Here it goes..I was preparing for pmt exam..one day I went to my sir for motivation and his words were 'forget about your selection,people are competing like anything..your preparation won't do anything'..I went back home depressed..told my parents about it..my mom said just one thing..'you will win..may be not now..but one day you surely will..and you keep doing your work..god is there to decide not these teachers..and you are always a winner for me already'..And believe me..I cleared my pmt exam that year only with good rank and now preparing for PG exams..just because my parents were my teachers..and that teacher called for interview that year..I just answered back by saying..'SIR,I GOT SELECTED BECAUSE MY PARENTS BELIEVED IN ME..NOT BECAUSE YOU TAUGHT ME..even if we don't come for interview..your business won't get affected..so people..just stick to your parents family relatives support..:)
Sadly not every parent is supportive 😭😭😭 just imagine wht ur teacher said to u once , is tht parents tell us everday while living under the same roof 😔😔😔
Parents become innocent after such happening and blame government and coaching but never understand their expectations are the building blocks of pressure
I am absolutely agree with you . .......parents suicide karne k badh sidha sidha dusro per blame karte hai ......I am also a ex Allen student aur mai pakka bata Sakti hu ki teacher woha k kitne supportive hai management bhi bahut supportive hai woha ki .......aur mera bhi neet clear nahi hua aur maine coaching m 4 lakh laga diye the....aur uske badh parents kaise badal jate hai apke failure k badh ye maine bahut ache se mahsos kiya hai .........
In our lives , those people who quit , they are losers , & the one which will survive inspite of failure , they are winners , so never quit.in our lives ,. Think.about your parents ....who devoted their whole life for us ....so , I request to all , please think about our parents ... and always. Try & never quit 👍
I am student of Allen carrier institute. Currently m studying in kota.. hmm here is alot of pressure of education..nd none of any coaching forced any student or give any pressure to students..Its our society or relatives nd their words,hopes made tough pressure on student.. Trust me ... "Expectation" is the main reason behind kota's students suicide.
@@shubhamkumarjha3426 be strong bro...just face the present time...dnt think abt future....its ur present gonna decide ur futures. This world is beautiful 💖 you are gonna shine tomorrow . All the best 👍
i had also been suicidal in kota while going through this phase so i understand . but didn't have enough guts to end my life. lucky that i didnt have it then.
भाईलोग लाइफ में कभी भी टेंशन मत लो यार,लाइफ बहुत लंबी है भगवान बहुत सारे रास्ते दिखाता है,कभी भी डरो मत,और कभी भी हार मत मानना,न जुर्म करेंगे और न ही सहेंगे,और माँ बाप का आशीर्वाद है यार कोई कुछ नही कर सकता।।
आखिर क्यु मर जाने के बाद ही सब लोग बोलते है कि बहुत अच्छा था हमने कोई दबाव नही डाला था पढ़ाई का सच तो ये है कि बच्चे पर दिन रात दवाब डाला जाता है पढ़ाई को ले के
Someone made my day by posting this today.. New York is 3 hours ahead of California, but it does not make California slow. Someone graduated at the age of 22, but waited 5 years before securing a good job! Someone became a CEO at 25, and died at 50. While another became a CEO at 50, and lived to 90 years. Someone is still single, while someone else got married. Obama retires at 55, but Trump starts at 70. Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone. People around you might seem to go ahead of you, some might seem to be behind you. But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME. Don’t envy them or mock them. They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours! Life is about waiting for the right moment to act. So, RELAX. You’re not LATE. You’re not EARLY. You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you. In conclusion don't rush to get and don't be sad if things turn out to be slow. In Gods hands time is a tool . He makes all things beautiful in His time.
I don't know whether anyone would notice this confession of mine or not. I have been through this suicidal phase when I appeared my 12th exams because I was continuously thinking that I won't get passed in some subjects and how could I face this to the society because I have always been a more than average student. I remember I always notice to the fan because i was having those shit suicidal thoughts. And its something that you can't control . You feel like something negative is controlling you. But still I won. I won against those negativity . I thought about my parents . I'm the happiness of my parents , not my studies and all. I'm no one to give tears to my parents . This only thing saved me. And now I'm enjoying my life with ups and downs. But I just want to tell everyone you can't just expect good always. Worst phases come but we have to deal with that with utmost positivity. Thank you.
Since my childhood I never get good grades ... Even I failed in 10th that day my brother said me " never underestimate yourself you are inteligente but lazy In studies" after that I saw how my relatives and my friends disgrace me for fail... That was turning point of my life i always know that I have very good brain it's just that I m lazy.... Because I failed in 10th after clearing my backlog also I did not get admission in good school that I saw my father was requesting to those people but 😢😢😢... I got admision in low greade college but again in 12th I could scored more.... But my parents and brother never look down on me and slowly I got into my correct mind I have ability it's just that I have to polish myself.. and it works I scored 71.89% in my graduation .... Later in my PG I was passed with 83.56% ... People who always looked down on me now changed alot now they started looking brilliant child in me... Thanks my family who always belived in mE and encourage me to just do how much I can don't push yourself so hard that you lost yourself...
The real problem is guilt. Yahi lagta h ki hamare mummy papa bhi sabke parents ki tarah itti mehnat kar rai h aur fir bhi humse nahi ho raha. This is a very big reason and I have personally experienced that pain of guilt. Uss samay bas yeah yaad rakhna ki life is huge bahut saari opportunities aayengi life me. And coaching centers literally increase this guilt, they are so costly. I am studying in 12th standard pcm and am preparing for jee through integrated school classes of one of the known coaching centers of my city and that fees factor of both coaching and school really worries me at times.
yes you are right guilt and comparison are the biggest factor . but sometimes suicide is a best possible way out from all the sufferings Sometimes it is valid!!
from last 3 year I am not able to clear my prelims of banking exam.but I am happy and trying to improve my self and I learn from my mistake. be happy life is very beautiful enjoy it
shivam singh Ye line to muja farzi lgti hai....god me kuch aur plan Kiya hoga ye bus apne AAP Ko thode time ke liye satisfaction dene jaisa hai....be a fighter ...... failure means you are not performing as per the requirement .....at all parameters .......in that case either skip your goal or revaluate your goal as per your interest .......some times skip words gives better options or results than previous one you tried
Marne ke bad sab log yeh kahte he lekin jab zinda hote he tab koi nahi kahta ki "beta jo karna hain karo, yeh life tumhari hain, kuch farak nahi padta ki tum kitne paise kamate ho, kya kam karte ho," real success is happiness, not money " Stay happy, do whatever you like, it's your life, it Wii be end in just second" So enjoy every second of life❤
Sorry Richa mam! But this only a blame game, parents blame coaching, coaching blame child,parent blame chidren but survive and victim only child👶. but real blame comes our society's,...sorry for hard word's lekin bacha abhi zinda hota na toh usko dekh isko dekh aur kya buri tarah torcher jhelta I am student know the pain of pressure, log darte hai yaar ek chot se, socho kitni himmat chahiye, maut KO gale lagane ke liye... JAI HIND
When I was in 11th I was dead set about getting admission in Aakash. But my mother didn't allow me to do it. I'm inherently great full to her for not letting me become a part of the herd.
Don't worry. You still have attempts. Also, career does not always define life. You are so intelligent and capable that you are preparing for civil services. God bless you.
i too was in hostel struggling every day with depression ,anxiety. then finally one day i told my parents about this and decided to not go back to hostel and i started to do study from my city . and to live a confortable life with my family .
Fuckin noo study is lyf...and i have fucked it up...I have studied lot and at end i have fucked up and not revised due to this yt addiction And either i am going to die soon or escape to some 5th dimension which is technically not possible so first option seems better Bye
There is no pain for parents bigger than losing their child and that too by suicide. India is such a meritocratic society. If you are professionally unsuccessful, you are not worth anything. We have to change this sick expectation and tell the children to do their best in anything they enjoy. There are so many options in life to make decent living. So what if you don't become a doctor or engineer or IAS etc. The government should provide grants and guidance to the youth for starting businesses.
The situation is very tense in India....it is very easy to say...don't commit suicide...but I personally know...it's not that easy....if u are a general category middle class student in a family where you cousins are outperforming you everytime...it becomes one hell of a life...I too have thought many times of suicide but just couldn't do it...
Ayush bhai.....koi kisi ka friend nhi hota. Sb selfish hote h Agar aap Apne dost se jyada progress krne lgte h to o door hone lgte h...I have no friend.
Bittoo kuch b impossible ni h life me..fail hone se zindgi hi khtm kr lena koi solution ni h.....Addison jb 999 bar fail hokr b kuch krne ki jid ni chhode to fir hm student bs 1-2 bar fail hone pr kyu zindgi khtm kr dete h?
