1. Grow in your relationship with God. - rest - trust 2. Complete your relationship with yourself. - self awareness - god awareness - contentedness 3. Address your trauma, pain and then heal to change - those who dont do this tend to be very intolerant of others - settle this before bringing another person into your life 4. Become familiar with your own future. - Pray to god to give a revelation of your future - become clear on a strategy - don't skip over 'whole'
Awesome message❤️”You don’t need to go on a date, you need to go to therapy!” 😂😂😂😂That tickled me…but definitely true for so many of us. You need a check up from the neck up!
Thank you for allowing yourself to be our Lord's messenger to reach and teach and impart wisdom to women like me. You are God-sent! God bless you and your family Pastor RC Blakes!
I’ve been watching your videos for 2 years and all I can say is I wish I had this information earlier on in my life. My goal now is to share your videos with as many women and men possible. I love your perspective on dating based from the Bible. I will never make the same mistakes again. Thank you so much.
If you don't have your relationship right with God, you might have expectations from other people that only God can fulfill! Thanks for this and the many other golden nuggets you dropped in this video!
Man this message is so on point!! People who have not healed will make U pay for what other people did to them. I literally walked out and left my EX because he snapped out on me 😡 for simply asking what kind of ice cream 🍨 he had just bought at the store. I know it sounds crazy but it’s the truth. It was like walking on egg 🥚 shells around him. Like Pastor said, he was always irritated by anything little thing I said or did. I finally had enough and ended the relationship. I tried to help him but U cant help people who don’t wanna help themselves. 🤷🏽♀️ All I can do is pray 🙏🏾 for him now and hope one day he’ll get the therapy and counseling that he so badly needs!!
Excellent message!! Everyone on the face of the earth needs to hear this wisdom. Thank you Pastor Blakes, you are a rare treasure, we thank God for you & your obedience & heart! 😊👍🙌
Thank you. Your ministry is transforming my life. All the years I have been in church and never has anyone spoken so candidly about the man-woman relationship as you have. I have learned a lot about valuing myself, my identity, healthy self-love, and acceptance, and about so many things related to what healthy relationships look like. God bless you and your wife!
Pastor you are often saying beware of how others treat you, I am starting to see how much I have behaved inappropriately to others, its very confronting
"I am not fixing no man no Ham Sandwich " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love ❤️ you soooooo much Bishop. I thank God foe your wisdom. I swear I wish I had known of you five years ago, I would have avoided the Narcissist that has caused me so much pain. 💔 still learning how to forgive myself but I was broken and didn't listen to the Spirit of God that told me this is not foe you but instead listened to broken girlfriends for advice 🥺🥺🥹🥹😥😥😥. But I am healed, healing and now have discernment and wisdom since tuning my life back over to God. Thank you for your ministry ❤❤❤
If you're Iron & they're bringing wood or plastic! 😂 So true...Iron Sharpens Iron...Seek ye First the KINGdom of GOD 👑 & His RIGHTeousness, and all these things shall be added unto you. 🙏🏼✝️😇
Psalm 37:4-5 King James Version 4 Delight thyself also in the Lord: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart. 5 Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.
Just fresh out of a 12 year relationship. Learning so much from your videos doing the work and developing my queen consciousness allowing God to make me whole again so that I can be ready for the King when he comes. Will forever be grateful
I really appreciate what you do sir. For those of us that didn't have the example of what a healthy man and woman dynamic looks like, thank you from the bottom of my heart. This is for women who don't know what they don't know. Bless you and your family! 🙏
This message was so long due prior to us woman seeking a man… I felt good to know I have been on such positive path this is confirmation. Thank you, GOD for speaking through this man of God😇
My relationship with God is the most important thing to me. Thank God I took the time to get in counseling to become whole. Counseling has opened up area's in my life that I hadn't dealt with. By dealing with these area's I'm healing, bringing closer once and for all in area's where it was most needed. Thank God I'm successfully single working on me to become a better version of myself.
Thank you Man of God, I wish all Ministers would teach this. To many single women are only focus on getting married instead of becoming whole. If we're not whole we will be deceived and fall for an Ishmael instead of our Isaac.
Yes Heal to be whole. Plan to work for more personal armour. Strongholds broken and replaced with blessings, love the waymaker, miracle worker. TY pastor Blakes
“You don’t need to be trying to go on a date you need to be trying to go to therapy” 😂 I love you because you are straight up! Thank you for sharing your wisdom
Brother Pastor Blakes, I thank Almighty God for you, and each time that I listen to you and your messages, I always share them with others. May Allah continue to bless, keep, guide, protect, and elevate both you and your wife.
