I needed this. This actually gave me the wake up call I needed to stop bullshitting around and actually take action, instead of continuing to watch self help videos. Well put Jose, & thank you.
ya.I watch those videos and do the mental masturbation.and thinkin that im doing well and do nothing after.Watching those things make you more miserable when you don't put in the work and self critisize.
Write down down this same comment on a piece of paper and put it right on your door... You need a physical reminder you said this bro😤🔥... Let's get our shit together
Its like it was fate for me to wake up to this video. I was feeling low because of financial difficulties. I thought it was over for me, but this reminds me to keep pushing. I'm 19 just got done with high school I'm working as a jeweller. I've been watch your videos since I was 15 and it changed my life. I have improved physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. I cant wait for the higher lever content.
Sometimes, I think to myself what am I even doing with my life. Why am I here, instead of where I want to be. It's so hard to notice the good changes in your life. A bird's eye view helps with that. I remember the feeling I got when I made some good money in January 2020 at 18 years old. It made me feel like I was on top of the world. Last month I made 7 and half times that amount. It's very easy to get lost in thoughts and feel like giving up, but taking a look back at my journey, where I started and where I wanted to be, reminds me of how far I've come. You may have achieved the goals you set for yourself years ago and now worry about reaching new ones. However, it's important to remember that where you are now was once a distant dream. At least that's been my experience so far. Thank you, Jose, for being like family.
Been watching since 2019 and I’ve got to give credit where credits due! Your videos took me from a 18 year old kid who failed his first semester in college to a confident 21 year old business man trying to create a legacy of greatness! Thank you
Honestly, this is the first of your videos that I’ve watched in a while and as a fan who also happens to be turning twenty years old this year, I just want to say thank you. This is what I needed to hear.
100%. Tears fell down my face when he said “it’s worse than p**n”. Self-improvement content is the worse addiction I’ve ever had. What’s even worse is when I started making my own self-improvement content a year ago and blew up for preaching things I wasn’t even implementing. Now I’ve stopped making and watching content (I realized that’s a lie after I typed that, if I’ve stopped watching content, why am I watching this?), have stripped away all the bs and am taking pure action. It’s just me, myself and I now. I won’t rely on anymore emotional roller coasters to get me where I want to go. We got this John❤
@@my2spence We got this Spencer❤. We're all gonna make it. I really think I'll delete social media and TH-cam to focus on the work, at least I'll consider it
JOSE I don’t usually comment on videos but MAN this is a wake up call! I been watching since 15 years old ! I’m 19 now soon to be 20 ! Man your videos have given me confidence because everyday I would listen to you and the voice and body language taught me lots! I always go to the gym it’s that push that you give us ! Your always so honest and real with every topic much love ❤💪👍
hey Jose, I've been watching you since I was 14 (now im 17), and i wanna thank you from the core of my heart for everything. I was the type of guy who was fat, insecure, was bullied, then i found u. I implemented ur advices, and bro i can proudly say i've come so far, and there's no stopping now. Keep Shining BIG BROTHER! Someday, maybe when i too become successful, I will make sure to thank you personally. You have been always helping me from the other side of the screen, and I will never disappoint you. Much love! ❤
I've been watching self improvement videos for a long time now,had the mindset that José mentioned and I recently heard a qoute that said "He who knows better doesn't always do better'' and I would just like to say thank you José its a huge eye opener .
Bro tbh this is why I watch your videos. You actually know what you’re doing. I’ve been watching your videos since the beginning and I’m glad I’m still watching.
This is so true man sometimes I catch myself only watching and not taking action or feeling like I want to give up…but then I look back and see how far I’ve come and that gives me motivation to keep pushing forward. Jose you have been a great older brother and mentor for me because I can see that when I put your advice into action I get results. Thank you again brother and as a Latino male it’s tough out here but with the discipline you keep telling me to work towards I’ll grow into the man I’ve always wanted to be
Jose idk if you’ll ever see this but I really watched your content hard for about 3 years. Helped me so much. Then 2022 came and you weren’t kidding, I felt like I graduated and learned so much. Gone from 160-180 lbs and moved to my dream state in the mountains. I’m 22 now, and you taught me a lot about being a more than a lot of people. Keep it up bro. Y’all listen to what this guy has to say, he knows a thing or two.
Thanks older brother I needed this just lost my job today I wasn’t even mad it just made me realize that I’ve got to improve myself to create my own life changing opportunities I’m only 20 and I know I’m going to win and to whoever just watch this I hope you are not taking this to the heart but to your brain because you can lose that feeling you had when watching this but if you lock that knowledge up in your head you will never lose it ,stay true to yourself and not the masses .
I am so so great full of u for making this video jose mah brother. I really needed this one to take my blindfold off n actually realise wt I was doing frm more thn 1.5 yrs. just consuming content n feeling hella gud n not actually implementing thm on myself n now whn I look at my self, I hv reached no where. Frm here on its nvr gonna be the same with me in the wrld of self improvement. Remember guys, watching these videos is not enough, u gotta take action n be frickin consistent cause it’s a long game n the path is never easy, u gotta be disciplined n be willing to repeat the same old hard word again n again. N nvr forget to journal each n ever day cause tht is how u kn wt really has improved in u, whn u hv stayed consistent for a long time n all the stuff has become normal to u, looking back at wt it was like whn u started, makes difference in how u see wt u hv done. N the ways u hv improved in. Thank you, jose
Jose, thank you. I am older, yet I still find your content informative, educational, entertaining among other things. This video IMHO is probably the one people need the most. Being older, I'm a little behind on the self awareness journey but I'd rather start late then not start at all. Just because someone is younger does not mean you can't learn from them. Obviously it works the other way around as well. Stay strong stay hard stay up everyone. Life is hard af so you gotta be harder or it will just eat you up. For a time I was being eaten up and over two years ago I decided I was done with letting that happen. Now I have over 2 years of sobriety, have some money, great friends and family. I am not a loser but I feel I haven't won everything I want yet but I will. Thanks to people like Jose, other content creators and some others only I know, I have been able to grow myself into a better version on myself.
