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I'm in the complete opposite situation. Managers, company, co workers and pay, all are awsome. It's my position and the responsibility that's stressful af. Don't know how long I'll last ⏳😬
If life gives you anxiety instead of joy, it's just because the universe tries to communicate with you, that you don't belong in a certain environment and the healthier thing to do, is to extract the root to the problems. *Always follow your inner voice and act out of abundance, doing things that bring you joy.*
@@isittrueisitnot3303 There is no such thing as "just." Everything in universe has its purpose. One can choose to understand and alleviate suffering or continue to live in an endless agony.
@@osse1n maybe you missunderstood my point, not everything has to have that universe shit behind itself, its normal to be anxious it's human nature and I don't know why would we do anything about it except maybe learn how to cope with it
Today I resigned from my job as an electrical engineer. Reason was mainly my two bosses. They were always made me feel worthless and low. Every time they talk about them selves hours and their past experiences, achievements etc. In the beginning I thought they will support me to improve my career but they were destroying my mental health and my skills. I'm so glad that finally I leave that hell. If you are reading this I wish you all the very best. Good luck people ❤
That was one of the reasons why I left my last job. It was getting harder and harder to go to work, every day I came home stressed and always shouted at my children, my husband and I always arguing. Until the day came when I said "Enough, I'd rather stay at home, take care of my children and my home if need be, than stay in an environment that only brings me unhappiness"
Unfortunately. No matter where u go theres going to be pros n cons. Its about picking the right situation that's you feel it's worth dealing with. That's happens in all jobs. Pick what best fits you. That's the real world out there. Doesn't mean you have to deal with that particular situation. Somewhere else might have something different that's bothering.
Those 35% are people who do not work customer service. A retail worker or customer service representative will never tell you that their stress comes from their boss. It comes from nasty, negative, toxic, mean, ignorant, self important, egotistical human beings. Being called studip, being yelled at like a child, getting scoffed at by adults because they didn't get their way. THAT'S where our stress comes in. Because people do not know how to act like decent beings.
Ture. I am a customer support engineer and stress mostly comes from my customers + my bosses and sometimes from the team members. The struggle is real.
Exactly ! I work in casino and I deal with self righteous people every single day. Everything is all about them. Good thing that my pay is great so it compensates having to deal with these clowns.
This reassured me that I can quit my current workplace a toxic and manipulative team leader who twists stories and words to make sure I look bad. Thank you for this I never knew I could feel better from watching this
@@jojohanna217 sad to hear that, believe that things happen for a reason and that there are far better things ahead than what we leave behind.. goodluck on our next job! 😊
I'm still dealing with the toxic and the stressful at my first my job. Thank God I have a job coach that'll help me find the right job. For past six years I've dealt with verbal abuse, bullying, toxic coworkers and managers. It affected me at home as well. I've been dealing with stress, mental health, PTSD, anxiety, and depression
I can related to you. I quit 2 job's because of bad bosses. It's OK you will find good job like I did now and their are many opportunities. Don't worry you will be fine.
I was in a very similar situation until two weeks ago. My boss was very rude and didn't let me work in peace. She was constantly crunching me. I tried to talk her about this to make a less toxic work environment, but instead of listening me she decided to fire me arguing that my attitude won't be tolerated by the company.
I work for a good company but I just cant understand how the company appointed a couple "good for nothings" as managers. It's hard to find managers with class and quality these days.
So true I work for a home care agency and the management sucks big time they all sit on there brains nobody in the office knows how to communicate to the out side world and the management is really bad and they lie so much to there participants and aides I would not recommend them to any one if it would not be for the aides they would sink I think they already are and they treat you like crap and all they want is a body it is sad but true!
Usually they are not hired, rather mistakenly moved up the ranks. It’s the “Peter Principal”...”The Peter Principle is an observation that the tendency in most organizational hierarchies, such as that of a corporation, is for every employee to rise in the hierarchy through promotion until they reach a level of respective incompetence”
@@dabznslugg9492 I just resigned yesterday so here's what I did (just sharing my experience, might not be accurate for everyone). First, I wrote my official resignation letter but I didn't send it to HR yet. I told my direct supervisor I'd like to have a 1-to-1 talk. She somehow sensed that I wanted to resign but she said okay to it anyways. During our session, I shared what I felt and the reasons behind my decision. She then passed my message to our managing director, where I also talked with her and explained the same thing. Then, I finally showed her my official resignation, which was passed to HR. Now I'm just waiting to do our handover session and leave by end of Feb. Might've missed your question if you were looking for a more emotional-centric answer, but here - you can do it. it might be stressful, but you can definitely do it. Take a deep breath, imagine what you clearly wanna say, and all in. All the best bud!
