Hi brian did you have a private scan done? Or just nhs scan? I have done my sneak peek blood test at 11 weeks and they said a boy. Then at 20 weeks ultrasound they said your placenta is anterior and its a girl.which one should i believe?
I think maybe you’re feeling grief because you bonded with a girl and now “she’s” not coming. But maybe at the same time you feel guilty because baby boy is healthy and you feel like you’re slighting him by being sad- and maybe that’s not fair to him. But you know what? Feel how you feel because you are entitled to-It’s just fine. Give yourself that permission.
Thanks so much for saying that! That couldn't be more accurate. Of course I'm excited for another boy, I just felt weird that "she" isn't a she anymore. But after a couple weeks, I'm totally used it and so excited for another baby boy :)
It's totally a normal reaction. I have cried out loud with 2 of my boys. I now have 3 boys 🤗 when they come, you forget about it. God is wonderful at erasing such pain. Now I'm pregnant, I'm not even planning to find out. Congratulations 👏🏽 I know it's been a year
The same thing happened to my daughter. She was told she was having a girl the whole pregnancy. When she went in to get induced, they did an ultrasound to check the position of the baby. She found out she was having a boy hours before he was delivered. Talk about shocking. She had to return all the girl things she got at her baby shower.
They told my daughter she's was having another girl she already had two and she really wanted a boy ..She went and bought all girl stuff and everything but turns out they were wrong she had another ultrasound and it was a baby boy ..
This video about pregnancy is probably the video I've felt more as mine. Same thing happened to me and I've spent many days crying, while the people around me did not get my sadness/disappointment. They kept saying : as long as the baby is healthy. Of course I want the baby to be healthy, that'sobvious, but the idea to have a girl was real in my mind. Thanks for sharing. I totally feel you.
I feel so bad for you. All your emotions are completely understandable! I am pregnant with my 4th girl and I couldn’t imagine if this happened to me. Once you feel you “know” the gender it defines the baby more and connects you to it in a different way and then to have it be changed feels like a loss. Don’t be too hard on yourself, you will adjust and love the baby exactly the same. Don’t worry mama! Sending lots of love! ❤️
Exactly! I suddenly envisioned my life with a daughter, and it felt so strange having that taken from me. But after a couple of weeks, I completely adjusted and now I'm sooo excited to have two boys. Thanks so much for your kind words!
Having similar feelings. It's tough when reality doesn't match what you hoped and imagined. I didn't have an early ultrasound, just hoped for a girl as I have three boys already. I didn't realize how much I was hoping for a girl until I saw the ultrasound results.
This just happened to me! I was told girl at 12 weeks and at my 20 week scan today told boy. I am just not sure how to feel and I am sad about losing my girl. I’m still very excited and thankful for a healthy pregnancy, just confused. Thank you for posting this it is validating 💙
I just found out last night at my 20 week scan that my little boy is actually a girl. I cried so much and I still feel so sad today. I'm not upset about having a girl but I'm mourning the loss of a son I'll never have, my husband and I were calling "him" by name, it is such a shock and I feel so guilty admitting that I'm disappointed things have changed. I'm sure I'll feel better in a few weeks but it's so hard to adjust your expectations.
Yesss! I 100% understand how you're feeling. It took me a week or two to fully wrap my head around it, and now I couldn't be more excited. I'm sure you're feeling similar now, too. It's just sooo shocking to find out they were wrong. When did you first find out baby was a "boy"?
@@rushainec2477 no I found out through a "first glimpse" ultrasound place at 19 weeks pregnant. I wasn't going to get my anatomy scan u til 24-25 weeks and I wanted to know the gender before so I could have a reveal party while family was in town. Since it was at 19 weeks I was 100% confident that it wouldn't be wrong. Turns out the ultrasound tech got about 3 or 4 other families genders wrong and was fired. Got a total refund and some 3D pictures for free to compensate.
I just knew, felt it in my soul. I purchased cute dresses and other things. The same tech who did the ultrasound for my second son, he told me in his happy voice another turtle and then it hit me, he use the same term, for my second son, I held the tears until I made it to my car, I understand how you feel. Mom of 3 boys, its was hard taking the girl clothes back, buying boy clothes is going to help you, but when they put him in your arms...nothing but LOVE.
i really felt like this today , i have two girls alreday and this is my last stop being pregnant, im 14 wks +3 and sonographer sneak peak and told me its a girl. iam happy but at the same time i still wish its a boy, i dont feel ashamed its real feelings, as long as iam greatful for life. i hope one day you will have a girl too. x
This was one reason why my husband & I choose to never find out gender. No one can be disappointed when you pull up your Heathy baby on to your chest and meet them for the first time! I’m sorry this happened to you but glade he’s healthy.
I’m sorry that happened to you. My sister got told her 3rd was a boy at 14w then told girl at 16w. She already had a boy and girl so she wasn’t too disappointed. I’m currently pregnant and got told it is a boy at 16w. Have my 20w anatomy scan coming up and I would honestly be so upset if I got told he is actually a she. Gender disappointment shouldn’t be shamed upon. It’s natural to feel this way and should be talked about more in society to no longer make it a taboo subject.
Totally understand how you feel. I already have two boy's and I really want have a girl， My two boys had always wanted a Baby sister, but when I got a 20-week ultrasound, told them they had another boy brother , they told me they were heartbroken. Me too. I stay up very late now, otherwise I will think too much. It's bad to me . Because this is my last child, I will never have a daughter with me in the future.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔
Same here. Have 2 boys and pregnant at 15 weeks. Not sure if I want to find out the gender since I still have hope that it is a girl. Scared I might Get super disapointed 😫
This just happened to me:'( I feel so sad and disappointed. We were told girl at 14 weeks, and then boy at 18:( You are speaking my truth. I bonded with a girl and named her, even. But now I'm morning the"loss" of that future girl: ( My daughter is pretty upset at not getting a sister too. It's heartbreaking. I'm glad someone understands.
I got the blood test and i feel like its wrong . they said girl, i feel like its a boy. I did enough research , majority lf ppl said theyr having a girl based on the blood test , then till later they have the actual gender . it pisses me off so much.
