Based on Juan and Karla's conversations and the friends and family meetings, they have different love languages and receive and give live differently. And yes, Joe, this is what the experts/counselors need to be talking with them about so they can work through it
On Afterparty, Ike explained that he felt like he was set up with the conversation at the party. He said that, the specific questions that Emem cousin and friend were asking, were directly from a conversation if topics that him and Emem had just had the night before in bed. That, is why he responded the way he did. He felt some sort of disrespect. So, Stacia (from San Diego Season) then asked, well do you think she could have asked her people to talk to you because she didn't get straight answers from you, because you told her she is aggressive and ask too many questions? He said, that could be it, he just didn't like the way they came at him.
My theory on Tacogate: Ikechi was trying to make a point that Emem should have leaned on him to make the tacos before even considering going outside to buy the tacos. Ikechi wants to feel needed. He feels that Emem is "too independent". He had been acting funny ever since he saw Emem's apartment. Ikechi's demeanour screams insecure. It's also the reason he used the word "aggressive' to describe Emem. Emem's success seriously bothers him and he doesn't know how to deal with it.
On Afterparty he said Emem planned everything because he wasn't even going to be at the housewarming because of work. And Keisha then said, we'll, instead of going back in forth, do you think Emem didn't ask you because she knew you would be busy and did want to add another thing to your plate? He said, yeah, at the time, I didn't think of it that way
Listen yall, on Afterparty, Karla said to David, "i would have BEEN stop talking to her" lol she said I don't know why you still there. Karla had me laughing!!! They only knew what Michelle was telling them and not the full story of course. So watching the clips, Karla was literally shocked and surprised!
Yes, Madison definitely gave "see I'm nice"..... "I'm a good person" vibes!! 😆 We not buying it!! She didn't want to have a "housewarming" cause that would be too much hope for Allen, so it worked out that it was his birthday, boom, a party, cause she is a party girl, like, direct me to the bar!! Because fast forward, she got her BIG NERVE to be mad he didn't make it to the field day football game because they went out the night before for his birthday!! Girl, he probably was tryin to keep her with her at the bar, and she was drinking him under the table! lol!!
Yall perfectly discussed the Camille and Thomas issue. I’m tired!!! Her sister needs life and some business. Camille just doesn’t like Thomas and is making up stuff.
I think she likes him but she is self sabotaging and doesn't even realize it. She is looking for something to be an issue when there is nothing to complain about cause she is not use to a genuinely good guy.
Michelle is a terrible person for real! She was giving a tour of an apartment she doesn't stay in and says this is DAVID'S ROOM, crazy!! I was so happy Davids friend cleared her!! Got her right together!
Love the discussion on Thomas and Camille. I lowkey feel like the Producers may have their grubby little hands all over this by making Thomas' being bi-racial such a topic when in fact, it really isn't. It feels like they are fishing for an issue for the sake of content, not because it really is an issue. Very weird.
I know Camille is being serious but I swear their whole situation could be sketch comedy because you have one racially ambiguous person telling another racially ambiguous person how hard it is to walk around as a Black person in the world and low key I think that’s why Thomas doesn’t understand because he like “girl we look the same”.
Agree Joe, but that is MAFS blueprint... these are strangers coming together, so producers have the housewarming episodes that, like y'all said, dont lead to getting to know the new spouses, they instead are talking about the past, FAILED relationships. I would have had to redirect the convo EVERY time they stated up with, "she USED TO DATE", no, now we are together so lets talk about US!! Thomas was so NICE about it cause he genuinely likes her and was trying to understand where this "swag" issue was coming from. These are the more annoying episodes cause of course these family and friends (and producers) come in with their agendas and script that make for good tv for the producers but irritating to us the viewers who are looking for productive conversations for progress with these new stranger couples.