This is an extremely fitting video right now. I left my last job because my boss made me feel easily replaceable. As a first year teacher I was treated horribly. Thankfully I’m at a wonderful new school, with an extremely supportive administration team, and feel like the teacher I’ve always wanted to be. I have gotten to fall back in love with my profession. I won’t lie, it’s still a stressful job, but it’s so much more rewarding now.
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This video was more like looking back at my past...ive quit 3 jobs for the same reason I took a break cz of the trauma but soon will start a new job im staring it with all positive attitude hoping that it wont the same again!!!! you nailed again JAY..Thanks alot!
Oh my god,it's really painfull to see these many people suffered of their work environment and people..I loved the job but due to toxic people I resigned my job recently.Even my coworkers pushing themselves a hard towards work...My first job kept me happy. now I am looking forward to that work again..
"You are not a crucial member of this team". I feel this way and the worst thing is that they do not tell me that, they just make me feel with actions.
Too many people would rather stay at a crappy company, with horrible bosses, co-workers, hard work, and little pay, because they are scared to take risks, save enough money to go on unemployment for a while and then search for another job at another company. Life is too short to work at a job where they will treat you like a second-class citizen. I don't have a job at the moment but am currently looking for one, but the job i would love is a job where the boss is chill, friendly, helpful, you get along with coworkers, and they offer good work-life balance.
You actually post this 1h before i need to go to work... and i don’t want to bcs my gf just broke up with me and idk what to do😭😭😭😭 but i’m stressed out bcs of work so thank you jay🥺❤️
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It's not your fault if you cop this kind of behavior, however it's your choice how you feel, act and react. You own your decisions. Take ownership of those
I had a boss like her and I left my job. Found a better job better pay amazing boss. Come to find out few months later my ex boss got fired from her boss as complaints added up, and lack of management..
During that last years I have changed 6 different accounting positions each one with its own stressful issues. I’m only 2 weeks in to my 6th company in a year and not only they don’t train me but they expect me to know their companies accounting by heart. I have not worked as an accountant in a healthcare company. It’s stressful, no body even talks to you. You feel like a garbage 🗑. I’m getting sick and tired of this cycle. I’m getting my MBA next year for higher positions with better companies. I think I’m going crazy and depressed.
"Its not your manager's job to manage your mental health, it's yours." Its tough to quit something that helps you put food on the table, but please remember, you're not helping yourself if every day you spend at your workplace takes away from you a part of your health 🙏
Tanmay Nayyar yeah I feel better now. On the other hand I'm afraid I don't get a new job and people keep telling me how stupid it was to quit without already having a new job. But thank you ♥
Thank you thank you .. just when I needed a guiding light to let me realise if I was doing the right thing and Bang!!! Here it is.... My way out and proud of myself that I have decided to quit my job without any regrets... I have no guilt and I will not have any , I shall put in double my efforts to find a better job at least where I and my talent is appreciated. Thank you Jay as always you’ve been that small ray of hope.... God bless you abundantly 🤗
Some people cannot afford to quit or they'll have no money to get by. It's a cruel system and hard to break free. Face financial struggle or face daily stress that's eating away at your soul.
I quit a job because of a boss. I thought I was not smart enough. Employers do not like you quitting without having a job lined up, so I struggled for a year. It turns out, everwhere that manager went, employees quit that were under her (even those that had a lot of knowledge). I guess it was not just me....
Every morning I wake up with anxiety. That feeling in my stomach cannot be described. I sweat before the meetings. All I do is wait for the day to get over. I love my work, but the environment I'm working in has taken my mental health to a setback. I already go through a lot of mental health related issues and on top of it working hours and working environment has just ruined my condition all the more. Being an introvert and a perfectionist is the worst combination of trait, I neither am able to voice up when unfairness happens nor I say no to incoming work. I'm just hoping to clear my bond period so that I can quit my job.
Best teachers for me,after watching his videos ,I have become more confident,started self love,accepting as I am,and every day is great and i take every obstacle as a challenge and I face with smile .I have become more mature now. Bcz of self introspection also
I am a Manager i tried not to put pressure on my staff motivated them daily worked along with them showed them the way how to work and get successful in life. I waited a few months for them to see how they work they became unproductive... Then i understood why people become lazy. If we don't pressure them they don't work...
