Stop worrying bout your reputation and divorce her already .. divorcing her is not going to make you a bad person .. being in a bad / unhealthy relationship is what matter .
you allowed her to come back, not once, not twice, but thousands of time. why you're complaining? you did this to yourself, blame yourself. what a frustrating guy. just get a divorce and be done with it. doing the same thing and expect different results.
Why divorce now but b4 kids then yea. dude ain't wanna pay child support, just wait for her divorce paper and try to get Alinmony for support while she went to finish her school.
Boyyyy better change your Doctor career to Lawyer because I smell spouse support, child support and half half on everything. I'd be taking money out here and there on ur bank account. However, let her go marry him. It won't last. 32:35
Cas lub yuav tu siab luaj thiab os tus kwv aw… Forget about her and go find your happiness. Life is too short, don’t waste your time for this trash 😂. You are not stupid!! Ntiaj teb no poj niam tuag tas lawm los ua cas. Koj pheej nyob nrog ib neeg es nws twb tsis hlub koj li na.
I can't stand these doctors who cannot make their own decisions. Stop putting your parents' happiness first. Life is too short to live for other people.
You will be amazed how these young doctors logic is my little hometown town we are not living in large Hmong community we only have approximately 300 Hmong we we have 10+ doctors ,1lawyer many engineers, by listening to their speeches when graduated they are still a child mind set until they actually experience in the job for 5 to 10yrs then start to see the true character of adults hood
@1nploojsiab6k I agree. I am a trainer in the clean room for student Medicine doctors and pharmacists and you are correct, they are only book smart. They almost can't do their job and have no clue what they're doing. They don't even know they're supposed to clean up after themselves!!! SMH.
Don’t blame it on your kids, you stayed because you like her love her and willing to be a dumbbell. Love has a way of making people dumb smart and blind.
Some life are easier said than done. Splitting and divorcing is the best option but it is not always the easiest to do. Good luck to you both and those out there that may need it too. 🙏🙏🍀🍀
kawm tiav Dr. lub neej nyob li dev ua li dev tsis txhob ntshaw os mog hmoob, lawv cov kawm tiav Dr. thiaj nyob tau thiaj ua tau thiaj uv taus lawm xwb ov mog,
Vim tias luag kev hlub yeej nyob tus yees ces luag twb xav tau dabtsi los twb nyob ntawv xwb nes Koj tus pojniam lub siab twb nyob tag nrog nrog tus txiv neej sab tom lawm nes txiv neej kuv Pom Koj thiaj ua tau xwb cov txiv neej no yeej tsi muaj tus siab ntev li Koj li os
She's right! Many doctors are not that good-looking 😂 Brother- let her go marry her ex-boyfriend. The more you stick around, the more headaches and heartaches you are going to have. It's time ⏲️?? How many times do you have forgiven her??
Lawv AWS tu neeg yuav hlub yus tiag ces yus tsi tag yuav kav thiab yuav soj li mog luag yeej paub coj luag tu kheej kom zoo zoo thiab huv huv pub cias raus yus ib leeg xwb os
Brother, I understand why you stay with her and also why she does what she does. Your situation is very complicated. I'm sorry this happened to you. Your / her parents are at fault; they should never force you two to marry in the first place. I hope your story reaches those narrow-minded parents' and old-timer parents' heads. Rearrange/ force marriage doesn't work, it will break sooner or later for sure. I would never force my kids to marry anyone they don't love/know.
Yog li koj lam kawm tiav dr. Koj tsis ntse ntxaus lam kawm tau qhov lawv qhia tawm xwb.. kawm tawm xwb tsis yog kawm tau.. y let someone torture you yourself.. ua ntej yuav mus kho lwm tus yuav tau kho yus kom yus muaj kev zoo siab tso…
Thaub aw poj niam zoo li ko xwb kav tsij muab tso mus rau luag tsim mas koj thiaj li muaj nqis yog koj pheej nyob li ko koj tsi muaj hnub muaj nqis li os kav tsi mu yuav tu saib yus muaj nqis
Neb zaj dab neeg tsis tau xaus tshuav qhov koj yuav cia nws ua nws mus los koj yuav tso nws? Txoj kev npam cia nws ris nws mus mas, tsam lwm hnub kev npam los txog rau nws ces koj ho tau tu nws qhov chaw mos lwj kas dhi ces pab hlub koj hwv os, nws ua nws los yus tseem tau tu nws thiab os tus nus. Yus tsis tshuav nws nqi os mog.