Jo bachche padhai mai normal hote hai wo etna pressure nahi lete apne upar...bhale he parents din rat bole padh padh par koi farf nahi padta unko..apni dhoon mai rehte hai wo...par jo bachche padhai mai ache hote hai wahi sabse jyada embitious or emotional hote hai..wahi jyada tar etna load le lete hai or esa kadam uthate hai...please koi esa mat karo duniya bohout badi hai..anpad log bhi kafi success ho jate hai..phir to aap log padhe likhe hoshiyar log ho..bohout kuch acha kar kar dikha sakte ho..hajaro option hai successfull banney ke liye...mast raho or man lagakar apna kam karo baki bhagwan bharkse sab chhod do..Maa baap ke ashirwad se sab acha he hoga.
In todays world there is hidden pressure on students..even though parents support them, there is always competition, and so many factors. U cannot apply direct pressure, but there are some students with their nature, they feel pressure by their own..they see day to day struggle of their parrents, their sacrifices and even though they support him/her, he/she ended up feeling pressure or urge to full fill their needs...by seeing relative kids getting job, even though parents dont say anything, they still feel bad about themselves and feel pressure.. ------- Words of experience.
Children should be encouraged to play sports to help them fight depressing thoughts.. Sports helps a lot to deal with challenges of life.. You come out as a strong person.. Sports should go hand in hand with studies.. If this happens we might see dip in suicides in our country..
In sabka main reason pyar hai ma'am... Agar un sab bachhon ko us samay koi pyar karne wala, koi samazne wala mil gaya hota.... To shayad vo aaj jinda hote... Mushkil ye hai ki aaj ke jamane me koi apna dhundna bhott mushkil hai... Ham jise apna samazte hain, unke pass hamare liye time nhi hota, or vo ignore karte hain..... Vidambana hai yeh😔😭
Sahi kaha aur jispe bhrosa kr lete hai wo dhokha karke aur use karke chale jate hai mai is cheez se guzar chuka , but itna strong ho gaya ki kisi ka Zarurat nahi ba padhai karunga is baar aur apna college le lunga...
I am also medical student of aakash institute I also get fully depressed only always want to be died bt I don't do plz try to tell ur problem to ur parents
Even after getting qualified in advance iwas unable to get into an IIT due to general category..I request govt to give equal importance to all the casts..these useless things happen only in India
Musthaq Khan Bhai ekdam shi bat h reservation nhi hoga to cut off high nhi jaayegi aur cut off high nhi jaayegi to aaram se mehnat kerne vaalo ka selection ho jaayega . ab selection ho gya to fir koi suside kyu krega. Jo mehnat krega usko seat mil jaayegi aur Jo nhi krega usko nhi milegi
Loneliness is the cause of all depression..... But finding friends in that age of internet and fast life... There are a few to make friends.......I am home centred and I can understand#
Have you ever seen advt. is published by any institute about condolences in the News paper about the suicide? only you can see the advt. about the performance 1 to 10 toppers idiots are running coaching there in kota
Ayan I am sorry but you are wrong about your definition of so-called winner and lower...many of greatest winners like Abraham Lincoln had failed many times before leaving mark on history.
Main 12th main chemistry mein fail hua...toh papa ne mere saath party ki...masti ki...bole physics and maths clear...wow...ab retest mein 1 he subject hai nikal lena ho gi clear 12th....no i m earning 1 lakh per month lived happily...plz dont do these things...be brave...
I still get suicidal thoughts, very often. I am very emotional and don't think I am mentally tough enough. Both my parents, specially my dad keeps on embarassing and humiliating me for not being able to clear the exam. Embarasses me for so much money he has to invest in me now. I just run away from these harsh steps because I just can't see them cry the way the parents in the video are crying. I've moved on after being broken by my exam, but my father is so resisting to move on. For him, IIT is everything, even if it's biotech. To anyone reading this, it might feel like I am so much against my dad, but no, I love him to my core. But my heart feels like dying. I know I will get so many opportunities even in the college I am joining, but my father does not understand this. Yes, he is right that if I can't clear the exam, I might be no good, but pls someone make him understand that I can still do better in life than many who did clear the exam. My board score of 90+% means nothing, whereas several students strive to get this too. Anyways, I just hope these thoughts never go to my extreme and I just move on ignoring these humiliations, like I am doing now. I just want to work hard and get placed in some 20 LPA+ MNC, because such companies do come in my college who offer these, and prove everyone around me wrong, including my parents, shut everyone up and show I am capable too.
He came from a poor family , he know that his father has taken loan now there is tremendous competition in medical even more then IIT because you can do engineering from private institute but to do MBBS from private institute it takes huge donation ....so he might have felt that he will not be a doctor + loan in his mind + continuous coaching pressure. ===== SUICIDE
I haven't gone to any coaching centres. Got scored better from my 12th results. I was in depression , had migraine sinus attacks in 11th and 12th classes, saridon tablets 💊and my diary were my best friends that time. But, still having dissatisfaction of not getting into best clg . And, my 12th class chemistry 🧪 teacher - MR. Lokesh was not less than a monster for me , he even said me to not to go to college as me like student should not go to clg, as I'll waste my parents money. But, today I'm having that confidence to stand in front of everybody and tell that I'M AN AUTHOR AND HR - I 'HIMALI CHAKRABORTY'. 👍👍👍❤️❤️. PROUD OF MYSELF 🧿🧿🧿
Shame on those teacher's who never appreciate there students. And keep demotatiting them. Shame on the coaching institute who put pressure on the students.
@@shrinaik4186 bt brother now everything is going good by the grace of Allah So I learned one thing nothing is permanent in life comes and goes nd life is only one so always try to be live happy
Same is the case with me...i scored only 43 percentile in jee mains bcoz i want to do bsc physics hons. I have a lot of intrest in physics, but my father😭 he want me to do btech from iit....and on my low marks..he said to me " Tu kch nhi kr skta zindgi me,😭😭😭, koi value nhi h teri meri nazaro me😭😭😭😭😭"...each and every day i've studied only to make him proud and in the end he said all this....😭😭😭😭.😭...i can't bear this stress and humiliation anymore😭😭😭😭😭..
Same here i remember very clearly after my neet result everyone started taunting me and specially a day I remember 29july 2018 in one of our family function one of my aunt seating in front of me , i just waved at her said hii bua she said (mtlb hi ka reply bhi nhi kuch nahi aur shuru ho gyi) tujhe sharam nahi aayi kya itne kam marks lane mai wo bhi saree relatives k samne And I was like what the hell yrrr first upon concentrate on ur kid then on others.
Agar kisi exam me ya studies me 1000 bar bhi fail ho na fr bhi itni himmat rkhna ki apne ma bap ke samne ja sako par hmesha ke liye unki ankho se ojhal mat hona🙏🏻
I have been to Kota for IIT JEE and could clear even mains and been through depression . After seeing this I begin to think I am lucky to come out from there alive
I think this video is provided the best positively thoughts, inspiration to every student and parents so please kindly share this video to anyone or may be someone who needs and who is studying from his/her heart share this video... thanks..from a mother,and father...god bless u all
Dear parents please do not force Ur children let them do what they can do freely and happily please it's my request children are very sensitive and delicate
There should be mandatory courses of stress management and mental health since junior school. Because world is progressing, world has become competitive.But the mental health is ignored so much. It has much necessity.
