Who should apologize first between husband and wife?

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  • @dagotustv569
    @dagotustv569 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I remember when I and my wife had a misunderstanding. The next morning I said let us pray, I couldn't pray because of that...suddenly I boost into laugh and I hugged her immediately telling her am sorry now. She boost into laugh at the same time I laughed mine. She said I know you "your heart is mine, you can't hold anything against me" ...I don't know when I silent her with a kiss. Marriage is very practical, simple word 'am sorry can heal and as well when it's not said it can be the genesis of the marriage's downfall.

    • @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748
      @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      PRAISE THE LORD!🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

    • @adeolatoriola8304
      @adeolatoriola8304 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Powerful piece! The man should apologize first, when a woman is working outside of home, caring and cooking in the house is a second full time job. Noodles is not what most African men want truly but it’s not enough reason to shout at any woman but let her know you are not pleased with it and she will be the one apologizing with reasons especially if she has not done it before.

  • @racheldteye
    @racheldteye 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The fact that these two are actually married in real life makes this a lot funnier😂

  • @CPfaith
    @CPfaith ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I've been married 17 years to a man who works in the construction industry. I don't understand the noodles issue. Food is food. If noodles was what God provided that day, bless and eat.
    This is kind of what my marriage looked like in about it's third year....who was wrong, who should say sorry. Now I can look back and smile at all the things the Holy Spirit has taught me.
    One of the things I have learnt is that we are the ones who find things to be offended by. The other person may be blank about it. That is why you say something as soon as it happens. If you don't like something just say it. Do not shut down each other's feelings. If you have to speak angrily then understand each other's anger. Contrary to popular belief, there is no one right and the other wrong in marriage. You are both wrong. And the one who is right (God) is standing by looking at you.
    Now my husband and I can have a disagreement that most people would think is a quarrel, and go right back to being our normal selves. Interacting as we should.
    I thank God.

  • @beautifulblesseddestinywin5995
    @beautifulblesseddestinywin5995 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This one tough ooo!!! Why is it men expect women to hold jobs and hold their weight in finances but never want to help with chores? And on top of it you're yelling Ike I'm your maid that got paid and didn't do my job. Kaiiiii

  • @folasadeadeleke7414
    @folasadeadeleke7414 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    😂😂😂 I sincerely love the way this movie end, *just apologize*. Everyone in marriage must sincerely learn how to swallow their pride and stay in the school of the Spirit for growth and strength.

  • @blessingeyo7077
    @blessingeyo7077 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    GOD abegooooo
    When it's time to apologize that is when you remember women first 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @samueleleko8228
    @samueleleko8228 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Both of them should read Proverbs 15:1
    “ A soft answer turns away wrath,but a harsh word stirs up anger.
    (ESV)”

  • @onlyforjesusinfinity7179
    @onlyforjesusinfinity7179 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Abiketerians😂
    Sis Abike in husband and wife

  • @Agu-042
    @Agu-042 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The snoring part got me, with her uncontrolled laughter😅

  • @st.jn3v169
    @st.jn3v169 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    They should do on your mark, set, go and both shout I AM SORRY together 😁😁😁😂😂

  • @akinremielijah4141
    @akinremielijah4141 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    It's wisdom and maturity to apologize.
    I remembered a time my wife offended me and I was expecting her to apologize, she was also expecting me to apologize for the way I reacted to her. Then the holy spirit spoke to me and said, would you drop your ego and chose peace in your home?
    And I went to her and apologize with style 😂.
    Apologizing first does not mean you are wrong, it only shows how strong you are.
    I'm sorry it's a great show of strength.

    • @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748
      @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰MY LORD!!!!! HOLY SPIRIT OF GOD ESE......

  • @user-jf4vt6nb4m
    @user-jf4vt6nb4m ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She goes to work, you go to work.
    Those "African" women you refer to, do only the women duties. If she's sharing in the burden of providing for your family, you should share in the burden of taking care of the home.
    Anyway just apologize, heaven will not fall. Me self I dey this table 😂
    God bless PRODRAM!

    • @CS2RN2005
      @CS2RN2005 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sir, ma please help me to understand. If the woman is not working by choice, does the husband have the right to demand food? I honestly don't think that women are physically built to work outside the home for 8 hours then come home and still do all the house chores and cook. Please, no one should say that the man should help because that one sink of dishes that he does is not equal to the 5 daysx8hours of work she has to do to "help" him provide. I don't think this is fair.

