Iyanla Vanzant helps Sara Haines fix her life in an unforgettable discussion

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  • @444TRR
    @444TRR 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2324

    I know Iyanla will never see this but her books saved my life 20 years ago when I was broken. Anyone reading this suffering from depression or anxiety, please read all of her books.

    • @honeybdream
      @honeybdream 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I agree❗️

    • @gfivefour
      @gfivefour 5 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Thank you for the input. I'll look her books up. I def need more insight

    • @stephaniejohnson4285
      @stephaniejohnson4285 5 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Her books help save my life too some 20 years ago. Very wise woman

    • @viola7052
      @viola7052 5 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Thank you for the recommendation, I’m glad her books helped you

    • @charlzwill495
      @charlzwill495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Yes her books are amazing glad to have owned since i was 16. Saved alot of therapy sessions

  • @reallywhy4900
    @reallywhy4900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2500

    Iyanla Is an Very Wise Person. I think of her as an auntie.

    • @reddbabi1
      @reddbabi1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Me too (: Hey cousin

    • @NewCreationInChrist896
      @NewCreationInChrist896 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Pray Repent Forgive.
      #faith

    • @reallywhy4900
      @reallywhy4900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@reddbabi1 lol cousin Pete lol

    • @reallywhy4900
      @reallywhy4900 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@NewCreationInChrist896 so true

    • @Getitgirlllll4717
      @Getitgirlllll4717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I feel the same way! Heeeeeey Auntie Iyanla!!!! She will get you right!!!!!!!

  • @messengerofthecovenant6982
    @messengerofthecovenant6982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2361

    LET THE 9 YEAR OLD WEEP, SO SHE CAN STOP SHOWING UP IN MEETINGS #PRICELESS

    • @chalundahampton7057
      @chalundahampton7057 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      That comment alone caught my attention as well.

    • @MsRenny23
      @MsRenny23 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      AMARIAH ELIJAH ISRAEL LOL! I know, I loved that part.

    • @tanisha.r.thomas
      @tanisha.r.thomas 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Yes and scree anyone who calls someone processing their feelings a cry baby

    • @StarLight-tu6ub
      @StarLight-tu6ub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen

    • @messengerofthecovenant6982
      @messengerofthecovenant6982 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@StarLight-tu6ub AND IT SHALL BE

  • @stylecollective-qt9um
    @stylecollective-qt9um 5 ปีที่แล้ว +922

    I miss Sarah SO much on The View. Her intellect, spririt, and compassion brought so much to that discussion table!

    • @ndo533
      @ndo533 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I'd take her back any day if we could get rid of bratty meghan mccain

    • @juanapalacios4045
      @juanapalacios4045 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Absolutly,I agree.❤

    • @be9342
      @be9342 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true

    • @wilfridfred1055
      @wilfridfred1055 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And leaving us with. ..psychomeg,the bi polar weirdo

    • @rochelledahmer9991
      @rochelledahmer9991 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      stylecollective I miss her too! 😢

  • @idiosyncraticparadise1655
    @idiosyncraticparadise1655 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1808

    When. She mentioned the little child in you...I busted out in Tears...I have felt neglect and forgotten

    • @RoyalMasterpiece
      @RoyalMasterpiece 5 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      May the little boy in you find healing. I am sure you are a good man. God bless you.

    • @SpiritualLifeCoach43
      @SpiritualLifeCoach43 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

      God never forgot you.

    • @BkGoodBoyBad
      @BkGoodBoyBad 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      We love you and little Mac ♥️✨++

    • @jannahnurul
      @jannahnurul 5 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      You are awesome. You are loved. You are important.

    • @sxm76
      @sxm76 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lets you know something is there that you need to address possibly.
      Or.......you could be extremely empathetic and felt HER pain. But I would definitely consider the first reason.
      Pray and ask God to show you. He will.

  • @justinlocs
    @justinlocs 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1261

    Their dynamic (Sarah and Michael) is powerful! They support each other and affirm each other when they need it! Magical! ❤️

    • @rollyro6772
      @rollyro6772 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Yes he seems a lot happier at GMA nothing against Kelly some people are just a better fit

    • @dt4049
      @dt4049 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      No their ratings are dropping because of sara. It was not like that before.

    • @chubbychuckle
      @chubbychuckle 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@dt4049 Their rating are falling because people are adjusting.