This is the exactly what I'm going through. I was just searching for this video yesterday & you uploaded today. Wow...It's a call. I was thinking to quit my job due to my senior. He doesn't value me or believe in me. Teasing me every time. But now it's enough.i will leave for sure. Thanks for your video Jay..😊🙏
Appreciated. One Month in a Job and i am planning to quite too. No, every one in company is supporting to me, but today at morning i got panic to not able to be on time of my meeting, but then my mom make me realised that wake up, its morning not evening, you have night shift.
I didnt quit , I got fired . Not once but twice .I asked for it though. I felt my bosses were controlling and I said 'My mental health is important than the project health' . I was shown the door the next day .I know my worth and I got a new job in few days. I may not lead a successful life but I am living a satisfied life .
as long as you don't feel any regret acting like this, things are fine - however sometimes it's worth it to keep pushing the hard way to find something more fullfilling off the scale
Hello! I've been watching your videos for awhile now. I love them as well as your mission!!! ❤❤❤ Thanking you for bringing it all into action!! All I got to say on this video is: YES! AMEN TO THAT BROTHER!!!
Life isn't easy. People who keep a positive mindset during stress end up further ahead than those who encounter no stress or see it as a negative. That being said, dealing with bad management doesn't help and my job cut my hours because I complained about not being paid. But it's a positive for me, because of all the stress and all the shit they gave me, I've found a new job which my job experience got me hired for. So basically, if they paid me on time, communicated with me and gave me better hours, I'd be happy working for them, but now I'm going into a new work place and I'm very excited to start. Don't let your bosses bring you down, just learn from your experience and knock your next job out the park.
Certainly these type of people I encounter at work every single time. I went home today feeling a heavy tug on my chest. I’m very competent at my work and confident with my skills as I’ve been in it for 9 years. But for some reason people can be just jerks, rude, insulting, I find myself being a target of bossy people and sometimes they are right but I also have my own reasons for doing things my way and in the end I just submit cos I don’t want to be labeled as annoying. Im very perceptive of other people’s emotions and i dont like to step ny boundaries and I try to be respectful, but they dare to step my boundaries on me. It build frustration to the point my chest literally actually aches and carries on till the next few days
Me and my wife have a 30 min discussion of how our day's were after that we usually start thinking about what we are going to do the upcoming weekend. My dad used to be a stress ball always wound tighter than a spring, he couldn't leave work issues at work it always found a way home. I learned from that and decided I won't focus on work issues at home it is negative and dampens everyones mood at home. Positive energy is healthy energy and you'll find that yesterday's stresses are less if you allow yourself to regain focus and inner peace.
If you have 3 friends in your company, you will be satisfied in your salary +200%. If you have a best friend your company, that's will increase +700% or motivation. People don't usually quite a job because of salary. Rather feeling less appreciated or human relationship.
My boss are worst then this. She will stretch your energy to max, put you to work for 9 1/2 hours to 12 hours a day. While she left early. No one watching because the Hq is in another country. She was the manager at my work place.
This is how my manager speak to me. Im new to this job I’m current in and she told me I don’t fit, this role is not suitable for me , she doesn’t have time to go over things with me. I’m not comfortable asking her anything, she’s trying to get fired. I have been crying for two days now, yesterday I had to take sleeping pills to help stay out of my head. She doeThere’s other people who were hired the same time I was hired and they are more confused than me but trying to tell her I’m new to this role and she doesn’t care and she doesn’t want to give a chance.
I have my own business but Employees give me more stress not the other way around.When I try to be peaceful helpful they take it for granted and do whatever they want rather than being a helping hand but when I think about future of my business and do what is necessary they see me as arrogant.So what should I need to do....
Collab with a professional in your state & draw up a company handbook. Temper everything with kindness but most importantly always be professional. Never ever play favorites & always set a good example. This is about your vision, your company and providing a good, steadily improving living for you and for the "deserving" people you employ. If someone is not on board with that, they're not a fit for your company or your vision.
This spoke to me.... I am a software business analyst... Where I work they are ungrateful, working extra hours with no pay to push company demands, there's favoritism not acknowledging those who actually work hard and I do 4 jobs, I have become bitter and angry.... I think I need to be calm and just let things be until I get something better
that's micro-managing, I used to have a boss like that, he was made redundant and now works for a much bigger company. the idiot who replaced him is also doing the same, but worse...
The typical female manager! My formal manager (male) was such a stress factor, that some key-engineers had their resignment letter in their bag. To make it possible to leave in an instant. It would have been the end of the company. It's incredible how human resources do not see how bad managers can be for the company.
