I'm one of the goofy folks that have been impressed by your 45% level of effort for a LONG TIME! I can't wait to see what you do at 50%!!! To keep it 💯, it's the authenticity over everything. The quality has increased over time, but YOU are the anchor. No one should have to try too hard to be themselves and you've mastered that. You create videos that make people wanna be your friend in real life. HAPPY BDAY! I'll be celebrating mine on the 27th.
Aw look at these TH-cam streets bringing my favs together in one area! ❤🤗 Love ya and the girls and your Wife La Guardia! And ya it be cool to see a collab some how with Evelyn!!! Have her as an Auntie Collab 😱❤
I remember when I was 23 years old I threw away all things colorful that I thought was childish because I was an ADULT now and associated that with minimalism and total boredom. Now, at 27 I am more colorful and artistically creative than I have ever been. I have my beanie baby collection right behind me and I'm not ashamed anymore. Holding on to your zest for life is important in adulthood. You want to enjoy and be fulfilled your ENTIRE life not just the first 30 years.
Yessss! College taught me I had never learned study skills because up until then, I'd never really been challenged. The terror that gripped my soul when I finally had to TRY was immense.
I think for many in our generation, it’s hard to feel “adult” because our adult paths don’t look like what society and media has told us it’s supposed to look like...the house the car, the family, the stable “office job”. They have been the milestone markers of adulthood for many years. So, it really feels like twirling in the wind when you don’t have updated milestone markers for this version of adulthood.
You said a thing. I'm 25 and I don't feel likr mature adult at all. I still stay with my dad, I make $11.40 an hour at my job. I have a small business but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere and I just can't seem to get ahead in life. It's such an awful feeling.
Girl...getting older is over rated. I am a whole 40..no kids and still trying to meet my husband and honestly feel like I am pretending to be an adult.
Me, a “perfectionist” who’s not getting results. Who’s terrified of being imperfect so doesn’t jump in. I had to realise no, no it’s not working. Success is the result of plenty of failure. Only after you get it right can you begin to refine things. If you’re worried about perfection, you’ll never begin.
Here's the thing: I don't think anyone ever feels like an adult. I'm 35, a director, and at least once a day, I think, "Why is anyone trusting me to do anything? I'm just a baby."
That's so cool tho because directors are looked at as super human. I wish you were my director we would go out for tea and chat about just being the way we are.
JenJen W.U. I wonder if my new boss feels that way. She’s like 35 managing our department... of a 57 year old and a 66 year old. The 66 year old quit, and the 57 year old is questioning where she went wrong that she now has a boss old enough to be her daughter.
Screaming from my backyard: "Happy Bithday, Internet Cousin!!!!!!" You are here. Alive and well!!! I'm celebrating!!!! PS...All this started my bday weekend. Everything I planned was cancelled within 24 hours. Crazy.
Same. My birthday is in late March and the world literally started to close on the Monday of my birthday week and it was definitely closed by my birthday on Friday.
"Unless life stops, life keeps going." What a CONCEPT!!!! Every video is constantly, always, a delight and a thought-provoking time to chill. Happy Birthday!! 🎉🎉
When i was approx. 11 my godmother toldme that she really loved he 30s. She said she loved her 30s because that was a time she felt really confident in herself. I carried that with me and when i turned 30 had that perspective and expectation. My 30s were full of ups and downs but I'm so appreciative of that small convo she and i had at 11. Happy birthday welcome to 30 Its a beautiful place to be 🎂
Happy Birthday both to you and your bro!!!! I myself am 33 and as I aged through my teens and 20s there was definitely a sense of panic?? Like in high school I envisioned that I would be this metropolitan man with a boyfriend/husband, his own nice apartment, maybe kids and a high paying job and as I got older I became harder on myself for not getting there - never mind my own disabilities and mental things that keep me from being neurotypical - and it wasn't until 27 as well that I realized 'oh, what I already am is good enough. I am already an adult with a 'real' job and an ability to take care of myself' and 'you know, beating up on myself isn't going to help get somewhere faster AND now I am still at the same place but feel worse' Gaining that sense of self and self love can be such a long process and I'm still very much in that journey but I feel very grateful now that I feel miles better than I did at 23 you know??
I’m 46 and time is of the essence. I’m literally staring 50 in the face and all my friends are traveling and taking vacays DURING Covid19 and I’m bunkered down in the house like that bihh Rona gonna jump my ass the moment I get on the plane🤦🏾♀️ This Gemini feels that if 2020 was a dish it would be liver and onions🤢 Happy Born day🙌🏾
I'm not part of your target demographic, but I love your videos. Let me tell you a life truth that I'm really **just** figuring out: The mind ages MUCH more slowly than the body. You've turned 30, but still feel/think of yourself as a girl. I'll be **50** next month and still feel 30. The life revelations you're experiencing will continue to happen, i.e., life continues to happen no matter what, so try to continue to grow and develop yourself no matter what stage you're in. Great video, keep up the good work - stay on your post because you drop gems of knowledge that encourage "oldheads" like me! 😅
I actually got really depressed when I turned 30. I was just really in my feelings, about no longer being 20 something. You know when you're in middle school (for me anyway), you imagine you're going to 'be great' at 25 (because 25 IS SOoo... OLD, at that age). Be Married, own a home etc. etc. & that hadn't quite happened for me, in fact this happiness thing (& the ideals and reality of what that means FOR ME, as well as just overall contentment & appreciation of my existing blessings.. is still a work in progress). I'm being very long winded rn, but I said all this to say.. I was over it by 31, that bday was a breeze, & I really enjoyed it. I'm several years passed 30 at this point, & although I still have many things I'd like to achieve.. I'm very grateful for how far I've come, BY THE GRACE OF GOD (& I choose to dwell/meditate on that). Abundant blessings to you, internet cousin (sincerely 🙏🌞💐).
