The Reality of Being a Sex Worker-Rollii
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 28 ก.ย. 2024
- Soft White Underbelly interview and portrait of Rollii, a sex worker in Los Angeles.
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"as long as I'm getting paid"
I know a lot of people will think I'm just being judgemental, but honestly this whole video just felt symptomatic of where we've gone wrong as a society.
Im not picking on her or singling her out, I'm not religious or particularly moralistic, so it's not all the sex per se that's the issue.
It just seems such a vapid existence, everything is transactional and if she can make tons of money and buy more sh#t with it then she's a success.
Hey, i just bought my dad a new flat screen tv, hey I just bought my mom a 600 dollsr chair.
She says its a way of "giving back" but it wouldn't exactly stun me if they'd be far happier without this stuff is turning tricks to buy.
Which is how America is as a whole I think - so obsessed with consumerism its replaced humanity.
She came from a good home, she wasn't abused but her whole value system is based around material things. That's what achievement looks like to many people.
I lived in the middle east for many years and although Im not spiritual I felt that people had a much more fulfilling life. Im now in Thailand and I feel its the same here too that way.
Im not describing it very well but things feel so empty for want of a better word in the West.
We may be rich by GDP standards but in many of the ways that actually matter we're very poor I think.
Willsmith i totally get the gist of what youre saying!! I wholeheartedly agree!! Its hard to explain i know but i get it totally!! 😮
My thoughts exactly. I’ve no hate in my heart toward any of these individuals, but I’ve become convinced this behaviour is damaging, as evidenced from the complete ignorance of what is at stake.
I'm hoping for a follow-up interview in a couple years with a different mindset from her
thats the reality of the world, not just an america vs rest of the world thing. as much as i hate to say this, money really is the biggest contributor to a lot of peoples' happiness and success. at the end of the day people have their own morals and values and if they are happy with doing sex work making more money than your regular 9-5 and barely have enough money to pay rent, then more power to them. I disagree with what you said about this being something 'wrong' with the society, i think the world has always been this way, people have always been doing the 'wrong' things in their best interests. And i am not saying this for myself but i promise you a lot of people would prefer doing her line of work if given the opportunity. it is what it is. money rules
❤thank you❤
The only person to blame for cheating is the cheater.
Right like wtf was he talking about saying all 3 are to blame ?!!
that's a simple statement for a complex issue. Is it the cheater's fault? Absolutely. And it is also interesting to understand the 'why' behind why the married dudes are out there. Relationships need tit for tat. If a man is expected to compromise and be monogamous than the spouse better be putting out. Did she force him out of monogamy? Not at all, still 100% his choice, but with kids, courts, etc. it is much more complex than "1 person is to blame and nothing else happened"
@@trgiun It's the divorce attorney that he had on said something similar to all 3 are to blame. But cheating is the end result of a lot of things in a relationship going wrong and being ignored.
Monkey 🐒😂 cheeky monkey
yeah that was weird when he said the wife drove him to it.....whatttttttttttttttttttttttt?
the parents abandoned her to state care, she lost heaps of weight, and now trying to show her parents she is "worthy" of their "love" which she was and is all along. Something wrong in family dynamics. Anger shows us something is wrong.
Oh, please....
the father tried to give her structure and she refused it, and then she refused it again. then she got in a bunch of fights with her roommates, and then she went back home again, and then she moved in with her BF...
I feel like there is a lot more to this story and she’s just spinning this in a nice glossy story. I wish her well.
Yes agree. She looks very tired.
She probably just using this as clout to get even more clients
She doesn't seem well at all. She tries to play it cool, but she only comes across as forced
Her whole story was full of half truths. If she was being totally honest her story wouldn't come off as "all is well and I make a lot of money," a lot of BS to hide her shame and trauma I'd guess.
@@rogal6661 privileged sex workers are no different. They create an illusion of being a happy hooker. If the money were better elsewhere and/or didn’t pay as much, herself & others would go to the jobs that do, instead of this.
She kept calling it “modeling”, and speaking like she had just won some kinda award and was giving a speech to inspire ppl
This girl is delusional with the “modeling “.
🤭
Lol…so true😂
Sad sad 😂😂😂
How is she supposed to talk? 😂
Her manic speech and constant self-touching is really telling. No self confidence
No SW is self-confident, otherwise they wouldn't be selling their bodies for 💵
Many people do that. “Body language” analysis is a bullshit science. 😂
yeah she keeps rubbing her lower stomach area, sucks, shes prob sore.
Or........it may be related to drugs lol.
So distracting too
She said BUH-DORE 😂😂😂
"How long have you been doing this?"
"Five years....since I was 18, I'm 25....."
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Yup, she's sharp as a whiffle ball!!!
I didn't know what she meant say first but had to chuckle once I put two and two together
I just laughed at that part.
Her parents must be proud!
“As long as I’m getting paid that’s all that matters” as a business owner I promise you the IRS feels the Same way.
years later when people wake up and realize famous rappers like "sexy red" aren't sexy, she will end up paying for her lifestyle.
As an IRS employee I confirm this
@@Claire-zg2di As a Malaysian, can someone explain to me what this IRS thingie is?
@Albrecht87 internal revenue service - we collect debts owed via taxes. The good old federal government
Oh yeah. We file as self employed a 1099-MISC. They love our money. 😂
Thanks, Mark, for validating every husband who blames his wife for his cheating.
