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Remember you are not your scars. Yes you have had major changes done to your body, but you still are Tiffany. Nothing can ever change that. You are beautiful inside and out. It’s only been almost 6 months, give yourself grace. 💙
It will look better over time. I think everyone feels grief over scars left from cancer surgery, ports, etc ... Very normal to feel that way. Of course you are thankful to be alive, but not being thrilled with the scars is very normal. 💙💙
Hi Tiffany💙Guess what? I am going back to see the oncologist tomorrow at 9 am after 2 years of being scared to return to receive care after my rectal cancer removal and I am soooo 😟 scared…. I have my We Got This tee shirt ready and please pray for me 🙏💙💙Thank you for posting xoxo Sandra in California 😊
Amma has the prettiest smile. She’s so happy that you are such a warrior. Wear your scars with honor. They remind us of where we’ve been and how bravely we conquered it. Hugs to y’all! 🤗🌷I would love to see you and Matt go shopping for some pictures or decorations for your walls. You have such a beautiful home.💙
External scars and internal scars are not a measure of gratitude. Please be your own best friend and let yourself feel what you feel we love you Tiffany!
Tiffany, when we meet someone, our eyes captures their face first, you have a flawless beautiful face and a stunning personality with lustrous hair and big brown eyes. Not many cancer survivors look the way you look, inner beauty which radiates on the outside so don’t bother about the scars, what is important that your alive and around your loved ones, this is your second life, live it to the fullest and spread happiness with your lovely smile.❤️❤️
May take time to adjust about the scars. They are a reminder of what our bodies have been through. ❤ They also tell our life stories. Tiffany your story is one of courage. You are amazing.
I think you learned a lot in this video. I think you learned that there are some reminders of the journey you have been on to fight that cancer and to win. You were brave to take off the bandage and look but the reminder you saw was not nice to you and I think that made you sad. You are wise to allow yourself to feel sadness. The one thing you may not know is that your blog viewers do not expect you to be always happy and always positive. You don't have to give us a positive, cheery Tiffany because sometimes you may have a time when you don't feel like that. We care for the Tiffany that you are, we don't need a film version of 'ooh, here is Tiffany, a movie star who is always happy for us.' We care about the you that you are, whatever that is.
Hi Tiffany, I discovered you and your You Tube channel a short time into your cancer journey, subscribed immediately, and have watched every video since. I have also watched, I think, all your previous videos, going back nine years. I think you are the loveliest and most inspirational person and your bravery and courage throughout your utterly gruelling treatment, should be an example to us all. I had surgery and radiotherapy leading up to last Christmas for breast cancer and I am so relieved to now be cancer free. My journey was a walk in the park compared to yours, you are truly amazing. Having just watched your latest video in which you bravely try to tell yourself that your scars are fine, I really felt for you and want to say that yes, you are allowed to be upset. You have earned that right with everything you have been through on your journey. I think for those of us fortunate enough to have a successful outcome and be cancer free after treatment, we feel we have no right to be upset about anything, and whilst we are so grateful to have beaten cancer, we are also entitled to feel sad about what it has done to us sometimes. So be sad Tiffany, without guilt, it is 100 percent natural and as I said, you have so earned that right. With love and support to you always, Tracey K xxxxx
There is NO feeling what so ever not being aloud! Every emotion is everyones right to feel, as long as it doesnt lead to something bad for you or anyone else. Nobody can tell you what to feel. 💙💙💙
They were some internal stiches there but the skin will relax and even out. You are still bruised and that will fade away too. I admire your courage and resilience. You’ve got this! 💙🙏 Thank you for keeping us updated! Love you a lot! 💞🌷
Once your port scar has completely healed, try putting vitamin on it, and your other scars. I used it for very scarred knees for 2 months and it made a big difference! I bought the capsules of vitamin E and just punctured one for each use, and squeezed out the oil, and rubbed it on my knee caps. Hope it works for you too! ❤
Keep strong sweetheart and hey scars are just showing what you have been through in life, and it makes you even more gorgeous than ever! You are totally stunning and such an amazing person in heart and Soul! We all love you so much! 🙏🙏💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌻🌻How is your garden going? So excited to see and you will love doing. I love gardening as it's calming and good for the Soul. 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
Tiffany, that scar will definitely improve so much. You just now took off the bandage. The scars on your neck improved, and your arm scar will, too. So glad you had such a great meal later on. Sending blessings to all of you.
Tiffany 💙, look at your scars as a testimony of your miracle. It is proof that you won the battle. It is an encouragement to others who may be going through the same thing. You are a remarkable young woman and I admire you. Thanks for sharing your life. Sending hugs to you and your family.❤🙏🏾🥰
Tiffany you are absolutely BEAUTIFUL…, and the scars doesn’t matter because you’re still here…and it doesn’t matter because you BEAT CANCER, we got this💙💙
Still looks bruised! Looks a bit puckered but that could be because you’ve had it covered up, it will fade xx every scar is a warrior wound and tells a story ❤
Those scars Tiffany are a reminder of what u went through to stay alive! So wonderful to see u all now happy and putting all behind u! The angels are definitely keeping u safe and well xxx
Hello Ms. Tiffany, Pure Vitamin E oil really helps the skin to heal well. As long as it is administered on the scar/cut in a sanitary way, so as to not cause any infections. God bless.
