Breaking the cycle of pain and being the parent you wished you had is one of the strongest and most healing things you can do ❤ Your kids are lucky to have you
This is beautiful! I love how you're proving that crafting is a type of recreational therapy. Thank you for doing this. It makes me feel better about crafting
No actually with the way things are going resources are much too scarce, her daughter will likely never own a home and these toys will end up amongst the billions of metric tons of other waste. On top of that the more kids born today is directly equal to the more kids dying of starvation tomorrow so if you are maternal at all and don’t enjoy child suffering you wouldn’t have kids at all.
@@thecreationproject7005 cold hard facts right there. I used to want kids when I was younger, but the older I get the less I’d ever want to bring a child into this world. I don’t want to have to watch my children or my grandchildren suffer in the future
At first I was thinking"no kid needs all that!" then I realized it was because I was jealous. I grew up poor I didn't have things like this as a kid I'm just so glad that your babygirl could have such a wonderfulmom.Shalom
@@falconman3534 not the bakery itself, but children need care, attention and love and if she has the means and time to show her affection with a diy bakery, then so be it. The daughter will cherish the time and effort her mother put into it. If not now, then when she's older.
@@falconman3534they may not NEED it, but this shows that her mom cares, and it feels great to know someone cares about you, of course care can be shown in other ways, but this is still showing that she loves her daughter
@falconman3534 Yea they don't NEED it. A homemade toy isn't necessary for survival, but it _is_ a product of love from a mother. This mother did not have to hand make these toys, she could've bought them online or in store, but she didn't. She chose to make it herself, because she wanted to. It's also not a bad thing if even if she bought the toys from a store, but she went out of her way to work hard and spend a lot of time on this project. She dedicated the time and effort for her child and it shows just how much she loves her child with these beautiful handcrafted toys.
@@falconman3534well, they kinda do. pretend play is critical for child development and knowing your mom made that for you shows the child that they are loved
Even though I know I have a good life, I still feel for those who don’t or didn’t, and I can tell you that your doing great. Your daughter is gonna have a good childhood and probably adulthood because your her mom.❤
This makes me so happy… my dad spent multiple summers building a mini sort of house-treehouse and swing set and slide for me and my older sibling. We loved it so much… I remember standing over my dad while he was building it and asking over and over when it would be done 😭
My dad did the same for myself & my 2 younger brothers. Especially the huge hole he dug out in the yard (took a whole summer) to build a spot to put in one of those circle above ground pools. Not the fancy ones. It was a huge blow up pool but, I have endless memories bc of it. Not to mention one of my brothers isn't biologically related to my dad he has been dad since he was less than a year old. I absolutely love my dad. I wish every child could experience the same feeling. It's not fair 😔
@@baileyarnold2020 I agree. It should be a universal experience to be able to bond with your parents like that ❤️ At the beginning of Covid my dad bought and maintained a blowup pool as well, because me and my older sibling were really sad about not being able to go to the pool over the summer. He was doing so much work for us to be able to have fun like a normal summer 💕
@@UMMMMMMM.....GUYSSSSS oh how awesome!! Something that seems like no big deal to some can make the biggest difference to others so, I'm glad you got to have something to help get through the summer of covid. I know it was a rough year 😭 That was so nice of him 😊
I’m still basically a child, and I’m crying over this. *Thank you.* ❤ Edit: bro I’ve created this like little family of traumatised children, I did not expect that. But still, Welcome to the fam! Let’s go through this together.
I'm 36 years old and I teared up watching this. My mom did her best to create special moments for me like this, and seeing you do the same for your daughter is the ultimate act of love and care for both you AND her. Thank you so much for sharing this with us
and just the fact that you didn’t make it all modern and beige just makes me so happy, I see so many influencer moms each day, one made their entire child’s closet beige, pink, and like the tiniest bit of purple.
Trust me with this - if you patch something back together, if you can make something from scratch, if you can repair split seams... You can sew. I'm not great myself, but I can repair clothes when they get holes. I fixed a hoodie years ago and it's not an invisible fix, but literally nobody notices unless I point it out. I've fixed bags, work pants, got extra life out of socks, replaced buttons etc All you can do is build on your skills, I'm not a professional by any means, but I can definitely get by haha
what if they dont need what you needed ? I dont have child yet, and I LOVE those types of projects just like you, but I wonder what if you put so much efforts but thats not really their thing
How sweet, Mama! You gave your daughter the most wonderful gift. YOU, your love & creativity, and your inner child. Your French Patisserie is simply marvelous.
@@nataliadapkus5214 love isnt just buying stuff or making it for ur kid, just being there for them in their ups and downs, comforting them, making them feel loved is enough, not all parents have the money or time 😀
sometimes my mother has moments like this, even though many of her children are adults now. her mother left when she was six years old, and she made sure she was the best mother she could be. i often get random moments throughout the day where i’m just like “i love my mom”. i’m sure your children will feel the same when they enter the world. i’ve really grown to appreciate everything she did for me, even the things i thought were annoying. i make sure to give her a call every day.