Well as if late I'm coming across men. I have met on dating sites. Either trying to push there way into trying to move in my home or talking about moving in. Telling me, I can keep all my money. Don't worry it ain't happening. Men using Filters to make themselves look good in pictures or sharing how much they love the Lord. Well, Test Every Spirit that enters your life. Most men who come your way, walk crooked in your direction. But you knowing you and not settling. You'll be able to see if the man is walking upright. With God as his foundation.
Just stumbled on your videos/channel and they have already blessed my spirit. Amazing information and so many nuggets. I absolutely love how you are teaching! Thank you so much for your time and wisdom. God bless ♥️
I'm willing to sow 56 dollar tithe to your new home ministries you will be the one to arrange it I don't know how I'm hoping you understand me, thank you so much for your help and very thankful and appreciate so much for your guidance and for more clear to have an understanding especially in biblical study I'm looking forward to be successful in this pre-relationship in a truthful ways with the power of love as brother or friend or whatever on this reality of life Thank you so much again!
Your work is so important. Myself and as I can see many others have never had a "father daughter talk" and this shows.... I am so grateful for your work and for finding this channel. Be blessed! ❤️ 🙏🏻
You've just summed up everything I need to explain to my mum for her introspection. I had already started to reflect on my life, but with this video I realised I haven't finished with my own past.
These powerful statements I need to hear you don't have your relationship right with God you might have expectations from other people that only God can fulfill and when you grow in your relationship with God you lose the desperation for men. Address your trauma/pain healed ur your issue(not just women). Its nothing wrong with being single while you work on your brokenness and develop a let God heal the pain. A lot of women I know did that. Some women learned lifelong wisdom. I also know a few haven't learned sadly some of them are over 40 years their identity is in a man even if the man is married. The dangerous cost of ungodly soul ties can't be taken lightly,
OMG!!!!! I have just subscribe to your Teaching please keep them coming....I'm plugging in after work, to hear this again in my car with no interruptions
Wonderful teaching Bishop. Well established and acknowledged. Bishop, my expectations of a relationship will be based on the will of God. He must be first. Learning and better understanding God's ultimate purpose for me.when God grants me anither godly relationship, I know these teachings will be beneficial. Enjoyed this segment of discussion. Thank you Bishop. God bless in Jesus name. AMEN ❤
Thank you so much for helping me understand what it even might look like to be on a healthy relationship. It has really helped me get a more clear picture of it all. Helped me take a step back and look at things from a good perspective. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💜💜 you are a father to us all:)
Good day to all. Thank you RC Blake's Jr for your awesome, edifying, meaningful, powerful and spiritual message; We all can learn from this proclamation and revelation. Have a blessed day, Sabbath, weekend and week to come.
After further discussions,asking all the right questions,the reminders of my two Bishops AND the craziness of people in this world, in the words of Bishop Samuel Blakes I’m going to slow my row on the dating scene.
God is teaching me through you, your wisdom,You are a blessing Pastor RC Blake’s, and May God bless you and your family. May God transform me and God will make me whole when I trust him. Glory to God and Jesus! ✝️❤️✨
Thanks Pastor Blake. I love the boundaries, and making one's self heal by loving self first and become whole, in preparation for the next relationship, in which we make God the Cooser and the centre.✝️✨️
Blessing to the words God has allowed you to deal with Pastor seems like everyone of your message that I am listening to is just deeply heavily on my Heart just pulling
Bishop you speak the truth and have me cracking up. But thank you for being the vessel and teaching women their valve , much blessings to you and First Lady , only lady Lisa, I love how you love her ❤️
Thank you! Thank you! As usual I needed to hear this! I need to send this to a family member they’re a reverend and I doubt if they’ll listen and understand! 🤷🏾♀️
12:05 Amen to that!
"When you grow in your relationship with God you lose the desperation for men."
Bars!
FACTS
Amen!
❤❤❤❤❤
Maturity
1. Grow in your relationship with God.
- rest
- trust
2. Complete your relationship with yourself.
- self awareness
- god awareness
- contentedness
3. Address your trauma, pain and then heal to change
- those who dont do this tend to be very intolerant of others
- settle this before bringing another person into your life
4. Become familiar with your own future.
- Pray to god to give a revelation of your future
- become clear on a strategy
- don't skip over 'whole'
Bishop be like: “I need to get outta here, then keep talking for hours.” 🤣🤣🤣 I love it!