Poj niam tiam no siab phem dhau ntshai cov poj niam siab lim zoo li no yus ib tug zoo txiv nej yawg lo lub meej mom lub koob lub npe cia li lo pua rau ib niag poj niam khib nyiab zoo li yog leej twg ntsib lawm yog ib qho yuaj siab kawg nkau😢😢😢
Even if you studied business, if you don’t have your own business- you are not going to make much money. Should have be an entrepreneur like our sisters Mai Lor, Mai Kao that sells a make-up line under their name and the products was made from China and Thailand to make a tons of profit. They are so smart, I heard they are making 50k plus a month and they have no degree.
Zoo li koj xwb ce cia nyia mu nyia os mog .txiv neej ua lo yeej mob² poj niam os .ho poj niam ua li yeej mob² txiv neej os e cia nyiam mu nyia os tu me kuv
Tu siab- tus tswv ntawv zaj no, kawm tawm “do tawm” xwb. Kawm tsis tiav “doctor.” Yog kawm tiav, cas ho npav lub tawm xwb. Kawm tsis tiav, thiaj tau lub “do tawm.” Nrog tu siab-😂
Why you put yourself in this situation? Learn about the mekas laws on marriage n you can have joint custody of the kids n live separately. Life is too short! You need REAL love! Sounds like you have low self esteem…..definitely make use of your money & go find a marriage counselor. Get your life together n move on b4 you too old to enjoy life! I feel sorry for you! There are so many hmoob girls who’s looking for love, go catch them asap! If you need help, I have some single nieces in their 30’s educated n looking for love! Your parents are not your life! Follow your heart n be yourself, think for yourself, it’s your life. You do you the way you want…..it’s the only way to be happy in this world!
Kuv tsis nkag Siab tias cov kawm tau Dr es tsis paub txog kev sib yuav Los cas tseem tos niamtxiv pab nrhiav nyab losis vauv rau. Kev sis yuav start with liking and loving each other. Not status.
You're a doctor, and you put up with a woman like that? The sooner you let her go, the better you will feel about yourself and your life. Trash you don't need in your life, toss it out.
Tus me tub Dr aws.... koj lam kawm2 tau kiag Dr xwb koj tsis ntse li na. A lady like this is not worthy your title of Dr. Why waste your time for her. There are still more honest ladies wating for you. If you know that you are not a handsome guy then never looks for a beautiful ladies. Hopefully this time you learn your lesson, so you are looking for the pure heart not the beautiful face.
What is wrong with getting divorced and carry the name of yawg nraug? We all are human people. There are many people out there es yog nraug dab and nkauj dab. Nothing wrong with that. 🤦🏻♀️ why you bother to make other people happy and you here stressing out? Make yourself happy and who cares what other people think. If you divorce her ່ it’s not like you the only divorcee in the entire world. There is a lot out there.
Thaub Dr aws… cas twb yog Dr los tseem tsis paub es tsis mus nrhiav tus hlub yus na. Ib qho ob qho los pheej depend rau tej laus ces thiaj zoo li ko ntag
I think you might be hiding behind or even blaming your title as a doctor. I think it actually doesn’t have much to do with being a doctor but you put so much emphasis on the doctor title. Lots of people will say ‘no’ to cheaters, and they are not doctors, let alone high school graduates.
Brother I feel sorry for you hopefully when you read all these comments you will be fully growing up as a real adult and mature man . Just remember 2 things , successful business in making money ,high education skills ,don’t buy a true love of real life . U got both of those u need a true love partner to stand be side you I can for seeing your future will be brighter. Don’t waste any more time your parents only give you only one chance to born in this lifetime.I just give you a hint I’m 67 my wife is 32 I’m living of joyful life every days is full of energy.make this one time living on this earth for your self not any body else . Just to remind you we Hmong in the US almost 50 yrs now the title of so call Dr,Lawyer,millionaire, is plenty out there just like any body else .don’t hold the title too strong just become your self life will be more productive for you. Good luck
Stop worrying bout your reputation and divorce her already .. divorcing her is not going to make you a bad person .. being in a bad / unhealthy relationship is what matter .
you allowed her to come back, not once, not twice, but thousands of time. why you're complaining? you did this to yourself, blame yourself. what a frustrating guy. just get a divorce and be done with it. doing the same thing and expect different results.
