'Why did you let me leave?' - Mim Shaikh and Destiny - Eating With My Ex Celeb Specials

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  • @SageCloverThyme
    @SageCloverThyme 3 ปีที่แล้ว +436

    This is the most honest and emotionally intelligent conversation I've come across on this show! Bravo! 👏

  • @jenniferrivera8627
    @jenniferrivera8627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +191

    Communication is key. They genuinely look like they care about each other

    • @AA-zs7jw
      @AA-zs7jw 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Meh..she cares about his money. Trust me

  • @indiangirl.uk.8420
    @indiangirl.uk.8420 3 ปีที่แล้ว +257

    This guy!!!! His sooo cute and he took ownership of everything, spoke like a boss and was a true gentleman. Loved how they left things on a positive! This is the way it should be, it’s all about communicating bless them, I really hope things work out for them two 💗🤞

    • @shihabshihab7950
      @shihabshihab7950 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Whar he is from that actor he is Indian ???

  • @lorid4160
    @lorid4160 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I rate this man sooo much! You can tell its difficult for him to say what he really feels, but he did it anyway and in an open intelligent way and in doing so he was able to let his (male) guard down. A lot a men need to take a page out of his book for real, respect to him

  • @faeex1428
    @faeex1428 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    His smile is so nice especially when she walked in

  • @tikaroxanne7286
    @tikaroxanne7286 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    His smile is hypnotizing 😍😍

  • @darrentobia1180
    @darrentobia1180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +209

    They are lucky. I bet many couples don’t work because of what is left unsaid.

  • @dandohando1242
    @dandohando1242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Two beautiful people, they seem more mature and if they carry on communicating like this, they can be together forever.

  • @LauraBidingCitizen
    @LauraBidingCitizen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    What genuinely nice people. Seems to me it was a bit of the age old ‘if you love them let them go’ with regards to her going away, but he didn’t communicate how he really felt & she didn’t tell him how hurt she felt with how easy he let her go.
    They’re young, & were even younger back then.. it’s always to do with lack of communication. Talk! Really good advice to all of you out there, just talk it out.
    Really hope it works out for them this time around! x

  • @Jacqui-gf7gn
    @Jacqui-gf7gn 3 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Young People, 1 word COMMUNICATION!

  • @gazajadebrown9866
    @gazajadebrown9866 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    These two are so beautiful together chemistry it's still there you see what happens when people communicate communication is most definitely the key

  • @laylakaye8127
    @laylakaye8127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    one of the most attractive couples

  • @TheRenee10
    @TheRenee10 3 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    It sounds like she's only holding him accountable when she could have been the one that also told him how she feel and that she feel like they can work it out while she was away

    • @brokehalo101
      @brokehalo101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup

    • @bef3442
      @bef3442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      True, but him saying something would show that he cared about how she felt and then she'd open up. Explaining yourself to someone who doesn't care really sucks

    • @superslyfoxx1
      @superslyfoxx1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      3:30

    • @Veon_Ray
      @Veon_Ray 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@superslyfoxx1 taking accountability means *not* blaming your actions, or a lack thereof, on someone else.

  • @mstrulygolden
    @mstrulygolden 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    She’s gorgeous 🥰

  • @c4411
    @c4411 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    I hope they make it work 👊🏽🙏🏽

    • @LauraBidingCitizen
      @LauraBidingCitizen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Me too! They seem like a genuinely nice pair :)

  • @tulipsxw2
    @tulipsxw2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    These videos makes me want to call my ex that doesn't know he's my ex, but we once had a "thing."

  • @gangatalishis
    @gangatalishis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Poor communication is what led to the downfall of this relationship, if that’s how she felt why not say instead of doing these stupid tests.

    • @LauraBidingCitizen
      @LauraBidingCitizen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I see no tests? Just an honest conversation. They were young. Did you not make mistakes when you were young & in a relationship?!

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I agree it wasn't a test... She was living her life, and he treated her casual like it was a disposable relationship.. Niether pursued a continued friendship. He even said maybe he was avoiding it. Emotional honesty would save most relationships.

    • @morpheus6394
      @morpheus6394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh!!! Men should value the concept of abundance.

    • @princessninjapants
      @princessninjapants 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Total games.. Accusing him of bad communication

  • @bettyboop8529
    @bettyboop8529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Aww that is so sweet, I was trying not to cry the entire time. And yes boys, say how you feel, and make contact if you like a girl. We need that!

