My condolences, two of my pals are an ENFP and an ENTJ, and while they do generally get on well, the ENTJ is sometimes frustrated by the ENFP's random thought process and unpredictable nature. I'm really sorry that you have to put up with his moods. I hope that things get better for you soon. 💞😘
I'm sorry your step dad treats you that way, or you're made to feel that way, I can relate a little bit, not an ENTJ but I have an INTJ person in my family who makes me feel like my existence is a burden to them, but on the other hand, they annoy the crap out of me too.
@@Meg_intheclouds We meet again! Anyway yes I think this is just how XXTJ's sees us in general too. At some point, I was just chilling around and... somehow got a whole.. harsh advice from them.
XNTJs: Constantly optimizes objects and processes. EXTJs: Never admits defeat. ENXJs: Inevitably leads all of their projects. ENTXs: Destroys others with facts and logic.
I love how both the ENTJ and INTJ videos had them viewing INTPs as incredibly intelligent and wanting them to share their knowledge with the world and to be part of their plans to “change the world” (*world domination*)
If you've watched "Breaking Bad," think about how Walter White (INTJ) interacts with Gale Boetticher (INTP) for a good idea of how the two types can go together. Then see how that relationship ends and consider why INTPs tend to avoid connecting with other people. 🥺
I’m an intj and I think my son is an intp and I’m always telling him “you have a brain! Use it for xyz,” and he’s like, “did you know octopi have 3 hearts?!?! Anyway, now to learn about random subject…” 😂
Funnily enough, my ENTJ aunt was the first person that made me feel like my feelings are valid. She taught me that it’s okay to be tired and not productive. She looks intimidating because when she’s asking questions, she’s not smiling (which is something I used to struggle with as a feeler) but she’s really paying attention to what you’re saying. She helped me to detangle my parents’ expectations (they’re both Fe doms) from what’s truly required, or what’s NOT required, from me (Te truth). She’s amazing and she’s my role model ❤️ I wish more people were as understanding as she is. -ENFP
Precisely, you're lucky to have her as your role model. My supervisor is also an ENTJ, and she really helps me to be more concise, and see things more clearly.
My best friend is an ENTJ, and people tend to forget that they spend their entire lives in service to others. My favorite thing about ENTJs is actually that, once you're close to them, they recognize every problem and hardship in your life and try to fix it. -Also an ENFP
It's because they're low Fi users meaning that their Te feels the need to cater to (other people's) Fi, and will give you advice that you actually do need and that will work no matter what the problem is (Te). Low Fi users just struggle with that part for _themselves_, and high Fi users are too busy worrying about their own issues to give you the advice that will actually work for other people. The flip side is that they're not going to be there when you need to be coddled. At all.
@@PeterJohnson-rh5hican confirm, I (ENFP) have a coworker whos an ENTJ and at first he was very annoyed from me and berates me but as he sees how much of a hard worker i am, he eventually respects me and explains why he burst out. Never took it personally but I would be lying if i didnt say he scares me(he's 6'7)😂😂
@@DragonshotProductions Because most XSFP are covert narcissists and 'OBLIVIOUS-CODEPENDENTS'; to them, their "feelings becomes their reality". This means they have a 'pathological disregard for rationality, as well as reality' - which is exceptionally dangerous for other people! Moreover, ISFP tend to [initially] prefer narcissits as dating partners, they project a lot of their [own] nasty traits onto other people, in order to avoid feeling any guilt/any unpleasant emotion (which, again, is at the expense of real, sentient people). Excluding ISFJ, most [healthy] xSFx ironically experience other humans as androids/NPC. The list really does on! I'll finish this post with a friendly warning: "ISFP can disassociate their facial expression from their actual emotional state, i.e. they can naturally give a convincing "unassuming, unintelligent, and helpless idiot-smile" - DESPITE actually experiencing intense hated!!! It's not intimidating. It's just deeply disturbing, i.e. it is reminiscent of a spazzing-fetus - and that unhinged, fetus is what is actually piloting the brain of an ISFP. This also applies to most ESFP as well. The host of this channel: Kristy, is a high-functioning variant (they tend to be more in control of their own mind ~ for the most part, in truth. Again, their "feelings becomes their reality"). Any deviation/seeming contradiction is entirely solely due to external influence, i.e. other neuropersonality types experience a moral compass, genuine humanity, and the capacity for emotional-empathy as an 'instinct'. This often seeks them correcting the nasty, unintelligent opinions and actions of ESFP/ISFP, and ESFJ. Lastly, ESFP/ISFP, and ESFJ (Kirsty included) experience "pathological hate", especially when young (i.e. their fault, undeveloped brain literally generates feelings of mindless "hated" - and it often spirals into metaphorical-cannibalism; where they try to take it out/dump their diseased emotional state on someone perceived as "vulnerable". This is how they spread hated and psychological disorders across society - and this is both with or without cluster-b). Again, their are covert-narcissits, secretly evil, but lack self-awareness, unlike most narcissits from the more intelligent/sentient neuropersonality types. Ps: Those three (ESFJ, ESFP/ISFP) are the most weak-minded, naturally emotionally-disturbed, attention-seeking, etc! In truth, they are basically a disability. This is a hard fact: no one in their right mind would willing permanently want to switch/swap neuropersonality with those three FOREVER!!! 🤦 At least the other 13 have their benefits and [desirable] unique traits/characteristics - and they are 'sustainable' and 'integral'/crucial for an intelligent, [genuinely] emotionally-empathetic and advanced society, to boot! PS: ESFJ, ESFP/ISFP experience and display "superficial intelligence"; and like actual narcissits they are HIGHLY prone to projection/projecting other unpleasant aspects of their character/insecurities onto other people. This is all to avoid feeling any guilt, facing their emotional issues, or experience their own unpleasant emotion. They try to use other people as they "scapegoat"/dustbin for their unpleasant emotions (they've always been like this; so PTSD, emotional recoil from having to get ones hands dirty isn't the cause. Also, cultivating ones innate humanity is the best cure for emotional-turmoil; it just needs to be sustained for less than 20yrs).
................................. "Evil" is the anthesis to the virtue 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-Darwinism'! ................................. Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality'). I recommend researching 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)! European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!! They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till. ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition). SUMMARY: Evil personality: ESFJ (ALL), ESTJ (cluster-b) [Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL). ☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil). Spread the word! Thank you. ___________ #Save_Soil
As an INTJ who worked for free for an ENTJ because I was interested in their project and could tell how good they would be at leading it, that part was so accurate! (for context, ENTJ was already struggling to fund the project and I had a stable income in the first place, I didn't let someone take advantage of me)
"I didn't let someone take advantage of me," was what I needed to hear! Kristen got that part wrong. I know what I bring to the table, and I'm worth my weight in GOLD! -- INTJ
I'm an INTP with an ENTJ sister. We recently started a creative business together. She keeps things running, deals with the human interactions for the most part, and keeps spreadsheets for everything. I am more willing to take creative risks, and I give her permission to do the same, to change plans, and do things I think she would otherwise feel guilty about. Plus, together we can analyze the crap out of any situation, usually to our benefit. We make a pretty good team.
Same with my (INTP) Brother (ENTJ), I'm basically his 1 petabyte external hard drive and he is the mainboard. Although he is 3 years older then me, at some point my knowledge started to outweigh his in most topics. So when we meet nowadays. He gives me new knowledge about topics he is specialised in and I help him rethink his ideas. Though we have a business we are not working for it st the moment. I think INTPs and ENTJs are very compatible in a business relationship but it can be hard in a romantic/platonic relationship
I love how ENTJ, ESTJ and INTJs have a fear of ISTP. They see him as some kinda of threat or an obstacle that will appear in the end of the line, just where they are about to reach their goal, ISTP will be waving from the other side like he doesn't even care.
This makes a lot of sense, if you have watched JoJo's Bizzare Adventures: Stardust Crusaders you would have seen this happening where the main antagonist Dio (ENTJ) fears the protagonist Jotaro Kujo (ISTP) so much 🤣😂
INTP here. Got bored playing on a survival Minecraft server, invited my ENTJ friend. He immediately declared his plans to build a 20k Block strong Airship and asked me to help him by building a wool farm. I was ready for action and got to work constructing a sheep farm from scratch while watching videos on another monitor. 2.5 hours later I informed him that I lost count in between and got 6k blocks of wool instead of the needed 5.3k. Since then he's been a bit hesitant about asking me to grind stuff in video games.
I loved how chaotic ENFP got with that blue marker, their erratic nature would certainly tick any ENTJ, or strong TE user, off immediately! I hope that we see ENFP's video soon. 😁
Probably a lot like the ENTP video, except that the people would be morphing to fit the ENFP's imagination and not just the background. The only type with a wilder imagination than the ENTP is the ENFP... 🤔
ENFP here. I look forward to finally understanding MBTI to the point that I can finally engage the ENTJ in conversation that meets their goals. But ohhh I just discovered a new...