    • @notcherries5867
      @notcherries5867 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Rolly Ro Kelly was a piece of shit. I really prefer Sara. She’s sincere, she understands everyone’s struggles and doesn’t deny her feelings.

    • @deirdredraginoff3760
      @deirdredraginoff3760 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      The way he hugged her and kissed her on the head was the sweetest, most genuine thing. Reminds me of my bestie.

  • @KayJay79
    @KayJay79 5 ปีที่แล้ว +720

    Sara, thank you for being transparent. You're empowering others by opening yourself up. Michael God bless you for affirming Sara.

    • @stoneywhet7930
      @stoneywhet7930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kreole Taurus he's a good guy

    • @teresa28ist
      @teresa28ist 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Kreole Taurus i know so beautiful

  • @signedaleo1263
    @signedaleo1263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    *”It’s your body that remembers not your mind” 😩💔*

    • @niki-mars955
      @niki-mars955 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That hit, right? I felt it

  • @jadeiman3094
    @jadeiman3094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1671

    Iyanla is a treasure.

    • @BriaBarrows
      @BriaBarrows 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      she is

    • @AmberlyKay
      @AmberlyKay 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Jade Perrin she really is tho!

    • @lisagladney6543
      @lisagladney6543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That is an accurate description. I adore her.

    • @itsjustmyopinionbut1671
      @itsjustmyopinionbut1671 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Jade Perrin I feel like there’s no one like her in the world. We’re so lucky to have her in our day and time.

    • @oldman5719
      @oldman5719 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am not smoking what you she joke this call acting.

  • @ubulive
    @ubulive 5 ปีที่แล้ว +748

    The view messed up letting Sara go she's amazing and 100 percent herself

    • @Scandalous_behavior
      @Scandalous_behavior 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      Peter Ubu they didn’t let her go, she left for a different job lol

    • @dom7207
      @dom7207 5 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      she wasnt let go she was offered another dream job on the same dream network.

    • @tkc5898
      @tkc5898 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Peter Ubu
      It was more of a promotion

    • @marketateal3399
      @marketateal3399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She's simply is soaring into her destiny.

    • @toypianokeys
      @toypianokeys 5 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Especially now that she is pregnant, thank goodness she's away from the negativity of that show.

  • @ella_jam
    @ella_jam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +628

    Side note: Iyanla's face is beat for the gods 👌

    • @rae4828
      @rae4828 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      J C it really is

    • @Hautecakes90210
      @Hautecakes90210 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      J C
      What do you mean?😊

    • @miyara928
      @miyara928 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      J C there is only one God

    • @Zanie234
      @Zanie234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Mra
      It is a saying. It is not that deep sis

    • @miyara928
      @miyara928 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sinesipho Mbangu I know, just had to say it 🌷

  • @sebastiennavarro4376
    @sebastiennavarro4376 5 ปีที่แล้ว +649

    Sara is so pure omg

    • @justtia1031
      @justtia1031 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Sebastien Navarro I know she was my favorite on the view.

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Sebastião i know what you mean

    • @Getitgirlllll4717
      @Getitgirlllll4717 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hey Sebastien I agree with u Sara has an innocence about her! Im glad she opened up. Iyalna can do that! She gets people 2 jst open up! Side note: Also i hope you dnt get mad, but u remind me of a younger version of Ted Allen from "chopped" from Food Network. Hes cool! Anyway, i hope you have a great day!😀

  • @omadjourney
    @omadjourney 5 ปีที่แล้ว +412

    This is one white woman I love, she oozes empathy.

    • @PhoenixMinistry
      @PhoenixMinistry 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Access to my energy Is YOUR privilege. Why bring up her skin color? Can’t we just acknowledge this beautiful conversation without racism?

    • @thecharlieL
      @thecharlieL 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      PHOENIX MINISTRY It's racist to mention someone'e race? 😅

    • @savvyfreeman1479
      @savvyfreeman1479 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Race by definition is a perceived judgement and categorization of another based entirely on someone's features and skin color. People are more than black , white and yellow.

    • @Luna_Anonymous
      @Luna_Anonymous 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Do you mean to say white people are not empathetic?

    • @jaclynh9343
      @jaclynh9343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She really does but sadly a lot of highly empathetic people get treated like shit, taken advantage of and mishandled.

  • @Mexicobeanpole
    @Mexicobeanpole 3 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    The kiss on the head he gave her warmed my heart. That’s a real man. Compassionate.

    • @Sdority905
      @Sdority905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I thought the same thing!

