It was 100% mean girl behavior. The way she tried to come for your appearance when the topic was mental health? It says a lot about her. A lot of conventionally attractive girls turn their nose up at people they don’t see on their level & get a ego boost from degrading other girls
Totally, I agree that it was unnecessary on Sofia's part to dig at somebody's appearance. That being said, I've been both conventionally attractive and not (weight gain, depression), and while society does treat you better if you're good looking, I've been bullied by "unattractive" girls the most. This isn't everyone's experience, but not every attractive girl is out to degrade or belittle others because of looks. I really think it boils down to the circumstances and people's character themselves
@@Bene_Gesseritim sorry but we all have a chance to grow and you just seem mad that people want to allow her to grow and not belittle her and attack her for everything. trisha is far different now its clear you are blind to her growth. this saddens me because you probably dont allow yourself to grow either.
As a fellow BPD girlie, I’m SO GLAD trisha said what she said. I’m so sick of people glamourizing mental health issues like it’s ‘quirky’ to have them. It is OK to embrace it, but don’t let it become toxic positivity. like- please live in the real world. It adds to the stigma! Its not fun when people are joking about their mental illnesses and you feel like you’re a nutcase bc you don’t have a good grip on it! My mental illness is crushing weight on my shoulders everyday. It is OK to joke about it, of course, BUT LIVE IN THE REAL WORLD! NOT EVERYONE HAS THE SAME ILLNESS OR EXPERIENCE. No matter what, it’s not smart to talk in absolutes when it comes to mental health imo
Trish I don’t think you have to apologize to Sophia she obviously didn’t see the full TikTok and for her to go after somebody’s looks is just the most unintelligent thing to do. It’s just disgusting and mean girl behavior.
@@Bene_Gesseritseriously, talk to someone IRL about how obsessed you are with Trisha maybe. You’re under everyone’s comments, obsessing over Trisha. It’s not healthy, or normal, or good for you. Maybe you could find a way to spend your time that would bring you joy instead of having a weird hateful parasocial relationship and fighting with strangers ❤
@@Bene_Gesseritgood for you. Your probably one of those teenagers that thinks they will always be the same and their opinions are never going to change. I used to be one of those too😂 you'll see someday how wrong you are
She’s apologizing for the way she made her feel not for her values. Trisha has always been empathetic and it’s always attracted compassion back into her life
Do you know what part of the video she talks about this? I already watched the whole video and missed it somehow (was distracted a few times while watching)😢
Sofia was such a mean girl INSULTING trish like that. There was validity in her point that went entirely out the window when she said what she said. I was disgusted by it
@@Bene_Gesseritthe difference is that she grew and learned from her mistakes. she's not the same person as she was before and that's what important. that sofia girl is in her 30s, imagine still having that mindset about other women in that big age
@@Bene_Gesserityea and she’s apologized and has clearly grown as a person, and whatever trish in the past does not warrant sofia being a mean ass girl, get help
Broke me when her voice started cracking when talking about her fear for Malibu getting any of her mental illness traits. Trust me Trish you’ll be the best roll model for her she will be such a great girl!
@@Bene_Gesserit Considering the initial comment is talking about the mental illness piece and you're bringing up Trisha's past controversies... very big leap. Sure the child COULD get bullied due to Trisha's mistakes but I do not want any child to experience anything bad because of their parents. And it IS very weird you putting that out there so boldly. Yes, trisha did bad things. No, I do not want her child to experience anything harmful. Chill out galpal
@@Bene_Gesserit it sounds like it's you who is going to be the one harassing trisha's baby. you're already harassing her & everyone who supports trish in her comments. seek professional help lady
@@Bene_Gesseritnobody said she was a victim? Malibu may see Trish’s past one day and also see how much her mother has changed for the better which only teaches the lesson that you can learn from their mistakes. That’s a valuable lesson that she is unintentionally teaching.
1:35:50 I think you did a beautiful job standing up for us who SUFFER from mental illness and can’t keep jobs because of it. THANK YOU FOR THIS. Sofia is tone def.
I love trisha hot topics because she will mention and discuss EVERY SINGLE piece of media i see throughout the week. EVERY TWEET. EVERY TIKTOK. EVERY CELEBRITY PIC. EVERY RUMOR. Truly a hot take queen
@@dazzelingdirtybshe literally said in this episode that she felt bad and that she was just angered in the moment and needed ppl to open her mind. She had apologized multiple times and stated that the age thing was out of pocket and unnecessary and saw them as “old and bitter” and realized that wasn’t the truth. So ur point isn’t valid because it’s okay to make mistakes and apologize but to make mistakes and not take accountability is not okay.
It really warms my heart anytime Trisha says this is her social hour, her social time with friends because I work from home and it really makes me feel the same way. Listening to the podcasts throughout the week makes me feel like I’m surrounded my my girlfriends, gossiping, joking, having a great time- all while I’m home alone❤️❤️❤️ JustTrish podcast really helps my mental health❤️ I love you, I always have. Thank you Trisha 😭🫶🏼❤️
Im not trying to be mean but these comments always make me feel bad. I hope your able to get some real life friends someday. No influencer on the internet is going to be able to fill that void. Good luck even getting a response from them.
@@lc4life369 I agree, no influencer is your friend but they said the podcast makes them feel like they’re surrounded by their girlfriends so I’d like to assume it’s a temporary void to be filled 😊
mental illnesses are TOUGHHHH. Watching out for my loved one in the depths of his bipolar disorder is hard. The death rate is terrifying. Chasing him down and keeping him safe during episodes is my trauma, I can’t imagine his own trauma dealing with it. So WHY Sofia wanted to act surprised that mental illness isn’t cute and quirky is beyond me
Soooooo embarrassed for Sofia Franklyn..she's a nasty nasty girl.. Trish is beautiful both inside and outside and has come so far!!! We love you Trish!!!! Keep being you!!!!!
The way Trish talks about mental health is so real. I hate people that make light of mental health issues, knowing it kills people every single day. why would you do anything antagonize someone that’s visibly struggling
@@justtrishpodcast I love you Trish!!! You're absolutely right, we've all said our fair share of nasty words unfortunately... I love how forgiving you are and honestly hope to see you two on an episode together in the future
hearing trisha’s response to what sofia said especially with how quick sofia was to jump to insults really shows how trisha has matured TREMENDOUSLY! trisha used to get so triggered the second someone said anything close to rude and always jumped to the defense. you can truly see how much she has healed and is still healing and how mature she has become. her having malibu was the best wake up call she could’ve ever had. and as an on again off again trisha can, i’m so proud of her right now❤️
People often seem to think they can get away with treating Trisha badly, like they think they'll be cheered on for doing it just because she has a lot of people who don't like her.