@joeandzar it's funny cause watching it, I was like YES cousin get him and I was thinking bout y'alls review and was like Joe bout to be BIG mad at the cousin again!! 😂🤣
@@jenniferd5474😂 It just never leads to anything good! And i’m so bored with “tough guy” act on TV and cousin was for sure giving that from day 1 so i couldnt even get with him even when he was right lol
@joeconner33 lol!! Cause he is right 😂 but also a lil nugget... can we say he standing up for Emem since her dad is no longer here?! That could be something too 🤷🏾♀️
1st of all im stealin “nugget” 😂 and i love that for her but what type of response you think you gone get at a “dinner party” going at your family members husband after you already went at him just days ago at HIS WEDDING before you even knew his name?! The irony in it all for me is If Zar was Ikechi them responses woulda been worst lol
I was waiting for y'all's input. You guys were very accurate with everyone. Ikechi is very insecure about Em's success, so, he is acting like a toddler. Talking about she's aggressive, boy bye. I prefer Michelle to Madison tbh, atleast with her, what you see is what you get. Madison is sneaky like a rat
Ikechi is coming across as cantankerous... I have to be in bed by 9. I gotta wake up at 5. Why didn't you let me make the tacos? He comes across as negative and not trying to build or grow the connection.
Re Camille & Thomas … I don’t have the issues that you guys have with this couple having a dialogue about “blackness”. It’s interesting that it’s the light-skinned couple doing so, but I think Camille wants someone who has a heart for the black community: First, last, always. Thomas talks about the “world seeing him as a black man” but … I do wonder: How does he see himself?
I dont get how yall can clearly see that michelle and madison are not attracted to their spouses but cannot see the juan is not attracted to karla. He is making up excuses.
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Based on Juan and Karla's conversations and the friends and family meetings, they have different love languages and receive and give live differently. And yes, Joe, this is what the experts/counselors need to be talking with them about so they can work through it
Zar Yes!! The colorism is LOUD like them ladies on Potomac House Wifes!!! 👀
On Afterparty, Ike explained that he felt like he was set up with the conversation at the party. He said that, the specific questions that Emem cousin and friend were asking, were directly from a conversation if topics that him and Emem had just had the night before in bed. That, is why he responded the way he did. He felt some sort of disrespect. So, Stacia (from San Diego Season) then asked, well do you think she could have asked her people to talk to you because she didn't get straight answers from you, because you told her she is aggressive and ask too many questions? He said, that could be it, he just didn't like the way they came at him.
My theory on Tacogate: Ikechi was trying to make a point that Emem should have leaned on him to make the tacos before even considering going outside to buy the tacos. Ikechi wants to feel needed. He feels that Emem is "too independent". He had been acting funny ever since he saw Emem's apartment. Ikechi's demeanour screams insecure. It's also the reason he used the word "aggressive' to describe Emem. Emem's success seriously bothers him and he doesn't know how to deal with it.
It would be very unfortunate if her success was the reason they are having these issues
On Afterparty he said Emem planned everything because he wasn't even going to be at the housewarming because of work. And Keisha then said, we'll, instead of going back in forth, do you think Emem didn't ask you because she knew you would be busy and did want to add another thing to your plate? He said, yeah, at the time, I didn't think of it that way
Listen yall, on Afterparty, Karla said to David, "i would have BEEN stop talking to her" lol she said I don't know why you still there. Karla had me laughing!!! They only knew what Michelle was telling them and not the full story of course. So watching the clips, Karla was literally shocked and surprised!
Okay part 2!!
😂 coming today! it was A LOT to discuss this week !
Yall do a great job reading between the lines!
We are like detectives trying to piece everything together!
Is that the real Allen?!
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"Bond to drizown" Zar came around to it 😉🤣😂
@@jenniferd5474 SURE DID! and what she dont know of im bouta bring it back! lol
@joeconner33 lol!! Yay! I can't wait! Sorry Zar! 😆 she bout to be so irritated!! 😂
Yes, Madison definitely gave "see I'm nice"..... "I'm a good person" vibes!! 😆 We not buying it!! She didn't want to have a "housewarming" cause that would be too much hope for Allen, so it worked out that it was his birthday, boom, a party, cause she is a party girl, like, direct me to the bar!!
Because fast forward, she got her BIG NERVE to be mad he didn't make it to the field day football game because they went out the night before for his birthday!! Girl, he probably was tryin to keep her with her at the bar, and she was drinking him under the table! lol!!
And like Dr. Pep said, 🗣🗣WE ARE NOT TRYING TO RECREATE A PAST THAT DID NOT WORK!!!
This! Put it on a tshirt
Is this a black relationship for you.. Zar, BARELY!! 😂😂
Waiting for y'all
We need to know all of your thoughts ! We had a-lot to say!