I’m glad ur mom cares! In my family though (especially my culture as a whole) emotionally abusing kids is unfortunately really normalized and my mom didnt really break this cycle with me and my brother either so, even though she takes care of me and (pretty rarely) shows signs of acknowledging what i like, most of the time she’s just emotionally abusing me and making me feel worthless. It’s always a cycle or spoiling me with things that i like for one day and then spend the rest of the week making me feel awful and saying she regrets having kids because of me.
my mommy made something similar for me except it was a flower shop, we were poor and couldn't afford playsets back so my mommy made a diy flowershop stand with flowers made out of ribbons and shiny fabrics(she used to be the local tailor) and everyday I cherished and remembered that diy playset more than my other toys. Definitely gave me interesting childhood memories too
Honestly, even as someone who has a great and loving mom who sacrificed everything for me, this just brings tears to my eyes 🥹 I think it's the fact that you put in so much effort and you did it by hand, putting so much love into every little detail... And just imagining the pure joy your daughter must feel when she plays with this set is almost too much for my heart to handle ❤
this is beatiful thank you for making your kids as happy as you wish you were it makes me think that you're just such a geat mom keep doing what your doing
That little girl will walk into that room and remember the happiness she felt for the rest of her life. What you’ve given her isn’t just a beautiful play patisserie, it’s an everlasting wonderful memory of what her mother did for her & how much she was loved ❤️❤️❤️
I’m eleven, and I’m literally crying watching this. I cannot be more thankful that there are people out there that give their children/family/friends, etc, these awesome gifts. I don’t have a mother, and my family is relatively poor, so we can’t afford to have these things. Thank you for succeeding and being an awesome mother. You are a good woman.
I am so sorry that you have to face situations like this. I also near your age and I also didn't have a really happy childhood. I understand how you feel. But don't worry, things will soon be fine. Please stay strong and take care and I hope you have a good day or night. God Bless You ❤️ And yes, I recommend you not to share your information such as age on the internet. It can be dangerous. So, please be careful and stay safe.
Your parenting and creativity are more than what many of us had or have. You have brought happiness to your child and to at least 1;626 of us. Thank you.
No swearing:👍 No sexist jokes: 👍 No sexual content: 👍 No brainrot: 👍 No abuse: 👍 No meanness: 👍 No bullying: 👍 No making fun of serious illnesses/diseases:👍 This is what youtube should fricking look like ❤
I just wanted to add for *anyone that feels sad they aren’t able to do this for their kids…* *this is not the measure of being a good mom.* You can still be a good parent, even if you aren’t able to afford this and do all of the extra. Your kids will only remember if there were there for them.
Exactly. This is beautiful but it's not realistic for everyone. This is a ton of effort and I'm sure her kids love it, but it's not necessary to be a good parent.
I think what most people are not understanding is the primary motivation is content creation. Y’all would do this for your child too if you built an audience and got paid
Agree! Whenever I make something from a box my kids like it more than spending hundreds of dollars on toys. They imagine with what they have. Watching them take such an ordinary object and using it 10 different ways to fit their role play gives me more joy than when I've bought that "perfect" store bought gift that is just tossed aside a week later because it's boring. I'm sorry for whatever she is healing from, but she's going to make a lot of women feel like less of a mom because they don't have the money for expensive rattan furniture or the time to hand make toys.
One of our kids very favourite things to do is "family time". This basically entails us and them messing around on our bed, us tickling them as much as possible and tossing them onto the bed and them trying to give us bruises as they climb/jump/stand etc on us 😂 no big creative projects, no money needed, just fun for half an hour or an hour and a lot of laughs. It doesn't need to be fancy or extravagant to give your kids a great childhood.
I was blessed because my mom stayed home during the day and she worked evenings while my dad worked during the day. I have a disabled brother, and that was the only way my family could afford to take care of him. But she would spend what precious little spare time she had sewing me the most beautiful full doll clothes. And I still have every single piece that she's ever sewed me. Sadly, she passed last year and I told her so many times what a great mom she was. I just hope she really knew it. Yeah, i'm crying like a baby right now. ❤❤❤ Your child is so lucky & will take these memories with her for the rest of her life
my aunt used to turn my room into a shopping market when i was little . My mom and dad weren’t around and she always tried her hardest and we definitely felt it. All the love you have for your kids will be recognized
this is one thing my inner child is so grateful for today!! my mom made me, by hand, a play kitchen. it had a stove, a cupboard, and shelves, and it was beautiful painted in red and white. it wasnt nearly so fancy as yours, but she would take stuff like the tiny cereal boxes from hotels and fill them with dry macaroni for the kitchen. she tried her best at making pretend food for us to play with, and it was the most treasured gift of my entire childhood.
Exactly! This is the cutest bakery set I’ve ever seen! It really looks so professional.That’s the one thing I’ve been most struck by since having my daughter almost 2 years ago, the amount of healing that was brought to my soul lol😅 I know my parents tried their best and I know my father is on the spectrum so I have a lot more empathy for him now and all the things he would say to me not meaning to hurt my feelings or scar me so deeply. But we still all have trauma to heal from regardless. That’s why we are here on this world, becoming a parent is such a blessing😂
There are so many reasons I wanna cry😢. The whole display is adorable and aesthetic, but it doesn't remove fun colors like so many parents do. Plus, there was time and love put into this and I love that so much
As someone who never had the best mom and an absent dad, I had to grow up quickly and never got a true childhood, so when I get to help at a school or teach in a group of little ones, I get so excited. when I tell you this video absolutely made my day. Thank you ❤
You’re so gentle and loving, I’m crying. I don’t have a good relationship with my parents and when my mother passed I could never repair that connection ever again. I want a mom like you. 🥹
I remember being 7 and asking my mom to join me in a tea party, she was scrolling on her phone and said she was busy and to this day never joined me on one, seeing this video makes me really happy to know your daughter has such a loving mother that does things like this for her 💛
It brings out a much needed creative side to yourself… it greatly expands your self esteem and inspiration! Keep going and trying new things! At 63 it has always kept me young and in awe if so many great things one can accomplish!