The fact that Trisha is concerned about how her daughter will be affected by her mental illnesses and her behavior already goes to show that she is so emotionally intelligent and is going to give her daughter all the support she needs.
I totally feel you trish, I can never be one of those people who “loves” my mental illness because i hate it, i wish i could just be “normal” and not have to deal with this. Especially rn i’ve been going through a really hard time but this podcast helps me a lot and I’m so glad that you talk about it openly. It was SO uncalled for that she said something about your appearance!!
Trisha, you don't have to ALWAYS apologize, cause this time you didn't do anything wrong. I watched that ep of Sofía's podcast, and i was like "wtf" when I got to the "i love my mental illness, it makes me me". I see what you meant, you were nice about it and yoi actually got a point. Mental illness is serious! and mental illness doesn't "make me who i am", i am who im despite of my mental illness and the struggle is real. People unalive themselves because of mental health issues. And even if you girls have a different opinion, cause it's totally fine to think differently, the way that she went about it was DISGUSTING! and the bullying is such a mean girl behavior. I lost so mucy respect for Sofia after that. And I love how you handled everything, extremely mature, i see so much growth from you and that makes me happy. Also, your hair is fine! I actually like how you always show yourself without filters and make up cause that's how most of us look on an every day basis. You rock your natural hair and you also look fabulous with your glam. Both of those versions are beautiful!❤️💖💖
She has always been bad vibes to me. I can hardly sit through anything she’s in if I’m being honest. She might be a great person off camera or whatever idk but her content is not for me at all
Can we not give Sofia and easy out by saying she dedicated didn’t watch Trisha’s entire video? I feel like she did watch and still chose to insult her!
@@alopez9907tbh I get annoyed at being assumed Mexican only bc it comes off as ignorant. I don’t like Sofia but I can relate with the annoyance because there is so much more knowledge to be had about other Latin/Hispanic communities
Honestly, when I saw them boasting about their mental illness it rubbed me the wrong way. To love something about yourself is great, but to love something that truly takes peoples' lives is a weird thing to say. Like I'm glad they can embrace their own, but the WAY they said it was pretty gross.
My honest opinion is that they hopped on the trend of "mental illness is quirky" and thats why they can speak about it in that way. No person that actually has these problems takes them that lightly, like yes you can make jokes and make it lighthearted but the way they did it it just comes off as "haha anxiety is so quirky, BPD lmao 🤪🤪🤪"
Exactly 😭 like not to play oppression Olympics but it's hard to love your mental illness when it ruins all your relationships and makes you unable to work to afford therapy lol @@jangminoona
Trisha has gotten sober she's cut off toxic people, shes gotten properly diagnosed. she's now a mother and married to someone who has unconditional love for her. Her priorities have completely shifted. Her worth does not come from her being conventionally attractive. So disappointing to see a fellow woman endorcing this standard on someone who is freaking 35 years old. Its a shame that its still something being used as a "gotcha moment" towards women far past high school. Society will always care what a woman looks like more than it cares about who they are. Like Trisha said theres so many other reasons they could come for her for, her looks are not one of them.
@@a_grayce Trisha said not to send hate not that it didn't effect her. It's not about the person that said it, but the principle of what she said. It's much larger than just her vs Trisha. It's the patriarchy and it's gross that another woman is reducing a woman to her looks. Especially since Trisha didn't even come for her in the first place. It was very telling of her character and values at the least.
I work in a company that designs Halloween costumes. The retailers usually give us a theme or inspiration and we present different costume options. The buyers for the store choose what they think would be a hot costume for the season. Pilot was more popular 2 years ago. We used to do costumes for Spirit sometimes. Always fun to watch you dress up. Again Trisha, if you need a personal pattern maker (person who can be the architect for designs, technical aspects, fit etc).. hit me up girl 😅
moses having her picture in his “office” is everything!!! and the way they clip to him watching her talk and he’s smiling so big. i’m obsessed with them together.
i’m 20 years old and have agoraphobia, i’m teetering in between panic attacks CONSTANTLY and i haven’t been able to work and don’t think i’ll ever be able to be a mom because of it. i fucking HAAAAATE being sick 24/7, i hate missing out on my early 20s. nothing trisha said was uncalled for and its crazy the things sofia said in response. you’re a big inspiration to me trish. you don’t glamorize mental illness, you let yourself get “ugly” (aka just being real) and i think that’s so important. yes it is important to normalize mental health, yes it is good that all these beautiful women aren’t ashamed of their battles, but no one has shown it and shown growth from it like you and i just think its truly remarkable. you are a gorgeous and authentic voice for the true struggles of mental health
Oh Trish hearing you get emotional about Malibu having your traits. She’ll have your empathy, your compassion yoir humour and your wit. She’ll deffo get more of the positive traits and with great parents with you and Moses. She’ll love a fruitful and happy life regardless of any mental health struggles. You’ve got this ❤❤❤❤
I've been watching Trisha since she first started yeaaaaaaaars ago, and out of every TH-camr, I've never hated or went through a period of not watching Trisha. Even during all the craziness and scandals, I just couldn't do it to her. Something about Trisha that will always have my support.
eh, it seems a bit odd to criticise some british people for using lazy american stereotypes, then go on to make so many generalisations about british people and culture. i'm british and i also hate when people make 'americans are dumb and fat lol' jokes. most of us are just ordinary people, we're not piers morgan or the contestants she encountered on big brother. a lot of us don't even have the stereotypical 'british accent' (i have a regional northern accent, i sound nothing like that); even with the stereotypical 'british accent', though, how can you rightly recognise the issues with the way emily blunt portrayed the waitress' accent, then go on to say the 'british accent' sounds presumptuous? it's just the accent someone has if they've grown up in a particular area/around people with that accent. the same applies to 'people need to stop criticising american food portions' but then 'british food is boring and bad'. our food is just our food; if it's not your cup of tea, that's fine, a lot of us like it, but it's not as if there isn't a massive selection of authentic foods associated with other cultures here, too. i'm a really fussy eater, too, so i get it, but as if trisha is trying to blame british food on why there wasn't much variety in her diet during big brother. there are so many videos of her eating plain pasta or nuggets without sauce, i would've thought the simplicity of many british dishes would be perfect for her. 😭 idk, i just wish people were more consistent with this stuff. things can be stressful and rubbish a lot of the time, let's just be nicer to each other.