M mother of 4 boys already ND now 17 week pregnant my Dr told me at week 13 that it was a girl but at week 15 she said it a boy ..being a mother of already 4 boys than news of having a girl gave me so power but it remain just 2 weeks until Dr said it's a boy ...m waiting for my anatomy scan pray for me that Allah bless me with a girl this time ameen
Baby boy#4 is on its way and I totally understand how you felt. Like you said its just a strange feeling, not that you are sad. On the happy note, Congrats on baby!
I know this is an old video but for everyone out there 12-13 weeks is far too early! If you want to be sure from ultrasound I suggest waiting until at least 17 weeks! Just what I’ve seen as an OB nurse
I totally agree! I would've never gone to just to find out gender that early. I just believed the ultrasound tech when she said she could see the gender. I'll never believe them anymore until the anatomy scan haha.
My SO and his ex thought they were having a girl. He said all of the ultrasounds pointed to their son being a girl. They found out in her last trimester that she was actually having a boy. They had the baby shower, had a name picked and all and they indeed ended up having a boy. He's 6 and you'd imagine technology would've been able to see that, but it surprisingly happens. I'm currently expecting and was told we're having a boy, but I keep having a gut feeling and dreams of having a daughter. Vivid dreams of us at the birth center and the baby is born a female; not a male. Idk if it's more we both wanted a girl (he has all boys and I have all girls), but at 3 weeks I found out we were expecting because I had a dream of leaving the ultrasound and they said we were having a girl. Took a test that morning and found out I was expecting.
Aww Em! I've been thinking about you a lot. Such a shock and disappointment to be so thrown off like that after feeling so sure. You have a great attitude!
I have 3 boys.. my 3rd i was told my whole pregnancy it was a girl..big surprise when He was out.. I cry 😢 alone as if I had lost my daughter couldn't bond with my baby for a day or two but then I pray and apologize to my baby boy and I love him so muchhhh
I was told at 16w im having a girl i had my 20w anatomy and it says a girl I really wanted a boy because i got 2 girls already and not planning on having more kids 🥲 wish this happen to me
I felt this heart break today. I have 2 boys and this is my last baby and we went to a gender prediction and they told me it looked like a boy , I took a blood test at 9 weeks and it said girl. I’ve been trying to find comfort & it was nice to relate to you. Idk why I’m sad .. I love my boys 😣
I really understand your feelings .. I really hope I'm pregnant with a girl but instead the doctor said I'm pregnant with a boy .. I already have 2 boy.. Still want a baby gurl.. 😢..
Me too. I did a NIPT test and I was sure I was having a girl. But it’s a boy. I’m deeply disappointed and I feel so guilty and heartbroken that I fell this way. I desperately want to be over it soon. For my child and for myself
I wanted a boy so bad and I got told it was a boy and then this morning I got a call saying that my NIPT says girl and I feel exactly the way you do. I feel like I can’t connect with my baby anymore
I already have two girls then 22weeks pregnant my doctor told me that my baby is healthy but can’t find if it’s a girl or a boy…,had to come back for another scan Please pray for me,need a boy 👦 thanks
@@naghhh1742 I’m due any day now and it’s grown on me and I love him but some where deep inside I’m hoping I still have a girl🤷🏻♀️it gets better tho so hang in there and go tru the emotions
Same thing happend to me two times. But after loosing my first baby boy at birth the gender wasn't important the other pregnancies. A healthy baby is all that matters. Enjoy this special time. Greetings from the Netherlands 🇳🇱
A friend of mine was told Boy at 20wks then she had her 3d ultrasound and it showed Girl.. she already had her babyshower so she had nothing but blue stuff. so sometime it happens
I’m currently going through this and am feeling exactly how you feel!! I had two blood tests originally that said boy and two ultrasounds that said girl. So I did that genetic blood test through the doctors office only to confirm that it’s a girl. So I feel you!!! I’m definitely mourning my boy that I thought I was getting. I probably still will be in denial until I have another ultrasound lol.
The exact same thing happened to me! I was told girl then we had a boy, I completely felt the same way as you did, it’s almost like you just lost something that you never had. It’s so confusing but congratulations!🥰
I think women want at least one girl because girl clothing is so much fun and also when they grow up girls stay closer to the mother (and the father). The old saying is somewhat true (A son is a son till he takes him a wife, a daughter is a daughter all of her life. -Irish Saying.) But not always. My oldest brother is super close with my mom.
Just a note, the technology still sucks. I was told in my appointment girl, then at the end, boy. My friend gave birth to a baby with Down’s syndrome. She had no idea. All the ultrasounds and being under the care of an OB, they didn’t detect it. We have a long way to go.
This is why I don’t plan to find out the gender at my ultrasound. I really don’t care if it is a boy or girl but I don’t want to be told it is one things when it might be another. Best to find out when Baby is born and you can know for sure.
I know this is an older video but I had to see if someone has went through this. I already have a boy and I am currently pregnant now and I swear I thought I was having a girl and got really attached on the idea of having a girl just because the symptoms I’m having is different than the first pregnancy. I got genetic test done when I was 10 weeks and 5 days and I am currently 12 weeks and they said I am having a boy.. I am hoping whenever I get an ultrasound done it’ll confirm 100% the gender just because I am in such denial but if the gender stays the same I will be blessed either way. Just unexpected.
I had my ultrasound at 20 weeks and I was told it's a girl, I am hoping it's born a girl. But I completely understand your sadness, after you find out the gender you get to bond more with the baby and start thinking about names, clothes, and all of that changes in a second, it can be a shock!
I just had my MaterniT21 test done last Monday I was just under 10 weeks and the results came back today but I also have a 12 week ultrasound on Thursday so I’m HOPING that they’re the same results because lately I’ve been hearing that the NIPT test is not as accurate as they claim and that’s a little frustrating.
Curious what you ended up finding out, if you don't mind sharing? Were they the same result, or different? And then what did you find out later on at 20 weeks? I'm currently trying to hold myself back from the "guessing game" because we did not decide to do the NIPT test, haha... But I'm so curious whether yours turned out accurate. I hope for your sake that it did!
Oh I’m sorry. I completely understand! I have 2 boys and want a girl so bad. Our blood test just came back girl but I’m scared whether to trust it because we want one so badly and know it’s our last.
