Case can you help me please,the last video you said being slow and patient is the key to win a woman and now going to her straight without being passive doesn't this oppose the last session? plz help
I was super passive, anxious, weak. Suffered for most of my life. Then almost died at 39. Pain and suffering woke me up. Got fit,strong..mentally, physically. Stopped second guessing myself and started killing it at work. Doubled my income in two years(beer salesman). Now im confident,dependable, healthy. Wife respects me more and transformed herself after 4 kids to keep me. Listen to Casey. This is true in dating,work. Now woman half my age hit on me regularly. Confidence, strength, is contagious. Woman will notice.
Everyone likes a winner, no one rewards the runner who comes in last place. Good job in improving yourself, always be a student, never a master. Learn new skills so that you keep succeeding in life. Cheers!
@@D33LuxI disagree we have people who make simple stuff like some legendary Pokemon my wants are simple atleast in this context I want women that's it
the return interest means giving back or expressing same energy that women give, you shouldn't get to show femenine reciprocity. in the other video, he means you go for it but with a masculine mentality, as a man that knows what he wants
All facts! This is why were working on the internal. Courage to approach and ask girls out live on camera, willingness to get rejected, etc. Always put the purpose first, too many guys are getting emotionally attached way before they've ever identified their purpose. That is a one way road to getting destroyed by a woman and by life. If youre watching this content, you better be doing the work internally and externally. LETS GO BOYS
Chasing women is a waste of time and resources, its better to focus on one's successes. What's the point of chasing women if you guys are broke, in debt, don't know how to financially invest in your future women will find you unattractive. Do you think Athletes, A list actors, Businessmen have to chase women? When you become the man women desire and men admire women will come to you.
This is all true. I'm bipolar 2 which makes me sometimes act impulsive, hypersexual, talk to other women and getting caught, acting bold/inappropriate. Sometimes I embarass myself being an excitement addict. All of these behaviors + banging a girl really well = they are under your spell.
Finding your channel Casey is like me winning the lottery I like people like you who have different mindset…I found you and this guy with Russian accent Better call gorge you guys are so true for real your content is hard to process but when you understand you get something
Amazing how you put it all down on a board, so its easy to break down and for people to understand. With age comes wisdom, I knew about 80% what you talked about, but its good to hear others perspectives. You're doing a great service to the world, even women will benefit because you're teaching men to become the type of man women desire biologically. Cheers!
Casey Zander: i think you’ve been mentored by one of the charismatic to be able to subtlety know the deeper stuff, and weave it together to make it your own
I am passive as fuck. It's hard to snap out of it. I was at my local tavern and There is a cute waitress I like. But my shy and passive routine is getting me nowhere. There was a dude chatting her up at the bar, he was making her laugh etc. I am not able to do that. It is frustrating. The only time I am not passive is when have drinks.
Rejection is terrible. If u approach 100 women and maybe 1 gives u her number that's pretty sad. I remember rejections as a kid that still sting. Being called ugly is brutal
Thanks for your hard work and dedication Casey. I'm a follower from Argentina. I have to say that I've been following you're channel for a while and I've always been able to extract loads of value from each of your videos. Thanks a lot.
I respectfully disagree, I believe confidence is something that is instilled in us by our parents and it's very hard to change later in life. The reason why I believe this to be true is because I've known many confident, incompetent men. There is something intertwined about a fear of public speaking and a fear of approaching women. It's like a spotlight shines on me, my voice starts to shake and I feel an overwhelming anxiety. What's weird is if I ask, most people will say I seemed a little nervous, when to me it felt like i was about to shit my pants. I'm competent, im in good shape, i make 100,000 a year, i have all these things going, but it all goes out the window when i feel the spotlight. Practice hasn't helped either. I practice regurarly at meetings because I have to and I always get nervous when there's more than 5 people. Same with approaching women. I'm not gonna stop trying and I do it, but the anxiety seems like it's always gonna be there. I'm 42. My suggestion to nervous men is this: Accept the anxiety is coming and approach her anyway. At least if u fail u can go home knowing u tried. Its way better to go home knowing u struck out than knowing you were too afraid to step up to the plate. The only way to insure failure is to not try. That's a 100% chance of failure. Doing the things he says in the video will increase your odds, but most likely won't decrease your nervousness
What you're saying ties in with having courage. Courage is not the absence of fear and anxiety, you cannot switch it off but you can take action in spite of it and if you get rejected, you can be content that you gave it a shot. That's better than the regret of not trying at all which can haunt you for years. You just never ever know. When I was studying guitar (and I still am), I asked how I would deal with stage fright and how to make it disappear. My teacher was like ''You don't. It will be there no matter how skilled you become on the instrument. Eddie Van Halen (who is considered one of the greatest guitarists in history) gets stage fright like you would. The difference is that he has learned to control his''
Until HR calls you into the office the next day for either doing that to a girl at work or for going viral because the girl that you asked out recorded and shamed you on the internet
I think you can become confident by truly not giving a fuck and doing whatever you want. There’s no anxiety or courage needed if you don’t perceive success or failure. You just do it cuz you want to and if you don’t get it here, who cares. This is real confidence. The understanding that I see something and I want it I go for it. And if I get a no, big deal, I’ll get it elsewhere.