Yes it is ok to feel what you feel about the scars. Your scars are a reminder that you are strong and you overcame everything. Yes be real and enjoy your journey as you grow!
The scars are the reason you are with us today! It really doesn’t look as bad as you see it. It’s the first time you have seen the miracle that has kept you with us all of this time. Be proud of the fight that you have won. I know I am very proud of you and what you have fought for…..your life. ❤️❤️❤️
Your scars are a symbol of life Tiffany. I have a few scars too and I’m proud of them. They are what I call my battle scars. You must allow yourself to feel all the emotions you have wether happy or sad , it’s normal and I’m glad you are genuine with us. We got this . Xxx💙💙💙
Beautiful Tiffany, First thank you for being so open and sharing so much of your life with all of us💙. look at your scars as an honor they got you where you are now. You’re a true warrior!!! I wear mine with pride. I have many big scars all over my abdomen my inner arms like you as well, I truly admire you Tiffany. Your such a trooper and so inspiring. I truly wish I could be half as brave as you are. The skin will relax over time you’re still healing from the inside out. When I was allowed I would rub my scar with coconut oil to prevent a big keloid scar. Sweet Amma she’s so beautiful with such a glow about her now🥰. Hope you Matt and Amma have a wonderful blessed Thursday!! Love you lots!! WE GOT THIS!!! 💙💙💙☑️☑️☑️💙💙💙
Tiffany, I really understand how you feel about how unattractive your scar is to you, because my mom cried so hard when she first really looked at her scars after her cancer surgery for breast cancer. I never saw her cry so hard about herself...it was so sad.😢 We're women and we do care about how our bodies look, but like you said it was done to help save your life, and that's what she eventually felt too. Both of you are beautiful women who are survivors.💙
Your hair is so beautiful and shiny! It's getting back to how thick it was before treatment. You are looking more and more vibrant with each video you put up. ❤
Hi Tiff, I’m sure all the changes are tough. They will show less as time go on. Feel your feelings and the loss is real. You are not the same inside or outside but you are still beautiful inside and out. You have a beautiful face and figure … and when your kids ask about a scar you can tell them the battles you fought and won. That is the important part of life they they will learn from you. You didn’t give up, that you fought through the toughest of times and those are your battles scars. You are a real-life warrior, Tiff! You did it! You survived and now you are starting to thrive again. Love from Mississauga ❤️🇨🇦🙏
Scars are beautiful. They're a reminder that you're strong enough to have gotten through something rough. I know it's easier said than done to love your scars, so if it is starting to affect your confidence and comfort wearing short sleeves etc, then I would recommend something like Kelocote xx
I thought at first you were going to show your anal scar or stoma (for educational purposes) Not a port scar But am glad it’s all working out There are so many people who haven’t survived to show their scars you are very fortunate
Tiffany you are entitled to feel sad or feel anyway you want too. It’s your body and no one can tell you how to feel. Btw you are brilliant and we all love you and are here for you ❤
Cheryl here.! Why do you keep saying, "Im allowed"? Its a tiny scar. On the scale of things that you have been thru, that little scar should b the least of your plethora list of things "you're allowed" to fret about. Sometimes its an effort to watch your videos. I can not believe that you are so accepting of your doctor(s) for NOT telling you your results yet! Ive never, ever had to wait more than 48 hrs for results, never, ever! The doctors KNOW most cancer patients are on "pins and needles" waiting for the results and try their darndest to let their patient know ASAP. What has it been, almost 2 weeks, 3weeks, thats unacceptable, in my opinion. ...im sure I will get targeted for posting my opinion or blocked, but that will prove something, right?
I have scars literally from head to toes. I am so proud of each one of them, I survived, lived, laughed, cried & thrived through each scar. Proof of life, show them off. Blessings to you!
Tiffany, if it helps, my daughter has a bad scar on her wrist due to her tough birth. The nurses called it her 'tattoo' and it's a good story since she survived and thrived and is doing well in her life. So, this is your good story. You survived and are thriving and I am so happy for you!
I enjoy your videos. What’s weird is I would have probably not even been aware of your videos if it weren’t for your cancer journey. Your journey was incredible, you are a very strong person and you’ve come out of your experience with grace and gratitude. I love seeing your mom, Matt and the rest of your family too. ❤️✌🏻
You’ve been through a lot. And have come along way. You look amazingly beautiful. The scar will fade with time. It does not define you by no means. Your a overcomer and should be very proud of your accomplishments . You traveled and are now driving again. You got this!!!! So proud of you!
Feeling sad for what you lost (scars, early menopause, etc) is absolutely ok. As a matter of fact, grieving those losses is a healthy step toward healing your body and your heart. Stay the course, everything you feel is real and giving yourself permission to feel sad is absolutely right. Plus it will help others understand that being brave 7/24 is unrealistic for a human being. Sweet human being that you are. Hugs as always. You got this.
