The Marriage Advice NO ONE Told Me | cheating, arguing & power-play | Interracial Couple *FUNNY*
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- This is the marriage advice no one told me before I got married! We discuss issues that can arise like cheating, arguing, power-play...
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Salaam and hi!
It's Amara here, I hope you are well.
After doing HEAVY magazine research in my single-dom, I figured I knew what to expect from marriage... I didn't. 🙈
This was meant to be 10 of the most important things I've learned so far, but we went into so many tangents that we had to cut it down to 7! 😂
I hope you enjoy the video and PLEASE share below any marriage tips you have for me & anyone reading. There's so much to learn! Way more than the articles led me to believe... 👀
See you in the comments below! 💜
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Thanks to everyone watching! 💜
What are YOUR fears or experiences with marriage? Anything stick out??
Let us know below! ✍️
ALSO, 100 points to whoever finds our little hidden message!! 👀🫒🧃
Respect and good communication is very important.
Huge take away Stay away from magazines and articles 🤣 speak through miscommunications, but if there are arguments on one side just reason with it peacefully. I would say my fear is that I wear my emotions up my sleeve so I am a very easy to talk to person. Which is why I would say the fear is to not get used.
Mash’Allah- i’m so happy I found your channel. I am also in an inter-racial marriage, but my husband is the Pakistani one. I agree that communication- honest, sincere communication is key. Also, I learned you don’t need to feel “in love” all the time, but you need to always prioritize respecting and loving your partner even when it’s difficult. May Allah bless your marriage and grant you more peace, love, faith and baraka 🤲 Ameen
“Advising us to do the same thing they did, when they’re not happy with the situation they are in” YES YES YES!! WELL SAID👏🏼 exactly.
Advice is free but not always in your best interest. Depends on the situation and individual. NOW EVERYTHING I TYPE SEEMS SO INTENSE 😩😩😂🤷🏽♂️
@@TheXs.Official YES EXACTLY! Again, GREAT VIDEO❤️ and there’s such a big difference between you typing and Amara😂 I love how you interact with everyone! It’s so refreshing:)
@@iqra1297 LMAOOO Iqra 🤣💖💖 I'm glad you can tell the difference between our typing x
Yes yes yes infinitum ad naseum.
Amarah seems so innocent about how life is, and it’s so beautiful to see how real and humble and catering her husband is to her. Nah watching this made me smile so much, I’m in a interracial marriage too, a very different kind of one. allahumma barik to you both, it’s so refreshing to watch you guys 🤍🤩 the happiness he clearly consciously wants her to feel is so apparent. Allahumma barik.
I am not Muslim…but watching you two makes me want to be. You are physically beautiful. But my god your love and caring for each other makes your physical beauty look like nothing. If you are what true Muslims look like I am converting. I am serious, if your wife is an example of a Muslim wife I want that. You two are a fantastic example!
Your words are so touching and humbling, thank you. We carry out our lives in accordance with Islam. It is the basis of everything we do. Obv individuals differ in their conduct but the religion only teaches love and reason. We are both praying you find the wife you desire. If you ever have any questions or want some support with anything, feel free to hit us up. We’re more than happy to help. ☺️
We intend on discussing a lot of topics, especially how we have navigated through life as Muslims. I hope you can gain some value from some of them, in shaa Allah (god willing). 🤲🤍
@@TheXs.Official ! I will watch with reverence, and joy…in Shaa Allah.
I binged watched your videos, I am now sipping on the last two, a little bit at a time. Wish you made one everyday.
It really is fantastic to see love and respect, consideration and caring all administered in such kind and humble ways.
I look forward to your next video…till then may you both be blessed!
That is beautiful May Allah guide you to the straight path Ameen.
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May Allah guide you to Islam cause it’s love and peaceful hit me up when you convert
It's someone's prayers that brought you guys together, one of your parents or both. I really enjoy the time give to watching your videos. Thank you for sharing the moment.
Prayers? Get real. They just found each other and it turned out a to be good match.
@@mz8194 Maybe your parents prayed that you would have wisdom and know everything, or maybe you just think you know everything. I found out a couple years ago that my mom, who has a strong faith, prayed that I would find a wife with characteristics she knew I needed in my life because she knew me my heart and character better than most people.
She's a good wife King also you seems to balance her, I'm not Muslim but love what it stands for.
Great video, from a guy that has been married 40 years, you give good advice, I wish you both the best.