Good lord! you have bought into giving up your masculinity because of feminism which was highjacked by men by the way. Women have always wanted to be women and men, men or rather the feminine wants to express as does the masculine. We are battling each other and for what? an idea that was planted to divide and conquer us and make women not only enter the work force while being a mother and a house keeper. the man's job never changed...and yet you think being a woman that means doing nothing???? why don't you go to work, clean the house, raise the kids, make dinner, clean the dishes, and give you husband a blow job every night while all he does is what he has always done - gone to "work" whatever that is. Nope, women didn't "ask" for this you misogynist lazy xxx who just wants to be hand fed without offering her something in return. As a man, you should be offering HER things, she will follow, I promise and give you 10 fold in return....women asked for equal rights! not to have to take over the roles you pussies as men fail to do. Women are a reflection of how YOU as a man are treating her. PERIOD.
Ok since there’s a lot of confusion on how and when to apply this here’s something I wrote. Well I mean just apply it (the rules and nuances he tells us about) and you’ll see it’s like do both at the same time and not. Oh and it’s also phase related like in the initial meeting phase you wanna show you’re interest but not desperate, where as later on you want to lean more on the other side like intrested but not interested and not disinterested or desperate. Again it’s a spectrum so another way to phrase it would be interested but leaning more towards disinterested than desperate, she’ll feel this, trust, and work accordingly. you gotta know it’s a spectrum the di, I, and d spectrum ( disinterest, interest and desperate ) it’s important to understand you are always shifting on the spectrum with every different girl. So since every person is different and unique means you’ll have to shift differently and uniquely to that girl. and depending on which phase you are with a girl and for how long you’ve known her determines how much you gotta move on the spectrum. You gotta do both at the same time and not. Another thing is wether you are doing front end or back end, so like meeting and trying for the number, front end. or keeping a girl obsessed over you, for lack of a better term, back end. And again you scroll through the di, I, d spectrum depending on which end and phase you’re working on
An important topic from the point of view of using or wasting life opportunities. And who do these not very intellectually developed beings called women hate or demolish? Who cares. This is actually a minor detail.
Here is my conundrum. Imagine Keeanu Reeves. What is more dominant in him, as far as his sexual market value is concerned. He is anxious and timid and acts weird and shy, but he is The Keeanu Reeves. What is more important for attraction ? Social status or perceived sexual market value ?
Facts, in high school, girls pursued me for months at a time even though I was too scared to talk to them, they only backed off when they realized that I was never going to talk to them
@@user-uc7qb1su4eAt highschool the bestie of my female friend took my number of her and called me to wanna f*** I never spoke with her before..."today" I approach hundred of girls and cant get a date thinking about commiting suicide..f*** all this bs
9:20 KMFT!! I have a DM from few days ago, a girl message me how I am sexy. She can't even see my face clearly. But it's how I presented myself with how I dress and stance/pose. She been on my case in my DMs since September. I woke to her responding to that post again at 7:00am she asking me to send her a video of myself. Then she kept asking for a vnote. I HAVE NOT SENT ANY OF THEM. EVERYTHING she has asked me for, I have not sent to her. HIGH VALUE IS ON THE INTERNAL, it shines through on the external. IN THIS AGE OF AQUARIUS, YOU DO NOT NEED EXTERNAL STRENGTH TO PULL WOMEN & TO BE SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE. Of course you can't carry yourself broken down.
I'm a new watcher but I just divorced a completely passive man and at some point when I start dating again I'm going to keep in mind all of these aspects that I will look for in my new partner because he is spot on about everything
I want to be just like you! Bored and irritated with everyone! Just like in the Simpsons and rock stars.. I want to be so famous I hate my life.. Ultimate goal and role model!!
A lot of adults used to tell me when I was a kid that the right girl will come along. Just be patient. etc etc. Waiting for life to begin is terrible advice for young men.
Shy and quiet are different. You're not afraid, you're just selective with your words and interactions. The less you say but when you do say will have more gravity.
Something that all men need to realize is that because they are emotionally based and driven they tend to think in more savage terms when dealing with men.
Ok so I've re-listened to the content and get it now. Ok. and i am prepared to make the changes. What I don't understand though is, I' have to change work, my appearance, the way I speak, act etc and I have to do everything in the relationship by leading and taking responsibility. I'm on board with doing all that IF.............if...........my logical male brain speaking, I get something in return... I'm not sure what that is, because girls definitely are not making similar efforts and if I'm doing everything in the relationship, I'm not sure now what the purpose is of getting into a relationship with a women. Seems a bit one sided deal to me.......... Any ideas how to reframe this in my brain?
That’s one of the questions you will have to answer for yourself. What YOU are looking for in a woman/women. What Casey is preaching in this video is not FOR girls, it is for you and your personal success.