Parents thinks their children to be their property and show to world as their status symbol and always wants chindren to be according to them and always wants children to study and become somebody according to their wishes... the hard truth is that parents only love themselves not their children and the moment their children are not according their wishes all their love and affection is gone
I'm an Mba graduate(76.28%) but because I'm a girl i can't do job...aaj meri sadi ki bat ho rhi hai...is par v mai jisse sadi karna chahti hoo usse nhi kar sakti...i told my parents everything...but aaj wo apni jid me hai...mai jinda hoo to sirf apne parents ke lia....jabki mere parents ki priority ijjat aur samaj hai ..unka sar jhukana nhi chahti thi par khul ke jina chahti thi...ma bap waqt rehte bacho ka dard samjh jaye to acha hota hai...kyuki bache v ek point ke bad har man lete hai...jab wo helpless worthless feel karne lagta hai
हर जीवन अनमोल होता है । किसी भी हार से जिन्दगी खत्म नहीं होती । अगर आपके लिए एक रास्ता बंद हो जाय तो अपने लिए दूसरा रास्ता ढूंढो ....पर ईश्वर की दी हुई इस अनमोल जिंदगी को खत्म करने की ना सोचों । ऐसा करके आप अपनों के लिए और खास कर अपने माता-पिता के लिए कभी ना खत्म होने वाली दुःख का कारण बन जाओगे ।
Coincidences yet no coincidence : My name is Aman Gupta too. My brother is called Chotu too. I prepared for JEE in 2013-2014 in Allen(Kota). I also topped in class 10th on my school. I had similar goals then and come from a small town from Chitrakoot Uttar Pradesh. But after failing in the JEE 2013,now I have done my graduation and gave iit jam 2019 to get into IIT and passed this time. But I will never forget those tough times when I could not clear JEE and had plenty of wrong things going in my mind at that time but the thing that I had in my mind was life is way more than this. I would say these failures don't define you but the way you fight it out these tough times and rise over these will define. Currently pursuing my masters of Science in Mathematics from IIT Madras, last year one girl committed suicide there too but again I would say academics, results and all these things are not something which will decide your future. We are stuck in these small time successes way too much that we don't really enjoy our life. Life has much more to explore. Don't give up. 🙏
This incident depicts,the how cruel and selfish is indian society...when u get fail,no one come to rescue u..and when u get success,everyone come and try to celebrate,your success..don't scare of failure..it's a normal thing,and a failure,teaches u that u can become successful..
@@rajamurmu1436 yes you are absolutely right. Indian education system is the worst education system ever. If any students get fail the teachers said you never get success.
I can't personally comment on any student's mindset...but i must say that loosing hope is the worst thing nd committing suicide worst than that...because everything is in our hand...no pain no gain..👍
No pain , no gain 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂. But there are many people around you are successful even without struggle. And yes no pain, no gain , that means suicide is the best option 😎
What if jo aap pana chahte h bas wahi na rahe aapke sath aur na mile aapko aur uske alawa aapko kisi cheez ki chah na ho what is the meaning of life then ??
I was shifted from one board to another as my father was transferred to many times from SSC, cbse and ICSE. I failed miserably in my ninth std. My parents lost all hopes in me.I studied hard Cleared board exams with 70% aggregate. Cleared 12 with another distinction. Did BSc Com Sci with first class and also became MCA without any live KTs. So if I can move up in life anybody can. One exam or one subject does not judge your identity. Nowadays there are millions of ways to earn money and earn the so called respect in society. Please understand the almighty has given you one life please enjoy don't throw it away. Sushant Singh Rajput has said kab jeena hain kab marna hain Yeh hum decide nahi kar sakte par kaise jeena hain hum decide kar sakte hain.
I have decided that i will not die by looking that women she is like my mother and i can see anything else but not tears in my mom's eyes i love her and my other relatives love me more than anything else
I was preparing for CA ...I cleared my cpt in first attempt and started preparing for next level but I stopped going to classes in between as i felt the teachers are not good enough and I didn’t do anything for next 6 months after leaving coaching after one year i again started classes somewhere else but somehow I sto going classes again and this continued ...after having cleared cpt I couldn’t give my ipcc exam for next 2 years I was so depressed and thought of committing suicide and eventually I got convulsion attack and I my condition was like I could have paralysed or even died and that was the time when I realised the importance of life because I can become CA at any time of my life if not today definitely tomorrow but if I lose my life I won’t be able to get that back
Mujhe AK baat share karni hai....mera apna expirians hai ki jab 16 se 25 tak future ki AK acpetation hota hai. ...aur hum dreams dekh lete hai fir mehnat bhi krte hai....Lekin jab vo sapne pure nhi hote tab AK hi rasta Bach jata hai vo hai suside.....aaj shayd Mai bhi Zinda nhi rhta....Lekin tab Mai sprichul ban gya....aur 5 saal tak sprichual life Jiya...sab kuchh chhor ke AK ashram me chala gya....tab maine Jana ki life is very easy nd beautiful......jo kisi compition ki mohtaz nhi.......Akshay ki baat ho ya Aman ....Mai har ek student aur unke perents Ko btana chahunga ki Apne bachcho Ko sprichual zaroor bnaye...Bhagwan pe trust karna sikhaye....Bhagwan se pyar krna sikhaye....tab hi AK positivety devlope hogi mind me.....uper walepe bilive krna sikhaye.....mera persnol Anubhav hai ki Bhagwan pe vishawas rakhne se sab thik ho hi Jata hai.......itni si baat hai...meditation krna sikhaye.....morning 4 am Ko uthake maditaion kare.....21 dayz tak...sari bato Ko bhul kar Apne AAP Ko soul samjh kar...maditaion kare.....dhire dhire sari stress release ho jayega.....aur ha AK baat suside ke Baad bhi Aatma Ko Mukti nhi mil pati....Aatma waise hi tadapti rahti hai.....jab tak uski age puri nhi ho jati Aatma tab tak Mukti nhi milti...socho Bina body ke Aatma Ko aur problem hoga....so ye sari bate samjhata .....sprichual hona AK power hai......Ise use krna sikhaye.....taki fir se koi Aman ya Akshay is khud ke hayta na kare.......plz.....zyada info ke liye AAP mujhe contect kar skte hai.....I have a proper vidio jisme sari details hai ki suside krne ke nuksan..kya hai aur suside ke Baad Aatma Ko kya kya face krna pdta hai aur kab tak.....
I agree .... Hum sab junior classes mei yeh prayer gaate the 'HAI TERI ROSHNI MEI VOH DUM ..TU AMAVAS KO KRDE POONAM' ...pr aaj zroorat hai ispr bhrosa krne ki ... Hum yeh nahi maang skte ki mai har time top pr rahun pr yeh toh mang skte hain na ki bhgvaan g mai jahan b rhun mujhe sdbudhi dena mai khush rahun aur apne parents ko khush rkhun ...baki aap hi dekhoge bhagvaan g
Jb tk parents ka support rahta h tb tk koi bhi suicide nhi karta h, ye maine personally feel kiya h, maine 2 year failure ko jhela h kota me bt 3rd year mera selection ho gya..
Jab insaan marta hai tab sabko yaad aa jaate hai. Aur sab rone lag jaate hai. Lekin jab koi zinda rehta hai, tab log use pareshaan kar dete hai. Koi help chahta hai tab milti hi nahi. Aisi insaaniyat ho gayi hai ki jab koi mar jaaye tabhi yaad aaye, otherwise woh insaan toh kuch hai hi nahi. 😤😤😤
Being a doctor my view on this is we can't blame coaching institute .the competition is so tough coaching institute just teach the topic they don't check mental status or do counseling.they don't have time as well . if students are facing problem or feeling stressed out they should discuss it with parents and seniors who has gone through same condition.there they will get personalized attention. Many students in kota after the coaching hours get involved into various things and activities which they shld not. Coaching Teachers will not come n check that. Regular parental councelling and visits will keep a check on this. And the last thing becoming doctor or engineer is not the only options.
Yes these depend upon the family totally. However the worst role in these is played by the whole system of India. Why won't students see doctors, engineers or administrative jobs as their only option where only these are the jobs that assure you a thick salary and respect? How many people in our whole school life do we hear mentioning any other career option with the same glory they mention these three careers? The problem does not lie only with the society but also with the whole system that has been implemented upon the public by the government. In foreign countries everyone has a raised living standard be it a doctor or a sweeper. Noone enjoys privilege over another there by means of their job leave aside the kind of humans they are. No the coaching teachers are not responsible not are the directors if they do not raise their voice against these. Students should be disciplined in life not frightened.🙃
Coaching Institite hi jyada non healthy competotiom create karti hai. Aur aap jaisa kah rahe ho waisa hai to Kota mein hi jyada suicide kyu ho rahe hai
1st ball --- Zero run 2nd ball--- Zero run 3rd ball--- Zero run 4th ball--- Zero run 5th ball--- Zero run &&&& game ko samjah chuka khiladi & here is next chance & the ball is gone to log on boundary per six you r successful dear frd!! plzzz understand it! don't sucide Life is always second chance!!
but bro that single six is not enough all times.Sometime 6 sixes are needed.May be more than 6 sixes also.Then what you will do in that case.Most of the time you dont have time to understand the game.
bro your intention is not wrong.But you cant compare a suicide with hitting six in which every thing seems so simple.Actually reality is more worse and complicated.The person who suicide first try hard to save himself because there are lots of emotional connections.At some point of their life they were also confused about why people do such a nasty thing to themselves.They also feared from death.
I got 87% in my 12th boards back in 2017 and I remember I was cursing the guy who checked my additional subject and was getting depressed because my dream of getting 90+ was shattered. Though my parents were very supportive but I had this stupid emotional problem, I used to compare myself with toppers and got sad, I am 23 right now got good job but when I sometimes look at my marksheet I get annoyed but thank god I never thought of suicide uptodate and would never do it.