  • @looknbakatu
    @looknbakatu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    Ms. Iyanla is BEAUTIFUL! on the INSIDE! & it comes through on the OUTSIDE!!!

  • @mrsindianmonroe
    @mrsindianmonroe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +561

    Sarah reminds me of myself. Explains why I connect with her so much. Her sweet bubbly personality but deep down within us resides pain. Thank you Sarah for being so vulnerable to express and show this side of you. Keep being a strong woman for yourself and teaching others like me to be. 🌺

    • @bubujooestes1499
      @bubujooestes1499 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Sara gets all the support from Michael on this show.

    • @Carriehammer718
      @Carriehammer718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yesss. Shes so caring

    • @Ellietalk81
      @Ellietalk81 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      💯!!!! Well said!!!
      I am overjoyed at the decades of “fake it till you make it”, are coming to a close and people are being more honest, truthful and authentic! I myself am a very bubbly and happy person, but I do deal with anxiety, some depression and quite a bit of PTSD. I’m glad that I know who I am, how to express it, how to ask for help and how to share when I see others feeling the same. I also have the most epic support system, and those people know how to reach me when I’ve lost perspective, and how to set me back on track.

    • @mxdtv3634
      @mxdtv3634 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Ellietalk81 lol

    • @josephinebrevig8748
      @josephinebrevig8748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mxdtv3634 what's bloody funny?! Are you insane??

  • @weshasawi
    @weshasawi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1469

    I’m crying and it’s not even my life!

    • @ChrisnathaTV
      @ChrisnathaTV 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      wesh asawi me too!😢

    • @natashajoseph-deleon6572
      @natashajoseph-deleon6572 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Me too😪😪

    • @mirandapow2230
      @mirandapow2230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      wesh asawi me too but I Am a person who’ll cry if I see someone else cry and wouldn’t even know why they crying

    • @queenofweaves916
      @queenofweaves916 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      wesh asawi me too!

    • @charlzwill495
      @charlzwill495 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      same here loool

  • @DDee-oi6kn
    @DDee-oi6kn 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1091

    Parents can really f---- kids up! Silly things sometimes, not serious things - just parent calling you something or pointing out a fault of yours.

    • @angeleyes3386
      @angeleyes3386 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      Diane 2003 Parents don’t get a user manual with the baby. Most try the best we can.

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 5 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@angeleyes3386 if we all got counseling before we have children there would be less damage.

    • @tinytowz4471
      @tinytowz4471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Those things aren't silly.

    • @tinytowz4471
      @tinytowz4471 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      "Truth w/o Compassion = Brutality"

    • @Elubial
      @Elubial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      That was such a sad story. Sometimes we don't realise the impact of our actions until much later.

  • @jaclynh9343
    @jaclynh9343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I fucking love Iyanla, she only comes with tough love for the people who behave with hostility. For the more tenderhearted ones, she is tender herself. Brilliant.

  • @hollyh2343
    @hollyh2343 5 ปีที่แล้ว +295

    dang, I love this duo. Sara you are a gem, and Michael, your support for her is pretty awesome.
    great duo 💕

    • @tamtam4692
      @tamtam4692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Holly H YOU SAW that too!!! So sweet. I loved and appreciated that.

  • @kavodellasode383
    @kavodellasode383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +368

    EFT, the technique used in the video, is very powerful guys...it helped reverse my autoimmune issues. Side Note: autoimmune is a lot of times caused by stress i.e. environmental, malnutrition, and/or emotional. We are stronger than we think we are not. Take care and be blessed.

    • @rs1179
      @rs1179 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Kavodel Lasode EFT really is incredible, and thank you for sharing your experience. I had to do tapping for PTSD following a car accident. I could not get behind the wheel for months and I would have panic attacks as a passenger. My mom sent me to get EFT and it worked!

    • @shinebabyshine.
      @shinebabyshine. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Kavodel Lasode Thank you for sharing your story. Was wondering about the validity of EFT earlier and your testimony was needed 💜

    • @yasminejasmine4368
      @yasminejasmine4368 5 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Oh really.. I have 2 autoimmune diseases..suffering a lot... I will look into this. Thank you

    • @kavodellasode383
      @kavodellasode383 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @yasmina Google/ youtube eft or tapping with auto immune. I think you will be pleasantly surprise . Just be ready to be willing and committed to get to the root of your issues. It's a journey. Take care

    • @hanan763
      @hanan763 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kavodel Lasode What is EFT exactly??