Mark, when you were talking about cheating and you said that the wife is also to blame for making the husband go astray.......you werent serious right????
You do realize that no one can force you to be unfaithful right???
I was shocked he put the spouse being cheated on as no different dam than the husband and whore. It’s called divorce, mark! Not f-ing prostitutes and taking diseases home!Disgusting!
I agree. I haven’t heard him say that but it’s gross if he did. You are. Protection saying nobody can force you to be unfaithful. That’s on the adulterer.
@@BeeBeeCJr 💯
@@BeeBeeCJr yeah I was really disappointed to hear him say that.
Yes, he said it and he was serious. I think Mark is beginning to become enthralled with the lifestyle to the point where he accepts the old trope that husbands stray because of their wife’s behavior or lack of sexual adventurousness. He really might want to start interviewing people with more productive and inspirational lives now. Enough.
5 years , ever since I was 18, I’m 25. This is why yall need to stay in school
EXACTLY 😂😂😂
I just commented that and came to look in the comments to see if anyone else did lol
She said she's been being doing it for 5 years, since 18. She said she's 25, math isn't her strong suit, lol
she can only add cocks 😅😅😅
I aced calc 1,2,3 and several more advanced math classes and I STILL can’t subtract in my head lmao
@@Yourenotsmart1999Ain't that the TRUTH....🤣🤣
Shout out from sunny San Diego 😎
Women lie about their age all the time.
She just wants to be loved.
Self worth is not here….💔
She dressed very classy for this interview.
The slime thing is cuz all the middle age men grew up watching Nickelodeon.
😂
😂😂😂
My cousin and I watched the Hell outta some Double-Dare🤣
Your bad 😂😅😂
LOOOL
Man, I was enjoying this channel but I’m gonna have to head out like SpongeBob after Mark’s comment about women pushing men to cheat.
WTAF
Of course it is. 🙄
Accountability is a lost art.
I haven’t watched the video yet, but the comments suggest she is buying her father stuff with the proceeds. As the dad of a teenaged daughter I will just say to ANYONE doing the same, there is nothing in this world that I could ever want enough to see my daughter do this for money.
I’m crying my eyes out for this family right now. The only “things” I want are the health, safety and happiness of my children. If I was given a TV paid for in this manner I don’t think I could ever watch any tv ever again.
Way too many females are over sexualized and think this culture of sleeping with everyone is “empowering” trust me when the boys you are dealing with are a little older they absolutely will not find that attractive.
Lastly, I know a young person that focused on getting her bachelors degree in four years and becoming a licensed RN at 22 years old. She is and incredibly intelligent young lady from a great family that even does a money budget……THOSE qualities are extremely attractive for real men. Someday someone will be very happy that she worked so hard…..she will also be happy for herself. THAT is true empowerment
She cries because she knows that her parents don't love her: they "believe" she's a model so that they can take her money w/o asking how she obtained it. If she truly believes the manner in which she obtains money is virtuous, why isn't she honest with her parents?
Why would she wanna admit that to her parents ????
Dude wtf she’s a prostitute, I wouldn’t tell my parents either. yall convince yourselves everyone is a victim without having any proof
They took her back in..your not listening closely
@@italiantraditionalcatholic2390 Of course they took her back in: so they could continue abusing her. How do you think dysfunctional people are created? ...talk about missing the big picture/"your (you're) not listening closely" LOL.
Why would he say it’s a shame there’s such a stigma around sex work and it’s too bad it’s illegal AND THEN ASK HER IF SHE’S EVER THOUGHT OF GETTING A “RESPECTABLE” JOB. Sex work is stigmatized because of ppl like him.
Because he earns money of people like her
When Mark said "youre a beautiful girl" what the what😂
Ikr? Everybody's perspective is their own but ya I'm like... She's not that attractive
Y'all are sooo miserable. Also you're a woman too???? You cannot handle another woman getting complimented? Such a pick-me. I bet you're fun at a party.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
He always tells people that.
Wait...she said she had great parents...then she mentions being in group homes and jail? What did I miss?
Mark: I have watched many of your videos, but havent watched one in many months until yesterday, now watched 2. Something seems changed with you and not for the good. I think you need a sabbatical. Youve done much great work. Hope youll consider what Ive said.
As a father who is strict, this scares me so much. I try to be the best father I can be for my daughter, but to know that even if I raise her right and can still go down a rough road.
Just let them know they are your whole world. It's when you feel like you don't matter or you're not important. ❤
Sports help to learn how to show up, stick with things and lose. :) Being emotionally present and responsive. This is due to low self-esteem + high cost of living. Good luck!
Nah, her father wasn't just strict. He was abusive, but she's convinced herself that she deserved his abuse.
Strict parenting is usually bad parenting, especially if you have a child with a spirited nature. That strictness kills the child's spirit and self-esteem and makes them dishonest and even more rebellious.
Same here. We are very strict with our 12 yr old daughter but after watching this I might have nightmares. I pray our daughter grows up to value sacredness instead of materialistic things.
She also acquires demons with every transaction.
Those demons wont show up to haunt her till later
Keep YOUR religious views out of it
Jesus, are we back in the Dark Ages?
@@jaypazole4086 Are you a demon, too?