Her parents are Kenyan,?, well it now makes sense.... Her accent changes got me confused a lot ...African American?, Kenyan? , Nigerian ?like seriously 😂😂😂😂
"Your life is the sum of your decisions" God, I feel like I had this stuck in my head all through my 20's, and that meant I could change anything in my life had I wanted and put in the effort. Which I guess is sort of true, but it's also so very exhausting. Turning 30 for me meant to sit down and really choose and take responsibility for that focused energy, knowing I'm leaving other things & projects behind and maybe I'll never get back to them... and that's ok. I guess. I still have to repeat myself that speech once in a while. Also, life can be unpredictable in a great way sometimes. Happy birthday, Evelyn 🎂🎉 I sure hope life keeps surprising you ❤
Yes!! I just learned about the concept of fear of success many people (esp women) experience in my Social Psychology course. It hit me that this is something I have and I tend to hold my own self back a lot.
That’s a fact about Leo’s not giving our all and people still being amazed so the idea of giving my 1000% and not living up the perceived reaction I stamped in my head is crippling 😩
I made a list of 30 things I learned in my 20s when I turned 30 in January and it put a lot into perspective for me. Also! The relatability of people being impressed with my throw away shit 😢 girl.
I feel that calling women I meet "girl", and having a hard time calling myself a woman. I am working on making myself really think about my word choice.
I honestly think that it's not your age that makes you feel like an adult, it's being a parent. The adult that has lost personality and just feels like an old person that is. You love your kids so much, that your whole being can easily be reduced to protecting them, loving them, worrying about them, and helping influence their growth. It is a concerted effort to having your own identity and not just being a parent. At least that is from my perspective.
What's shocking is how much of this is still true when you hit 40. I'm trying to wrap my head around turning 50 in a couple of years. We have to get over our projections about each number as we approach it. We still feel like ourselves, but the number coming at us just feels more and more surreal.
Evelyn you said “I only make YT videos” but you are the only channel who’s videos never cease to make laugh or make me feel like I have someone to relate to. Always grateful for your presence here and your insight is always so helpful for different parts of my life. Thank you for existing out here ❤️
happy birthday!! In my head I've been 30 since i've been 28 and I'm still only 29. Something abut realizing time is fake and doesn't matter clicked for me then too.
ItsRadishTime I feel the exact same & kinda not looking forward to 30 (Just turned 29) b/c I feel I should be so far career wise & I'm trying to make new friends b/c all of my old friends mostly from high school are married with children (I'm happy for them) so I feel like a bit of an outsider (single, no kids 🙎🏽)
@@thenightdances21 Take it from someone who is 3 years in the 30s gang, I had the same feelings. But once you get here you experience a sort of catharsis. You realize that you are exactly where you need to be and life is for living not striving. I went through a sort of renaissance with my friendships as well. I let go of a lot of friends (they weren't feeding my soul), I was over the same old same old. 'No Christine, I can no longer afford to pretend to listen to your relationship woes, I have a life to live'. I started to go out myself; to lunch, to dinner, to get sushi, to a bar, to the movies, travel or even group travels with people you don't know. There are travel agencies that offer these 'Singles Group Travel' trips, always opt for the international trips when if you can afford it. Also, going out alone allows you the opportunity to meet and converse with new people. Thb, I've always been a loner of sorts but I truly embraced it in my 30's, it just came with a lot of introspection for me and I am loving it.
mimiy2sesi thank you so MUCH!! Your words truly touch me & I seriously needed to hear this!! I've always been a bit of a loner also, that's why I was also feeling down about going into a new chapter not exploring places / or meeting new people. You definitely inspired me to embrace myself fully & start doing /seeing place by myself instead of just waiting for the "perfect time". Seriously thank you for telling me about these single travel groups!! I'm definitely going to look into them! Are these groups on specific social media sites or where could I find a creditable agency? My nerves have calmed after knowing everything is going to be ok (sounds silly I know but hearing another person say hey it's not bad, is so reassuring). Thank you❤️😃!!
@@thenightdances21 Yes, it truly isnt bad. Dating is better as you've learned the lessons of your 20's. The men are more secured, older & wiser and are ready to settle down. Although I never chased a man even in my 20s, in my 30's it was just so much easier, its like they finally got it. I actually turned down a few proposals since turning 30. Its like the men are the ones pressuring for committed relationships and marriages. I think your 30's is easier because you become more sure of yourself. It has been amazing for me. I've taken more trips between the ages of 29-33 than I've ever taken in my entire life. I'm actually getting ready to leave the US in a fews weeks to go to Africa to wait out the impending 2nd wave of this pandemic. I figure it would be much easier to get through another quarantine in the sun than the cold weather that will soon be upon us... Anyway, as far as travel companies go, I will say Intrepid Travel is pretty, they have an 18-29 singles group travels that may interest you and the go to just about every single continent as well. www.intrepidtravel.com/us but also use Google you might find a few reputable companies on there as well. You will be fine hun, you were born to thrive anot strive. Get reacquainted with yourself. Don't stress about where you feel you should be career wise, just continue to improved upon yourself, feed your soul and work on your inner self and everything outward will fall into place.