My boss is great. She is extremely encouraging and trusted me who just graduated from uni and have no experience. But I cannot find the job itself interesting for me... :( I really wish I could, but I feel very anxious watching more experienced coworkers working so hard and contributing to the company. I cannot be like them. And yet I am consuming my boss's time, energy and getting salary. I feel so bad, it feels like I am dating someone just because they are nice and liking me, even though I am not interested in them deep down in my heart...
Poor Ryan deserved better. Yes, their needs to be a balance. But she's obviously out for what she can gain. Needless to say, it's not always bosses, but co-workers too! If co-workers know that they can get away with it, that HR won't do f*** all about it, then they'll disrespect you more!
Planning to stay until I have enough saving and I will quit the job. Get scold everyday made me think that emotional abuse is hurting my mental health.
I had also quit the content writer job, because of my boss, she always demotivate me, she always telling that , the content is copy paste, grammatical error, spelling mistakes etc. I think that I had also wasted 7 month to work for this company.
If you’re reading this, have a great day today. You deserve it.
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You too have a blessed day weekend.
Back at you buddy!
no u
It's especially stressful when your family doesn't support you and say that you're too picky when it comes to job...😔
Yes I know that :(
Feel the same most of the time.
I understand. Same here
It's your concern about your job career, not your family's. Listen to yourself and find what is appropriate to you.
yup. It's the worst
*People don't quit jobs...they quit Bosses* thanks Jay for this video....calls for maximum share! 😊👌👍
Exactly! I did it and a weight was lifted.
Yesssssss. I liked my last job and hated my boss. She was pure misery.
I'm in the complete opposite situation. Managers, company, co workers and pay, all are awsome. It's my position and the responsibility that's stressful af.
Don't know how long I'll last ⏳😬
@@Matsuro_まつろ my situation is same like your's
@@Matsuro_まつろ same here. Do you mind me asking how are you doing nowadays?
Work can be important, but to relax is even more important, to relax both the body and the mind )
Gurudra i quit my job cause I couldn't take it anymore..
JoJo hanna i hope everything is fine with you
Ofc when they calling u in 9pm after working 7am-4pm , y not :D
I Will do to same
You should change your name to "GU..RA...JU..RA It sounds Unique) (you don't have an option in this.
If life gives you anxiety instead of joy, it's just because the universe tries to communicate with you, that you don't belong in a certain environment and the healthier thing to do, is to extract the root to the problems.
*Always follow your inner voice and act out of abundance, doing things that bring you joy.*
Or you are just anxious..
@@isittrueisitnot3303 There is no such thing as "just."
Everything in universe has its purpose.
One can choose to understand and alleviate suffering or continue to live in an endless agony.
@@osse1n maybe you missunderstood my point, not everything has to have that universe shit behind itself, its normal to be anxious it's human nature and I don't know why would we do anything about it except maybe learn how to cope with it
So true! 👏
So I don’t belong with my family, house, environment, etc💁🏻♀️
Today I resigned from my job as an electrical engineer. Reason was mainly my two bosses. They were always made me feel worthless and low. Every time they talk about them selves hours and their past experiences, achievements etc. In the beginning I thought they will support me to improve my career but they were destroying my mental health and my skills. I'm so glad that finally I leave that hell. If you are reading this I wish you all the very best. Good luck people ❤
Good luck for you too friend..
*"Stress can kill - it's not worth it."*
You do die, sooner or later. Death is freedom, nothing to be afraid of.
That was one of the reasons why I left my last job. It was getting harder and harder to go to work, every day I came home stressed and always shouted at my children, my husband and I always arguing. Until the day came when I said "Enough, I'd rather stay at home, take care of my children and my home if need be, than stay in an environment that only brings me unhappiness"
You are very strong and a good mother and wife. Wish you all the best! :)
Thank you
Unfortunately. No matter where u go theres going to be pros n cons. Its about picking the right situation that's you feel it's worth dealing with. That's happens in all jobs. Pick what best fits you. That's the real world out there. Doesn't mean you have to deal with that particular situation. Somewhere else might have something different that's bothering.
Thank you
Wish I could just quit and have someone else support me too
Those 35% are people who do not work customer service. A retail worker or customer service representative will never tell you that their stress comes from their boss. It comes from nasty, negative, toxic, mean, ignorant, self important, egotistical human beings.
Being called studip, being yelled at like a child, getting scoffed at by adults because they didn't get their way. THAT'S where our stress comes in. Because people do not know how to act like decent beings.
Correct. I feel that too
I share the same feelings
Ture. I am a customer support engineer and stress mostly comes from my customers + my bosses and sometimes from the team members. The struggle is real.