When we go to battle we end up with dents and scratches and that shows all that we battled and won. You are a cancer warrior and had a difficult fight that brought you to this point. Be proud of your battle marks all warriors wear them with pride! 💙💙💙
Also wanted to say I had a full hysterectomy in November, ovaries and all and I personally chose not to do hormone replacement therapy and the hot flashes are so much better now, I'm just glad I'm getting the menopause over with quickly. Most research says after a year the surgical menopause will be mostly over without hrt. We got this 💙
Loving Tiffany you are radiant, truly so beautiful inside and out. I have a scar across my throat from multiple parathyroid removal and I can tell you the scar is a different feeling for everyone. I feel like a warrior when I see mine but I understand others that might feel self conscious and that's alright, feelings are unique to each person. There is no right way or wrong way to feel. I will say you are a bada$$ and a true warrior, loving this second chance at life for you! We got this 💙
Hey Sweetie, I am so happy to see you. You hv been life coaching us all forever... Who can teach you anything Angel.? You are beautiful in your Spirit. That's why you hv nearly 100,000 YT members. I am 56...You hv taught me SO MUCH. Love to you and Matt n Amma. ❤
Never be ashamed of your scars hun they are amazing and there scars of a warrior that beat the biggest fight of her life and made it your a warrior queen hun be proud of the scars you have as your battle is over ❤❤ much love
What brand of bagels did you have with your breakfast sandwich? Your scars don't define you! Your sleeves will cover it. It will heal! You're doing amazing 6 months after major surgery. You're doing amazing well. The scars will heal&flatten out. Just be cautious of the sun&heat. I went thru ovarian cancer at 25yrs old. I have a genetic disorder(inherited)&it's a new journey(diagnosed 2008). I was a middle/high school math teacher for 25+ Years job I loved&miss. I did hospice care as my volunteer work&then took care of loved ones&was fully trained&certified. I did it for years&feel strongly that God never shuts a door without opening a window!
Of course it's ok to go through the emotions, that's perfectly natural. The scars will fade tho, and you are beautiful inside and out, regardless ❤ You are amazing, what you have been through, there will be mostly days where you embrace them. It is still so early days. The scars look clean and healed, which is positive. Sending love and hugs as always ❤ ❤😊🎉
Hi Tiffany, it’s okay to feel sad and unhappy with your body, scars that’s part of the inward healing. Your such amazing strong lady it’s been a pleasure to watch you and your incredible family through your journey, I can not wait for the next chapter. Char x
I'm so glad you caught that in editing! You're definitely correct, you CAN be upset. In fact, being upset is one of the stages in mourning over the changes that have happened to you. You've been brutalized. It was very necessary, in order to live, but it was brutalizing, nevertheless. Just continue to allow yourself to feel the feels, and you'll eventually find peace with the process. (P.S. For the scars that are occasionally in the sunlight, always wearing a high spf cream will help them heal less visibly.)
I understand why that particular scar is so hard. It's out in the open. You can see it without a mirror. It reminds you of the hardest battle of your life. You won but there were prices to pay. Just be you. Happy or sad, we all love you so much.
Your scar will heal? You are an inspiration to me. Reminding me to be grateful for everything. Would love to see you Matt and Gamma visit your family in Toronto🇨🇦🙏❤💙 That looked like the Scottish Thistle on that coffee.
Hi darling. Love the heart Pj's. Aston is so precious and he loves his auntie so much. You can be proud of every scar. You've been through more than most people in their whole life. Yes I felt you were struggling with your scar and you tried so hard not to be upset. All your feelings are valid and please don't ever feel you have to downplay your emotions. Not for us or anybody. Wanted to give you a hug watching you struggling so bad. Love you lots💙💙
Over time Tiffany it will look a lot better, I have some terrible scars from my cancer , on my neck! But I don’t care Tiffany it’s my life no one else’s! If they don’t like it don’t look right? What else can I think. So don’t worry hunny 😊😘❤️
I did sense your sadness, too, Tiffany. I completely related, since I have extensive scarring from my cancer treatment. (5 surgeries over 10 years so far, and a pelvic surgery nearly identical to yours.) I'm so very proud of you for recognizing it, though, and for being gentle without yourself and allowing yourself to be sad when you need to. I'm a very positive person, but I've definitely had days where I felt fragile and weepy over the scarring-and then the feeling is out of my system, and I feel much better and ready to tackle the world with joy again! It happens less and less frequently over time, so know that it gets better from here every day. And at no point does this sadness mean we don't appreciate and have total gratitude for the treatment and the life it's given us! Never worry that anyone will misconstrue that. It's just a bit of mourning over suddenly losing the old body we knew for our entire lives, and the reminder of some painful times. But our "new" bodies are badass and tough lol. . .and still very, very beautiful. You are radiant and resilient, never forget that. Let the scars remind you of *that*. Sending my support and affection! ❣
Ella’s little pants squeezed my heart remembering my niece and nephew as toddlers. I ate up every second. No regrets! Loved lavishly. 🎉 …and, I think it’s okay to say goodbye and mourn a piece of you and go get a hug or two and patch yourself up.