That's so humbling to hear, alhamdulilah. 🙏🤍 Thank you for commenting! ☺️
You guys speak so humbly and amaras personality is so addictive she just brings so much happiness and positivity❤️ her smile literally is so beautiful ❤️❤️💕
My faith in love being restored how beautiful 😍
That's super sweet 🤗☺️
I am not religious at all and I appreciate you both. Way to be an example and candid.
Very kind of you to say. Thank you ☺️💙
Wow you deserve a medal bro 👍😂. Some great advice here. If you have kids the advice about positive comments is true there. Always respect, listen and praise positive behaviour and achievements to your children too 😊
I’m getting married and this was very eye opening and refreshing thank you ❤️❤️
I love the “reset” bit at the end so much and not falling into power play. It’s so easy to fall into that trap, but it’s so important to stay on the same level and talk things out.
Your advice is on point, and as the years go on some things will change, but some of things you’ve said will form the foundations of your marriage.
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I think am ready for marriage now😂😂😂love you guys❤❤
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We love you too x
The headcover colour is beautiful and it definitely suits you.
You guys have learned a lot about each other and the dynamics of an healthy relationship.
You guys are speaking truth and making it fun at the same time😍😍
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Prayer can produce peace and intimacy. I believe a praying man is attractive as well. Yes. Play together. My husband loves that.
Yesssss! 💯
I think this was great. Communication and compassion are king. I would add that you have to be each other’s shield from the outside would and not allow others to the steal the peace you create in your home. A great marriage requires 3 things, Commitment, Companionship, and passion. You guys are awesome. Never stop putting in the work to maintain your marriage.
This had been so helpful 🙏 I feel more need normal now.
I do some of these things, the anxiety and scatterbrainedness. 😅
Reading all the articles and books, looking for the red flags, linking music with emotions too much, fear when watching a show where a guy is bad to the girl, or seeing divorce everywhere frightening me.
I'm not used to guys either, what they're capable of scares me.
But a praying, godly man of real integrity is very attractive, will feel safe and truly incredible
if the guy is bad to the girl its usually because the girl disrespected him or over stepped her boundaries
Thanks guys. Very very valid and good points. I think courtesy is so key. When you just want to kill each other in a marriage, remaining courteous is very important.
Courtesy & also finding your spouse attractive. 😂 My aunty once told me to make sure I marry a man I find very handsome so that when we want to kill each other I can think to myself 'ahhhh...at least his face is nice, I can't be that mad'. 🤣 It's so real! Glad you enjoyed it. Xx
@@TheXs.Official ha ha that's very sweet. I'm Bangladeshi and my husband is West Indian. We've been married for almost 14 years now Alhamdulillah plus 2 kids later..... Looks don't last...especially after children!!!. Rather as you said, the Deen and the manners is what remains.
7:49 he reversed her game 😂😂
This was so refreshing thank you for sharing Sufyan is a very wise man and Amara I resonate with you so much reading all the articles😂
We're so glad you liked it. & THE ARTICLES LIIIIIE 😭😂❤️
Hi I’m a new subscriber love you pair as a couple your so fun to watch easily relatable
yo Sufiyan that hand levels up n down, excellent visual man.. totally makes sense. One has to remember to rise up to redeem themselves n it makes sense. What sucks is when you are right n she harms u..but still acts as if u did something wrong while in reality she did.. but she can't C her own mistake AT ALL... thats what happens, the disconnect... i felt that in my marriage n i was waiting for her to apologize, she just never did... cuz she even tho did me wrong, just never saw it. BUT yea those hand levels make me realize the distance between us grew n grew.
MashaAllah this video was very uplifting.May Allah continue to put Barakah in your union Ameen..
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This has little to do with religion- although it helps you folk- it's being honest and digging deep and wanting a positivie marriage- working together. Being humble and keep building
Well as Muslim, it has everything to do with religion. It is complete guidance. You don’t have to discredit the religion brother. Just respectful opinion
Such a beautiful couple Masha’Allah. May Allah continue to bless you in your marriage 😊 Really good points made.
Ameen 🤲 jzk for your duas. May Allah SWT reward you. Glad you enjoyed the points! ☺️
Well said ,love you guys
Very interesting topic quite enjoyed. Your wife is beautiful and so jolly.May God continue to bless the both of you.
Just discovered you, love that you are so real.