I was moved to tears while watching your video because your words felt like a caring older brother giving me a reality check and urging me to focus on my goals instead of videos about my goals. Thank you for inspiring me to take action. I will be back in 3 months to share my accomplishments with you.
This guy changed my life upside down!!! A very big thanku zose, i'm 15 rn but the knowledge and understanding i have is way more than a 20 year old all thanks to you! Good job brother 💪
Been watching for a year, Im a very young dude but thanks to José im a different person. I never told my parents about my insecurities and they saw the difference in over 5-12 months. But i still feel like i havent overcome my goals. Its a never ending game
I really needed help. I had dreams of being a national champion in boxing the sport I love more then anything. Now I will work until I become that. A couple sparring sessions isn’t enough. I have to fall in love with it again. And love the failures more then the successes. Thank you bro. The business- Whole sale real estate. But time to take it serious. Thank you Jose❤
Thank you, Jose, for the invaluable advice on this channel. As a 23-year-old man, your content has inspired me to become the best version of myself. I promise to personally thank you in a few years when I achieve my goals. Keep up the great work!
He's right I've gotten addicted to self improvement videos, everytime i feel down i watch them to make me feel better watch tons of it then feel more down because i sat all day watching videos without doing any action
Studying engineering at the age of 17 - gained 12kgs of muscle since jan 2022 - hates relying on people and pays for things I want. It's crazy what this journey does to you
Stopped for a quick minute because thumbnail… man Jose It’s like I knew where this was going and am so happy you said it. It’s that harsh word that you know needs to be said…. Im glad to say I may have not watched videos as much but it’s because I’m actually working towards living it now 🙏🏽🙏🏽 Much love bro! Keep grinding my bros that see this.
To wait for the day that Jose writes a book or creates a documentary would be worth the wait and I would buy it in a heartbeat cause I am curious to know where it all began. The grit, the determination, the drive, the confidence, its something that we all can have but you really have to want it. I have analyzed and implemented his tips from videos and have seen a drastic change in myself physically and mentally. I am nowhere near where I want to be, but I know I am better than where I left off. I was in that loop for a while until I decided to take action and because of this I have found my own purpose and my drive. So, in that note, I just wanted to say thank you TMF fam and Jose for helping me be the better man than I was yesterday.
Hey Jose! I have been watching your vids since Aug of 2019 when I was 14 and I am currently a 19 yr old Pakistani kid whose been watching this vids again after a hiatus from self improvement vids from 2022-early 2024. You are Absa frikkin lutely right, whatever you have said in this vid, not only have I also experienced it but I have also implemented many of the tips and I swear to God, they frikkin work when one takes action! Keep up with the content my man and see u next time!
I've been following you and alphaM for 2 years. Damn.you guys really change lives. I was on a heartbroke.i hit the gym.i started nursing education and taken my mentality to next levels. God bless you and your family khose...
Bro.. I started this self improvement journey two years ago. My soul way empty, I was in a quest of searching and tapping to my masculine nature. Proud to say I look better coz I go to the gym almost every day. I quit porn and discovered Semen retension, I improved on fashion, I developed a cologne cataloge, My grooming is always on point. Now I'm fucused on getting my bank balance right.. Its content like this that saved me. Keep going bro your touching lives. 🇿🇦🇿🇦
Man i have been following jose since 2014 but man! This speech has me speechless everything he said was so pure, real, genuine and those words really cut deep and I felt it
I'll be honest I've been subscribed to your channel since I was 16, 17 and it really helped a lot back then , I've barely watched the content on here since my early years in college , only because I had truly become the person you have guided and inspired me to be . I have transcended that which you teach on here but I continue to share it with younger people that are eager to improve themselves . I Think everyone should view these videos as a jumping to becoming a better version of themselves . Keep doing your thing my brother & keep sharing the wisdom . All love 🖤
I see improvement but i feel like i can acheive more, I just turned 16 and everyone around me says I'm doing good but I don't feel like its enough. Ive been watching your videos for around 2 years and feel like I've never learned so much in my life and seen so much self improvement but I just feel like I can achieve more.
Jackson man this video gave me a wake up call ! To actually right down and print your goals and tape it in ur room ! Bro go get that physique! Life’s a beautiful game to always be evolving and read everyday ! That’s something that I look back to and wish I could have done. I remember starting watching Jose’s vids at your age man! Wish you the best in life 🙌
@@samthefam2016 i am also 16 and doing everything to make myself better, but still after trying so much i can't figure out a legit way to make money. Is there anything or any source of earning that you didn't knew back then when you was 16??