When you said “it’s been a while since I’ve gotten ready” I feel like you spoke to my soul. Happy Bday, Internet cousin! I hope the Lord blesses you abundantly this year and this decade! (And let me just say, your 30s are amazing. I look back at my 20s and think “yeah, that was cool”, but your 30s? They be poppin’!!!)
Honestly, I've watched that one video a NUMBER of times just to hear that "don't be afraid to be seen trying" bit again, because it's what I need to hear these days. Happy birthday!
"I also wanna be lazy." Rest is my priority lately and I got 6 months til 30, so I feel that mood. Rest is productive. Excited for what is ahead for you.
I’m 42, I have two young kids, have been married divorced and about to be remarried again, and girl, I JUST started feeling grown grown this past year...kinda 😉
I can relate. Swirling in the wind 🌬 Lol I definitely feel younger than I am. It’s a mind -🦆 with foreign parents cause you will forever be their “baby” . You could be 70 years old and still not grown in their eyes 😂
Happy Birthday, Evelyn! You are a joy to follow on The Internets. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and lifestyle activities with us. You are Amazing, Blessed & Highly Favored. Year 30 is just the tip of the iceberg, and I am here for it. Keep the content coming here, there, everywhere. And Happy Belated Birthday, LittleBo.
For me, (at 35), the 30s were all about learning to be a better friend, especially to women, without sacrificing myself in the process. Happy birthday, Evelyn!
Happy Birthday Aunty Evelyn 😩💓💓💓💓💓💓 you're such a joy and your content never fails to make me smile, no matter how many times I watch. You are truly talented and I wish you the absolute best in all your endeavors ❣❣❣❣ Also Happy birthday Baby Blo. Tbh because Evelyn calls him that all the time, I dont remember what his name is but nonetheless I'm grateful for you. I wish you all the best as well 😊💓💓
I am a 31 year old mother of 2 and your videos are like therapy for me!!! I swear you ALWAYS give me so much knowledge and say the most inspirational things!!!
Happiest of birthdays, Queen! The amount of inspiring me you did this YEAR. You might not feel it, but living is a crowning achievement. GO 'head witcha birthday puffs.
I didn't start feeling "grown up" until 2 weeks after my 40th birthday a few months ago.... then again that may have been covid forcing that feeling🤔. Nope! Just checked I'm still childish AF🤷🏾♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Happy birthday hun! 🎉
Happy birthday, Evelyn! I had a quarantine birthday last week and it was ... weird. Thank you for always ringing humor and realness to the internets, we're all so lucky to have you here. Take care of yourself! Love from Chicago
WOW. "My "not all" is stellar" I've always told people this...like if I really went for it, I am now, but I've known all along. Never heard someone articulate it so spot on
Happy birthday!!!! Most of my faves are Leos somehow 🧐Shout out to the August babies!!☀️🥵 Had to come back. When you said you had plans to be on the beach and getting BLACK, I felt that. I’ll be in my driveway getting extra dark playing beach sounds in the background this year 🥺🤧 I’m back again. The not giving you’re all and still being impressive?!???!! (looks back at K-12, undergrad, grad school👀). If you preach any more, this comment will be a dissertation lmao
Happy birthday Evelyn! You deserve to spend more time being lazy! As a 36 year old, I didn’t start feeling like an adult until I started working with people who were born when I was in Jr. High, lol. That’s when it really hits you, I think.
HAPPY 30th BORNDAY ANNIVERSARY, INTERNET DAUGHTAH!!! TOOT! 🥳🎁🎂WOOHOO!🥂🍾YEAAA! 🎉💐XOXOXOXO!🤗😘🤗😘🤗😘YOU and your GOD given beauty, intellect and talents are SUBLIME...grow, but pullleeezzz DON'T ever change. May HE bless your parents for their obedience in bringing you and Babylo into the world.🙏🏽Applause! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Happy belated BDay🎂to Babylo, too!
Welcome to the 30s we have better planned out snacks with some reising in the back! 🥂🍾 🧆 🥟 Love what you repeated from your 27th bday video about not being scared to be seen trying. It definitely is a vulnerable position because we're supposed to 'know already' but no one knows everything already! And if someone does, then maybe they can give me a hand or three! Hey! 👋🤞✌ Happy birthday! 💛
30 seems to be a year of reckoning. That was the first year I woke up and, had I been at home and my mom asked how did it feel to be 30, I would have had some things to say. I actually felt different. At 47, a lot of the times I still don't feel "grown" because I haven't hit like *ANY* of the milestones of adulthood -marriege, child, house, but I am good with that. I am settling into just being me, my bout to be 48 year old self. Like you said, unless it stops, life goes on. Every day is a precious gift and imma enjoy each one until the last one. Happy birthday, young sista. 🎂🍧
Happy birthday, Evelyn. Be kind to yourself and relax into whom you're becoming. I turned 51 in early July. My age has never been a factor in anything I've done. Live life on your terms and have fun. My daughter is 31 and fabulous.