I could compile a fairly comprehensive list of ways, if you'd like... although I assume you have Google and can probably do just fine on your own. The "backhanded compliment" has a long history. -- signed another INTP
I am an INFP(MALE) and my dad may be an ENTJ. I attack every now and then him when he's being too judgemental towards people and he may tell me how important life goals and planning are. I kind of accept our relationship but I doubt it will never be ''that deep'' you know, but its alright, I love him the way he is
My daughter is in INFP and I (INTJ mom) have had that attack (fully justified on her part) from her a time or few myself. I get on a roll and forget to see all the ways things could have developed and judge situations and people unfairly or harshly. She keeps me grounded. I think your dad and I are both lucky to have ethical principled people who care about us to try to help us stay fair and hold to our highest ideals. I've known an ENTJ or 2 in my time. They don't often listen at first but your words can sink in later. I'm glad your dad has you. We all need the way you love in our lives.
I love infp too. i am class monitor in uni, my crush is infp. My way of loving is competing and trying to control her. She doesn't like that way. Any ideas for me pls?
@@hoshiki724 stop trying to compete with her and stop trying to control her. Offer to listen to her ideas and share yours with her if she asks. Just treat her with respect and kindness. And if she's not interested, respect that too.
I think this is better than ones that portray ESTJs as having anger management problems, because it is true that we (I think I'm ESTJ) don't enjoy delving into deep topics much.
It's funny. As an INFP I feel like I always get on pretty well with ENTJs. I mean, I have encountered some very unhealthy ENTJs who would virtually terrorize you to get their way, were more concerned with being the "boss" rather than a leader and would definitely leave you feeling like a "waste of space." But when it comes to healthy ENTJs I've found they value independence as much as we do and will leave you alone to get the job done and I really appreciate that. That, and when it comes to emotions they seem to be the inverse of INFPs in that they have a tough, outer shell with a soft interior while INFPs are a lot tougher on the inside than we appear. It seems to help bring out ENTJs vulnerability.
Interesting point about ENTJs and INFPs being each other's inverse emotionally! Your description of a healthy ENTJ sounds like someone I would probably get along with as well. Can't come up with irl examples as I'm not sure if I've interacted with many ENTJs. -INFP
I'm an INFJ and I have an ENTJ friend, he's very kind and patient. He's not a bulldozer but he does get things done. I think this stereotype that the ENTJ doesn't care is just incorrect. He's a very healthy ENTJ and I'm happy to call him my friend.
I think when it’s a male EXTJs and female IXFPs, things are “normal”. When you have EXTJs females and IXFPs males, it’s real pain. This is not a sexist theory but real life experiences. I have got the painful package, especially when EXTJs females play an authority role, you’re just doomed.
I’m not an intimidating person, not by any stretch of the imagination. I’m too awkward, short, obnoxious, cute (when my Fe comes out to play). But the one person who said he found me intimidating was my ENTJ friend who was intimidated by my intellectual prowess, vast and pathless scape of knowledge, and ability to read him and his emotional wounds like a book. If I never intimidate anyone else ever, I am satisfied. I have conquered the beast of beasts. ~entp
I usually find ENTPs annoying, but I appreciate the ideas that spring forth from whatever you do on your side quests. But hell nah, I don't find you people intimidating. I'd admire you for your knowledge, but if you're not using/optimising a 100% of it, you don't need most of it. Unapplied knowledge is a waste of memory.
Unapplied knowledge is just knowledge that has not been applied YET. Think of it as a storehouse for future gain. Although I would agree that it should be knowledge that is backed by the power of interest, so that it could be wielded with a reasonable level of passion and motivation.
I'm fine with my emotional capabilities being compared to a sock's, but I felt bad for the poor ISFJ straight up being a doormat 🙁 Wait, does that mean that I actually have more emotions than a sock? 🤔
ISFJ here and the doormat couldn't be more accurate lmao, people are constantly asking me for favors, and even if I don't like them, I'll help them if I can.
The original tune comes from the American Civil War, and is called "When Johnny Comes Marching Home." It works so well for this video because a march excellently conveys the ENTJ's focus on progress. If you search "when johnny comes marching home violin" the first result is the full audio from this video.
The thing is I may go on a million side quests and diversions and stuff but I also always end up at that goal, and it’s so much more fun for me. Tips to manage and understand an ENXP- give us that little bit of freedom to play with an idea while subtly diverting us to the point you want to get to- we can be goal orientated but it’s about the journey and we get the energy and the enjoyment from the idea itself. I was talking about this with my INTJ friend today of like they need the facts and to see how it slots into their bigger idea before they can explore it and consider the possibility- I take the possibility as it is and expand on all these different things first then can consider realistic implications and I am happy to discard it if over all it isn’t “relevant” I just need that little bit of space to go with the blue line and go with that flow. Although I can see how it would be annoying that I divert from the goal, but again while the goal may be important- to me the fun is in getting to that point and all the problem solving and exploration that happens along the way- and with that trust we mostly always arrive at the goal :)
Yeah this, 100% The other thing for xxTJ’s to remember is that sometimes if you give us the space (and extra time) we’ll take your paltry goal and deliver something beyond what you could have hoped for…flip side for xxxP’s - sometimes you do have to deliver SOMETHING and it does need to be TIMELY and sometimes the “paltry goal” is really all that’s needed. -An ENFP
"Look at me just enjoying life. Leave me alone." - INFP Yes, let's do that please. 😀 All that extra work you want me to do is cutting into my daydreaming time.
That was funny 😂 and accurate sometimes 😁 But let me say that my best friend is an ENFP. She is my backbone, my best assistant and my honest mirror. Yes she could be disorganized and have her head up in the clouds sometimes, but she is trustworthy and she's always there when I need her, and she never fail me when the going gets tough. I really can count on her. And I'm very thankful to have her in my life.
I have an ENTJ aunt and she’s amazing ❤️ patient, mature, understanding. I used to get intimidated when she started to ask questions- for example, I’ve pitched an idea I found interesting but haven’t thought through yet, and she just wanted to understand me better. She looks intimidating because she’s not smiling, but she’s really paying attention to what you’re saying. Now I look forward to her questions because they help me think better. She also helps me see the truth and the facts, to see what’s really going on, which I really appreciate because I often struggle with that. Man, I really like ENTJs 😊 -ENFP
@@kellikakes81 Thank you for reminding me, I really appreciate it. It's been a while since I voice my feelings and my appreciation to her. You remind me of her, this is actually what she do, draw my attention to my blind spots. The thing is (as I believe) thinkers don't feel natural or the need to voice there emotions very often, we are action people. We will show by our actions that we really appreciate someone and care about them, because actions speak louder than words. The difference in our preferences really amaze me. I'm sure your ENTJ appreciate you, they probably as I said don't feel natural voicing there feelings, may be they need a reminder or a poke. Believe me if they care and you tell them what you hope from them, they will consider it, and take your words seriously. Have a great day, and thank you again 💕
This was so precious. Thank you for sharing! We ENFPs are useful for some things. I love being the one cheering on others and it's great to see such a high achieving thinker type appreciate what we bring to the table even though sometimes we're not nearly as focused or goal oriented. Legit though, I think being the best friends we can be is our goal.
As an INTJ, I relate. I am never in it for the money...good money is nice, yeah, but the essence of the project is more important....if it's in alignment with my values, goals, and dreams, I'm in.
For the sake of my relationship with an ENTJ almost 3 years now, I will pretend the first clip never happened XD Now, seriously, the ENTJs appreciate how well organized and hard workers we are. And if you are a healthy ISFJ and not allow to be stoop on, even the most dominant characters can't see you as a doormat.
@@Coldfire762 Thank you. Speaking of myself, I really admire ENTJs and dedication to their goals and ambition that works as an amazing drive to never stay static and achieve more and more in their lives in many different factors. And I support my special lady in that. I don't demand more time for us, all I want for her is to succeed her goals and I fully support her in that making sure she also takes care of herself.
@@CineShinya Lovely, I personally think you're doing great :) I'd love a person like that. Don't be afraid to ask to meet any of your needs though. Both need to be satisfied to have a healthy relationship.
Middle aged INTP here. Yeah, it's great being appreciated for what we, as INTPs, bring to the table... like a turkey contributing to Thanksgiving dinner... 🦃🍖🥩🍔 1) Loved seeing the ENFP personifying chaos, as ENFPs do. 🥳🤯🤪 2) Loved the bonus "Kristin twirls her mustache" bit, as Kristin is ALWAYS entertaining with a mustache. 🥸Just needed a goatee and she'd be "Evil Kristin" from "The Darkest Timeline." EDIT: Another comment reminded me of Gale Boetticher from "Breaking Bad," which reinforced the turkey analogy in my mind... 😕
@@zzzcocopepe I'd say a turkey can't choose to be a peacock, even if the turkey wanted to... but in truth, my comment was in reference to the traditional Thanksgiving meal in the USA being turkey and not so much about applied ornithological transmogrification... 😕 Our lives, and even our dreams, are often not our own. We're routinely sacrificed to fulfil the whims and fancies of others. It's not that we're not valued... but we're rarely valued for the traits we'd prefer.