Jose made me realize today after watching his content for 5 years the only thing i’ve picked up from him is the style and grooming habits other than that nothing man it slapped me in the face
Thank You Jose, I usually never comment on a youtube video but this was amazing. I realized earlier this week that I was loosing focus on my goals. I started to think where i was going wrong and your video came at the best time possible. You wont get anywhere without consistency nor action. Thank you, with this said, this comment will be the promise I make to myself and to you that i will keep pushing regardless how hard things around me. Thank you once again, Jose.
This video was such a reassurance for me, I quit watching you tube influencers,caused I started to apply a lot of things taught but I always check back in to learn something new
Ive been watching Jose for a while now and I've got to say this is one of his best videos! The fact is, is that I have been experiencing this for a while without ever even knowing I had this problem. Thanks Jose for this wonderful video. Can't wait to apply this to my life :)
Been watching since 2017. Ive learnt a lot & thankfully I did take some action. That's where the problem lies, it's "some action". I really needed this video, thank you Bro, I won't allow myself to keep on falling into this pit of inferiority. I worked out for 3months straight, but I didn't gain a lot of muscle, it made me feel like I was wasting my time. Its been 2months & honestly I feel like shit, I miss working out. I'm getting my shit back in order
I have been working daily on improving while i work 12 hours a day for 5-7 days a week. Slowly moving forward with what i have. Watching this video is so important and helps so much. Making me realize that i am improving but i also can always improve way more. Started watching you a long time ago but never did anything. Now i realize you have been my big brother helping me all this time. Thank you Jose for everything. ❤much love brother
One of the best videos you’ve ever made. I’ve been watching your content and been a supporter since I was like 17. Just turned 21 now. I’m not eating shit or nothing like that with my life but this just put into perspective that more action needs to be taken immediately.
I have seen great improvement in me watching your videos was consistent for 2 years then i got injured and then I became the guy you are talking about.
Been watching you since I was 14. I’m turning 20 now in march. You have led the way and I’ve been takin action too get were I am today. But this video got me too wake up. Do more. Keep going. Thank you Jose. Much love and support
I'm a 20 year old Nigerian, your videos have always inspired me to do better, mostly in the skin care aspect but it's just too expensive to follow up on
I have status, I have charisma, I have a better than average body, I don’t have the financial success yet, but getting there, I watch your videos to put in the work day in and day out and to remind myself, 75 days in a row at the gym today, counting macros with progressive overload.. thank you! I can’t wait for your next clothing launch!
Do you love yourself tho…? It’s cool you have those things but I see a lot of comments of someone mentioning all the external things they have, none of it means anything if you don’t have inner peace, love & respect.
This is exactly what we really needed it. That cycle of quick dopamine from these typa content was killing us inside, but now I'm totally sure that its cus we haven't been applying it. Thanks for made us conscious bout it, Jose. It's time to change.
Hands down the best and realest video Big Bro has ever put out. I been watching for a few years and been a huge fan but this was game changing. Will do better through action. Thank you the real talk ❤️💯🔥
hey Jose, I've been watching you since I was 14 (now im 17), and i wanna thank you from the core of my heart for everything. I was the type of guy who was fat, insecure, was bullied, then i found u.
I really needed to hear this. I’ve been putting in action for a while and putting in the work in my finance and with girls consistently, but I keep hitting roadblocks, not getting any results and getting rejected. But I keep it pushing💪
That part about remembering where you started really hits home. I was in a really dark place during Covid and found myself on academic warning. I was a loser that played video games and didn’t want to put in the work. Since then I’ve climbed back to a 3.0 gpa, joined a club for networking, and even landed an internship this summer. I’m on track to graduate with an engineering degree, and I’m honestly more proud of the journey than the result. Just keep going brothas ✌🏼
Thank you Jose! Thank you for ACTUALLY caring about your viewers and for being honest. Thank you for putting in the effort and for sharing your journey with us! ❤❤❤
Stfu clown. Its an inspirational video. It’s about the losers that dont put words into action probably like you. I started working out in 2016 coz of this dude and I have never stopped I didn’t just watch his workout video and refuse to go to the gym and put the work in
You reminded me of me growing up Jose, I been grinding since day one. I started my plumbing business with my brother when I was 27 years old, eight years later i when back to school and got my general contractor license and now I’m working on my electrical license. When you do the hard work the money comes easy, keep up the good work Jose LONG BEACH CA 🇲🇽💰😎💵🇺🇸
Honestly your greatest video. Changed my viewpoint on so many things. The latino heritage is true, gotta look out for my entire family; especially retire my parents. Thanks for this man.
I wish this video gets as many views as possible, and for people to watch through all 19m20s. What you said is very important, as though it may sound harsh. I can relate. I'm a 20 years old, I got into one of the widely-regarded 'best' university in my country, I've been going to the gym, I've been watching self-improvement videos for as long as I can remember. I thought I was on a better road than my friends who spend half of their day gaming. Yet I still find myself feeling like a loser. I look at my life and see that half of my day is actually just 'watching' self-help videos. I have very few friends, I've never got a girlfriend in my life. I do think I've got a decent style and I'm attractive in a way bla bla, but I never took the chance to tell a girl I like/love her. Your point about these videos being the drug just like porn is true Jose. MEN MUST TAKE ACTION. Or else, at the end of the day, you will still have that feeling in your stomach just like me. Deep down, you know you're still a loser, still so far off your goal. One good thing I find working positively for me is to simply turn my phone and laptop off. Put on an outfit I'm comfortable in and just step outside. If you wanna study, go to a library or a coffee shop. If you have nothing in your mind, go to the gym or go for a walk. Still much better than sitting home scrolling mindlessly through videos and social media posts. I know this is a long comment, many might think I'm just sad, depressed and have nothing more fun to do at the moment other than writing a comment no one might even read. Honestly, no. I just find this video very very important, the message hits hard and I believe every men should hear it. I just want to share my view, even if 1 person reads it and decides to change themselves, it's worth it.