Not necessarily
Dude this one made me emotional. The way she puts herself through all this to provide for her loved ones. And spoil her friends, she was so happy saying that 🥲 the way she appreciated all the men that have gotten her there wow
I hope someday she realizes that there is more to life than money and material things.
This is the most I’ve heard Mark talk during a SWU session. He usually just lets the person go in their own direction and stays out of it for the most part…I sense some transference ☺️
Transference? Is that a word
@@PekkaSaaurihave you heard of Google or a dictionary?
Well done to this young lady, yes she’s young and still needs to wisen up however she isn’t taking drugs and has a good personality which no doubt is 50% of what makes her so sought after. I hope she stays healthy and manages to make something of herself without falling for scumbag men who will use her for money. She has a steady background. I lost my Mediterranean hot blooded father when I was a teenager I totally understand when she said about her dad being overprotective but hopefully one day she will appreciate how much he has shaped her into a the person she is
Thanks for sharing yourself &
The experiences you had
Professionally & personally.
Prostitution is not modeling. Also getting checked once a month isn’t enough…I admire her spirit tho. Wish her the best
“I would pay you 5 grand just to shut up about it…make sure nobody ever found out ….”
Thanks for making me laugh before 8 a.m., Mark.😅
It's crazy how y'all complain about being sexualized just to sexualize yourself anyways, voluntarily, yet you demand respect. How could anybody respect a used up sex toy?
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I love your channel but the comment about the wife being equally to blame for cheating really disappointed me.
I can promise mark is a trick lol
This whole thing is just sad. I feel sad for her.
Girl - put clothes on and get out of the sex industry. You don’t need to buy your parents TVs. Build yourself a future.
She said: 'In my job if they- the customers- are happy, I am happy."
Don't we miss such a principal in the "clean' world of business?
She is such a nice person!
Thank you guys, thank you! ❤❤
She looks rough - like she’s in her late 30s. 😬 This life ages people quickly.
Her concept of finding responsible joy being her own boss with her own schedule not being micro managed is inspiring as hell. I work for a ceo that tripples in my income and left not being middle class even anymore. More jobs can provide more options, but we work in capitalist minds. Hers is liberating, i wanna find a way in our western world.
This is sad: You can’t be your own boss if it’s someone else’s money & when you’re relying on and feeding someone else’s addiction in exchange. Right and wrong still exist, yet some will debate only if they don’t have a moral compass &/or no conscience at all.
The delusion is jarring
Poor thing seems to be her own worst enemy, as most of us are.
So tragic
Are not our
What a wonderful. Person ❤❤❤
Why do you figure that?
@@nymelemorgan8074 thanks I was trying to figure out what that comment meant
a prostitute once told me that selling yourself as a sex object will make you lose your soul, it breaks them within. They can never be the same again. She called it "consent rape". Some clic are pretty strange. These girls do things that these men's wives or gf refuse to do. Some of that stuff is pretty gross. She'll realize this later. She's emotional but no matter how light she makes of it, she feels it inside that she's losing herself. I'm sad for her. She doesn't think she can do anything else.
It's the spiritual and soulful ones with some depth and insight that it eats up and breaks. Then there are some that are so vapid, unintelligent, one-dimensional that they don't even realize the self destruction.
@@asturiasceltic3183100%. The normalised modern code of conduct just outing more and more evidence that a lot of people have crazy bugs in their programming.
My exact thoughts
buying sex will do the same. the men who buy sex are not happy either
@@wilcoxtam810 What a coincidence: men who have to pay for divorce, child support, and alimony aren't happy either.
Every time a sex worker on SWU talks about how normal their life is and how happy they are, you can start a 10 minute timer, and before it goes off, they are almost guaranteed to bring up their family not knowing what they do and/or get emotional about it. The cognitive dissonance is so absolutely glaring, it's sad.
These are people who need to tell themselves this to avoid falling apart. Feeling a sense of self determination and power in this is important. It's definitely not the whole story.
And her mother didn’t even do anything to stop him
Very true
I cam. My close family knows. They just worry about my safety. They don't want some creep showing up at my house which is understandable. Bottom line for me is sex work IS work.
It's how brains protect themselves, denial. 😢
Most people in SW will lie to themselves bc they cannot face reality yet (or ever), it's not until later on that it takes such a toll that they can't stay in denial.
I get so sad when I hear women in denial like this, but I know there IS time and hope that they'll realise. Esp now that so many women do speak out about the reality of SW.
This poor girl doesn't realize a father placing his daughter in foster care because he doesn't like her boyfriend is horrific and absolutely abusive and cruel.
And she thinks she had a good childhood…
Maybe your perspective depends on your lived experiences......Rolli presents as level-headed and motivated. Her childhood is hers to reflect on, not ours to label as something else
She has Stockholm syndrome and trying to buy his love
We do not have both sides to the story. I would submit it's a hell of a lot harder than "I don't like their boyfriend" to get someone placed otherwise I'd have been in foster care several times.
huh?? @greyape59
She thinks she's safe because she gets tested. There's some real physical danger out there.
Tested is after the fact. She's can't see the condom when it's doggy. Giggle, giggle...
Not to mention the diseases that have no cure and are not usually tested for like herpes and genital warts. Condoms do not protect you from those either.
lol same thoughts !
getting tested is good and all but she is still more likely than not to contract an STD because of her chosen line of work
The majority of these sad, sex workers don't realize that testing after the infection is not going to prevent the infection. Cognitive dissonance at its finest...