Exactly ! I work in casino and I deal with self righteous people every single day. Everything is all about them. Good thing that my pay is great so it compensates having to deal with these clowns.
You wrote what was thinking
People don't leave companies.they live there bosses.🙏
So true.
This reassured me that I can quit my current workplace a toxic and manipulative team leader who twists stories and words to make sure I look bad. Thank you for this I never knew I could feel better from watching this
Toxic teammates are worse
When they are supposes to have your back. You have their backs, but they talk shit on you. Prank you the fuck out
I thought I was alone. But I guess most of us are dealing with it.
So perfectly timed. I'm thinking of resigning tomorrow. Service people you have my respect.
I recently resigned from my job so this is so timely. Thank you 🖤
Desiree Anne me too..I just couldn't take it anymore
Me too
@@jojohanna217 sad to hear that, believe that things happen for a reason and that there are far better things ahead than what we leave behind.. goodluck on our next job! 😊
@@mcalmonte3798 hopefully we find a job that would better fit and take care of us. Goodluck! 😊
Desiree Anne thank you so much. All the best for you as well !♥
*"You can not out source your self care."*
I'm still dealing with the toxic and the stressful at my first my job. Thank God I have a job coach that'll help me find the right job. For past six years I've dealt with verbal abuse, bullying, toxic coworkers and managers. It affected me at home as well. I've been dealing with stress, mental health, PTSD, anxiety, and depression
@@ShesGrounded my former manager would inappropriately touched me
I can relate.
@@ShesGrounded I left that job 7 months ago.
@@chrismorpher7439 best and only move
Take care
people don't quit job, they quit bosses... that's true, i've experienced that,, the people will stressed you out... thanks Jay Shetty.
We all need a good team lead or manager and colleagues, other wise its toxic, right now I am facing it badly
As a side effect, the subtitles really helped me to learn english!
Just wanted to mention that. I really appreciate your inspiration, Jay! THANK YOU!
"Attitude is one little thing that makes a big difference"
At 2:08 "clearly you're not suited for this company". The narcissism is huge in this woman!
"Narcissism" ? More like girl power yass kween slayy!!!
@@MK_ULTRA420 Yes that too!🤣🤣
Woman??? What woman?? She's a bitch!
@@MK_ULTRA420 🤦🏻♀️ if you are joking it’s s funny joke. If not wow
@@jesssss12 Shut up sexist.
I quit my boss today. Stress since 2 years. I feel sooooo good now... Right now...
So sorry
I can related to you. I quit 2 job's because of bad bosses. It's OK you will find good job like I did now and their are many opportunities. Don't worry you will be fine.
@@snehawaghmare7424 thank you Sneha.:-)
I was in a very similar situation until two weeks ago. My boss was very rude and didn't let me work in peace. She was constantly crunching me. I tried to talk her about this to make a less toxic work environment, but instead of listening me she decided to fire me arguing that my attitude won't be tolerated by the company.
I work for a good company but I just cant understand how the company appointed a couple "good for nothings" as managers. It's hard to find managers with class and quality these days.
Lesly Chandy exactly!
So true I work for a home care agency and the management sucks big time they all sit on there brains nobody in the office knows how to communicate to the out side world and the management is really bad and they lie so much to there participants and aides I would not recommend them to any one if it would not be for the aides they would sink I think they already are and they treat you like crap and all they want is a body it is sad but true!
So if companies appoint these people then what does that say about the company?
Usually they are not hired, rather mistakenly moved up the ranks. It’s the “Peter Principal”...”The Peter Principle is an observation that the tendency in most organizational hierarchies, such as that of a corporation, is for every employee to rise in the hierarchy through promotion until they reach a level of respective incompetence”
I cried at this video. I’ve just put in my resignation today from my toxic job.
me too, I hope you're ok 🙏
So how do you feel now after one year
Congratulation
I’m going to put my resignation how do I do it ?
@@dabznslugg9492 I just resigned yesterday so here's what I did (just sharing my experience, might not be accurate for everyone). First, I wrote my official resignation letter but I didn't send it to HR yet. I told my direct supervisor I'd like to have a 1-to-1 talk. She somehow sensed that I wanted to resign but she said okay to it anyways. During our session, I shared what I felt and the reasons behind my decision. She then passed my message to our managing director, where I also talked with her and explained the same thing. Then, I finally showed her my official resignation, which was passed to HR. Now I'm just waiting to do our handover session and leave by end of Feb.
