1. Initiate a conversation 2. Limitation- I deal with you in doses 3. Separation- suspend interaction to sober yourself emotionally (Is this worth salvaging?) - Never go back if the reason you left is still there ! 4. Elimination - the termination ; releasing them into God’s next!
I'm at step 2 in the process. PD was on it. I had the clarifying conversation with a love one. I was about to take the person with me. No I did put their name down to go with me and today now I understand why God said "Pivot!" 🙌🏾
Anybody else toes on 🔥🔥🔥 from being stepped on today?!!!!!!!!!!!! (Edited) AND your 💔 was made ❤️too? God surely loves us to bring such a powerful word like this to our doorstep.🙇🏾♀️
I need to put some distance between what has been influencing you and what’s getting ready to influence you because whatever has your 👂 ear has your future!!!! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Who ever has your ear, has your influences! Trust God to meet the needs of Lots! Tension the consequence of growth! Your tolerance is diminishing! Cycle of detrimental decisions!Layers of effects! Don’t have the time to rescue people who keep putting themselves in unhealthy situations; they won’t listen nor appreciate your help, give it God, pray that they God/Jesus will protect and show them the way! TY Pastor for your validation. Still following your exemplary teachings!
Wow this message is on time!!! My family drains me and it’s just toxic and distracting. I have to deal with them in doses! Lord Jesus this was powerful, Amen 🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾
1. Conversation ( Explaining your feelings) 2. limitations (Boundaries)3. separation: Sober emotions (Suspend interaction for a period of time)..see if the relationship is worth salvaging 4.Elimination the releasing of them in Gods next !!! the relationship no longer serves you
The prophetic unction that comes from this platform, to me is straight from the heart of God. This was so on time I’ve watched it three times in a row.
Dear God.... Give me deliverance from the NEED to be UNDERSTOOD! To whomever needs to know it. It will be hard to separate from them. You will question if they are ok... if you could have done more... if you should have said less.. and if it was even your problem to carry at all. You will cry tears of sadness beside tears of anger... You will remember them fondly at times and harshly at others. You will have days where you are saddened by the silence that thier voice used to fill... and others where you are full of joy that the projection of the hurt they hurled at you.. you no longer have to carry. But if you follow the guidance of this video and after all that is said and done you realize that regardless of title they hold they are no longer for you.... YOU will have a peace so warm and comforting in your spirit that you know could only be heaven sent! I know it because I've lived it... and nothing but the holy spirit could have guided me through these exact steps before I ever even heard this sermon! Thank you God for speaking to us and guiding us through ❤. You got this baby and God got you!!!!
This is exactly what I have been going through the past month thank you Jesus for placing this message in dr.daniels mind into my heart! How am I surprised when God's word shows up at exactly the right moment!
This is one of the GREATEST MESSAGE I've ever heard in regards to relationships. I know this was from God for me to hear. Thank you PD for allowing God to use you to minister the truth... 🙏🏽 ❤️ 🙌🏽
God bless you Dr. Daniels 🙏🏾❤️ This word is confirming what my family’s been going through constantly since my father passed almost 16 years ago and especially right now!! My sisters and I asked God to order our steps….and we’ve been following each step exactly as you said….to God be the glory!! 🎉🎉Please pray for us because it’s been a struggle with our mother and certain members of her family that’s been keeping this generational curse alive and well…and my sisters and I vow to break!!!! It’s been hard but God!! For Him we live, for Him we die!!! Much love to everyone, especially ones fighting the enemy within!! No weapons….”🙏❤️
I am on overflow with this Word. I have relived seasons in my journey and see moments where I did not do it God's way and let my emotions become a hindrance and a help. This is a level up in discernment. Thank you Pastor D.🙌🔥
🔥 🔥 🔥 I have never had a sermon touch my life so deeply and so accurately at the precise correct time in my life! Thank you for this sermon pastor! I needed it!