Her definition of “modeling” and my definition of modeling are different.
If she's a model- I'm a super model. I mean, FOR REAL. Seems ANYONE who takes off clothes or fks on cam is now a model. Has nothing at all to do with beauty.
It also seems you have to be a bit overweight nowadays to be a "model". Ludicrous!!!!
She’s disassociated from it
There are many different kinds of modeling
@@samanthaelaine3711 uh….ok. 😎
She has no physical attributes that the modeling industry would want...not face or body. She's convinced herself that she good looking and desirable...lol. Plenty of guys will pay for the nasty no matter what it looks like.
I will never understand for the life of me how people can claim this lifestyle is empowering or feminist.
It isn’t. It’s feeding into dehumanization of women. Very backwards perspective. Sure we can do what men can do, but something like this? You don’t want this. There are differences between men and women, also between our sexualities. Men shouldn’t be able to have whatever lewd thing they want. This is damaging work. People become addicts because of pain. Why are most sex workers on drugs? This is a lifestyle of traumatization and pain.
and why should you?
thats just what they say tp themselves so they dont lose their minds
Only feminist liberals claim this. In reality feminism is against SW
Agreed. So empowering lolol@@jojo_1313
Mark wanted to fug this girl so badly it was uncomfortable to even watch this 😅😅 I’m sure he did too 🤣🤣
Are the sex workers required by Mark to wear their work attire when he interviews them? 😅
It makes me sick that they all do, but it makes for more views!
I don’t even want to imagine the smell in the room with them dressed like that.
Nope, the interviewees choose their attire
That is such a strange thing to say @@Kick_Rocks_
Nah no way they choose these attires. Right!? But ig if they an only fans girl they hoping for more subscribers after this
Her roommates put her out for a great reason! She literally got them robbed! She went out to a bar brought home some random men got high with them and woke up to the whole apartment being robbed and got mad that they wanted her gone after that. She takes 0 accountability for anything
What her instagram?
How do you know that happened?
Are you the roommate 😮
Wait u know ro? Was that the house in Compton?
The wife’s fault, Mark??
Hot take ya got there, buddy.
Females will never take accountability for their actions, behavior, lies, misdeeds, crimes and lack of moral fiber.
If I were his wife, that comment would make me nervous 😅
he meant, when the wife stresses T Fcked out the husband and make the husband feel like sht.. so yes, the Wife LOL... now is finding a hooker the right move? fck no, but thats what Mark meant, dont make your husband feel like sht, and vice versa
@@cstorres8243I believe he is divorced (and if that's his opinion, no surprises as to why). Honestly, he was very vocal in this interview and interupted the lady multiple times to hit on her, I don't think this interview was up to the usual standard at all.
I think the interviewer was really ..for lack of a better word.. just weird?? I think complimenting and some of the questions asked etc was sort of inappropriate for this type of show?
Agree!!
I've noticed this too, earlier days of SWU, Mark would just chill and let the people tell their stories and not interrupt too much. Not sure if Mark is in too deep with his work and now is getting too emotionally involved with every one of these people and he can't just help himself be a bit judgemental, a bit leading, and insert his own opinions on these things. Either way, it must be hard on everyone involved.
This was by far the most graphic and awkward with the conversation. I was surprised and I’m not going to finish this interview 10 min in.
I agree, it gave me a yuck vibe.
I could blame the wife for 'making' the man search out someone like you. Thats quite a statement.
Right. That bothered me.
I commented on Mark's response regarding this....despicable comment from him
Yea, to blame the wife for her husband cheating is very upsetting, a weak man cheats, a real man works on his marriage, if his wife isn't wanting to have sex, there's usually a good reason why, you don't just stop having sex with your husband for no reason.
And then he said all three people are *equally* to blame?? Uhh no? ONE person decided to cheat instead of talking to or breaking up with his wife. She's doing her job and minding her own business. It's not her job to make sure clients' wives are cool with it.
I swear, sex workers are held to a higher ethical standard than politicians.
Might just be self-reflection
- I had a lot of fights with my roommates
5 minutes later:
- I'm a real good people person, I tend to get along with people
As if that means she's not, lol
Yeah, I wondered about that too.
As a person with roommates, you can get along well with most people and live with terrible, dirty, disrespectful roommates 🤷🏾♀️
It’s what delusion looks like in action. Probably 2% of what she’s saying is the truth, the rest are lies in order to convince ppl and herself.
and the way she assumes everyone who doesn't like her are haters...lol
The self soothing behaviors were present thru the entire video. That would indicate she isn't as comfortable with this as she would claim.
she acts like she's got it all together doing this kind of work but after 5 years in the game and still no place of her own and no car to drive herself around, she can try a talk a good game but it looks more like she doesn't have it all together, not at all. Girls who get into the game literally treat it like it's an actual game where they can just jump in and jump out and act like they have it all figured out. If you been doing this for 5 years and are still out and about in the streets when nothing to really show for it, then she playing the whole game wrong. She just fucking around out in them streets and that's pretty much all she's doing. She's still needs a whole lot of growing up to do. at least that's what I see.