  • @cdt3034
    @cdt3034 5 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    Wow Michael THANK YOU for the display of support and empathy. 🤗 warmed my ❤️

    • @evantheking6218
      @evantheking6218 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Christine T whites don’t deserve it. Be thankful any black person wants to talk to you. Forgiving race

    • @AyyRalphy
      @AyyRalphy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He’s so damn handsome! I want a boyfriend like him

    • @missjewells5063
      @missjewells5063 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That was so kind to watch. 🥰

  • @esterf7064
    @esterf7064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +315

    Omg her 9 year old self was so adorable too!! 🥺😭

    • @summersweet324
      @summersweet324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Right?!!!! Remember that episode of The View when her childhood teacher surprised her & talked about how Sarah wanted to give the scholarship (or whatever it was) that she earned to a child who needed it more? She's such a friend in my head.

    • @esterf7064
      @esterf7064 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mary T i didn’t see the segment!! I’ll look for it. She’s such a sweetheart

    • @moneymaker3208
      @moneymaker3208 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ester F omg all I could think of was poor baby!

    • @summersweet324
      @summersweet324 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      th-cam.com/video/QNBQt6MbjzA/w-d-xo.html

    • @esterf7064
      @esterf7064 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mary T omg thank you for sharing the link! I cried watching it too 😭

  • @kevinwilson8674
    @kevinwilson8674 5 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    Sara ! Im a grown ass man and your radiant positivity really gets me through the day. Ever since the view I found you to be a truly beautiful person!!

    • @mattiekingori
      @mattiekingori 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Kevin Wilson I’m not Sara but your compliment to her made my day!

    • @trayballa7975
      @trayballa7975 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You are a rare bird Kevin Wilson....thank you for sharing 🙏

  • @tanesharam
    @tanesharam 5 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Michael and Sara are such a great combo... love them together! Thank you for sharing this...

  • @Jinx4you
    @Jinx4you 5 ปีที่แล้ว +186

    Sarah is such a genuine good spirit.. I love her

  • @AB-lw3qb
    @AB-lw3qb 5 ปีที่แล้ว +446

    Oh, yeah, Michael is more at ease with Sara than Kelly.

    • @randihigginbotham5070
      @randihigginbotham5070 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      AB 68 I agree. No hate just honest insight. You can feel it through the screen. It’s “family” love he has for her😊 It’s welcoming.

    • @patriciah1187
      @patriciah1187 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      AB 68 Sara dosen't threaten him. She isn't a shark like that other one

    • @sandrallewellyn2632
      @sandrallewellyn2632 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      @@patriciah1187 agreed, Sarah is sweet and fun and sympathetic. Kelly feels...not like that lol

    • @BL3SSed-Bliss
      @BL3SSed-Bliss 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Less/not intimidated.

    • @gillianlandry283
      @gillianlandry283 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      AB 68. Sarah is genuine, Kelly is a complete phoney!

  • @Lulu060986
    @Lulu060986 5 ปีที่แล้ว +294

    Sara is the sweetest. I miss her on the View. I think she might be an empath.

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lulu060986 Yes Agreed

    • @MusicAngel89
      @MusicAngel89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I was thinking the exact same, even down to the way she was trying to excuse her mother. God Bless her.

    • @mscourt
      @mscourt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      She totally is. Fellow empath here and currently crying too lol

    • @jessicathegoddess6892
      @jessicathegoddess6892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I totally agree!

    • @okrantomatoes
      @okrantomatoes 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Exactly.... She was addressing two different issues. Shes going to continue to cry at everything. They missed the mark on this one....

  • @AmiNa-nw5ld
    @AmiNa-nw5ld 5 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    That was insightful, I like both of them

  • @LouannDebassige
    @LouannDebassige 5 ปีที่แล้ว +323

    Michaels hug and forehead kiss😍😍

    • @rosina2131
      @rosina2131 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Adorable

    • @jaquen1977
      @jaquen1977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Very sweet

    • @M0chaJ0J0
      @M0chaJ0J0 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I love forehead kisses ❤️

    • @bigbootybryana
      @bigbootybryana 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Like a dad or a big brother, I love it ♡

    • @catsanmil
      @catsanmil 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know! 😭 I practically felt it myself! 🤗😘

  • @donnawoodford6641
    @donnawoodford6641 5 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    It was very courageous of Sara to publicly submit to this excavation of her childhood feelings. Iyanla gives sacred space for people to be "safe". I'm glad you were able to trust in the process. So many of us felt neglected and unloved as children, and the woundedness stayed with us into adulthood. Sending you love as you love your inner child.💜

  • @noemihinojosa2273
    @noemihinojosa2273 5 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    Sara thank you for allowing us on your journey of self awareness and growth. I am the same way. Counseling has helped some of that “stuff”surface for me. You are so kind and sweet. I wish you the best.