Might've missed your question if you were looking for a more emotional-centric answer, but here - you can do it. it might be stressful, but you can definitely do it. Take a deep breath, imagine what you clearly wanna say, and all in. All the best bud!
This is an extremely fitting video right now. I left my last job because my boss made me feel easily replaceable. As a first year teacher I was treated horribly. Thankfully I’m at a wonderful new school, with an extremely supportive administration team, and feel like the teacher I’ve always wanted to be. I have gotten to fall back in love with my profession. I won’t lie, it’s still a stressful job, but it’s so much more rewarding now.
You must learn to let go. Release the stress. You were never in control anyway.
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@@howdyworld You're welcome
*My key to dealing with stress is simple: just stay cool and stay focused.*
Reflective Motivation also tell people to go fuck themselves lol
It's easier said than done.
Sounds easy but really hard to do 😭
@@HayanaRomZ yes...hv to think abt the next day...How's its going to be 😢
Evaluatie which things you can influence and which ones you can’t/won’t
This video was more like looking back at my past...ive quit 3 jobs for the same reason I took a break cz of the trauma but soon will start a new job im staring it with all positive attitude hoping that it wont the same again!!!! you nailed again JAY..Thanks alot!
You are so resilient! 👍🏼
Oh my god,it's really painfull to see these many people suffered of their work environment and people..I loved the job but due to toxic people I resigned my job recently.Even my coworkers pushing themselves a hard towards work...My first job kept me happy. now I am looking forward to that work again..
I needed this like 5 years ago!!! Thank you!!! I WILL be sharing!!!
"You are not a crucial member of this team". I feel this way and the worst thing is that they do not tell me that, they just make me feel with actions.
This is awesome.............Credit for Quotes:
"People don't quit jobs, they quit their bosses" -Unknown and That I do believe. Thanks Jay
Not just those who are the top performers but also those who give their time and enery.
Too many people would rather stay at a crappy company, with horrible bosses, co-workers, hard work, and little pay, because they are scared to take risks, save enough money to go on unemployment for a while and then search for another job at another company. Life is too short to work at a job where they will treat you like a second-class citizen. I don't have a job at the moment but am currently looking for one, but the job i would love is a job where the boss is chill, friendly, helpful, you get along with coworkers, and they offer good work-life balance.
You actually post this 1h before i need to go to work... and i don’t want to bcs my gf just broke up with me and idk what to do😭😭😭😭 but i’m stressed out bcs of work so thank you jay🥺❤️
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People should treat people like people w respect
So true. My last boss was a nightmare.
It's not your fault if you cop this kind of behavior, however it's your choice how you feel, act and react. You own your decisions. Take ownership of those
True
That's right my friend...
I had a boss like her and I left my job. Found a better job better pay amazing boss. Come to find out few months later my ex boss got fired from her boss as complaints added up, and lack of management..
During that last years I have changed 6 different accounting positions each one with its own stressful issues. I’m only 2 weeks in to my 6th company in a year and not only they don’t train me but they expect me to know their companies accounting by heart. I have not worked as an accountant in a healthcare company. It’s stressful, no body even talks to you. You feel like a garbage 🗑. I’m getting sick and tired of this cycle. I’m getting my MBA next year for higher positions with better companies. I think I’m going crazy and depressed.
Wonderful video, m currently going thru this but can't quit as I need the job desperately. Hope I am able to find a new job soon.
Cant imagine, how u made my life easier by giving me a way to focused thinking process than just random manifestation .... loved it boys... kudos
"Its not your manager's job to manage your mental health, it's yours." Its tough to quit something that helps you put food on the table, but please remember, you're not helping yourself if every day you spend at your workplace takes away from you a part of your health 🙏
Exactly.
@@beginnersbuddy1452 Glad you agree 🙌
Tanmay Nayyar i quit cause I couldn't take it anymore
@@jojohanna217 I hope it did you good 💙🙏
Tanmay Nayyar yeah I feel better now. On the other hand I'm afraid I don't get a new job and people keep telling me how stupid it was to quit without already having a new job.
But thank you ♥
Thank you thank you .. just when I needed a guiding light to let me realise if I was doing the right thing and Bang!!! Here it is.... My way out and proud of myself that I have decided to quit my job without any regrets... I have no guilt and I will not have any , I shall put in double my efforts to find a better job at least where I and my talent is appreciated. Thank you Jay as always you’ve been that small ray of hope.... God bless you abundantly 🤗
Some people cannot afford to quit or they'll have no money to get by. It's a cruel system and hard to break free. Face financial struggle or face daily stress that's eating away at your soul.