I totally understand ur feelings!! I went to ultrasound last week they can’t see anything there was umbilical cord between legs!! I have scheduled anatomy scan next week hopefully I will get some good news💙 after having 3 girls !!
So glad I am seeing this video. Thank you for sharing because I am going through this right now myself. I haven’t even showed my husband how up set I am. I am happy to be having a boy but feel like I lost a little girl. I am glad I am across this because now I feel I am not alone in this situation.
I have 2 boys so I'm hoping my third would be a girl.. my last ultrasound, they told me it was a boy.. I have the same emotion 😞😞😞 I still hoping for a miracle🙏🙏🙏
I felt the same way i was so sure my 2nd was a girl, the pregnancy was so different but another boy and im sad too i understand what you feel you're not alone i want a baby girl so bad! ❤
I am a mother of 2 girls, currently 13wks pregnant and my nipt test results say I am having another girl. Gender disappointment is very real 😢. I have my 20wk anatomy scan in November I’m still hoping my test came back wrong. This pregnancy has been completely different from my girls 😞
My blood test said boy but I truly think it's a girl. I was more ill this time around and had a dream it was a girl. Although another boy wouldn't be bad, I want a girl so we can do things together. I can't do much hanging out with a boy after they reach a certain age. Next time, I don't want to know until my scan so I don't get my hopes up.
I had the blood test and they told me it’s a girl I would be devastated if they change it up on me lol. I already got my mind set on pink things, bows, and dresses lol.
That’s why you never get your hopes up and always be ready for what ever gender baby is . God sends us what he knows is right for us . Hope all is different now
I had my 20w scan yesterday, and even though they said boy I feel in my gut thats a girl and im gonna request another ultrasound at my next appointment because I'm just not seeing it lol. It looks so different my sons ultrasound
My mom was told my older sister was a boy but she kept telling them no it’s a girl. They thought she was crazy but sure enough she came out a girl 😂 that was in the 80s though! I’m an OB nurse and I’ve seen it a few times but not often!
I get you. I wished for a second girl. Last week they told me it will probably be a boy. I felt crushed. Today I will get another scan but I fear they will confirm that it's a boy. It will be ok in the end. But I kinda need to grieve my little girl
@@EmilyInman yes, they were right. It's a boy. I still struggle a little bit, especially when I see my little girl do something adorable and can't image a boy in this. But I know there will be other things to love with him. But the "probably" made it worse. For a week I thought maybe it was a mistake and so on.
It’s okay to be disappointed, you may have wanted a girl or trying for a girl, or it may have just been because you were so sure instinctually. I know what you’re feeling right now. I’m 14 weeks an just got my sneakpeek results last night an I was so sure I was having a girl, my mom that I was having a girl. I don’t know we were just so sure. I almost feel guilty for being so disappointed, like I will love my child regardless, but I wanted to have a girl so bad ya know. It took so long to get here, and finally I’m pregnant an at that point in my life, and now I don’t even get the little girl I wanted.
I feel the same way I wrap my head around the idea of having a girl I got the NIPT done at 12 weeks just had my gender reveal says boy I was really hoping for a girl. I already have a 8 year old boy I'm hoping once I do the anatomy exam that they tell me it's a girl. I really believe is a girl because of my symptoms this time around I'm happy with a boy but I really want a babygirl. I feel your pain 😣
@@evelynsanchez9473 i want to try again but i am unsure!! I hate pregnancy and then to chance having 4 girls ahhhh😵 but again thankful shes healthy lol
@@anjelinaalmanza5911 haha same! I think this has been my worst pregnancy. But omg it’s so high of a risk to be stuck with 4 girls 😳😳 if you ever go for it come back to the comments and let me know hehe 😜🙃
Currently going through this. I had a strong feeling I was having a boy all my symptoms were pointing towards boy. Just did 19 week ultrasound and she said it’s a girl. Deep down I feel she might have made a mistake but then it’s accurate at 19-20 week.
You have every right to grieve! I fee your pain watching you. You have a good spirit I’m sure you’re over this now but your feelings were valid! You are soooo cute by the way!
I went two days ago. 13 weeks and they told me another girl. I have two at home and for sure knew i was having a boy. But another girl. But it's ok. Im a girl mom your a boy mom. We are blessed to be able to bring life into this world. If u ever want to talk im here sister
@@EmilyInman until they all start fighting lol omg... Found out today it's official. Were having a 3rd girl! Yay lol if you live in daygo and ever want to have a play date im always down😌
How did it go? Feeling the same I’m 15 weeks pregnant today. Feeling totally different than my other 2 pregnant 2 girls and hoping it’s a boy now, but the genetic test came out it’s a girl.
I’m sorry! I know how that must of felt. I have 3 boys and one girl. I did a sneak peak test a week ago at 10 weeks and it said it was a boy. I was so disappointed because I’ve been wanting another girl so bad. 😞 This will be my last baby and just knowing that I wasn’t able to give my 9 year old the sister she’s been wanting makes my heart ache. I am hoping my test somehow comes out to be wrong. I followed directions to the T. But I also don’t want to be in denial. 😞 I hope you get your girl soon!
O wow...I feel the same way in the same boat...I wanted my daughter to have a little sister that's she kept speaking ABOUT and she is ten...I have boys already and one girl and having another boy....it real do sucks
Im so sorry the mix up happened .. i can relate kinda i am expecting my second boy and always wanted a girl .. thankful to conceive and have a healthy baby so far but definitely mourning the loss of the girl i neever had
I want a girl sooooo badly for my own personal family reasons( I have 1 boy and 1 girl now). I was told by nub expert that its a boy and that its like 99% chance. My disappointment is making me so guilty and sad. I will not be pregnant again and it is heartbreaking. Of course I will love him more than anything but it is still a lot to accept.
My mom felt completely different while pregnant than she had with my sister 2 years earlier. She was just a lot less sick with me so she thought for sure I was a boy. Then I came out a girl. So I guess you can’t predict the gender based on how sick you are
Omg I hope mine is wrong so bad !! I have 3 girls , and I did sneak peek and it says girl and I was for sure thought I was having a boy 😭😭😭 but I’m so sorry I know exactly how you feel !