As an INTJ, the INTJ one hit close to home. I have worked for less than the minimum wage (while working on military bases during my later teenage years) but I was not concerned with the money. Those summers remain great experiences to reminisce about, and arguably some of the times when I have been closest to self actualisation, and happiest (perhaps because I was doing so much reading during my off hours). Money is a useful means towards an end, a medium of trade, but ultimately not all that valuable in and of itself. The pursuit of wealth in and of itself is not a worthwhile pursuit. The pursuit of knowledge and truth, the impact you leave on others, the legacy you leave behind, those are pursuits I consider to be worthwhile. What those things mean vary from person to person, but everyone ought to figure it out for themselves, and take active steps to achieve those things they consider to be important.
How do you just do this sort of thing? How is every INTJ somehow on top of the world, doing something crazy amazing with their life, and really wize? It cannot be Ni alone. What must I say to God to obtain this power?
@@liiiiich3n0nTheM00nyou don't really know how old OP is and how many experiences they've had in their life so far. But it does seem like they're older than you or have spent their life a little more proactively. In the post, you can also see the criticism of Se addiction (which as an INFP, I absolutely agree with) and talking about the few truly important things (Ni), while also emphasizing the importance if taking active steps (Se and Te) and individual pursuits (Fi, but can be interpreted as Ti too)
@@Daniooo that's what I'm talking about ! This duo is unstoppable, Except I'm yet to experience this companionship at work given I'm still young , but envisioning it now it looks amazing
My best friend - since adolescence - paradoxically, is an ESFP. There's no way I could live like her, but I couldn't live without her either: Every time we hang out, she fills all my SE needs for a month, shreds all my stress, meets a thousand people, has the time of my life… And the next day - while my head is exploding - I have an extra and additional boost & energy to regain control of my life and meet my goals! 😄 - ENTJ.
My absolute favorite here was the ENFP drawing the analogy on paper! That was priceless!!! Also love it when you throw in the bloopers at the end of videos! 😂
Very accurate for this INFJ. So tuned in to other people's feelings that my own often come second... so I'll just slip off to the piano and express myself that way rather than voice my opinion and risk offending anyone [sigh 🙄]
Yeah, but sometimes INTPS are pure Ne ( when we talk about something that we love or, even more, when we have some brilliant idea about something) and then our eyes glows.
Hey youtube commenters! I just wanted to mention again that Kristin has a patreon goal that when she hits 500 patrons she's going to make "16 Personalities In A Musical." Let's make that happen! Even if you can't afford the lowest patreon tier, I'm sure a custom pledge of any size would help her achieve her goal of becoming a full time content creator. Even a dollar would help! So, if her content entertains you, or enriches your life in some way, please consider donating!
Kristin, thank you for having the humility and sense of humour to show us your bloopers. I have entire days like that where my mouth just refuses to pronounce things properly. You are a class act, even when making these videos for us is an uphill battle :)
As an INFP, my ENTJ boss and I get along pretty well until he barges into the kitchen and gives me 500 tasks that all need to get done *immediately*, and then gets upset that the dishes I was doing didn't get done in time because I was busy with those 500 other things. Like, pal, if you want all of it done, hire more people. Also, don't make me do things that require brainpower, I'm trying to write a book here. Lol
*Fearully aims a watergun at you* Who said you intimidate us? You're just really creepy with all this emotional unpacking You're always obsessed about...
The INFJ is spot-on: I'm in a large fandom where a very popular character gives me major ENTP energy. Whenever he comes up, I just have to bow out of the conversation quickly and say "I know my natural predator when I see him" 😅
When I meet other ENTJ's it's never competitive, it's never much of anything. Maybe I'd think "Hm, not much going on there," or "... I wonder if I'm like that..... I'm not like that am I?"
Ah, finally. Brilliant, Kristin. As always. PS- ESFPs and ENFPs both intrigue me for the same reasons. The chaos you bring is both so inviting yet so dreadful. I can't *create* chaos, because my brain is too organised. But I'll bet my guns I *love* it happening around me(without affecting me, my work and my goals of course). It's fun to watch. Possibly why most of my friends are NFs. Edit: Forgot to mention that I'm an ENTJ too, as if y'all already know me. **God Complex sings in the background**
Fun fact, as an esfp, I've comanded loads of people in avalanches of chaos with an enfp, both drunk! We share the same mid functions but they have Ne on first and we have Se, so we complement each other really well and as they can share what could happen (Ne) we can think how to solve it with the immediate resources (Se) and we both speak and organize ourselves in a similar language because of the Fi-Te. Just, don't expect us to have a realistic view of the details, ever
Kristin pictures the relationship dynamic between ENTJ and ENTP so accurately! It actually happened to my ENTJ friend and me back in high school. Everytime when I was trying something randomly, she would be like :"You just need to do this and that and everything will be fix, why would you bother to do all these 'different side quests'?" (not in a bossy way, with Te as the dominant function ExTJs just want to make everything simple.) And as an ENTP, I would be like: "Emm, because it's INTERESTING, I guess?" You know for an ENTP, it's pretty hard not to waste my time on some randome meaningless pleasure :). BTW, the ENTJ Kristin discribes seems to think highly of xxTPs, which in my experience is true. ENTJs just simply don't understand why we as xxTPs are so good at procastinating everything important XD.
This is why INTJs tend to be happy being an ENTJ's personal assistant. Though we will insist upon a wage commensurate with our position. Besides, you can't show off your status symbol personal assistant properly if we're not well paid. Then you'd have to admit we're just friends doing you a favor because it entertains us to try to be more on top of your plans than you are. After all, that's the only way we can anticipate your every need. ;) -- INTJ and official pack Beta.
There needs to be an end seen where the ENFP gets supper motivated by there passion for their project, their unconventional seemingly kayotic line if things and ways gives birth to a really cool creative project that's outside the box and somehow gets the go ahead and pulls it off as they were able to charm the boss and the ENTJ is like... What the beep just happened!? Lol if I had a nickel for every time this happened.. There's a method to our madness I sware! Lol im not sure whst they were in the 16 personalities but my boss similar to this and trid to take credit for my idea and steel my project in front of superiors... That time was pretty wild l
*"I'm dutiful, I do what I say I'll do, I actually take interest in the tasks you find mundane, and I have my ex-boyfriend's kidney in a sock. What more could you possibly want?"*
ENFJ here. That is exactly the way I feel when I deal with an ENTJ! I'll catch you off guard one day and learn all your deepest secrets. It always happens...eventually.
I’m and an Infp and my dad is an Entj. He has made it quite clear that he sees me the Intp way , and yeah, I have a lot of ideas but I just don’t get stuff done and that irritates the shit out of my dad bc I’m wasting my potential. Listen, I just wanna sleep dad.
Speaking as an INTJ while money is not what we live for, it is needed to rule the world, so I like the idea you had trouble with it because subconsciously you understand INTJs better.
The fact that I've actually used the words "don't be a doormat" to my ISFJ wife, just confirms for me all the more I'm an ENTJ. Usually in the context of letting the kids run all over her, or even me pushing an argument that she refuses to argue or even defend her point of view. I now get the occasional water thrown at me, or some other object, as an indicator she is still processing. 20 years of marriage. Best ever. As Martok would say "a long, gruelling, intoxicating war... in the end, I know, she will win the war." th-cam.com/video/QOyJUS9aHas/w-d-xo.html In the end, I know my wife will finally stand her ground and I will be all the happy for it and loyal to her cause. :D
ENFP in entrepreneurship school here 🙋🏼♀️ Pitching concepts and bouncing idea back and forth with my friend closely resembles that blue line. Today we were designing backpacks and I made an origami design with plastic I made in a waffle iron and am watching this vid as my new material is cooking in the oven. About the bag part….
0:49 INFJ *takes 10 minutes to think of an answer while starring at the wall, planning every possible combination of words while at the same time taking into account your feelings (still fails and looks weird now)* Wish i could stop time tbh.
Yes. Except I enjoy ENTP and ENFP much more than the video portrays. I enjoy the laughs that they bring to tickle my mind that most people can't do on that level. And I take that ESFP challenge way too often for my own good.... They are often my best friends. And ENFJs blow my mind. I listen to them probably more than I do any other type. Because they're usually right. Although it will take me some time to see that. But it's just a different perspective that I didn't see. But they're right....