@@everydaistyle love it 🥰
I love this 💕
@@everydaistyle 😂 I had to fast forward ⏩
Women shouldn’t be accepting bare minimum. Be truthful to put in the work. I love the way he started with the conversation
It’s not a relationship unless it’s mutually beneficial. The end. Nothing else to analyse.
"You don't need to go on a date; you need to be going to therapy."
Yes🙏
Awesome message❤️”You don’t need to go on a date, you need to go to therapy!” 😂😂😂😂That tickled me…but definitely true for so many of us. You need a check up from the neck up!
This man knows EVERYTHING about the "things" we do ladies..😂
Save your heart and possibly your life too *LISTEN TO HIM*
He's definitely helping us...
Thank you for allowing yourself to be our Lord's messenger to reach and teach and impart wisdom to women like me. You are God-sent! God bless you and your family Pastor RC Blakes!
I’ve been watching your videos for 2 years and all I can say is I wish I had this information earlier on in my life. My goal now is to share your videos with as many women and men possible. I love your perspective on dating based from the Bible. I will never make the same mistakes again. Thank you so much.
“You got to be a whole single before you can participate in coupling “..wow that’s profound 🧐
Isn't it though!!
Dropping GEMS
Yes
This is deep! But facts!
If you don't have your relationship right with God, you might have expectations from other people that only God can fulfill! Thanks for this and the many other golden nuggets you dropped in this video!
Women are engaging in relationships going against their nature and values. Yes it’s important to know yourself as a whole first to take the next step.
So true...
Facts
Rest is the evidence of relationship with God
Trust is the evidence of relationship with God
Man this message is so on point!! People who have not healed will make U pay for what other people did to them. I literally walked out and left my EX because he snapped out on me 😡 for simply asking what kind of ice cream 🍨 he had just bought at the store. I know it sounds crazy but it’s the truth. It was like walking on egg 🥚 shells around him. Like Pastor said, he was always irritated by anything little thing I said or did. I finally had enough and ended the relationship. I tried to help him but U cant help people who don’t wanna help themselves. 🤷🏽♀️ All I can do is pray 🙏🏾 for him now and hope one day he’ll get the therapy and counseling that he so badly needs!!
I had a similar situation. Yes. They need help.
Protect this man at all cosssst 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🗣🗣 thank you for pouring into our lives for free May God bless you!!!
*...for free🙏
GOD BLESS YOU PASTOR
You got that right 🔥
Excellent message!! Everyone on the face of the earth needs to hear this wisdom. Thank you Pastor Blakes, you are a rare treasure, we thank God for you & your obedience & heart! 😊👍🙌
A wise saying..never let a stranger cross your threshold
Thank you. Your ministry is transforming my life. All the years I have been in church and never has anyone spoken so candidly about the man-woman relationship as you have. I have learned a lot about valuing myself, my identity, healthy self-love, and acceptance, and about so many things related to what healthy relationships look like. God bless you and your wife!
Pastor you are often saying beware of how others treat you, I am starting to see how much I have behaved inappropriately to others, its very confronting
"I am not fixing no man no Ham Sandwich " 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I love ❤️ you soooooo much Bishop. I thank God foe your wisdom. I swear I wish I had known of you five years ago, I would have avoided the Narcissist that has caused me so much pain. 💔 still learning how to forgive myself but I was broken and didn't listen to the Spirit of God that told me this is not foe you but instead listened to broken girlfriends for advice 🥺🥺🥹🥹😥😥😥. But I am healed, healing and now have discernment and wisdom since tuning my life back over to God. Thank you for your ministry ❤❤❤
If you're Iron & they're bringing wood or plastic! 😂 So true...Iron Sharpens Iron...Seek ye First the KINGdom of GOD 👑 & His RIGHTeousness, and all these things shall be added unto you. 🙏🏼✝️😇
Yes Lord, Amen.
Everyone please don't forget to like the video!
Bishop I'm in class and Listening lol .. the word is food for the soul...
Psalm 37:4-5
King James Version
4 Delight thyself also in the Lord: and he shall give thee the desires of thine heart.
5 Commit thy way unto the Lord; trust also in him; and he shall bring it to pass.
I'm asking God for Wholeness
Me too!!!!
Just fresh out of a 12 year relationship. Learning so much from your videos doing the work and developing my queen consciousness allowing God to make me whole again so that I can be ready for the King when he comes. Will forever be grateful
I really appreciate what you do sir. For those of us that didn't have the example of what a healthy man and woman dynamic looks like, thank you from the bottom of my heart. This is for women who don't know what they don't know. Bless you and your family! 🙏
Everytime I see a new video I'm like ugghhhh here we go again. More truth that's hard to take. I already know what's coming. Sighs. But I listen.