Our ultrasound tech said the only way to be sure is by birth! But we've had 2 different ultrasounds and she said both times that it's definitely a boy. I'm know it happens, but I can't imagine it happens ALOT. Maybe ask for more neutral colored items to set your mind at ease?
Hi Emily, can you confirm that whether you had blood test and mistake took over there in gender identification?we are in same situation so this might help us
I wish this happens to me, I really want a boy. Already had a girl and I love her so much, but my 20 weeks scan told me it’s another girl and I’m really disappointed 😔
I was literally just told Friday our “girl” is a boy and I’m feeling a whole range of emotions. I’m 32 weeks and you’d think they’d catch that before now.
Even if you have the wrong gender of the baby, it is not a disease or no one will die regardless of the gender of the baby, because the most important thing is that the baby is healthy, people give importance to completely banal things that do not give any importance in their life, they live empty lives and give importance to things , which are not very important in their lives, even these days they share the gender of their unborn child on social media, and celebrate the gender of their unborn child it's sick people have gone crazy.
I am 28 weeks. I had 3 ultrasounds and was told girl at each one, and found out yesterday it's a boy. I feel all the feelings 😭
Hi brian did you have a private scan done?
Or just nhs scan?
I have done my sneak peek blood test at 11 weeks and they said a boy.
Then at 20 weeks ultrasound they said your placenta is anterior and its a girl.which one should i believe?
@@Nazi04 believe the u/s. Your blood test was contaminated.
Did you do your anomaly scan
If u have a line in ur stomach u will quilkly know maybe is a girl or a boy
Hi i have my scan and no one is telling me what is it can anyone help
I think maybe you’re feeling grief because you bonded with a girl and now “she’s” not coming. But maybe at the same time you feel guilty because baby boy is healthy and you feel like you’re slighting him by being sad- and maybe that’s not fair to him. But you know what? Feel how you feel because you are entitled to-It’s just fine. Give yourself that permission.
Thanks so much for saying that! That couldn't be more accurate. Of course I'm excited for another boy, I just felt weird that "she" isn't a she anymore. But after a couple weeks, I'm totally used it and so excited for another baby boy :)
Yesss that happened to me. It's like a was grieving a little girl that never existed
It's totally a normal reaction. I have cried out loud with 2 of my boys. I now have 3 boys 🤗 when they come, you forget about it. God is wonderful at erasing such pain. Now I'm pregnant, I'm not even planning to find out. Congratulations 👏🏽 I know it's been a year
What was baby #4? 3rd try for me was a girl finally
@@josie9583 baby girl 😂 born April 29! Can't thank God enough!.
@@joykazadi2818 oh wow! 😂
The same thing happened to my daughter. She was told she was having a girl the whole pregnancy. When she went in to get induced, they did an ultrasound to check the position of the baby. She found out she was having a boy hours before he was delivered. Talk about shocking. She had to return all the girl things she got at her baby shower.
They told my daughter she's was having another girl she already had two and she really wanted a boy ..She went and bought all girl stuff and everything but turns out they were wrong she had another ultrasound and it was a baby boy ..
This video about pregnancy is probably the video I've felt more as mine. Same thing happened to me and I've spent many days crying, while the people around me did not get my sadness/disappointment. They kept saying : as long as the baby is healthy.
Of course I want the baby to be healthy, that'sobvious, but the idea to have a girl was real in my mind.
Thanks for sharing.
I totally feel you.
I feel so bad for you. All your emotions are completely understandable! I am pregnant with my 4th girl and I couldn’t imagine if this happened to me. Once you feel you “know” the gender it defines the baby more and connects you to it in a different way and then to have it be changed feels like a loss. Don’t be too hard on yourself, you will adjust and love the baby exactly the same. Don’t worry mama! Sending lots of love! ❤️
Exactly! I suddenly envisioned my life with a daughter, and it felt so strange having that taken from me. But after a couple of weeks, I completely adjusted and now I'm sooo excited to have two boys. Thanks so much for your kind words!
@@EmilyInman Hey at which week they told you it's a girl? Have you seen three lines on the potty shot. ?
Having similar feelings. It's tough when reality doesn't match what you hoped and imagined. I didn't have an early ultrasound, just hoped for a girl as I have three boys already. I didn't realize how much I was hoping for a girl until I saw the ultrasound results.
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This just happened to me! I was told girl at 12 weeks and at my 20 week scan today told boy. I am just not sure how to feel and I am sad about losing my girl. I’m still very excited and thankful for a healthy pregnancy, just confused. Thank you for posting this it is validating 💙
I want this happen to me plz pray for me to have a boy
Hi whether the mistake happened in blood test?
Whether it happend in blood test?
I just found out last night at my 20 week scan that my little boy is actually a girl. I cried so much and I still feel so sad today. I'm not upset about having a girl but I'm mourning the loss of a son I'll never have, my husband and I were calling "him" by name, it is such a shock and I feel so guilty admitting that I'm disappointed things have changed. I'm sure I'll feel better in a few weeks but it's so hard to adjust your expectations.
I went to ultrasound today,realy wanted a girl but found out it's a boy .. i aleady have 2 boys.
Yesss! I 100% understand how you're feeling. It took me a week or two to fully wrap my head around it, and now I couldn't be more excited. I'm sure you're feeling similar now, too. It's just sooo shocking to find out they were wrong. When did you first find out baby was a "boy"?
Was it a blood work you did to confirm boy at first ?
@@rushainec2477 no I found out through a "first glimpse" ultrasound place at 19 weeks pregnant. I wasn't going to get my anatomy scan u til 24-25 weeks and I wanted to know the gender before so I could have a reveal party while family was in town. Since it was at 19 weeks I was 100% confident that it wouldn't be wrong. Turns out the ultrasound tech got about 3 or 4 other families genders wrong and was fired. Got a total refund and some 3D pictures for free to compensate.
@@emilybryant8461 okay . Thanks for responding :)
I just knew, felt it in my soul. I purchased cute dresses and other things. The same tech who did the ultrasound for my second son, he told me in his happy voice another turtle and then it hit me, he use the same term, for my second son, I held the tears until I made it to my car, I understand how you feel. Mom of 3 boys, its was hard taking the girl clothes back, buying boy clothes is going to help you, but when they put him in your arms...nothing but LOVE.