Casey I don’t understand how u teach. I just know it works. And if I somehow cut the video short because it’s to much info. It gets fucked up. Idk dude I am scared I cannot control what’s in my head
She's saying she thinks your a baby that she has to look after. When they say 'brother' it means younger brother. Shea tired of guiding you and teaching you. Stop opening your mouth so much as what your saying is clearly turning her off. I've been there. Don't talk about your problems or negative emotions or feelings. It's a harsh lesson but whenever you do that think of how gross it is when a cat shits or vomits on the floor. You might love the cat but it's still gross. But unlike a pet you won't get unconditional love and a woman will only tolerate the disgust she feels for so long. Get in better shape physically and mentally go find/do hobbies and interests that make your time scarce. Don't reply instantly. You should be actually damn busy with your life. Take up a martial art so you know you can kick ass. Boxing and judo make a good combo. Get a better job and read books that are educational. And don't, DON'T talk about your changes and improvements let your actions speak for themselves i.e. be humble. And if she dumps you don't chase beg or plead hold back the tears keep your voice level and say OK. Then when she contact's you assume she wants to see you and set a date. If you had a vagina would you want to someone like you to be on top of you. She's telling you the answer to that question is a big NO! So stop feeling sorry for yourself and do better or be happy being the male equivalent of a single cat lady. I know this is harsh but as men we don't respond to kindness that's why the army beats you down to build you up. Beat yourself into shape. Beat of luck.
@@chrisw8838 yeah bro that’s what it is. We’ve been together 12 years and we have a house together and now it’s weird. I tried to win her back but it only pushed her away. I’m gonna do what you said and I’m gonna focus on myself. The only interaction we have is about the house. I wish I could have done that before but I was blind and stupid
@@mmr0221 it's all good man just follow what I said as I tried to get my ex wife back for years and the nicer I was the more of a bitch she became yet ironically the more I did what I've just layed out to you the more she was all over me. Their logic is upside down. Just the way god or evolution made them. But honestly the less you actually give a shit and the more you improve the better you're chances are. You need an emotional detox. I moved cities got a new job started talking to other chicks etc and then we almost got back together but I got sucked into her mind games and she lost interest and has been with a co-worker for over a year now who stays in our house on school nights in the bed I bought and built and has family dinners with my kids. I still see my kids and they express their love for me so I know he can't replace me to them even if he can to her. Bottom line my mistakes I have grown from so I'm giving you the advice I wish I had at the time. They have to want the rekindling more than you do. They have to be chasing you. And they should always like you more than you like them. Once that script flips and they turn you into a lovestruck pussy they end up hating you. Watch a bit more redpill stuff but don't let it make you hate women it's more like understanding them but realising that it's just nature they don't mean to do it they just follow the programming. Even the best loveliest sweetest girls get to that point eventually. Look up betatisation by 1000 cuts on entrepreneurs in cars on TH-cam. Another good video (the only decent one on their channel) is by loveadvicetv I think the video has 101 in the title about when you have to communicate with an ex for logistics. Self respect and self improvement are the only options. Sadly mine turned into a monster and I still wanted her back. Now I'm kinda disgusted by her and her awful behaviour. Best of luck bro I know it's hard but the harder you are on yourself the better you will feel. Don't be hard in a depressing way. Do it in a challenging way. I find it helped to tell myself to stop being pathetic or have some self respect and then do something difficult or punishing that was good for me e.g. exercise and the other things I suggested. The less I allow myself to be sad and the more I just swear at myself and start actually improving the better I am. No longer suicidal and I was for years. I love being alive now. I loved her more than anything in the world I'd have jumped into a river of crocodiles for her. I saved a mates life once by tackling him out of the way of a car I didn't even have to think. But their love is not like that. It's conditional and momentary and you know what that is ok. It's not their fault. Don't believe the Disney bullshit. It's indoctrination if I knew the truth I would have just accepted it and been ok. But the kids they feed us man. It's unreal. Corey Wayne is amazing too btw as he's very middle of the road and balanced about female nature and sexual dynamics. Also remind yourself you are a good person and this is not your fault. If you don't know the rules of the game how can you be expected to win? Much love bro best of luck.
Things not happen surprisingly.If i talk about you Sir. Casey Zender... your parents made your life hell during your childhood.But you had overcome, same parents made the life hell by insisting their children to do as they say.By Manipulating the things.
8:05 here you go again with the foolishness bout external muscle. it is absolutely USELESS without INTERNAL STRENGTH. For 15 years I been going hard refusing women WITH INTERNAL STRENGTH AND ZERO MUSCLE. When I say zero I do mean ZERO... as in they are not developed in any way whatsoever. Your INTERNAL STRENGTH is the most important thing as a man, that is what will drive you WITHOUT MUSCLE. I do NOT see the most successful men in the world and throughout history building muscle, NOT THE VAST MAJORITY OF THEM!! In this AGE OF AQUARIUS, MEN DO NOT NEED PHYSICAL MUSCLE!!
Pretty sure you taking the piss but if not the answer has been said numerous times that building physical muscle often helps with building internal confidence and strength because it's hard, you have to be disciplined and consistent. I don't have a lot of muscle in fact I'm pretty out of shape atm but the concept is not hard to understand. My internal strength comes as a result of tonnes of traumatic life events but the idea is that the habits you build making muscles carry over. You can get discipline and consistency and determination elsewhere however I have personally witnessed low confidence skinny geeky wimps/simps go gym crazy and then turn their whole life aroundin a good way. And the gym for most people is the easiest way to do it.
