Channel Update :: Making A Change....Hopefully For The Better!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 17 ต.ค. 2024
- Hey Peeps! I really hope this change makes sense to everyone. Logically I know I'm not for everyone and should just accept that some people are going to tell me that but currently, emotionally, I'm not willing or able to deal with that the same way I have been for the past 4 years. I really hope you want to come join either Patreon or the YT Membership if you can but if it's not for you then thank you for all the fun hang outs over the last 4 and a half years. If you would like to join the YT Membership just click on the "Join" button and sign up or head over to Patreon if that is your preferred subscription service.
I forgot to mention it but if you do sign up for a TH-cam Membership you will also have access to the "Dailyish Waffles" included in the monthly subscription!
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As a very dear friend once told me If I Was Everyone’s Cup of Tea that would make me a Mug and I am nobody’s mug and neither are you, you have to do what works for you not anybody else. 😁
Sweetie, my heart hurts knowing that you’re mental health is teetering. The love that shines within you, that touches all of us watching is precious-so precious. Thank you for guarding it. We support you and shine that love back to you. I hope you feel it deep within. Much love surrounds you.
Absolutely. You protect yourself. We love you.
So sorry people have been critical! And about what?!! It does not matter. I have appreciated so so much all the sewing techniques I have learned from you, Sian, as well as seeing your parents and the happy holiday content. A very welcoming, warm and fuzzy channel!❤
Your channel, your rules, your content, YOUR RULES. I applaud you for putting your mental health first and foremost. If putting up a paywall is what you need to do, then good on you. Block the negativity and let the positivity flow. 😊
Just to let you know I am a regular viewer and I love your channel. I wish you all the best in your new format and am sure you will do very well. I love watching your choice of colours, your choice of fabric, your choice of patterns and your lovely sunshiny manner. 🌸
My mother always said, ‘if you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all’ something I always live by! ❤️
You need to do what is best for your well-being. You are an inspiration and have kept my love of sewing alive while I have been waiting for my home to be rebuilt. We moved in last month after four years, and I now have a sewing room again. Look after yourself and remember you are special to alot of people
My daughter is a model. From the age of 15 years, she has had to deal with sad bullies launching rockets from the hidden trenches. Always remember that they do not know you and they are simply unhappy people leading unhappy lives. Look after YOU young lady ❤
PS I have watched you for years and think that are a beautiful, highly creative, talented young lady ❤️ 😀 👗 ✂️
You go Woman! I love your videos, and as previously said your passion for sewing is inspirational. I am also a 'dress' person, and adore seeing you in your beautiful creations. You are a truly decent person so switch off to those nuisances.
You be you!! And you don't owe anyone anything! So glad you are looking after yourself as a priority!
I agree 100% with what you have said. No matter how public your job is, it is just that... a job. These same people would freak out if someone treated them like that at work.
Those people are (a) immature, (b) cowards (hiding behind their keyboard), (c) have many things broken within themselves that they are taking out on you... which they absolutely don't have a right to do.
I do enjoy listen to you waffling. I found you thru a sew along and I keep you on while I work from home. We have different style and different taste in prints but I still enjoy your channel.
People that say mean and rude things are insecure, unhappy and feel more powerful putting someone down. I love that you have reminded people that that kind of behavior is not acceptable. Sadly, this behavior is popular. Thank you for your words. I love that you have drawn boundaries for yourself and your channel.
💚🖤 Thank you for adding the TH-cam option, and I love your waffling I just wish I could do live hangouts (time zones, sheesh). Love you and caring for yourself is the best thing you can do for us.
Do what you need to do; I'm very proud of folks who do the work and make the changes they need for their mental & emotional health. Sending love & support from the United States!
You absolutely have the right and obligation to protect yourself online. Do what you need. You’re lovely.
Agree 💯 Do, what is good for you and helps your health ☺️ Will keep on supporting you 🥰
You are so lovely! Some people are just unhappy and looking for someone else to blame. Don’t worry about those people! ❤❤❤❤❤
Im so sorry somebody has been giving you a hard time. Ive always thoroughly enjoyed unfiltered Sian! It was thanks to you that I finally have patterns and fabrics and methods that made my sewing work and enjoyable. I owe you so much! If they dont like you they can "bugger off" as we say in Australia. If they dont have anything nice to say they shouldnt say anything at all.