I felt that same way!! Once I bought some baby boy clothes, I felt so much better! And then once I held him, I couldn't imagine him being a girl.
To both Mommies, as long as those kids are healthy and happy, that's what's important.
Its okay to grieve the future you thought you would have, if that makes sense, totally normal and totally okay 💜
Thanks girl! I felt so guilty, but everyone helped me feel more normal :)
i really felt like this today , i have two girls alreday and this is my last stop being pregnant, im 14 wks +3 and sonographer sneak peak and told me its a girl. iam happy but at the same time i still wish its a boy, i dont feel ashamed its real feelings, as long as iam greatful for life. i hope one day you will have a girl too. x
This was one reason why my husband & I choose to never find out gender. No one can be disappointed when you pull up your Heathy baby on to your chest and meet them for the first time!
I’m sorry this happened to you but glade he’s healthy.
I love that reasoning! I'm sure that was an incredible feeling :)
I didn't want to know either
I’m sorry that happened to you. My sister got told her 3rd was a boy at 14w then told girl at 16w. She already had a boy and girl so she wasn’t too disappointed. I’m currently pregnant and got told it is a boy at 16w. Have my 20w anatomy scan coming up and I would honestly be so upset if I got told he is actually a she. Gender disappointment shouldn’t be shamed upon. It’s natural to feel this way and should be talked about more in society to no longer make it a taboo subject.
I'm so glad to know that I'm not alone with my feelings on this subject. Thanks so much for sharing!!
Wtz ur baby gender?
@@Abidshah-lb2dz a boy! Almost 3 months old now 💙
Hi stanats shall we know whether you had a nipt blood test for gender identification or scan.And in which one its right?
Totally understand how you feel. I already have two boy's and I really want have a girl， My two boys had always wanted a Baby sister, but when I got a 20-week ultrasound, told them they had another boy brother , they told me they were heartbroken. Me too. I stay up very late now, otherwise I will think too much. It's bad to me . Because this is my last child, I will never have a daughter with me in the future.😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢💔💔💔💔
I'm so sorry girl. I totally understand that immediate disappoint. Once that boy comes, I'm sure you won't be able to imagine life without him.
Going through this myself,am just happy that the baby is healthy but I wish it was a little girl🙈
Same here. Have 2 boys and pregnant at 15 weeks. Not sure if I want to find out the gender since I still have hope that it is a girl. Scared I might Get super disapointed 😫
I'm sure those hearts were very happy the day he was born. ❤
This just happened to me:'( I feel so sad and disappointed. We were told girl at 14 weeks, and then boy at 18:( You are speaking my truth. I bonded with a girl and named her, even. But now I'm morning the"loss" of that future girl: ( My daughter is pretty upset at not getting a sister too. It's heartbreaking. I'm glad someone understands.
That they tell you by blood test ? From the maternit 21 test
I got the blood test and i feel like its wrong . they said girl, i feel like its a boy.
I did enough research , majority lf ppl said theyr having a girl based on the blood test , then till later they have the actual gender . it pisses me off so much.
M mother of 4 boys already ND now 17 week pregnant my Dr told me at week 13 that it was a girl but at week 15 she said it a boy ..being a mother of already 4 boys than news of having a girl gave me so power but it remain just 2 weeks until Dr said it's a boy ...m waiting for my anatomy scan pray for me that Allah bless me with a girl this time ameen
I’m sorry to hear that 🤍🤍 congrats on the healthy baby boy.
Baby boy#4 is on its way and I totally understand how you felt. Like you said its just a strange feeling, not that you are sad. On the happy note, Congrats on baby!
Exactly! I'm always happy that I have a healthy baby. It was just a really weird feeling emotionally.
I know this is an old video but for everyone out there 12-13 weeks is far too early! If you want to be sure from ultrasound I suggest waiting until at least 17 weeks! Just what I’ve seen as an OB nurse
I know, but m cousin had a blood test done, they told her it was a boy but she ended up having a girl
I totally agree! I would've never gone to just to find out gender that early. I just believed the ultrasound tech when she said she could see the gender. I'll never believe them anymore until the anatomy scan haha.
@@vanessagordon1343 im also hoping for some kind of miracle happen on me they told me im having boy i want girl 👧
My SO and his ex thought they were having a girl. He said all of the ultrasounds pointed to their son being a girl. They found out in her last trimester that she was actually having a boy. They had the baby shower, had a name picked and all and they indeed ended up having a boy. He's 6 and you'd imagine technology would've been able to see that, but it surprisingly happens.
I'm currently expecting and was told we're having a boy, but I keep having a gut feeling and dreams of having a daughter. Vivid dreams of us at the birth center and the baby is born a female; not a male. Idk if it's more we both wanted a girl (he has all boys and I have all girls), but at 3 weeks I found out we were expecting because I had a dream of leaving the ultrasound and they said we were having a girl. Took a test that morning and found out I was expecting.
Aww Em! I've been thinking about you a lot. Such a shock and disappointment to be so thrown off like that after feeling so sure. You have a great attitude!
Omgggg why would they tell you before the 20wk anatomy scan that is such a big NO NO. The emotional whiplash.
I have 3 boys.. my 3rd i was told my whole pregnancy it was a girl..big surprise when He was out.. I cry 😢 alone as if I had lost my daughter couldn't bond with my baby for a day or two but then I pray and apologize to my baby boy and I love him so muchhhh
Awwww, 🤗
I was told at 16w im having a girl i had my 20w anatomy and it says a girl I really wanted a boy because i got 2 girls already and not planning on having more kids 🥲 wish this happen to me
On ur 3rd baby... Before birth, while ultrasound scan did u see 3lines? Did the dr said and show u that u having a baby girl?
@@gracy7896 yes lol
I felt this heart break today. I have 2 boys and this is my last baby and we went to a gender prediction and they told me it looked like a boy , I took a blood test at 9 weeks and it said girl. I’ve been trying to find comfort & it was nice to relate to you. Idk why I’m sad .. I love my boys 😣
So which was it, girl or boy?