The worst thing is she said five years but I started at eighteen and now I am twenty five. I hope she counts her cash better than that.
watch Jesse Lee Peterson, shes possessed by the devil. Shes following her feelings which is a path to hell. She needs a strong masculine role model to guide her through life but she is resisting it because she thinks she knows best, she doesnt.
Agree
Oh well.
@@truefact844was coming to say that. like baby. that’s 7 years.
Mark you are saying a lot of weird things lately: "I could just as easily blame the WIFE for MAKING the man search for somebody like you." You are blaming the woman for the wrongdoing of the man. Do you realize how sexist that is? It's like blaming a woman for getting raped because she was wearing "provocative" clothes. I know you said you are not pointing fingers at any of them, but you did, with what you said right before it.
That's not weird. Its true
You clearly know nothing about life
I was thinking the same thing when I heard him say this .
He gives vibes of sleeping with them after the interview is done lol
@@Susiietav3 I honestly don't think he does, but even if he did, i wouldn't judge him for that. Making sexist remarks though, I will judge him for.
Yep. Be careful when you look too deeply into the abyss…
Ummmm her just telling her story.. Mark: 🗣️ “I would have paid you $5grand to just shut up about it and not tell anyone” also “blame the wife for making the husband search for someone like you” those statements are very telling.
yes mark is weird behind the scenes
Yeah something is off with that guy
i noticed he sounded really creepy and off in this " you're a sexy girl' among other things he said
I think he’s feeding her ego to keep her going. She thinks she’s super attractive and I think he saw that and fed into it to get a better interview from her and it worked.
@@TimDwg tactically baited her.
18+5 does not equal 25.. and what this girl is doing is very dangerous.. I pray she finds proper guidance and in a safe and productive life that truly fulfills her, cause this ain’t it pooh🙏🏽
I'm just trying to get my 🅱️ussy ate 😔
maths
whats 9 + 10
21 @@JD-yq1ht
@@JD-yq1ht...21?
Blaming the wife for an unfaithful husband it has got to be the biggest load of s*** that I have ever heard. Come out of mark's mouth period
I was shocked when I heard him say that… if he’s married… that should be a red flag 🚩 for his wife.
Perhaps, but not necessarily.
A wife that denies her husband sex year after year ?
So sad this has been normalized in our culture. How demeaning. How demoralizing. “I really look at it for the money.” That’s called dissociating. You can’t buy consent, you are traumatizing yourself and you will pay for it later.
Well that is because sex workers are the only job where we really expect people to like what they do when statistics show a good deal of people especially Americans don't like their jobs. If you asked a waitress or Janitor these same questions, "Do you ever hate your job?". "Do you ever think about stopping?" "Do you ever feel dirty after working?". "Does serving food as a living mean that you don't like to cook/serve food like for your family when not working?". I don't think the answers would be dissimilar. It is the Puritan based attitude towards sex from society not the work that I see as an issue.
Exactly
Cĥarlie@@Fallstorm777
With your soul
Girl, get a backup plan..: and your parents can take care of themselves. Take care of you,
I think Mark initially genuinely wanted to bring awareness to the plight of the different kind of folks living on the outskirts of society, but then it turned into something darker. It's like watching the movie. Sex Lies and Videotapes, when James Spader's character would interview woman, and then Jerk off to their interviews when watching it back. I get this kind of vibe from Mark. Just saying.
Yuuuuup
You are still watching tho!
Yes like he is checking out her videos while she talks😝
He's done 5000+ videos, and spent over 100k trying to help some people. As someone who also went down this route though not this dedicated, I can tell you that very quickly you see that many of them are not victims, they're adults participating in a very active market and economy . I personally feel the porn industry is out of control, but there are 80 MILLION men , mostly 30-44, who are OF's prime subscription base. Let that number sink in. The population of the US is 330ish million. No matter how you spin it, the porn and sex industry is used by a LOT of people, throughout human history. So while you might think Mark is 'weird' for talking normally like any other interview, it's because it's super normalized and once you investigate, it shares a ton with other markets.
omg yes im getting this vibe too
Why would the woman "make her husband look for someone like her"????? Why is it her fault Mark?? Maybe, the husband just wants variety and it has nothing to do with the wife!!
Just the sex worker & the husband right? The wife is this passive captive or hoodwinked square who is betrayed lonely and dependent just waiting at home for her husband to be sorry for tricking her into the institution.
@@ravenblack942no she’s probably just a normal chick who married someone who was hoodwinked by porn and now he thinks all sex should be like porn sex or he is being mistreated.
Meanwhile, wife is at work trying to make money for the family because he is weak willed and keeps spending money on prostitutes.
Or the husband is a sex addict, or has a nasty kink that he cannot tell his wife about. That is not the wife's fault.
Marks kinda creepy at times
He's not creepy. He asks questions others won't because of people like you making ignorant comments.
Agreed!! Not creepy, helping develop the stories!
How are you supposed to do an interview like this and ask no personal or enhancing questions? This is a hard interview to do
We all know Mark is a pervert. We just appreciate the work. Mark could easily ask these women to wear a long t shirt to cover up. But, he wants to see those tigo bitties just like the rest of us.
@@NyxxNoirehe called her a sexy girl lmfao what are you talking about
I hope she realizes her worth and how embarrassing this is soon.