Totally understand ❤ you must do what is best for you. Having a happy Sian is all I want. Sending you a big hug from Oz
You are such a lovely person I am utterly devastated for you that you have had to go through this. I have gone through troubling times which didn’t seem to have any reason and at the (seemingly) other end I look back at my journey and even now think ‘It couldn’t possibly have been that bad’, I remember the memories of how I felt but not the actual hopelessness feeling. My journey was of undiagnosed inattentive ADHD with rejection issues, and the tipping point, which bought it to my attention, Menopause, which was misdiagnosed since perimenopause and a good 10 years of increasing pain, brain fog, fatigue and low moods etc.. etc..
Continue to be strong, forgive yourself for any guilt, especially for feelings… we’re allowed them both good and bad. You are very loved and that is for a very good reason. X
I enjoy your channel and its content. I would never have tried a French seam if I hadn’t watched you do it, quite a few times, with such ease. Thank you for sharing your knowledge and continuing to share it with us. I must be getting old though LOL because “if you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all” is on constant repeat in my head when I hear about people sharing their unqualified and unwanted opinions in the Comments sections of your and other creators’ videos. SMH. You are your best advocate, you have to do what you need to do to get/stay strong. Peace ✌🏻 (I am old LOL)
Sian I learnt to sew bags and the rest from you, thank you. Love your channel. Be you and proudly so.
Been loving your channel for years now! Do whats best for you! ♥
Good morning and good luck with the ongoing changes for your channel ❤
My mental health is currently bad, and I think that you should create the boundaries that are necessary for you. I'm working on mine as well. Do what you need to do, I support you in your mental health journey. I hope you find a way to keep doing what you love.
You have every right to run your channel in a way that works for your mental health and wallet. I have found that I enjoyed the waffling during the Pandemic as I was home all the time. Once we were able to go back to a more normal schedule my Sunday mornings( in NCarolina) are filled with church, coffee with friends and skyping with grand kids. So I don't think I'll be waffling with you, but will continue to view your look books and other main content. Kudos to you for prioritizing your mental health. It is awful how rude people can be, but it even happens in online book clubs. 😵💫
Sìan, love your channel and you have NEVER annoyed me. I’m glad you are taking care of yourself and are doing what you love. Signing up for your Patreon account now. ❤️
I actually became a patreon in the first place as i wanted to pay in some small way for your fab bag making tutorials. Best on the Internet in my opinion ❤
I agree with you 100%. The old saying, if you have nothing nice or positive to say, don't say anything. As stated, you do you!! Appreciate your sharing and taking the time to do this channel.
I completely understand. Online can be such a mean place. I have read comments (not on your channel) that I am shocked and horrified by. I can't understand why anyone would actually want to do things like that. I won't be able to join you for your subscription service but I will be sure to like and comment on your regular videos. 💜💜💜
I found the online sewing community in the spring of 2018. I spend a load of time watching TH-cam. Over the years I've seen many of my most favorite people get hurt by rude comments. They are the kindest people with the sweetest content, and they have been deeply affected. It is such a shame how a segment of people online are so rude, or even despicable. I am so sorry for your negative experience(s). I think your solution, as you've laid it out out, sounds perfect for your situation. Best wishes!
I absolutely love your channel! You have taught me so many useful tips and techniques. I wear me-made clothes all the time now because of you! I will happily continue to watch whatever content you provide. I am glad there are platforms like youtube where I can learn all of these things so easily, but so many of my favorite creators have said similar comments lately and it makes me so sad. If someone isn't your cup of tea, GO FIND A DIFFERENT CUP OF TEA! Don't mess with my tea!!!! And don't hurt someone just because you are behind the safety of your keyboard. I wouldn't comment on some auto-repair channel that I would like them to do videos on sewing instead, or that I would prefer to watch if they would dress differently, or spoke differently, or whatever. I would simply find a channel that fit my personal tastes better. I hope the changes do help and that unhelpful commenters go away. You are the best!
I’m so happy to see you back here. I checked last week to see if you had posted new content and perhaps I wasn’t getting notifications. Thanks for the update😊
I do understand and I am so sorry those mean people have hurt you. I have been considering joining your patreon for a while, so now will be the time. You are a good and talented person and watching your videos has encouraged me to try new things. Good luck with everything😊.