Without life there is no job, whether that is govt or private and not is business. Any kind of result go to hell. Don't take life too seriously because without ending it, It will definitely end one day. So enjoy it with full of love.🙌🙌🙌🙌
Believe in yourself, think about your parents, life is precious, find your happiness, why are you thinking so much about job, money, IIT, medical exam etc.these are material things .Give your time to your Parents.try to achieve your goal,give your best.But please don't become so much crazy for all these things.All the best.
There are people out there living on streets, there are people out there who are terminally ill, there are women out there who are raped, there are people out there who can't even afford education. Life is much more than failing an exam. He committed suicide it was his fault but not completely, parents, relatives, coaching institutes all are responsible equally.
I also get coaching of iit from a institute and I know what is study pressure 🙄how marks and ranks become important slowly slowly..🙄but my parents always motivate me🤗
My Friend Ashish Translated it for me......Thanks to my Asian brother.....The only thing that I will say is that students are pressurized alot.....we all do it......and we all get pressurized......there is no way....but some of us....who are softhearted.....they break on the way....
These suicide will continue until whole education system is changed. I had got 96% in 12th , due to high expectations of parents , they mad me change college and stream thrice after school. They never listen to me , what i want to do, my words aren't heard...i feel like a slave and have to do whatever they ask me to do. Now i am left with nothing to do and i was really thinking to commit suicide from past 1 month and i was planning exactly how to execute that. Suddenly this video popped in my feed 🥺🥺
I know parents in India try to live their dreams through their kids.. I have been through this situation. But plz plz plz reveal your heart through to your parents. Let them know that you are getting suicide tendencies. Apne aap dimag sahi ho jaayega unka..
Hey @@kkri2287 thank you so much for your kind words , my parents still Don't listen to me but i have learnt to survive this situation, i have decided to not take any such step and survive whatever it is 🙃 i think life is important , things may change or not ✨
@@arcturianstarseed2135 Dear life is precious so never ever think of suicide ! I know I cant understand ur pain but trust me one day everything will be alright may be not today , tomorrow , or even in a year but eventually things will turn up .You will get better and be able to look back and say with relief " I made it 😃 " If ur parents don't understand ur feelings then share ur problems with ur sibling or close frnd so that u dont feel lonely ❤️ U can do anything ...U can be anything you want to be as long as you " BELIEVE IN YOURSELF " and Work Hard . God bless u dear ❤️
Here it goes..I was preparing for pmt exam..one day I went to my sir for motivation and his words were 'forget about your selection,people are competing like anything..your preparation won't do anything'..I went back home depressed..told my parents about it..my mom said just one thing..'you will win..may be not now..but one day you surely will..and you keep doing your work..god is there to decide not these teachers..and you are always a winner for me already'..And believe me..I cleared my pmt exam that year only with good rank and now preparing for PG exams..just because my parents were my teachers..and that teacher called for interview that year..I just answered back by saying..'SIR,I GOT SELECTED BECAUSE MY PARENTS BELIEVED IN ME..NOT BECAUSE YOU TAUGHT ME..even if we don't come for interview..your business won't get affected..so people..just stick to your parents family relatives support..:)
Dr. RG inspirational😊
Very sad
Uss teacher ne uss din raat ke 2 baje tak daaru piya hoga😂😂😂😂🙏😂😂
Sadly not every parent is supportive 😭😭😭 just imagine wht ur teacher said to u once , is tht parents tell us everday while living under the same roof 😔😔😔
Not everyone is lucky to have supportive parents like yours
Parents become innocent after such happening and blame government and coaching but never understand their expectations are the building blocks of pressure
I am absolutely agree with you .
.......parents suicide karne k badh sidha sidha dusro per blame karte hai ......I am also a ex Allen student aur mai pakka bata Sakti hu ki teacher woha k kitne supportive hai management bhi bahut supportive hai woha ki .......aur mera bhi neet clear nahi hua aur maine coaching m 4 lakh laga diye the....aur uske badh parents kaise badal jate hai apke failure k badh ye maine bahut ache se mahsos kiya hai .........
FACTS! I think they pressurised them enough to do this or maybe teachers 😒😞
Parents expectations & society killed him..
@@shashankmishra87 he's right
Expections nahi insecurieties and care for our future......
These suicides would continue.. trust me.. unless we won't change our mindset, mentality, education & this obsession with Doctors & Engineers..!!
It's an obsolete education system! Education at cost of someone's life?
28 students /day it's going everyday...and you can see ads everyday of useless coding
In our lives , those people who quit , they are losers , & the one which will survive inspite of failure , they are winners , so never quit.in our lives ,. Think.about your parents ....who devoted their whole life for us ....so , I request to all , please think about our parents ... and always. Try & never quit 👍
@@ashmeetsingh362 no one is winner, no one is loser.. life is to live , not to win or lose
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I am student of Allen carrier institute. Currently m studying in kota.. hmm here is alot of pressure of education..nd none of any coaching forced any student or give any pressure to students..Its our society or relatives nd their words,hopes made tough pressure on student.. Trust me ... "Expectation" is the main reason behind kota's students suicide.
You r right .... pressure me students aise kadam udate hai
@@manu3241 yes
Relatives , expectations
Same thing is happening with me know
@@shubhamkumarjha3426 be strong bro...just face the present time...dnt think abt future....its ur present gonna decide ur futures. This world is beautiful 💖 you are gonna shine tomorrow . All the best 👍
i had also been suicidal in kota while going through this phase so i understand . but didn't have enough guts to end my life. lucky that i didnt have it then.
abha shukla salute u. I thank to God also. be happy and stay positive
abha shukla pls.dnt think of suicide dear.
me too mam .....most tensed tym of my life😖😖😖
Great
Good do
Jab insaan marta hai tab aate hai sb log, lekin jb koi jeena chahta hai , help maangta hai, to koi ni aata hai.
Exactly
Exactly. Ise sachi baat toh koi ho hi nahi sakti.
Yaa tb sb gand me danda diye rahte hain
Exactly.. Kuch nahi keh sakta abhi kisi se. Lekin jab jaunga to sab sawal karenge
भाईलोग लाइफ में कभी भी टेंशन मत लो यार,लाइफ बहुत लंबी है भगवान बहुत सारे रास्ते दिखाता है,कभी भी डरो मत,और कभी भी हार मत मानना,न जुर्म करेंगे और न ही सहेंगे,और माँ बाप का आशीर्वाद है यार कोई कुछ नही कर सकता।।
Kyu bro padai hi to h nahi hota to dubara chance le Lena bro or bahut h job
@Pawan Sarswat nhi bhaai bo us tym kaafi depressed feel kr rha tha to likha....ab theek hu
@Pawan Sarswat log aksar ma baap ko soch k karn h mrte h
bilkul shi baat ye kab samjenge
@@khilesh2026 yeh khud Maa baap ke pressure dalne ka hi natija hai. Apna ego or unfulfilled dreams ko bacche par thopte hai.
Mai khud ek Maa hoon.
आखिर क्यु मर जाने के बाद ही
सब लोग बोलते है कि बहुत अच्छा था
हमने कोई दबाव नही डाला था पढ़ाई का
सच तो ये है कि बच्चे पर दिन रात दवाब डाला जाता है पढ़ाई को ले के
Rahul singh sahi bol rahe ho
Shi bola Bhai phela parents bhenchodo ka counseling jruri h
It's true bro
Bilkul shi bat h
Shi kaha bro
Someone made my day by posting this today..
New York is 3 hours ahead of California,
but it does not make California slow.
Someone graduated at the age of 22,
but waited 5 years before securing a good job!
Someone became a CEO at 25,
and died at 50.
While another became a CEO at 50,
and lived to 90 years.
Someone is still single,
while someone else got married.
Obama retires at 55,
but Trump starts at 70.
Absolutely everyone in this world works based on their Time Zone.
People around you might seem to go ahead of you,
some might seem to be behind you.
But everyone is running their own RACE, in their own TIME.
Don’t envy them or mock them.
They are in their TIME ZONE, and you are in yours!
Life is about waiting for the right moment to act.
So, RELAX.
You’re not LATE.
You’re not EARLY.
You are very much ON TIME, and in your TIME ZONE Destiny set up for you.
In conclusion don't rush to get and don't be sad if things turn out to be slow.
In Gods hands time is a tool . He makes all things beautiful in His time.
I was really sad but yr comment gave me a new hope that i can withstand these difficulties of my life tnx
Sir aap ki age kitni h
Bhai pdh k jindgi ki sbse acchi seekh & motivation mili
Truely said life is not all about career
Thnq sir !
