There is no way I would have been that calm I would not have allowed her to keep up with the same crap while justying her actions. She never felt his wrath. Back in the 70's I gave my wife a choice. I was firm and she knew I meant business. It was either him, or me. She instead suggested both. I told her she was moving out and better find her a place to live because I was done. I gave her 30 days. I moved her out myself. I put all the furniture in her new apartment and left it sitting in the middle of the living room. And left. I only went that far because we had small kids. I I hadn't of pulled the plug somebody was going to get killed. And at the time I didn't care if it was me. The local police told me that she wasn't worth the trouble. After I chased her boyfriend all over the parking lot once she begged me not to hurt him. I proved my point. She was hooked up with a coward. I remarried 1st.She married several months later. Her marriage didn't last because she cheated on him too. He got natural payback by Karma. My marriage lasted 30 years until my Ladys death.
How are people like Tilly so delusional and narcissistic ?!? Why is Aaron hesitating? He should dump her and sue her company for enabling the affair! Bob is a moron. Once a cheater always a cheater. Tilly will betray Bob too. And he will deserve it.
When it happened to me back in the 70's even though I loved my wife I did NOT get emotional. Instead I kept a clear head and took care of business. I never allowed myself to shed a tear. I decided she wasn't worth it.
Your conclusion is spot on. You have to make sure that your world view and morality are identical otherwise you will surely run into difficulties as brought out in this video
Tilly's view on monogamy is caustic to a relationship. She can't see beyond herself. She's like a broken record repeating herself ad nauseum. She's pure poison.
Agree she never understood the true meaning of hosty and respect. She never learned the concept of accountability. She allways comes easily up with rectifications and blameshiftings. Combined with her low impulse control she is indeed pure poison.
This is better than most. I liked how he divided marriage into three parts. Looking on my failed marriage I now see that I can't remember a time when I could rely on my spouse's honesty.
Faithful men consider their wives as a sanctuary in which they will entrust their hopes, fragility and trust for the only being for whom they would accept all sacrifices! This story is quite pitiful of a submissive, weak and inconstant man who procrastinates to act.....
I disagree. If he was pitiful and weak, he would have submitted to her bullshit and never divorced her. He's the consummate analytical. He was trying to make logical sense of it all and analyze it like a math problem. We all know that life doesn't work that way, but he just needed time to come to terms with it which isn't easy for an analyst type. As an engineer, I understand him. Fortunately for me though, I'm also fairly emotional so when my ex started cheating on me 35 years ago, I spent a week or so crying about the loss of my marriage and asking myself why, but I quickly got over it, got pissed and never looked back. That said, I'll admit that doing what's best for my kids forced me to swallow some pride along the way in terms of giving her the revenge I REALLY wanted.
I don’t know what’s scarier ? The amount of people who think and believe as the wife does or that people get married knowing so little about the importance of major issues to each other. Wife= infidelity doesn’t matter your not there I just do what makes me feel good as opposed to husband= fidelity is of upmost importance in a relationship. These 2 extremely varying opinions can not work together. Some relationships can thrive like this possibly but those that do I’m sure it is talked about well beforehand . The husband/wife doesn’t find out at some cocktail party that their wife/husband is the company bike. Have to love a woman who stays “faithful” after the divorce.
This is a very good story but it always amazes me, just personally, that of all the important questions asked there is one that never seems to be: would she feel the same way then about him having extramarital sex if the physical act itself doesn't matter? This question never seems to be one that gets asked in these stories! I must admit I would like to have heard the response.
If you could do just, just one story that didn’t revolve around college?! Did you tell your AI there is a 100% global college attendance on Earth? So include college in every story! Oh and every one is rich and comes from old $. Every woman is the hottest woman on planet and always looks ten years younger than she is and hubby has a line of even hotter women lined up who are just waiting for divorce to go through because he’s the greatest most perfect man they’ve ever known! And he goes on with perfect new wife making perfect new kids, making lots of money! Ex wife’s life falls apart and is disowned by her parents and loses her job as an attorney where she met AP who is 24 years old the senior partner in a prestigious law firm! Now AP’s wife leaves him and takes everything, he’s on the streets and hubby beats him so bad that his tool never works again all in a perfect wave of revenge!