    • @sambalfour5424
      @sambalfour5424 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks for this comment Betty boop

  • @lovelustfashion
    @lovelustfashion 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They are both gorgeous ... my face the whole video 😍😍😍... It’s the smiles and the exuberant skin for me 😍😍😍

  • @TyraHigh
    @TyraHigh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    They are adorable individually and collectively.

  • @averaa7
    @averaa7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Seeing real love and attraction makes me happy.

  • @sarahs5340
    @sarahs5340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Somehow these two seem like a match and yet they aren’t.

  • @KushQueen9
    @KushQueen9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love a mature conversation. This is beautiful. Hope they work out!!

  • @annco9801
    @annco9801 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    she reminds me of the singer Shamari from the singing group Blaque

  • @Femmecreole91
    @Femmecreole91 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    and this is how grown people talk to each other

  • @chadwickcrutchfield2403
    @chadwickcrutchfield2403 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Their reactions when they first saw each other in the restaurant was so cute 🤩

  • @her0807
    @her0807 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    They’re so cute together awwww

  • @anthonydurance2601
    @anthonydurance2601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    So she did what she wanted, he accepted and she complaining he didn’t beg and chase 😂😂 good luck to them🙌

    • @mandandi
      @mandandi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not really about begging. Something along the lines of "I really like what we have. I understand that you want to travel. How is our relationship going to work while you travel?. " would have helped.

  • @valerieshinia8526
    @valerieshinia8526 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I watched this on Facebook and now am here again loved it.

  • @AM-dv1xh
    @AM-dv1xh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I literally love Mim! ❤ He seems sooo sweet and honest. She's lovely too 😍 Wish them all the best ❤💙💕♥💖

  • @Naturally3m0
    @Naturally3m0 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I think they make a really good couple!! She's stunning!

  • @m1rko.4u
    @m1rko.4u 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    she placed all the blame on my man, Mim like it was not her decision to leave

  • @briggyb
    @briggyb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    How often is it, _"We were in a serious relationship 6 years ago and were together 4 years..."_
    *-Brittany Age 22*

  • @rightweaponry908
    @rightweaponry908 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    They are both so beautiful

  • @v383
    @v383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    She puts all on him, she should step up to

  • @chantalmartel4721
    @chantalmartel4721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Communication its the base for a relationship.

  • @M00niE_k
    @M00niE_k 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg i really hope it works !!! This is acc so exciting

  • @pg3395
    @pg3395 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Is it just me or their facial features look similar ? They look cute together. May be it's a soulmate ting lool. 🤣🤣 Omg they both are so attractive. 😲😲

  • @crazymumma3944
    @crazymumma3944 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is absolutely gorgeous!!! These two are actually really cute!!!

  • @miahbrowning3354
    @miahbrowning3354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This the only couple I’ve seen that should get back together

  • @FreedomofSpeech865
    @FreedomofSpeech865 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    She has incredible bone structure. She is still young, go travel and live a little.

  • @angelaaldridge5040
    @angelaaldridge5040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He's so handsome 💕💕

  • @TheAfrikanSuperstar
    @TheAfrikanSuperstar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    He's too nonchalant for me. I feel like he doesn't care.

  • @jackien1108
    @jackien1108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This is so cute.
    On the communication thing: It was not clear to me if she clarified whether or not she was open to having a traveling partner. That’s maybe why the guy reacted unexpectedly?

  • @samantahopkinson2658
    @samantahopkinson2658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I LOVE THEY CHEMISTRY, I WANT THEM TOBE TOGETHER.

  • @simplyleonel7534
    @simplyleonel7534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The quemistry is fireeee like you can see they still like each other

  • @mandandi
    @mandandi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like the way they communicate here. This is the kind of communication that builds a relationship. They were young though. Also, he had other issues to deal with from seeing his life story earlier. I think they are ready to be together for the long haul. Wish them all the best.

  • @KryptonIstheFuture
    @KryptonIstheFuture 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    brudda she left and then asks 'why did you let me leave ??'' . im confused . Woman in 2021 its a Mazza . we need to reinstall operating system at this point

    • @ladyofspa
      @ladyofspa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bruv..fam.. hahah let me help you.
      You never go wrong trying.Always make the move first.
      Period.