I have been watching your videos since day one when I was in middle school and high school. But this video is different and hits home. I am now an aspiring Quant Hedge Fund manager and Im in university and have been stuck in a self-improvement rut. Out of the 100's videos ive probably watched from u and other self-improvement youtubers. This is the BEST I have seen. Ive never done this but I want to say THANK YOU JOSE, you have been an inspiration for me as a I grow and I am thankful for the lessons you have taught me.
Investing in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone in their 20s. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment...
I don't think that advice is for only people in their 20sI thought about investing in the financial market, I heard that people make millions if you know the tricks of the trade, but I lack good knowledge and a strategy to outperform the market and generate good yields. I have $160,000 but it's hard to bite the bullet and do it.
Having an investment advisor is the best way to go. Based on a direct encounter with a CFP named Corinne Cecilia Heaney, I can say with certainty that their skills are excellent. She helped raise over $580,000 in 18 months from an initially stagnant portfolio of $150,000..
Corinne really seem to know her stuff. I found her website, read through her resume, educational background, qualifications and it was really impressive. She is a fiduciary who will act in my best interest. So, I booked a session with her
A wake up call, well addressed Hamza, am 19 and battling with managing my retail business, you really reminded me of how far I'm still yet to go. Thank you sir
this is the most honest motivational video i'v seen bro, I will come back to this video on jan-1st-2024 to see what real life progress i'v made in my life, im gonna write down where I am in life in different aspects and save it and check on 1st jan, THANKS MAN
i’ve been watching this channel for years now. and i am a better person then i was 3 years ago. i learned a lot from this man. but i think it’s time to let go. i think i’ve learned enough from jose to keep carving my own path. i love jose i love this channel. i love all you alpha men improving on ya’ll selves. keep improving. keep going every single day. (kaizen) i wish ya’ll the best luck in life. we got this.
I already know this but watching your videos, eventhough it is repetitive gives me a reminder to improve and be the best version of myself. Thank you and God bless.
I needed this. This actually gave me the wake up call I needed to stop bullshitting around and actually take action, instead of continuing to watch self help videos. Well put Jose, & thank you.
ya.I watch those videos and do the mental masturbation.and thinkin that im doing well and do nothing after.Watching those things make you more miserable when you don't put in the work and self critisize.
Write down down this same comment on a piece of paper and put it right on your door... You need a physical reminder you said this bro😤🔥... Let's get our shit together
Hii, prize really? @teachingmensfashion
I stoped taking this guy seriously like 2 years ago
The stuff he was talking in 2017 are complete opposite of right now
Seriously
Have you taken action yet?
Noticing a trend of top self-improvement content creators like Hamza and Jose realizing just the content isn't enough. It's nice to see the evolution.
True.. We all have to start taking action.
fr, needed this
As a man you should not even need self improvement videos, you should be viscously looking for a solution
honestly watching self improvement videos are definitely good for your mental health and knowledge even if you lack ambition to take big actions
Its like it was fate for me to wake up to this video. I was feeling low because of financial difficulties. I thought it was over for me, but this reminds me to keep pushing. I'm 19 just got done with high school I'm working as a jeweller. I've been watch your videos since I was 15 and it changed my life. I have improved physically, emotionally, mentally and spiritually. I cant wait for the higher lever content.
I feel you man. Men are forged and you journey through pain will make you the most desirable man. Wish you great success ✌️
I'm 19 too..let's fuckin put in the work my broda...
Sometimes, I think to myself what am I even doing with my life. Why am I here, instead of where I want to be. It's so hard to notice the good changes in your life. A bird's eye view helps with that.
I remember the feeling I got when I made some good money in January 2020 at 18 years old. It made me feel like I was on top of the world. Last month I made 7 and half times that amount. It's very easy to get lost in thoughts and feel like giving up, but taking a look back at my journey, where I started and where I wanted to be, reminds me of how far I've come.
You may have achieved the goals you set for yourself years ago and now worry about reaching new ones. However, it's important to remember that where you are now was once a distant dream.
At least that's been my experience so far. Thank you, Jose, for being like family.
Been watching since 2019 and I’ve got to give credit where credits due! Your videos took me from a 18 year old kid who failed his first semester in college to a confident 21 year old business man trying to create a legacy of greatness! Thank you
Honestly, this is the first of your videos that I’ve watched in a while and as a fan who also happens to be turning twenty years old this year, I just want to say thank you. This is what I needed to hear.
This is the absolute best video you’ve ever made. I’ve been watching you for years and I can attest to that
100%. Tears fell down my face when he said “it’s worse than p**n”. Self-improvement content is the worse addiction I’ve ever had. What’s even worse is when I started making my own self-improvement content a year ago and blew up for preaching things I wasn’t even implementing. Now I’ve stopped making and watching content (I realized that’s a lie after I typed that, if I’ve stopped watching content, why am I watching this?), have stripped away all the bs and am taking pure action. It’s just me, myself and I now. I won’t rely on anymore emotional roller coasters to get me where I want to go. We got this John❤
@@my2spence We got this Spencer❤. We're all gonna make it. I really think I'll delete social media and TH-cam to focus on the work, at least I'll consider it
The realest and probably one of the best videos you've ever dropped. The truth was hard and I found myself in it. You couldn't explain it better.