I will miss the Sunday hang outs but totally understand. Hope it goes well for you and you are able to protect your mental health xx
Watched you for years and you are absolutely fabulous and so inspiring ❤ keep up the great work and remember ‘you do you’ xx
1005 agree and support your decision.sending a big hug.
that was supposed to be 100% agree😁
I think what you do is great. I am sorry people have been horrible. your output is wonderful.
I think you’re delightful. I certainly understand the problem. I personally think we should behave and be respectful and kind.
I’m so sorry to hear you’ve had health issues 😔 You’re always so tactful and sweet, I’m amazed by how some people behave 🙈 Of course I don’t agree with every single choice or opinion you have but I see that as a way to widen my perspective. If we never meet a new idea or a new way of doing things, how would we ever learn and grow? Both as persons and as sewists. I love that you present me with new food for thought! ❤
I have to admit I’ve been absent from TH-cam for quite a while. Work and family life doesn’t give me many opportunities for me-time. 🤷♀️ My patreon account stopped working when I got a new Visa, most annoying. I will find a way to support your channel again, even though it may not be possible to watch as much as I would have wanted.
Keeping my fingers crossed the new strategy works and you get a ton of new patterns! ❤
I'm sorry that there are people in the hang out that are being unkind and I hope making them exclusive will make them a more positive experience. I really enjoyed taking part in the past when I was able to, for the most part it was a really fun and comforting group of peeps. Big hugs to everybody going through difficult times. 💜
Oh Sweetie, first and foremost I'm so happy that you are taking care of yourself, I completely support your decision. You are amazing, talented, funny and a great story teller. I may not catch all of your videos due to my crazy work hours, but please know that I am here to always support you. Sending you huge hugs!!!!
Sad times but you do you. You go girl😊😊
It’s nice to see you back and I haven’t hung out for a while so this has prompted me to join up and hopefully join in live. Looking forward to it. Sarah
My goodness! I can’t even imagine what ugly things a person could say about you! You’re beautiful, and so sweet!
Thank you for sharing this with us, I love that you're finding ways to protect yourself. Thank you for putting the patreon on the $2 tier, it makes it as accessible as it can be without leaving yourself vulnerable to the masses ❤
I hope things look up for you shortly ❤❤
❤ I sincerely hope that taking the hang outs back behind a paywall helps. Your channel, your way of running it….always.
Totally understandable. Still supporting ya 🐣
I’m so incredibly sorry to hear that your mental health is being impacted by thoughtless people who don’t deserve the time of day. Thank you so much for your kind explanation (you don’t owe us anything!!!) and thank you for sharing your journey - it makes such a difference when we can talk openly about mental health struggles, so thank you 🥰 the people who matter will continue to support you in whatever way they are able, and well done you for putting your wellbeing first!!!!! #SianMadeHerselfDoIt and we’re really blinkin’ proud of her 🥰🥰❤️❤️
😻😻😻😻😻 makes sense to me and Mark, we both send you heaps of love. You've been very missed!!
I do watch you and will miss your hang outs, you go girl, do what you want with the channel ❤
You do whatever you need to to feel comfortable.....we're here for you for the long haul !!
I think this is a wonderful idea! I'm so so so happy that you're making this change, I hope this feels like a huge relief for you! Thank you for what you said about disagreeing with the idea that you HAVE to be able to accept vile comments if you're on the Internet. That's a hot take that I share with you. Let's not excuse that behavior because it's never ok! May a sense of peace calm your stormy heart, love you friend 💗
You are MY cup of tea!!! Love watching your utube videos 😊
You are a lovely person you deserve to be happy and live as you choose. I hope this helps with your mental health cause I personally want the best for you.
I’m so sorry you’ve been bullied….I agree, not nice and unacceptable. All the very best to you going forward…. Hugs!
❤❤❤❤❤❤ always do what is best for you! We will be here for you
Always enjoyed your channel,u are a great person in and out,take care of yourself ,your health should come first
Sorry that some people are so inconsiderate. Was wondering where you were.Glad that you have regrouped. Sounds like a good game plan. Got a sign up.❤
I think you're making a great decision. Some people think it's perfectly fine to get on the internet and hate-watch someone. And then tell that person why they hate them. Putting up a paywall will stop the majority of it.