  • @estpacheco8224
    @estpacheco8224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    Sara is doing amazing holding her own as a host and uplifting

  • @juliem1930
    @juliem1930 5 ปีที่แล้ว +168

    This duo is so good. Love them

  • @Yukia76
    @Yukia76 5 ปีที่แล้ว +354

    I know if I was to meet Iyanana I would need two boxes of tissue 😅😪😪😪😪

    • @jamedraa8472
      @jamedraa8472 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I've met her a couple times, & she's just like that in person.

    • @FaithandNova
      @FaithandNova 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      iyanla seems to be forgetting about the little ppl. Her show is no mostly celebrities ☹️

    • @jamedraa8472
      @jamedraa8472 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@FaithandNova that may be more the show than Iyanla. She gives quite a bit of time with the "little people " locally & on conference calls.

    • @TheSadie88
      @TheSadie88 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’ll need quilt instead of quilted northern

    • @shandranewell2837
      @shandranewell2837 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Beach towel

  • @betheone8292
    @betheone8292 5 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    Oh Sara im sending you mental hugs🤗

    • @tcnance1317
      @tcnance1317 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me Too !!

    • @schnitzel1024
      @schnitzel1024 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I absolutely read that as "Mental Drugs" and I was just taken aback. Lol

    • @lennoxcuba698
      @lennoxcuba698 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me too

    • @ms.lawpantherianpoet4725
      @ms.lawpantherianpoet4725 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me three I deal with the same thing.😇🤗🤗🤗🤗

    • @lisab.7379
      @lisab.7379 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ella Wallace So am I ...here Sara 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗

  • @evelynramirez6390
    @evelynramirez6390 5 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    Ugh meeting with Iyanla Vanzant would be a dream!!! She is such a spiritual mother

    • @jaclynh9343
      @jaclynh9343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I fully agree. A once in a lifetime opportunity.

  • @naturallybeautiful9109
    @naturallybeautiful9109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +455

    There is nothing wrong with crying

    • @LoverLand1003
      @LoverLand1003 5 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      In the wrong place! It could be detrimental.

    • @naturallybeautiful9109
      @naturallybeautiful9109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Lover Land statement like that are detrimental bc crying is part of human life and society look down up on it....look up some studies plz and thank you

    • @orisatalabi
      @orisatalabi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@LoverLand1003 Thank you for providing context.
      *There's a time and place for everything.*
      Crying at inopportune times (crying fits) is an indicator of one's mental health status. It shouldn't be a stand-alone marker, but it's a telling non-verbal cue for one's stress level/threshold.
      So it can, in fact, be detrimental if a crying fit happens around people who are professionally distant...No telling what type of evaluation they would assess. Even worse, a toxic/hostile environment (personal or professional) is no place for such a vulnerable display. I wish it were not so, but you are right...Crying fits/crying around people who aren't emotionally invested in one's tears can be detrimental.
      Sara's fortunate to be in a work environment that seems genuinely supportive of her. And she's wisely chosen to learn how to handle her emotions appropriately.

    • @biancac412
      @biancac412 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Crying is fine, but it's obviously getting in the way of her life--that's when it becomes a problem.

    • @naturallybeautiful9109
      @naturallybeautiful9109 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Bianca C crying is part of life and y’all prove my point

  • @SuperMariposa91
    @SuperMariposa91 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    This touched me because when I was about 5 years old at school, for doing your school work right they were giving us these big red lollipops in the shape of stars. You can imagine for a little African child how exciting this might be. I worked so hard one week to get it. And I did! When i got back home after school that day my baby brother cried for my lollipop, and I think it was my aunt who took it away from me and gave it to him. Something that I had worked so hard for. I think little Helena never for over that. Even now when I work hard for something and get it, i always feel like it might get taken away from me as quickly as I got it.🙁😓 I cry a lot too

    • @melaninsabre3798
      @melaninsabre3798 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      I pray that you find peace over that hurt and the expression of it in your life. 🌻

    • @shinikakelly4303
      @shinikakelly4303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Those moments really play a part in our lives and you never realize it until you see it transpire in someone else’s life.