Looking at your scars for the first time,can be very overwhelming. As you get used to seeing them,that anxiety will fade. They are apart of your journey and everything that you have dealt with,and overcome. We love you xxx💙💙💙
Love you a lot! You are allowed to grieve whatever the circumstance. So happy you are LIVING every day! I'm trying to follow your example. My husband had a stroke and we are adjusting to our new way of life. You are an inspiration! ❤
Dear Tiffany, You absolutely have a right to feel emotional when seeing a new scar! I think that the scar will improve so much over the next few months! It will fade, and it won’t be noticeable! Much love to you! 💞
Hello Tiffany, I think of scars this way: each one tells a story of what each of us have been through. Great job Matt for making the design in your coffee. Glad you and your family had a great dinner get together. I need to take a lesson from your wonderful fruit juices. Hello to Amma and Matt!🦋🕊🦋🌷🦋
It’s OK Tiffany, I have scars on my neck too. I’m proud to have them because this is part of my journey beating cancer . When people ask me, why do you have those scarred ? My answer is I have a story to tell do you have time to listen? I’m grateful that God gave me an opportunity to be with my family. My scar are beautiful to me. I have 4 years cancer free and I am blessed to be alive. Actually, we are blessed that we are alive. Be proud of your scars! You’re beautiful❤️
Tiffany your scar doesn’t look bad at all, it’s just a mark of remembrance of your tough journey, you are just a beautiful soul inside and out, love you a lot a lot a lot. I enjoy everything you do and just look out for your videos. God bless you.🙏🙏💙
Thanks for another update and glad to see you having fun with family. As for your scars and your body, it's ok to grieve what has happened. You went through a HUGE challenge and life is different now. And if anyone asks, you tell them you had cancer and you won! Those are badges of honor. But definitely feel your feelings. Hugs to you! 💞
Scars share your journey, your battle and your triumphs! U have the right the feel the way u do about them! But Be proud of your Battle scars little Ms Strong Warrior 💪🏻. Proudly wear them! Just a few months ago we watched you struggle go down those stairs and look at you now! ❤ you are thriving!
I think the scar just looks 'wrinkly' or 'puckered' because it's been kept moist under the plaster. Once it's dried out, I'm sure it will look different. You're right, it's ok to feel insecure but please feel so proud too. You've been through so much and I admire how you got through it all with so much grace. IF people ever ask questions, you're never obliged to answer but it would be a wonderful learning experience for them. People get too caught up about having a perfect body but the truth is, we all have insecurities and we should learn to love ourself as our body goes through so much on a daily basis. Really recommend Milton hand sanitiser gel btw. It's antimicrobial rather than just antibacterial like most hand gels/sprays/foams are. I buy it from Boots. Love to yourself, Matt and Amma 💙💙💙
I have a huge scar down my chest due to a quadruple bypass open heart surgery. I hate it and it stays sore at times. But like you it saved my life so really why should I hate it? My friend says it is a badge of honor and be proud! I understand the mixed emotions of having big scars. It’s all good!
Tiffany, the bruise has healed which is good, there are creams or ointments that can lighten the scar where your port was available at your pharmacy. The one I used was called Mederma it was a cream I used for a surgical scar on my neck put it on up to 3 times a day and just be careful the first year of getting sun on that scar because it will only darken the skin at where the port was removed. You are entitled to your feelings as they are genuine and you’ve been through a lot this last year. So it’s quite alright to feel sad at all the scars, just know that you have made it through the worst of times and what a future you will have living life to it’s fullest extent having lots of happiness with all of your friends and family including your loving Matt!! We got this💙💙💙, just know your loving tiffanythinks family will back you 100%!!
Your body has endured so much Tiffany... it will fade over time. You are a true warrior woman and those are your battle scars! Much love and respect from Canada. xx
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It is NOT a scar; it's a Badge of Bravery!
Remember you are not your scars. Yes you have had major changes done to your body, but you still are Tiffany. Nothing can ever change that. You are beautiful inside and out. It’s only been almost 6 months, give yourself grace. 💙
It will look better over time. I think everyone feels grief over scars left from cancer surgery, ports, etc ... Very normal to feel that way. Of course you are thankful to be alive, but not being thrilled with the scars is very normal. 💙💙
Tiffany, rub, aloe vera straight from the plant on it every day, and eventually you won’t even notice it.
Hi Tiffany how are you today how is matt amma your sister
Hi Tiffany💙Guess what? I am going back to see the oncologist tomorrow at 9 am after 2 years of being scared to return to receive care after my rectal cancer removal and I am soooo 😟 scared…. I have my We Got This tee shirt ready and please pray for me 🙏💙💙Thank you for posting xoxo Sandra in California 😊
Praying for you Sandra 💙💙💙
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Prayers for you! I'm glad you're going back. Good luck!
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Amma has the prettiest smile. She’s so happy that you are such a warrior. Wear your scars with honor. They remind us of where we’ve been and how bravely we conquered it. Hugs to y’all! 🤗🌷I would love to see you and Matt go shopping for some pictures or decorations for your walls. You have such a beautiful home.💙
That scar shows what a fighter and survivor you are you are always beautiful as you are
External scars and internal scars are not a measure of gratitude. Please be your own best friend and let yourself feel what you feel we love you Tiffany!
Tiffany, when we meet someone, our eyes captures their face first, you have a flawless beautiful face and a stunning personality with lustrous hair and big brown eyes. Not many cancer survivors look the way you look, inner beauty which radiates on the outside so don’t bother about the scars, what is important that your alive and around your loved ones, this is your second life, live it to the fullest and spread happiness with your lovely smile.❤️❤️
May take time to adjust about the scars. They are a reminder of what our bodies have been through. ❤ They also tell our life stories. Tiffany your story is one of courage. You are amazing.