Me-37. I call myself a "woman" when I'm sassy and want to assert my power. I call myself a "girl" when I went too far as a "woman" and need to make an apology to myself and also forgive myself for wildin out a little much lol
Omg I do the same thing. I think of myself as a girl in my head. I’m very much a kid. But when I do grown up things I say out loud: Oooo I’m a grown woman. I’m grown. And damn that lack of coming of age is something I never even considered. Wow. Hella swirling in the wind 🌬
Happy birthday Evelyn and belated birthday to baby blo!! I hate that when you said "life is what you make it" I immediately thought of Hannah Montana 🤣😩
Where all my 8/1 babies at?! Happy birthday to us!
hBD Evelyn!!!
Happy birthday Evelyn!!!! It's my son's birthday today too. August 1st babies are incredible, aren't they?
Happy birthday to youuuuuuu !!!
Happy Birthday!!! 🦁
Eyyyy twinses!! 🎂❤️ Happy Birthday 🥳
I'm one of the goofy folks that have been impressed by your 45% level of effort for a LONG TIME! I can't wait to see what you do at 50%!!! To keep it 💯, it's the authenticity over everything. The quality has increased over time, but YOU are the anchor. No one should have to try too hard to be themselves and you've mastered that. You create videos that make people wanna be your friend in real life. HAPPY BDAY! I'll be celebrating mine on the 27th.
La Guardia Cross - Please have a crossover! I desperately need to have y’all interact! Virtually, real life (when it’s safe), summin’ 🖤✌🏾
Hey stranger!
Aw look at these TH-cam streets bringing my favs together in one area! ❤🤗
Love ya and the girls and your Wife La Guardia! And ya it be cool to see a collab some how with Evelyn!!! Have her as an Auntie Collab 😱❤
TWO OF MY FAVE TH-camRS!! love you both, happy birthday
OMG! Yes please make a colab,she could be the kids internet aunty
I’m 40.. have two tiny humans and STILL feel a kid sometimes. And that’s ok ;)
#facts. Me too. Have two littles, a career, a whole ex husband, a new fiancé, and I don’t even feel grown grown everyday.
I remember when I was 23 years old I threw away all things colorful that I thought was childish because I was an ADULT now and associated that with minimalism and total boredom. Now, at 27 I am more colorful and artistically creative than I have ever been. I have my beanie baby collection right behind me and I'm not ashamed anymore. Holding on to your zest for life is important in adulthood. You want to enjoy and be fulfilled your ENTIRE life not just the first 30 years.
I recently started a lalaloopsy doll collection, I'm in my 30's! Stay young and colorful my friend!
Welcome to the thirties! It's LIT in here (as the young folks say LOL). Happy Birthday Girl? Sis? Lady? WOMAN!!!
Not wanting to give it your all is some STRONG former gifted student energy lol
Yessss! College taught me I had never learned study skills because up until then, I'd never really been challenged. The terror that gripped my soul when I finally had to TRY was immense.
You just preached an entire sermon. I aim to give 25% across the board. My 50% is ... Excessive and alienates others.
I think for many in our generation, it’s hard to feel “adult” because our adult paths don’t look like what society and media has told us it’s supposed to look like...the house the car, the family, the stable “office job”. They have been the milestone markers of adulthood for many years. So, it really feels like twirling in the wind when you don’t have updated milestone markers for this version of adulthood.
So true
Very well said.
What would you suggest as markers of adulthood for these new circumstances?
@@kristalcampbell3650 Being able to pay your bills and have a little left over. I wish I was joking.
You said a thing. I'm 25 and I don't feel likr mature adult at all. I still stay with my dad, I make $11.40 an hour at my job. I have a small business but it doesn't seem to be going anywhere and I just can't seem to get ahead in life. It's such an awful feeling.
“OH! Unless life stops, life keeps going.” GIRL. You got me with this one. Also Happy birthday! Grateful for your observations. ❤️
Girl...getting older is over rated. I am a whole 40..no kids and still trying to meet my husband and honestly feel like I am pretending to be an adult.
Me too 43 still looking lmao 😂
"Don't be afraid to be seen trying"
You just dragged me by my tshirt😭
Edit: since we're on the topic, i have a small TH-cam channel 🕺🏾
Right?
Saaame 😭 I didn’t kno but I really needed to hear that. 🔥
This the one.
Me, a “perfectionist” who’s not getting results. Who’s terrified of being imperfect so doesn’t jump in. I had to realise no, no it’s not working. Success is the result of plenty of failure. Only after you get it right can you begin to refine things. If you’re worried about perfection, you’ll never begin.
I subscribed sunshine!!! ☀️
"People be like 'I'm pregnant' and I'm like 'Ooooh, but no. It's okay. Maybe they wanted that.' " 😂 Happy burfday to you and baby blo!
Brooke Smith 😂😂
who is baby blo?? :O
@@m.f.barbosa858 Evelyn's baby brother. I think his name is Steven.
🤣🤣🤣
Li-sten
“Whenever I hear someone got pregnant. I’m like “oooo”” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Whenever 20-26y olds tell me they are pregnant I just stare shocked at the maturity and readiness whilst I at 28 am still acting like a child 🙇
Tracy A 😭😭😭😭😭
I hollered at that too 😂😂😂😂😂
Here's the thing: I don't think anyone ever feels like an adult. I'm 35, a director, and at least once a day, I think, "Why is anyone trusting me to do anything? I'm just a baby."