    • @wendihyd6799
      @wendihyd6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Really silly thing to hold onto....

    • @elijahmitchell9681
      @elijahmitchell9681 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You dumbass Africa has Candy 😂😂 Africans don't live in huts and they have water

    • @jessicacooper2993
      @jessicacooper2993 3 ปีที่แล้ว

  • @TruelyTreasure
    @TruelyTreasure 5 ปีที่แล้ว +668

    I mean...she consented to do this....but... it's so personal :( I hope she feels more secure with her self and her emotions.

    • @Rayofsunshine86
      @Rayofsunshine86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      was thinking the same. why would anyone want to air their dirty laundry out on tv?

    • @creamfilled08
      @creamfilled08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      ​@@Rayofsunshine86 Why is her worry about being a good enough mom considered dirty laundry? Just trying to understand.

    • @Rayofsunshine86
      @Rayofsunshine86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@creamfilled08 nothing wrong with showing emotion. i was referring to the content of what she is revealing. very personal stuff. maybe dirty language was the wrong words, my bad!

    • @creamfilled08
      @creamfilled08 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      @@Rayofsunshine86 ikr?? She did allow herself be extremely vulnerable. Not sure if I could ever be that brave on TV.

    • @Rayofsunshine86
      @Rayofsunshine86 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@creamfilled08 yes she did. though im sure everything that they discussed and delineated everything they were going to speak about beforehand..

  • @rockyjeterwebb1718
    @rockyjeterwebb1718 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    I love Sara Haines & Iyanla Vanzant. Iyanla Vanzant is such an inspiration and so is Sara. Looking forward to seeing this episode.

  • @tamtam4692
    @tamtam4692 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    IYANLA IS amazing. I'd love to be graced with her presence and knowledge. AND sara shes just adorable. I'm the same waynpw I dont feel as bad looking from the outside. She just have a big heart

  • @_dragracebish016
    @_dragracebish016 5 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Sara is ICONIC at this point, such a sweet women

  • @mdooms76
    @mdooms76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    The way Michael hugged her was so sweet. I love their relationship.

  • @sweettoothmarie7304
    @sweettoothmarie7304 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That part when they both laughed out loud!! So healing!

  • @amacalcalama4648
    @amacalcalama4648 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’ve watched this interview over the years and it always bring happy tears. Love both of these ladies

  • @thr3385
    @thr3385 5 ปีที่แล้ว +217

    I miss Sara from the View

    • @mrpearson1230
      @mrpearson1230 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Everyone does!!!!

    • @Blackskye211
      @Blackskye211 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thr 33 me to!!

    • @stonecold7919
      @stonecold7919 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I miss her too... but I'm glad she left The View; she's way too good for that show.

  • @amir.hazwan
    @amir.hazwan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She broke her foot and still tried to do all that stuff. Sarah really is a beautiful human being, inside and out.

  • @erex21
    @erex21 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Sara is one of the most real genuine people you will ever see on television. She's just the best.

  • @lexaneli
    @lexaneli 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Iyanla is that person I think everyone need to have in their life. And Sara, you're such a beautiful spirit that it shines through your physical being! Continue to nurture and be that positive light in a world that is ever so dim at times

  • @MsShell1125
    @MsShell1125 5 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    I love Sarah. A great heart she has.

  • @mariafreeman4181
    @mariafreeman4181 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    These two are the best combination on television.

  • @icequeen1439
    @icequeen1439 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Well I learned anew technique today. EFT..Emotional Freedom Tapping. To release past/present pain/hurt. I will be trying it. The body is so mysterious and worthy, it’s so much we can do to it as far as: healing, rejuvenate. meditation and much more. Be blessed🙏🏻❤️ (positive self care)

  • @macosbyanthony896
    @macosbyanthony896 5 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    Dear Sara, we may never meet in our lifetime but I want to assure you of one thing, the like of you make the world a better place for all... I are an embodiment of pure unconditional love

    • @stumack9755
      @stumack9755 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      puke

    • @javiruiz4405
      @javiruiz4405 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Let's hang out Sarah I'm here in NYC

  • @odeliacohen7053
    @odeliacohen7053 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Sarah ,you are a 100% highly sensitive person. Sending your beautiful soul the best you deserve

  • @mamabear4576
    @mamabear4576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE that she asked Iyanla about her, "little girl", and the her response about, "WORKING with her a long time". Healing is continuous Beloveds. Not a one & done.