Glory to God 🙏🏽🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🤲🏽🤲🏽! You talk about a message that was right on time. I just reached out to my associate and family and said I can no longer be your place for you to drop off your dysfunctional toxic trash on my front door steps. Because I am in a place where God does not want me to have to keep going back thinking that I can save everybody when some people are un-savable because they are stuck in their car no ways and luciferian commitments to the world 🌎. So I sent this sermon out to everyone so they can catch this God drift 🙌🏽🔥👏🏽🙌🏽🔥🙏🏽! Well done pastor PD 💯🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽. You preached today 🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥 Amen!
I literally told my friend, "I need a shirt that says, Misunderstood." People in position of decisions have decided to spread untruths about me, question my integrity, my character, and put my reputation into question. I've cried for 3 days because it truly hurt me. My prayer warriors have been at work. I cried because I wanted to be heard, understood, and to understand why anyone would believe it or even wondered who believes it to be true. But, well, let me just let all that go and lay it to rest tonight. No more needing to be understood. Amen. Thank you PD
Lord, I was in the 11:30 and I need that worship service and then today I am watching the message ...... Right on time!!! Lord thank you for Change church!!
Anointed message, Honor because of last name Intimacy is based on character not last name Love freely given Access is earned, earned by the safety of your character Fruit is safety
Even if the conversation is not well received (blessings God), you have planted the seed! Boundaries ❤Separation for self preservation and growth. Oh, I have lived this over and over… Thank you for validation and insight 🙏😊😊
This is my very first time seeing this pastor and was immediately drawn in to the preaching love how he took the time and really explain this. I look forward in seeing many more of his preaching
Thanks for the notes I was so busy listening I could not get them all and it’s what’s happening to me right now I felt like he was sitting right there talking to me . 😢🙏🏽please pray for my heart
I shared as much as I could rewatched it and shared it again!! I realize now when I pray for protection, God wasn't only protecting me physically but emotionally and mentally, and that's how I maintain being spiritually whole -Kera
I am so deeply grateful to God for every word of godly holy wisdom that has come out of pastor Dharius' mouth. God bless you sir. These are words hard won and I don't take them for granted. Thank you.
This word was right on time and so necessary. I learned so much and God confirmed so much for me as well. God Bless You PD for delivering and teaching this wonderful much needed word. 🙌🏾🙏🏽
My God: You are AWESOME ❤. THANK YOU PASTOR DANIELS FOR SUCH A POWERFUL TEACHING........THIS IS A LOT!!!! BUT, THANKS BE TO GOD FOR SHOWING ME THE WAY❤
Pastor D! I needed this. I am in a season where I am on the 2nd step 2, Limitation. Small doses. I am dealing with the guilt of holding on because there is so much history. I am dealing with feeling like I am doing something wrong or not being loyal. The side effects! Thank you for this powerful message!
18:0518:1018:16 That's where I'm at. I've stopped talking to most of my family because they are very toxic, and I was always their escape goat and the black sheep of the family. 19:34 yep, I can't believe I walked away from my dad and sister I use to admire them so much until I woke up!
On this day, I am Delivered and Set Free. It is in Gods hands. This is why we must wait on God. I did the right thing and its not my responsibilty to make them understand, ENOUGH! I have Agape love for them and no longer will I be destracted by dysfunction, chaos, and demons. This whole series Red Flags is much needed at such a time as this. Its too late in the day to be playing patty cake with people who refuse to be delivered with the same demonic episodes for years and years. Deception, Denial, Dysfunction, and Disobedience, not tolerated in this season. ENOUGH! I wish them well on their journey. When you have talked, prayed, counselled, forgiven, and they keep on Enough! When a person continues to show you who they are, at some point you have to believe them and for me....She went on and did great things. Holy Spirit will comfort you and shield you from them trying to hurt you. He will numb you so that it will not effect you in the way that it was intended to. Whom the Son set free is free indeed. Bless the name of Jesus and thank you, Holy Spirit.
I didn’t drugs and alcohol for 29 years. Stop working became homeless. The fourth time in rehab God came got me that was in 2016. Been with Him ever since. I want to a peer support counselor I’m trying but are in a spiritual battle. But I will get it done.
I can't wait for you or others to understand that I am able to identify good vs bad treatment from whomever. But I can and will act accordingly to my best interest.