I think you learned a lot in this video. I think you learned that there are some reminders of the journey you have been on to fight that cancer and to win. You were brave to take off the bandage and look but the reminder you saw was not nice to you and I think that made you sad. You are wise to allow yourself to feel sadness. The one thing you may not know is that your blog viewers do not expect you to be always happy and always positive. You don't have to give us a positive, cheery Tiffany because sometimes you may have a time when you don't feel like that. We care for the Tiffany that you are, we don't need a film version of 'ooh, here is Tiffany, a movie star who is always happy for us.' We care about the you that you are, whatever that is.
Hi Tiffany, I discovered you and your You Tube channel a short time into your cancer journey, subscribed immediately, and have watched every video since. I have also watched, I think, all your previous videos, going back nine years. I think you are the loveliest and most inspirational person and your bravery and courage throughout your utterly gruelling treatment, should be an example to us all. I had surgery and radiotherapy leading up to last Christmas for breast cancer and I am so relieved to now be cancer free. My journey was a walk in the park compared to yours, you are truly amazing. Having just watched your latest video in which you bravely try to tell yourself that your scars are fine, I really felt for you and want to say that yes, you are allowed to be upset. You have earned that right with everything you have been through on your journey. I think for those of us fortunate enough to have a successful outcome and be cancer free after treatment, we feel we have no right to be upset about anything, and whilst we are so grateful to have beaten cancer, we are also entitled to feel sad about what it has done to us sometimes. So be sad Tiffany, without guilt, it is 100 percent natural and as I said, you have so earned that right. With love and support to you always, Tracey K xxxxx
There is NO feeling what so ever not being aloud! Every emotion is everyones right to feel, as long as it doesnt lead to something bad for you or anyone else. Nobody can tell you what to feel. 💙💙💙
They were some internal stiches there but the skin will relax and even out. You are still bruised and that will fade away too. I admire your courage and resilience. You’ve got this! 💙🙏 Thank you for keeping us updated! Love you a lot! 💞🌷
Once your port scar has completely healed, try putting vitamin on it, and your other scars. I used it for very scarred knees for 2 months and it made a big difference! I bought the capsules of vitamin E and just punctured one for each use, and squeezed out the oil, and rubbed it on my knee caps. Hope it works for you too! ❤
The scars will fade over time... you got this after all you've been through. You're good girl 😂😂😊
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Keep strong sweetheart and hey scars are just showing what you have been through in life, and it makes you even more gorgeous than ever! You are totally stunning and such an amazing person in heart and Soul! We all love you so much! 🙏🙏💛💛💛💛💛💛💛💛🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌸🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌼🌻🌻How is your garden going? So excited to see and you will love doing. I love gardening as it's calming and good for the Soul. 🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺🌺
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Tiffany, that scar will definitely improve so much. You just now took off the bandage. The scars on your neck improved, and your arm scar will, too. So glad you had such a great meal later on. Sending blessings to all of you.
Tiffany 💙, look at your scars as a testimony of your miracle. It is proof that you won the battle. It is an encouragement to others who may be going through the same thing. You are a remarkable young woman and I admire you. Thanks for sharing your life. Sending hugs to you and your family.❤🙏🏾🥰
Tiffany you are absolutely BEAUTIFUL…, and the scars doesn’t matter because you’re still here…and it doesn’t matter because you BEAT CANCER, we got this💙💙
Still looks bruised! Looks a bit puckered but that could be because you’ve had it covered up, it will fade xx every scar is a warrior wound and tells a story ❤
Tiff, try not to look at it as a scar, but a badge of honor ! Those scars helped save your life. Put a temporary tattoo over them 😊
Nah, why not get some REAL tattoos??? YOLO!!
Scars will fade over time.U r such a courageous & warrior lady.....
Those scars Tiffany are a reminder of what u went through to stay alive! So wonderful to see u all now happy and putting all behind u! The angels are definitely keeping u safe and well xxx
Hello Ms. Tiffany,
Pure Vitamin E oil really helps the skin to heal well. As long as it is administered on the scar/cut in a sanitary way, so as to not cause any infections. God bless.
Just feel proud of your scars, which show what a warrior you were in your cancer fight 💛
Yes it is ok to feel what you feel about the scars. Your scars are a reminder that you are strong and you overcame everything. Yes be real and enjoy your journey as you grow!
Tiffany just keep doing what you're doing,you are beautiful inside and outside. Love you lots 🩵
I did sense that you were sad about the way it looked. But u didn’t allow yourself to feel how your heart truly felt about it. ❤️🤗🙏
Your scarf are like a map of the rode you ade to go tru to be here to day Be Proud you are strong
The scars are the reason you are with us today! It really doesn’t look as bad as you see it. It’s the first time you have seen the miracle that has kept you with us all of this time. Be proud of the fight that you have won. I know I am very proud of you and what you have fought for…..your life. ❤️❤️❤️
I don’t think your scar looks that bad . I’m sure when air gets to it it will look better. But again, still doesn’t look bad.
You’re body may be scarred but your soul is beautiful💙 You definitely got this💙
Your scars are a symbol of life Tiffany. I have a few scars too and I’m proud of them. They are what I call my battle scars. You must allow yourself to feel all the emotions you have wether happy or sad , it’s normal and I’m glad you are genuine with us. We got this . Xxx💙💙💙
Love the 1% club too. X
I have noticed you have such beautiful unique stuff in the UK I'm in South Africa we don't have nice things
Your scar doesn’t look bad at all, and it’s in a very inconspicuous place! You are healing more and more every day!