I didn't even watch the full video but by the comments... there is never an excuse to cheat. Just leave. People forget that is an option. To say a spouse withholding sex from you once you're married is free range to cheat just shows how immature some of you are. You have the CHOICE to LEAVE.
oh yeah its so easy to jump out of a marriage isn't it?
LMAO. so cheating is the better option? You can't wait for the divorce to be final? are you really THAT horny?? @@meekteemuteem
Oh geez... are you really that horny to where you can't wait for the divorce to be final? People can still be married but be preparing for a divorce and both mutually agree to separate. It's called communication. And if someone is having that much trouble with not receiving sex and having to go cheat to get it, I think there are other things within themselves they have to work on... @@meekteemuteem
@meekteemuteem There are marriages where the couple seperate while the divorce is still processing but they communicate that they are separating and want to see other people so it’s not cheating. And I’m sorry but if someone is that extremely horny to where they can’t keep it in their pants until they are divorced or separated, then there are issues that person should heal before getting married again or even be in a relationship. Very pathetic to me.
@@ms.tinygiantI tend to agree. Before leaving, though, you'd hope there'd be straightforward communication. And that separation would come after negotiations failed.
But I consider cheating to be taking an easy way out. Like, 'covering all bases' in case. Of having a back up, in case your first choice doesn't pan out. It speaks of desperation rather than choice or true love. Really really unsexy.
I love this channel and I truly believe the work Mark does is art that helps us come together as a society. But there's a pattern that whenever there's an attractive young woman in front of his lens he doesn't just let them speak like all the other people he interviews, but instead gets into more of a conversation with them where he keeps trying to insert himself into the story. He rarely even says anything with other interviewees which I find makes it all the more special, because people get the chance to be candid without anyone steering the story in a certain direction. With young beautiful women however (especially when it's sex workers), Mark comments on the way they look, asking them if they're "fast", almost making sexual remarks every now and then. The neutrality he usually has goes out the window and it becomes so obvious that once again another man is just looking at these women through the typical male gaze which is truly heart breaking for these girls. They come on there to be vulnerable and share the most intimate of details, only to sit in front of another guy who tries to flirt with them in some way.
agreed. it's unfortunate. thank you for your comment
ALL MONEY IS NOT, GOOD MONEY. YOUR INTEGRITY AND DIGNITY IS PRICELESS.
I’ve been a sex worker for 26 years, self employed, I advertise on a website, I’ve managed to keep my privacy, integrity and my dignity without my face ever being shown, when done with the right intention sexual energy is healing, I do it for freedom 💫
@@traceyh6897
THE FATHER MAKES THE RULES. FOLLOW HIS INSTRUCTIONS. B-asic I-nstructions B-efore L-eaving E-arth.
@@traceyh6897 DAUGHTER, WE ARE BORN WIITH ALL THE DIGINTY AND INTEGRITY WE'LL EVER HAVE. IT'S OUR JOB AND DUTY TO GUARD AND PROTECT OURSELVES. NOTHING IN THIS WORLD WHETHER IT'S MONEY, POPULARITY, FAME OR MATERIAL POSSESSION CAN EVER REPLACE, COMPENSATE, ADD-ON OR GIVE BACK TO ONE THAT KIND OF VALUE. GUARDING AND PROTECTING OUR INTERGRITY IS OF UTMOST IMPORTANCE. IT IS THE PRINCIPAL THING. YOU CAN NEVER GET BACK YOUR INTERGRITY ONCE YOU FOREFEITED IT, NOT IN THIS LIFE. YOU'LL ALWAYS KNOW WHAT YOU DID. SISTER, TURN AWAY FROM THE EVIL WAY, REPENT, AND FORGIVE YOURSELF AND DON'T BE WEIGHED DOWN BY YOUR SINS AGAINST YOURSELF. STOP IT NOW!
@@traceyh6897 I wish more people understood the healing aspect of this occupation for some people.
@@traceyh6897 If it's so liberating why aren't you showing your face? If you're hiding your face it seems as though an underlying shame still exists within you. One where your dignity and integrity would be compromised the same as this woman when your peers find out what you do for a living.
You’ve got to be joking Mark no wonder you’re divorced : cheaters cheat ..--it has nothing to do with your spouse. And putting their spouse at health risk is wrong.
Nonsense. You're clueless
@@dkizxpt-su3zeNo matter how bad a relationship is you still need to take responsiblity for your own conduct because personal accountability is a huge part of being an adult.
I have also observed a more fundamental character failing about many cheaters (had friends in the past who cheated on their spouses) and a common theme amongst them was that they cheated on multiple partners (not all relationships, but many). If it was purely other people's fault, then why did their problems follow them everywhere they went? Because their behaviours were a reflection of themselves (not others) and their own morality and decision making.
@@maywalker997 "No matter how bad a relationship is you still need to take responsiblity for your own conduct because personal accountability is a huge part of being an adult."
Does this apply to abusive partners who push their partners to seek comfort elsewhere?
Do they need to take responsibility too?
@@dkizxpt-su3ze Exit your relationship with the abusive partner and then do as you please two wrongs don’t make a right.
@@menotyou6254 So if someone is with an abusive partner, your advice is that they just walk out?
There was something highly disturbing about this video, the way she opened her knees and acted out touching herself, as if we wouldn't know what she meant otherwise. It was like she was flirting with Mark. I don't know why this a just didn't sit right with me. It felt creepy and just plain wrong somehow.