  • @onebody700
    @onebody700 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Saying sorry is an act humility and a mature mine, so anyone can say it. It's not in the place of the man or woman, who so ever is matured should do that

  • @sussanchinelo6555
    @sussanchinelo6555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can't deny that Ayobami Adegboyega Gospel Films Tv has been doing justice to family issues and crisis.
    God please help me and make sensitive to leave our all I have been learning 🙏🙏

  • @doowuesedamaris1536
    @doowuesedamaris1536 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    A woman whisper in my ear on my wedding day and said 'dont ever feels too big to say sorry to your husband, even if it's your right'. I'm in marriage for 10yrs now, and that 'sorry' formula works very well. There's no big deal in be the first person to say sorry.
    Thanks for the ministration

  • @MtumishiLoveness
    @MtumishiLoveness ปีที่แล้ว +8

    We need a Series of these two actors 😅😅😅😅

    • @priscillabuah7517
      @priscillabuah7517 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yh they are couples in real life

    • @MtumishiLoveness
      @MtumishiLoveness 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @priscillabuah7517 really?

  • @Deemama-j2i
    @Deemama-j2i ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Abike baby good to see you again. When did you want to start your carpentry course o😂? I think the husband should first apologize first as the head of the house. But if I were Abike I won't mind to go on and apologize cos I love my oeace so much. I love this guy too in the abatior movie. You guys are doing a good job. May God reward you all in Jesus name 🙏🏾 🙌

  • @OpeLam-d8j
    @OpeLam-d8j 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just Apologize. Opeyemi Lameed just apologize. I am learning and blessed through this message. Seeing Abike in this short clip. Sister Abike learning this Queen's English we want to listen to Kings and Queens English at Husband and wife series. God bless you sir and ma at Prodam

  • @MwaleWaGitau
    @MwaleWaGitau ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The mature one between the two 😂

  • @ilerioluwaakinbade9988
    @ilerioluwaakinbade9988 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you daddy and mummy for always bringing edifying contents our ways. May your home be preserved by mercy in Jesus name.

  • @vivianhorsfall6591
    @vivianhorsfall6591 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    "Am sorry" will save the stress of shouting and feeling headache at the end

  • @tryphenaaderonke5350
    @tryphenaaderonke5350 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This matter is a seriously serious one o. 😂 Someone should just bell the apology cat. The man should go first though.

  • @comfortoyelowo
    @comfortoyelowo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow.. May God beat down our pride in Jesus name. God bless you sir

  • @lolaezra48
    @lolaezra48 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Both husband and wife owe each other an apology. You don’t score less or more points for apologising first or second. The key thing is doing whatever it's going to take to ensure peace in the home.

  • @theresaodey3355
    @theresaodey3355 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    May d Lord bless & increase ur anointing in Jesus name. Thank you for being an instrument of instruction from the Lord to our generation sir.

  • @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748
    @ruthabigaild.nehemie6748 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😭😭😭😭🙏My LORD. Thank you so much. Ese......, merci, gracias, obrigada.....

  • @amenvalerieolufala7414
    @amenvalerieolufala7414 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    😂This is so good ....funny, but it happens. God bless this ministry real good.
    It's so good to see our Abike on another level 😍😘
    Welldone, sir, Welldone all👏👏👏

  • @babygirlrina
    @babygirlrina ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The husband should be more mature. . lol children marriage . Your argument is about noodles born pikin first we go see the real argument 😅😅😅😅…. So cute oo lol like brothers and sisters arguing 😅😅
    Love from NYC

  • @annenwakuche2422
    @annenwakuche2422 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sometimes it's can be difficult shai especially when you have worked and still prepared kids and cook you just expect the man to understand Abba😂

  • @laizerlusiana9215
    @laizerlusiana9215 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The one who was first at fault should humble him or herself.....

  • @grencell6375
    @grencell6375 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is some how funny anywhere, Father Lord may you help us to be like you

  • @nwachinemerejoy6715
    @nwachinemerejoy6715 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very very interesting real life issues. God bless you Sir.

  • @ebongvictory
    @ebongvictory หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you sir, God bless you
    all

  • @yemisiokelade3756
    @yemisiokelade3756 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes o just apologise heaven will not fall if we both say I am sorry. Thanks team.

  • @laizerlusiana9215
    @laizerlusiana9215 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Happy to see you Abike 😅

  • @princetanorbarima3519
    @princetanorbarima3519 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Good piece

  • @akechsunday7549
    @akechsunday7549 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The one who realised first should apologize first

  • @gracechukwubuko7717
    @gracechukwubuko7717 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow nice one
    If you want the both of them to be husband and wife in a new series gather here

    • @MtumishiLoveness
      @MtumishiLoveness 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I want them to have the Series ooo

  • @michaelawoniyi
    @michaelawoniyi ปีที่แล้ว +4

    If you know you are at fault, husband or wife, be humble enough to say I AM SORRY. It won't make you to be less a husband or a weaker wife. In this clip, either of them should have swallowed their prides and say sorry 'for serving you noodles' or sorry I shout at you ' the explanation can follow thereafter.