Yall perfectly discussed the Camille and Thomas issue. I’m tired!!! Her sister needs life and some business. Camille just doesn’t like Thomas and is making up stuff.
and thank you for calling a spade a spade.
I think she likes him but she is self sabotaging and doesn't even realize it. She is looking for something to be an issue when there is nothing to complain about cause she is not use to a genuinely good guy.
Michelle is a terrible person for real! She was giving a tour of an apartment she doesn't stay in and says this is DAVID'S ROOM, crazy!! I was so happy Davids friend cleared her!! Got her right together!
Love the discussion on Thomas and Camille. I lowkey feel like the Producers may have their grubby little hands all over this by making Thomas' being bi-racial such a topic when in fact, it really isn't. It feels like they are fishing for an issue for the sake of content, not because it really is an issue. Very weird.
I believe this! As annoyed as we are with Camille I don't even believe she would carry this for this long
It is DEFINITELY the producers!! They are the couple that is actually working out and they have nothing else to talk about.
I know Camille is being serious but I swear their whole situation could be sketch comedy because you have one racially ambiguous person telling another racially ambiguous person how hard it is to walk around as a Black person in the world and low key I think that’s why Thomas doesn’t understand because he like “girl we look the same”.
Thomas is ACTUALLY CONFUSED!
All facts!! He confused and so are we the views looking at them like... what now?! Girl... be for real!!
Y'all that's why it is so INTERESTING because it's giving the spider man meme... Camille 👈🏾 Thomas Y'ALL LOOK THE SAME!!
Agree Joe, but that is MAFS blueprint... these are strangers coming together, so producers have the housewarming episodes that, like y'all said, dont lead to getting to know the new spouses, they instead are talking about the past, FAILED relationships. I would have had to redirect the convo EVERY time they stated up with, "she USED TO DATE", no, now we are together so lets talk about US!! Thomas was so NICE about it cause he genuinely likes her and was trying to understand where this "swag" issue was coming from. These are the more annoying episodes cause of course these family and friends (and producers) come in with their agendas and script that make for good tv for the producers but irritating to us the viewers who are looking for productive conversations for progress with these new stranger couples.
Joe cannot get past this and we see it every season 😂😂😂
@joeandzar it's funny cause watching it, I was like YES cousin get him and I was thinking bout y'alls review and was like Joe bout to be BIG mad at the cousin again!! 😂🤣
@@jenniferd5474😂 It just never leads to anything good! And i’m so bored with “tough guy” act on TV and cousin was for sure giving that from day 1 so i couldnt even get with him even when he was right lol
@joeconner33 lol!! Cause he is right 😂 but also a lil nugget... can we say he standing up for Emem since her dad is no longer here?! That could be something too 🤷🏾♀️
1st of all im stealin “nugget” 😂 and i love that for her but what type of response you think you gone get at a “dinner party” going at your family members husband after you already went at him just days ago at HIS WEDDING before you even knew his name?! The irony in it all for me is If Zar was Ikechi them responses woulda been worst lol
I was waiting for y'all's input. You guys were very accurate with everyone. Ikechi is very insecure about Em's success, so, he is acting like a toddler. Talking about she's aggressive, boy bye. I prefer Michelle to Madison tbh, atleast with her, what you see is what you get. Madison is sneaky like a rat
I prefer Michelle to Madison too! This is Zar BTW, I don't like to feel like you are trying to get over on me
Ikechi is coming across as cantankerous... I have to be in bed by 9. I gotta wake up at 5. Why didn't you let me make the tacos?
He comes across as negative and not trying to build or grow the connection.
Ahahahahh he really does come off like that . Also it's tacos what is the big deal
I hate how they are treating Tom.
Its really becoming hard to watch
Re Camille & Thomas … I don’t have the issues that you guys have with this couple having a dialogue about “blackness”. It’s interesting that it’s the light-skinned couple doing so, but I think Camille wants someone who has a heart for the black community: First, last, always.
Thomas talks about the “world seeing him as a black man” but … I do wonder: How does he see himself?
I dont get how yall can clearly see that michelle and madison are not attracted to their spouses but cannot see the juan is not attracted to karla. He is making up excuses.
We are blinded by Karla's beauty
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