Girl!!
@@foreverjazy6849 congrats
Crying on camera is not uncomfortable sweetheart, it helps others feeling how you do to heal ❤
I really understand your feelings .. I really hope I'm pregnant with a girl but instead the doctor said I'm pregnant with a boy .. I already have 2 boy.. Still want a baby gurl.. 😢..
🥺it’s okay I wanted a girl too & was told at 15weeks it’s a boy. It’s ok to feel how you feel.
Is this a boy??
I have 2 girls and i’m 20 weeks and told Im having a gilr 😢
@@Alison_armenta same with me .😭😭
@@Alison_armenta so which you get ..?
Me too. I did a NIPT test and I was sure I was having a girl. But it’s a boy. I’m deeply disappointed and I feel so guilty and heartbroken that I fell this way. I desperately want to be over it soon. For my child and for myself
I wanted a boy so bad and I got told it was a boy and then this morning I got a call saying that my NIPT says girl and I feel exactly the way you do. I feel like I can’t connect with my baby anymore
Same thing happened to me but in reverse
gender grievance is a real thing i understand ❤❤❤❤ i had the same thing
I already have two girls then 22weeks pregnant my doctor told me that my baby is healthy but can’t find if it’s a girl or a boy…,had to come back for another scan
Please pray for me,need a boy 👦 thanks
Have you got idea about it now?
The exact same thing is happening to me right now, was so sure it was a girl, I have a boy already, I literally cried in the doctors office
I feel you!! I will say though, now that I have baby boy #2, I truly can't imagine life without him
This is me right now😭
@@naghhh1742 I’m due any day now and it’s grown on me and I love him but some where deep inside I’m hoping I still have a girl🤷🏻♀️it gets better tho so hang in there and go tru the emotions
Congrats Love! Everything will be ok! Its ok to feel emotions! Super happy for you and your family!
Definitely felt my emotions. But all is well now :)
Same thing happend to me two times. But after loosing my first baby boy at birth the gender wasn't important the other pregnancies. A healthy baby is all that matters. Enjoy this special time. Greetings from the Netherlands 🇳🇱
A friend of mine was told Boy at 20wks then she had her 3d ultrasound and it showed Girl.. she already had her babyshower so she had nothing but blue stuff. so sometime it happens
I am so sorry! I was excited for you for a girl. But I am so happy your little boy is healthy and you will love him so much like you do sweet Davis💖👍
I’m currently going through this and am feeling exactly how you feel!! I had two blood tests originally that said boy and two ultrasounds that said girl. So I did that genetic blood test through the doctors office only to confirm that it’s a girl. So I feel you!!! I’m definitely mourning my boy that I thought I was getting. I probably still will be in denial until I have another ultrasound lol.
I have 3 daughters .now I am pregnant having 6 month. Scan show baby girl .. but l want baby boy..
I have two boys. Now I have my third baby and I did the blood test it says it's a boy. I really want a baby girl. I hope the rest not accurate
Blood test result are correct or ultrasound are correct? Which one are always correct
So u got blood test done and they said boy then it turned out to be boy???
*girl
The exact same thing happened to me! I was told girl then we had a boy, I completely felt the same way as you did, it’s almost like you just lost something that you never had. It’s so confusing but congratulations!🥰
Hey, as long as that baby is healthy. That's important.
I think women want at least one girl because girl clothing is so much fun and also when they grow up girls stay closer to the mother (and the father). The old saying is somewhat true (A son is a son till he takes him a wife, a daughter is a daughter all of her life. -Irish Saying.) But not always. My oldest brother is super close with my mom.
Definitely not always. I would say I'm closer to my son than my daughter.
Just a note, the technology still sucks. I was told in my appointment girl, then at the end, boy. My friend gave birth to a baby with Down’s syndrome. She had no idea. All the ultrasounds and being under the care of an OB, they didn’t detect it. We have a long way to go.
This is why I don’t plan to find out the gender at my ultrasound. I really don’t care if it is a boy or girl but I don’t want to be told it is one things when it might be another. Best to find out when Baby is born and you can know for sure.
Thank you for your honest reactions.
I know this is an older video but I had to see if someone has went through this. I already have a boy and I am currently pregnant now and I swear I thought I was having a girl and got really attached on the idea of having a girl just because the symptoms I’m having is different than the first pregnancy. I got genetic test done when I was 10 weeks and 5 days and I am currently 12 weeks and they said I am having a boy.. I am hoping whenever I get an ultrasound done it’ll confirm 100% the gender just because I am in such denial but if the gender stays the same I will be blessed either way. Just unexpected.
Did you have a boy?
Can you confirm that whether blood test is right or ultrasound is right for you
Your feelings are so justified, your morning the baby girl you thought you were having !!!! Don’t feel bad about feeling a little upset
I had my ultrasound at 20 weeks and I was told it's a girl, I am hoping it's born a girl. But I completely understand your sadness, after you find out the gender you get to bond more with the baby and start thinking about names, clothes, and all of that changes in a second, it can be a shock!
U have girl r boy?
It depends on how sure your u/s tech was and how good of a shot they got. With both of mine, it was pretty unmistakable
I just had my MaterniT21 test done last Monday I was just under 10 weeks and the results came back today but I also have a 12 week ultrasound on Thursday so I’m HOPING that they’re the same results because lately I’ve been hearing that the NIPT test is not as accurate as they claim and that’s a little frustrating.
Curious what you ended up finding out, if you don't mind sharing? Were they the same result, or different? And then what did you find out later on at 20 weeks? I'm currently trying to hold myself back from the "guessing game" because we did not decide to do the NIPT test, haha... But I'm so curious whether yours turned out accurate. I hope for your sake that it did!
Hi can you confirm whether nipt blood test is right or 12th week ultrasound is correct?
Oh I’m sorry. I completely understand! I have 2 boys and want a girl so bad. Our blood test just came back girl but I’m scared whether to trust it because we want one so badly and know it’s our last.
I can completely understand how you feel. You have been thrown for a serious loop!