I'm 65,I've found there's no way to make a contract of any kind with emotions. There can be boundaries if bad consequences are the result of crossing those boundaries. Just like breaking the laws of the government. Now if I don't think anything is wrong with stealing vegetables from your garden because you have plenty the only thing to do is get rid of me.
Some women just can't seem to keep their legs together like Tilly. Thankfully there are plenty of women who respect and honor marriage like it should be.
There is no reconciliation possible. She does not see what she did as even wrong. You will literally never be able to trust her on a business trip again. If she gets in the mood she’ll follow through. Even by some miracle she promises not to engage again just to humor you and keep the marriage, it won’t matter because in your heart you will never believe it and think every trip is another cheating experience. Then you have Randy, willing and able and getting use to being in the saddle… how long before she emotionally gets involved? Never… next time maybe.
They seem to always claim their infidelity didn't hurt the spouse. The fact remains, the spouse is sitting at home waiting for the other to return while the other is sucking, swallowing and getting slammed. That doesn't seem right. And in this case, it clearly would have happened again if the opportunity arose. If she needed to have sex and her husband wasn't around, it was "love the one you're with".
She never even offered to be faithful going forward. Not that it would matter. She promised to be faithful before marriage according to OP and abandoning that promise didn’t cause her any guilt at all.
Wife: “I knew if he found out it would damage my relationship, but now that he knows, I just have to figure out how to manipulate him to go along with my point of view.” Also, I’ll warrant she wouldn’t view it the same way and be so casual about it if she found out he was screwing his colleague on work trips.
How can she actually believe that her physical affairs mean nothing. Its just sex is no excuse and proves she threw away everything they had for nothing. She must feel his pain and more. Then she must suffer the consequences including divorce and all. There are no second chances. You cant open a broken heart. It cannot be healed or fixed. In the end i had hope Tillys new man would cheat on her so she could finally really understand and feel the pain and suffering she caused Aaron. Its a shame really.
The presentation changes persons so quickly and so often that I got really confused. The same voice, changing male to female without warning ruined the story for me. I think that the wife is self centered and expects the husband to just accept her betrayal and agree. Presentation is terrible.
She lies so much that she believes her lies. It means nothing. Then you destroyed your marriage for nothing if he cheated and she found out she would've divorced him
I already knew this story from another channel. It's a good story. I'll leave a comment. The title is misleading and I don't understand why. Be careful as this is false advertising. It's like buying a product where the packaging says one thing and when you open it it's completely different. There is no need for sensationalism in the title to make the story seen. When I feel deceived, as I was here, I put the channel under suspicion. I'll like it this time, but be careful.
Hahahahaha what nonsense. Tilly knows cheating is wrong. Everyone except a psychopath does not. This story tries to pull on the psychological makeups of different people but it is pure nonsense since infidelity is infidelity and that is why Tilly despite her protestations kept it from her husband.
There is no way I would have been that calm
I would not have allowed her to keep up with the same crap while justying her actions.
She never felt his wrath.
Back in the 70's I gave my wife a choice.
I was firm and she knew I meant business.
It was either him, or me.
She instead suggested both.
I told her she was moving out and better find her a place to live because I was done.
I gave her 30 days.
I moved her out myself.
I put all the furniture in her new apartment and left it sitting in the middle of the living room.
And left.
I only went that far because we had small kids.
I I hadn't of pulled the plug somebody was going to get killed.
And at the time I didn't care if it was me.
The local police told me that she wasn't worth the trouble.
After I chased her boyfriend all over the parking lot once she begged me not to hurt him.
I proved my point.
She was hooked up with a coward.
I remarried 1st.She married several months later.
Her marriage didn't last because she cheated on him too.
He got natural payback by Karma.
My marriage lasted 30 years until my Ladys death.
Tilly is just a self-centered narcissist. For someone who claimed to be flexible, she could not see her husband's side.
I agree boundaries are importantly adhered to cheating of any kind is unacceptable
How are people like Tilly so delusional and narcissistic ?!? Why is Aaron hesitating? He should dump her and sue her company for enabling the affair! Bob is a moron. Once a cheater always a cheater. Tilly will betray Bob too. And he will deserve it.