That's so cool tho because directors are looked at as super human. I wish you were my director we would go out for tea and chat about just being the way we are.
JenJen W.U. I wonder if my new boss feels that way. She’s like 35 managing our department... of a 57 year old and a 66 year old.
The 66 year old quit, and the 57 year old is questioning where she went wrong that she now has a boss old enough to be her daughter.
So comforting to read! 🙃
Wow this is the most comforting thing I’ve read. I thought it was just me.
If you're bringing it, you deserve to be in charge. We need to trust the confidence other people have in us.
I shed a tear cause my right edge hasn’t recovered either.
“Real Gs move in silence like gnocchi” 😂😂 I laughed a little too loud
LOL RIGHT that got me
Evelyn is a genius!!!
Me too 😂😂😂
@@erikabutler522 Erika I Agreeeee lol
@@kmichel2797 lol I said “Got meee” right before reading your comment same!!!
"Look around, look around at how lucky we are to be alive right now."
Screaming from my backyard: "Happy Bithday, Internet Cousin!!!!!!" You are here. Alive and well!!! I'm celebrating!!!! PS...All this started my bday weekend. Everything I planned was cancelled within 24 hours. Crazy.
Same. My birthday is in late March and the world literally started to close on the Monday of my birthday week and it was definitely closed by my birthday on Friday.
"Unless life stops, life keeps going." What a CONCEPT!!!! Every video is constantly, always, a delight and a thought-provoking time to chill. Happy Birthday!! 🎉🎉
“I don’t know what I’m ‘posed to be doing” #facts I’m 32 this year and I feel the same way lol
Happy Birthday internet cousin.
Happy birthday, Evelyn! Hope your 30s are even better than your 20s. You’re amazing and I’m glad you use this platform to express yourself. 💖
When i was approx. 11 my godmother toldme that she really loved he 30s. She said she loved her 30s because that was a time she felt really confident in herself. I carried that with me and when i turned 30 had that perspective and expectation. My 30s were full of ups and downs but I'm so appreciative of that small convo she and i had at 11. Happy birthday welcome to 30 Its a beautiful place to be 🎂
Happy Birthday both to you and your bro!!!!
I myself am 33 and as I aged through my teens and 20s there was definitely a sense of panic?? Like in high school I envisioned that I would be this metropolitan man with a boyfriend/husband, his own nice apartment, maybe kids and a high paying job and as I got older I became harder on myself for not getting there - never mind my own disabilities and mental things that keep me from being neurotypical - and it wasn't until 27 as well that I realized 'oh, what I already am is good enough. I am already an adult with a 'real' job and an ability to take care of myself' and 'you know, beating up on myself isn't going to help get somewhere faster AND now I am still at the same place but feel worse'
Gaining that sense of self and self love can be such a long process and I'm still very much in that journey but I feel very grateful now that I feel miles better than I did at 23 you know??
I’m 46 and time is of the essence. I’m literally staring 50 in the face and all my friends are traveling and taking vacays DURING Covid19 and I’m bunkered down in the house like that bihh Rona gonna jump my ass the moment I get on the plane🤦🏾♀️ This Gemini feels that if 2020 was a dish it would be liver and onions🤢 Happy Born day🙌🏾
That’s exactly what dish it would be! 👎🏽
I'm not part of your target demographic, but I love your videos. Let me tell you a life truth that I'm really **just** figuring out: The mind ages MUCH more slowly than the body.
You've turned 30, but still feel/think of yourself as a girl. I'll be **50** next month and still feel 30. The life revelations you're experiencing will continue to happen, i.e., life continues to happen no matter what, so try to continue to grow and develop yourself no matter what stage you're in.
Great video, keep up the good work - stay on your post because you drop gems of knowledge that encourage "oldheads" like me! 😅
Evelyn, hits a lot of demographics. Her vlogs are fun and educational. But mostly fun.
💯 for the 40+ fans.
That makes 2 of us in here! 50+ club, SO...i'm in my 5th decade of life? lol. I guess...enjoy your content Ev, its refreshingly entertaining. HBD.
I'm 45 and definitely don't feel it. I keep thinking when am I going to feel my age?
Same I'm 45 and I can totally relate to what you said☺
I actually got really depressed when I turned 30. I was just really in my feelings, about no longer being 20 something. You know when you're in middle school (for me anyway), you imagine you're going to 'be great' at 25 (because 25 IS SOoo... OLD, at that age). Be Married, own a home etc. etc. & that hadn't quite happened for me, in fact this happiness thing (& the ideals and reality of what that means FOR ME, as well as just overall contentment & appreciation of my existing blessings.. is still a work in progress). I'm being very long winded rn, but I said all this to say.. I was over it by 31, that bday was a breeze, & I really enjoyed it. I'm several years passed 30 at this point, & although I still have many things I'd like to achieve.. I'm very grateful for how far I've come, BY THE GRACE OF GOD (& I choose to dwell/meditate on that). Abundant blessings to you, internet cousin (sincerely 🙏🌞💐).
“... but we teach people how to love themselves.” Really though, internet prima, you’re teaching me to be more patient with myself.
Lol at Evelyn telling her Kenyan parents to ‘fall back’ 😂😂😂
Her parents are Kenyan,?, well it now makes sense.... Her accent changes got me confused a lot ...African American?, Kenyan? , Nigerian ?like seriously 😂😂😂😂
LEO INTERNET COUSIN UNITE!!!🙌🏾 ♌️ 🦁
Yes I'm screaming 😂
Leo Gang!! ♌️♌️👏🏽👏🏽
Mine was July 31st! When’s yours?!