I quit a job because of a boss. I thought I was not smart enough. Employers do not like you quitting without having a job lined up, so I struggled for a year. It turns out, everwhere that manager went, employees quit that were under her (even those that had a lot of knowledge). I guess it was not just me....
Every morning I wake up with anxiety. That feeling in my stomach cannot be described. I sweat before the meetings. All I do is wait for the day to get over. I love my work, but the environment I'm working in has taken my mental health to a setback. I already go through a lot of mental health related issues and on top of it working hours and working environment has just ruined my condition all the more. Being an introvert and a perfectionist is the worst combination of trait, I neither am able to voice up when unfairness happens nor I say no to incoming work. I'm just hoping to clear my bond period so that I can quit my job.
Mee too Priya. I am getting same.. Another thing self press it to do all stuff. Worry changes to anxiety.
I like your video, it is what I have faced in previous company with my lady boss. I left just because of her behaviour and attitude.
Absolutely for peace of mind work in a toxic stress free environment
Best teachers for me,after watching his videos ,I have become more confident,started self love,accepting as I am,and every day is great and i take every obstacle as a challenge and I face with smile .I have become more mature now.
Bcz of self introspection also
I gonna forward this video in our office group
I am a Manager i tried not to put pressure on my staff motivated them daily worked along with them showed them the way how to work and get successful in life. I waited a few months for them to see how they work they became unproductive... Then i understood why people become lazy. If we don't pressure them they don't work...
Always follows ur mind....otherwise u will feel regrets
This video is really worth. Thank you so much, Jay.
This is the exactly what I'm going through. I was just searching for this video yesterday & you uploaded today. Wow...It's a call. I was thinking to quit my job due to my senior. He doesn't value me or believe in me. Teasing me every time. But now it's enough.i will leave for sure. Thanks for your video Jay..😊🙏
Thanks so much for the awesome video Jay 🔥 This will definitely help me improve my Mindset, Business, and Life!! Keep it up! 💯💯🙌
My last job made Chernobyl look like a holiday resort!
Toxic to its core!
😂😂 I love the reference. I had the same experience 🤯 it’s not worth the money.
Appreciated. One Month in a Job and i am planning to quite too. No, every one in company is supporting to me, but today at morning i got panic to not able to be on time of my meeting, but then my mom make me realised that wake up, its morning not evening, you have night shift.
If you’re reading this, have a great day today.
I don't work in a office yet because I'm studying but I loved the video.
Scary how true this is and how much it affects my life .
I didnt quit , I got fired . Not once but twice .I asked for it though. I felt my bosses were controlling and I said 'My mental health is important than the project health' . I was shown the door the next day .I know my worth and I got a new job in few days. I may not lead a successful life but I am living a satisfied life .
as long as you don't feel any regret acting like this, things are fine - however sometimes it's worth it to keep pushing the hard way to find something more fullfilling off the scale
Yep, I got one of those... Doesn't matter how hard you try it's never right or good enough.
I wanted to quit my job as soon as possible.
Me too
Spend time with your family as much as you can.
Hello! I've been watching your videos for awhile now. I love them as well as your mission!!! ❤❤❤ Thanking you for bringing it all into action!!
All I got to say on this video is: YES! AMEN TO THAT BROTHER!!!
Yes perfect truth... ...sir..
Life isn't easy. People who keep a positive mindset during stress end up further ahead than those who encounter no stress or see it as a negative. That being said, dealing with bad management doesn't help and my job cut my hours because I complained about not being paid. But it's a positive for me, because of all the stress and all the shit they gave me, I've found a new job which my job experience got me hired for. So basically, if they paid me on time, communicated with me and gave me better hours, I'd be happy working for them, but now I'm going into a new work place and I'm very excited to start. Don't let your bosses bring you down, just learn from your experience and knock your next job out the park.
*It's not your managers job to manage your mental health, that's yours*
*people don't quit jobs they quit there bosses*
Certainly these type of people I encounter at work every single time. I went home today feeling a heavy tug on my chest. I’m very competent at my work and confident with my skills as I’ve been in it for 9 years. But for some reason people can be just jerks, rude, insulting, I find myself being a target of bossy people and sometimes they are right but I also have my own reasons for doing things my way and in the end I just submit cos I don’t want to be labeled as annoying. Im very perceptive of other people’s emotions and i dont like to step ny boundaries and I try to be respectful, but they dare to step my boundaries on me. It build frustration to the point my chest literally actually aches and carries on till the next few days
I've not had managers say these things to me exactly, but it's a def feeling I get.