All thats great if there were good woman virtuous woman with checks and balances and accountability there are none or extremely rare , so with all that u suggest to be the trade off is completsly unfair ,
Love your channel Casey, but the laundry list of ‘things’ men need to do to PLEASE today’s woman? No thanks. You can rent them (far cheaper in the long run) and zero headaches
I think he means don't over do it while not being doing your own shit. But, I get what you're saying that a guy needs to be showing a woman that he actually wants to be with her.
@@thehegemon996 I am positive. Because I looked back at the beginning of the relationship and I tried to remain the feminine version for so long. Anytime a new problem arose, I gave him all the freedom to problem solve it and when he took no action I would gently ask what's going to happen or try to nudge him to take the action and he would just say,: it's not my problem, I don't know how to handle this, there's nothing I can do etc. It then did force me to take some actions at times but I always continued to try to get him to take the action and see if he was willing to step up on his own. Never happened. Eventually I communicated how the ways it would be nice.. But he just dug his heels and further and said he doesn't know how to do that, why should he, etc
@@BB-xx3dv He was digging his heels in about remaining passive. He was refusing to take action or be the problem solver. He was saying I refuse to solve this.
Here's an example. He was paying child support for his first son that turned 18. The son graduated, so he had hoped the child support would end. It kept coming out of his check for about 8 months after the graduation. The first few months I didn't say anything thinking he would have the freedom to figure it out for himself. He would take action if he wanted something done about it. He would continue to gripe saying,why are they taking payments? Dont they know he's 18?. At some point I kindly suggested he call the child support office to figure out what's going on. He got really upset saying he doesn't like talking to people on the phone It shouldn't be his problem to deal with and they should just know to remove it. He dug his heels in refusing to do anything about it for months. In fact he never did get it resolved The only reason it got resolved is because some of his other kids ended up changing households and they looked at it for that reason.
@Lady.Luck. yeah seems like a guy who really didn't take charge and just let life pass him by. No woman likes that, and I bet he didn't rock your world sexually either. I doubt my 22 year old wife would listen as much as she did if I didn't "show her why I was the boss" sorry your relationship turned out that way. Me and my high-school sweetheart dated for 7 years and at the end of it I was similar to your husband and I got walked all over because she didn't respect me anymore. Learned quick that if you're the man, you gotta be in charge.
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Case can you help me please,the last video you said being slow and patient is the key to win a woman and now going to her straight without being passive doesn't this oppose the last session? plz help
You can literally hear in his voice that he really wants to help men. Cool dude.
Best Video for me so far. He is the DEFENDER and DEVELOPER of men living his God-Given Truth. Amen
I was super passive, anxious, weak. Suffered for most of my life. Then almost died at 39. Pain and suffering woke me up. Got fit,strong..mentally, physically. Stopped second guessing myself and started killing it at work. Doubled my income in two years(beer salesman). Now im confident,dependable, healthy. Wife respects me more and transformed herself after 4 kids to keep me. Listen to Casey. This is true in dating,work. Now woman half my age hit on me regularly. Confidence, strength, is contagious. Woman will notice.
Everyone likes a winner, no one rewards the runner who comes in last place. Good job in improving yourself, always be a student, never a master. Learn new skills so that you keep succeeding in life. Cheers!
U tall bro?
You must pursue what you want out of this life energetically.... Ignoring any negative or defeating self talk.
Doubt only exists in one's mind, its not real.
@@D33LuxI disagree we have people who make simple stuff like some legendary Pokemon my wants are simple atleast in this context I want women that's it
You are a good man buddy thanks for doing this no one teaches these things and honestly there are lot of men who are still boys who needs it
Casey Zander: One video -> Never return interest signals, Another video -> go for it, don't be shy. Ok... yeah, makes sense.
I agree. Casey if your reading this please explain.
🤡🤡🤡 shit obviously went past ur head
the return interest means giving back or expressing same energy that women give, you shouldn't get to show femenine reciprocity.
in the other video, he means you go for it but with a masculine mentality, as a man that knows what he wants
Talk to her, don't simp, don't give compliments
I think your missing context in those videos including this one.I don't find any contradictions.
All facts! This is why were working on the internal. Courage to approach and ask girls out live on camera, willingness to get rejected, etc. Always put the purpose first, too many guys are getting emotionally attached way before they've ever identified their purpose. That is a one way road to getting destroyed by a woman and by life. If youre watching this content, you better be doing the work internally and externally. LETS GO BOYS
Chasing women is a waste of time and resources, its better to focus on one's successes. What's the point of chasing women if you guys are broke, in debt, don't know how to financially invest in your future women will find you unattractive. Do you think Athletes, A list actors, Businessmen have to chase women? When you become the man women desire and men admire women will come to you.
A winner will do in any given moment, the most productive thing
No, a winner gets up everytime he falls . He just never gives up
I’m 49 years old, 11 year relationship just ended a week ago. I’m ready to finally be a winner at dating and relationships.
Good luck bro.. Crush it!!!!
Bro did I hear you say 11 years relationship and not marriage ? If relationship, then that lady just woke up from her slumber.
@@b.c.34why do people have to marry to be together?
Thanks for this comment. I thought I was late starting this journey at 28 but this comment makes me feel better.
Hopefully you kept yourself in shape at 49 if you want younger women
Top 5 people to impact my life in relation to the knowloege they have imparted to me - thank you Casey.