I suppose that I might’ve found ENTJs anxiety-inducing before I learned about MBTI, but since then, I find them amusing. I had an ENTJ boss boasting about a cat she had and all the dog tricks that she was able to get it to do. “I can make him sit. I can make him roll over. I can make him do a high five. 😤” She was so proud of it in a way that I think only an ENTJ really could. I couldn’t help but get a chuckle out of it. - INFJ
As an INTJ, I AM in "it" for the money unless "it" is really interesting - and even then, if I'm going to spend a lot of time on "it," I want to be paid what I am worth. I'm too busy to work for free..
Agree. My best friend is an ESFJ. As an ENTJ I'm often not really aware of how I feel deep down, but with her I don't have to be. She so effortlessly values my feelings and responds to my emotional needs (before I even realize they're there), and - most importantly - she doesn't overanalyze any of it, so I'm not left embarrased afterwards. You can truly count on ESFJs. You rock.
"It's not intellectial theft if I'm not using it." I'm not an ambitious person, but that doesn't mean I'm not using what's in my head. Beware ENTJs, lest I use it against you. 😉 -INTP
This was fantastic! Hilarious video, thank you. I'm an ISFP. I study the INTJ, ESFP, and ENTJ to understand how they use the functions I naturally have. It's helped place less importance on my Fi and work my other functions. That has been my masterplan and so far it's working. I'm more charismatic and was recently promoted to team lead at the office.
Brilliant as usual, Kristin. Pretty soon, you'll get to the INTPs, and as one, here's a suggestion that'll help. You know during the party sketch, you had the INTP go about the party like he was playing a D & D character. So for "Though the eyes of" sketch, how about he or she goes about a normal day like a video game character? You know, going about his or her business, meeting the other types, and figuring out how to deal with or avoid them.
I don't know if it helps Kristin but as an INTP (even tho i'm not big on the game theme) i too, detect that person's flaw right away and put them either in "tolarable/interesting" or "not worthy enough to care/red flag avoid"
I actually don’t know any ENTJs well in real life, however I do have an ENTJ character with six younger siblings in order: ISFJ, ENFP, ESFP, ENFJ, ISFP, INTP so needless to say this was hilarious 😆
As an ENTJ, I have found your videos to be the most accurate and descriptive for insights in how people are seen by others, and are thus hilariously accurate. Could be useful for my next world domination project. I want to know which types to steer into subservient roles, without it appearing to be subservient to those most resistant to the concept of servitude to a greater cause.
ESTP was literally me. I'm more mature now, and I wait about 3 days to claim whatever she was talking about. Not because I'm careful and contemplating, but because that's the longest I can go without doing something absolutely stupid. 😂
The ENTJ will build their empire, but it will fall when they don’t notice the one person quietly waiting for them to overlook something small but important then make their move.
It's interesting that you chose a nursery rhyme as the theme song. I think that's cute. It seems like I need to keep an ESFP around to stop the ENTJs from treating me like a doormat
Seeing the ENFP right before the INTJ and how radically different they are, I’m watching them and asking “how the hell are those two an ideal coupling again?”
As an ESTJ, I can confirm all of that. And, yeah, if we see other ENTJ, we compete. Even if we work together, there is endless competition. But, I have to admit that in the end of the day, both benefit. Why? Because we try to do everything to overcome our competitor, becoming way more efficient.
I’m an ENFP and my stepdad is an ENTJ. I swear to god that me just existing makes him irrationally angry.
My condolences, two of my pals are an ENFP and an ENTJ, and while they do generally get on well, the ENTJ is sometimes frustrated by the ENFP's random thought process and unpredictable nature. I'm really sorry that you have to put up with his moods. I hope that things get better for you soon. 💞😘
I'm sorry your step dad treats you that way, or you're made to feel that way, I can relate a little bit, not an ENTJ but I have an INTJ person in my family who makes me feel like my existence is a burden to them, but on the other hand, they annoy the crap out of me too.
My mum is an ISTJ- I also think it’s how XXTJ’s see us in general- I’m an enfp.
@@Meg_intheclouds We meet again! Anyway yes I think this is just how XXTJ's sees us in general too. At some point, I was just chilling around and... somehow got a whole.. harsh advice from them.
That's how I feel about my ESTJ father-in-law. 🫡
XNTJs: Constantly optimizes objects and processes.
EXTJs: Never admits defeat.
ENXJs: Inevitably leads all of their projects.
ENTXs: Destroys others with facts and logic.
Destroying others isn't a good thing
@@zzzcocopepe that's coward mentality
@@zzzcocopepe Sometimes people deserve to be "destroyed".
@@zzzcocopepe not our fault if they deserved it, neither do we have any intent to waste time on it anyways
@@zzzcocopepe Destruction only paves the way for something new
I love how both the ENTJ and INTJ videos had them viewing INTPs as incredibly intelligent and wanting them to share their knowledge with the world and to be part of their plans to “change the world” (*world domination*)
If you've watched "Breaking Bad," think about how Walter White (INTJ) interacts with Gale Boetticher (INTP) for a good idea of how the two types can go together. Then see how that relationship ends and consider why INTPs tend to avoid connecting with other people. 🥺
I’m an intj and I think my son is an intp and I’m always telling him “you have a brain! Use it for xyz,” and he’s like, “did you know octopi have 3 hearts?!?! Anyway, now to learn about random subject…” 😂
For me, INTP this is new, cause to my INTJ mom and ENTJ brother I have nothing to add.
Yeah that's nice that they see us that way
until we get called out by ESTJ's for our hour long rants about literally anything
As an INTP, The most i can do is give you facts like “The human anus can stretch upto 7 inches.”
Funnily enough, my ENTJ aunt was the first person that made me feel like my feelings are valid. She taught me that it’s okay to be tired and not productive. She looks intimidating because when she’s asking questions, she’s not smiling (which is something I used to struggle with as a feeler) but she’s really paying attention to what you’re saying. She helped me to detangle my parents’ expectations (they’re both Fe doms) from what’s truly required, or what’s NOT required, from me (Te truth). She’s amazing and she’s my role model ❤️ I wish more people were as understanding as she is.
-ENFP
Precisely, you're lucky to have her as your role model. My supervisor is also an ENTJ, and she really helps me to be more concise, and see things more clearly.
My best friend is an ENTJ, and people tend to forget that they spend their entire lives in service to others. My favorite thing about ENTJs is actually that, once you're close to them, they recognize every problem and hardship in your life and try to fix it.
-Also an ENFP
Yes, well-adjusted ENTJ’s can be super motivational and awesome to have in your life.
It's because they're low Fi users meaning that their Te feels the need to cater to (other people's) Fi, and will give you advice that you actually do need and that will work no matter what the problem is (Te). Low Fi users just struggle with that part for _themselves_, and high Fi users are too busy worrying about their own issues to give you the advice that will actually work for other people. The flip side is that they're not going to be there when you need to be coddled. At all.
@@PeterJohnson-rh5hican confirm, I (ENFP) have a coworker whos an ENTJ and at first he was very annoyed from me and berates me but as he sees how much of a hard worker i am, he eventually respects me and explains why he burst out. Never took it personally but I would be lying if i didnt say he scares me(he's 6'7)😂😂
Little do we know that Kristin is one step ahead of us.
-ENTJ.
She got the internal paranoid monologues right. Turn on UK subs and watch again 💀
Glad I'm not the only one who's amused by being called out.
-Fellow ENTJ
Why y’all hating on IxFPs?
-INFP
@@DragonshotProductions Because most XSFP are covert narcissists and 'OBLIVIOUS-CODEPENDENTS'; to them, their "feelings becomes their reality".
This means they have a 'pathological disregard for rationality, as well as reality' - which is exceptionally dangerous for other people! Moreover, ISFP tend to [initially] prefer narcissits as dating partners, they project a lot of their [own] nasty traits onto other people, in order to avoid feeling any guilt/any unpleasant emotion (which, again, is at the expense of real, sentient people). Excluding ISFJ, most [healthy] xSFx ironically experience other humans as androids/NPC.
The list really does on! I'll finish this post with a friendly warning: "ISFP can disassociate their facial expression from their actual emotional state, i.e. they can naturally give a convincing "unassuming, unintelligent, and helpless idiot-smile" - DESPITE actually experiencing intense hated!!!
It's not intimidating. It's just deeply disturbing, i.e. it is reminiscent of a spazzing-fetus - and that unhinged, fetus is what is actually piloting the brain of an ISFP.
This also applies to most ESFP as well. The host of this channel: Kristy, is a high-functioning variant (they tend to be more in control of their own mind ~ for the most part, in truth. Again, their "feelings becomes their reality").
Any deviation/seeming contradiction is entirely solely due to external influence, i.e. other neuropersonality types experience a moral compass, genuine humanity, and the capacity for emotional-empathy as an 'instinct'. This often seeks them correcting the nasty, unintelligent opinions and actions of ESFP/ISFP, and ESFJ.