@@elizacrepes I'm from NZ so were more similar to the UK than USA, thought her coming for the food saying 'the eggs are orange' got me so good as theyre orange because the chickens are healthy, in livable conditions and get fed properly lol. American eggs are yellow becuase theyre malnutritious and pumped full of fattening chemical instead smh 💀😭
sofia commenting on your hair is so awful, when she had straighten dead hair with extensions and ads product on for her interviews. you’re beautiful trisha
Trisha, please ignore Sofia and her ignorance!!! You are doing great and trying to control your mental illness as best as you can. I have ADHD and I make fun of myself for it. But, it’s aggravating and makes me cry, often. I feel ya! The best thing you can do is follow your Drs orders and not stop trying to control it. You got this, Momma. You are gorgeous!!!
this podcast truly is not just entertaining but healing , feels so validating hearing trisha being so open and vulnerable with us ❤️ definitely feels like im just having a conversation with a friend
Thank you so much for talking about how debilitating mental illness can be. So many people don’t realize that even two people with the same mental illness can function completely differently.
The fear of passing down your mental illness or neurodivergence to your children is such a real feeling. There is such a real feeling of guilt , fear or protection you want to have. It’s one of the main reasons I personally decided not to have children. Hearing the hurt and fear in her voice while expressing this broke my heart. I think it’s so important how honest Trisha is with her thoughts and feelings when it comes to mental illness. The glamorization of it has caused harm in a lot of way. I really appreciated her stitch because the original video wasn’t fun to see, I understanding joking to cope with things but it has the potential of minimizing. Also as someone who grew up with dry, unruly curly hair… whose hair usually looks like Trisha’s did in the video, I feel you. Sending love
I love Trish so much. You are honestly the sweetest influencer my favorite TH-camr/Influencer rn. I love how much ur husband loves you, u deserve the world ❤❤
when i saw what sofia said my jaw fully dropped. that was one of the lowest takes she could have had. and trish was SO right for her take and i felt so seen with what she said in her tiktok stitch. i’m glad mental health is becoming more talked about and recognized but tbh i feel like people with real and debilitating mental health issues absolutely hate it and 100% would get rid of it if they could. i have my own mental health struggles and i can promise you if someone offered me a million $ or lose my mental health problems i’d 100% be getting rid of this sh*t. sofia really just showed how much of a mean girl she is like i truly will never understand anyone who comes for someone looks. it’s like okay you really have nothing good to say and you have to be so immature and insecure to use looks against others. trish you’re take was so helpful and we all see sofia as completely in the wrong. thank you for speaking on it ❤
Aww watching Trish cry always makes me tear up a little. ❤ it’s just shows how we all need to be more careful with things we say. Even a small thing can affect someone and stay with them forever.
just because you can "understand" why someone would not like you or make fun of you does not mean it is deserved. love you Trish. You inspire me everyday!
you were NOT wrong about the sofia thing. i saw many people addressing her bad take even before you made your tiktok. i also hate that i have to live with my mental illness forever and i think 99.9% of people with SERIOUS mental illness feel the same way. it’s not easy or fun at all
@@yonce2347the point people were making wasn’t about her specifically but romanticizing mental health issues in general. it’s an important conversation to have and no one was dismissing sofias personal experience. people should be open to feedback on something as sensitive as mh
We are so proud of how far you’ve come. Please don’t let this girl tarnish your progress and make you feel less of yourself. I thought your video came from a place of love and gave another perspective based on experiences that you’ve had. Thanks for another amazing episode ❤️
Your response to them saying they love their mental illness is 100000% VALID. As someone who struggle’s majorly (like so bad daily), it was alarming to hear them say that. Everyone has their own stuff and feeling… but there’s never been a moment in my life I’ve LOVED being sick. It has ruined my life and I most definitely do not love my mental illness.
TRISH- as someone who also strait up STRUGGGLES with a bipolar/anger isssues- you were SOOOO in the right to point out that mental health isnt something everyone has to love or should strive to “love”. Im not happy i have it - it brings me NO JOY-my disorder only causes harm to the people around me and it brings me so much sadness in my life. It’s not something I’m ever gonna love. And I don’t need someone else telling me that I should be trying to LOVE IT. Hearing TRISH who struggles just as much as me say it’s OK to not love it and hearing you say you don’t want your mental health disorder- THAT SPOKE TO ME. THAT MEANT A LOTTTT. I’ve never heard someone with such a big platform say that so genuinely. Because I relate to that so hard .
The way Trisha can be so understanding of how Sofia could have felt and be so kind is AMAZING. I would be so upset if another adult said that about me…
Okay trisha, this has by far been my favorite episode yet. Your post partum talk and worrying about your mental illness passing to your daughter hit a chord in me. I just had a baby girl last month, and struggle similarly. You truly are an inspiration, and so incredibly resilient.
I’m so thankful for Trish! I have BPD! I’m a mama of two little boys and I am so thankful that you talked about your spirals. Because I go through that, and I see all these people online seem like “they manage” their mental illness SO WELL! And I struggle with mine, and hate my mental illness too ❤️💟 thank you for being so real and vulnerable. It’s the most beautiful thing I’ve seen online in awhile. I’ve never related more, and the spirals get better, after the rain, the sun always comes out again ❤️ Love you!
Trish. Look how much you’ve grown. I’m a 30 year old woman, I have BPD and I know those powerful emotions you feel. It’s so incredibly hard. Im so proud of you. 💕
Your hair is beautiful, Trish. You have helped so many of us find our confidence. You were not in the wrong at all, this was all on her. Thank you for being so vulnerable. Please don't ever stop being you.
trisha you do not need to apologize to sofia, i appreciate your stitch so much you were so kind, respectful and understanding of both sides and i just feel so seen by you, i’m so sorry she came for you like that, i hope she can apologize.
I love how much everyone genuinely cares for this podcast like oscar making the emojis and moses' office decor, the little touches do not go unappreciated!
Could’ve gone my whole life without knowing who Sofia was 🙃ugh. Trisha you handled that so well. What a trashy low blow that girl took.. I’m so sorry it upset you because it doesn’t mean a thing just reflects on her own issues.