Please leave and don't look back! As someone who went through it, all the apologies and promises to change and never do it again are lies. It will happen again and keep getting worse. You are the daughter of the Almighty King and His best for you is NOT a man that will put his hands on you! That is NOT love, that is control and manipulation..RUN!!!!
I also feel like Lot lost his initial opportunity to do better as a result of being "helped" by Abram. As a teacher, I see that when people "help", read do it for them, children, it is the children that continually lack the skill they could have learned. So in my mind of course, Lot went back to what he knew.
Amen, when we help others without being led by the Holy Spirit, no matter what our intentions are, we become a stumbling block that delays the one being helped to solely rely on the Lord.
1. Initiate a conversation
2. Limitation- I deal with you in doses
3. Separation- suspend interaction to sober yourself emotionally (Is this worth salvaging?) - Never go back if the reason you left is still there !
4. Elimination - the termination ; releasing them into God’s next!
I'm at step 2 in the process. PD was on it. I had the clarifying conversation with a love one. I was about to take the person with me. No I did put their name down to go with me and today now I understand why God said "Pivot!" 🙌🏾
Amen ❤
Thank you for the summary ❤
This is when I started getting chills!!!!😮💨
"Never go back if the reason you left is still there." 😮
Facts! 💯
Yup me too….Simple but powerful
Anybody else toes on 🔥🔥🔥 from being stepped on today?!!!!!!!!!!!! (Edited) AND your 💔 was made ❤️too? God surely loves us to bring such a powerful word like this to our doorstep.🙇🏾♀️
Me!!!!!!
I'd rather God step on my toes than the world. God steps and helps. The world preys and breaks. Let's stay with God y'all! 🙌🏾💞
Me too!!!
❤
Amen
God please deliver me from the need to be understood… in the. Name of Jesus!!
Hallelujah Amen
Yes lord! Amen
Amen
"Tension is sometimes the consequence of growth." 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
He can't punish their disobedience until you be obedient, whewwwwwwwwww
That was a WORD! 💯🙌🏾🙏🏾
Ouch!!
“Love them biblically, Treat them justly, manage them differently”
I need to put some distance between what has been influencing you and what’s getting ready to influence you because whatever has your 👂 ear has your future!!!! 💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽
Amen ❤
“Everyone is equally valuable in the eyes of God but not everyone adds equal value to you.”
And sometimes you have to appreciate the revelation, through Words like this, that YOU were the ‘Lot’ 🙏🏽
- Wisdom
- Grace
- Discernment
Access is learned by the safety of your character.
Only if you demonstrate fruit that says 'Safety' will you henceforth have ACCESS!💃🏾 WISDOM!
Who ever has your ear, has your influences! Trust God to meet the needs of Lots! Tension the consequence of growth! Your tolerance is diminishing! Cycle of detrimental decisions!Layers of effects! Don’t have the time to rescue people who keep putting themselves in unhealthy situations; they won’t listen nor appreciate your help, give it God, pray that they God/Jesus will protect and show them the way! TY Pastor for your validation. Still following your exemplary teachings!
Whew! You can have affection for what you’re not assigned to🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Whew!!!!!🔥🔥🔥🔥😥 Sweat it out!!!!! Pivot!!!
Woooo we! He is helping me!
You don’t know how valuable what you are giving away is !
You can't elevate, you can't upgrade if you have the NEED to be understood 🤯🔥
This entire sermon was about my family. Thank you PD I needed this and didnt even know it. Holy Spirit speak!
And close friends
Wow this message is on time!!! My family drains me and it’s just toxic and distracting. I have to deal with them in doses! Lord Jesus this was powerful, Amen 🙏🏾 🙏🏾🙏🏾
The amount of wisdom you impart on me every week is immeasurable, thank you for allowing God to use you in such a powerful way. God bless you
1. Conversation ( Explaining your feelings) 2. limitations (Boundaries)3. separation: Sober emotions (Suspend interaction for a period of time)..see if the relationship is worth salvaging 4.Elimination the releasing of them in Gods next !!! the relationship no longer serves you
Amen!! He doesn’t need to block someone else’s blessing to bless you!! Amen
The prophetic unction that comes from this platform, to me is straight from the heart of God. This was so on time I’ve watched it three times in a row.