Lastly, ESFP/ISFP, and ESFJ (Kirsty included) experience "pathological hate", especially when young (i.e. their fault, undeveloped brain literally generates feelings of mindless "hated" - and it often spirals into metaphorical-cannibalism; where they try to take it out/dump their diseased emotional state on someone perceived as "vulnerable". This is how they spread hated and psychological disorders across society - and this is both with or without cluster-b).
Again, their are covert-narcissits, secretly evil, but lack self-awareness, unlike most narcissits from the more intelligent/sentient neuropersonality types.
Ps: Those three (ESFJ, ESFP/ISFP) are the most weak-minded, naturally emotionally-disturbed, attention-seeking, etc! In truth, they are basically a disability. This is a hard fact: no one in their right mind would willing permanently want to switch/swap neuropersonality with those three FOREVER!!! 🤦 At least the other 13 have their benefits and [desirable] unique traits/characteristics - and they are 'sustainable' and 'integral'/crucial for an intelligent, [genuinely] emotionally-empathetic and advanced society, to boot!
PS: ESFJ, ESFP/ISFP experience and display "superficial intelligence"; and like actual narcissits they are HIGHLY prone to projection/projecting other unpleasant aspects of their character/insecurities onto other people. This is all to avoid feeling any guilt, facing their emotional issues, or experience their own unpleasant emotion. They try to use other people as they "scapegoat"/dustbin for their unpleasant emotions (they've always been like this; so PTSD, emotional recoil from having to get ones hands dirty isn't the cause. Also, cultivating ones innate humanity is the best cure for emotional-turmoil; it just needs to be sustained for less than 20yrs).
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"Evil" is the anthesis to the virtue 'humanity'. Humanity is the characteristic that defines the human spirit. Humanity is symbiosis across humans and society. 'Humanity' exceeds 'social-Darwinism'!
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Also... To intelligent readers (who do 'not’ have a ‘pathological disregard for rationality and reality').
I recommend researching 'narcissitic personality disorder' (NPD) / 'cluster-B'; and know that they are the 'root of all evil' (especially 'ESFJ/ESTJ-narcissits'; Myers-Briggs reference, look it up)!
European 'ESFJ' are the worst personality type, and they are responsible for inventing 'racism' and colonization! It is in their neuro-psychology!!
They are extremely 'manipulative' and often use 'looking pretty' to distract others from the witch's mind-games / mind-rape, e.g. gaslighting, playing the victim or damsel in distress, creating 'flying-monkeys', and paying others to attack (or at times kill) someone for her. When caught, she will use her minions as scapegoats. European ESFJ are notorious for this especially in a racist context, e.g. Elliott Till.
ISFP (and ESFP) are the most complicit, narcissitic-enablers. ISFP also tend to be 'oblivious-codependants' (look up the definition).
SUMMARY:
Evil personality: ESFJ (ALL), ESTJ (cluster-b)
[Secretly] Evil and narcissit-friendly gunts/flying-monkey: ISFP (ALL), ESFP (ALL).
☝️ALL of them are secretly emotionally-disturbed, hence their need to create conflict (and at other people's expense, truly evil).
Spread the word! Thank you.
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#Save_Soil
As an INTJ who worked for free for an ENTJ because I was interested in their project and could tell how good they would be at leading it, that part was so accurate!
(for context, ENTJ was already struggling to fund the project and I had a stable income in the first place, I didn't let someone take advantage of me)
That sounds awesome.
Watch again with UK subtitles 🤣
"I didn't let someone take advantage of me," was what I needed to hear! Kristen got that part wrong. I know what I bring to the table, and I'm worth my weight in GOLD! -- INTJ
@@BombshElle_7 the UK subtitles have what people mean and when she said "I don't need money," what she meant is "I will overthrow you as CEO"
@@rickandrygel913 Wow 👌🏽
I'm an INTP with an ENTJ sister. We recently started a creative business together. She keeps things running, deals with the human interactions for the most part, and keeps spreadsheets for everything. I am more willing to take creative risks, and I give her permission to do the same, to change plans, and do things I think she would otherwise feel guilty about. Plus, together we can analyze the crap out of any situation, usually to our benefit. We make a pretty good team.
Nice
Same with my (INTP) Brother (ENTJ), I'm basically his 1 petabyte external hard drive and he is the mainboard. Although he is 3 years older then me, at some point my knowledge started to outweigh his in most topics. So when we meet nowadays. He gives me new knowledge about topics he is specialised in and I help him rethink his ideas. Though we have a business we are not working for it st the moment. I think INTPs and ENTJs are very compatible in a business relationship but it can be hard in a romantic/platonic relationship
Golden business pairing.
How's it going now, seven months later?
Any sensors? You guys need balance.
I love how ENTJ, ESTJ and INTJs have a fear of ISTP.
They see him as some kinda of threat or an obstacle that will appear in the end of the line, just where they are about to reach their goal, ISTP will be waving from the other side like he doesn't even care.
This makes a lot of sense, if you have watched JoJo's Bizzare Adventures: Stardust Crusaders you would have seen this happening where the main antagonist Dio (ENTJ) fears the protagonist Jotaro Kujo (ISTP) so much 🤣😂
INTP here.
Got bored playing on a survival Minecraft server, invited my ENTJ friend. He immediately declared his plans to build a 20k Block strong Airship and asked me to help him by building a wool farm. I was ready for action and got to work constructing a sheep farm from scratch while watching videos on another monitor. 2.5 hours later I informed him that I lost count in between and got 6k blocks of wool instead of the needed 5.3k. Since then he's been a bit hesitant about asking me to grind stuff in video games.
That is fucking awesome - infj
Haha well done and I can totally see this happening (am entp but nerd)
I didn't understand
I loved how chaotic ENFP got with that blue marker, their erratic nature would certainly tick any ENTJ, or strong TE user, off immediately! I hope that we see ENFP's video soon. 😁
Probably a lot like the ENTP video, except that the people would be morphing to fit the ENFP's imagination and not just the background. The only type with a wilder imagination than the ENTP is the ENFP... 🤔
ENFP here. I look forward to finally understanding MBTI to the point that I can finally engage the ENTJ in conversation that meets their goals. But ohhh I just discovered a new...
Giggles : )
This is all true, but remember the ENFP (quite literally) works well outside of conventional thinking....which is where most new ideas come from.
Nah we think ENFPs are cute
How can I both be complimented and attacked at the same time? -signed an INTP
All I heard was gold mine.
“Called a complisult- part compliment, part insult.” -Britta Perry
I was like, dammit that's absolutely what they do..
I could compile a fairly comprehensive list of ways, if you'd like... although I assume you have Google and can probably do just fine on your own. The "backhanded compliment" has a long history. -- signed another INTP
that was an attack? My 5 year old cousin hits harder.
As an ENTJ, reading the inner paranoid monologues you put in there. I have one thing to say.
GET OUT OF MY HEAD.
I am an INFP(MALE) and my dad may be an ENTJ. I attack every now and then him when he's being too judgemental towards people and he may tell me how important life goals and planning are. I kind of accept our relationship but I doubt it will never be ''that deep'' you know, but its alright, I love him the way he is
My daughter is in INFP and I (INTJ mom) have had that attack (fully justified on her part) from her a time or few myself. I get on a roll and forget to see all the ways things could have developed and judge situations and people unfairly or harshly. She keeps me grounded. I think your dad and I are both lucky to have ethical principled people who care about us to try to help us stay fair and hold to our highest ideals. I've known an ENTJ or 2 in my time. They don't often listen at first but your words can sink in later. I'm glad your dad has you. We all need the way you love in our lives.
Even if ENTJs think us INFPs are a waste of space, we still secretly love them 🥺💕
I love infp too. i am class monitor in uni, my crush is infp. My way of loving is competing and trying to control her. She doesn't like that way. Any ideas for me pls?
@@hoshiki724 stop trying to compete with her and stop trying to control her. Offer to listen to her ideas and share yours with her if she asks. Just treat her with respect and kindness. And if she's not interested, respect that too.
no i won't
Ok, I'm a dom and dabble in finding excitement at mild sadism but take it from an ENTJ, please get yourself some therapy 🤨🤚
It’s ok you can get over it! 🤘
As much as the Fi doms are brutalized in this video, I think the ESTJ is dunked on the hardest.
I actually thought the Fi doms would inspire the ENTJ a bit more xD
I think this is better than ones that portray ESTJs as having anger management problems, because it is true that we (I think I'm ESTJ) don't enjoy delving into deep topics much.
It's funny. As an INFP I feel like I always get on pretty well with ENTJs. I mean, I have encountered some very unhealthy ENTJs who would virtually terrorize you to get their way, were more concerned with being the "boss" rather than a leader and would definitely leave you feeling like a "waste of space."