Beautiful Tiffany, First thank you for being so open and sharing so much of your life with all of us💙. look at your scars as an honor they got you where you are now. You’re a true warrior!!! I wear mine with pride. I have many big scars all over my abdomen my inner arms like you as well, I truly admire you Tiffany. Your such a trooper and so inspiring. I truly wish I could be half as brave as you are. The skin will relax over time you’re still healing from the inside out. When I was allowed I would rub my scar with coconut oil to prevent a big keloid scar. Sweet Amma she’s so beautiful with such a glow about her now🥰. Hope you Matt and Amma have a wonderful blessed Thursday!! Love you lots!! WE GOT THIS!!! 💙💙💙☑️☑️☑️💙💙💙
I just adore all 3 of u
The perfect trilogy ever. I think I need to get a blender and try your juices. Yummy! ❤❤❤😊
Tiffany, I really understand how you feel about how unattractive your scar is to you, because my mom cried so hard when she first really looked at her scars after her cancer surgery for breast cancer. I never saw her cry so hard about herself...it was so sad.😢 We're women and we do care about how our bodies look, but like you said it was done to help save your life, and that's what she eventually felt too. Both of you are beautiful women who are survivors.💙
Your hair is so beautiful and shiny! It's getting back to how thick it was before treatment. You are looking more and more vibrant with each video you put up. ❤
Hi Tiff, I’m sure all the changes are tough. They will show less as time go on. Feel your feelings and the loss is real. You are not the same inside or outside but you are still beautiful inside and out. You have a beautiful face and figure … and when your kids ask about a scar you can tell them the battles you fought and won. That is the important part of life they they will learn from you. You didn’t give up, that you fought through the toughest of times and those are your battles scars. You are a real-life warrior, Tiff! You did it! You survived and now you are starting to thrive again. Love from Mississauga ❤️🇨🇦🙏
Scars are beautiful. They're a reminder that you're strong enough to have gotten through something rough. I know it's easier said than done to love your scars, so if it is starting to affect your confidence and comfort wearing short sleeves etc, then I would recommend something like Kelocote xx
I am 60 yrs old and have a major scar from a childhood surgery as you move on you will look at them as part of your own personal journey
Your scar looks great! It’s healing nicely
Scar looks fine no big deal
Tiffany you are incredibly beautiful inside and out. You beat cancer! You are a rockstar! I find your videos inspirational. Bless you all.
I thought at first you were going to show your anal scar or stoma (for educational purposes)
Not a port scar
But am glad it’s all working out
There are so many people who haven’t survived to show their scars you are very fortunate
Tiffany you are entitled to feel sad or feel anyway you want too. It’s your body and no one can tell you how to feel. Btw you are brilliant and we all love you and are here for you ❤
Cheryl here.!
Why do you keep saying, "Im allowed"? Its a tiny scar. On the scale of things that you have been thru, that little scar should b the least of your plethora list of things "you're allowed" to fret about. Sometimes its an effort to watch your videos.
I can not believe that you are so accepting of your doctor(s) for NOT telling you your results yet! Ive never, ever had to wait more than 48 hrs for results, never, ever! The doctors KNOW most cancer patients are on "pins and needles" waiting for the results and try their darndest to let their patient know ASAP. What has it been, almost 2 weeks, 3weeks, thats unacceptable, in my opinion.
...im sure I will get targeted for posting my opinion or blocked, but that will prove something, right?
If it’s an effort to watch, please just don’t! Simple!
Finally an honest opinion/comment 💖
Dont watch them then 🙄
I have scars literally from head to toes. I am so proud of each one of them, I survived, lived, laughed, cried & thrived through each scar. Proof of life, show them off. Blessings to you!
Tiffany, if it helps, my daughter has a bad scar on her wrist due to her tough birth. The nurses called it her 'tattoo' and it's a good story since she survived and thrived and is doing well in her life. So, this is your good story. You survived and are thriving and I am so happy for you!
Tiffany you are delightful ❤ Your expressions smile and positive attitude are what makes your videos charming ❤ Sending hugs and prayers 🙏
I enjoy your videos. What’s weird is I would have probably not even been aware of your videos if it weren’t for your cancer journey. Your journey was incredible, you are a very strong person and you’ve come out of your experience with grace and gratitude. I love seeing your mom, Matt and the rest of your family too. ❤️✌🏻
You’ve been through a lot. And have come along way. You look amazingly beautiful. The scar will fade with time. It does not define you by no means. Your a overcomer and should be very proud of your accomplishments . You traveled and are now driving again. You got this!!!! So proud of you!
You should be proud of every scar You will be eventually. It is very sad what you had to endure Tiffany
Love y’all bunches 💙🩷🩷
You are allowed to process the grief of the loss of your old body. The scar will diminish in time and be just a small line.
Feeling sad for what you lost (scars, early menopause, etc) is absolutely ok. As a matter of fact, grieving those losses is a healthy step toward healing your body and your heart. Stay the course, everything you feel is real and giving yourself permission to feel sad is absolutely right. Plus it will help others understand that being brave 7/24 is unrealistic for a human being. Sweet human being that you are. Hugs as always. You got this.