This is from trinidad and tobago
I would love to see sufiyan's mother on the channel😍☺️
Ma Sha Allah great advice guy's
This gave me hope! Thx you.
Thank you for a very good and entertaining❤️. Thank you guys, for so much good advice❤️
Y’all are sooo hilarious 😂😂😂❤️❤️❤️Allah bless y’all ❤️❤️❤️
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Super amazing couple!!!!
I hope you're both feeling better. This is so sweet Mashallah. Amara is literally my spirit being! I love you both and this was so helpful ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ ❤❤❤❤❤❤
🤗💖💖💖 Feeling loads better, alhamdulilah! Your comments are too sweet 🙈 thanks for the love ❤️ SO happy it was helpful to you! Makes me happy x
@@TheXs.Official omg you know I'm a regular commenter 🥰🥰🥰 ٱلْحَمْدُ لِلَّٰهِ
Jazakallah for being so open. MA SHA ALLAH
I think in the first year every one is abit "paranoid" n also "self conscious". So we're always ready to defend n that leads to an argue.
I have 8 brothers n 3 were married n one of them told me before I got married. The first year you'll be learning each other keep that in mind and don't argue over every little thing. lol now we've all been married for 11 to 9 years n we sit and laugh at the stupidest argument we've had.
ok.. you guys are just way too cute. Absolutely love your interactions together.. Hey Safari... what a gwan??
Wow
I pray that inshallah one day my marriage could be as cute as yours 🤩
You guys are so funny and cute.
Beautiful couple masha'Allah, beautiful advice and I've made notes insha'Allah thank you to you both :) x Always so fun to watch!
Aw mashallah this vlog is so sweet stay blessed xx
You guys are so lovely MashAllah ❤
Ok, I am now officially invested in u guys
MA ur videos r so raw and real and awe inspiring mA ❤ 💖 alhamdulillah
Allah akbar I'm learning so much and resonating so much with the things u guys r saying
May u both ways b happy, blessed iA..
This is so sweet ❤️ may Allah SWT keep you happy and blessed too. So happy you're enjoying the videos! ☺️💖
Love your video God bless you both. My homie
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Love this!
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masha allah beautifull couple😍😍❤❤❤
Salaam to both of you and lots of congratulations i like your video and also you are Marshall lovely couple
Wasalaam xx thank you 🥰❤️
How long did you guys date before getting married?
Hi I'm a new subscriber to your channel
Love all ur videos
Where are you guys living at this moment
No shooting images.
Love u guys
Your TH-cam channel name should be ( The Perfect Match )..
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Shalam
Mashallah nice alhamdulillah ❤🤍❤🤍💯💯💞💞
Masha allah beautiful new subscribers
Sister you have to treach him Urdu too, hope you also speak and understand Urdu too.
this is super rare for pakistani to marry black person. A black man marry pakistani lady...unheard of.
How long yall been married?
Do you have kids?
Amara pink is your colour MA! You’re literally like the older sister I never had😭 I love how you openly talk about the topic of marriage, most of the time people expect us to already know the ins and outs based off what we see (from our parents own marriage etc.) or hear. Everyone’s experience is different. Thank you for this video❤️
Aww thanks Iqra 🙊🙈 I feel so fancy wearing a different colour 🤣 my little sister gave me this one! Everyone's experience really is different and there's so much I stressed about that I wish I was reassured about before. 😂 I hope I can share bits sometimes for girls especially to feel reassured by ❤️ talk about things girls might worry about. & YES PLZZZ. I LOVE BEING A BIG SISTER. IT'S THE BEST THING EVER. 👭 I have my 2 sisters from my parents but have adopted more along the way. 😂 Plenty of room for more 🤗 x
@@TheXs.Official I love the fact that your parents adopted! It honestly is such a beautiful and precious thing to do! The only hijab colour I ever wear is black😭🤚🏼 AND YES! IVE ALWAYS WANTED A BIG SISTER😭 imagine the embarrassment that would have been avoided when I first learnt how to do a hijab, if I had an older sister to teach me🥺 Oh God, I’m getting shivers remembering😩
😂😂 Nono I didn't mean real adoption, I meant a lot of my sisters' friends have become little sisters to me too now. I don't think I explained well 🤣❤️
...but sidenote, adopting is such a beautiful thing to do mA. 🤲 X
Black is my main go-to aswell, I'm trying to be more adventurous. Maybe you can too now 😂 we'll do it together! X
@@TheXs.Official OHHHH😮 See, sometimes my brain cells go to party in Hawaii leaving me stranded on my own😔 ANYWAY, I’ll give an update on my ‘adventures of a hijabi trying to wear colours other than black’😎
🤣🤣🤣🤣 you're hilarious ❤️ YES! Keep me updated x and tell your brain cells to send me pics from Hawaii 😚 xoxo
That Hijab colour looks GORGEOUS ON YOU DARLING 🌸
🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈 thank you thank you. It's my 'i'm feeling fancy' option right now so I appreciate that 😂❤️
@@TheXs.Official well you’re WORKING IT SIS! Also love the insight on married life, will revisit this if I get married in the future Inshallah! 🥰
You guys are so positive and happy. All young couples need to watch this. You guys are the best.