But when it comes to healthy ENTJs I've found they value independence as much as we do and will leave you alone to get the job done and I really appreciate that. That, and when it comes to emotions they seem to be the inverse of INFPs in that they have a tough, outer shell with a soft interior while INFPs are a lot tougher on the inside than we appear. It seems to help bring out ENTJs vulnerability.
Interesting point about ENTJs and INFPs being each other's inverse emotionally! Your description of a healthy ENTJ sounds like someone I would probably get along with as well. Can't come up with irl examples as I'm not sure if I've interacted with many ENTJs. -INFP
I totally agree - INFP
I get on with them too.. I find them funny
I am INFP but l view other types the same way ENTJs do. In other word l feel what ENTJs going through. I know it pissed me off😂
And by terrorize you have to mean that ENTJ came to you after two months and asked "Hey, did you finish that work I gave you ages ago?".
As an ISFP with an ENTJ mother... my one was short but absolutely accurate🙄
Fart loudly to establish dominance
That's sad. I think ISFPs are extremely competent. Y'all are so talented and good at everything you try to do. - an INFP
@@thepoetandtheprimrose3790 I am not
-isfp
Fr 😂
@@thepoetandtheprimrose3790 that’s a straight up lie 😂 - signed ENTJ
I'm an INFJ and I have an ENTJ friend, he's very kind and patient. He's not a bulldozer but he does get things done. I think this stereotype that the ENTJ doesn't care is just incorrect. He's a very healthy ENTJ and I'm happy to call him my friend.
I think when it’s a male EXTJs and female IXFPs, things are “normal”.
When you have EXTJs females and IXFPs males, it’s real pain.
This is not a sexist theory but real life experiences.
I have got the painful package, especially when EXTJs females play an authority role, you’re just doomed.
This ISTP raises 2 fists in the air!! Who said we don't have friends? We steal all our friends from ENTJ's. xD
I’m not an intimidating person, not by any stretch of the imagination. I’m too awkward, short, obnoxious, cute (when my Fe comes out to play). But the one person who said he found me intimidating was my ENTJ friend who was intimidated by my intellectual prowess, vast and pathless scape of knowledge, and ability to read him and his emotional wounds like a book. If I never intimidate anyone else ever, I am satisfied. I have conquered the beast of beasts. ~entp
I love y'all.
-ENFP
I usually find ENTPs annoying, but I appreciate the ideas that spring forth from whatever you do on your side quests. But hell nah, I don't find you people intimidating. I'd admire you for your knowledge, but if you're not using/optimising a 100% of it, you don't need most of it. Unapplied knowledge is a waste of memory.
that blatant arrogance in anyone other than an ENTP would make me sick, but since its you....
-INFP simp
"vast and pathless scape of knowledge" cringe
Unapplied knowledge is just knowledge that has not been applied YET. Think of it as a storehouse for future gain.
Although I would agree that it should be knowledge that is backed by the power of interest, so that it could be wielded with a reasonable level of passion and motivation.
I'm fine with my emotional capabilities being compared to a sock's, but I felt bad for the poor ISFJ straight up being a doormat 🙁
Wait, does that mean that I actually have more emotions than a sock? 🤔
Socks have very little interaction with doormats. What type is the shoe that’s keeping them apart? 🤔
ISFJ here and the doormat couldn't be more accurate lmao, people are constantly asking me for favors, and even if I don't like them, I'll help them if I can.
We never take the time to get to know ISTJs, maybe that's why. At least, I havent.
I love the hilariously jaunty instrumental background music of "The Ants go Marching." It made my entire month. 😂🤣
The original tune comes from the American Civil War, and is called "When Johnny Comes Marching Home." It works so well for this video because a march excellently conveys the ENTJ's focus on progress.
If you search "when johnny comes marching home violin" the first result is the full audio from this video.
Being a military song, it was hilariously fitting since my ENTJ dad is a retired Air Force officer. 😂
@@nerysghemor5781 My time in the Air Force was rife with XXTJs. I still have several associations between the military and Te.
The thing is I may go on a million side quests and diversions and stuff but I also always end up at that goal, and it’s so much more fun for me. Tips to manage and understand an ENXP- give us that little bit of freedom to play with an idea while subtly diverting us to the point you want to get to- we can be goal orientated but it’s about the journey and we get the energy and the enjoyment from the idea itself. I was talking about this with my INTJ friend today of like they need the facts and to see how it slots into their bigger idea before they can explore it and consider the possibility- I take the possibility as it is and expand on all these different things first then can consider realistic implications and I am happy to discard it if over all it isn’t “relevant” I just need that little bit of space to go with the blue line and go with that flow. Although I can see how it would be annoying that I divert from the goal, but again while the goal may be important- to me the fun is in getting to that point and all the problem solving and exploration that happens along the way- and with that trust we mostly always arrive at the goal :)
Wholesome comment 10/10
Yeah this, 100%
The other thing for xxTJ’s to remember is that sometimes if you give us the space (and extra time) we’ll take your paltry goal and deliver something beyond what you could have hoped for…flip side for xxxP’s - sometimes you do have to deliver SOMETHING and it does need to be TIMELY and sometimes the “paltry goal” is really all that’s needed.
-An ENFP
ISTP and ENFJ can literally be nightmare for ENTJ 😂
"I'm competent, I get the job done, and I'm not in it for the money so you can pay me minimum wage." - Accurate.
Little do the ENTJs know we are already one step ahead of them and slowly breaking down their walls, while they are still focused on the ENFJ
- INFJ
Why can't you xNFJs just leave us alone...?😫😫😫
We need a support group for ENTJs who have had their walls broken down violently by ENFJs. It's difficult to handle the humiliation.
Mwahahahaha we'll follow you guys there and then we can talk deeply bout them feelings :>
@@onerainygal2780 I didn't even consider that the support group would most likely be held by an ENFJ. What a trap.
try having one as a little sister
@@onerainygal2780 dw im holding them down-intj
Point me to this ENFJ so I can (thank them personally)
"Look at me just enjoying life. Leave me alone." - INFP
Yes, let's do that please. 😀
All that extra work you want me to do is cutting into my daydreaming time.
That was funny 😂 and accurate sometimes 😁
But let me say that my best friend is an ENFP. She is my backbone, my best assistant and my honest mirror. Yes she could be disorganized and have her head up in the clouds sometimes, but she is trustworthy and she's always there when I need her, and she never fail me when the going gets tough. I really can count on her. And I'm very thankful to have her in my life.
Aww!
I have an ENTJ aunt and she’s amazing ❤️ patient, mature, understanding. I used to get intimidated when she started to ask questions- for example, I’ve pitched an idea I found interesting but haven’t thought through yet, and she just wanted to understand me better. She looks intimidating because she’s not smiling, but she’s really paying attention to what you’re saying. Now I look forward to her questions because they help me think better. She also helps me see the truth and the facts, to see what’s really going on, which I really appreciate because I often struggle with that. Man, I really like ENTJs 😊
-ENFP
Awww love it💕💕. Wish my ENTJ would say this about me (to my face).
@@kellikakes81
Thank you for reminding me, I really appreciate it. It's been a while since I voice my feelings and my appreciation to her. You remind me of her, this is actually what she do, draw my attention to my blind spots. The thing is (as I believe) thinkers don't feel natural or the need to voice there emotions very often, we are action people. We will show by our actions that we really appreciate someone and care about them, because actions speak louder than words. The difference in our preferences really amaze me. I'm sure your ENTJ appreciate you, they probably as I said don't feel natural voicing there feelings, may be they need a reminder or a poke. Believe me if they care and you tell them what you hope from them, they will consider it, and take your words seriously. Have a great day, and thank you again 💕
This was so precious. Thank you for sharing! We ENFPs are useful for some things. I love being the one cheering on others and it's great to see such a high achieving thinker type appreciate what we bring to the table even though sometimes we're not nearly as focused or goal oriented. Legit though, I think being the best friends we can be is our goal.
As an INTJ, I relate. I am never in it for the money...good money is nice, yeah, but the essence of the project is more important....if it's in alignment with my values, goals, and dreams, I'm in.
LMAO, the UK English subtitles...
For the sake of my relationship with an ENTJ almost 3 years now, I will pretend the first clip never happened XD
Now, seriously, the ENTJs appreciate how well organized and hard workers we are. And if you are a healthy ISFJ and not allow to be stoop on, even the most dominant characters can't see you as a doormat.
Agreed. ENTJ here and I value ISFJs a lot.
You are natural pair , good for you
@@Coldfire762 Thank you. Speaking of myself, I really admire ENTJs and dedication to their goals and ambition that works as an amazing drive to never stay static and achieve more and more in their lives in many different factors. And I support my special lady in that. I don't demand more time for us, all I want for her is to succeed her goals and I fully support her in that making sure she also takes care of herself.
@@malakashraf2801 Thank you, we respect and support each other and that's what matters the most.