I wish more mothers were like this with their daughters. It's sad so many mothers see their daughters as competition or as a problem child . Instead of protecting them and healing themselves by treating their daughters right. You're a wonderful mom.
EXACTLY im always sick of my mom comparing me to like everyone, and of her telling me im the “problematic” child even though i try my best to become better. Yet my brother always gets all the praise because he’s the “good child” and he’s the youngest 😭
@@Konata_TheRappa07- reading up on narcissistic mothers may help you in dealing with her. And the ones that are treated like the 'golden child' usually end up being entitled & narcissistic just like the parent who spoiled them, unfortunately. It is awful being the 'problem child' but it does make us self sufficient and resilient.
I’m 33, and I want this so badly. You are talented, chica. You could start a whole shop, making these lil playsets for many children ❤ What a wonderful mother you are, bless 💫💕💕💕
I think this comment is not needed. She could be caring and amazing without making a DIY bakery at 1am. We should stop putting expectations that high. Don't get me wrong. This video made me cry remembering every attentions my parents gave me. It's amazing what she did for her daughter. But that's not what makes you a good mother. What's makes her a good mother is that she spend time for something her kid likes. My grand-mother's mother was awful with her, a monster really. She did all bad thing to her, even forcing her to marry an old man when she was only 16yo. Even the DIY Barbie dress she made for my grandmother couldn't erase all the bad things she did to her. It's not the gift that's important, it's the intention and love around it.
@@eloise6660 Thats what I mean, she stayed up late for her child, I'm not saying mothers should stay up late for their children because mines didn't and she still was an amazing mother, Im saying her staying up late shows us how much work she put in for her kids which makes her a good mother
@@eloise6660 Also the comment section is to comment what we want on TH-cam, I try to keep most of my comments positive and not hatred or targeted towards others
This comment is why no one values women. If they are not up loosing sleep hand making things for others who will play with it a couple days before loosing interest…they aren’t seen as a good mother. Trust me…children prefer if you get enough sleep so you aren’t cranky at them the next day and have enough energy to take them to the park. They don’t care about stuff…and the mum is going to feel hurt of her daughter throws this gift around or maybe doesn’t even care less about itn
This is the kind of beautiful effort and attention to detail, that I Loooooove to see from a parent. You make me feel soo proud ❤ Well done Momma ❤ I'm a single Momma of three Sons, I'm all they have so I go above and beyond for each and every one of them. I don't have a relationship with my own mother, so I vowed to always maintain a special bond with my boys ❤🙏🏾
Being the mother I never had 🥹❤ that was so sweet to hear and be reminded of! Thank you for your lesson shared! What a lovely way of bonding with your child.
I'm 13 and I'm crying, even though my mom is amazing I understood and even felt my inter child pain healing as well. This really made a impact on me. Thank you for being an amazing Mom.
@@katherinedelacruz9876 13 isn't a child, it's a teenager. A minor yes, but not a child. Children are prepubescent and between 1-12 years old. We can never get back those formative years.
"Child" is just a word. There is no age limit in playing and having fun with toys. I am 14, and last year I was crying over not being able to play on a playground with my cousin like I used to but this year I decided that even though I'm not a "child" I can still enjoy my self. As long as you don't break any rules, you can still play at the park on the swings and slides. Me playing there inspired a boy my age who was shy to play to come play with us.
You ever wonder how much a playset or toy can influence a kid and their future passion? When I was a kid I had always loved animals and had plenty of stuffed animals for days. I also had a doctor kit I would use with them. Now I’m applying to colleges to pursue my passion of zoology ❤
not yall just hanging out at the french bakery 😭❤️ that is so precious on its own. then you showed her (again) that you’re always thinking of her. i need to call my mom 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Omg you made me cry. I never had the mother I wanted or deserved. I was severely abused and have never had any family. This is the kind of mother I wanted. Thank you for giving her what so many of us don’t have and deserve. I’m an adult now but still find myself searching for a mother and a family.
Nice job Mama your inner child gives you a hug and a kiss and says thank you the same way your daughter will when she sees it that is some talented work
Oh! So true!!! I healed my inner child by being the mother I didn’t have. So grateful to God that helped me to see I could mother differently and love unconditionally.