Mark seems to be really enjoying this interview
lmao Mark is INTO her
She hot
He is a creeper, if anybody hasn't noticed yet...
He’s a guy
@ksteed1167 You're right. He's absolutely a creeper. Watch all his videos. It's those little comments here and there that shows what a creeper he is.
Rollii: "Most photographers can't get women" Interview is also a gifted photographer ;-)
I missed that that's funny 😂
They aren’t all as good looking as mark lol. I used to have a guy book me for “scenes” just so he could legally pay for sex. He recorded it and everything LOL
😂 Mark had a wife
@@realamericannegro977And she divorced him over his affair with some type of sex worker.
@@katamadordelvalle7972 for real?
This made me so sad. She portrays so much self worth and positivity but you can see there's a broken child in there. Bless her. I hope she can rise out and into the world and matter for more than what her current trade values her for. x
Mark is getting supper creepy. He’s own daughters r her age n here he is ready to get on w her. 🤮
It really doesn’t matter though
It’s not his daughter she’s over 18
If he were to do something with her it’s not illegal
He is not ready to get on with her.. 🙄🙄🙄childish!
What a sad interview; I couldn’t watch the whole thing. She’s either intentionally deluding herself or is just that delusional.
Totally agree she’s delusional and needs therapy .
Like everyone else is too. 😂People just feel like their delusions are nonexistent in comparison when they look at people like this woman. Everyone could benefit from therapy, everyone has had trauma of some sort and emotional wounds. And everyone is in denial about something until the grow and do so serious, intense, introspection and hard inner work which most never do.
Anyone else feel that this channel is getting creepy and exploitative?
yes
Marc is really kissing her butt heavy on this one... lol
Condoms don’t stop herpes tho 🤔 10:00
No they dont because if ballsdeep the base of the cockarooroo rubs on the outer labia and its a skin contact deal. The condom only covers the shaft if that! I have spoken.
Yeah sometimes mark makes comments that he would NOT make to the men he interviews …
Did he say *blame* the wife for *making* the husband search for someone like you? Pretty ignorant, when most of his questions seem intelligent.
You bet I did.
@@SoftWhiteUnderbellyMost men just cheat. They want the variety. The excitement. And cherish their home life, which is why they hide the cheating. They admit it.
Yeah, it was pathetic and gross.
@SoftWhiteUnderbelly
Bahahahahaha, nailed it!😂😂😂
@@SoftWhiteUnderbellyusually when people are called out for saying something gross they can admit it was pretty gross. For such an "understanding" and great guy, you seem to lack the ability to accept criticism. Maybe look inside yourself before clapping back at all the comments correcting you. Shitty way to handle this man.
this literally makes me sad for humanity
Mark as much as I find the interviews interesting, entertaining and at times disturbing your stills are the icing on the cake.
I agree! Unless you’re really an “art person “ or whatever you don’t appreciate a simple black and white picture but the ones that he takes of his interviews are absolutely amazing!!!
They are beautiful. You are right . I suppose that is the work of a talented photographer/cinematographer?
Definitely
Oh he’ll definitely put some icing on that cake 🍰
100% He makes EVERYONE human & beautiful & vulnerable!!!
Did Mark unironically say the prostitute, cheating husband and unknowing wife are all equally to blame for the husband's affair? 🤮🤮🤮
Yeah Mark, major misstep!
@@kathleenhunt7613Of course, the unknowing wife's actions (or inaction) often contribute to her husband's decision to pursue prostitutes.
Terrible comment although unsurprising for Mark. His views are extremely misogynist.
Gross comment mark.
....we all seem to enjoy being in the judge's seat, but what is truth and justice without being tempered with mercy?
shes annoying
I don't believe there are three people involved in men turning to sex workers (Mark's comment). This is completely on the man that chooses this as his way of feeling better/escaping. Relationships are work because of the responsibility and accountability for their partner/family. For men to turn to sex workers does not speak to the wife action/inaction, there is divorce, hobbies, maturity, counseling, self development. It is the man's decision to check out from their relationship. Sex workers need to also stop blaming the partner of their client. Many of these men are quitters, controlled by sex, devalue their partners/family and willing to give it all away for sex outside of the relationship. Sex workers in most cases you are actually getting the worse of a man...........Rollii, stay true to yourself and know your worth as you figure all of this out.
@@JamMasterDee-cw2jz That is when you get honest with yourself and your wife and get a divorce.
@@rosieposie9564I concur! Especially if a woman also is stuck in a celibate marriage, herself also not being fulfilled, then time to divorce. Otherwise everyone is going to start cheating and that’s toxicity……..Not “feeling it” speaks volumes to a woman’s emotional connection to sex and thus not being turned on by the partner that falls short in meeting her needs.
Don’t limit this to men. I was faithful in my marriage. My compulsive cheating ex-wife was not. She’s tried to spin her behavior and say it was all my fault but the truth comes out as the parents of our sons friends have now told me that they know she’s lying because of how my son regularly talks about me positively yet has nothing to say about his mother. There are just as many women out there like my ex-wife who only look out for themselves.