This is something I needed over a decade ago, but I am so thankful for receiving it now! 🙌🏽
7 years for me 😢
Whewwwww....I needed to hear this before having a conversation today!!!!
Dear God.... Give me deliverance from the NEED to be UNDERSTOOD!
To whomever needs to know it. It will be hard to separate from them. You will question if they are ok... if you could have done more... if you should have said less.. and if it was even your problem to carry at all. You will cry tears of sadness beside tears of anger... You will remember them fondly at times and harshly at others. You will have days where you are saddened by the silence that thier voice used to fill... and others where you are full of joy that the projection of the hurt they hurled at you.. you no longer have to carry. But if you follow the guidance of this video and after all that is said and done you realize that regardless of title they hold they are no longer for you.... YOU will have a peace so warm and comforting in your spirit that you know could only be heaven sent! I know it because I've lived it... and nothing but the holy spirit could have guided me through these exact steps before I ever even heard this sermon! Thank you God for speaking to us and guiding us through ❤. You got this baby and God got you!!!!
My youngest daughter explode me to watch Dr. Darius and so far, I am enjoying it! I'm in my season
Y.S.
1.conversation
2.limitation (dealing in doses)
3.seperation (sober yourself emotionally)
4.releasing them to "Gods next"
This is exactly what I have been going through the past month thank you Jesus for placing this message in dr.daniels mind into my heart! How am I surprised when God's word shows up at exactly the right moment!
This is one of the GREATEST MESSAGE I've ever heard in regards to relationships. I know this was from God for me to hear. Thank you PD for allowing God to use you to minister the truth... 🙏🏽 ❤️ 🙌🏽
God bless you Dr. Daniels 🙏🏾❤️
This word is confirming what my family’s been going through constantly since my father passed almost 16 years ago and especially right now!! My sisters and I asked God to order our steps….and we’ve been following each step exactly as you said….to God be the glory!! 🎉🎉Please pray for us because it’s been a struggle with our mother and certain members of her family that’s been keeping this generational curse alive and well…and my sisters and I vow to break!!!! It’s been hard but God!! For Him we live, for Him we die!!! Much love to everyone, especially ones fighting the enemy within!! No weapons….”🙏❤️
I am on overflow with this Word. I have relived seasons in my journey and see moments where I did not do it God's way and let my emotions become a hindrance and a help. This is a level up in discernment. Thank you Pastor D.🙌🔥
🔥 🔥 🔥 I have never had a sermon touch my life so deeply and so accurately at the precise correct time in my life! Thank you for this sermon pastor! I needed it!
Glory to God 🙏🏽🔥🔥🔥🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽🔥🤲🏽🤲🏽! You talk about a message that was right on time. I just reached out to my associate and family and said I can no longer be your place for you to drop off your dysfunctional toxic trash on my front door steps. Because I am in a place where God does not want me to have to keep going back thinking that I can save everybody when some people are un-savable because they are stuck in their car no ways and luciferian commitments to the world 🌎. So I sent this sermon out to everyone so they can catch this God drift 🙌🏽🔥👏🏽🙌🏽🔥🙏🏽! Well done pastor PD 💯🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽. You preached today 🔥🔥🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🔥🔥🙏🏽🙌🏽🙏🏽🔥🔥🔥🔥 Amen!
Straight from the Throne!! Non diluted..100% straight...my God..this is a message deliverance for generations❤❤❤thank you Pastor Daniels
😢😅❤
I literally told my friend, "I need a shirt that says, Misunderstood." People in position of decisions have decided to spread untruths about me, question my integrity, my character, and put my reputation into question. I've cried for 3 days because it truly hurt me. My prayer warriors have been at work. I cried because I wanted to be heard, understood, and to understand why anyone would believe it or even wondered who believes it to be true. But, well, let me just let all that go and lay it to rest tonight. No more needing to be understood. Amen. Thank you PD
Lord, I was in the 11:30 and I need that worship service and then today I am watching the message ...... Right on time!!! Lord thank you for Change church!!