That is so beautiful! I’m a grown woman and professional pastry chef, but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t about to go out and buy some felt to make little pastries for myself. I hope your daughter continues to hold on to her passion for food- it’s a wonderful thing to nurture even if you don’t follow that path in life. Best wishes to you and your daughter 💕
my younger self would’ve loved this so much. i am now in the process of starting my own baking business and for you to create such these precious moments and memories for your daughter all by hand really shows how much love you have for her ❤
Wow. Everything is so beautiful. I love love love that not only are you giving her this but you are hand making nearly all of it. Theres so much love and dedication in that. I'm in my 30s and I still treasure many of the things my grandma made me when I was younger. Shes gone now and they're all i have left of her. But they are physical reminders of the love she had for me. I'm sure your daughter will cherish the memories made. ❤
Breaking the cycle of pain and being the parent you wished you had is one of the strongest and most healing things you can do ❤ Your kids are lucky to have you
Yeah I except the whole point is to do it BEFORE you have kids
@@thecreationproject7005 Absolutely
I may be young but this is what I will do for my kid
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I'm a full-grown adult, and I want this! Beautifully done!
Thanks friend! 🥰
Yassss!! She is incredible
What an Amazing Gift (Talent) you have been Given ❤❤ Your Daughter is So Blessed! Artist!
Me too, me too
@@makeitwithmicahc-can I have a sleepover
"My inner child was telling me thank you for being the mother that i never had". I felt that 100% 😢
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you can hear her voice about to cry at that part
This is beautiful! I love how you're proving that crafting is a type of recreational therapy. Thank you for doing this. It makes me feel better about crafting
Your daughter will look back someday when she’s an adult and find this in her attic. It’s gonna bring back lots of childhood memories.
No actually with the way things are going resources are much too scarce, her daughter will likely never own a home and these toys will end up amongst the billions of metric tons of other waste. On top of that the more kids born today is directly equal to the more kids dying of starvation tomorrow so if you are maternal at all and don’t enjoy child suffering you wouldn’t have kids at all.
@@thecreationproject7005 I bet you’re fun at parties
@@thecreationproject7005 mf what.?
just why
@@thecreationproject7005 cold hard facts right there. I used to want kids when I was younger, but the older I get the less I’d ever want to bring a child into this world. I don’t want to have to watch my children or my grandchildren suffer in the future
At first I was thinking"no kid needs all that!" then I realized it was because I was jealous. I grew up poor I didn't have things like this as a kid I'm just so glad that your babygirl could have such a wonderfulmom.Shalom
its also... true that no child needs a diy bakery. its not like. in the hierarchy of needs.
@@falconman3534 not the bakery itself, but children need care, attention and love and if she has the means and time to show her affection with a diy bakery, then so be it.
The daughter will cherish the time and effort her mother put into it. If not now, then when she's older.
@@falconman3534they may not NEED it, but this shows that her mom cares, and it feels great to know someone cares about you, of course care can be shown in other ways, but this is still showing that she loves her daughter
@falconman3534 Yea they don't NEED it. A homemade toy isn't necessary for survival, but it _is_ a product of love from a mother. This mother did not have to hand make these toys, she could've bought them online or in store, but she didn't. She chose to make it herself, because she wanted to.
It's also not a bad thing if even if she bought the toys from a store, but she went out of her way to work hard and spend a lot of time on this project. She dedicated the time and effort for her child and it shows just how much she loves her child with these beautiful handcrafted toys.
@@falconman3534well, they kinda do. pretend play is critical for child development and knowing your mom made that for you shows the child that they are loved
I wasn't trying to cry tonight
Aww friend 🥹
This women is amazing for doing this for her daughter! What a delightful blessing. It would make anyone cry, very touching. ❤❤❤
Well all are❤
yeah me neither 😭
Why is it not okay to cry? 😂😂😂 Crying is healing! So happy you are getting the demons out of you.
Even though I know I have a good life, I still feel for those who don’t or didn’t, and I can tell you that your doing great. Your daughter is gonna have a good childhood and probably adulthood because your her mom.❤
“For being the mother that I never had”, boy I felt that. Gorgeous, I wish you many happy memories and fun times together with your daughter.
That sentence hit me, too. I am so glad, she is breaking the cycle.
This makes me so happy… my dad spent multiple summers building a mini sort of house-treehouse and swing set and slide for me and my older sibling. We loved it so much… I remember standing over my dad while he was building it and asking over and over when it would be done 😭
That's a great dad! ❤
@@ShahiMehndi He’s really amazing!! ❤️❤️
My dad did the same for myself & my 2 younger brothers. Especially the huge hole he dug out in the yard (took a whole summer) to build a spot to put in one of those circle above ground pools. Not the fancy ones. It was a huge blow up pool but, I have endless memories bc of it. Not to mention one of my brothers isn't biologically related to my dad he has been dad since he was less than a year old. I absolutely love my dad. I wish every child could experience the same feeling. It's not fair 😔
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I agree. It should be a universal experience to be able to bond with your parents like that ❤️
At the beginning of Covid my dad bought and maintained a blowup pool as well, because me and my older sibling were really sad about not being able to go to the pool over the summer. He was doing so much work for us to be able to have fun like a normal summer 💕
@@UMMMMMMM.....GUYSSSSS oh how awesome!! Something that seems like no big deal to some can make the biggest difference to others so, I'm glad you got to have something to help get through the summer of covid. I know it was a rough year 😭 That was so nice of him 😊
I’m a middle aged woman & I’m absolutely sobbing. What a beautiful thing you have done, you’re a wonderful mama ❤
Wow ❤❤❤
SO FABULOUS!! That's all we can do--re-write our own childhood.