This message was so long due prior to us woman seeking a man… I felt good to know I have been on such positive path this is confirmation. Thank you, GOD for speaking through this man of God😇
I’m not fixing you no ham sandwich 😂😂
You right Bishop those triggers and trauma have to be dealt with. I got a lot of healing to do for sure.
😂😂😂😂 🍖
I wish I could like this video 10000 times
All your videos are great. I never see one bad. I'm so blest to find your channel. Thanks for all your great help.
My relationship with God is the most important thing to me. Thank God I took the time to get in counseling to become whole. Counseling has opened up area's in my life that I hadn't dealt with. By dealing with these area's I'm healing, bringing closer once and for all in area's where it was most needed. Thank God I'm successfully single working on me to become a better version of myself.
Confirmation!!! The Lord have been dealing with me with trust, rest, and knowing thyself. Thank You for your obedience
Thank you Man of God, I wish all Ministers would teach this. To many single women are only focus on getting married instead of becoming whole. If we're not whole we will be deceived and fall for an Ishmael instead of our Isaac.
Yes Heal to be whole. Plan to work for more personal armour. Strongholds broken and replaced with blessings, love the waymaker, miracle worker. TY pastor Blakes
“You don’t need to be trying to go on a date you need to be trying to go to therapy” 😂 I love you because you are straight up! Thank you for sharing your wisdom
Bishop, YOU have been a BLESSING BEYOND.
Brother Pastor Blakes, I thank Almighty God for you, and each time that I listen to you and your messages, I always share them with others. May Allah continue to bless, keep, guide, protect, and elevate both you and your wife.
WOW! You hit every aspect of “to thine own self be true!” Love listening to you Pastor Blake’s. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
Well as if late I'm coming across men. I have met on dating sites. Either trying to push there way into trying to move in my home or talking about moving in. Telling me, I can keep all my money. Don't worry it ain't happening.
Men using Filters to make themselves look good in pictures or sharing how much they love the Lord. Well, Test Every Spirit that enters your life.
Most men who come your way, walk crooked in your direction. But you knowing you and not settling. You'll be able to see if the man is walking upright. With God as his foundation.
Just stumbled on your videos/channel and they have already blessed my spirit. Amazing information and so many nuggets. I absolutely love how you are teaching! Thank you so much for your time and wisdom. God bless ♥️
Thank you for this wisdom-especially the part about healing past trauma.
Thank you so much Pastor, this was exactly what I needed to hear.
Bishop if you had a relationship that in a way you feel that you lost your dignity and got used. Do you think I have Hope to heal thanks
This word blessed me. Especially the second part. It’s the wisdom I need for this season. Thank You Pastor! 🙌🏽
Singleness...Wholeness...Marriage!
the wisdom this man has is incredible. so practical. this is a truly gift from God!!! thanks RC 🙏🏽
I'm willing to sow 56 dollar tithe to your new home ministries you will be the one to arrange it I don't know how I'm hoping you understand me, thank you so much for your help and very thankful and appreciate so much for your guidance and for more clear to have an understanding especially in biblical study I'm looking forward to be successful in this pre-relationship in a truthful ways with the power of love as brother or friend or whatever on this reality of life Thank you so much again!
Your work is so important.
Myself and as I can see many others have never had a "father daughter talk" and this shows....
I am so grateful for your work and for finding this channel.
Be blessed! ❤️ 🙏🏻
This is an on time word. Thank you for this message. I receive everything in this message. I am working on getting whole right now.
I love how you keep it real when you talk. We really need to hear this in truth.
You've just summed up everything I need to explain to my mum for her introspection. I had already started to reflect on my life, but with this video I realised I haven't finished with my own past.
Through your teachings Bishop am a changed person and walking into wholeness. Wish one day you come to Kenya
These powerful statements I need to hear you don't have your relationship right with God you might have expectations from other people that only God can fulfill and when you grow in your relationship with God you lose the desperation for men. Address your trauma/pain healed ur your issue(not just women).
Its nothing wrong with being single while you work on your brokenness and develop a let God heal the pain. A lot of women I know did that. Some women learned lifelong wisdom. I also know a few haven't learned sadly some of them are over 40 years their identity is in a man even if the man is married. The dangerous cost of ungodly soul ties can't be taken lightly,
He’s so insightful
Good morning, this has helped so much. I'm still allowing God to complete my inner healing. Two wholes make a whole.