KEE'S WAY mine was July 23rd 💃🏽🙌🏾
Happy birthday to us !🥂💛
When I was in the store and this little girl called me "that lady" I felt really weird because I feel like I'm not an ADULT adult lol.
Yes when I wasn’t ID’d once I was taken a back. I was like I’m an Adult 👩🏾
Try having a teenager call you auntie. Dude I’m 27!!!
I'm always confused by that. I look young so depending on who it is I'm Miss or Ma'am and never know if I'm going to get carded
M. I’m 27 too ! Omg I could not ! Big sis is a reach but it would suffice !
@@msmiami212 When your sister has a stepkid who's a teenager, it feels intense VERY quickly lol.
"Your life is the sum of your decisions" God, I feel like I had this stuck in my head all through my 20's, and that meant I could change anything in my life had I wanted and put in the effort. Which I guess is sort of true, but it's also so very exhausting. Turning 30 for me meant to sit down and really choose and take responsibility for that focused energy, knowing I'm leaving other things & projects behind and maybe I'll never get back to them... and that's ok. I guess. I still have to repeat myself that speech once in a while. Also, life can be unpredictable in a great way sometimes.
Happy birthday, Evelyn 🎂🎉 I sure hope life keeps surprising you ❤
"Every hair is precious" I felt that.
My hair is naturally thin and sparse. I need every one lol
*"unless life just stops, life just keeps going" - Evelyn on turning 30*
Veni Vidi Amavi whew this hit me
I totally felt that, only giving 45% and people be impressed. Why I need to do more? 😂 #fearofsuccess
Yes!! I just learned about the concept of fear of success many people (esp women) experience in my Social Psychology course. It hit me that this is something I have and I tend to hold my own self back a lot.
That’s a fact about Leo’s not giving our all and people still being amazed so the idea of giving my 1000% and not living up the perceived reaction I stamped in my head is crippling 😩
When she said that it literally spoke to my existence as a fellow Leo
Lol. I haven't heard anyone else call their parents "parental units".
I made a list of 30 things I learned in my 20s when I turned 30 in January and it put a lot into perspective for me. Also! The relatability of people being impressed with my throw away shit 😢 girl.
That's a great idea! I'm going to do that with my girlfriends!
elmariamgibson I’d love to read it if you’re comfy sharing
I'm 25 and it is a relief to get this kind of honest perspective from someone who remembers what it's like to be where I am. Appreciate you 🖖🏾 💚
Happy Birthday!! "real g's move in silence like gnocchi" I need this on a shirt 👀
I feel that calling women I meet "girl", and having a hard time calling myself a woman. I am working on making myself really think about my word choice.
I honestly think that it's not your age that makes you feel like an adult, it's being a parent. The adult that has lost personality and just feels like an old person that is. You love your kids so much, that your whole being can easily be reduced to protecting them, loving them, worrying about them, and helping influence their growth. It is a concerted effort to having your own identity and not just being a parent. At least that is from my perspective.
What's shocking is how much of this is still true when you hit 40. I'm trying to wrap my head around turning 50 in a couple of years. We have to get over our projections about each number as we approach it. We still feel like ourselves, but the number coming at us just feels more and more surreal.
people with perfect skin putting on foundation.
me: weird flex
"My "not all", is stellar!!!" Your words really spoke to me today... thank you.
Evelyn you said “I only make YT videos” but you are the only channel who’s videos never cease to make laugh or make me feel like I have someone to relate to. Always grateful for your presence here and your insight is always so helpful for different parts of my life. Thank you for existing out here ❤️
happy birthday!! In my head I've been 30 since i've been 28 and I'm still only 29. Something abut realizing time is fake and doesn't matter clicked for me then too.
I just feel after 26 you’re 30 hahah . I had a mid life crises at 25 and after that I was like imma just stop counting 😂
ItsRadishTime I feel the exact same & kinda not looking forward to 30 (Just turned 29) b/c I feel I should be so far career wise & I'm trying to make new friends b/c all of my old friends mostly from high school are married with children (I'm happy for them) so I feel like a bit of an outsider (single, no kids 🙎🏽)
@@thenightdances21 Take it from someone who is 3 years in the 30s gang, I had the same feelings. But once you get here you experience a sort of catharsis. You realize that you are exactly where you need to be and life is for living not striving. I went through a sort of renaissance with my friendships as well. I let go of a lot of friends (they weren't feeding my soul), I was over the same old same old. 'No Christine, I can no longer afford to pretend to listen to your relationship woes, I have a life to live'. I started to go out myself; to lunch, to dinner, to get sushi, to a bar, to the movies, travel or even group travels with people you don't know. There are travel agencies that offer these 'Singles Group Travel' trips, always opt for the international trips when if you can afford it. Also, going out alone allows you the opportunity to meet and converse with new people. Thb, I've always been a loner of sorts but I truly embraced it in my 30's, it just came with a lot of introspection for me and I am loving it.
mimiy2sesi thank you so MUCH!! Your words truly touch me & I seriously needed to hear this!! I've always been a bit of a loner also, that's why I was also feeling down about going into a new chapter not exploring places / or meeting new people. You definitely inspired me to embrace myself fully & start doing /seeing place by myself instead of just waiting for the "perfect time". Seriously thank you for telling me about these single travel groups!! I'm definitely going to look into them! Are these groups on specific social media sites or where could I find a creditable agency? My nerves have calmed after knowing everything is going to be ok (sounds silly I know but hearing another person say hey it's not bad, is so reassuring). Thank you❤️😃!!