Can you please make a tutorial for those lovely macarons and French pastries? I want to make them for my son
I’m still basically a child, and I’m crying over this.
*Thank you.* ❤
Edit: bro I’ve created this like little family of traumatised children, I did not expect that. But still, Welcome to the fam! Let’s go through this together.
Same here, SunnyDrop, same here.
Same I want be a baker
Me to
I’m basically still a child to but I have to act like a adult around outhers
I’m right here with you guys 😭
I'm 36 years old and I teared up watching this. My mom did her best to create special moments for me like this, and seeing you do the same for your daughter is the ultimate act of love and care for both you AND her. Thank you so much for sharing this with us
You're so fortunate to have that. I sometimes have doubts I will miss my mother at all when she's gone and that kind of makes me sad.
"My inner child was telling me thank you, for being the mother that I NEVER had."
Those are true words.
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Damn those R some words 4 u
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those jab me so good
I WANT IT IRL
and just the fact that you didn’t make it all modern and beige just makes me so happy, I see so many influencer moms each day, one made their entire child’s closet beige, pink, and like the tiniest bit of purple.
For someone who didn't know what they're doing you did a great job to me. Cute I know she loves it.
Thanks friend! 🥰
Right?? This is AMAZING!!❤❤❤
Trust me with this - if you patch something back together, if you can make something from scratch, if you can repair split seams...
You can sew.
I'm not great myself, but I can repair clothes when they get holes. I fixed a hoodie years ago and it's not an invisible fix, but literally nobody notices unless I point it out.
I've fixed bags, work pants, got extra life out of socks, replaced buttons etc
All you can do is build on your skills, I'm not a professional by any means, but I can definitely get by haha
You can tell it means a lot to her because you can hear her crying a little in her voice..❤
I totally get this: "Be the person you needed when you were young." Bless You.
what if they dont need what you needed ? I dont have child yet, and I LOVE those types of projects just like you, but I wonder what if you put so much efforts but thats not really their thing
Your kid is lucky too got a cool mom❤😊
How sweet, Mama! You gave your daughter the most wonderful gift. YOU, your love & creativity, and your inner child. Your French Patisserie is simply marvelous.
My inner child is screaming rn 💀💀💀
@@Kassy69 YESS I WANT ITTT
This is the type of mother I wish I had, one that truly loves their kid😭
so , a parent that doesnt have the time or money to put together a mock french bakery doesnt love thier kids?
My mom dous stuff like this for me
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@@MyEnimeno they don’t 😂
I’m amazed by people that don’t know how to interpret things 🥴
@@nataliadapkus5214 love isnt just buying stuff or making it for ur kid, just being there for them in their ups and downs, comforting them, making them feel loved is enough, not all parents have the money or time 😀
sometimes my mother has moments like this, even though many of her children are adults now. her mother left when she was six years old, and she made sure she was the best mother she could be. i often get random moments throughout the day where i’m just like “i love my mom”. i’m sure your children will feel the same when they enter the world. i’ve really grown to appreciate everything she did for me, even the things i thought were annoying. i make sure to give her a call every day.
Wow.. truly touching.
I’m glad ur mom cares! In my family though (especially my culture as a whole) emotionally abusing kids is unfortunately really normalized and my mom didnt really break this cycle with me and my brother either so, even though she takes care of me and (pretty rarely) shows signs of acknowledging what i like, most of the time she’s just emotionally abusing me and making me feel worthless. It’s always a cycle or spoiling me with things that i like for one day and then spend the rest of the week making me feel awful and saying she regrets having kids because of me.
my mommy made something similar for me except it was a flower shop, we were poor and couldn't afford playsets back so my mommy made a diy flowershop stand with flowers made out of ribbons and shiny fabrics(she used to be the local tailor) and everyday I cherished and remembered that diy playset more than my other toys. Definitely gave me interesting childhood memories too
Aaawwww! It looks so great! Money can’t buy that
Thanks so much! 💗
My life is horrible be cause I’m a little sad and I’m just gonna stay home for another day or so I just want you know I’m sorry for what happened
@@camman18hasamalld1ck you good?
I want this so bad… I hope your kid loves it!
@@camman18hasamalld1ckdid you mean to comment this on the world wide web?
My mother was just like this. She passed when I was a teenager but left us with so many memories. Great job mama..she'll always hold you in her ❤️.
Sorry for your mom
Im so sorry for your loss dear it must be hard to loose such a loved family member!..
Its never a goodbye dear , alas its always a see you again #)
I am so sorry for your lost. Im sure that she's very proud of you and she's watching you from above. 💗
Sorry for your loss.... I hope you will have a wonderful life
Honestly, even as someone who has a great and loving mom who sacrificed everything for me, this just brings tears to my eyes 🥹
I think it's the fact that you put in so much effort and you did it by hand, putting so much love into every little detail... And just imagining the pure joy your daughter must feel when she plays with this set is almost too much for my heart to handle ❤
this is beatiful thank you for making your kids as happy as you wish you were it makes me think that you're just such a geat mom keep doing what your doing
That little girl will walk into that room and remember the happiness she felt for the rest of her life. What you’ve given her isn’t just a beautiful play patisserie, it’s an everlasting wonderful memory of what her mother did for her & how much she was loved ❤️❤️❤️
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This will absolutely be a core memory for her.