Trish’s talk about how her BPD has been spiraling resonated with me down to the little detail of not being checked on quick enough. I’m so relieved to have representation especially about the bad days. Thank you trish for helping me feel less alone in this.
Trisha i think you need to give yourself a lot more credit because the majority of people would not be able to handle the public attention you deal with along with the scrutiny that comes with it and you’ve been in the game for a long time…..and have totally reinvented yourself! Being an influencer is a weird thing and I can’t imagine how hard that is on your mental health but i think you’re doing amazing by talking it out. I love seeing your growth regardless ❤
Trisha and Oscar you are so spot on talking about mental illness and the interaction w Sofia. Trish, I have BPD as well and it is so painful, it has brought me to the lowest lows and almost killed me several times. I know you can relate and I just want you to know that you are not alone. You inspire me how you have been able to have a beautiful marriage and a child ❤❤❤
That’s the kind of entertaining “drama” I was looking for… not the ones where you end up bitter and scarred for life about some crime a TH-camr committed without punishment! (Colleen, James Charles, Sssniperwolf, 8 passengers..). Keep going Trisha! ❤😂
There was absolutely nothing wrong with your tiktok stitch, it was super clear that you were just adding your own personal experience with mental illness. No part of what you said came across as disrespectful or an attack on sofia. The way she responded so abrasively and defensively was so uncalled for.
If I took a shot🥃 everytime Oscar ran his fingers through his glorious Gandalf/Dumbledore🧙♂️ wig, I would be Tana Mongeau level blackout drunk in 15 minutes.🥴💫🤣
I’m gonna post this until it happens. Please get Madison Beer on the pod. She’s super sweet, always hated for no reason and has BPD too. I’d loveeee to her on the show!❤❤❤❤❤
Always so excited for Just Trish Tuesdays. 💖 it’s rainy out and I’m spending my day off kinda sick but relaxing in bed with my doggie! Thanks for keeping me company !
It was 100% mean girl behavior. The way she tried to come for your appearance when the topic was mental health? It says a lot about her. A lot of conventionally attractive girls turn their nose up at people they don’t see on their level & get a ego boost from degrading other girls
well said
Totally, I agree that it was unnecessary on Sofia's part to dig at somebody's appearance. That being said, I've been both conventionally attractive and not (weight gain, depression), and while society does treat you better if you're good looking, I've been bullied by "unattractive" girls the most. This isn't everyone's experience, but not every attractive girl is out to degrade or belittle others because of looks. I really think it boils down to the circumstances and people's character themselves
@@Bene_Gesseritthen why are you here giving her views
@@Bene_Gesseritif we didn’t like your comment the first time you didn’t have to copy it in multiple times. Just don’t watch her content ❤
@@Bene_Gesseritim sorry but we all have a chance to grow and you just seem mad that people want to allow her to grow and not belittle her and attack her for everything. trisha is far different now its clear you are blind to her growth. this saddens me because you probably dont allow yourself to grow either.
If Jeff sees Sofia in Starbucks, he better walk straight out! 😡
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jeff is like in love w sofia
@@kellyb7171I got the vibe she was in love with him on their podcast together and Jeff seemed slightly interested 😭
As a fellow BPD girlie, I’m SO GLAD trisha said what she said. I’m so sick of people glamourizing mental health issues like it’s ‘quirky’ to have them. It is OK to embrace it, but don’t let it become toxic positivity. like- please live in the real world. It adds to the stigma! Its not fun when people are joking about their mental illnesses and you feel like you’re a nutcase bc you don’t have a good grip on it! My mental illness is crushing weight on my shoulders everyday. It is OK to joke about it, of course, BUT LIVE IN THE REAL WORLD! NOT EVERYONE HAS THE SAME ILLNESS OR EXPERIENCE. No matter what, it’s not smart to talk in absolutes when it comes to mental health imo
@@Bene_Gesserit you have been under every comment shitting on trisha LMAO give up admit you’re a fan!!!
Well said
For sure ❤I feel like people want to have an issue.
@@Bene_Gesserit wow that’s really shitty
@@Bene_Gesserit No one ever said that lmao
Moses having a signed picture of Trish in his "office" 😭😭😭 this is everything she's ever deserved 🩷😍
You have a time stamp by any chance?
Oh my good him saying "its my office" 😭😂 so funny
@@lc4life369 19:16
I want someone like him ❤😢
@@lc4life369 19:19
“My little office…I even have a signed photograph of my wife just in case I’m sitting sideways so I can always see her” 🥹🥹🥹 IM CRYING
Omg I got an official like😭 love you guys sm
Being so serious and heartfelt and then cutting to Oscar and the sideways beard was PERFECT
💯😂
it's the little hair tuck though BHAAHAH, for real though, I'm so glad that Trish and Oscar just get each other
I literally was about to comment the same thing 😭😭😭
What’s the time stamp ??? 😂
@@stephanierodriguez7387I feel like there’s a couple moments but I swear I was just reading this comment when it happened lol. 1:48:00
Trish I don’t think you have to apologize to Sophia she obviously didn’t see the full TikTok and for her to go after somebody’s looks is just the most unintelligent thing to do. It’s just disgusting and mean girl behavior.
@@Bene_Gesseritseriously, talk to someone IRL about how obsessed you are with Trisha maybe. You’re under everyone’s comments, obsessing over Trisha. It’s not healthy, or normal, or good for you. Maybe you could find a way to spend your time that would bring you joy instead of having a weird hateful parasocial relationship and fighting with strangers ❤
@@Bene_Gesseritgood for you. Your probably one of those teenagers that thinks they will always be the same and their opinions are never going to change. I used to be one of those too😂 you'll see someday how wrong you are
She’s apologizing for the way she made her feel not for her values. Trisha has always been empathetic and it’s always attracted compassion back into her life
@@victoriaboboriaguess they deleted their comment😂
Do you know what part of the video she talks about this? I already watched the whole video and missed it somehow (was distracted a few times while watching)😢
Sofia was such a mean girl INSULTING trish like that. There was validity in her point that went entirely out the window when she said what she said. I was disgusted by it
@@Bene_Gesseritthe difference is that she grew and learned from her mistakes. she's not the same person as she was before and that's what important. that sofia girl is in her 30s, imagine still having that mindset about other women in that big age
Sofia is a 60M loser 😅😂 ( she’s angry)
@@Bene_Gesserittwo wrongs don’t make a right 🤨 sofia crossed a line! i cant imagine being so closed-minded. get well soon.