A lot of us didn’t have good male role models growing up. Thanks for teaching us how to be high value men, Casey.
This is all true. I'm bipolar 2 which makes me sometimes act impulsive, hypersexual, talk to other women and getting caught, acting bold/inappropriate. Sometimes I embarass myself being an excitement addict. All of these behaviors + banging a girl really well = they are under your spell.
Finding your channel Casey is like me winning the lottery I like people like you who have different mindset…I found you and this guy with Russian accent Better call gorge you guys are so true for real your content is hard to process but when you understand you get something
What’s that other guy yt link
Better call George is the name. He is helpful too
Amazing how you put it all down on a board, so its easy to break down and for people to understand. With age comes wisdom, I knew about 80% what you talked about, but its good to hear others perspectives. You're doing a great service to the world, even women will benefit because you're teaching men to become the type of man women desire biologically. Cheers!
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Casey Zander: i think you’ve been mentored by one of the charismatic to be able to subtlety know the deeper stuff, and weave it together to make it your own
Casey,
You forgot to say this is the most important video you have ever done.
All this goes back to “doing what you need to do”
My brother you've got the right information to. Not only girls but life. This are the details i needed compared to these redpills..love from Kenya🇰🇪
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I am passive as fuck. It's hard to snap out of it. I was at my local tavern and There is a cute waitress I like. But my shy and passive routine is getting me nowhere. There was a dude chatting her up at the bar, he was making her laugh etc. I am not able to do that. It is frustrating. The only time I am not passive is when have drinks.
Casey Zander one huge projection
Rejection is terrible. If u approach 100 women and maybe 1 gives u her number that's pretty sad. I remember rejections as a kid that still sting. Being called ugly is brutal
Thanks for your hard work and dedication Casey. I'm a follower from Argentina. I have to say that I've been following you're channel for a while and I've always been able to extract loads of value from each of your videos. Thanks a lot.
I respectfully disagree, I believe confidence is something that is instilled in us by our parents and it's very hard to change later in life. The reason why I believe this to be true is because I've known many confident, incompetent men.
There is something intertwined about a fear of public speaking and a fear of approaching women. It's like a spotlight shines on me, my voice starts to shake and I feel an overwhelming anxiety. What's weird is if I ask, most people will say I seemed a little nervous, when to me it felt like i was about to shit my pants. I'm competent, im in good shape, i make 100,000 a year, i have all these things going, but it all goes out the window when i feel the spotlight. Practice hasn't helped either. I practice regurarly at meetings because I have to and I always get nervous when there's more than 5 people.
Same with approaching women. I'm not gonna stop trying and I do it, but the anxiety seems like it's always gonna be there. I'm 42.
My suggestion to nervous men is this: Accept the anxiety is coming and approach her anyway. At least if u fail u can go home knowing u tried. Its way better to go home knowing u struck out than knowing you were too afraid to step up to the plate. The only way to insure failure is to not try. That's a 100% chance of failure.
Doing the things he says in the video will increase your odds, but most likely won't decrease your nervousness
What you're saying ties in with having courage. Courage is not the absence of fear and anxiety, you cannot switch it off but you can take action in spite of it and if you get rejected, you can be content that you gave it a shot. That's better than the regret of not trying at all which can haunt you for years. You just never ever know.
When I was studying guitar (and I still am), I asked how I would deal with stage fright and how to make it disappear. My teacher was like ''You don't. It will be there no matter how skilled you become on the instrument. Eddie Van Halen (who is considered one of the greatest guitarists in history) gets stage fright like you would. The difference is that he has learned to control his''
@@vinaymulukutla358 I seen another one, about a singer who had stage fright and he said he had to pretend it was excitement. They feel similar kinda
Until HR calls you into the office the next day for either doing that to a girl at work or for going viral because the girl that you asked out recorded and shamed you on the internet
I think you can become confident by truly not giving a fuck and doing whatever you want. There’s no anxiety or courage needed if you don’t perceive success or failure. You just do it cuz you want to and if you don’t get it here, who cares. This is real confidence. The understanding that I see something and I want it I go for it. And if I get a no, big deal, I’ll get it elsewhere.
Have a competitive nature and this will all come naturally
CALM AND ACCERTIVE
Its difficulty to not resent women at times for their passivity, men have to do everything.
Yup....once robots are sexy...woman are toast
lol thats brilliant! @@HANZELVANDERLAAY
Yeah, men do everything to get a relationship going and then women have equal say? Something is wrong with this picture.
Good lord! you have bought into giving up your masculinity because of feminism which was highjacked by men by the way. Women have always wanted to be women and men, men or rather the feminine wants to express as does the masculine. We are battling each other and for what? an idea that was planted to divide and conquer us and make women not only enter the work force while being a mother and a house keeper. the man's job never changed...and yet you think being a woman that means doing nothing????
why don't you go to work, clean the house, raise the kids, make dinner, clean the dishes, and give you husband a blow job every night while all he does is what he has always done - gone to "work" whatever that is. Nope, women didn't "ask" for this you misogynist lazy xxx who just wants to be hand fed without offering her something in return. As a man, you should be offering HER things, she will follow, I promise and give you 10 fold in return....women asked for equal rights! not to have to take over the roles you pussies as men fail to do. Women are a reflection of how YOU as a man are treating her. PERIOD.