It broke my heart when I heard her voice broke when she said "My inner was telling me thank you, for being the mother I never had" :(
I’m eleven, and I’m literally crying watching this. I cannot be more thankful that there are people out there that give their children/family/friends, etc, these awesome gifts. I don’t have a mother, and my family is relatively poor, so we can’t afford to have these things. Thank you for succeeding and being an awesome mother. You are a good woman.
I'm so sorry that you don't have that great of a childhood.
You are incredibly mature, but please do not go sharing that info on the internet.
Me too, i have a conflick witg my mom😢, my mom ignore me every day, and then.. i'm broken home ..
I am so sorry that you have to face situations like this. I also near your age and I also didn't have a really happy childhood. I understand how you feel. But don't worry, things will soon be fine. Please stay strong and take care and I hope you have a good day or night. God Bless You ❤️
And yes, I recommend you not to share your information such as age on the internet. It can be dangerous. So, please be careful and stay safe.
They could have.... because it is not a about "toys"@@sherry8371red
I'm crying, you are a fucking legend, a wonderful person
"I can tell myself thank you for being the mother I never had" I'm going to live by those words forever.
Oh my goodness, the time, detail, and effort put into this!!!!! 😍😍😍😍 Awesome job 👍
Thanks so much! 💗
Thank you so much!!
👋 crisol Hernandez ❤️
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This is the parent that we all needed as a kid 🥹❤️
She sounds to narcissistic to me…I’d prefer a mother who didn’t think things equal love
You are literally the mother we all whisped for
This is the most creative and cutest thing I have ever seen!
Aww thanks so much! ❤
I wish I had this as a kid
She didn't invent this. Tutorials are all over TH-cam but she decided not to credit and she's actually taking all the credit...gross
Tear jerker. When I have a child, I want to do things like this.😪❤️This is healing to watch.
Thanks for the kind words! 💗
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I also want to do this one I have a child!!
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Your parenting and creativity are more than what many of us had or have. You have brought happiness to your child and to at least 1;626 of us. Thank you.
Omg I love this
No swearing:👍
No sexist jokes: 👍
No sexual content: 👍
No brainrot: 👍
No abuse: 👍
No meanness: 👍
No bullying: 👍
No making fun of serious illnesses/diseases:👍
This is what youtube should fricking look like ❤
I just wanted to add for *anyone that feels sad they aren’t able to do this for their kids…*
*this is not the measure of being a good mom.* You can still be a good parent, even if you aren’t able to afford this and do all of the extra. Your kids will only remember if there were there for them.
Exactly. This is beautiful but it's not realistic for everyone. This is a ton of effort and I'm sure her kids love it, but it's not necessary to be a good parent.
I think what most people are not understanding is the primary motivation is content creation. Y’all would do this for your child too if you built an audience and got paid
@@jt.633yes, it's not for her child.
She could teach her child to bake off camera.
Agree! Whenever I make something from a box my kids like it more than spending hundreds of dollars on toys. They imagine with what they have. Watching them take such an ordinary object and using it 10 different ways to fit their role play gives me more joy than when I've bought that "perfect" store bought gift that is just tossed aside a week later because it's boring. I'm sorry for whatever she is healing from, but she's going to make a lot of women feel like less of a mom because they don't have the money for expensive rattan furniture or the time to hand make toys.
One of our kids very favourite things to do is "family time". This basically entails us and them messing around on our bed, us tickling them as much as possible and tossing them onto the bed and them trying to give us bruises as they climb/jump/stand etc on us 😂 no big creative projects, no money needed, just fun for half an hour or an hour and a lot of laughs.
It doesn't need to be fancy or extravagant to give your kids a great childhood.
I was blessed because my mom stayed home during the day and she worked evenings while my dad worked during the day. I have a disabled brother, and that was the only way my family could afford to take care of him. But she would spend what precious little spare time she had sewing me the most beautiful full doll clothes. And I still have every single piece that she's ever sewed me. Sadly, she passed last year and I told her so many times what a great mom she was. I just hope she really knew it. Yeah, i'm crying like a baby right now. ❤❤❤
Your child is so lucky & will take these memories with her for the rest of her life
That's the sweetest thing I've heard in a while. That was so kind of you to do for your kid.
You are such a good mom
my aunt used to turn my room into a shopping market when i was little . My mom and dad weren’t around and she always tried her hardest and we definitely felt it. All the love you have for your kids will be recognized
This woman needs to be protected, appreciated, and loved as much as she gives all of those things to the world
Your an amazing Mother. Your so kind
if you need help with the bakery I now how to crochet
Ik ben veel aan het naaien en dit is echt goed gelukt!!! ❤ ik ga het zelf maken dat lijkt me trouwens wel erg lastig!!😊😊
I am crying! I, too, had to be the mother i never had for my own child.It is a responsibility and is an honor for me. Be Blessed!❤❤❤
You are CHANGING the generations ahead of you and the trajectory of what mothers down the line in your family will have as a standard! ❤
Honestly...a take on motherhood I never thought about before. So beautiful❤
Mom is doing great she didn't stop for her kid she tried hard 😢❤🥧🍰
this is one thing my inner child is so grateful for today!! my mom made me, by hand, a play kitchen. it had a stove, a cupboard, and shelves, and it was beautiful painted in red and white. it wasnt nearly so fancy as yours, but she would take stuff like the tiny cereal boxes from hotels and fill them with dry macaroni for the kitchen. she tried her best at making pretend food for us to play with, and it was the most treasured gift of my entire childhood.