    • @dammyPrayz
      @dammyPrayz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sometimes you say sorry even when you are not at fault just for peace to reign. Then later the explanation and cause of offence can now be spelt out so it won't repeat itself again.

  • @MrGracee12
    @MrGracee12 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Husbands, love your wife as Christ loves the church. So the husband should first ap... if the wife is slow to.

  • @evelynmawunyo8590
    @evelynmawunyo8590 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Both of them but the woman should take lead because wise woman build her home.
    Daddy please can make husband and wife series off both of them
    We will like to watch their series together . God bless you sir🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭🇬🇭

  • @elizabethoyeniyi5017
    @elizabethoyeniyi5017 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A simple sorry that could have given them a good sleep stole their sleep. Whosoever says sorry first is the owner of the family, because that maturity

  • @YeshuaMuzic
    @YeshuaMuzic ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What's the name of this movie??

  • @victoriaadebayo6515
    @victoriaadebayo6515 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Either of them can apologize for their peace of mind and the joy of the home.
    In addition, the husband should lead by example in all things, it will make it easy for the woman to follow.

  • @MtumishiLoveness
    @MtumishiLoveness 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Saying sorry is hard to most people i don't know why...

  • @adelowosamuelsunday
    @adelowosamuelsunday ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The man should say sorry oooo

  • @PeterAsigri
    @PeterAsigri 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    3 WORD WAR " I AM SORRY"
    Why is it so difficult to say 😂😂

  • @toluige8231
    @toluige8231 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Any of the couple can apologize first. If a man love the woman should first apologize and if the woman is humble enough can apologize even when u are wrong. Doesn't matter u are the head or neck😂. Once one u so the other will also do

  • @enanguko2237
    @enanguko2237 ปีที่แล้ว

    So nicely portrayed

  • @MtumishiLoveness
    @MtumishiLoveness ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't stop laughing 😊😊😊😊😊😅😅

  • @joyajisafe7467
    @joyajisafe7467 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Whats the title of this wonderful movie

  • @successezeukwu6873
    @successezeukwu6873 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    A great lesson...prov. 13:10

  • @joannabwire2482
    @joannabwire2482 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    As longer as you are wrong apologize

  • @todzibrightfrancis9507
    @todzibrightfrancis9507 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    FOR ME ANYONE CAN BECAUSE APOLOGY DOESNOT LOWER BOTH IN MARRIAGE RATHER MAKE YOU STRONGER ESPECIALLY CHRISTIAN MARRIAGE MUST BE THE EXAMPLE BECAUSE WE ARE TO IMITATE CHRIST SINCE WE BEEN BORN OF HIS SEED FORGIVENESS AND TENDERNESS IS OUR PRODUCE.UNTIL WE UNDERSTAND THAT IN MARRIAGE THERES NO LOSER OR WIN. LETS US LOVE EACH OTHER AS CHRIST LOVE THE CHURCH. ABIKE AGAIN

  • @blessingidialu7839
    @blessingidialu7839 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Im here laughing my head out ... This is exactly what goes on in many marriges today. The wife should have first apologize for making noodles and then explained why....,..the husband should have understood better, must you eat shallow or rice every day? (Husband)

  • @enitanize
    @enitanize ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The wife should have served the noodles with apologies since it has never happened before. That way, the husband will not take offence

    • @beautifulblesseddestinywin5995
      @beautifulblesseddestinywin5995 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The husband should know that something is wrong and offer to help or go get something to eat.

  • @lannikbeautyinstitute
    @lannikbeautyinstitute ปีที่แล้ว

    I believe both parties should apologise. But men see recieving applology as their right even when they are obviously wrong. Men seeks for validation, they must be correct and the Women wrong 😅.. so I have added apologies to their daily dose. Once you are a man. I will say sorry sir before you even ask for it. Its like a patient and nurse situation. The men are the patient wihile we women are their nurses. Saying sorry doesn't mean much to me any more. THANK YOU TO HUSBAND AND WIFE SERIES

  • @MtumishiLoveness
    @MtumishiLoveness ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its very funny 😅😅😅😅

  • @chiamakachukwuemeka3770
    @chiamakachukwuemeka3770 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sometimes you will apologise and it won’t change anything

  • @ilesanmifunmi9224
    @ilesanmifunmi9224 ปีที่แล้ว

    Marri iiiaaage!!!! Different strokes different people this video speaks volumes.. more anointing sir

  • @SiaHawaJohnbull-hs2su
    @SiaHawaJohnbull-hs2su ปีที่แล้ว

    Wow
    What's the title of this movie please

  • @KehindeAyantola-yy4zu
    @KehindeAyantola-yy4zu ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Just say I am sorry. Period