  • @hyperiondragon
    @hyperiondragon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've only seen Sara on The View. She's very practical, intellectual, and wholesome. I would've never known this side of her. It's good to see her have this moment for herself.

  • @kimbronson3520
    @kimbronson3520 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I love Sarah. Her and Michael make a perfect match.

    • @whatyouwerethinking998
      @whatyouwerethinking998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ikr..I'm glad Michael left that phoney witch on the other station.

    • @velvetice100
      @velvetice100 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@whatyouwerethinking998 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @carmenarian
    @carmenarian 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel like she's an emotional empath as well. We all have deep rooted things we have no idea about. We all need some of this👏💜 Iyanla

  • @PatriceM14
    @PatriceM14 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    With every video I watch with Iyanla, I start crying. I've got some work to do.

  • @alicia10h
    @alicia10h 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Awwwwwww...I love the wisdom Iyanla releases... & Sara has such a beautiful, sincere spirit...Also, I love the way Michael affirmed her at the end...Awesome!!!!

  • @glynethadavis7067
    @glynethadavis7067 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thanks for sharing Sara. And it’s even more powerful to have Michael comfort you and say your a good mother when you were doubting yourself. I love you two as a duo on this show. I’m praying for continued success for this show. I need to plan a trip to see you live. Maybe I can make a trip for my 2nd year of being cancer free in October 2019.

  • @asayudwhaddameant8346
    @asayudwhaddameant8346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One of the greatest highlights of this show is seeing how much these cohosts love and respect each other. That chemistry is undeniable, and I pray it remains unbreakable.

  • @markkinkle7038
    @markkinkle7038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sara Haines is brave, to be this vulnerable on national television. How inspiring.

  • @thecoi7672
    @thecoi7672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This was so good. I cried and cried and cried. More importantly, I learned something about me and my hurt. This was so good. Wow

  • @pria7538
    @pria7538 ปีที่แล้ว

    She’s such a sweetheart. She’s still protecting her parents.

  • @1sava
    @1sava 5 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Mama Iyanla is a gift of love, insight and breakthrough that just keeps on giving! I love her sooo much! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @childofgod2303
    @childofgod2303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She's a true healer I truly wish to have an opportunity to work with her❤️

  • @sedecim
    @sedecim 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Iyanla looks snatched and fabulous !

  • @shereecollins7569
    @shereecollins7569 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was very brave of Sarah to do this. I hope that it helps others as well. Praying for her continued inner healing.

  • @angelahamlett8249
    @angelahamlett8249 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sarah... We love that you are so sensitive. Since I was little people kept saying toughen up. Now I heal people. I am an empath.

  • @blueshoes915
    @blueshoes915 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love Sara. Her vulnerability is a beautiful strength.

  • @chocolatethundercherry143
    @chocolatethundercherry143 5 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    Even though we go through many trials and tribulations,
    disappointments, confusion, and lots of frustrations
    We know that GOD is our "ever present help" and He will
    see us through every situation. #amen 🌻

    • @lhamilton6041
      @lhamilton6041 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chocolate Thunder Cherry Amen 🙏🏽

    • @katttouche7009
      @katttouche7009 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Chocolate Thunder Cherry Thank you soooo much for taking your time to remind us of THIS! Your Obedience to GOD was used to quicken my spirit. Bless you! You’re the 🌻😉🙏🏾🙌🏾

  • @Aoneify
    @Aoneify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sara you are a beautiful person, inside and out. I am the same exact way!!! I get so upset with myself for it, like “normal people aren’t like this, why do i cry so much??!!” You’re so brave for this! Thank you. Sending you love and peace.

  • @_e-ff5zb
    @_e-ff5zb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Nothing wrong with crying! She seems like a great passionate reporter

  • @jaclynh9343
    @jaclynh9343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Michael and Sara are a beautiful duo. They both come across as sensitive and gentle souls.

  • @bethb7877
    @bethb7877 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This was so touching and so helpful. I miss this Iyanla. Iyanla has to be like a dentist to work with the reality stars because it's like pulling teeth to get them to heal. love this!

  • @emeliacurry8509
    @emeliacurry8509 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Iyanla energy is so amazing....I can feel it.

  • @StarLight-tu6ub
    @StarLight-tu6ub 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "You noticed you talked about her and didn't cry".....Now that's technique needs to be used about in our community!!!🤗 Lol he had a box of tissues ready😲😲😲 well prepared before his powerful statement.