You can not adjust your future unless you are willing to make adjustments with your 👂 🙏🏽🔥🫶🏽
Elimination is what far too many can deal with due to
Ungodly Soul Ties .
Thank You Lord for Rhema word and thank you Pastor for your obedience and seriousness towards God's people.
I'm truly blessed and thankful ❤
Pastor you all in my business now... You preached THIS thang!!
Surround yourself around with assets!!
You can’t elevate and upgrade if you have to be understood!
Amen wisdom on equipping people to have relationships with people
I'm learning alot from this message. Thank you Pastor for your service. God bless you ❤❤❤
Yes Lord give me wisdom, Grace and discernment in this season to manage my lots even if it’s alone.
This sermon deserves a reward!!!! Sheesh
Anointed message, Honor because of last name
Intimacy is based on character not last name
Love freely given
Access is earned, earned by the safety of your character
Fruit is safety
What a POWERFUL sermon!!!!!
Even if the conversation is not well received (blessings God), you have planted the seed! Boundaries ❤Separation for self preservation and growth. Oh, I have lived this over and over… Thank you for validation and insight 🙏😊😊
Whew!!! Come 👏🏾 on 👏🏾! 🔥🔥🔥
This is my very first time seeing this pastor and was immediately drawn in to the preaching love how he took the time and really explain this. I look forward in seeing many more of his preaching
Sober me emotionally FATHER❤in Jesus name I pray Amen ❤❤
Do I want what comes with them PREACH HOLY SPIRIT
Thanks for the notes I was so busy listening I could not get them all and it’s what’s happening to me right now I felt like he was sitting right there talking to me . 😢🙏🏽please pray for my heart
I shared as much as I could rewatched it and shared it again!! I realize now when I pray for protection, God wasn't only protecting me physically but emotionally and mentally, and that's how I maintain being spiritually whole -Kera
PD your delivery 🔥🔥🔥🔥
Such a time word! Made me cry!
So happy that I got to experienced this service live in person. Definitely going back!!
God bless you Bishop Daniels!
Wow , this word ummmmm is hitting!!!!!!🙏🏽 Thank you Lord for meeting me where I am and revealing to me what I already see😞🥲🙏🏽
Lot is costing you a lot 🔥💣🎯💯🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Obedience is better then suffering from other mistake. They must learn to!!
This definitely gave me clarity and understanding with family. A perfect word for my situation
I am so deeply grateful to God for every word of godly holy wisdom that has come out of pastor Dharius' mouth. God bless you sir. These are words hard won and I don't take them for granted. Thank you.
This is a POWERFUL sermon!!! Thank you!!!
This word was right on time and so necessary. I learned so much and God confirmed so much for me as well. God Bless You PD for delivering and teaching this wonderful much needed word. 🙌🏾🙏🏽
Many are putting Lot above their assignments!!!
Preach , Teach that Whole Truth Pastor Dr Dharius Daniels!
MYYYY. MYY, MY! WHAT A WORD!💯🎯🙌🏽🙏🏽
My God: You are AWESOME ❤. THANK YOU PASTOR DANIELS FOR SUCH A POWERFUL TEACHING........THIS IS A LOT!!!! BUT, THANKS BE TO GOD FOR SHOWING ME THE WAY❤
Reaching out to the prayers warriors , please keep me in them 🙏🏾 ❤
I pray God gives you deliverance from the NEED to be Understood! Thank you PD
This sermon right here was on point with what I needed to hear
Mercy Lord!!!. My God, My God. Thanks so much gor this Sermon. Just fo Me
Pastor D! I needed this. I am in a season where I am on the 2nd step 2, Limitation. Small doses. I am dealing with the guilt of holding on because there is so much history. I am dealing with feeling like I am doing something wrong or not being loyal. The side effects! Thank you for this powerful message!
🙌🏽🙌🏽👏🏽 thank you Pastor D for allowing the Lord to use you to speak to me!!!!!