It looks pretty good…..think of all your scars are triumphant badges! You’re a survivor!
Tiffany it is ok to be sad about scars. You are absolutely beautiful. We love you 🩵🩵🩵
When we go to battle we end up with dents and scratches and that shows all that we battled and won. You are a cancer warrior and had a difficult fight that brought you to this point. Be proud of your battle marks all warriors wear them with pride! 💙💙💙
You have been so strong on camera , you shed your tears girl xx
Also wanted to say I had a full hysterectomy in November, ovaries and all and I personally chose not to do hormone replacement therapy and the hot flashes are so much better now, I'm just glad I'm getting the menopause over with quickly. Most research says after a year the surgical menopause will be mostly over without hrt. We got this 💙
It's wonderful to know it's all for the good you are healed and alive😘
Loving Tiffany you are radiant, truly so beautiful inside and out. I have a scar across my throat from multiple parathyroid removal and I can tell you the scar is a different feeling for everyone. I feel like a warrior when I see mine but I understand others that might feel self conscious and that's alright, feelings are unique to each person. There is no right way or wrong way to feel. I will say you are a bada$$ and a true warrior, loving this second chance at life for you! We got this 💙
Hey Sweetie, I am so happy to see you. You hv been life coaching us all forever... Who can teach you anything Angel.? You are beautiful in your Spirit. That's why you hv nearly 100,000 YT members. I am 56...You hv taught me SO MUCH. Love to you and Matt n Amma. ❤
Alma, that blouse looks great on you. It's so nice to see you all smiling and looking happy.
Never be ashamed of your scars hun they are amazing and there scars of a warrior that beat the biggest fight of her life and made it your a warrior queen hun be proud of the scars you have as your battle is over ❤❤ much love
What brand of bagels did you have with your breakfast sandwich? Your scars don't define you! Your sleeves will cover it. It will heal! You're doing amazing 6 months after major surgery. You're doing amazing well. The scars will heal&flatten out. Just be cautious of the sun&heat. I went thru ovarian cancer at 25yrs old. I have a genetic disorder(inherited)&it's a new journey(diagnosed 2008). I was a middle/high school math teacher for 25+ Years job I loved&miss. I did hospice care as my volunteer work&then took care of loved ones&was fully trained&certified. I did it for years&feel strongly that God never shuts a door without opening a window!
Of course it's ok to go through the emotions, that's perfectly natural. The scars will fade tho, and you are beautiful inside and out, regardless ❤
You are amazing, what you have been through, there will be mostly days where you embrace them.
It is still so early days. The scars look clean and healed, which is positive.
Sending love and hugs as always ❤ ❤😊🎉
Hi Tiffany, it’s okay to feel sad and unhappy with your body, scars that’s part of the inward healing.
Your such amazing strong lady it’s been a pleasure to watch you and your incredible family through your journey, I can not wait for the next chapter. Char x
I was 32 when I had a total hysterectomy and instant menopause. I was always sticking my head in the fridge. It works - 😂
I'm so glad you caught that in editing! You're definitely correct, you CAN be upset. In fact, being upset is one of the stages in mourning over the changes that have happened to you. You've been brutalized. It was very necessary, in order to live, but it was brutalizing, nevertheless. Just continue to allow yourself to feel the feels, and you'll eventually find peace with the process. (P.S. For the scars that are occasionally in the sunlight, always wearing a high spf cream will help them heal less visibly.)
Tiffany, it will probably look better once it’s all healed up 💙
I understand why that particular scar is so hard. It's out in the open. You can see it without a mirror. It reminds you of the hardest battle of your life. You won but there were prices to pay. Just be you. Happy or sad, we all love you so much.
I sensed it and it’s perfectly normal to grieve your old body and appreciative of your new one. You’ve got this 💙
Dear Tiffany! I have 13 scars on my body and you know what? I am proud of each of them! They are the proof that I am a survival🙂❤️
Your scar will heal? You are an inspiration to me. Reminding me to be grateful for everything. Would love to see you Matt and Gamma visit your family in Toronto🇨🇦🙏❤💙 That looked like the Scottish Thistle on that coffee.
Hi darling. Love the heart Pj's. Aston is so precious and he loves his auntie so much. You can be proud of every scar. You've been through more than most people in their whole life. Yes I felt you were struggling with your scar and you tried so hard not to be upset. All your feelings are valid and please don't ever feel you have to downplay your emotions. Not for us or anybody. Wanted to give you a hug watching you struggling so bad. Love you lots💙💙
Over time Tiffany it will look a lot better, I have some terrible scars from my cancer , on my neck! But I don’t care Tiffany it’s my life no one else’s! If they don’t like it don’t look right? What else can I think. So don’t worry hunny 😊😘❤️
doing a live video anytime soon?