Exactly
You’re awesome mate! Thank you for the help
Women live through life on beginner mode
I'd wager you're a fairly weak man
Until they hit 30
And most men live life on auto-pilot.
Ok since there’s a lot of confusion on how and when to apply this here’s something I wrote.
Well I mean just apply it (the rules and nuances he tells us about) and you’ll see it’s like do both at the same time and not. Oh and it’s also phase related like in the initial meeting phase you wanna show you’re interest but not desperate, where as later on you want to lean more on the other side like intrested but not interested and not disinterested or desperate. Again it’s a spectrum so another way to phrase it would be interested but leaning more towards disinterested than desperate, she’ll feel this, trust, and work accordingly. you gotta know it’s a spectrum the di, I, and d spectrum ( disinterest, interest and desperate ) it’s important to understand you are always shifting on the spectrum with every different girl. So since every person is different and unique means you’ll have to shift differently and uniquely to that girl. and depending on which phase you are with a girl and for how long you’ve known her determines how much you gotta move on the spectrum. You gotta do both at the same time and not. Another thing is wether you are doing front end or back end, so like meeting and trying for the number, front end. or keeping a girl obsessed over you, for lack of a better term, back end. And again you scroll through the di, I, d spectrum depending on which end and phase you’re working on
Inner Work - Solid Expertise in one area, or the General Area! (attractive to a Woman!)
Winning small gets the ball rolling in the right direction.
Focus on yourself. Get it together fellas
An important topic from the point of view of using or wasting life opportunities. And who do these not very intellectually developed beings called women hate or demolish? Who cares. This is actually a minor detail.
As for the thumbnail, yeah in bars and clubs! Not in everyday life, plenty of shy guys getting the girl. Goes along with quiet confidence.
Thanks your content is GOATED men, i really appreciate it.
Really like this one, great video. Energy is a very interesting topic.
Here is my conundrum. Imagine Keeanu Reeves. What is more dominant in him, as far as his sexual market value is concerned.
He is anxious and timid and acts weird and shy, but he is The Keeanu Reeves.
What is more important for attraction ? Social status or perceived sexual market value ?
His social status as a celebrity makes him sexy to women. However, he would get mogged by other men who are not shy among his celebrity peers.
Women demolish shy, passive men exept they are into him
Woman eventually get bored of them too
Facts, in high school, girls pursued me for months at a time even though I was too scared to talk to them, they only backed off when they realized that I was never going to talk to them
@@user-uc7qb1su4ewhy you shy anyway
@@user-uc7qb1su4eAt highschool the bestie of my female friend took my number of her and called me to wanna f*** I never spoke with her before..."today" I approach hundred of girls and cant get a date thinking about commiting suicide..f*** all this bs
You are very intelligent, and these videos are very helpful Casey.
You’re exactly right!🙋🏽♀️😁
Caseyzander sir i have yet not entered deting life, so i will remember your tips and be strick i am Indian🇮🇳 I love you
True talk. Make shit happen.
9:20 KMFT!! I have a DM from few days ago, a girl message me how I am sexy. She can't even see my face clearly. But it's how I presented myself with how I dress and stance/pose. She been on my case in my DMs since September. I woke to her responding to that post again at 7:00am she asking me to send her a video of myself. Then she kept asking for a vnote. I HAVE NOT SENT ANY OF THEM. EVERYTHING she has asked me for, I have not sent to her. HIGH VALUE IS ON THE INTERNAL, it shines through on the external. IN THIS AGE OF AQUARIUS, YOU DO NOT NEED EXTERNAL STRENGTH TO PULL WOMEN & TO BE SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE. Of course you can't carry yourself broken down.
Cazey zender sir i am 17 year old I have learned a lot at the age of 17
your words are GOLD bro !!! that's all I can say !
Casey do a video on if women watch your videos, religiously? And what does that mean for both parties?
I'm a new watcher but I just divorced a completely passive man and at some point when I start dating again I'm going to keep in mind all of these aspects that I will look for in my new partner because he is spot on about everything
Amazing analysis and facts, well done Uncle Cee
Damn good message 👏🏼
Another great video, thank you Casey!
oh word. This one. Fuck bro. I have completed my self. The damage. Has been done. But the damage didn’t kill me.
I want to be just like you! Bored and irritated with everyone! Just like in the Simpsons and rock stars.. I want to be so famous I hate my life.. Ultimate goal and role model!!
Heavy truth
Exactly the video I needed
No one is coming to save you, make things happen
A lot of adults used to tell me when I was a kid that the right girl will come along. Just be patient. etc etc. Waiting for life to begin is terrible advice for young men.
I'm Bedbound and disabled, so skinny as fuck. That said I am handsome and cheeky, so my lack of build and tone has not held me back too much.
Always on time. it feels good man
If being shy was a weakness then I’m then why do they say shy men are better in bed
Shy and quiet are different. You're not afraid, you're just selective with your words and interactions. The less you say but when you do say will have more gravity.
Shy men are weak, quiet men are strong
Shy is cringe
Great video man keep up
12:30 so that's why I will be single for life. I get told I look good a lot (for my age). But I'm a big big slacker lel
If you do a collab it should be with Elisha Long
Something that all men need to realize is that because they are emotionally based and driven they tend to think in more savage terms when dealing with men.