I don't know whether anyone would notice this confession of mine or not. I have been through this suicidal phase when I appeared my 12th exams because I was continuously thinking that I won't get passed in some subjects and how could I face this to the society because I have always been a more than average student. I remember I always notice to the fan because i was having those shit suicidal thoughts. And its something that you can't control . You feel like something negative is controlling you. But still I won. I won against those negativity . I thought about my parents . I'm the happiness of my parents , not my studies and all. I'm no one to give tears to my parents . This only thing saved me. And now I'm enjoying my life with ups and downs. But I just want to tell everyone you can't just expect good always. Worst phases come but we have to deal with that with utmost positivity. Thank you.
Since my childhood I never get good grades ... Even I failed in 10th that day my brother said me " never underestimate yourself you are inteligente but lazy In studies" after that I saw how my relatives and my friends disgrace me for fail... That was turning point of my life i always know that I have very good brain it's just that I m lazy.... Because I failed in 10th after clearing my backlog also I did not get admission in good school that I saw my father was requesting to those people but 😢😢😢... I got admision in low greade college but again in 12th I could scored more.... But my parents and brother never look down on me and slowly I got into my correct mind I have ability it's just that I have to polish myself.. and it works I scored 71.89% in my graduation .... Later in my PG I was passed with 83.56% ... People who always looked down on me now changed alot now they started looking brilliant child in me... Thanks my family who always belived in mE and encourage me to just do how much I can don't push yourself so hard that you lost yourself...
shruti jain good now what r u doing ryt now
sabiha khan hello now I working as process trainer in a good mnc and as guest lecturer in my old college ... But I m trying to crack any govt. Exams ,
shruti jain wow great so go ahead and u cn do it
sabiha khan thanqqqq sooo much ,😊😊☺☺☺ my best wishes for you also 👍👍👍
shruti jain you are legend so proud of u love from pakistan.
The real problem is guilt. Yahi lagta h ki hamare mummy papa bhi sabke parents ki tarah itti mehnat kar rai h aur fir bhi humse nahi ho raha. This is a very big reason and I have personally experienced that pain of guilt. Uss samay bas yeah yaad rakhna ki life is huge bahut saari opportunities aayengi life me. And coaching centers literally increase this guilt, they are so costly. I am studying in 12th standard pcm and am preparing for jee through integrated school classes of one of the known coaching centers of my city and that fees factor of both coaching and school really worries me at times.
yes you are right guilt and comparison are the biggest factor . but sometimes suicide is a best possible way out from all the sufferings Sometimes it is valid!!
I have also suffered this type depression ,but now I am very happy because of my loving and caring parents and I realize life is so much beautiful
from last 3 year I am not able to clear my prelims of banking exam.but I am happy and trying to improve my self and I learn from my mistake. be happy life is very beautiful enjoy it
May be the God had some big plan for you
Suraj Singh you are such a positive person
me too,still having hope.... plz plz students don't lose hope...
shivam singh
Ye line to muja farzi lgti hai....god me kuch aur plan Kiya hoga ye bus apne AAP Ko thode time ke liye satisfaction dene jaisa hai....be a fighter ...... failure means you are not performing as per the requirement .....at all parameters .......in that case either skip your goal or revaluate your goal as per your interest .......some times skip words gives better options or results than previous one you tried
very good. keep bouncing back coz its what counts for a huge success.
If you fail never give up because F.A.I.L means first attempt in learning
MAI 10th first class
aur
+2me FAIL😭
magar kuch HUNAR seekh k khush
haal jeeraha hun.
ALLAH SAB K SAATH HAI
Kya sikha bhaijaan
Marne ke bad sab log yeh kahte he lekin jab zinda hote he tab koi nahi kahta ki "beta jo karna hain karo, yeh life tumhari hain, kuch farak nahi padta ki tum kitne paise kamate ho, kya kam karte ho," real success is happiness, not money "
Stay happy, do whatever you like, it's your life, it Wii be end in just second"
So enjoy every second of life❤
I
Sorry Richa mam! But this only a blame game, parents blame coaching, coaching blame child,parent blame chidren but survive and victim only child👶. but real blame comes our society's,...sorry for hard word's lekin bacha abhi zinda hota na toh usko dekh isko dekh aur kya buri tarah torcher jhelta I am student know the pain of pressure, log darte hai yaar ek chot se, socho kitni himmat chahiye, maut KO gale lagane ke liye... JAI HIND
I am also a student ....l kw how a student go through the pressure of society and family....
@@jatinKumar-ed1qr kaha se ho!...
@@jatinKumar-ed1qr karte kya ho... Aur problem btao? Kya hua?detail me...
@@jatinKumar-ed1qrso want u want from us!
True...it's not easy to suicide, there might be something which made death feel better than life 😢😢
Winning or losing is not life....life is all about to stand again and look forward..... life is beyond failure...☺
This statement won my heart
Cliché 😑😒. Suicide is best.
When I was in 11th I was dead set about getting admission in Aakash. But my mother didn't allow me to do it. I'm inherently great full to her for not letting me become a part of the herd.
Exactly...... Baht acha kiaaa... Baht achaaa.....
Kyon akash me jane se sucide ho jata h kya
@@ashishnmch6153 Tru h bhay
@@ishanihira4305 maine to bhi kiya
@@ishanihira4305 nhi**
Tough competition,
Too much pressure
Family pressure
Unemployment
Society pressure
Peer pressure
Comparison
No motivation, appreciation.
Main depression me hun...........
@@nehamaamsarmybibhutijha2773 depression khud ko hi marega, depress hone se kuch nahi hoga, apne kamiyon pe kaam karo depression bhag jayega
I faced three times upsc Ias interview now I'm suffering from depression and my life has been spoiled
Who said that your life has been spoiled.....refer to Josh talks channel at u tube.....you'll se IAS stories..
@@nexusbeing6403 Right .
Don't worry. You still have attempts. Also, career does not always define life. You are so intelligent and capable that you are preparing for civil services. God bless you.
i too was in hostel struggling every day with depression ,anxiety. then finally one day i told my parents about this and decided to not go back to hostel and i started to do study from my city . and to live a confortable life with my family .
Same bro I leaved my study after come from hostel 🙃
Study is part of life , study is not life .
Yes you are right.
Fuckin noo study is lyf...and i have fucked it up...I have studied lot and at end i have fucked up and not revised due to this yt addiction
And either i am going to die soon or escape to some 5th dimension which is technically not possible so first option seems better
Bye
Mam aapko pata nahi kitna dabao hota hai hum par
Lode pe rakhi padai
There is no pain for parents bigger than losing their child and that too by suicide.
India is such a meritocratic society. If you are professionally unsuccessful, you are not worth anything. We have to change this sick expectation and tell the children to do their best in anything they enjoy. There are so many options in life to make decent living. So what if you don't become a doctor or engineer or IAS etc. The government should provide grants and guidance to the youth for starting businesses.
Right
Why to struggle for a decent living? It's better to teach parents , life a lesson. Suicide means peace.
@@saikatbiswas4970 correct.
The situation is very tense in India....it is very easy to say...don't commit suicide...but I personally know...it's not that easy....if u are a general category middle class student in a family where you cousins are outperforming you everytime...it becomes one hell of a life...I too have thought many times of suicide but just couldn't do it...
Same happened with me
Yes it should be noticed.
Is MAA Ka dard asahniya hai.....hey ishwar...rehem...rehem 😭
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All are dramas. An woman always cry.
Bhai yaha agar marks kam aa gaye na to bhut se friend bhi bat Nahi karte hai
Ayush Kumar Fri
Ayush Kumar exactly
भाई मैं तीन विषय में फेल हुआ फिर भी मैं हैप्पी हूं
Jin logo m kabiliyat ho unke sath rho jaruri nhi k marks jyada aane Wale hi kamayab hote hai
Ayush bhai.....koi kisi ka friend nhi hota.
Sb selfish hote h
Agar aap Apne dost se jyada progress krne lgte h to o door hone lgte h...I have no friend.
किसी exam में fail होने का मतलब
जिंदगी में fail होना नहीं हैं।
हमे हमारे education system को
बदलना होगा।
Khemraj verma u r right
MOHAMMAD Shahrukh j
Or AGR 2 baat 11th mai fail ho toh
Bittoo kuch b impossible ni h life me..fail hone se zindgi hi khtm kr lena koi solution ni h.....Addison jb 999 bar fail hokr b kuch krne ki jid ni chhode to fir hm student bs 1-2 bar fail hone pr kyu zindgi khtm kr dete h?