For sure! It just took some getting used to. But now, I'm so excited for another boy :)
That happened to a friend of mine..told her its a boy...and with the last ultrasound all of a sudden: girl...thats a shock for sure
Your emotions explain it totally.... such an indifferent feeling😔
Same 😔
I totally understand ur feelings!! I went to ultrasound last week they can’t see anything there was umbilical cord between legs!! I have scheduled anatomy scan next week hopefully I will get some good news💙 after having 3 girls !!
Wish all the best sister 💙💙💙
Did you find out if it was a boy???
I have also 3 baby girl.. l want baby boy. Now I'm pregnant of 6 month. Plz remember me in ur prayers.
@@ayeshabibi6709 boy or girl
So glad I am seeing this video. Thank you for sharing because I am going through this right now myself. I haven’t even showed my husband how up set I am. I am happy to be having a boy but feel like I lost a little girl. I am glad I am across this because now I feel I am not alone in this situation.
Not u Alone I thought I had a boy but at the utra sound they said I have a fourth girl am so heart broken to 😭😭😭😭
I'm having another boy im still in denial 😕 but blessed of a healthy baby
Update got a blood test and another ultrasound im having a girl :0
Aw sorry girl. Congrats nonetheless!!!
Its ok I really wanted a girl since I already had a boy :)
We’re you told you we’re having a boy via blood test? Or ultrasound?
@@tessf92 I was told boy via ultrasound she probably mistook the umbilical cord with the boys private part
Gender disappointment is totally a real thing and you shouldn’t feel ashamed of it
Don’t feel bad. I got the nipT test
And they told me boy but I have 3 boys. In my heart I feel this is A girl
Same here
Have you gotten your anatomy scan yet to double check??
Have you got an ultrasound to confirm?
Hi Briawn can you confirm that whether nipt is right
I think i might be going through the same thing, they swear its 100% correct but i feel im having a boy. My blood test said girl.
Whether blood test is right for you
I have 2 boys so I'm hoping my third would be a girl.. my last ultrasound, they told me it was a boy.. I have the same emotion 😞😞😞 I still hoping for a miracle🙏🙏🙏
We are on the same boat
I really want baby girl
I felt the same way i was so sure my 2nd was a girl, the pregnancy was so different but another boy and im sad too i understand what you feel you're not alone i want a baby girl so bad! ❤
I am a mother of 2 girls, currently 13wks pregnant and my nipt test results say I am having another girl. Gender disappointment is very real 😢. I have my 20wk anatomy scan in November I’m still hoping my test came back wrong. This pregnancy has been completely different from my girls 😞
Hi can you confirm that whether nipt test is right or anatomy scan results are right.we are in same situation, so this might help us
@@jeer7996literally this is me. I got a blood test and it said girl. I am hoping the gender got mixed up. I so badly want to give my son a brother 💔
@rosario_len hi it's a boy or a girl .when is the date
This happened to me I just found today that I’m actually having a boy and not a girl like I was told by sneak peek. :( my 4th boy
Omg they can mistake with a girl gender !!!!!! They told me I have girl and now I am not so sure 😱
My blood test said boy but I truly think it's a girl. I was more ill this time around and had a dream it was a girl. Although another boy wouldn't be bad, I want a girl so we can do things together. I can't do much hanging out with a boy after they reach a certain age. Next time, I don't want to know until my scan so I don't get my hopes up.
I completely know how you feel. I am so glad you were strong enough to film this for us.
I had the blood test and they told me it’s a girl I would be devastated if they change it up on me lol. I already got my mind set on pink things, bows, and dresses lol.
That’s why you never get your hopes up and always be ready for what ever gender baby is . God sends us what he knows is right for us . Hope all is different now
Did you get the NIPT blood test that told you it was a girl or was it an ultrasound before 20 weeks where they told you that?
I had my 20w scan yesterday, and even though they said boy I feel in my gut thats a girl and im gonna request another ultrasound at my next appointment because I'm just not seeing it lol. It looks so different my sons ultrasound
Did you ever get another ultrasound to verify the baby's gender?? Trust your mama gut.
My mom was told my older sister was a boy but she kept telling them no it’s a girl. They thought she was crazy but sure enough she came out a girl 😂 that was in the 80s though! I’m an OB nurse and I’ve seen it a few times but not often!
@@EmilyInman not yet 😂 I'm down to every 2 week visits though so I'm sure I'll get another one soon.
@@EmilyInman I’m
I get you. I wished for a second girl. Last week they told me it will probably be a boy. I felt crushed. Today I will get another scan but I fear they will confirm that it's a boy. It will be ok in the end. But I kinda need to grieve my little girl
Offices should not be allowed to use the word "probably" when discussing gender lol. Did you find out what the gender is for sure?
@@EmilyInman yes, they were right. It's a boy. I still struggle a little bit, especially when I see my little girl do something adorable and can't image a boy in this. But I know there will be other things to love with him. But the "probably" made it worse. For a week I thought maybe it was a mistake and so on.
I'm going through this too , its a normal feeling.
So sorry, girl!! It's such a whirlwind of emotions.
It’s okay to be disappointed, you may have wanted a girl or trying for a girl, or it may have just been because you were so sure instinctually. I know what you’re feeling right now. I’m 14 weeks an just got my sneakpeek results last night an I was so sure I was having a girl, my mom that I was having a girl. I don’t know we were just so sure. I almost feel guilty for being so disappointed, like I will love my child regardless, but I wanted to have a girl so bad ya know. It took so long to get here, and finally I’m pregnant an at that point in my life, and now I don’t even get the little girl I wanted.
I feel the same way I wrap my head around the idea of having a girl I got the NIPT done at 12 weeks just had my gender reveal says boy I was really hoping for a girl. I already have a 8 year old boy I'm hoping once I do the anatomy exam that they tell me it's a girl. I really believe is a girl because of my symptoms this time around I'm happy with a boy but I really want a babygirl. I feel your pain 😣
Yeah, I’m on my 5th girl..was really hoping for a boy..
Can you confirm whether nipt worked rightly for you or anatomy scan
This might help us pls
That’s how I’m feeling right now. We found out today we having another girl 😩 but happy for the health 💓
same 😭
Sameeee!! Having my third girl hoping the genetic test is wrong but doubt it😭
@@anjelinaalmanza5911 😭😭😩 we gave up, also our 3rd daughter.