Explain
I am the First 💪🏼
Great advice!
What if he is an introvert?
I just started watching you so you And if you’re already done a video on it, ignore this
Thanks bro , this is going help me Big Time ….
Shyness is a combination of diffidence and conceit. -- W.S. Maugham
Ok so I've re-listened to the content and get it now. Ok. and i am prepared to make the changes. What I don't understand though is, I' have to change work, my appearance, the way I speak, act etc and I have to do everything in the relationship by leading and taking responsibility. I'm on board with doing all that IF.............if...........my logical male brain speaking, I get something in return... I'm not sure what that is, because girls definitely are not making similar efforts and if I'm doing everything in the relationship, I'm not sure now what the purpose is of getting into a relationship with a women. Seems a bit one sided deal to me.......... Any ideas how to reframe this in my brain?
Go to the gym, focus on developing a skill set that provides good income, bang a couple 5s to get your confidence up. Im 30 married to a 22 year old
It seems one-sided but if you can get her on your team, you'll be surprised what she'll do to please you
That’s one of the questions you will have to answer for yourself. What YOU are looking for in a woman/women.
What Casey is preaching in this video is not FOR girls, it is for you and your personal success.
You do get something out of it. It's called self respect. Do this for you man!
Shy kids don’t get any cake 😂🤪😉
You must be getting some crazy cake according to your emojis
Why you shy anyway
Casey I don’t understand how u teach. I just know it works. And if I somehow cut the video short because it’s to much info. It gets fucked up. Idk dude I am scared I cannot control what’s in my head
On point ⚡️
My qusition is how to stop being so passive like anything is improntant in life?
Uncle C 🔥💪
Thanks Man 🔝
Does the external and being a high values guy matter at all? Especially after the loser game video.
Brilliant! Tnx!
Make more on this topic
We text, she doesn’t reply, I run into her in public and she wants to do yoga… I don’t get it
Uncle C!!!
Preach brother
My girlfriend of 12 years says she see me more as a brother. What do I do
Move to Alabama
She's saying she thinks your a baby that she has to look after. When they say 'brother' it means younger brother. Shea tired of guiding you and teaching you. Stop opening your mouth so much as what your saying is clearly turning her off. I've been there. Don't talk about your problems or negative emotions or feelings. It's a harsh lesson but whenever you do that think of how gross it is when a cat shits or vomits on the floor. You might love the cat but it's still gross. But unlike a pet you won't get unconditional love and a woman will only tolerate the disgust she feels for so long. Get in better shape physically and mentally go find/do hobbies and interests that make your time scarce. Don't reply instantly. You should be actually damn busy with your life. Take up a martial art so you know you can kick ass. Boxing and judo make a good combo. Get a better job and read books that are educational. And don't, DON'T talk about your changes and improvements let your actions speak for themselves i.e. be humble. And if she dumps you don't chase beg or plead hold back the tears keep your voice level and say OK. Then when she contact's you assume she wants to see you and set a date. If you had a vagina would you want to someone like you to be on top of you. She's telling you the answer to that question is a big NO! So stop feeling sorry for yourself and do better or be happy being the male equivalent of a single cat lady. I know this is harsh but as men we don't respond to kindness that's why the army beats you down to build you up. Beat yourself into shape. Beat of luck.
@@chrisw8838 yeah bro that’s what it is. We’ve been together 12 years and we have a house together and now it’s weird. I tried to win her back but it only pushed her away. I’m gonna do what you said and I’m gonna focus on myself. The only interaction we have is about the house. I wish I could have done that before but I was blind and stupid
@@mmr0221 it's all good man just follow what I said as I tried to get my ex wife back for years and the nicer I was the more of a bitch she became yet ironically the more I did what I've just layed out to you the more she was all over me. Their logic is upside down. Just the way god or evolution made them. But honestly the less you actually give a shit and the more you improve the better you're chances are. You need an emotional detox. I moved cities got a new job started talking to other chicks etc and then we almost got back together but I got sucked into her mind games and she lost interest and has been with a co-worker for over a year now who stays in our house on school nights in the bed I bought and built and has family dinners with my kids. I still see my kids and they express their love for me so I know he can't replace me to them even if he can to her. Bottom line my mistakes I have grown from so I'm giving you the advice I wish I had at the time. They have to want the rekindling more than you do. They have to be chasing you. And they should always like you more than you like them. Once that script flips and they turn you into a lovestruck pussy they end up hating you. Watch a bit more redpill stuff but don't let it make you hate women it's more like understanding them but realising that it's just nature they don't mean to do it they just follow the programming. Even the best loveliest sweetest girls get to that point eventually. Look up betatisation by 1000 cuts on entrepreneurs in cars on TH-cam. Another good video (the only decent one on their channel) is by loveadvicetv I think the video has 101 in the title about when you have to communicate with an ex for logistics. Self respect and self improvement are the only options. Sadly mine turned into a monster and I still wanted her back. Now I'm kinda disgusted by her and her awful behaviour. Best of luck bro I know it's hard but the harder you are on yourself the better you will feel. Don't be hard in a depressing way. Do it in a challenging way. I find it helped to tell myself to stop being pathetic or have some self respect and then do something difficult or punishing that was good for me e.g. exercise and the other things I suggested. The less I allow myself to be sad and the more I just swear at myself and start actually improving the better I am. No longer suicidal and I was for years. I love being alive now. I loved her more than anything in the world I'd have jumped into a river of crocodiles for her. I saved a mates life once by tackling him out of the way of a car I didn't even have to think. But their love is not like that. It's conditional and momentary and you know what that is ok. It's not their fault. Don't believe the Disney bullshit. It's indoctrination if I knew the truth I would have just accepted it and been ok. But the kids they feed us man. It's unreal. Corey Wayne is amazing too btw as he's very middle of the road and balanced about female nature and sexual dynamics. Also remind yourself you are a good person and this is not your fault. If you don't know the rules of the game how can you be expected to win? Much love bro best of luck.
