope it come out for the best for the both of yous
She enjoys the attention of other men
Judge told him to be cool and comfortable with it. Wtf? Wife's behavior is disrespectful. Would the Judge be cool if her husband was acting like that? Thought Judge's advice was wayyyy off in this situation.
Amen but she also told him if he is right what he needs to do next which is to concentrate and continue being a good father he can't control her being loose I personally would let her roam
I'd ask my spouse to stop. If they didn't I would move on. Life is too short to be with someone that disrespects you. No one should have to be cool with disrespectful behavior.
I wish they had 1-2 year follow ups on these couples
“I would just leave” your in divorce court
We watched this episode not long ago, please upload older episodes
How does she come up with idk where he get his insecurity from. I prejudged him. But she doing alot
I love my husband 10% more.
Everything she said is facts love her
that is a popular dress this must be 6x i have seen it
Omg this bothered me the entire episode. I was just finna find the other lady that was on DC wearing it 😂😂😂😂
Maybe they have a costume and wig closet lol
I feel sorry for children who have parents who are not focused on them.
That has to be the most worn dress in divorce court history.
She is silly and insecure ... and not so good looking either...🤔😥😱
It was this womans silly games that made this man insecure. Just because she had to take the bus for a short period. Where's the understanding. A young dumb mistake.
She jus Wana cheat
Control if he can't come get me and I get catch the bus and somebody gonna give me a ride please yall playing games.
Ueap
Why she got on that grandma wig, should’ve worn her hair.
Hey whos the gal on the divorce court profile picture? Thats not judge toler
The new host. Judge Faith.
She look kinda slow and he controls her and now she starting to speak up he don't like it but she going about it wrong.
This age diffrence for 9 yrs seems terrible. She was a kid when they met.
Jus get a divorce 😅🤣☺️
Oh NAW, y’all just uploaded this one a few days ago. Judge Lynn barely gone and they’re already getting sloppy with it 😂
I thought the same thing 😂😂
Omg I just realized the picture for the Divorce Court YT page has the new judge... 😩
Yeah judge faith she’s good we’ll see how she is with divorces🤷🏾♀️
😮😮😮n u wonder y he dnt trust her
She is cheating dude if I was you I run
She's a liar she just don't want him no more
Many people get killed because of jalousy
Sorry it was a danish commertial on the youtube channel asking about mushrooms
So are we not going to talk about the fact that she was 16 and he was 21 when they started dating 🤔
Missed the age thing. Her actions make a lot more sense now. Is this his Karma for dating someone underage.
THAT WIG THOOO its aging her like hell
This guy is clearly completely insecure control freak and probably a narcissist I can't believe that the judge is actually trying to keep these two together. this guy will abuse her down the road I'll guarantee it I've been through it
Thank you! I thought I was the only one seeing things differently. This guy knows that Judge T favors the men sometimes if they go in there and play the game right. He clearly isn’t innocent, he has given this woman some reason to seek attention somewhere else. He is most likely controlling and definitely sitting up in court acting like he’s the victim. What time you coming home, where you at now? You should have been home by now. 🤔🤨 She should lie one day and tell him a certain time and really be standing right around the corner to walk in on him doing dirt. I promise you he’s not innocent. She was crying because she probably knows what she has to go back home to and she saw that the judge was not on her side. I’m not excusing what she’s doing but she’s seeking comfort and someone to talk to that will listen to her. 🤷🏽♀️
Lmao! The judge tries so hard to keep people together who have no business being together smh 😔
@@reneewheaton6253 Y'all all sound dumb ASF like the judge said if a guy tells you a another girl gives him butterflies and he fantasize about her you would not trust him and she literally doing everything that only thots do stop getting mad at us for not being stupid for yàll tricks
Wait IDU. Are you saying you told your significant other that it's a fantasy to be with someone else and that person gave you butterflies? But it's your guy 's fault for feeling insecure?
I stopped watching because she’s not coming anymore 😭
She is bored in the relationship he probably is too sometimes
My brother leave her before she cheats on you. It's coming it's coming it's coming
Is this new?🤔
No... this is an old episode
How is it new . this court room is old
😂 What is she a Gemini 😂
😮😮😮she looks older than 25
These two are all about tit for tat. It's never fun nor it is ever cool. I think she doesn't feel loved by him in general so when he goes low she goes lower. That's where the Butterflies comment comes into play. You can't say "I don't believe she's cheating" and treat her like she is. He's going to be jealous of every man she comes in contact with. They both need to quit the tit for tat bs but if he can't get over his controlling nature, she need to go.
😮❤leave her she is for the street karma will find her the grass is not greener on the other side
He can do better this woman is desperate for nothing relationship to her imaginary
Judge you ain't no man and if she got butterflies and tell me that means she don't want me bye !!!!!!!!!!
He thinks he losing control.
she's 25?? 25???
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She's not all that cute
She doesn't want you! Boy leave her!