JOSE I don’t usually comment on videos but MAN this is a wake up call! I been watching since 15 years old ! I’m 19 now soon to be 20 ! Man your videos have given me confidence because everyday I would listen to you and the voice and body language taught me lots! I always go to the gym it’s that push that you give us ! Your always so honest and real with every topic much love ❤💪👍
Bro I started at 13 now im 15 but now im rwally in the grind
Is it too late to start when you’re 20 years old.
Loved that you put Tate and Goggins in the thumbnail. Very inspirational people. You are also an inspiration.
hey Jose, I've been watching you since I was 14 (now im 17), and i wanna thank you from the core of my heart for everything. I was the type of guy who was fat, insecure, was bullied, then i found u. I implemented ur advices, and bro i can proudly say i've come so far, and there's no stopping now. Keep Shining BIG BROTHER! Someday, maybe when i too become successful, I will make sure to thank you personally. You have been always helping me from the other side of the screen, and I will never disappoint you. Much love! ❤
I'm jealous of you that you follow him from such a young age...Keep it up brother
I've been watching self improvement videos for a long time now,had the mindset that José mentioned and I recently heard a qoute that said "He who knows better doesn't always do better'' and I would just like to say thank you José its a huge eye opener .
Honestly, this is the best self-improvement video I have ever seen.
Bro tbh this is why I watch your videos. You actually know what you’re doing. I’ve been watching your videos since the beginning and I’m glad I’m still watching.
This is so true man sometimes I catch myself only watching and not taking action or feeling like I want to give up…but then I look back and see how far I’ve come and that gives me motivation to keep pushing forward. Jose you have been a great older brother and mentor for me because I can see that when I put your advice into action I get results. Thank you again brother and as a Latino male it’s tough out here but with the discipline you keep telling me to work towards I’ll grow into the man I’ve always wanted to be
im latino too, i dont know if a bussiness is a good idea here
Why as a latino it’s hard ???
@@افلامرعبعندناوبس a little, but isn't imposible
@@alexjavier5450 what it is has to do with being a Latino bro ?
This is so true man sometimes I catch myself only watching and not taking action or feelings like.
Jose idk if you’ll ever see this but I really watched your content hard for about 3 years. Helped me so much. Then 2022 came and you weren’t kidding, I felt like I graduated and learned so much. Gone from 160-180 lbs and moved to my dream state in the mountains. I’m 22 now, and you taught me a lot about being a more than a lot of people. Keep it up bro. Y’all listen to what this guy has to say, he knows a thing or two.
Continue it my bro, I improved a lot because of your videos, thank you
Your take on self improvement is so different than most TH-camrs, thank you for everything.
Thanks older brother I needed this just lost my job today I wasn’t even mad it just made me realize that I’ve got to improve myself to create my own life changing opportunities I’m only 20 and I know I’m going to win and to whoever just watch this I hope you are not taking this to the heart but to your brain because you can lose that feeling you had when watching this but if you lock that knowledge up in your head you will never lose it ,stay true to yourself and not the masses .
The best video he has produced in years. If this doesn’t wake you up, I dont know what new content will
I am so so great full of u for making this video jose mah brother. I really needed this one to take my blindfold off n actually realise wt I was doing frm more thn 1.5 yrs. just consuming content n feeling hella gud n not actually implementing thm on myself n now whn I look at my self, I hv reached no where. Frm here on its nvr gonna be the same with me in the wrld of self improvement.
Remember guys, watching these videos is not enough, u gotta take action n be frickin consistent cause it’s a long game n the path is never easy, u gotta be disciplined n be willing to repeat the same old hard word again n again. N nvr forget to journal each n ever day cause tht is how u kn wt really has improved in u, whn u hv stayed consistent for a long time n all the stuff has become normal to u, looking back at wt it was like whn u started, makes difference in how u see wt u hv done. N the ways u hv improved in.
Thank you,
jose
Jose, thank you. I am older, yet I still find your content informative, educational, entertaining among other things. This video IMHO is probably the one people need the most. Being older, I'm a little behind on the self awareness journey but I'd rather start late then not start at all. Just because someone is younger does not mean you can't learn from them. Obviously it works the other way around as well. Stay strong stay hard stay up everyone. Life is hard af so you gotta be harder or it will just eat you up. For a time I was being eaten up and over two years ago I decided I was done with letting that happen. Now I have over 2 years of sobriety, have some money, great friends and family. I am not a loser but I feel I haven't won everything I want yet but I will. Thanks to people like Jose, other content creators and some others only I know, I have been able to grow myself into a better version on myself.
Hands down, the best video on TH-cam. This is the truest piece of advice I’ve ever heard on here.
No way, I’m surprised that Jose uploaded a video so late. Normally he uploads during office hours but I’m not complaining.
he uploaded it for the losers that stay up all night watching self improvment videos with no action 😆
Ukr i suprised to that he so late but its cool
I was moved to tears while watching your video because your words felt like a caring older brother giving me a reality check and urging me to focus on my goals instead of videos about my goals. Thank you for inspiring me to take action. I will be back in 3 months to share my accomplishments with you.
its been three months
This guy changed my life upside down!!!