  • @lisamei4thinkingbeauty
    @lisamei4thinkingbeauty 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg Sara your transparency, vulbetability, and courage is so inspiring and affirming!!! I was literally JUST NOW fighting back tears in the kitchen at work because a higher up attempted to reach near me and didn't, and I apologized and he said "you did nothing wrong" and this triggered the urge to cry. So I can so relate!!! This literally just happened before I sat down and clicked on the video. thank you so much for your bravery and vulnerability. I'm going to find a therapist myself and get to the root of this!

  • @lizaw.7313
    @lizaw.7313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She's probably a wonderful mother, usually when you are aware of wanting to be there for your kids you are there for your kids.

  • @kgiovanni9443
    @kgiovanni9443 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just love Sara, always think she is on of the most authentically genuine people on TV. Not many would be so vulnerable in front of so many. I needed this one, great job as always Iyanla!!

  • @Rexy366
    @Rexy366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I Just loved my Girl Sarah Hanes.
    I watched her from the view now with Michael all I can say is this Girl is magic she's Funny, very knowledgeable and smarts and most importantly Kind.
    We love you Sarah.
    All the way from Sydney Australia.
    Big shout out to TH-cam I can watch you everyday.😂😂😂😘😘😘😘

  • @a.wilcox5690
    @a.wilcox5690 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Sara is so courageous. Beautiful soul.💗

  • @Worldofantoine
    @Worldofantoine 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I absolutely loved this! Good on Good Morning America for doing this kind of thing. Iyanla is incredible and Sara is just adorable.

  • @FLdancer00
    @FLdancer00 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sara seems like such a genuine, sweet person. I appreciate her honesty.

  • @stacirivera799
    @stacirivera799 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This was so awesome! ❤

  • @reneebee8693
    @reneebee8693 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really like Sara. She is usually a lighthearted lovely person. Her laughter is so infectious. Sending love and understanding her way.

  • @DineoMorakile
    @DineoMorakile 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Both ladies are great at what they do, Beautiful chemistry! Michael is warm and supportive. All this is beautiful to watch... ❤ 💞 💗 💝 💖

  • @nranderson778
    @nranderson778 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so powerful and truthful. I know I can relate. Iyanla is so wise.

  • @Delightfullydee7
    @Delightfullydee7 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Omg I relate to this so much I get overly emotional at all the wrong times, I’ll definitely try this!

  • @vwiggins9797
    @vwiggins9797 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love Iyanla. She can laugh at herself while still helping others express their hurts, concerns, feelings, etc.

  • @mikaelabrune9576
    @mikaelabrune9576 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Wait that woman is an angel that woman is beautiful her wisdom is incredible I love her I love her I love her

  • @BrendanNeffHall
    @BrendanNeffHall 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So vulnerable, really inspired that Sara did this on TV. Beautiful work. I've been teaching people EFT Tapping for years and so excited that this got exposure. And Iyanla - such a powerful healer. Wow.

  • @D.VA_00
    @D.VA_00 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Sara is just like me I’m so emotional 😢 😭 I cant control myself, when I go to work I feel the same.

  • @melindamullins9971
    @melindamullins9971 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This exercise is so helpful I recited what she wanted Sarah to recite and it really is a release

  • @introvertedqueen9759
    @introvertedqueen9759 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Love my auntie, Iyanla Vanzant!

  • @beller8501
    @beller8501 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Were in a time where pepole are showing/allowing/feeling thier emotions, we need more pepole like you💓

  • @ndo533
    @ndo533 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1398

    Damn...Iyanla got white girls crying now??? 😂😂

    • @PHlophe
      @PHlophe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      she is caucasion though

    • @brentduanefoster
      @brentduanefoster 5 ปีที่แล้ว +220

      Hey, it’s called being human.

    • @parisjej
      @parisjej 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂 🤣😭😭😭😂

    • @BrittKatSlat
      @BrittKatSlat 5 ปีที่แล้ว +69

      You’re using your pain to deduce people to a race. Not wise.

    • @Alexsh2010
      @Alexsh2010 5 ปีที่แล้ว +81

      Whattt lol ! Definitely not the first, if you've followed her for as long I have. She's been a life coach for a plenty of white families( white men and women) if you've seen her show from the beginning.

  • @MusicAngel89
    @MusicAngel89 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow...this was so beautiful and insightful. I applaud Sara for doing this. My gosh, she's such a genuine soul!❤