@@CineShinya Lovely, I personally think you're doing great :) I'd love a person like that. Don't be afraid to ask to meet any of your needs though. Both need to be satisfied to have a healthy relationship.
Middle aged INTP here. Yeah, it's great being appreciated for what we, as INTPs, bring to the table... like a turkey contributing to Thanksgiving dinner... 🦃🍖🥩🍔
1) Loved seeing the ENFP personifying chaos, as ENFPs do. 🥳🤯🤪
2) Loved the bonus "Kristin twirls her mustache" bit, as Kristin is ALWAYS entertaining with a mustache. 🥸Just needed a goatee and she'd be "Evil Kristin" from "The Darkest Timeline."
EDIT: Another comment reminded me of Gale Boetticher from "Breaking Bad," which reinforced the turkey analogy in my mind... 😕
Why be a Turkey, when u could be a peacock? - infj
@@zzzcocopepe Because most of the time we are seen as malnourished chickens, so we'll take what we can get.
@@zzzcocopepe I'd say a turkey can't choose to be a peacock, even if the turkey wanted to... but in truth, my comment was in reference to the traditional Thanksgiving meal in the USA being turkey and not so much about applied ornithological transmogrification... 😕
Our lives, and even our dreams, are often not our own. We're routinely sacrificed to fulfil the whims and fancies of others. It's not that we're not valued... but we're rarely valued for the traits we'd prefer.
Funny enough, my ENTJ best bud is trying to convince me that I AM competent
-ISFP
He wants you to believe it, in hope you really be it.
ENTJ
As an istp I would like to say,
Yes.
As an INTJ, the INTJ one hit close to home. I have worked for less than the minimum wage (while working on military bases during my later teenage years) but I was not concerned with the money. Those summers remain great experiences to reminisce about, and arguably some of the times when I have been closest to self actualisation, and happiest (perhaps because I was doing so much reading during my off hours).
Money is a useful means towards an end, a medium of trade, but ultimately not all that valuable in and of itself. The pursuit of wealth in and of itself is not a worthwhile pursuit. The pursuit of knowledge and truth, the impact you leave on others, the legacy you leave behind, those are pursuits I consider to be worthwhile. What those things mean vary from person to person, but everyone ought to figure it out for themselves, and take active steps to achieve those things they consider to be important.
How do you just do this sort of thing? How is every INTJ somehow on top of the world, doing something crazy amazing with their life, and really wize? It cannot be Ni alone. What must I say to God to obtain this power?
@@liiiiich3n0nTheM00nyou don't really know how old OP is and how many experiences they've had in their life so far. But it does seem like they're older than you or have spent their life a little more proactively. In the post, you can also see the criticism of Se addiction (which as an INFP, I absolutely agree with) and talking about the few truly important things (Ni), while also emphasizing the importance if taking active steps (Se and Te) and individual pursuits (Fi, but can be interpreted as Ti too)
For many it isn't pursuit of wealth, but pursuit of the freedom money provides.
2 seconds in and I'm already laughing.
Way to go, kristin
3:05 In case you’re wondering why Kristin wore a fake mustache in the last segment.
I love the black background. Nothing else exists to us ENTJs but what we’re zeroed in on.
As an ENTJ, the ISTJ part couldn't be more true , I NEED an assistant kind of person that doesn't miss any detail to help my conquest of the world !
@@Daniooo that's what I'm talking about ! This duo is unstoppable,
Except I'm yet to experience this companionship at work given I'm still young , but envisioning it now it looks amazing
My best friend - since adolescence - paradoxically, is an ESFP. There's no way I could live like her, but I couldn't live without her either:
Every time we hang out, she fills all my SE needs for a month, shreds all my stress, meets a thousand people, has the time of my life… And the next day - while my head is exploding - I have an extra and additional boost & energy to regain control of my life and meet my goals! 😄
- ENTJ.
My absolute favorite here was the ENFP drawing the analogy on paper! That was priceless!!!
Also love it when you throw in the bloopers at the end of videos! 😂
0:20 that's how Kristin must've caught her ENTJ husband's interest 🔥
Me, an ISFP, reading the title: _chuckles_ im in danger
Hahahahaha
Very accurate for this INFJ. So tuned in to other people's feelings that my own often come second... so I'll just slip off to the piano and express myself that way rather than voice my opinion and risk offending anyone
[sigh 🙄]
I know an ENTJ who is great with feelings. Although I think this is due less to cognitive functions and more with her sense of morality
I love that I can always instantly recognize the INTP by the eyes. Great INTP face 🥰
Yeah, but sometimes INTPS are pure Ne ( when we talk about something that we love or, even more, when we have some brilliant idea about something) and then our eyes glows.
Hey youtube commenters! I just wanted to mention again that Kristin has a patreon goal that when she hits 500 patrons she's going to make "16 Personalities In A Musical." Let's make that happen!
Even if you can't afford the lowest patreon tier, I'm sure a custom pledge of any size would help her achieve her goal of becoming a full time content creator. Even a dollar would help! So, if her content entertains you, or enriches your life in some way, please consider donating!
Kristin, thank you for having the humility and sense of humour to show us your bloopers. I have entire days like that where my mouth just refuses to pronounce things properly. You are a class act, even when making these videos for us is an uphill battle :)
As an INFP, my ENTJ boss and I get along pretty well until he barges into the kitchen and gives me 500 tasks that all need to get done *immediately*, and then gets upset that the dishes I was doing didn't get done in time because I was busy with those 500 other things. Like, pal, if you want all of it done, hire more people. Also, don't make me do things that require brainpower, I'm trying to write a book here. Lol
Sounds like somebody needs to acquire so organisational skills and stop blaming others for their own inefficiency...
Ooh! I like how you've shown the empathic and manipulative side of ENFJs can be so intimidating for ENTJs. 😈
Enfjs mode bitch XDxdxd 😂
*Fearully aims a watergun at you* Who said you intimidate us? You're just really creepy with all this emotional unpacking You're always obsessed about...
What does it mean if an enfj doesn’t unpack my emotions?? 🥲 -entj
The INFJ is spot-on: I'm in a large fandom where a very popular character gives me major ENTP energy. Whenever he comes up, I just have to bow out of the conversation quickly and say "I know my natural predator when I see him" 😅
When I meet other ENTJ's it's never competitive, it's never much of anything. Maybe I'd think "Hm, not much going on there," or "... I wonder if I'm like that..... I'm not like that am I?"
I have an ENTJ aunt and an ESFJ aunt. You can imagine how much fun they are. The ENTJ is married to an INTP. 🤣🤣🤣
Seems like cloning didn’t work, she had to go with her backup plan 😂
ENTJs and INTPs are supposed to be a compatible couple
remember INTP & ENTJ are shadows each other!!
Ah, finally. Brilliant, Kristin. As always. PS- ESFPs and ENFPs both intrigue me for the same reasons. The chaos you bring is both so inviting yet so dreadful. I can't *create* chaos, because my brain is too organised. But I'll bet my guns I *love* it happening around me(without affecting me, my work and my goals of course). It's fun to watch. Possibly why most of my friends are NFs.
Edit: Forgot to mention that I'm an ENTJ too, as if y'all already know me. **God Complex sings in the background**
Fun fact, as an esfp, I've comanded loads of people in avalanches of chaos with an enfp, both drunk! We share the same mid functions but they have Ne on first and we have Se, so we complement each other really well and as they can share what could happen (Ne) we can think how to solve it with the immediate resources (Se) and we both speak and organize ourselves in a similar language because of the Fi-Te. Just, don't expect us to have a realistic view of the details, ever
Not so easy to *parent* the chaos of an ENFP, tho
@@jameswilkerson4412 Oh no no. Absolutely not. I'd die if I had to work with an ENFP on a short deadline, forget having to parent them😂
@@tiredcatman7381 That sounds like a movie I would totally watch but never do irl
Kristin pictures the relationship dynamic between ENTJ and ENTP so accurately!
It actually happened to my ENTJ friend and me back in high school. Everytime when I was trying something randomly, she would be like :"You just need to do this and that and everything will be fix, why would you bother to do all these 'different side quests'?" (not in a bossy way, with Te as the dominant function ExTJs just want to make everything simple.)
And as an ENTP, I would be like: "Emm, because it's INTERESTING, I guess?" You know for an ENTP, it's pretty hard not to waste my time on some randome meaningless pleasure :).
BTW, the ENTJ Kristin discribes seems to think highly of xxTPs, which in my experience is true. ENTJs just simply don't understand why we as xxTPs are so good at procastinating everything important XD.
U should see the one where they are one upping each other on rule breaking
That last part will never not be true...
This is why INTJs tend to be happy being an ENTJ's personal assistant. Though we will insist upon a wage commensurate with our position. Besides, you can't show off your status symbol personal assistant properly if we're not well paid. Then you'd have to admit we're just friends doing you a favor because it entertains us to try to be more on top of your plans than you are. After all, that's the only way we can anticipate your every need.