Kota is really death valley
U ARE RIGHT. WE HAVE TO TAKE REVENGE AGAINST THEM. INKALAAAM ZINDABAAD.
Every jee,IIT,NEET coaching institute
Kota is a suicidal centre rather than educational center 🤔# shame on teacher #
Har insan ke andr koi ne koi talented jaror hota hai
Shame on parents, their expectations are killing us
Jo bachche padhai mai normal hote hai wo etna pressure nahi lete apne upar...bhale he parents din rat bole padh padh par koi farf nahi padta unko..apni dhoon mai rehte hai wo...par jo bachche padhai mai ache hote hai wahi sabse jyada embitious or emotional hote hai..wahi jyada tar etna load le lete hai or esa kadam uthate hai...please koi esa mat karo duniya bohout badi hai..anpad log bhi kafi success ho jate hai..phir to aap log padhe likhe hoshiyar log ho..bohout kuch acha kar kar dikha sakte ho..hajaro option hai successfull banney ke liye...mast raho or man lagakar apna kam karo baki bhagwan bharkse sab chhod do..Maa baap ke ashirwad se sab acha he hoga.
In todays world there is hidden pressure on students..even though parents support them, there is always competition, and so many factors. U cannot apply direct pressure, but there are some students with their nature, they feel pressure by their own..they see day to day struggle of their parrents, their sacrifices and even though they support him/her, he/she ended up feeling pressure or urge to full fill their needs...by seeing relative kids getting job, even though parents dont say anything, they still feel bad about themselves and feel pressure..
------- Words of experience.
Children should be encouraged to play sports to help them fight depressing thoughts.. Sports helps a lot to deal with challenges of life.. You come out as a strong person.. Sports should go hand in hand with studies.. If this happens we might see dip in suicides in our country..
Us teacher ko fasi honi chahiye
@@GajabTips9758kis teacher ko
In sabka main reason pyar hai ma'am... Agar un sab bachhon ko us samay koi pyar karne wala, koi samazne wala mil gaya hota.... To shayad vo aaj jinda hote... Mushkil ye hai ki aaj ke jamane me koi apna dhundna bhott mushkil hai... Ham jise apna samazte hain, unke pass hamare liye time nhi hota, or vo ignore karte hain..... Vidambana hai yeh😔😭
Sahi kaha aur jispe bhrosa kr lete hai wo dhokha karke aur use karke chale jate hai mai is cheez se guzar chuka , but itna strong ho gaya ki kisi ka Zarurat nahi ba padhai karunga is baar aur apna college le lunga...
I am also medical student of aakash institute
I also get fully depressed only always want to be died bt I don't do
plz try to tell ur problem to ur parents
How is ur performance going ,
Dont panic
Be calm
Life is very long to perform your full.
Garima aakash acha h ya Allen for neet?? Plz reply 😢😢
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Ryt
एक लाख बच्चे 10हजार का सिलेक्शन फ़ीस एक लाख क्या करे बच्चे दिल से ध्न्यवाद यूट्यूब के शिक्षकों को जो हमारे साथ है
Even after getting qualified in advance iwas unable to get into an IIT due to general category..I request govt to give equal importance to all the casts..these useless things happen only in India
Musthaq Khan Bhai ekdam shi bat h reservation nhi hoga to cut off high nhi jaayegi aur cut off high nhi jaayegi to aaram se mehnat kerne vaalo ka selection ho jaayega . ab selection ho gya to fir koi suside kyu krega.
Jo mehnat krega usko seat mil jaayegi aur Jo nhi krega usko nhi milegi
Musthaq Khan mere saathbhiwahi hua
Apni na kamyabi reservation pe kyon thop rhe ho ..yha pressure ki bat ho ri h...
Musthaq Khan corruptions
wel come to india
Ye lundits ko bolo Bhai kutte Varna system ni hatate
The biggest illusion that students have is they think that achieving their goals will give them happiness But while happiness is a state of mind....
Loneliness is the cause of all depression..... But finding friends in that age of internet and fast life... There are a few to make friends.......I am home centred and I can understand#
Right saying brother
Have you ever seen advt. is published by any institute about condolences in the News paper about the suicide? only you can see the advt. about the performance 1 to 10 toppers idiots are running coaching there in kota
Ayan
I am sorry but you are wrong about your definition of so-called winner and lower...many of greatest winners like Abraham Lincoln had failed many times before leaving mark on history.
@Ayan Kumar Not clearing a competitive exam doesn't mean that person is a loser.. This attitude is the main root of suicide
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Main 12th main chemistry mein fail hua...toh papa ne mere saath party ki...masti ki...bole physics and maths clear...wow...ab retest mein 1 he subject hai nikal lena ho gi clear 12th....no i m earning 1 lakh per month lived happily...plz dont do these things...be brave...
Really kaise fail hogya
kaash aise parents sab ko mile
I still get suicidal thoughts, very often. I am very emotional and don't think I am mentally tough enough. Both my parents, specially my dad keeps on embarassing and humiliating me for not being able to clear the exam. Embarasses me for so much money he has to invest in me now. I just run away from these harsh steps because I just can't see them cry the way the parents in the video are crying. I've moved on after being broken by my exam, but my father is so resisting to move on. For him, IIT is everything, even if it's biotech. To anyone reading this, it might feel like I am so much against my dad, but no, I love him to my core. But my heart feels like dying. I know I will get so many opportunities even in the college I am joining, but my father does not understand this. Yes, he is right that if I can't clear the exam, I might be no good, but pls someone make him understand that I can still do better in life than many who did clear the exam. My board score of 90+% means nothing, whereas several students strive to get this too. Anyways, I just hope these thoughts never go to my extreme and I just move on ignoring these humiliations, like I am doing now. I just want to work hard and get placed in some 20 LPA+ MNC, because such companies do come in my college who offer these, and prove everyone around me wrong, including my parents, shut everyone up and show I am capable too.
You will bro i believe in u
Stay strong brother, i understand your situation 💛🙏🏻
@Sun Flower inspiring 😀 never give up , may be you are made for something even bigger than upsc 💛
Same my case,only difference is that I am a neet aspirant. My father is exactly same and my mother died when I was 10 yrs old!!!
Hey bro ... how's all going ? You are alright now ?
Please reply... please.....
Just please 🙏🥺
Nice show.It will show student what happens to their parents after suicide.They will think thousand times before doing such stuffs.
He came from a poor family , he know that his father has taken loan now there is tremendous competition in medical even more then IIT because you can do engineering from private institute but to do MBBS from private institute it takes huge donation ....so he might have felt that he will not be a doctor + loan in his mind + continuous coaching pressure. ===== SUICIDE
@Rmp 17 of course not don't event think of doing so my dear everything will be fine have faith in you there is life beyond this
Plzzzz stay happy
Yes we can understand it would be truely a very very difficult time for him
I haven't gone to any coaching centres. Got scored better from my 12th results. I was in depression , had migraine sinus attacks in 11th and 12th classes, saridon tablets 💊and my diary were my best friends that time. But, still having dissatisfaction of not getting into best clg . And, my 12th class chemistry 🧪 teacher - MR. Lokesh was not less than a monster for me , he even said me to not to go to college as me like student should not go to clg, as I'll waste my parents money. But, today I'm having that confidence to stand in front of everybody and tell that I'M AN AUTHOR AND HR - I 'HIMALI CHAKRABORTY'. 👍👍👍❤️❤️. PROUD OF MYSELF 🧿🧿🧿
Shame on those teacher's who never appreciate there students.
And keep demotatiting them.
Shame on the coaching institute who put pressure on the students.
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I lived in depression last four yrs
Little more now I overcome from it
Plz pray for me to live happily 🙏🙏🙏🙏
God always blissed you , keep faith in God everything will be fine in your life .
@@shrinaik4186 bt brother now everything is going good by the grace of Allah
So I learned one thing nothing is permanent in life comes and goes nd life is only one so always try to be live happy
@@ayyubalam9279 😇
Same is the case with me...i scored only 43 percentile in jee mains bcoz i want to do bsc physics hons. I have a lot of intrest in physics, but my father😭 he want me to do btech from iit....and on my low marks..he said to me
" Tu kch nhi kr skta zindgi me,😭😭😭, koi value nhi h teri meri nazaro me😭😭😭😭😭"...each and every day i've studied only to make him proud and in the end he said all this....😭😭😭😭.😭...i can't bear this stress and humiliation anymore😭😭😭😭😭..