This is a HUGE help! Thank you. 😊
right especially at this plant i use to work at in northwest georgia call shaw stress me out badly
Me and my wife have a 30 min discussion of how our day's were after that we usually start thinking about what we are going to do the upcoming weekend. My dad used to be a stress ball always wound tighter than a spring, he couldn't leave work issues at work it always found a way home. I learned from that and decided I won't focus on work issues at home it is negative and dampens everyones mood at home. Positive energy is healthy energy and you'll find that yesterday's stresses are less if you allow yourself to regain focus and inner peace.
Can't wait to read Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo!
Great vid! Could you do one about lazy colleagues? How does one cope with that kind of situation? Thanks again.
If you have 3 friends in your company, you will be satisfied in your salary +200%. If you have a best friend your company, that's will increase +700% or motivation. People don't usually quite a job because of salary. Rather feeling less appreciated or human relationship.
I pray for you guys that deal with this psychotic shit.
Messaging her date isn't busy! I hate rude bosses
I been through that
My boss are worst then this. She will stretch your energy to max, put you to work for 9 1/2 hours to 12 hours a day. While she left early. No one watching because the Hq is in another country. She was the manager at my work place.
This is how my manager speak to me. Im new to this job I’m current in and she told me I don’t fit, this role is not suitable for me , she doesn’t have time to go over things with me. I’m not comfortable asking her anything, she’s trying to get fired. I have been crying for two days now, yesterday I had to take sleeping pills to help stay out of my head. She doeThere’s other people who were hired the same time I was hired and they are more confused than me but trying to tell her I’m new to this role and she doesn’t care and she doesn’t want to give a chance.
This message is so timely...thank you Jay
Very timely. I just quitted my job.
I have my own business but Employees give me more stress not the other way around.When I try to be peaceful helpful they take it for granted and do whatever they want rather than being a helping hand but when I think about future of my business and do what is necessary they see me as arrogant.So what should I need to do....
Collab with a professional in your state & draw up a company handbook. Temper everything with kindness but most importantly always be professional. Never ever play favorites & always set a good example. This is about your vision, your company and providing a good, steadily improving living for you and for the "deserving" people you employ. If someone is not on board with that, they're not a fit for your company or your vision.
And this is the other side to the story they are running a business at the end of the day. Both sides have valid points
Eff being an employee. It’s time to be the employer 💪
This spoke to me.... I am a software business analyst... Where I work they are ungrateful, working extra hours with no pay to push company demands, there's favoritism not acknowledging those who actually work hard and I do 4 jobs, I have become bitter and angry.... I think I need to be calm and just let things be until I get something better
I am suffering with high stressed .
Really not able to come out of stress .
Every day every time is like hell.
Just remember stress is temporary it ain’t worth it
No choice boss can fire ppl.its not easy to find job for many ppl so they scare being fired again and again.
3:08 "Learn to manage yourself"
Dude my boss always hovers over my shoulder while I’m working. Drives me crazy
that's micro-managing, I used to have a boss like that, he was made redundant and now works for a much bigger company. the idiot who replaced him is also doing the same, but worse...
The typical female manager!
My formal manager (male) was such a stress factor, that some key-engineers had their resignment letter in their bag. To make it possible to leave in an instant. It would have been the end of the company.
It's incredible how human resources do not see how bad managers can be for the company.
My boss is great. She is extremely encouraging and trusted me who just graduated from uni and have no experience. But I cannot find the job itself interesting for me... :( I really wish I could, but I feel very anxious watching more experienced coworkers working so hard and contributing to the company. I cannot be like them. And yet I am consuming my boss's time, energy and getting salary. I feel so bad, it feels like I am dating someone just because they are nice and liking me, even though I am not interested in them deep down in my heart...
Thats why I love this guy's channel. It never has any Shetty content
Poor Ryan deserved better. Yes, their needs to be a balance. But she's obviously out for what she can gain. Needless to say, it's not always bosses, but co-workers too! If co-workers know that they can get away with it, that HR won't do f*** all about it, then they'll disrespect you more!
True. same happened to my mom.
See? I am young to get a job but I still watched this video. Your videos are worth it...
Planning to stay until I have enough saving and I will quit the job. Get scold everyday made me think that emotional abuse is hurting my mental health.
I had also quit the content writer job, because of my boss, she always demotivate me, she always telling that , the content is copy paste, grammatical error, spelling mistakes etc. I think that I had also wasted 7 month to work for this company.
Thank you very much... this will help those in needs!
Fantastic presentation. Remember those days. Work for yourself!!!