;)
-- INTJ and official pack Beta.
Very cute 🥰
-ENFP
We wish we were the ISTPs but true
@@jordanjoestar-turniptruck I have never once wished to be an ISTP. No offense meant to them, but I'm happy in terms of my function stack.
@@jordanjoestar-turniptruck Why would we want to be istps lmao Ni-Te-Fi is the dream team function stack
@@EresirThe1st meh that ni-fi loop is hell.
ISTP as an evil mastermind 😎 So cool!
Great, now I have to worry about an ENTJ scooping out my brain. Yet another reason to never leave the house.
We'll leave the ice cream scoops at home. Promise. -ENTJ
I feel seen. Thank you. This is exactly how I view people.
There needs to be an end seen where the ENFP gets supper motivated by there passion for their project, their unconventional seemingly kayotic line if things and ways gives birth to a really cool creative project that's outside the box and somehow gets the go ahead and pulls it off as they were able to charm the boss and the ENTJ is like... What the beep just happened!? Lol if I had a nickel for every time this happened.. There's a method to our madness I sware! Lol im not sure whst they were in the 16 personalities but my boss similar to this and trid to take credit for my idea and steel my project in front of superiors... That time was pretty wild l
*"I'm dutiful, I do what I say I'll do, I actually take interest in the tasks you find mundane, and I have my ex-boyfriend's kidney in a sock. What more could you possibly want?"*
ENFJ here. That is exactly the way I feel when I deal with an ENTJ! I'll catch you off guard one day and learn all your deepest secrets. It always happens...eventually.
I’m and an Infp and my dad is an Entj. He has made it quite clear that he sees me the Intp way , and yeah, I have a lot of ideas but I just don’t get stuff done and that irritates the shit out of my dad bc I’m wasting my potential. Listen, I just wanna sleep dad.
im an entj with an enfp, infp and infj as my besties. Sometimes I wonder how we even became friends 💀
Speaking as an INTJ while money is not what we live for, it is needed to rule the world, so I like the idea you had trouble with it because subconsciously you understand INTJs better.
Yes, money isn’t the end goal. It’s valuable resource to get to the goal.
The fact that I've actually used the words "don't be a doormat" to my ISFJ wife, just confirms for me all the more I'm an ENTJ. Usually in the context of letting the kids run all over her, or even me pushing an argument that she refuses to argue or even defend her point of view. I now get the occasional water thrown at me, or some other object, as an indicator she is still processing. 20 years of marriage. Best ever. As Martok would say "a long, gruelling, intoxicating war... in the end, I know, she will win the war." th-cam.com/video/QOyJUS9aHas/w-d-xo.html In the end, I know my wife will finally stand her ground and I will be all the happy for it and loyal to her cause. :D
spot on. ENTJs and other people who do not care about other people's feelings give me anxiety.
Have a cousin ENTJ, he surrounds himself around ESP's because he likes to party hard and work hard, and they keep him the best company.
Are we flirting rn? Are we in love? Have I finally found my match? ENTJ to ENTJ
ENFP in entrepreneurship school here 🙋🏼♀️ Pitching concepts and bouncing idea back and forth with my friend closely resembles that blue line. Today we were designing backpacks and I made an origami design with plastic I made in a waffle iron and am watching this vid as my new material is cooking in the oven. About the bag part….
Hahahahahaha, my dad is an ENTJ and a retired military officer so the background music has me cracking up at its sheer appropriateness! 😂
0:49 INFJ
*takes 10 minutes to think of an answer while starring at the wall, planning every possible combination of words while at the same time taking into account your feelings (still fails and looks weird now)*
Wish i could stop time tbh.
ISFP being incompetent was so spot on 😂
Yes. Except I enjoy ENTP and ENFP much more than the video portrays. I enjoy the laughs that they bring to tickle my mind that most people can't do on that level. And I take that ESFP challenge way too often for my own good.... They are often my best friends. And ENFJs blow my mind. I listen to them probably more than I do any other type. Because they're usually right. Although it will take me some time to see that. But it's just a different perspective that I didn't see. But they're right....
I suppose that I might’ve found ENTJs anxiety-inducing before I learned about MBTI, but since then, I find them amusing.
I had an ENTJ boss boasting about a cat she had and all the dog tricks that she was able to get it to do. “I can make him sit. I can make him roll over. I can make him do a high five. 😤” She was so proud of it in a way that I think only an ENTJ really could. I couldn’t help but get a chuckle out of it. - INFJ
Item 135 that is a trait I share with other ENTJ's apparently.
My cat's; Sit, Beg, jump up on things, back down and come when called.
As an INTJ, I AM in "it" for the money unless "it" is really interesting - and even then, if I'm going to spend a lot of time on "it," I want to be paid what I am worth. I'm too busy to work for free..
As an ESFJ I actually find I get on really well with the ENTJs that I've met... I would react the way in this video towards ISTJs and ESTJs.
Agree. My best friend is an ESFJ. As an ENTJ I'm often not really aware of how I feel deep down, but with her I don't have to be. She so effortlessly values my feelings and responds to my emotional needs (before I even realize they're there), and - most importantly - she doesn't overanalyze any of it, so I'm not left embarrased afterwards. You can truly count on ESFJs. You rock.
"It's not intellectial theft if I'm not using it."
I'm not an ambitious person, but that doesn't mean I'm not using what's in my head. Beware ENTJs, lest I use it against you. 😉
-INTP
What's sad is all of it is true except INTP. We usually team up with INTJs and INTPs to help us with our plans
YES THANK YOU! A couple of MVPs on the team who get credit where credit is due!
I now realize how ENTJ this sounded 💀
This was fantastic! Hilarious video, thank you. I'm an ISFP. I study the INTJ, ESFP, and ENTJ to understand how they use the functions I naturally have. It's helped place less importance on my Fi and work my other functions. That has been my masterplan and so far it's working. I'm more charismatic and was recently promoted to team lead at the office.
GOD the enfj one is exactly how my enfj friend and entj friend interact
Brilliant as usual, Kristin. Pretty soon, you'll get to the INTPs, and as one, here's a suggestion that'll help. You know during the party sketch, you had the INTP go about the party like he was playing a D & D character. So for "Though the eyes of" sketch, how about he or she goes about a normal day like a video game character? You know, going about his or her business, meeting the other types, and figuring out how to deal with or avoid them.
That would be so cool!
I don't know if it helps Kristin but as an INTP (even tho i'm not big on the game theme) i too, detect that person's flaw right away and put them either in "tolarable/interesting" or "not worthy enough to care/red flag avoid"
INTP: My dearest friend is an ENTJ. She motivates me want to work hard and keep myself in order despite my tendency to be messy and unproductive.
THESE ARE ALL JOB INTERVIEWS!!🤣🤣🤣 -intj
I'd hire you.
Whenever a new comes up, I have to rewatch the whole series
For all my fellow ISTPs, this one is the person who says: i too am a person.
I actually don’t know any ENTJs well in real life, however I do have an ENTJ character with six younger siblings in order:
ISFJ, ENFP, ESFP, ENFJ, ISFP, INTP so needless to say this was hilarious 😆
Quality music choices right here
what is this song?
@@snowywoods. One of them is “The Ants Go Marching,” and I love that :)
So... All the personality types view INFPs the same way. That's totally fine...I'm not having an existential crisis!
As an ENTJ, I have found your videos to be the most accurate and descriptive for insights in how people are seen by others, and are thus hilariously accurate. Could be useful for my next world domination project. I want to know which types to steer into subservient roles, without it appearing to be subservient to those most resistant to the concept of servitude to a greater cause.
ESTP was literally me. I'm more mature now, and I wait about 3 days to claim whatever she was talking about. Not because I'm careful and contemplating, but because that's the longest I can go without doing something absolutely stupid. 😂
I love it when the United Kingdom subtitles actually match what the person is saying lol
The ENTJ will build their empire, but it will fall when they don’t notice the one person quietly waiting for them to overlook something small but important then make their move.
It's interesting that you chose a nursery rhyme as the theme song. I think that's cute. It seems like I need to keep an ESFP around to stop the ENTJs from treating me like a doormat
1:48 As an ENFJ I can say this is extremely accurate
OMG u got INFJ so right in this. This is the battle waged between F and T
Seeing the ENFP right before the INTJ and how radically different they are, I’m watching them and asking “how the hell are those two an ideal coupling again?”
As an ESTJ, I can confirm all of that.
And, yeah, if we see other ENTJ, we compete. Even if we work together, there is endless competition.
But, I have to admit that in the end of the day, both benefit. Why? Because we try to do everything to overcome our competitor, becoming way more efficient.
Bloody hilarious, I love this series - signed an INFP
Watch me replay this multiple times until I get bored