So called doctor, right.
yuav ua txiv yau xwb mas me tub aw 😂😂
Why divorce now but b4 kids then yea. dude ain't wanna pay child support, just wait for her divorce paper and try to get Alinmony for support while she went to finish her school.
Boyyyy better change your Doctor career to Lawyer because I smell spouse support, child support and half half on everything. I'd be taking money out here and there on ur bank account. However, let her go marry him. It won't last. 32:35
Cas lub yuav tu siab luaj thiab os tus kwv aw…
Forget about her and go find your happiness. Life is too short, don’t waste your time for this trash 😂. You are not stupid!!
Ntiaj teb no poj niam tuag tas lawm los ua cas. Koj pheej nyob nrog ib neeg es nws twb tsis hlub koj li na.
She is a doctor too and the child might not be his so child support is not going happen because both are making good money.
@@xailee8938she was forced to marry him because he's a doctor. Cov ntxhais mloog lus es niam txiv heev heev ces mag mus ua neej li no.
I can't stand these doctors who cannot make their own decisions. Stop putting your parents' happiness first. Life is too short to live for other people.
I think it's not a Dr degree. He's lying about that degree. Dr's aren't that insecure. 😂😂
No doctor will tell his or her story on this channel. This story is fake. Just listen to the details.
You will be amazed how these young doctors logic is my little hometown town we are not living in large Hmong community we only have approximately 300 Hmong we we have 10+ doctors ,1lawyer many engineers, by listening to their speeches when graduated they are still a child mind set until they actually experience in the job for 5 to 10yrs then start to see the true character of adults hood
@1nploojsiab6k I agree. I am a trainer in the clean room for student Medicine doctors and pharmacists and you are correct, they are only book smart. They almost can't do their job and have no clue what they're doing. They don't even know they're supposed to clean up after themselves!!! SMH.
Yus tsis zoo nraug cas tsis mus yuav tus phim yus es thiaj li tau kev hlub naw 😅😅 kawm tiav Dr. tab sis tsis ntse thiaj li tau kev mob ne 😅😅😅
Divorce her brother your work is stress enough. Why deal with her many women need you. Don't worry about your image.
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I can’t believe man with your level of education put up with women like that. So sad😢😢
Yes I agree with you too I cannot believe he put up so much for her!!
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Txiv hlob txiv yau ❤❤
Don’t blame it on your kids, you stayed because you like her love her and willing to be a dumbbell. Love has a way of making people dumb smart and blind.
You are a FOOL to continue to stay with her.
Let her go. She only good when she with you. The ex bf only value her because she with you.
He has to keep her, ‘cause he can’t find another. His daddy found her for him xwb na. Doc don’t want to carry divorce title nav.
@ThePrincessWorrior I'm sure there someone out there better for him. May not have the same title as a PA. But will be less stress.
Pab koj tu siab kawg 😢
That's a million dollars smile......
Some life are easier said than done. Splitting and divorcing is the best option but it is not always the easiest to do.
Good luck to you both and those out there that may need it too. 🙏🙏🍀🍀
Aws ua siab ntev os. Uv os Doctor.😂
Dr. Tom is smarter 😂
Damn! She's one lucky lady!
Tus txiv neej no cas ntxim hlub tshaj plaws li os ❤
kawm tiav Dr. lub neej nyob li dev ua li dev tsis txhob ntshaw os mog hmoob, lawv cov kawm tiav Dr. thiaj nyob tau thiaj ua tau thiaj uv taus lawm xwb ov mog,
Tus muam kuv nyiam koj hais dab tab si koj hais lus me kas ntau dua es mloog tsi nkag siab heev thov koj hais lus hmoob komtag os
Let her go. You deserve to have love too!