@@Bene_Gesserityea and she’s apologized and has clearly grown as a person, and whatever trish in the past does not warrant sofia being a mean ass girl, get help
That’s why Sofia doesn’t have 60 million dollars and Alex does
Broke me when her voice started cracking when talking about her fear for Malibu getting any of her mental illness traits. Trust me Trish you’ll be the best roll model for her she will be such a great girl!
@@Bene_Gesseritno this a nasty comment. Don’t wish things on innocent children.
“bye” yet you keep commenting lmaooo it’s actually crazy how pressed you are🤣💀
@@Bene_Gesserit Considering the initial comment is talking about the mental illness piece and you're bringing up Trisha's past controversies... very big leap. Sure the child COULD get bullied due to Trisha's mistakes but I do not want any child to experience anything bad because of their parents. And it IS very weird you putting that out there so boldly. Yes, trisha did bad things. No, I do not want her child to experience anything harmful. Chill out galpal
@@Bene_Gesserit it sounds like it's you who is going to be the one harassing trisha's baby. you're already harassing her & everyone who supports trish in her comments. seek professional help lady
@@Bene_Gesseritnobody said she was a victim? Malibu may see Trish’s past one day and also see how much her mother has changed for the better which only teaches the lesson that you can learn from their mistakes. That’s a valuable lesson that she is unintentionally teaching.
Sofia is a mean girl. I had no idea. I can’t watch her anymore. Huuuuge character flaw.
She has no depth. Might as well
Bleach her hair and act like a bimbo
1:35:50 I think you did a beautiful job standing up for us who SUFFER from mental illness and can’t keep jobs because of it. THANK YOU FOR THIS. Sofia is tone def.
No Trish you are being too nice, Sofia was indeed being a mean girl. Why would anyone ever go for how someone looks.
I love trisha hot topics because she will mention and discuss EVERY SINGLE piece of media i see throughout the week. EVERY TWEET. EVERY TIKTOK. EVERY CELEBRITY PIC. EVERY RUMOR. Truly a hot take queen
Trisha , your words were so wise, mature , eloquent and positive . Bravo 🙌🏼
the fact that sofia is literally 31 (only a couple years younger than trish). she’s not a young girl that doesn’t know better.
@@dazzelingdirtybstop lying
@@dazzelingdirtybwhich episode? Time stamp? I don’t remember that… sounds like you won’t villianize anyone but Trisha😔
Age isn’t the same as maturity. Some people take a while to catch up.
@@dazzelingdirtybare you talking about we’ve had it 😂 i promise those women are not taking trish not liking their podcast personally lol
@@dazzelingdirtybshe literally said in this episode that she felt bad and that she was just angered in the moment and needed ppl to open her mind. She had apologized multiple times and stated that the age thing was out of pocket and unnecessary and saw them as “old and bitter” and realized that wasn’t the truth. So ur point isn’t valid because it’s okay to make mistakes and apologize but to make mistakes and not take accountability is not okay.
Oscar being a Monster High girlie is another reason to love him
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@@justtrishpodcastlmaoo
oscar flipping his hair while talking about what kind of person bad bunny should be with is giving me life
The way Moses always looks so proud of Trish makes me so happy for her 🥺❤
It really warms my heart anytime Trisha says this is her social hour, her social time with friends because I work from home and it really makes me feel the same way. Listening to the podcasts throughout the week makes me feel like I’m surrounded my my girlfriends, gossiping, joking, having a great time- all while I’m home alone❤️❤️❤️ JustTrish podcast really helps my mental health❤️ I love you, I always have. Thank you Trisha 😭🫶🏼❤️
Same girl, same!
Me too!!!
Im not trying to be mean but these comments always make me feel bad. I hope your able to get some real life friends someday. No influencer on the internet is going to be able to fill that void. Good luck even getting a response from them.
Yess!!!
@@lc4life369 I agree, no influencer is your friend but they said the podcast makes them feel like they’re surrounded by their girlfriends so I’d like to assume it’s a temporary void to be filled 😊
mental illnesses are TOUGHHHH. Watching out for my loved one in the depths of his bipolar disorder is hard. The death rate is terrifying. Chasing him down and keeping him safe during episodes is my trauma, I can’t imagine his own trauma dealing with it.
So WHY Sofia wanted to act surprised that mental illness isn’t cute and quirky is beyond me
It’s because she’s using it as a personality trait, and an excuse to sporadic behavior instead of an actual clinical diagnosis.
Soooooo embarrassed for Sofia Franklyn..she's a nasty nasty girl.. Trish is beautiful both inside and outside and has come so far!!! We love you Trish!!!! Keep being you!!!!!
I'm absolutely crying at "she's a nasty nasty girl.." you're totally right though
The way Trish talks about mental health is so real. I hate people that make light of mental health issues, knowing it kills people every single day. why would you do anything antagonize someone that’s visibly struggling
Nooo hate to Sofia at all though!!!! Feelings were hurt but we all have bad takes sometimes!! 💖
@@justtrishpodcast I love you Trish!!! You're absolutely right, we've all said our fair share of nasty words unfortunately... I love how forgiving you are and honestly hope to see you two on an episode together in the future
@@justtrishpodcast oooo this growth is impeccable Trisha is so mature and others should take notes
Y’all, please go through the Halloween house and film it!! I think seeing Trish walk through a haunted house would be hilarious
omggg yesss
Everyone like this comment right now!!!!!
bro don’t even play with me this would be so freakin funny. my heart actually hurts at the idea of not being able to watch this now
YESSSS
hearing trisha’s response to what sofia said especially with how quick sofia was to jump to insults really shows how trisha has matured TREMENDOUSLY! trisha used to get so triggered the second someone said anything close to rude and always jumped to the defense. you can truly see how much she has healed and is still healing and how mature she has become. her having malibu was the best wake up call she could’ve ever had. and as an on again off again trisha can, i’m so proud of her right now❤️
btw Trish we all have a past and we all made mistakes... even with your past scandals YOU DESERVE LOVE AND RESPECT!