    • @valerieshinia8526
      @valerieshinia8526 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😅

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      lmao

  • @mahrufurrahman9759
    @mahrufurrahman9759 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Yo that's the Sunni Vs Shia guy.

    • @M00niE_k
      @M00niE_k 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thats so truuu

    • @ye23.
      @ye23. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Huh

  • @centigradz2centigradz289
    @centigradz2centigradz289 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She's super pretty. He is saying all the right things. Because on paper what he says works. He wanted her to live her life. But that's also the best excuse to dump a girl u r not serious about. Happened to a friend of mine. The girl left to travel around the world. He couldn't care less. Actually told her that he wouldn't restrict her. He married a girl he met only twice through an arranged marriage two months later. His parents didn't even know he had dated a black girl until his friends told his uber religious Muslim mother.

  • @TlhomphoDitedu
    @TlhomphoDitedu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “It would be rude not to.” Good answer

  • @feedbackaccepted3663
    @feedbackaccepted3663 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That smile when she walked in! Gorgeous girl.
    Really hope they reconnected

  • @diakim753
    @diakim753 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They have the best smiles

  • @flossyrainbowsbailey2691
    @flossyrainbowsbailey2691 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love his voice so calming

  • @Kimmie_xxx
    @Kimmie_xxx 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I LITERALLY LOVE THEM !!!! THEY ARE LITERALLY THE CUTEST ❤️🦋THEY ARE THE DEFINITION OF MATCHING EACH OTHERS ENERGY🙏🏽

  • @rflores1456
    @rflores1456 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Why didn't she just call him when she got back? Say hey I'm back... just wanted to say hello I missed you etc...call me if you want to meet for coffee or lunch. Or vice versa he call her and say hey I saw that you're back....

    • @LeratoM33711
      @LeratoM33711 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think she wanted to be chased

  • @cynthiapetty520
    @cynthiapetty520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    They look cute together.

  • @markadamson2102
    @markadamson2102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a good looking couple wishing you all the best

  • @sjsj4976
    @sjsj4976 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    His smile makes me smile, wow so beautiful 😍💕

  • @truthspeaker1102
    @truthspeaker1102 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I always tell the men I date healthy honest respectful conversation is very very very important in any connection or relationship.

  • @starsigngirl9789
    @starsigngirl9789 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They are both so lovely xx

  • @lalaland5332
    @lalaland5332 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They miss each other!!

  • @kissymonero9581
    @kissymonero9581 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Cute couple..... Just keep the conversation going.

  • @pinkyz6042
    @pinkyz6042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s the guy from the Shia // Sunni short film lol

  • @DONPTV
    @DONPTV 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    rated this, wish these 2 the best whatever happens.

  • @mommysina
    @mommysina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YAY! They are so cute! I hope things work out for them. :)

  • @marcelineleee
    @marcelineleee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What I kearned fron the movie what wonen want is that.. if you want someone to know what you want then tell them.

  • @laytalksabout
    @laytalksabout 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this mini series 😩❤️ super adorable

  • @christabelyeboah5703
    @christabelyeboah5703 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    They make such a cute couple.

  • @moodymargaret2033
    @moodymargaret2033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    They’re soo cuteeee🥺

  • @lewiswilkgaming4320
    @lewiswilkgaming4320 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    BRING IT BACK TO TV

  • @Speckz-11
    @Speckz-11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mim shaik looks like me and my uncle ffs
    I think I found my uncles long lost twin on BBC

  • @aminkhan1292
    @aminkhan1292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The Black Emilia Clarke

    • @queenvee9729
      @queenvee9729 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No wonder she looked familiar

  • @bef3442
    @bef3442 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They're so adorable ❤

  • @WAKINUPwithDee
    @WAKINUPwithDee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does the full episode feature just one couple?

  • @Notifysender90
    @Notifysender90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    They make a beautiful couple

  • @Warhawk_
    @Warhawk_ 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She's a keeper dude.. don't waste it.

    • @AAMM101
      @AAMM101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Is she a keeper though lol. She just left back then, and got mad why did he let her leave, but also said she'd have been mad back then if he tried to stop her from leaving.