Yuav tus neeg yus hlub thiab tus hlub yus mas ua neej thiaj kaj siab pob
Why continue to be with someone who don’t even love you and has someone else? You’re a fool..
The results of a tsis zoo nraug doctor married a pretty girl 😂
Vim tias luag kev hlub yeej nyob tus yees ces luag twb xav tau dabtsi los twb nyob ntawv xwb nes Koj tus pojniam lub siab twb nyob tag nrog nrog tus txiv neej sab tom lawm nes txiv neej kuv Pom Koj thiaj ua tau xwb cov txiv neej no yeej tsi muaj tus siab ntev li Koj li os
🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
She's right! Many doctors are not that good-looking 😂
Brother- let her go marry her ex-boyfriend.
The more you stick around, the more headaches and heartaches you are going to have.
It's time ⏲️?? How many times do you have forgiven her??
Its ok to divorce, life is short you should enjoy and live to the fullest and be happy.
Misery loves company
Please let her go. You deserve to be happy
You need to let her go
Hmoob yeej nyiam2 muaj meej mom . Koj thiab koj niam koj txiv nej thiaj xaiv meej mom ua ntej kev hlub ne.
Nkim sijhawm xwb cas ho tsis xum yuav tus tsis muaj meejmom siab zoo hlub yus neej tsis lwjsiab mas
Lawv AWS tu neeg yuav hlub yus tiag ces yus tsi tag yuav kav thiab yuav soj li mog luag yeej paub coj luag tu kheej kom zoo zoo thiab huv huv pub cias raus yus ib leeg xwb os
Brother, I understand why you stay with her and also why she does what she does. Your situation is very complicated. I'm sorry this happened to you. Your / her parents are at fault; they should never force you two to marry in the first place. I hope your story reaches those narrow-minded parents' and old-timer parents' heads. Rearrange/ force marriage doesn't work, it will break sooner or later for sure. I would never force my kids to marry anyone they don't love/know.
I know someone is like him who suffering but can't let it go because their title. It really sad, and life is not fair.
yog tshaj plaws aw tug ntxeev sb rau tug ces chim tag sim neej lau
Me tub Dr ib tug Poj Niam zoo li koj tus no nrauj pov tseg zoo dua nawb mog.
Wow.. you are a doctor? You must have graduated last in your class.
Tus maum dev mas nws tseem yuav yog Dr lo yeej yog maum dev xwb, tsis txhob thwm2 tej tug maum dev Dr no loj2 os hmoob awd
You’re truly love her no matter how much she hurts you. Hard to find a good husband like you brother
Cas cov poj niam zoo zoo lis peb no hom Tsis tau cov txiv tsev zoo lub siab lis nes na yom?
Yog li koj lam kawm tiav dr. Koj tsis ntse ntxaus lam kawm tau qhov lawv qhia tawm xwb.. kawm tawm xwb tsis yog kawm tau.. y let someone torture you yourself.. ua ntej yuav mus kho lwm tus yuav tau kho yus kom yus muaj kev zoo siab tso…
Yog kawg lios!
Thaub aw poj niam zoo li ko xwb kav tsij muab tso mus rau luag tsim mas koj thiaj li muaj nqis yog koj pheej nyob li ko koj tsi muaj hnub muaj nqis li os kav tsi mu yuav tu saib yus muaj nqis
Me nus aw tu poj niam zoo uas xav hlub yus tseem tshuav coob2 o
You should let her go. It's not too late for you, brother. Don't love the one didnt love you.
Wow congratulations for the first time i heard ever who became a Doctor and also have a second husband are you really a Doctor?
😂😂😂 kwv tij hmoob koj ces lam yog doctor xwb mog 😂😂😂 rau kuv más kob yog doctor ruam 😂😂lam tau doctor xwb tsis paub lub neej 😂😂😂
Neb zaj dab neeg tsis tau xaus tshuav qhov koj yuav cia nws ua nws mus los koj yuav tso nws? Txoj kev npam cia nws ris nws mus mas, tsam lwm hnub kev npam los txog rau nws ces koj ho tau tu nws qhov chaw mos lwj kas dhi ces pab hlub koj hwv os, nws ua nws los yus tseem tau tu nws thiab os tus nus. Yus tsis tshuav nws nqi os mog.