Sofia really had me in shock bc why would she come at Trish like that 😭🤦🏻♀️
They can’t handle a unproblematic and evolved queen😮💨
no i’m so mad
She wants the drama & views I'm guessing. I hope to god Trish doesn't bring her on jus to address her mean girl, Bratz Doll persona. 🤢
Can someone fill me in
People often seem to think they can get away with treating Trisha badly, like they think they'll be cheered on for doing it just because she has a lot of people who don't like her.
1:33:41 Trish talking about Sofia for all the people requesting a time stamp!
Goated
The fact that Trisha is concerned about how her daughter will be affected by her mental illnesses and her behavior already goes to show that she is so emotionally intelligent and is going to give her daughter all the support she needs.
I totally feel you trish, I can never be one of those people who “loves” my mental illness because i hate it, i wish i could just be “normal” and not have to deal with this. Especially rn i’ve been going through a really hard time but this podcast helps me a lot and I’m so glad that you talk about it openly. It was SO uncalled for that she said something about your appearance!!
Ok but the way Trisha addressed this drama? One of the best character developments in a little while. Good job!
Trisha, you don't have to ALWAYS apologize, cause this time you didn't do anything wrong.
I watched that ep of Sofía's podcast, and i was like "wtf" when I got to the "i love my mental illness, it makes me me".
I see what you meant, you were nice about it and yoi actually got a point.
Mental illness is serious! and mental illness doesn't "make me who i am", i am who im despite of my mental illness and the struggle is real.
People unalive themselves because of mental health issues.
And even if you girls have a different opinion, cause it's totally fine to think differently, the way that she went about it was DISGUSTING! and the bullying is such a mean girl behavior.
I lost so mucy respect for Sofia after that. And I love how you handled everything, extremely mature, i see so much growth from you and that makes me happy.
Also, your hair is fine! I actually like how you always show yourself without filters and make up cause that's how most of us look on an every day basis. You rock your natural hair and you also look fabulous with your glam. Both of those versions are beautiful!❤️💖💖
Team Trish 🪩 Sofia with an F effed up big time
Agreed! I used to like Sofia, I am over the mean girl vibes. That sucks
As per usual. She’s always been a mean girl
Do you know what part of video she talks about it? I already watched once and missed it because of people distracting me😢
@@lc4life3691:33:00
She has always been bad vibes to me. I can hardly sit through anything she’s in if I’m being honest. She might be a great person off camera or whatever idk but her content is not for me at all
This is my comfort podcast. The content the time length the aesthetic the vibes… it’s all there
oscar is lowkey giving dumbledore✨
✨Dumbledore core✨
cam as the wheres waldo wizard on modern family
Not Oscardore 💀
That’s what I thought too
He’s slayyying 🤍🤍🤍
Can we not give Sofia and easy out by saying she dedicated didn’t watch Trisha’s entire video? I feel like she did watch and still chose to insult her!
Can we get Oscar in full glam with wig and all for an episode?? 💅
YESS
they NEED to do a trixie and katya moment pls oscar I know you are reading the comments
That would be really fun :) oscar full glam.
@@alopez9907tbh I get annoyed at being assumed Mexican only bc it comes off as ignorant. I don’t like Sofia but I can relate with the annoyance because there is so much more knowledge to be had about other Latin/Hispanic communities
I’m loved everytime Oscar was feeling his inches of hair, had me screaming
Honestly, when I saw them boasting about their mental illness it rubbed me the wrong way. To love something about yourself is great, but to love something that truly takes peoples' lives is a weird thing to say. Like I'm glad they can embrace their own, but the WAY they said it was pretty gross.
My honest opinion is that they hopped on the trend of "mental illness is quirky" and thats why they can speak about it in that way. No person that actually has these problems takes them that lightly, like yes you can make jokes and make it lighthearted but the way they did it it just comes off as "haha anxiety is so quirky, BPD lmao 🤪🤪🤪"
To me it had pick me vibes and was also privileged cuz she has the money, support and life style to accept and 'love' her mental health issues...
Exactly 😭 like not to play oppression Olympics but it's hard to love your mental illness when it ruins all your relationships and makes you unable to work to afford therapy lol @@jangminoona
Trisha has gotten sober she's cut off toxic people, shes gotten properly diagnosed. she's now a mother and married to someone who has unconditional love for her. Her priorities have completely shifted. Her worth does not come from her being conventionally attractive. So disappointing to see a fellow woman endorcing this standard on someone who is freaking 35 years old. Its a shame that its still something being used as a "gotcha moment" towards women far past high school. Society will always care what a woman looks like more than it cares about who they are. Like Trisha said theres so many other reasons they could come for her for, her looks are not one of them.
Even Trisha says it wasn't a big deal why are you all so butthurt?!
@@a_grayce Trisha said not to send hate not that it didn't effect her. It's not about the person that said it, but the principle of what she said. It's much larger than just her vs Trisha. It's the patriarchy and it's gross that another woman is reducing a woman to her looks. Especially since Trisha didn't even come for her in the first place. It was very telling of her character and values at the least.
I work in a company that designs Halloween costumes. The retailers usually give us a theme or inspiration and we present different costume options. The buyers for the store choose what they think would be a hot costume for the season. Pilot was more popular 2 years ago. We used to do costumes for Spirit sometimes. Always fun to watch you dress up.
Again Trisha, if you need a personal pattern maker (person who can be the architect for designs, technical aspects, fit etc).. hit me up girl 😅
OMG WAAAIIIT this is tea!!!!!
Thank you for being so vulnerable, Trish about your mental health struggles. You’re so courageous and beautiful. Love you so much!❤️
moses having her picture in his “office” is everything!!! and the way they clip to him watching her talk and he’s smiling so big. i’m obsessed with them together.
i’m 20 years old and have agoraphobia, i’m teetering in between panic attacks CONSTANTLY and i haven’t been able to work and don’t think i’ll ever be able to be a mom because of it. i fucking HAAAAATE being sick 24/7, i hate missing out on my early 20s. nothing trisha said was uncalled for and its crazy the things sofia said in response.