A very big thanku zose, i'm 15 rn but the knowledge and understanding i have is way more than a 20 year old all thanks to you! Good job brother 💪
Your advice is lifesaving😢❤❤❤
Been watching for a year, Im a very young dude but thanks to José im a different person. I never told my parents about my insecurities and they saw the difference in over 5-12 months. But i still feel like i havent overcome my goals. Its a never ending game
I really needed help. I had dreams of being a national champion in boxing the sport I love more then anything. Now I will work until I become that. A couple sparring sessions isn’t enough. I have to fall in love with it again. And love the failures more then the successes. Thank you bro. The business- Whole sale real estate. But time to take it serious. Thank you Jose❤
Thank you, Jose, for the invaluable advice on this channel. As a 23-year-old man, your content has inspired me to become the best version of myself. I promise to personally thank you in a few years when I achieve my goals. Keep up the great work!
He's right I've gotten addicted to self improvement videos, everytime i feel down i watch them to make me feel better watch tons of it then feel more down because i sat all day watching videos without doing any action
Thank You, Thank you my Brother
So happy I watched this towards the end of my first day at the gym
Studying engineering at the age of 17 - gained 12kgs of muscle since jan 2022 - hates relying on people and pays for things I want. It's crazy what this journey does to you
Stopped for a quick minute because thumbnail… man Jose It’s like I knew where this was going and am so happy you said it. It’s that harsh word that you know needs to be said…. Im glad to say I may have not watched videos as much but it’s because I’m actually working towards living it now 🙏🏽🙏🏽
Much love bro!
Keep grinding my bros that see this.
To wait for the day that Jose writes a book or creates a documentary would be worth the wait and I would buy it in a heartbeat cause I am curious to know where it all began. The grit, the determination, the drive, the confidence, its something that we all can have but you really have to want it. I have analyzed and implemented his tips from videos and have seen a drastic change in myself physically and mentally. I am nowhere near where I want to be, but I know I am better than where I left off. I was in that loop for a while until I decided to take action and because of this I have found my own purpose and my drive. So, in that note, I just wanted to say thank you TMF fam and Jose for helping me be the better man than I was yesterday.
Hey Jose! I have been watching your vids since Aug of 2019 when I was 14 and I am currently a 19 yr old Pakistani kid whose been watching this vids again after a hiatus from self improvement vids from 2022-early 2024. You are Absa frikkin lutely right, whatever you have said in this vid, not only have I also experienced it but I have also implemented many of the tips and I swear to God, they frikkin work when one takes action! Keep up with the content my man and see u next time!
I've been following you and alphaM for 2 years.
Damn.you guys really change lives.
I was on a heartbroke.i hit the gym.i started nursing education and taken my mentality to next levels. God bless you and your family khose...
Not alphaM 💀he's wild now
After watching this video, i might stop watching others self-improvement video again. THANK YOU JOSE FOR THIS VIDEO🙏🙏
Bro.. I started this self improvement journey two years ago. My soul way empty, I was in a quest of searching and tapping to my masculine nature. Proud to say I look better coz I go to the gym almost every day. I quit porn and discovered Semen retension, I improved on fashion, I developed a cologne cataloge, My grooming is always on point. Now I'm fucused on getting my bank balance right.. Its content like this that saved me. Keep going bro your touching lives. 🇿🇦🇿🇦
Oh man full respect
This vedio deserves billion views
Thanks!!
Man i have been following jose since 2014 but man! This speech has me speechless everything he said was so pure, real, genuine and those words really cut deep and I felt it
That brutally hurt. Thanks Jose. 🙏
I'll be honest I've been subscribed to your channel since I was 16, 17 and it really helped a lot back then , I've barely watched the content on here since my early years in college , only because I had truly become the person you have guided and inspired me to be . I have transcended that which you teach on here but I continue to share it with younger people that are eager to improve themselves . I Think everyone should view these videos as a jumping to becoming a better version of themselves . Keep doing your thing my brother & keep sharing the wisdom . All love 🖤
6:38 you said thinks that I thought of but I didn't ever admitted to myself I needed this video thanks ❤
I see improvement but i feel like i can acheive more, I just turned 16 and everyone around me says I'm doing good but I don't feel like its enough. Ive been watching your videos for around 2 years and feel like I've never learned so much in my life and seen so much self improvement but I just feel like I can achieve more.
Jackson man this video gave me a wake up call ! To actually right down and print your goals and tape it in ur room ! Bro go get that physique! Life’s a beautiful game to always be evolving and read everyday ! That’s something that I look back to and wish I could have done. I remember starting watching Jose’s vids at your age man! Wish you the best in life 🙌
Keep that hunger alive
Bruh u 16 enjoy your time being 16 df u talking about u can be doing so much more like what do u possibly want at 16 outside of a drivers liscense
@@samthefam2016 i am also 16 and doing everything to make myself better, but still after trying so much i can't figure out a legit way to make money. Is there anything or any source of earning that you didn't knew back then when you was 16??
Taking action, going out of your comfort zone and being observant is the best way to improve.
00:00 Modern Dilemmas
00:48 Disillusioned Viewers
01:52 Self-Improvement Trap
03:03 Real Achievements
04:17 Repeating Struggles
05:47 True Intentions
06:29 Insightful Advice
07:15 Life Examples
08:25 Vicious Cycles
09:30 Taking Action
I love how Jose doesn't BS around and hits us with the harsh reality. We need more men like him! Thank you brother!!!