Ntshaw2 poj niam zoo nkauj li ces kav tsij uv os 😂
He only know Dr degree he doesn't know other things........
Npaum no ces ua siab tso mas tus me txiv Dr. Aw.
It’s nice to have a doctor degree
koj mas tsis yog kawm tag Dr kab. kawm tag dov toj xwb os kuv xav na. kawm tag daim PhD ruam noj quav more like 😂
Tu me nu aw kuv lub neej ce zoo li koj thiab os chim siab tu siab kawg li os
lol Hmong doctor
Dear Doctor, nrauj nws los kuv mam hlub koj.
Poj niam tiam no siab phem dhau ntshai cov poj niam siab lim zoo li no yus ib tug zoo txiv nej yawg lo lub meej mom lub koob lub npe cia li lo pua rau ib niag poj niam khib nyiab zoo li yog leej twg ntsib lawm yog ib qho yuaj siab kawg nkau😢😢😢
Txiv neej tiam no los phem, limhiam thiab tub nkeeg heev tos pojniam khwv yug yog cov coob lawm xwb.
Koj tus poj niam ua yog lawm.
Even if you studied business, if you don’t have your own business- you are not going to make much money. Should have be an entrepreneur like our sisters Mai Lor, Mai Kao that sells a make-up line under their name and the products was made from China and Thailand to make a tons of profit. They are so smart, I heard they are making 50k plus a month and they have no degree.
Kawm txawj xwb tsis ntse os. It seems a lot of hmong doctors are like this.
Zoo li koj xwb ce cia nyia mu nyia os mog .txiv neej ua lo yeej mob² poj niam os .ho poj niam ua li yeej mob² txiv neej os e cia nyiam mu nyia os tu me kuv
Tu siab- tus tswv ntawv zaj no, kawm tawm “do tawm” xwb. Kawm tsis tiav “doctor.” Yog kawm tiav, cas ho npav lub tawm xwb. Kawm tsis tiav, thiaj tau lub “do tawm.” Nrog tu siab-😂
Why you put yourself in this situation? Learn about the mekas laws on marriage n you can have joint custody of the kids n live separately. Life is too short! You need REAL love! Sounds like you have low self esteem…..definitely make use of your money & go find a marriage counselor. Get your life together n move on b4 you too old to enjoy life! I feel sorry for you! There are so many hmoob girls who’s looking for love, go catch them asap! If you need help, I have some single nieces in their 30’s educated n looking for love! Your parents are not your life! Follow your heart n be yourself, think for yourself, it’s your life. You do you the way you want…..it’s the only way to be happy in this world!
Doctor muaj lub sib ua hauv xov tooj thiab Los 😅
Nws tsi hlub koj lawm tso nws mus o es yuav kuv tim nlpog kuv mam li hlub koj o
What a mess marriage
Muab lub sib hawm nyob kom mj kev hlub thiab ma thiaj tsim nyoog koj lub koob npe ma lo thxob tu siab o nriav kev zoo siab 6 yub tu nkeej nb lo
Kuv tsis nkag Siab tias cov kawm tau Dr es tsis paub txog kev sib yuav Los cas tseem tos niamtxiv pab nrhiav nyab losis vauv rau. Kev sis yuav start with liking and loving each other. Not status.
You're a doctor, and you put up with a woman like that? The sooner you let her go, the better you will feel about yourself and your life. Trash you don't need in your life, toss it out.
Thaub koj tsis tsim nyog yog Dr li os.
Dev noj dev tawv quav kam ces dev yeej yuav noj. A cheater will always be a cheater.
Koj ces lam tas Dr. Xwb koj tsis ntshe kiag Yom!
Lam tau Doctor xwb ruam li ruam. **Kawm txawj xwb tsis ntse** ces zoo li no los mas 😅😂
You’re book smart, but not in life. 🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️
Nco ntsoov tuag no ces mus nqa daim ntawv zoo nraug los ua neeg es tsis txhob nqa daim ntawv doctors los ua neeg. Koj thiaj tsis mob siab.