Tilly is so full of her bullshit you can tell. She's always had him under her control
Now, Atlas Shrugged her world off.
When it happened to me back in the 70's even though I loved my wife I did NOT get emotional.
Instead I kept a clear head and took care of business.
I never allowed myself to shed a tear.
I decided she wasn't worth it.
I too felt the same?
Your conclusion is spot on. You have to make sure that your world view and morality are identical otherwise you will surely run into difficulties as brought out in this video
Tilly's view on monogamy is caustic to a relationship. She can't see beyond herself. She's like a broken record repeating herself ad nauseum. She's pure poison.
Agree she never understood the true meaning of hosty and respect. She never learned the concept of accountability. She allways comes easily up with rectifications and blameshiftings. Combined with her low impulse control she is indeed pure poison.
This is better than most. I liked how he divided marriage into three parts. Looking on my failed marriage I now see that I can't remember a time when I could rely on my spouse's honesty.
My wife cheated within 2 years after our marriage.
I 1st time I caught her out daughter was 10 months old.
She turned out to be pure slut.
"she was a bad liar & I was good at detecting lies"
*pikachu face*
What a selfish woman me me me, I I I!
The Cw doesn't think infidelity is also lying to marriage vows_
Faithful men consider their wives as a sanctuary in which they will entrust their hopes, fragility and trust for the only being for whom they would accept all sacrifices! This story is quite pitiful of a submissive, weak and inconstant man who procrastinates to act.....
I disagree. If he was pitiful and weak, he would have submitted to her bullshit and never divorced her. He's the consummate analytical. He was trying to make logical sense of it all and analyze it like a math problem. We all know that life doesn't work that way, but he just needed time to come to terms with it which isn't easy for an analyst type. As an engineer, I understand him. Fortunately for me though, I'm also fairly emotional so when my ex started cheating on me 35 years ago, I spent a week or so crying about the loss of my marriage and asking myself why, but I quickly got over it, got pissed and never looked back. That said, I'll admit that doing what's best for my kids forced me to swallow some pride along the way in terms of giving her the revenge I REALLY wanted.
I don’t know what’s scarier ? The amount of people who think and believe as the wife does or that people get married knowing so little about the importance of major issues to each other. Wife= infidelity doesn’t matter your not there I just do what makes me feel good as opposed to husband= fidelity is of upmost importance in a relationship. These 2 extremely varying opinions can not work together. Some relationships can thrive like this possibly but those that do I’m sure it is talked about well beforehand . The husband/wife doesn’t find out at some cocktail party that their wife/husband is the company bike. Have to love a woman who stays “faithful” after the divorce.
This is a very good story but it always amazes me, just personally, that of all the important questions asked there is one that never seems to be: would she feel the same way then about him having extramarital sex if the physical act itself doesn't matter? This question never seems to be one that gets asked in these stories! I must admit I would like to have heard the response.
This Cw is high lvl delusional_
If you could do just, just one story that didn’t revolve around college?! Did you tell your AI there is a 100% global college attendance on Earth? So include college in every story! Oh and every one is rich and comes from old $. Every woman is the hottest woman on planet and always looks ten years younger than she is and hubby has a line of even hotter women lined up who are just waiting for divorce to go through because he’s the greatest most perfect man they’ve ever known! And he goes on with perfect new wife making perfect new kids, making lots of money! Ex wife’s life falls apart and is disowned by her parents and loses her job as an attorney where she met AP who is 24 years old the senior partner in a prestigious law firm! Now AP’s wife leaves him and takes everything, he’s on the streets and hubby beats him so bad that his tool never works again all in a perfect wave of revenge!
I'm 65,I've found there's no way to make a contract of any kind with emotions. There can be boundaries if bad consequences are the result of crossing those boundaries. Just like breaking the laws of the government. Now if I don't think anything is wrong with stealing vegetables from your garden because you have plenty the only thing to do is get rid of me.
Some women just can't seem to keep their legs together like Tilly. Thankfully there are plenty of women who respect and honor marriage like it should be.