I did sense your sadness, too, Tiffany. I completely related, since I have extensive scarring from my cancer treatment. (5 surgeries over 10 years so far, and a pelvic surgery nearly identical to yours.) I'm so very proud of you for recognizing it, though, and for being gentle without yourself and allowing yourself to be sad when you need to. I'm a very positive person, but I've definitely had days where I felt fragile and weepy over the scarring-and then the feeling is out of my system, and I feel much better and ready to tackle the world with joy again! It happens less and less frequently over time, so know that it gets better from here every day. And at no point does this sadness mean we don't appreciate and have total gratitude for the treatment and the life it's given us! Never worry that anyone will misconstrue that. It's just a bit of mourning over suddenly losing the old body we knew for our entire lives, and the reminder of some painful times. But our "new" bodies are badass and tough lol. . .and still very, very beautiful. You are radiant and resilient, never forget that. Let the scars remind you of *that*. Sending my support and affection! ❣
You have the right to feel anyway you want to hear about your scars or anything it went through. Everybody feels differently and that is OK 💙🦋💙
Ella’s little pants squeezed my heart remembering my niece and nephew as toddlers. I ate up every second. No regrets! Loved lavishly. 🎉
…and, I think it’s okay to say goodbye and mourn a piece of you and go get a hug or two and patch yourself up.
Looking at your scars for the first time,can be very overwhelming. As you get used to seeing them,that anxiety will fade. They are apart of your journey and everything that you have dealt with,and overcome. We love you xxx💙💙💙
Love you a lot! You are allowed to grieve whatever the circumstance. So happy you are LIVING every day! I'm trying to follow your example. My husband had a stroke and we are adjusting to our new way of life. You are an inspiration! ❤
Dear Tiffany, You absolutely have a right to feel emotional when seeing a new scar! I think that the scar will improve so much over the next few months! It will fade, and it won’t be noticeable! Much love to you! 💞
Hello Tiffany, I think of scars this way: each one tells a story of what each of us have been through. Great job Matt for making the design in your coffee. Glad you and your family had a great dinner get together. I need to take a lesson from your wonderful fruit juices. Hello to Amma and Matt!🦋🕊🦋🌷🦋
It’s OK Tiffany, I have scars on my neck too. I’m proud to have them because this is part of my journey beating cancer . When people ask me, why do you have those scarred ? My answer is I have a story to tell do you have time to listen? I’m grateful that God gave me an opportunity to be with my family. My scar are beautiful to me. I have 4 years cancer free and I am blessed to be alive. Actually, we are blessed that we are alive. Be proud of your scars! You’re beautiful❤️
I saw your reaction and was thinking the same. Glad that you recognised it too at the end of the video. Sending love.
Hi Tiffany, you are lucky to beat cancer itself so a scar should be least of your concerns, please stop complaining and be grateful...
Tiffany your scar doesn’t look bad at all, it’s just a mark of remembrance of your tough journey, you are just a beautiful soul inside and out, love you a lot a lot a lot. I enjoy everything you do and just look out for your videos. God bless you.🙏🙏💙
Thanks for another update and glad to see you having fun with family. As for your scars and your body, it's ok to grieve what has happened. You went through a HUGE challenge and life is different now. And if anyone asks, you tell them you had cancer and you won! Those are badges of honor. But definitely feel your feelings. Hugs to you! 💞
Scars share your journey, your battle and your triumphs! U have the right the feel the way u do about them! But Be proud of your Battle scars little Ms Strong Warrior 💪🏻. Proudly wear them! Just a few months ago we watched you struggle go down those stairs and look at you now! ❤ you are thriving!
I think the scar just looks 'wrinkly' or 'puckered' because it's been kept moist under the plaster. Once it's dried out, I'm sure it will look different. You're right, it's ok to feel insecure but please feel so proud too. You've been through so much and I admire how you got through it all with so much grace. IF people ever ask questions, you're never obliged to answer but it would be a wonderful learning experience for them. People get too caught up about having a perfect body but the truth is, we all have insecurities and we should learn to love ourself as our body goes through so much on a daily basis.
Really recommend Milton hand sanitiser gel btw. It's antimicrobial rather than just antibacterial like most hand gels/sprays/foams are. I buy it from Boots.
Love to yourself, Matt and Amma 💙💙💙
I have a huge scar down my chest due to a quadruple bypass open heart surgery. I hate it and it stays sore at times. But like you it saved my life so really why should I hate it? My friend says it is a badge of honor and be proud! I understand the mixed emotions of having big scars. It’s all good!
Hi Tiff wow you scar. Another battle scar. 💙💙💙💙
Tiffany, the bruise has healed which is good, there are creams or ointments that can lighten the scar where your port was available at your pharmacy. The one I used was called Mederma it was a cream I used for a surgical scar on my neck put it on up to 3 times a day and just be careful the first year of getting sun on that scar because it will only darken the skin at where the port was removed. You are entitled to your feelings as they are genuine and you’ve been through a lot this last year. So it’s quite alright to feel sad at all the scars, just know that you have made it through the worst of times and what a future you will have living life to it’s fullest extent having lots of happiness with all of your friends and family including your loving Matt!! We got this💙💙💙, just know your loving tiffanythinks family will back you 100%!!
Tiffany, you know what you could tell anyone who asked? That you battled cancer and WON and those are your battle scars 💙
You can dislike your scar!! However you feel is okay!! You are such a delightful person!! You are loved!❤
You're doing great love. This is your platform, you say and feel however you want. We got you ❤
Your body has endured so much Tiffany... it will fade over time. You are a true warrior woman and those
are your battle scars! Much love and respect from Canada. xx