Tus me tub Dr aws.... koj lam kawm2 tau kiag Dr xwb koj tsis ntse li na. A lady like this is not worthy your title of Dr. Why waste your time for her. There are still more honest ladies wating for you. If you know that you are not a handsome guy then never looks for a beautiful ladies. Hopefully this time you learn your lesson, so you are looking for the pure heart not the beautiful face.
Nrauj nws mus rau nws tus hluas nraug txim ma
Koj kawm tag Dr. Ruam
Ua li lawv ib txwm hais tia txiv neej kawm tiav lo hlub poj niam ho poj niam kawm tiav lo ua huam nab 😂
Nyias nim muaj nyias ib txoj Kev tu Siab tiag o yom ...nco ntsoov hlub hlub yus tus kheej nawb MOG....lawv
So sad kawg os tug mi txiv tsev aw ❤😢
Koj ces yug lig zog ib hnub ces twb tsi yog txiv neej lawm os dr aws poj niam muaj coob
Amen.. yog nws yug lig kiag ces nws yog vajtswv kiag lawm os. Nws tau vajtswv lub siab lawm. 😅😅😂😂
What is wrong with getting divorced and carry the name of yawg nraug? We all are human people. There are many people out there es yog nraug dab and nkauj dab. Nothing wrong with that. 🤦🏻♀️ why you bother to make other people happy and you here stressing out? Make yourself happy and who cares what other people think. If you divorce her ່ it’s not like you the only divorcee in the entire world. There is a lot out there.
Tib tug niaj dov tawm swb es niam meej mom loj² ntag. Thawj qhev xwb ho.
Drs are also human being, not God
Vim peb cov hmoob niam thiab txiv mas pheej khoo2 tej me nyuam kom nyob lub unhappy marry li ntawv thiaj li muaj2 kev sib tua.
Thaub Dr aws… cas twb yog Dr los tseem tsis paub es tsis mus nrhiav tus hlub yus na. Ib qho ob qho los pheej depend rau tej laus ces thiaj zoo li ko ntag
Tsis kam yuav cov poj niam tsoo company ne thiaj li mob mob hlwb ne
yes yog yus sib hlub tiag ces tsis tag ib leeg yuav soj rawv ib leeg, yus txias siab tag 6 lawm ces yus yeej tsis xav muaj kev hlub rau nws lawm od yus soj ntau ces tseem mob taubhau mob stroke thiab od tsis xav sib hlub lawm ces tso nws mus ua nws xwb mas ntuj muaj qhov muag pom es mam npam nws later xwb od.
Poj niam xyob txhiaj ce zoo li no lo ma tu poj niam zoo tsuav coob2 os
Poj niam muaj cool mam nrhiav dua
Lam kawm txawj xwb tsis kawm ntse li es.
I think you might be hiding behind or even blaming your title as a doctor. I think it actually doesn’t have much to do with being a doctor but you put so much emphasis on the doctor title. Lots of people will say ‘no’ to cheaters, and they are not doctors, let alone high school graduates.
Koj daim dr degree so quav tseem ntxhib. Yog kuv ces muab veg cas yuav ruam2 es ntshaw lub meej mom quav dev tas tas
Brother I feel sorry for you hopefully when you read all these comments you will be fully growing up as a real adult and mature man . Just remember 2 things , successful business in making money ,high education skills ,don’t buy a true love of real life . U got both of those u need a true love partner to stand be side you I can for seeing your future will be brighter. Don’t waste any more time your parents only give you only one chance to born in this lifetime.I just give you a hint I’m 67 my wife is 32 I’m living of joyful life every days is full of energy.make this one time living on this earth for your self not any body else . Just to remind you we Hmong in the US almost 50 yrs now the title of so call Dr,Lawyer,millionaire, is plenty out there just like any body else .don’t hold the title too strong just become your self life will be more productive for you. Good luck
kuj tseem muaj ib cov dr ruam2 li no thiab los
Liam tshaj dev
Cov tsiaj uas pom lwm tu zoo tshaj yus tus txij nkawm ces yog dev xwb
This guy said he is a Dr, a dumb Dr at that!
Nws yuav tuag tsis tus siav rau yav laus, Cia lub ntuj mam txiav txim. She will die 3 times or until she apologizes to you 😢.