- Colour deficient - 😅 😂 🤣 😹
I’ve been saying it all my life 😩😂😅
You have said very good things May Allah bless you .cute couple Ma shaa Allah..Much love and God Bless🖤
Alhamdulillah. It’s advice for ourselves also. May Allah improve us all 🤲🏽☺️🖤
@@TheXs.Official آمين يارب العالمين
Amara&Sufiyan are officially MY FAVORITE CONTENT CREATORS♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️😭 I love the advice that both of you gave about talking it through fights in marriage. You guys are hilarious and Amara can you please show your makeup routine!! I only wear makeup when I have to so I go for neutral looks girl your looking so graceful Masha’Allah. Sufiyan can you please do more videos on reciting prayers your voice Masha’Allah when you recited was outstanding!! I love both yours and Amara’s British accent in general even both of your dimples are adorable 😊 I can relate to Amara because damn there are so many sites for advice on marriage 😂 I have not found the one but tips really do help😍♥️ JazakAllah!
WOOOOO! We're honoured! 😂💃💖 So glad you enjoyed the video. I don't wear makeup much day-to-day so routine is about 3 products and very boring, too boring for video 🙈 but I like it neutral too. This is about as fancy as my makeup gets 😂 & Yesssss ❤️ his voice mA mA. I shot that's footage secretly of him one day to keep because it's so beautiful mA & I love to play it when he's too shy to recite for me 🙊 really happy the advice helped & remember, BE BETTER THAN ME. STAY AWAY FROM THE COSMO ARTICLES! 🙈👀 They don't tell you that you need all the love languages! 🤣 Xx
@@TheXs.Official which neutral pallet do you use for the eyeshadows♥️ And I’m staying away from those magazines 😂 🤟🏼 I can’t wait for the next videos but I already know you two will nail it!!
@@aj__love5919 I don't have a palette, too many options for my 1 look. 😂
I mix the concealer on my lid with powder and bronzer instead & hope you like this next one 😌🤭
@@TheXs.Official it works perfectly and we are all waiting for your next video !🙌🏼
Sufiyan's impression of Amara 14:14, 😹 Never gets old!
It's adorable how he copies the way she nags lolz. I can picture Sufiyan mimicking her, even when they're an elderly couple Insha'Allah.
MashaAllah the most beautiful hijabi I have ever seen 😍
Oh wow, that's such a sweet compliment 🙈🙈 if that doesn't make a girl feel good in her hijab then I don't know what could! So kind x
What a great video, so much good advice. Married 5 years now and everything you said is so releatable. I love watching yous talk together, may Allah swt bless your marriage with so much love and happiness 💗 Thank you for giving out REAL advice 💌
Made me light up to read this ❤️ so nice that you've been married longer than us and found relatability in this. Ameen wa iyyaki. May Allah SWT protect you and your family, bless you in adundance and give you all places in jannat al firdous 🤲 ameen x
Love is so beautiful! Thank you for sharing!
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Forget about all the advise others have given you about how to live as a married couple, you have to find what works for you. The only advise you should take to heart is when it's about the Dean of Islam.
I LOVE YOU GUYS TOGETHER 💗💗💗💗
WE LOVE THAT YOU LOVE THAT WE LOVE THAT YOU LOVE US TOGETHER!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
best channel to watch on a Sunday evening. lots of love x
Eyyyy! Alhamdulilah x how lovely to hear ☺️
Such a great video and everything is very eloquently stated mashaAllah! Happy to have stumbled upon your channel - now a new subscriber. An Egyptian 🇪🇬 tuning in from Canada 🇨🇦!