  • @sunnyhunn9315
    @sunnyhunn9315 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They both needed to cooperate, but I’d say that the husband has more of a fault because if the wife usually takes really good care of him, then her falling short this one time should be an opportunity for him to order food for both of them.
    This is how I imagine it should happen between two loving and mature people:
    Wife: Baby, how was your day?
    Husband: ahh, my darling. Today was chaotic, I’m just happy to be home now with you.
    Wife: ahh, sorry my love, I understand, I can relate, today was stressful for me too.
    Husband: oh, really what happened?
    Wife: *explain situation*
    Husband: I’m sorry to hear that dear, some days can be more challenging than most, I know that feeling.
    Wife: Thank you for being such an understanding husband, I feel so bad, because I even came home late and didn’t get to prepare your favorite; I just quickly made us noodles.
    Husband: It’s alright dear, you always take care of me, and you know I enjoy your cooking. We’ll eat noodles, but I’ll order something more for us, what are you in the mood for?
    Wife: *mentions food she wants*, thank you baby, I’m going to run your bath for you baby and give you a head massage before our food gets here.
    Husband: Thank you baby, you’re the best, and if you feel that your work is becoming overwhelming, let’s seek God for His Wisdom and direction; so He’ll help us.
    Wife: Yes, baby, you’re right. I really was looking forward to staying there, because I like the company. But I need wisdom and grace, before things get out of control.
    Husband: Don’t worry baby, we have each other, and The Holy Spirit will help us. I’m here for you honey.
    Wife: Thank you baby, I don’t know what I’d do without you!!! ***as she laughs, wife comes closer to husband, kisses him, hugs him***
    The end.
    This scenario is to show how they’re both being mindful of each other’s day, there’s no competition, and no accusations. They both had a tough day, and it’s important for them to communication and be compassionate, instead of taking offense. Keep it playful, keep it simple.
    Marriage isn’t hard if we keep putting each other first.

  • @Martino1980
    @Martino1980 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pls brethren what is the title of this movie?

  • @olowatobilobakolawole298
    @olowatobilobakolawole298 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    For me I will say the man to apologize so has to avoid peace to rein so has the lady to begged him too

  • @56manya
    @56manya 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Which movies was this Abikeeeeee?

  • @dagotustv569
    @dagotustv569 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Husband go first now...say sorry. You are the head

  • @wrparent_child
    @wrparent_child ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a very interesting one. It just show how little thing can be a big deal between couples.
    What I have seen and noticed, is that men seems to say sorry in different ways. I think wives just need to know how their hubby say their sorry.
    Thanks Evangelist Ayobami and your team. More inspirational movies in Jesus mighty name

  • @MtumishiLoveness
    @MtumishiLoveness ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Egoooo😊

  • @MtumishiLoveness
    @MtumishiLoveness 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me too i hate shouting i think its all women , men need to learn to speak in calm voice....

  • @onlyforjesusinfinity7179
    @onlyforjesusinfinity7179 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hmmmmm
    God will help us

  • @eunicea.y5404
    @eunicea.y5404 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The husband shou play maturity in d home because he is d head .by so doing the wife will realise next thier if theirt is miundestanding. She will quickly say am sorry to allow peace in d home.

  • @afterHisheart4eva
    @afterHisheart4eva ปีที่แล้ว

    Pls what is wrong with noodles ejo???

  • @MtumishiLoveness
    @MtumishiLoveness ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂😂😂😂

  • @kolawoledavid4682
    @kolawoledavid4682 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂😂

  • @onlyforjesusinfinity7179
    @onlyforjesusinfinity7179 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kneel down until a husband finish eating, this is slavery and Jesus will not be happy about this
    Marriage is not a slave market but a mutual relationship

  • @lawrenciaaseye6164
    @lawrenciaaseye6164 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This lady is not a marriage material at all even if they are married for twenty years she should not give his husband a food he never likes, more so her way of talking should seasoned as a Christian lady wife but here no she has to say am sorry l did not come home early due to such and such reason but you came home giving y ok Ur husband nodules am very sorry

  • @Agu-042
    @Agu-042 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The snoring part got me, with her uncontrolled laughter😅

  • @lannikbeautyinstitute
    @lannikbeautyinstitute ปีที่แล้ว

    I believe both parties should apologise. But men see recieving applology as their right even when they are obviously wrong. Men seeks for validation, they must be correct and the Women wrong 😅.. so I have added apologies to their daily dose. Once you are a man. I will say sorry sir before you even ask for it. Its like a patient and nurse situation. The men are the patient wihile we women are their nurses. Saying sorry doesn't mean much to me any more. THANK YOU TO HUSBAND AND WIFE SERIES

  • @olaideowokoniran813
    @olaideowokoniran813 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