Learn from this score ..u can do everything brother
I understand the neet pressure of dat guy!! Bcz I gone through that too ...😫
Same here i remember very clearly after my neet result everyone started taunting me and specially a day I remember 29july 2018 in one of our family function one of my aunt seating in front of me , i just waved at her said hii bua she said (mtlb hi ka reply bhi nhi kuch nahi aur shuru ho gyi) tujhe sharam nahi aayi kya itne kam marks lane mai wo bhi saree relatives k samne
And I was like what the hell yrrr first upon concentrate on ur kid then on others.
@@m26k-k 😭😭 true yaaar
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And now I am going
Agar kisi exam me ya studies me 1000 bar bhi fail ho na fr bhi itni himmat rkhna ki apne ma bap ke samne ja sako par hmesha ke liye unki ankho se ojhal mat hona🙏🏻
I have been to Kota for IIT JEE and could clear even mains and been through depression .
After seeing this I begin to think I am lucky to come out from there alive
I think this video is provided the best positively thoughts, inspiration to every student and parents so please kindly share this video to anyone or may be someone who needs and who is studying from his/her heart share this video... thanks..from a mother,and father...god bless u all
Dear parents please do not force Ur children let them do what they can do freely and happily please it's my request children are very sensitive and delicate
There should be mandatory courses of stress management and mental health since junior school. Because world is progressing, world has become competitive.But the mental health is ignored so much. It has much necessity.
I am one of the sufferer, plz every parents teach art of living to your children, forced him to make every moment special
Mam ur last lines , speech is very good, inspirational... thanks mam and salute to ur show
Parents thinks their children to be their property and show to world as their status symbol and always wants chindren to be according to them and always wants children to study and become somebody according to their wishes... the hard truth is that parents only love themselves not their children and the moment their children are not according their wishes all their love and affection is gone
Correct.
Sb moh Maya h bro.. parents don't love theit children they love themselves. Parent are Madarchod... These times
I'm an Mba graduate(76.28%) but because I'm a girl i can't do job...aaj meri sadi ki bat ho rhi hai...is par v mai jisse sadi karna chahti hoo usse nhi kar sakti...i told my parents everything...but aaj wo apni jid me hai...mai jinda hoo to sirf apne parents ke lia....jabki mere parents ki priority ijjat aur samaj hai ..unka sar jhukana nhi chahti thi par khul ke jina chahti thi...ma bap waqt rehte bacho ka dard samjh jaye to acha hota hai...kyuki bache v ek point ke bad har man lete hai...jab wo helpless worthless feel karne lagta hai
If you loose somewhere and want to quit please don't quit Atleast live for your parents.
mere friends kabhi bhi apne mother father ko sad mat karna kyu ki hum unse h wo hum se nahi
Abe yaar unke wjah se hi to preshan hai ki unke ley kuch nhi kar pa rahe hai 😢
Parents become innocent after such happening and blame government but never understand their expectations are the building blocks of pressure
@@mahakalkabhakt8737 right bhai maa baap ka sapna pura nahi kar pa raha hu
Sahi
Maa baap ki wajah se to persaan h ki kuch nahi kar paye maa baap ke liye
हर जीवन अनमोल होता है । किसी भी हार से जिन्दगी खत्म नहीं होती । अगर आपके लिए एक रास्ता बंद हो जाय तो अपने लिए दूसरा रास्ता ढूंढो ....पर ईश्वर की दी हुई इस अनमोल जिंदगी को खत्म करने की ना सोचों । ऐसा करके आप अपनों के लिए और खास कर अपने माता-पिता के लिए कभी ना खत्म होने वाली दुःख का कारण बन जाओगे ।
So sad....😪😪😰😢😪😪😰😰😢
Allah aapko himmat de...kisi k saath aisa na ho
Insallah ye aasu us teacher ko barbad krdega
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This is video is for evry student 😢😢who is preparing for exam and is depressed just once think that this how your parents will be
Coincidences yet no coincidence :
My name is Aman Gupta too.
My brother is called Chotu too.
I prepared for JEE in 2013-2014 in Allen(Kota).
I also topped in class 10th on my school.
I had similar goals then and come from a small town from Chitrakoot Uttar Pradesh.
But after failing in the JEE 2013,now I have done my graduation and gave iit jam 2019 to get into IIT and passed this time.
But I will never forget those tough times when I could not clear JEE and had plenty of wrong things going in my mind at that time but the thing that I had in my mind was life is way more than this.
I would say these failures don't define you but the way you fight it out these tough times and rise over these will define.
Currently pursuing my masters of Science in Mathematics from IIT Madras, last year one girl committed suicide there too but again I would say academics, results and all these things are not something which will decide your future.
We are stuck in these small time successes way too much that we don't really enjoy our life.
Life has much more to explore.
Don't give up. 🙏
Hellow bhaiya 🙏🏻
I am also from chitrakoot and preparing for jee ....
This incident depicts,the how cruel and selfish is indian society...when u get fail,no one come to rescue u..and when u get success,everyone come and try to celebrate,your success..don't scare of failure..it's a normal thing,and a failure,teaches u that u can become successful..
That race in which every child is pushed in should end now
Shame on that teacher.
Nhi yarr ye pure kota ki condition h
You
No mam shame on our Indian fucking Education system.. people believe that if a child fails in exam ...you will never achicve anything or succesfull...
@@rajamurmu1436 yes you are absolutely right. Indian education system is the worst education system ever. If any students get fail the teachers said you never get success.
@@rajamurmu1436 but it's right no company hires you if u have good in exams
जीवन में टेन्शन होती है लेकिन जीवन खत्म करना उपाय नही है etv की सबसे best एन्कर
I can't personally comment on any student's mindset...but i must say that loosing hope is the worst thing nd committing suicide worst than that...because everything is in our hand...no pain no gain..👍
True it is very painful sis
No pain , no gain 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂.
But there are many people around you are successful even without struggle. And yes no pain, no gain , that means suicide is the best option 😎
What if jo aap pana chahte h bas wahi na rahe aapke sath aur na mile aapko aur uske alawa aapko kisi cheez ki chah na ho what is the meaning of life then ??
ज़िन्दगी बहुत कठिन है परंतु जान देने से बहुत सरल।
suicide in Kota means Allen institute...why everytime Allen..
ASAD KHAN
It creates pressure
Allen ki maki chut
Allen badhwa hai.
Maine bhi padha tha 1 saal ke liye itna pressure nahi le paunga sala chutiya bana te hai
I was shifted from one board to another as my father was transferred to many times from SSC, cbse and ICSE. I failed miserably in my ninth std. My parents lost all hopes in me.I studied hard Cleared board exams with 70% aggregate. Cleared 12 with another distinction. Did BSc Com Sci with first class and also became MCA without any live KTs. So if I can move up in life anybody can. One exam or one subject does not judge your identity. Nowadays there are millions of ways to earn money and earn the so called respect in society. Please understand the almighty has given you one life please enjoy don't throw it away. Sushant Singh Rajput has said kab jeena hain kab marna hain Yeh hum decide nahi kar sakte par kaise jeena hain hum decide kar sakte hain.
I have decided that i will not die by looking that women she is like my mother and i can see anything else but not tears in my mom's eyes i love her and my other relatives love me more than anything else
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I am big fan of richa ji.zindgi with richa ek aisa show.hai jo sab show ka baap hai.thanks richa madam.
I am also feeling bad for my self..., But I have not girth to commit suicide..
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Thanks it's always remind me my importance of my parents tear.
i feel lucky i was a fail in school..
best show in the world.
jindagi return
The biggest slap on education system on education system of India
101%helplessly feeling down
Parent and society are most responsible because they doesn't give proper guidance...