@@thenightdances21 Yes, it truly isnt bad. Dating is better as you've learned the lessons of your 20's. The men are more secured, older & wiser and are ready to settle down. Although I never chased a man even in my 20s, in my 30's it was just so much easier, its like they finally got it. I actually turned down a few proposals since turning 30. Its like the men are the ones pressuring for committed relationships and marriages. I think your 30's is easier because you become more sure of yourself. It has been amazing for me. I've taken more trips between the ages of 29-33 than I've ever taken in my entire life. I'm actually getting ready to leave the US in a fews weeks to go to Africa to wait out the impending 2nd wave of this pandemic. I figure it would be much easier to get through another quarantine in the sun than the cold weather that will soon be upon us... Anyway, as far as travel companies go, I will say Intrepid Travel is pretty, they have an 18-29 singles group travels that may interest you and the go to just about every single continent as well. www.intrepidtravel.com/us but also use Google you might find a few reputable companies on there as well. You will be fine hun, you were born to thrive anot strive. Get reacquainted with yourself. Don't stress about where you feel you should be career wise, just continue to improved upon yourself, feed your soul and work on your inner self and everything outward will fall into place.
*Evelyn proceeding to put foundation on* - me: “literally nothing changed!” - you have amazing skin! 😍
When you said “it’s been a while since I’ve gotten ready” I feel like you spoke to my soul.
Happy Bday, Internet cousin! I hope the Lord blesses you abundantly this year and this decade! (And let me just say, your 30s are amazing. I look back at my 20s and think “yeah, that was cool”, but your 30s? They be poppin’!!!)
Honestly, I've watched that one video a NUMBER of times just to hear that "don't be afraid to be seen trying" bit again, because it's what I need to hear these days.
Happy birthday!
"I also wanna be lazy." Rest is my priority lately and I got 6 months til 30, so I feel that mood. Rest is productive. Excited for what is ahead for you.
U will probably start feeling more like an adult when people start addressing u as "miss" and "ma'am". For me, it started at 40 and I love it.
Don’t lose your amazing attitude. I’m well into my 50s and I’m starting a doctorate program in the fall. Always try new experiences!
"My not-all is stellar!..." Deeeeefinitely leo tings!! #Ifeelseen
"It's been a while since I've gotten ready" I feel that 🙈
Happy birthday internet cousin, just remember this year don’t count!! #leoseason #leos 🦁
Right
I’m 42, I have two young kids, have been married divorced and about to be remarried again, and girl, I JUST started feeling grown grown this past year...kinda 😉
I can relate. Swirling in the wind 🌬 Lol I definitely feel younger than I am. It’s a mind -🦆 with foreign parents cause you will forever be their “baby” . You could be 70 years old and still not grown in their eyes 😂
Happy Birthday, Evelyn! You are a joy to follow on The Internets. Thank you for sharing your thoughts and lifestyle activities with us. You are Amazing, Blessed & Highly Favored. Year 30 is just the tip of the iceberg, and I am here for it. Keep the content coming here, there, everywhere. And Happy Belated Birthday, LittleBo.
I completely feel the “my not all is stellar” 😅you got it!! Happy birthday🥰🥰
For me, (at 35), the 30s were all about learning to be a better friend, especially to women, without sacrificing myself in the process. Happy birthday, Evelyn!
This was a great talk.
“Forget these laid edges, ima let it shrivel up!” -Beyoncé
Happiest of Birthdays to you! 🤗🎉🎈
Happy birthday Evelyn! I love your commentary 🎂🍾 i feel you on calling myself woman... i still see myself a girl lol. I guess it's woman then
Evelyn, I so appreciate your candour and humour. As a 32 black girl from South Africa, every thought you've shared here is literally my experience(s).
HAPPPPPPPPPPPPYYYYYYYYY BORNDAY EVELYN!!! Love you GIRL!!! Stay positive!! Keep doing your TANG!! 🥰🥳🥰🥳🥰🥳🥳🥰
I’m 39. Promise it gets better every year. I’ve never been happier or more confident. Truly well seated in my throne of power.
Happy Birthday Aunty Evelyn 😩💓💓💓💓💓💓 you're such a joy and your content never fails to make me smile, no matter how many times I watch. You are truly talented and I wish you the absolute best in all your endeavors ❣❣❣❣
Also Happy birthday Baby Blo. Tbh because Evelyn calls him that all the time, I dont remember what his name is but nonetheless I'm grateful for you. I wish you all the best as well 😊💓💓
His name is Steve
@@PochamaRex see? Now I feel dumb because I knew that but I just couldnt remember 😭😭😭😭 thank youuuuu 😊
Happy Birthday Evelyn and Baby Blo!!!! 🥳🎁🎈🎉🍾🥂🎂
Happy birthday Evelyn! I would love to see Evelyn on insecure next season 🥰💕🤗
"Life is the sum of your choices" is a hard pill I don't want to swallow lol, i'm 22. But i'll try
Happy Birthdaay Miss Evelyn, not a girl not yet a womaaan 💕
Yes to the throwback Britney Spears!!