!!!!! Terrible that as a society we still have sex work, “it’s been here forever” so has m^rder and r^ape we try to cut the bad out. The bad just keeps spreading. You can tell she is searching for validation. Sex worker are the GREATEST oxymoron, just learn from this kiddos. All she is expressing is hurt and pain, heal that so you can be better than this❤❤
Been havin alotta chicks on here promoting their only fans
at first I liked the message he would spread but now this glorifying of sex workers becoming too prevalant especially distasteful of him to say it should be legalized and calling her sexy was straight up creepy stick to diversifying the stories and stop condoning the narrative of these females trying to push their business out there for validation....
She is sexy and it should be legalized. Consensual crimes are an absurdity steeped in Puritan didactics.
I doubt a flat screen TV will be an acceptable trade off for her father once he discovers the truth. Sad situation this beautiful yet very naive young woman has put herself in.
I was thinking the same thing...Walmart sells flat screen tv's cheap all day long.
You don’t think he doesn’t know? Much like putting her in foster care he doesn’t care as long as he gets what he wants. Letting men die whatever they want as long as she gets paid is where she learned this
@@e2renee Exactly.
just what i was thinking
I bought my mom stuff with sex work money, she does not care at all. Some parents do not give a fuck about your wellbeing whatsoever. She never did, even when I was a child.
MARK this the most questions ive seen you ask someone on an interview
they're not even insightful questions, just personal ones
She’s young & doesn’t understand men yet. There’s many men that pay sw’s for the convenience of no strings attached etc. it’s not always because he can’t get a woman.
Absolutely
There's a multitude of reasons
Back in the day it was easy for me to get convenient no strings. Now most women want to get paid even if that's all they want too. Men need to stop enabling this bullshit.
You don't pay them to screw, you pay for them to leave
They dont understand the double standard, in that men have to put in all the work to get sexx, while they just choose who they want. If a man gets sexx with a woman, then she expects him to have a relationship. But sometimes we just want fun without the relationship. If a man is honest about that, he will rarely get sexx. But women can use men when they want their fun anytime they want.
She acts like men are losers if they cant get sexx, but the equivalent is a woman who cant get commitment from a man. That will be this girl. All the guys she ipened her legs for, and not one of them wanted to keep her. Who's the real loser?
One can only hope that this woman wakes up to the reality of the horrible ugly destructive path she's on before it's too late. Many do, but the emotional damage inflicted in the interim can be too much to enable them to fully heal.
Why did she separate her butt cheeks like that? 😆 Ps: Money is the root of all evil.
If my daughter did this to 'give back to me' Id be devastated. I think her parents would too. - Frances
There's a good possibility that her parents know what she is doing, but they choose to not address it because of the financial gain. Perhaps, that's where the disfunction comes into play.
Me too, I wouldn't want this for my daughter or son
Yes, a loving caring parent never raises their child to become this because everyone knows how dangerous and psychologically damaging the industry is. I think this lady has a lot of issues relating to childhood neglect, abandonment, rejection & poverty which have all deeply affected how she rationalizes sex work.
The only thing she's giving back to them is despair.
I feel as she’s putting on a happy face on a sad situation.
Definitely
Oh my. Society is really going into the gutter….
How so? Sex work is the oldest job to exist. Almost like men have always been deviants so these jobs will always exist.
Society has BEEN trash
This is nothing new, oldest profession in the world.
PROSTITUTION IS THE OLDEST PROFESSION
Her explanation that she ended up in foster care because of a strict father is lacking. My father was very strict with my sister who became a grammar school teacher and was nominated for Teacher Of The Year. My sister is married now with two kids. It seems to me that there must have been some level of abuse at some point in her life. I wish Rolli all the best.
He molested her 💯
No worries. Thanks for clarifying.@@JamMasterDee-cw2jz
It depends on the level of strictness and the personality of the child. She comes across to me as one of the types of children that strict parenting breeds. Another type it creates is the seeming functional one with a good career that goes home at nights and drown themselves in alcohol or have some other secret life because strict parenting tends to breed dishonesty.
And your data for your perspective?@@rosieposie9564
@@jaimeparedes9188 There is a rich body of psychological research on the types of adults strict childhood parenting breeds and many of these studies will be available by just using google.
I also speak from personal experience with various types of people.
HER FATHER FAILED HER
And her mother, too.
She failed herself. Her father tried to protect her. She was a wild child
Mark ,thank you so much for shining a light on people from all walks of life . Rolli , love your spirit .Please stop doing this , there ..i’ve said it .
Watching SWU sometimes makes me feel like no matter what I do as a parent, I am going to mess up my kids. Ugh.
@katiedego i felt thissss omg! 😭😔
All kids are sent into society, you do your best to give them the tools needed to deal with the cess pit. aslong as you always do your best, thats all you can do.
@@dementedproductions87 this is basically my views on parenting. it really does suck cuz you want them to do better than you, but this world is tuff. even worse now cuz of social influence and the internet
Nah there is a trend with these vids.
I feel like there could be more trauma with her parents that she probably didn’t want to talk about. Because the only good thing she said about her parents is that they’re “still together to this day”. I haven’t finished watching the whole video so I could be wrong but I think there’s more to the story.
“The husband, wife, and the mistress are probably all equally at fault for the man cheating”… Yo mark really does drop these random shady comments in these interviews with pretty women.
Bro. As a man I gotta say that the woman getting cheated on is not “just at fault” as the wife getting cheated on by her man with an escort. You sound crazy right now…😂😂😂
No self awareness, no depth.