OMG!!!!! I have just subscribe to your Teaching please keep them coming....I'm plugging in after work, to hear this again in my car with no interruptions
Wonderful teaching Bishop. Well established and acknowledged. Bishop, my expectations of a relationship will be based on the will of God. He must be first. Learning and better understanding God's ultimate purpose for me.when God grants me anither godly relationship, I know these teachings will be beneficial. Enjoyed this segment of discussion. Thank you Bishop. God bless in Jesus name. AMEN ❤
I have missed some good steps in my life but God is never late. I am privileged to be learning this ❤
Thank you so much for helping me understand what it even might look like to be on a healthy relationship. It has really helped me get a more clear picture of it all. Helped me take a step back and look at things from a good perspective. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻💜💜💜 you are a father to us all:)
Good day to all. Thank you RC Blake's Jr for your awesome, edifying, meaningful, powerful and spiritual message; We all can learn from this proclamation and revelation.
Have a blessed day, Sabbath, weekend and week to come.
This is golden teaching! Thank you so much.
Thank you Bishop Blake's and Lisa. I have sown a seed. Bless you 🙏 ♥ always
Elizabeth Mckenzie
NSW AUSTRALIA
After further discussions,asking all the right questions,the reminders of my two Bishops AND the craziness of people in this world, in the words of Bishop Samuel Blakes I’m going to slow my row on the dating scene.
Thank you 🙏🏾 To The Blakes for all your wisdom
Amazing message!!! 🙌🏾✨💫
This is the golden video I was searching for. Thank you so much for using the sword of God well .
Thank you Bishop Blake's for this message 😭😭😭😭😭just what I needed to hear this morning. Indeed God is good
You are on fire with this one!!! Yes yes yes!
You so wise and knowledgeable pastor, thank you once again for everything you do❤️
God is teaching me through you, your wisdom,You are a blessing Pastor RC Blake’s, and May God bless you and your family. May God transform me and God will make me whole when I trust him. Glory to God and Jesus! ✝️❤️✨
Thank you so much for this powerful message Pastor RC Blakes, I'm grateful ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you🙏🌷
Thanks!
I love this Pastor...
Bless you!! I love it, let's me know that I'm on the right path!!!
#3 and the ham sandwich. Hilarious.... I can't do my work! Love you and Lisa forever! OMGoodness!
This was so amazing. I needed to hear this. Thank you so much for your wisdom.
Bishop, you came straight out the gate on this one…and never let up! This is an AWESOME word, FULL of such knowledge and insight. Thankful for you.
Amazing message. Thank you!
Thanks Pastor Blake. I love the boundaries, and making one's self heal by loving self first and become whole, in preparation for the next relationship, in which we make God the Cooser and the centre.✝️✨️
You are the best🥰
Amen am resting with God he knows who is for me!!! THANK YOU POSTER For this msg 🙏
That message is very deep, true and important! 💯💯💯 Thank you, RC Blakes! 🙏❤️
He spoke the real truth.
Bishop Blake's 👑❤️. All I can say to this lesson is Amen 🙏 Amen 🙏 Amen 🙏
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 I thank God for you and your message🙏🏾
Dr. Blake's, God Bless you for so generously sharing your wisdom. There is so much out there that is not biblically
Amen 🙏Thank you 🙌👏
Thank you, Jesus for this changing word today. 🙏 🙌 😌 👏 ❤️
Everything you say is so real
I love Bishop and First Lady Lisa.🥰
Thanks God, He send you to my life 🙏 in order to become the person I always want to be and meet some day 🙏
Wholeness!!! A Must!!!
Thank you, Bishop!♥
Blessing to the words God has allowed you to deal with Pastor seems like everyone of your message that I am listening to is just deeply heavily on my Heart just pulling
Bishop you speak the truth and have me cracking up. But thank you for being the vessel and teaching women their valve , much blessings to you and First Lady , only lady Lisa, I love how you love her ❤️
My name is Mercy from Kenya i'm always blessed by Bishop teachings.Thank you 🙏
Amen! Glory to God. I believe
Thank you! Thank you! As usual I needed to hear this! I need to send this to a family member they’re a reverend and I doubt if they’ll listen and understand! 🤷🏾♀️
🔥🔥CRITICAL MESSAGE - CRITICAL THINKING = KINGDOM WISDOM (Great respect to First Lady Lisa & Bishop RC) USN VET