When Amara was talking about like not being able to trust people / Sufiyan. I think that was more anxiety, rather then how she feels about Sufiyan. And I am the same with people, I get really anxious when it comes to trusting people. But what's worked for me is, yes looking at their character like Sufiyan mentioned. But also, trusting God. Bc in uncertain situations, God is the certainty. So being like this person is a good person, and they have the capability of hurting me. But I will believe that they won't bc god has control over them, and God is mercifull and loving.
Yes, definitely more anxious thinking. Not based on reality at all or the person. & Remembering God really does ease it and bring you back, it's just a very active thing you have to remember to do in the moment. That you don't need to fear hurt off the ones you love when Allah SWT will always be your biggest protector and deepest relationship. ❤️🤲
Sufiyan is so LUCKY to have her mashaAllah. They are both amazing mashaAllah 🥰
Amara’s energy is beautiful, its her laughter for me😂...... I just found myself an inspirational channel about imaan and islamic relationships❤️💚💛
Awwwwww thank you sis! 🙈🙈❤️ & so happy you've joined us xxx
Am the insta girl Amara 😂😂😂😂😂hiiiii
Hiiiiiii! ❤️ So happy to see you here🤗😂 I hope you liked the video! HI AGAIN X 100 💖💖💖💖
Love the transparency
I just came across your channel and binge watching all your video. You guys seem like such a lovely genuine couple.
You really made me think about my marriage, you don't realise but just get comfortable with each other that sometimes you let the little things slip like the basics in appreciating each other an letting them know, may Allah(swt) bless you both abundantly in your journey and reward you for helping others in theirs InshAllah 🥰🤲
❤️ ameen
Seriously felt exact same thing.
May God help us.
Love your videos, keep them coming, power couple, I would love it , if you can do a scene from etugrul gazi, etugrul and halima , how much patient they are?
Favourite video so far 🤍
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This channel is my happy place ❤️💯
As a newly married muslimah, Im so grateful for this channel. Thank you for being so transparent and relatable.
Thank You for sharing interesting topic Alhamdulillah. So true us women usually overthink things and that can cause problems.
You both explained it so well.
The funny thing you said about watching a movie and it effecting the mind and outplay the negative emotion of it. Reality and fantasy are totally different in life yes.
Shukran 😊
Hello
Your video was very realistic and make sure both of you continue to keep your communication open and honest
I like the fact both of you understand how dangerous preconceived notions can be... Especially as it relates to marriage
Wishing both of you all the best and continued success!!
Amara I keep laughing with you , you're so funny 😆🤣😂
Awww, that's the best! 😂🙈❤️
Great advice guys. Sending love from Jamaica.
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Hi Fathima! ❤️
@@TheXs.Official Hi , love watching all the funny skits in your videos lol 😂🥰🤍
I love you all. My cheeks hurt because your videos keep me smiling throughout. Well said and well done Amara and Soufian. Wish When I got married years ago that I had the maturity that you both speak with. Beautiful as always.🌺💕
Amara pink is your colour, I think you should try other brighter colours. Love your channel 😍
Am married and found this so insightful!very applicable,healthy and real great advice!
So lovely to hear! ❤️
Ah the video that I’ve always wanted to see! I’m Pakistani from the U.K. and I’m turning 28…still not married. I’m so glad though because I was pretty immature before and seeing stuff like this is really helpful! I admit even now I fantasise about marriage but I’m trying to tell myself that it’s not always going to be rainbows and sunshine. Also I would never read a magazine from a western perspective because it’s all BS. I would rather get actual ISLAMIC advice! Why are so many people falling into the trap of western values when they don’t even work! The women are rude and that is something that is pushed onto them. Men are being feminised and you can see there is a problem because young men in the U.K. have a high suicide rate. So instead of fixing a problem we’ve made things worse. I hope that insha Allah I can find a husband like Sufiyaan who I can also talk to so comfortably (I’m an introvert with anxiety). Ps love the videos and keep them coming! ❤️❤️❤️
Mashaallah may allah beautify you're ending ,please put you're hair down it's haram
Hands down mashallah the most beautiful merging of a couple I've seen. God bless your marriage even more and protect it. Had to say mashallah several times whilst watching and such sound and meaningful advice.
What an incredibly sweet thing to read! Thank you so much 🥺💖 Ameen to your dua 🤲 may Allah SWT bless you xx
Allah must keep you happy nd protect you