Awwwwwww
How sweet!!
Exactly! This is the cutest bakery set I’ve ever seen! It really looks so professional.That’s the one thing I’ve been most struck by since having my daughter almost 2 years ago, the amount of healing that was brought to my soul lol😅 I know my parents tried their best and I know my father is on the spectrum so I have a lot more empathy for him now and all the things he would say to me not meaning to hurt my feelings or scar me so deeply. But we still all have trauma to heal from regardless. That’s why we are here on this world, becoming a parent is such a blessing😂
Those macarons and other assorted items look amazing! You did great, she’ll love it. You’re doing good by your child ❤
My God, it's OUTSTANDING! IM IN LOVE !
Thanks so much ❤
There are so many reasons I wanna cry😢. The whole display is adorable and aesthetic, but it doesn't remove fun colors like so many parents do. Plus, there was time and love put into this and I love that so much
She’s never going to forget this bakery. It will be bring fond memories that makes her smile for the rest of her life ❤️
This is amazing! 👏😍🤩😁
What a beautiful and amazing outcome! What a wonderful mother!! You rock!😊
Thanks friend! 🥰
GOD bless you and your sweet family! You are such a great and loving mama!! ✝️🙋♀️🤗✨️💗💖🌷🎂🧁💕 🥧🍰🧃🍬🍧
Thanks! ❤ God bless!
Girl, this is so beautiful! Your daughter is so lucky to have you as a mom!
Oh my God so pretty 😯
Simply amazing! 👏 what a joy it was to watch you put this all together!
Thanks so much! 💗
I appreciate that! Thanks❤
As someone who never had the best mom and an absent dad, I had to grow up quickly and never got a true childhood, so when I get to help at a school or teach in a group of little ones, I get so excited. when I tell you this video absolutely made my day. Thank you ❤
You’re so gentle and loving, I’m crying. I don’t have a good relationship with my parents and when my mother passed I could never repair that connection ever again. I want a mom like you. 🥹
You can still have that parent. God is my most favorite most constant parent guide ever. Look at what He in his nurture energy has not created for us.
@@AnahySanchez-DiazGod is a deadbeat dad if he’s any kind at all. Just look at how he left Jesus
your such a good mother i hope you are always blessed and ur daughter
I remember being 7 and asking my mom to join me in a tea party, she was scrolling on her phone and said she was busy and to this day never joined me on one, seeing this video makes me really happy to know your daughter has such a loving mother that does things like this for her 💛
"For being the mother I never had" that hit hard, especially when you can relate to it.
It brings out a much needed creative side to yourself… it greatly expands your self esteem and inspiration! Keep going and trying new things! At 63 it has always kept me young and in awe if so many great things one can accomplish!
This makes me so sad because I am 9 years old and I know I will never get a life like this kids who have this life is so lucky
I wish more mothers were like this with their daughters. It's sad so many mothers see their daughters as competition or as a problem child . Instead of protecting them and healing themselves by treating their daughters right.
You're a wonderful mom.
EXACTLY im always sick of my mom comparing me to like everyone, and of her telling me im the “problematic” child even though i try my best to become better. Yet my brother always gets all the praise because he’s the “good child” and he’s the youngest 😭
@@Konata_TheRappa07- reading up on narcissistic mothers may help you in dealing with her.
And the ones that are treated like the 'golden child' usually end up being entitled & narcissistic just like the parent who spoiled them, unfortunately.
It is awful being the 'problem child' but it does make us self sufficient and resilient.
To be honest, I actually wonder why so many women chose to have children when it is clear that they never really wanted them.
They actually look scrumptious
Sheesh I got misty eyed! What a beautiful gift for your little girl. This is something she’ll remember, and will never forget.
I’m 33, and I want this so badly. You are talented, chica. You could start a whole shop, making these lil playsets for many children ❤ What a wonderful mother you are, bless 💫💕💕💕
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"At one o'clock in the morning"
Thats how you KNOW shes a good and caring mother
I think this comment is not needed. She could be caring and amazing without making a DIY bakery at 1am. We should stop putting expectations that high.
Don't get me wrong. This video made me cry remembering every attentions my parents gave me. It's amazing what she did for her daughter. But that's not what makes you a good mother.
What's makes her a good mother is that she spend time for something her kid likes.
My grand-mother's mother was awful with her, a monster really. She did all bad thing to her, even forcing her to marry an old man when she was only 16yo. Even the DIY Barbie dress she made for my grandmother couldn't erase all the bad things she did to her.
It's not the gift that's important, it's the intention and love around it.