22 seconds in & I am amazed just at the TITLE of the SERMON! PDDDDDDDDD. God is always using you !! To God be the Glory
Abram makes a decision in one season that Abraham has to deal with in another. 🔥🔥🦾
Amazing message!!! Thank you for doing gods work! 🙏🏿
Time To Move On!! 💯
You can't elevate and you can't upgrade if you have to be understood...WOW, that just set me Free!!!
Thank you, thank you , thank you. This message is an answered prayer. I have truly been going through. Thank you 🙏🏾 ❤
This blessed me so much. I thank God for you PD, your teachings are out of this world. God bless You. Amen 🙏🏽
Do I want what comes with them!!!
PowerFULL ☝🏽statement that far too many want to deal with.
God this is a good reflection of where most people are now and IT'S A LOT!!!! WHEWWWWW GOTTA LISTEN AGAIN
Ouch, Amen & Thank You Jesus!!! 😭😭😭😭 Help me HolyGhost this is spot on………👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
HALLELUJAH! Another life-changing WORD!
Conversation
Limitations
Separation
Elimination
This sermon is so powerful!! Thank you ❤
18:05 18:10 18:16 That's where I'm at. I've stopped talking to most of my family because they are very toxic, and I was always their escape goat and the black sheep of the family. 19:34 yep, I can't believe I walked away from my dad and sister I use to admire them so much until I woke up!
On this day, I am Delivered and Set Free. It is in Gods hands. This is why we must wait on God. I did the right thing and its not my responsibilty to make them understand, ENOUGH! I have Agape love for them and no longer will I be destracted by dysfunction, chaos, and demons. This whole series Red Flags is much needed at such a time as this. Its too late in the day to be playing patty cake with people who refuse to be delivered with the same demonic episodes for years and years. Deception, Denial, Dysfunction, and Disobedience, not tolerated in this season. ENOUGH! I wish them well on their journey. When you have talked, prayed, counselled, forgiven, and they keep on Enough! When a person continues to show you who they are, at some point you have to believe them and for me....She went on and did great things. Holy Spirit will comfort you and shield you from them trying to hurt you. He will numb you so that it will not effect you in the way that it was intended to. Whom the Son set free is free indeed. Bless the name of Jesus and thank you, Holy Spirit.
I didn’t drugs and alcohol for 29 years. Stop working became homeless. The fourth time in rehab God came got me that was in 2016. Been with Him ever since.
I want to a peer support counselor I’m trying but are in a spiritual battle. But I will get it done.
I've tried the conversation.....they not there yet mentally to have a conversation! I'm just going to keep praying and keep my distance.
I was sending this all over PD tore the stage up I listen to this 4 times already
I can't wait for you or others to understand that I am able to identify good vs bad treatment from whomever. But I can and will act accordingly to my best interest.
Preach Pastor Dharius Daniels! 🙏🏾 Thank you for the Word. God bless
This…thank you, Jesus!! Amen. 🙏🏽✝️🥰
Praise God for this word i had to watch it again 🙌🏾 definitely a life changer
Needed this today. Just experienced my first domestic violence situation with a man I thought loved me. I’m so hurt. 😭
Please leave and don't look back! As someone who went through it, all the apologies and promises to change and never do it again are lies. It will happen again and keep getting worse. You are the daughter of the Almighty King and His best for you is NOT a man that will put his hands on you! That is NOT love, that is control and manipulation..RUN!!!!
@@favored6007 I’m trying to be strong and walk away for Good. This isn’t what God intended for me.
Wow!! I needed to hear this!! Thank you for this Rhema word! ❤❤
Jesus.🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Message is so good. Speaking to me this morning.
Preach, Lord I need discernment!!!!!!
I also feel like Lot lost his initial opportunity to do better as a result of being "helped" by Abram.
As a teacher, I see that when people "help", read do it for them, children, it is the children that continually lack the skill they could have learned.
So in my mind of course, Lot went back to what he knew.
Amen, when we help others without being led by the Holy Spirit, no matter what our intentions are, we become a stumbling block that delays the one being helped to solely rely on the Lord.