Austin Dunham
🔥 that’s the pulse 🔥
Thank you 🙏🙂
Can you provide the link to your only fans?
Hey today in my video me a man will tell you what women want because I know this being a man. 👍
Things not happen surprisingly.If i talk about you Sir. Casey Zender... your parents made your life hell during your childhood.But you had overcome, same parents made the life hell by insisting their children to do as they say.By Manipulating the things.
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The reason....nature makes woman ..not get attached..is because ..they wear men out....and they gotta find a replacement....often
8:05 here you go again with the foolishness bout external muscle. it is absolutely USELESS without INTERNAL STRENGTH. For 15 years I been going hard refusing women WITH INTERNAL STRENGTH AND ZERO MUSCLE. When I say zero I do mean ZERO... as in they are not developed in any way whatsoever. Your INTERNAL STRENGTH is the most important thing as a man, that is what will drive you WITHOUT MUSCLE. I do NOT see the most successful men in the world and throughout history building muscle, NOT THE VAST MAJORITY OF THEM!! In this AGE OF AQUARIUS, MEN DO NOT NEED PHYSICAL MUSCLE!!
Pretty sure you taking the piss but if not the answer has been said numerous times that building physical muscle often helps with building internal confidence and strength because it's hard, you have to be disciplined and consistent. I don't have a lot of muscle in fact I'm pretty out of shape atm but the concept is not hard to understand. My internal strength comes as a result of tonnes of traumatic life events but the idea is that the habits you build making muscles carry over. You can get discipline and consistency and determination elsewhere however I have personally witnessed low confidence skinny geeky wimps/simps go gym crazy and then turn their whole life aroundin a good way. And the gym for most people is the easiest way to do it.
All thats great if there were good woman virtuous woman with checks and balances and accountability there are none or extremely rare , so with all that u suggest to be the trade off is completsly unfair ,
Every man weaknesses
Love your channel Casey, but the laundry list of ‘things’ men need to do to PLEASE today’s woman?
No thanks.
You can rent them (far cheaper in the long run) and zero headaches
All seems a little one sided.
It is one sided, it always has been.
Out of all the dating coaches this guy is the worst. Women don’t lose attraction for you because you reciprocated enthusiasm
I think he means don't over do it while not being doing your own shit. But, I get what you're saying that a guy needs to be showing a woman that he actually wants to be with her.
Im a woman that just divorced a completely passive man. This video is 100% accurate
Are you sure you're not just an overbearing masculine woman?
@@thehegemon996 I am positive. Because I looked back at the beginning of the relationship and I tried to remain the feminine version for so long. Anytime a new problem arose, I gave him all the freedom to problem solve it and when he took no action I would gently ask what's going to happen or try to nudge him to take the action and he would just say,: it's not my problem, I don't know how to handle this, there's nothing I can do etc. It then did force me to take some actions at times but I always continued to try to get him to take the action and see if he was willing to step up on his own. Never happened. Eventually I communicated how the ways it would be nice.. But he just dug his heels and further and said he doesn't know how to do that, why should he, etc
@@BB-xx3dv He was digging his heels in about remaining passive. He was refusing to take action or be the problem solver. He was saying I refuse to solve this.
Here's an example. He was paying child support for his first son that turned 18. The son graduated, so he had hoped the child support would end. It kept coming out of his check for about 8 months after the graduation. The first few months I didn't say anything thinking he would have the freedom to figure it out for himself. He would take action if he wanted something done about it. He would continue to gripe saying,why are they taking payments? Dont they know he's 18?. At some point I kindly suggested he call the child support office to figure out what's going on. He got really upset saying he doesn't like talking to people on the phone It shouldn't be his problem to deal with and they should just know to remove it. He dug his heels in refusing to do anything about it for months. In fact he never did get it resolved The only reason it got resolved is because some of his other kids ended up changing households and they looked at it for that reason.
@Lady.Luck. yeah seems like a guy who really didn't take charge and just let life pass him by. No woman likes that, and I bet he didn't rock your world sexually either. I doubt my 22 year old wife would listen as much as she did if I didn't "show her why I was the boss" sorry your relationship turned out that way. Me and my high-school sweetheart dated for 7 years and at the end of it I was similar to your husband and I got walked all over because she didn't respect me anymore. Learned quick that if you're the man, you gotta be in charge.
just change your personality traits bro
Go to the gym, develop a skill set that makes money, don't be a pussy. It's not hard to get women now, they're beyond desperate.