@@eloise6660 Thats what I mean, she stayed up late for her child, I'm not saying mothers should stay up late for their children because mines didn't and she still was an amazing mother, Im saying her staying up late shows us how much work she put in for her kids which makes her a good mother
@@eloise6660 Also the comment section is to comment what we want on TH-cam, I try to keep most of my comments positive and not hatred or targeted towards others
This comment is why no one values women. If they are not up loosing sleep hand making things for others who will play with it a couple days before loosing interest…they aren’t seen as a good mother. Trust me…children prefer if you get enough sleep so you aren’t cranky at them the next day and have enough energy to take them to the park. They don’t care about stuff…and the mum is going to feel hurt of her daughter throws this gift around or maybe doesn’t even care less about itn
This is the kind of beautiful effort and attention to detail, that I Loooooove to see from a parent. You make me feel soo proud ❤ Well done Momma ❤
I'm a single Momma of three Sons, I'm all they have so I go above and beyond for each and every one of them.
I don't have a relationship with my own mother, so I vowed to always maintain a special bond with my boys ❤🙏🏾
Being the mother I never had 🥹❤ that was so sweet to hear and be reminded of! Thank you for your lesson shared! What a lovely way of bonding with your child.
This made me cry. Keep being a wonderful mother
I'm 13 and I'm crying, even though my mom is amazing I understood and even felt my inter child pain healing as well. This really made a impact on me. Thank you for being an amazing Mom.
You’re still a child. Try to tell your mom how you feel. It’s n out too late.
@@katherinedelacruz9876 13 isn't a child, it's a teenager. A minor yes, but not a child. Children are prepubescent and between 1-12 years old. We can never get back those formative years.
"Child" is just a word. There is no age limit in playing and having fun with toys. I am 14, and last year I was crying over not being able to play on a playground with my cousin like I used to but this year I decided that even though I'm not a "child" I can still enjoy my self. As long as you don't break any rules, you can still play at the park on the swings and slides. Me playing there inspired a boy my age who was shy to play to come play with us.
Same, I feel like I’m ungrateful since I had a pretty fine childhood, yet it feels as if I didn’t live it enough.
Oh shut up
Wow 😮😢🎉🙌🏾🥰💕 Wonderful work 🎉 you did such an awesome job. That was so special and I felt you when you got choked up.
Thanks for allowing me to be vulnerable ❤
You ever wonder how much a playset or toy can influence a kid and their future passion? When I was a kid I had always loved animals and had plenty of stuffed animals for days. I also had a doctor kit I would use with them. Now I’m applying to colleges to pursue my passion of zoology ❤
not yall just hanging out at the french bakery 😭❤️ that is so precious on its own. then you showed her (again) that you’re always thinking of her. i need to call my mom 😭😭❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The French bakery in real life + the toy bakery at home = real love. ❤️
Omg you made me cry. I never had the mother I wanted or deserved. I was severely abused and have never had any family. This is the kind of mother I wanted. Thank you for giving her what so many of us don’t have and deserve. I’m an adult now but still find myself searching for a mother and a family.
Sending you light and love 🫶🏽
U are loved❤❤❤❤❤ xoxo xoxo ❤❤❤❤❤
@@lilianarosales5158 Thank you very much
@@missylew910 thank you very much
@@user-mq9ov5xk7q keep going sweetie. I love u even tho we are strangers.
Her voice is so soothing omg 🥰
Nice job Mama your inner child gives you a hug and a kiss and says thank you the same way your daughter will when she sees it that is some talented work
This woman has a pure heart ❤️. My inner child is tearing up. She is the mother of everyones dream❤. May god give her a long and healthy life❤
I like how instead of just living through her child, she’s giving her what she wants and would be passionate about and enjoy ☺️
I'm not crying yall... i'm just sobbing... This is just too precious and beautiful...❤️
Omg aw this is a beautiful❤
Stoop your making me cry now 🕊🕊😥 I'm so sorry that you never had a mother like that ..... Who agrees??
Oh! So true!!! I healed my inner child by being the mother I didn’t have. So grateful to God that helped me to see I could mother differently and love unconditionally.
That is so beautiful! I’m a grown woman and professional pastry chef, but I’d be lying if I said I wasn’t about to go out and buy some felt to make little pastries for myself. I hope your daughter continues to hold on to her passion for food- it’s a wonderful thing to nurture even if you don’t follow that path in life. Best wishes to you and your daughter 💕
You are a great mom your daughter is lucky that she has a great mom like you.
This is such a purely beautiful thing to do for your child and for yourself 🩷 The creativity and love and time poured in!
We all need a mother like this💗✨
agreed
This is So BEAUTIFUL. Ur words MADE ME CRY AND THINK ABOUT MY SMALL CHILD, which is in KINDERGARTEN. Keep going Momma
Let me cry loudly it's feels soo bad I need that 😓
my younger self would’ve loved this so much. i am now in the process of starting my own baking business and for you to create such these precious moments and memories for your daughter all by hand really shows how much love you have for her ❤
Maybe you could incorporate fabric or paper baked goods into your packaging? That would be so cool!
I felt this in my soul and I don't have or ever want kids. I love your healing process. Thank you for being a parent that wants their children. ❤
Wow. Everything is so beautiful. I love love love that not only are you giving her this but you are hand making nearly all of it. Theres so much love and dedication in that.
I'm in my 30s and I still treasure many of the things my grandma made me when I was younger. Shes gone now and they're all i have left of her. But they are physical reminders of the love she had for me.
I'm sure your daughter will cherish the memories made. ❤
Homemade things given as gifts to me through the years, I’m 62, are my Most Treasured possessions I have.!!!!!!!!!!❤
So Beautiful ❤