I was preparing for CA ...I cleared my cpt in first attempt and started preparing for next level but I stopped going to classes in between as i felt the teachers are not good enough and I didn’t do anything for next 6 months after leaving coaching after one year i again started classes somewhere else but somehow I sto going classes again and this continued ...after having cleared cpt I couldn’t give my ipcc exam for next 2 years I was so depressed and thought of committing suicide and eventually I got convulsion attack and I my condition was like I could have paralysed or even died and that was the time when I realised the importance of life because I can become CA at any time of my life if not today definitely tomorrow but if I lose my life I won’t be able to get that back
U did right
How's your situation now
Mujhe AK baat share karni hai....mera apna expirians hai ki jab 16 se 25 tak future ki AK acpetation hota hai. ...aur hum dreams dekh lete hai fir mehnat bhi krte hai....Lekin jab vo sapne pure nhi hote tab AK hi rasta Bach jata hai vo hai suside.....aaj shayd Mai bhi Zinda nhi rhta....Lekin tab Mai sprichul ban gya....aur 5 saal tak sprichual life Jiya...sab kuchh chhor ke AK ashram me chala gya....tab maine Jana ki life is very easy nd beautiful......jo kisi compition ki mohtaz nhi.......Akshay ki baat ho ya Aman ....Mai har ek student aur unke perents Ko btana chahunga ki Apne bachcho Ko sprichual zaroor bnaye...Bhagwan pe trust karna sikhaye....Bhagwan se pyar krna sikhaye....tab hi AK positivety devlope hogi mind me.....uper walepe bilive krna sikhaye.....mera persnol Anubhav hai ki Bhagwan pe vishawas rakhne se sab thik ho hi Jata hai.......itni si baat hai...meditation krna sikhaye.....morning 4 am Ko uthake maditaion kare.....21 dayz tak...sari bato Ko bhul kar Apne AAP Ko soul samjh kar...maditaion kare.....dhire dhire sari stress release ho jayega.....aur ha AK baat suside ke Baad bhi Aatma Ko Mukti nhi mil pati....Aatma waise hi tadapti rahti hai.....jab tak uski age puri nhi ho jati Aatma tab tak Mukti nhi milti...socho Bina body ke Aatma Ko aur problem hoga....so ye sari bate samjhata .....sprichual hona AK power hai......Ise use krna sikhaye.....taki fir se koi Aman ya Akshay is khud ke hayta na kare.......plz.....zyada info ke liye AAP mujhe contect kar skte hai.....I have a proper vidio jisme sari details hai ki suside krne ke nuksan..kya hai aur suside ke Baad Aatma Ko kya kya face krna pdta hai aur kab tak.....
Bilkul shi
Is bath par 1 like or 1 comments kaffie nahi ha aap jo v ho aapke bath such ha sahie ha
Abe chal aashram me ladkiya jayengi
I agree ....
Hum sab junior classes mei yeh prayer gaate the 'HAI TERI ROSHNI MEI VOH DUM ..TU AMAVAS KO KRDE POONAM' ...pr aaj zroorat hai ispr bhrosa krne ki ...
Hum yeh nahi maang skte ki mai har time top pr rahun pr yeh toh mang skte hain na ki bhgvaan g mai jahan b rhun mujhe sdbudhi dena mai khush rahun aur apne parents ko khush rkhun ...baki aap hi dekhoge bhagvaan g
Jb tk parents ka support rahta h tb tk koi bhi suicide nhi karta h, ye maine personally feel kiya h, maine 2 year failure ko jhela h kota me bt 3rd year mera selection ho gya..
There must be a counsellor in every school ,any teacher who is very friendly with the students so that the students can share anything with them
Lekin teachers bhi adhe Madarchod hote hain
Jab insaan marta hai tab sabko yaad aa jaate hai. Aur sab rone lag jaate hai. Lekin jab koi zinda rehta hai, tab log use pareshaan kar dete hai. Koi help chahta hai tab milti hi nahi. Aisi insaaniyat ho gayi hai ki jab koi mar jaaye tabhi yaad aaye, otherwise woh insaan toh kuch hai hi nahi. 😤😤😤
Being a doctor my view on this is we can't blame coaching institute .the competition is so tough coaching institute just teach the topic they don't check mental status or do counseling.they don't have time as well .
if students are facing problem or feeling stressed out they should discuss it with parents and seniors who has gone through same condition.there they will get personalized attention.
Many students in kota after the coaching hours get involved into various things and activities which they shld not. Coaching Teachers will not come n check that.
Regular parental councelling and visits will keep a check on this.
And the last thing becoming doctor or engineer is not the only options.
Yes these depend upon the family totally. However the worst role in these is played by the whole system of India. Why won't students see doctors, engineers or administrative jobs as their only option where only these are the jobs that assure you a thick salary and respect? How many people in our whole school life do we hear mentioning any other career option with the same glory they mention these three careers? The problem does not lie only with the society but also with the whole system that has been implemented upon the public by the government. In foreign countries everyone has a raised living standard be it a doctor or a sweeper. Noone enjoys privilege over another there by means of their job leave aside the kind of humans they are. No the coaching teachers are not responsible not are the directors if they do not raise their voice against these. Students should be disciplined in life not frightened.🙃
Coaching Institite hi jyada non
healthy competotiom create karti hai.
Aur aap jaisa kah rahe ho waisa hai to Kota mein hi jyada suicide kyu ho rahe hai
1st ball --- Zero run
2nd ball--- Zero run
3rd ball--- Zero run
4th ball--- Zero run
5th ball--- Zero run
&&&& game ko samjah chuka khiladi & here is next chance & the ball is gone to log on boundary per six
you r successful dear frd!!
plzzz understand it!
don't sucide
Life is always second chance!!
but bro that single six is not enough all times.Sometime 6 sixes are needed.May be more than 6 sixes also.Then what you will do in that case.Most of the time you dont have time to understand the game.
+MAYANK SRIVASTAVA
ri8
but bro sabhi khiladi nahi marte na 6 pe 6
unko time lag sakta he game ko samajhne kelie
bro your intention is not wrong.But you cant compare a suicide with hitting six in which every thing seems so simple.Actually reality is more worse and complicated.The person who suicide first try hard to save himself because there are lots of emotional connections.At some point of their life they were also confused about why people do such a nasty thing to themselves.They also feared from death.
Mam aapko mai salute krta huu,,,,,u r the greatest person in the world😀😀😀😁😁😁😀
I got 87% in my 12th boards back in 2017 and I remember I was cursing the guy who checked my additional subject and was getting depressed because my dream of getting 90+ was shattered. Though my parents were very supportive but I had this stupid emotional problem, I used to compare myself with toppers and got sad, I am 23 right now got good job but when I sometimes look at my marksheet I get annoyed but thank god I never thought of suicide uptodate and would never do it.
I cried a lot today..i can feel the emotions of this perents
Bro studying is the only way a person can ever become rich. Sad but true without a rank no one gives a job.
Without life there is no job, whether that is govt or private and not is business. Any kind of result go to hell. Don't take life too seriously because without ending it, It will definitely end one day. So enjoy it with full of love.🙌🙌🙌🙌
Believe in yourself, think about your parents, life is precious, find your happiness, why are you thinking so much about job, money, IIT, medical exam etc.these are material things .Give your time to your Parents.try to achieve your goal,give your best.But please don't become so much crazy for all these things.All the best.
There are people out there living on streets, there are people out there who are terminally ill, there are women out there who are raped, there are people out there who can't even afford education. Life is much more than failing an exam. He committed suicide it was his fault but not completely, parents, relatives, coaching institutes all are responsible equally.
I also get coaching of iit from a institute and I know what is study pressure 🙄how marks and ranks become important slowly slowly..🙄but my parents always motivate me🤗
Richa mam you are doing best real job of the world
So love and respect mam
My Friend Ashish Translated it for me......Thanks to my Asian brother.....The only thing that I will say is that students are pressurized alot.....we all do it......and we all get pressurized......there is no way....but some of us....who are softhearted.....they break on the way....
Aisi padai ka kya faida jo sabko zindagi se hi chutkara dila de😣😫😫😥😥
Maa baap ke liye jiyo
@@ambadaswayalpatil9337 wah maa baap ke liye jiyo Chahe kitna bhi struggle karna pade nehi ? kyon kis liye.😂
These suicide will continue until whole education system is changed.
I had got 96% in 12th , due to high expectations of parents , they mad me change college and stream thrice after school. They never listen to me , what i want to do, my words aren't heard...i feel like a slave and have to do whatever they ask me to do.
Now i am left with nothing to do and i was really thinking to commit suicide from past 1 month and i was planning exactly how to execute that.
Suddenly this video popped in my feed 🥺🥺
Plz aisa kabhi mt karna yr. Parents die every single day..
I know parents in India try to live their dreams through their kids..
I have been through this situation.
But plz plz plz reveal your heart through to your parents. Let them know that you are getting suicide tendencies. Apne aap dimag sahi ho jaayega unka..
Talk to me if needed . Tell your family what you are feeling . If they dont listen then talk to me plz yr
Hey @@kkri2287 thank you so much for your kind words , my parents still Don't listen to me but i have learnt to survive this situation, i have decided to not take any such step and survive whatever it is 🙃 i think life is important , things may change or not ✨
@@arcturianstarseed2135 Dear life is precious so never ever think of suicide !
I know I cant understand ur pain but trust me one day everything will be alright may be not today , tomorrow , or even in a year but eventually things will turn up .You will get better and be able to look back and say with relief " I made it 😃 "
If ur parents don't understand ur feelings then share ur problems with ur sibling or close frnd so that u dont feel lonely ❤️
U can do anything ...U can be anything you want to be as long as you " BELIEVE IN YOURSELF " and Work Hard .
God bless u dear ❤️
RichaAnirudh mam u r too good in your profession...