Bojour ma belle.... your channel, your rules! It is very sad that people are mean behind their keyboard.... I will be a good change for you... love from Canada! ❤🦊❤
Ive missed the sunday hangouts and think whatever helps you personally is very important. ❤❤❤
…You are amazing beautiful and so kind .. 💙💙💙💙 be well , the right people will follow you … hugs xoxoxo
Completely understand that the Sunday chats are changing. Well done in looking after yourself, mentally and financially. How awful that people are rude and nasty. You are lovely and if you’re not someone’s cup of tea they should just stop watching!! You should not have to put up with other people’s rubbish! ❤
I am just crushed and appalled that the bullies out there have hurt you so much. My heart hurts for you but I totally understand. Your health is the most important thing for you. I will certainly miss your Sunday hangouts but I already have too many subscriptions. Good luck to you and I will certainly continue to watch any other content you avail to us. Love you, sweetie, you are a beautiful, very sweet person.
I love your channel. Please take care of your health, as the count said in the Princess Bride, if you haven't got your health, you haven't got anything. Or maybe he didn't, I should watch that movie again, anyway, you kind, wonderful person, take care of your mental health. We love your content, and I personally have learned a lot from your videos. Sending much love and healing vibes.
Sounds like a good plan. Take care. ❤
You do what's best for you. I think its sad that there are people out there whose mission in life seems to be to want to hurt others but that's on them not you. ❤️💛
So sorry you have experienced such comments from people. I truly miss the days when people were taught how to treat others with the common decency and respect that they would want for themselves. Make sure to keep doing what is best for you and your mental health.
I rally like the vest s your mother has knitted fir you. Maybe an interview with her about them??
th-cam.com/video/sY91h-rHFeE/w-d-xo.html Mum has knit me so many beautiful things! I'm very lucky :)
I think for a lot of people, the interwebs have become a black hole of despair. It brings out the worst in some people and you do genuinely need to protect yourself. Don't apologise for taking care of yourself. You're being brave. Well done.
I agree and support your choice. I hope that if mean people pay to try to keep access to you, to continue their bad behavior, you are able to block or unsubscribe them! ❤
Sending you 💜💜💜
Think you are wise x Look after yourself xx
I get that you need to do the change for you and you should do whats best for you, but I am going to miss having your hangout’s on in the background. For me you are a splendid company when I sew.
I think that you should be paid for your time and work.
But. In the future IF you choose to post some playback hangouts with ads, if that would be possible in the future, I would absolutley love it. But your health and wellbeing needs to come first.
And it should be ads on it so you get something out of it.
Even if it would be one per month it would be wonderful.
Take care!
Please take care❤
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You need to do what's best for you. X
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Boundaries are important. Look after yourself first ❤
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I find that if I don’t like content I just step away, I don’t feel the need to be rude or comment - I just step away
What a sad time we live in. People in the Social Media age forget that there are real people on the other side of our screens. Well done you for limiting access. Hopefully that will solve the problem.
I will miss you a lot, yet I understand. You need to stay healthy, so you be you.
I am so sorry you are subject to the horrible behaviour that some people are trying to normalize. You take care of yourself and know you are appreciated.
So sorry that you are going thru this. Bullies are so useless.
What an odd thing to do-to go on a live stream of someone that a commenter finds “annoying” and then say it! Along with being a strange way to spend their time, it’s just incredibly bad manners. I am sorry you’ve had to receive those sorts of comments, they are rude and uncalled for. I am not a livestream watcher as I’m seven hours behind you, but I am completely behind your decision and I think it’s a great idea.
Edited to add: by the way, *I* think your videos are very helpful and fun to watch.
There is no excuse for rude comments ever, online or IRL. I hope the changes to the channel will make things easier for you. I really enjoy your content even if I don’t often get time to watch you.
I’m sorry that you have received inappropriate comments and completely agree that people don’t need to and shouldn’t feel that’s OK to post these to people just because they have a public presence. Good luck with your channel going forward.
HUGS
I’m glad to see you back, and I support whatever changes you want to make to take care of yourself. 🦚🔵🧵
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You have to look after yourself - I'm so glad you are doing it. And I absolutely agree with you that nobody has the right to write down horrible comments . Its a choice to watch vloggs so don't watch if you don't like - I just don't get it that people feel they have a right to be awful. Take good care of yourself.😊
🤗 I will miss you.
Great decision!!
❤❤ you need to look after you
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