@@evelynsanchez9473 i want to try again but i am unsure!! I hate pregnancy and then to chance having 4 girls ahhhh😵 but again thankful shes healthy lol
@@anjelinaalmanza5911 haha same! I think this has been my worst pregnancy. But omg it’s so high of a risk to be stuck with 4 girls 😳😳 if you ever go for it come back to the comments and let me know hehe 😜🙃
Currently going through this. I had a strong feeling I was having a boy all my symptoms were pointing towards boy. Just did 19 week ultrasound and she said it’s a girl. Deep down I feel she might have made a mistake but then it’s accurate at 19-20 week.
Have you not done the nipt test??
If you do that they must be told you the exact gender at 9 weeks
I know how you feel . Pregnant with my 3rd boy
You have every right to grieve! I fee your pain watching you. You have a good spirit I’m sure you’re over this now but your feelings were valid! You are soooo cute by the way!
Yep I felt the same way about this, it’s totally normal and ok.
Thanks girly!!
I went two days ago. 13 weeks and they told me another girl. I have two at home and for sure knew i was having a boy. But another girl. But it's ok. Im a girl mom your a boy mom. We are blessed to be able to bring life into this world. If u ever want to talk im here sister
Thanks so much! A house full of girls will be so fun! :)
@@EmilyInman until they all start fighting lol omg... Found out today it's official. Were having a 3rd girl! Yay lol if you live in daygo and ever want to have a play date im always down😌
I'm pregnant right now and I'm 100% positive it's a girl. My blood test came back a boy. But I have this deep feeling it's wrong
How did it go? Feeling the same I’m 15 weeks pregnant today. Feeling totally different than my other 2 pregnant 2 girls and hoping it’s a boy now, but the genetic test came out it’s a girl.
Awww I’m just seeing this video he’s gonna be a mommas boy!!!!! Congrats!
I’m sorry! I know how that must of felt. I have 3 boys and one girl. I did a sneak peak test a week ago at 10 weeks and it said it was a boy. I was so disappointed because I’ve been wanting another girl so bad. 😞 This will be my last baby and just knowing that I wasn’t able to give my 9 year old the sister she’s been wanting makes my heart ache. I am hoping my test somehow comes out to be wrong. I followed directions to the T. But I also don’t want to be in denial. 😞 I hope you get your girl soon!
O wow...I feel the same way in the same boat...I wanted my daughter to have a little sister that's she kept speaking ABOUT and she is ten...I have boys already and one girl and having another boy....it real do sucks
Im so sorry the mix up happened .. i can relate kinda i am expecting my second boy and always wanted a girl .. thankful to conceive and have a healthy baby so far but definitely mourning the loss of the girl i neever had
I want a girl sooooo badly for my own personal family reasons( I have 1 boy and 1 girl now). I was told by nub expert that its a boy and that its like 99% chance. My disappointment is making me so guilty and sad. I will not be pregnant again and it is heartbreaking. Of course I will love him more than anything but it is still a lot to accept.
Did you end up having a girl or a boy?? In the same situation
@@alicarltonn I had a boy!! So yeah theyre not lying with the nub theory! Lol
@@kaylasimpson4458 my tests came back I’m having a boy😂so yes definitely correct
Hey congrats! Of course you’ll love him more than anything so if it’s in the cards for you try again!! Lol
My mom felt completely different while pregnant than she had with my sister 2 years earlier. She was just a lot less sick with me so she thought for sure I was a boy. Then I came out a girl. So I guess you can’t predict the gender based on how sick you are
Interesting! Good to know for next time ;)
No NIPT test at that time? What was wrong? A previous ultrasound?
It’s okay not to be emotionally okay girlll we all emphasize
When was your first ultrasound? Can you post a pic of where they saw girl?
Omg I hope mine is wrong so bad !! I have 3 girls , and I did sneak peek and it says girl and I was for sure thought I was having a boy 😭😭😭 but I’m so sorry I know exactly how you feel !
Our ultrasound tech said the only way to be sure is by birth! But we've had 2 different ultrasounds and she said both times that it's definitely a boy. I'm know it happens, but I can't imagine it happens ALOT.
Maybe ask for more neutral colored items to set your mind at ease?
They said I am having a baby girl and I really thing it’s 100% girl and maybe not so hopefully it’s a healthy girl 🎉🎉🎉
Hi Emily, can you confirm that whether you had blood test and mistake took over there in gender identification?we are in same situation so this might help us
I wish this happens to me, I really want a boy. Already had a girl and I love her so much, but my 20 weeks scan told me it’s another girl and I’m really disappointed 😔
Same dear I already have 1 one girl and 20 weeks scan told me another girl🙃..hoping for miracle in sha allah..
@@patelfouziya671 inshallah
Same waiting for the miracle
I came to know it’s a girl again after 3 girls ! I wish any miracle happens
I totally understand! It's so hard not to get your hopes up.
You never know! It could happen :)
In wich month you take ultrasound??
Hi I had a blood work done they said it was a girl but I dream a boy something tells me to do 3D ultrasound for the gender I don't know what 2 do
I was literally just told Friday our “girl” is a boy and I’m feeling a whole range of emotions. I’m 32 weeks and you’d think they’d catch that before now.
Did you get a blood test that said girl? Or ultrasound? So sorry about that
I hope my gender prediction also ho wrong
Till 25 week doc told it's a boy Nd boom 29 week he said no it's a girl 👍👍👍
I tap this miracle in Jesus name
oh boy now I am scared. I just bought a bunch of bows and cute dresses today after my NITP test said it is a girl. I think I would feel the same
I love baby boy I have 4 girls and 2 boys
You have every right to feel that way. You basically lost your girl in a way. And shame on that ultrasound tech for reading your scan that early!!
Exactly!! I just wish she never told me in the first place, especially since I wasn't expecting to find out.
Even if you have the wrong gender of the baby, it is not a disease or no one will die regardless of the gender of the baby, because the most important thing is that the baby is healthy, people give importance to completely banal things that do not give any importance in their life, they live empty lives and give importance to things , which are not very important in their lives, even these days they share the gender of their unborn child on social media, and celebrate the gender of their unborn child it's sick people have gone crazy.