you’re a big inspiration to me trish. you don’t glamorize mental illness, you let yourself get “ugly” (aka just being real) and i think that’s so important. yes it is important to normalize mental health, yes it is good that all these beautiful women aren’t ashamed of their battles, but no one has shown it and shown growth from it like you and i just think its truly remarkable. you are a gorgeous and authentic voice for the true struggles of mental health
Oh Trish hearing you get emotional about Malibu having your traits. She’ll have your empathy, your compassion yoir humour and your wit. She’ll deffo get more of the positive traits and with great parents with you and Moses. She’ll love a fruitful and happy life regardless of any mental health struggles. You’ve got this ❤❤❤❤
oscar constantly playing with his hair is everything to me
Like Someone please get her sum hairrr
I've been watching Trisha since she first started yeaaaaaaaars ago, and out of every TH-camr, I've never hated or went through a period of not watching Trisha. Even during all the craziness and scandals, I just couldn't do it to her. Something about Trisha that will always have my support.
i'm a british fan here and trish hating on britain is so funny
Fern! I love your channel. Glad to see you here! 😘
Sames 😂
eh, it seems a bit odd to criticise some british people for using lazy american stereotypes, then go on to make so many generalisations about british people and culture.
i'm british and i also hate when people make 'americans are dumb and fat lol' jokes. most of us are just ordinary people, we're not piers morgan or the contestants she encountered on big brother. a lot of us don't even have the stereotypical 'british accent' (i have a regional northern accent, i sound nothing like that); even with the stereotypical 'british accent', though, how can you rightly recognise the issues with the way emily blunt portrayed the waitress' accent, then go on to say the 'british accent' sounds presumptuous? it's just the accent someone has if they've grown up in a particular area/around people with that accent.
the same applies to 'people need to stop criticising american food portions' but then 'british food is boring and bad'. our food is just our food; if it's not your cup of tea, that's fine, a lot of us like it, but it's not as if there isn't a massive selection of authentic foods associated with other cultures here, too. i'm a really fussy eater, too, so i get it, but as if trisha is trying to blame british food on why there wasn't much variety in her diet during big brother. there are so many videos of her eating plain pasta or nuggets without sauce, i would've thought the simplicity of many british dishes would be perfect for her. 😭
idk, i just wish people were more consistent with this stuff. things can be stressful and rubbish a lot of the time, let's just be nicer to each other.
@@elizacrepes I'm from NZ so were more similar to the UK than USA, thought her coming for the food saying
'the eggs are orange' got me so good as theyre orange because the chickens are healthy, in livable conditions and get fed properly lol. American eggs are yellow becuase theyre malnutritious and pumped full of fattening chemical instead smh 💀😭
How it’s fucken rude Brit’s r more polite and know how to address people than Americans who r dumb and straight forward
Thank you for posting the tiktok. It is important for others to see that not all of us with mental illness love it all the time.
Oscar is such a ride or die friend. We’re here for you Trisha !
Trisha's bangs and Oscar's beard being slanted in the same way is the embodiment of the chaos of this show.
Him stroking the wig and beard is so funny 😹
sofia commenting on your hair is so awful, when she had straighten dead hair with extensions and ads product on for her interviews. you’re beautiful trisha
Trisha, please ignore Sofia and her ignorance!!! You are doing great and trying to control your mental illness as best as you can. I have ADHD and I make fun of myself for it. But, it’s aggravating and makes me cry, often. I feel ya! The best thing you can do is follow your Drs orders and not stop trying to control it. You got this, Momma. You are gorgeous!!!
this podcast truly is not just entertaining but healing , feels so validating hearing trisha being so open and vulnerable with us ❤️ definitely feels like im just having a conversation with a friend
Oscar patting his wig down and stroking his hair the whole time is fucking hilarious 😂😂
Oscars mannerisms in combination with this fit and wig 😂🫶🏽
EVERYTHING
Young Dumbledore coded 😂
I love how Oscar is constantly adjusting the wig like „my Santa fantasy has to sit rightttt“
i hate it tbh
Thank you so much for talking about how debilitating mental illness can be. So many people don’t realize that even two people with the same mental illness can function completely differently.
“I have a scandal this week??? No.”
I love her omg she deserves the internet’s support on this
The fear of passing down your mental illness or neurodivergence to your children is such a real feeling. There is such a real feeling of guilt , fear or protection you want to have. It’s one of the main reasons I personally decided not to have children. Hearing the hurt and fear in her voice while expressing this broke my heart.
I think it’s so important how honest Trisha is with her thoughts and feelings when it comes to mental illness.
The glamorization of it has caused harm in a lot of way. I really appreciated her stitch because the original video wasn’t fun to see, I understanding joking to cope with things but it has the potential of minimizing.
Also as someone who grew up with dry, unruly curly hair… whose hair usually looks like Trisha’s did in the video, I feel you. Sending love
I love Trish so much. You are honestly the sweetest influencer my favorite TH-camr/Influencer rn. I love how much ur husband loves you, u deserve the world ❤❤
You're the best!
when i saw what sofia said my jaw fully dropped. that was one of the lowest takes she could have had. and trish was SO right for her take and i felt so seen with what she said in her tiktok stitch. i’m glad mental health is becoming more talked about and recognized but tbh i feel like people with real and debilitating mental health issues absolutely hate it and 100% would get rid of it if they could. i have my own mental health struggles and i can promise you if someone offered me a million $ or lose my mental health problems i’d 100% be getting rid of this sh*t. sofia really just showed how much of a mean girl she is like i truly will never understand anyone who comes for someone looks. it’s like okay you really have nothing good to say and you have to be so immature and insecure to use looks against others. trish you’re take was so helpful and we all see sofia as completely in the wrong. thank you for speaking on it ❤
Aww watching Trish cry always makes me tear up a little. ❤ it’s just shows how we all need to be more careful with things we say. Even a small thing can affect someone and stay with them forever.
Trisha you are loved. I have been a fan of you for almost 8 years. I watched you grow. All your fans are proud of you.
just because you can "understand" why someone would not like you or make fun of you does not mean it is deserved. love you Trish. You inspire me everyday!
Taking a break from Britney’s memoir to hang out with y’all!!
How is it??? Waiting for amazon to drop it off to me lol
My copy is coming tonight!!❤
Waiting on delivery from Amazon!! How is it?!!
Same!! 🩷🩷🩷
@@ChrissiPukamazing so far. I got the audible version to listen at work!
you were NOT wrong about the sofia thing. i saw many people addressing her bad take even before you made your tiktok. i also hate that i have to live with my mental illness forever and i think 99.9% of people with SERIOUS mental illness feel the same way. it’s not easy or fun at all
How is her own mental illness a bad take?