Jose made me realize today after watching his content for 5 years the only thing i’ve picked up from him is the style and grooming habits other than that nothing man it slapped me in the face
You are a real man, I respect your work ethic and discipline, I will too
Thank You Jose, I usually never comment on a youtube video but this was amazing. I realized earlier this week that I was loosing focus on my goals. I started to think where i was going wrong and your video came at the best time possible. You wont get anywhere without consistency nor action. Thank you, with this said, this comment will be the promise I make to myself and to you that i will keep pushing regardless how hard things around me. Thank you once again, Jose.
Congratulations you are actually making a difference
13yo life put together more than adults. Dedication really changed everything.
Loser
@@zayanmendoza4506 Jesus loves you my brother. I hope you grow up one day💪
This video was such a reassurance for me, I quit watching you tube influencers,caused I started to apply a lot of things taught but I always check back in to learn something new
Ive been watching Jose for a while now and I've got to say this is one of his best videos! The fact is, is that I have been experiencing this for a while without ever even knowing I had this problem. Thanks Jose for this wonderful video. Can't wait to apply this to my life :)
Been watching since 2017. Ive learnt a lot & thankfully I did take some action. That's where the problem lies, it's "some action". I really needed this video, thank you Bro, I won't allow myself to keep on falling into this pit of inferiority. I worked out for 3months straight, but I didn't gain a lot of muscle, it made me feel like I was wasting my time. Its been 2months & honestly I feel like shit, I miss working out. I'm getting my shit back in order
Been doing good in January but February got me caught up in the mental so definitely needed this wake up call
I have been working daily on improving while i work 12 hours a day for 5-7 days a week. Slowly moving forward with what i have. Watching this video is so important and helps so much. Making me realize that i am improving but i also can always improve way more. Started watching you a long time ago but never did anything. Now i realize you have been my big brother helping me all this time. Thank you Jose for everything. ❤much love brother
One of the best videos you’ve ever made. I’ve been watching your content and been a supporter since I was like 17. Just turned 21 now. I’m not eating shit or nothing like that with my life but this just put into perspective that more action needs to be taken immediately.
I really have changed because of u,
U really have changed my life
I have seen great improvement in me watching your videos was consistent for 2 years then i got injured and then I became the guy you are talking about.
Been watching you since I was 14. I’m turning 20 now in march. You have led the way and I’ve been takin action too get were I am today.
But this video got me too wake up. Do more. Keep going. Thank you Jose. Much love and support
Best video he made, fundamental reminder.
I'm a 20 year old Nigerian, your videos have always inspired me to do better, mostly in the skin care aspect but it's just too expensive to follow up on
I have been following him since SS1 bro and I was only able to pull off babes in class because of him
Same here bro
Best self improvement video ive ever seen. Actually learned a thing or 2
I have status, I have charisma, I have a better than average body, I don’t have the financial success yet, but getting there, I watch your videos to put in the work day in and day out and to remind myself, 75 days in a row at the gym today, counting macros with progressive overload.. thank you! I can’t wait for your next clothing launch!
Do you love yourself tho…?
It’s cool you have those things but I see a lot of comments of someone mentioning all the external things they have, none of it means anything if you don’t have inner peace, love & respect.
Yea I jus need the bread 😭
This is exactly what we really needed it. That cycle of quick dopamine from these typa content was killing us inside, but now I'm totally sure that its cus we haven't been applying it. Thanks for made us conscious bout it, Jose. It's time to change.
Hands down the best and realest video Big Bro has ever put out. I been watching for a few years and been a huge fan but this was game changing. Will do better through action. Thank you the real talk ❤️💯🔥
hey Jose, I've been watching you since I was 14 (now im 17), and i wanna thank you from the core of my heart for everything. I was the type of guy who was fat, insecure, was bullied, then i found u.
I really needed to hear this. I’ve been putting in action for a while and putting in the work in my finance and with girls consistently, but I keep hitting roadblocks, not getting any results and getting rejected. But I keep it pushing💪
😂😂 at least give me some encouragement, don’t try to scam me.
This guy is on FIRE!!!! It is one of the reasons why I love his channel; he keeps it real!
Did 30 pushups, 2 minutes boxing drill, and 50 kicks on punching bag while watching this video... starting with taking actions right away
Bro.......this is the DEEPEST video you have EVER done!! 💪💪
Once in a year I get stabbed by a incredible harsh truth.
In 20 minutes I just started bleeding guilt and shame
That part about remembering where you started really hits home. I was in a really dark place during Covid and found myself on academic warning. I was a loser that played video games and didn’t want to put in the work.
Since then I’ve climbed back to a 3.0 gpa, joined a club for networking, and even landed an internship this summer. I’m on track to graduate with an engineering degree, and I’m honestly more proud of the journey than the result.
Just keep going brothas ✌🏼
Thank you Jose! Thank you for ACTUALLY caring about your viewers and for being honest. Thank you for putting in the effort and for sharing your journey with us! ❤❤❤
I agree with this. We live in a world of shirt term gratification but not long term pain to get long-term success.
The losers you call out pay your bills as an youtuber. I’m surprised you made this video - it’s what people need to hear. props to you.