Yes to working smarter, not harder. My new mantra.
My birthday was July 23rd and I felt the same way girl. Us Leo’s need to keep our heads up.
LEOs. We truly are a blessing to the world.
Fellow Leo here! Happy birthday Evelyn :D
I am a 31 year old mother of 2 and your videos are like therapy for me!!! I swear you ALWAYS give me so much knowledge and say the most inspirational things!!!
Happiest of birthdays, Queen! The amount of inspiring me you did this YEAR. You might not feel it, but living is a crowning achievement. GO 'head witcha birthday puffs.
I didn't start feeling "grown up" until 2 weeks after my 40th birthday a few months ago.... then again that may have been covid forcing that feeling🤔. Nope! Just checked I'm still childish AF🤷🏾♀️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. Happy birthday hun! 🎉
Happy birthday, Evelyn! I had a quarantine birthday last week and it was ... weird. Thank you for always ringing humor and realness to the internets, we're all so lucky to have you here. Take care of yourself! Love from Chicago
Girl what you said about Leo’s is TOO accurate people really be impressed with our less than halfway effort so we get comfortable 😭 issa mess
Happy Birthday fellow🦁. We out here shining, glimmerimg & glowing in the midst of a pandemic! 🎂
WOW. "My "not all" is stellar" I've always told people this...like if I really went for it, I am now, but I've known all along. Never heard someone articulate it so spot on
Happy birthday!!!! Most of my faves are Leos somehow 🧐Shout out to the August babies!!☀️🥵
Had to come back. When you said you had plans to be on the beach and getting BLACK, I felt that. I’ll be in my driveway getting extra dark playing beach sounds in the background this year 🥺🤧
I’m back again. The not giving you’re all and still being impressive?!???!! (looks back at K-12, undergrad, grad school👀). If you preach any more, this comment will be a dissertation lmao
Happy birthday Evelyn! You deserve to spend more time being lazy! As a 36 year old, I didn’t start feeling like an adult until I started working with people who were born when I was in Jr. High, lol. That’s when it really hits you, I think.
Happy Birthday🎉🎉 to the Queen of the internet. We love and appreciate you. Hope you enjoy your day and wish you many more❤
Yesterday was my 26th birthday! Happy (belated) Womb Emancipation Day, birthday twin!! 🦁 💛
I tweeted this recently, i feel weird calling myself a woman. Like when did THAT happen?👀🙆🏽♀️
A.R i can imagine, like ma'am who?😂
HAPPY 30th BORNDAY ANNIVERSARY, INTERNET DAUGHTAH!!! TOOT! 🥳🎁🎂WOOHOO!🥂🍾YEAAA! 🎉💐XOXOXOXO!🤗😘🤗😘🤗😘YOU and your GOD given beauty, intellect and talents are SUBLIME...grow, but pullleeezzz DON'T ever change. May HE bless your parents for their obedience in bringing you and Babylo into the world.🙏🏽Applause! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽 Happy belated BDay🎂to Babylo, too!
Welcome to the 30s we have better planned out snacks with some reising in the back! 🥂🍾 🧆 🥟
Love what you repeated from your 27th bday video about not being scared to be seen trying. It definitely is a vulnerable position because we're supposed to 'know already' but no one knows everything already! And if someone does, then maybe they can give me a hand or three! Hey! 👋🤞✌
Happy birthday! 💛
literally the reason why i procrastinate. like oh y’all liked thatttttt. mmhmm. definitely a journey getting over rejection when giving 100%
Happy birthday queen ❤️
30 seems to be a year of reckoning. That was the first year I woke up and, had I been at home and my mom asked how did it feel to be 30, I would have had some things to say. I actually felt different. At 47, a lot of the times I still don't feel "grown" because I haven't hit like *ANY* of the milestones of adulthood -marriege, child, house, but I am good with that. I am settling into just being me, my bout to be 48 year old self. Like you said, unless it stops, life goes on. Every day is a precious gift and imma enjoy each one until the last one. Happy birthday, young sista. 🎂🍧
HAPPY BIRTHDAY EVELYN!!!!!! we love you girl!!!! x
Happy birthday, Evelyn. Be kind to yourself and relax into whom you're becoming. I turned 51 in early July. My age has never been a factor in anything I've done. Live life on your terms and have fun. My daughter is 31 and fabulous.
Evelyn: "At what point will I call myself a woman?"
Me (a 35 year old female) : Never!
Me-37. I call myself a "woman" when I'm sassy and want to assert my power. I call myself a "girl" when I went too far as a "woman" and need to make an apology to myself and also forgive myself for wildin out a little much lol
Omg I do the same thing. I think of myself as a girl in my head. I’m very much a kid. But when I do grown up things I say out loud: Oooo I’m a grown woman. I’m grown. And damn that lack of coming of age is something I never even considered. Wow. Hella swirling in the wind 🌬
Who the 3 people that disliked the video? Hhmmm?! Why y'all hating on our cousin?
Can’t tell you how many times I’ve watched this video 🙏🏾✨
Happy birthday Evelyn and belated birthday to baby blo!! I hate that when you said "life is what you make it" I immediately thought of Hannah Montana 🤣😩
Evelyn showcasing the pipes with that Happy Birthday rendition #Leos4life