@@yonce2347the point people were making wasn’t about her specifically but romanticizing mental health issues in general. it’s an important conversation to have and no one was dismissing sofias personal experience. people should be open to feedback on something as sensitive as mh
@@Cecilia-sb3sj I didn’t see her speak in general though.
We are so proud of how far you’ve come. Please don’t let this girl tarnish your progress and make you feel less of yourself. I thought your video came from a place of love and gave another perspective based on experiences that you’ve had. Thanks for another amazing episode ❤️
Your response to them saying they love their mental illness is 100000% VALID. As someone who struggle’s majorly (like so bad daily), it was alarming to hear them say that. Everyone has their own stuff and feeling… but there’s never been a moment in my life I’ve LOVED being sick. It has ruined my life and I most definitely do not love my mental illness.
TRISH- as someone who also strait up STRUGGGLES with a bipolar/anger isssues- you were SOOOO in the right to point out that mental health isnt something everyone has to love or should strive to “love”. Im not happy i have it - it brings me NO JOY-my disorder only causes harm to the people around me and it brings me so much sadness in my life. It’s not something I’m ever gonna love.
And I don’t need someone else telling me that I should be trying to LOVE IT.
Hearing TRISH who struggles just as much as me say it’s OK to not love it and hearing you say you don’t want your mental health disorder- THAT SPOKE TO ME. THAT MEANT A LOTTTT.
I’ve never heard someone with such a big platform say that so genuinely.
Because I relate to that so hard .
Your podcast is the reason I make it through my days. I could listen to Trisha talk all day lmao
This is honestly filling my void for the frenemies podcast. Thank you Trisha!
The way Trisha can be so understanding of how Sofia could have felt and be so kind is AMAZING. I would be so upset if another adult said that about me…
the pink skeleton just sitting there AND with a shaw 😂☠️💓
Sofia has always given me vibes that she tries to act and play smarter than she is - and this just shows it. Team Trish forever❤
I’m obsessed with the costumes! Please keep them coming after Halloween!!
Okay trisha, this has by far been my favorite episode yet. Your post partum talk and worrying about your mental illness passing to your daughter hit a chord in me. I just had a baby girl last month, and struggle similarly. You truly are an inspiration, and so incredibly resilient.
I’m so thankful for Trish! I have BPD! I’m a mama of two little boys and I am so thankful that you talked about your spirals. Because I go through that, and I see all these people online seem like “they manage” their mental illness SO WELL! And I struggle with mine, and hate my mental illness too ❤️💟 thank you for being so real and vulnerable. It’s the most beautiful thing I’ve seen online in awhile. I’ve never related more, and the spirals get better, after the rain, the sun always comes out again ❤️ Love you!
Trish. Look how much you’ve grown. I’m a 30 year old woman, I have BPD and I know those powerful emotions you feel. It’s so incredibly hard. Im so proud of you. 💕
Sofia was wrong for this
Your hair is beautiful, Trish. You have helped so many of us find our confidence. You were not in the wrong at all, this was all on her. Thank you for being so vulnerable. Please don't ever stop being you.
trisha you do not need to apologize to sofia, i appreciate your stitch so much you were so kind, respectful and understanding of both sides and i just feel so seen by you, i’m so sorry she came for you like that, i hope she can apologize.
I love how much everyone genuinely cares for this podcast like oscar making the emojis and moses' office decor, the little touches do not go unappreciated!
no bc sophia listening to sophia talk abt how much she “loves” her mental illness made me wanna kick her 🤭😜
Could’ve gone my whole life without knowing who Sofia was 🙃ugh. Trisha you handled that so well. What a trashy low blow that girl took.. I’m so sorry it upset you because it doesn’t mean a thing just reflects on her own issues.
Was JUST wishing there was a new episode to listen to while I drive rn!! Perfect timing 😌✨
The way the beard is slipping off of Oscar's face has me dying
As a mom with mental health issues this one really hit my heartstrings, Trish!
Trish’s talk about how her BPD has been spiraling resonated with me down to the little detail of not being checked on quick enough. I’m so relieved to have representation especially about the bad days. Thank you trish for helping me feel less alone in this.
i’m so proud of trish and her community she has on here now 💕👏🏻 everyone supporting trish now is so sweet.
Trisha i think you need to give yourself a lot more credit because the majority of people would not be able to handle the public attention you deal with along with the scrutiny that comes with it and you’ve been in the game for a long time…..and have totally reinvented yourself! Being an influencer is a weird thing and I can’t imagine how hard that is on your mental health but i think you’re doing amazing by talking it out. I love seeing your growth regardless ❤
Trisha you are not alone and most of us feel this way about struggling with mental illness. You are brave for sharing and we love you!
Trisha and Oscar you are so spot on talking about mental illness and the interaction w Sofia. Trish, I have BPD as well and it is so painful, it has brought me to the lowest lows and almost killed me several times. I know you can relate and I just want you to know that you are not alone. You inspire me how you have been able to have a beautiful marriage and a child ❤❤❤
That’s the kind of entertaining “drama” I was looking for… not the ones where you end up bitter and scarred for life about some crime a TH-camr committed without punishment! (Colleen,
James Charles, Sssniperwolf, 8 passengers..). Keep going Trisha! ❤😂
Was I wrong to think that Sofia would actually appear on the pod 😂😂
I'm dying laughing Oscar can NOT stop touching his wig lmao
There was absolutely nothing wrong with your tiktok stitch, it was super clear that you were just adding your own personal experience with mental illness. No part of what you said came across as disrespectful or an attack on sofia. The way she responded so abrasively and defensively was so uncalled for.
If I took a shot🥃 everytime Oscar ran his fingers through his glorious Gandalf/Dumbledore🧙♂️ wig, I would be Tana Mongeau level blackout drunk in 15 minutes.🥴💫🤣
SOOOO TRUUUE😭😭😭
I’m gonna post this until it happens. Please get Madison Beer on the pod. She’s super sweet, always hated for no reason and has BPD too. I’d loveeee to her on the show!❤❤❤❤❤
Imagine being able to say that your butt was thought to be Kendal Jenner pregnant
trish- you should be SO proud of yourself. your maturity and growth is AMAZING. you are such an inspiration
Always so excited for Just Trish Tuesdays. 💖 it’s rainy out and I’m spending my day off kinda sick but relaxing in bed with my doggie! Thanks for keeping me company !
trish talking about how she spirals literally made my eyes water but also made me feel so heard... because i felt it in my soul. we love you trish 💜