    • @lasupremapersonal615
      @lasupremapersonal615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AAMM101 she is. She felt he didn’t care

  • @moyoutube4473
    @moyoutube4473 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hope it works out for them ... let go of the male pride geezer 🤩

  • @dharmascool2009
    @dharmascool2009 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    She is like the black Billy Piper. Hella cute. I hope they make it work. Maybe he should to therapy so it can help him open up more and on a regular basis.

  • @dadiazz1447
    @dadiazz1447 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This guy accent 🥰

    • @starj5114
      @starj5114 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We don’t have accents in London.

    • @Bayo106
      @Bayo106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@starj5114 this has to be the dumbest sentence of all time. Everybody that speaks has an accent

  • @MissLinCee
    @MissLinCee 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Mim, said do you want to go get a drink we all know what that meant especially with the look he gave!

  • @kaizen3039
    @kaizen3039 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It seems to me that mim shut down emotionally. It may be the way she delivered the news of the trip, how much compassion she had for his feelings has a lot to do with the trip he took to his man's cave.
    Seeing the reaction he had, she became confused and emotionally shut down as well.
    There was a complete breakdown of communication, he felt hurt and no longer looked for a way to reinitiate communication with her, she also felt hurt and did not try to communicate with him either.
    It would be interesting to know which of the two initiated the reunion.

  • @Worldculture7371
    @Worldculture7371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are so cute!!!

  • @farzaslasher422
    @farzaslasher422 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Mim is an amazing guy!!! Any girl would be lucky with this guy

  • @canadadry9693
    @canadadry9693 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My 1st glance at the title I saw “Eating My Ex!”😲

  • @claireosborne692
    @claireosborne692 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just goes to show you need to speak your truth and communicate what you really feel ❤️ x x

  • @keziahmwende9528
    @keziahmwende9528 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Go for what you want life is too short man pride😔😏

  • @CK-ho9lp
    @CK-ho9lp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So adorable 🥰

  • @michelesposito83
    @michelesposito83 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    they are so cute :D

  • @caliden3785
    @caliden3785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    wait she wanted to travel but expecting him to beg her to stay...sounds like manipulation to me....these young kids crack me up...sexual tension does not make a relationship...

    • @LauraBidingCitizen
      @LauraBidingCitizen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      How on earth did you get to that conclusion from this video?! That’s so far from what was being discussed it’s hilarious!
      There is NOTHING wrong with either party in a relationship wanting to be desired or wanted. He clearly came across as disinterested when she told him she was going away to travel, & showed no interest in wanting to continue long distance despite the fact he’d have loved to do exactly that. All she wanted was for him to express how he was feeling. It was a complete breakdown in communication. How on Earth you got to the conclusion she was manipulating him .. I don’t know!

    • @caliden3785
      @caliden3785 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LauraBidingCitizen We all have a right to our opinion....do you know them personally? That's what I took from thier conversation....have a blessed day 😉

    • @jewsaregenocidalhores
      @jewsaregenocidalhores 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LauraBidingCitizen youre right.

    • @LauraBidingCitizen
      @LauraBidingCitizen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@caliden3785 You edited & still can’t spell *their* - how embarrassing. If you’re going to state your ‘opinion’, it’s probably best to back it up with something a bit factual, you pulled that crap out of thin air 🤣 As for stating ‘these young kids’ - you sound younger than they are! Hilarious!

    • @caliden3785
      @caliden3785 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LauraBidingCitizen This is what you get heated about? GET OUT MORE English isn't my first language...I speak more then one unlike you I'm sure.

  • @beatriscabral5770
    @beatriscabral5770 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so cute❤

  • @gabbync6788
    @gabbync6788 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    she's soooo pretty

  • @-M0LE
    @-M0LE 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    04:25 that’s was awesome

  • @yolalola9029
    @yolalola9029 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They are a beautiful couple

  • @yasso2031
    @yasso2031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    she's so pretty Wtf

  • @kendradrakes2947
    @kendradrakes2947 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love this couple.

  • @toyarj37
    @toyarj37 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Anybody know his ethnicity? Gorgeous

  • @IronicIrony.
    @IronicIrony. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    “Celeb”

  • @aquastar5314
    @aquastar5314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They better stop n go ahead annndddd they did. So cute!!

  • @SoDarlyng
    @SoDarlyng 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't know... the fact that he didn't get up until he got what he wanted says so much... Communication means nothing without comprehension... But the actions taken mean so much more. He could have reached out before, it's all for show, he doesn't seem very genuine IMO