Stfu clown. Its an inspirational video. It’s about the losers that dont put words into action probably like you. I started working out in 2016 coz of this dude and I have never stopped I didn’t just watch his workout video and refuse to go to the gym and put the work in
Nobody:
Absolutely nobody:
Fandium: I work out all the time!!!!!!
rofl
Wow yeah I’ve seen Jose Zuniga grow fast been watching him for 9 years already
You reminded me of me growing up Jose, I been grinding since day one. I started my plumbing business with my brother when I was 27 years old, eight years later i when back to school and got my general contractor license and now I’m working on my electrical license. When you do the hard work the money comes easy, keep up the good work Jose
LONG BEACH CA 🇲🇽💰😎💵🇺🇸
Honestly your greatest video. Changed my viewpoint on so many things. The latino heritage is true, gotta look out for my entire family; especially retire my parents. Thanks for this man.
I wish this video gets as many views as possible, and for people to watch through all 19m20s. What you said is very important, as though it may sound harsh.
I can relate. I'm a 20 years old, I got into one of the widely-regarded 'best' university in my country, I've been going to the gym, I've been watching self-improvement videos for as long as I can remember. I thought I was on a better road than my friends who spend half of their day gaming. Yet I still find myself feeling like a loser. I look at my life and see that half of my day is actually just 'watching' self-help videos. I have very few friends, I've never got a girlfriend in my life. I do think I've got a decent style and I'm attractive in a way bla bla, but I never took the chance to tell a girl I like/love her. Your point about these videos being the drug just like porn is true Jose. MEN MUST TAKE ACTION. Or else, at the end of the day, you will still have that feeling in your stomach just like me. Deep down, you know you're still a loser, still so far off your goal.
One good thing I find working positively for me is to simply turn my phone and laptop off. Put on an outfit I'm comfortable in and just step outside. If you wanna study, go to a library or a coffee shop. If you have nothing in your mind, go to the gym or go for a walk. Still much better than sitting home scrolling mindlessly through videos and social media posts.
I know this is a long comment, many might think I'm just sad, depressed and have nothing more fun to do at the moment other than writing a comment no one might even read. Honestly, no. I just find this video very very important, the message hits hard and I believe every men should hear it. I just want to share my view, even if 1 person reads it and decides to change themselves, it's worth it.
We are in the same shoes bro😢
It’s time everyone wakes up
Do you think I still have time if I’m 20
@@افلامرعبعندناوبس Of course man, I'm also 20, it's a young age. It's never too late to take action. Don't ever let anyone discourage you 💪
I really need this type of video more. love and support❤
My friend group is just like this, I apply and they lie.
I have been watching your videos since day one when I was in middle school and high school. But this video is different and hits home. I am now an aspiring Quant Hedge Fund manager and Im in university and have been stuck in a self-improvement rut. Out of the 100's videos ive probably watched from u and other self-improvement youtubers. This is the BEST I have seen. Ive never done this but I want to say THANK YOU JOSE, you have been an inspiration for me as a I grow and I am thankful for the lessons you have taught me.
Investing in alternative income streams that are independent of the government should be the top priority for everyone in their 20s. especially given the global economic crisis we are currently experiencing. Stocks, gold, silver, and virtual currencies are still attractive investments at the moment...
I don't think that advice is for only people in their 20sI thought about investing in the financial market, I heard that people make millions if you know the tricks of the trade, but I lack good knowledge and a strategy to outperform the market and generate good yields. I have $160,000 but it's hard to bite the bullet and do it.
Having an investment advisor is the best way to go. Based on a direct encounter with a CFP named Corinne Cecilia Heaney, I can say with certainty that their skills are excellent. She helped raise over $580,000 in 18 months from an initially stagnant portfolio of $150,000..
please how can i find the lady you mentioned'?
Corinne really seem to know her stuff. I found her website, read through her resume, educational background, qualifications and it was really impressive. She is a fiduciary who will act in my best interest. So, I booked a session with her
i have seen frenvesting video about her
A wake up call, well addressed Hamza, am 19 and battling with managing my retail business, you really reminded me of how far I'm still yet to go. Thank you sir
Here I am once again😂😂
One of the most deepest videos ever published by Jose ,I'm only 14 year old and I'm grateful really needed this.
Steps:
- Take Action
- Consistency
- Work
- Journal
come back in 1 year and tell me your progress!
it worked ❤❤
Jose I've been watching your content for 6 or 7 years now. And this is probably the best videos you've ever made.
Because you’re lazy and you don’t want to put in effort… nobody is going to come and save you, the only person that can save you is you.
Thank you Lord Jesus for the gift of life and blessings to me and my family $14,120.47 weekly profit Our lord Jesus have lifted up my Life!!!🙏❤️❤️
I'm 37 and have been looking for ways to be successful, please how??
I earn from investing in the digital market with the guidance of experts Mrs Olivia Renae marks Brokerage services...
😱Sounds familiar, I have heard her name on several occasions.. and both her success stories in the wall Street journal!
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this is the most honest motivational video i'v seen bro, I will come back to this video on jan-1st-2024 to see what real life progress i'v made in my life, im gonna write down where I am in life in different aspects and save it and check on 1st jan, THANKS MAN
i’ve been watching this channel for years now. and i am a better person then i was 3 years ago. i learned a lot from this man. but i think it’s time to let go. i think i’ve learned enough from jose to keep carving my own path. i love jose i love this channel. i love all you alpha men improving on ya’ll selves. keep improving. keep going every single day. (kaizen) i wish ya’ll the best luck in life. we got this.
I watch it on repeat at different stages of my live and always learn something new, and view it in a new perspective.
I already know this but watching your videos, eventhough it is repetitive gives me a reminder to improve and be the best version of myself. Thank you and God bless.
You are my brother. You are so concerned about us dear ❤