I've never seen a woman that won't commit adultery if given the chance!
There is no reconciliation possible. She does not see what she did as even wrong. You will literally never be able to trust her on a business trip again. If she gets in the mood she’ll follow through. Even by some miracle she promises not to engage again just to humor you and keep the marriage, it won’t matter because in your heart you will never believe it and think every trip is another cheating experience. Then you have Randy, willing and able and getting use to being in the saddle… how long before she emotionally gets involved? Never… next time maybe.
Delusional 304
I agree she said I wanted sex I decided that I would do it with someone else but it means nothing blah blah I call BS
There is no bigger deal than the honest trust between a married couple
I liked the story, especially that both husband and wife speak, but too many words. The story could have been told in 30 minutes.
I usually enjoy this channel, However, this story had too much unnecessary filler in this story. I can't Enjoy it...
Tilly is super worried that HR will find out about her thing. Apparently she doesn’t think she can convince HR it was meaningless.
When she insisted it meant nothing she made her marriage mean nothing.
They seem to always claim their infidelity didn't hurt the spouse. The fact remains, the spouse is sitting at home waiting for the other to return while the other is sucking, swallowing and getting slammed. That doesn't seem right.
And in this case, it clearly would have happened again if the opportunity arose. If she needed to have sex and her husband wasn't around, it was "love the one you're with".
She never even offered to be faithful going forward. Not that it would matter. She promised to be faithful before marriage according to OP and abandoning that promise didn’t cause her any guilt at all.
If the shoe was on the other foot she be mad as hell and divorce him.
I like this story
Tilly is clearly a self-centered narcissist. Despite professing to be adaptable, she failed to consider her husband's perspective.
You should never sleep with anybody other than your spouse!!
Wife: “I knew if he found out it would damage my relationship, but now that he knows, I just have to figure out how to manipulate him to go along with my point of view.”
Also, I’ll warrant she wouldn’t view it the same way and be so casual about it if she found out he was screwing his colleague on work trips.
Taken from rhetthebrat’s “How Do The Scales Balance?”. Published on Literotica
How can she actually believe that her physical affairs mean nothing. Its just sex is no excuse and proves she threw away everything they had for nothing. She must feel his pain and more. Then she must suffer the consequences including divorce and all. There are no second chances. You cant open a broken heart. It cannot be healed or fixed. In the end i had hope Tillys new man would cheat on her so she could finally really understand and feel the pain and suffering she caused Aaron. Its a shame really.
Once again, a completely misleading title, nothing on the title was mentioned in the story!
The presentation changes persons so quickly and so often that I got really confused.
The same voice, changing male to female without warning ruined the story for me.
I think that the wife is self centered and expects the husband to just accept her betrayal and agree.
Presentation is terrible.
She lies so much that she believes her lies. It means nothing. Then you destroyed your marriage for nothing if he cheated and she found out she would've divorced him
I already knew this story from another channel. It's a good story. I'll leave a comment. The title is misleading and I don't understand why. Be careful as this is false advertising. It's like buying a product where the packaging says one thing and when you open it it's completely different. There is no need for sensationalism in the title to make the story seen. When I feel deceived, as I was here, I put the channel under suspicion. I'll like it this time, but be careful.
Terrible ending tilly should've been cheated for something done .
FORGIVE HER FOR THE KIDS SAKE MAKE HER QUIT THE JOB IF SHE DOSEN'T WANT TO THEN IT'S NOT OVER 😮😮
Hahahahaha what nonsense. Tilly knows cheating is wrong. Everyone except a psychopath does not. This story tries to pull on the psychological makeups of different people but it is pure nonsense since infidelity is infidelity and that is why Tilly despite her protestations kept it from her husband.
This is a nice story I only wonders how the guys who spoke of the infidelity how they new about it and Tilly did not know how they found out.
Thank you a good story.
Honestly at traumatic high stress moments in time how can you eat?
Too much unnecessary filler in this story. I can't Enjoy it...
Too wordy we don't need a dictionary to explain cheating and feelings
Who the hell does things that don't mean anything?
Cheaters say that all the time
Adultery is Adultery
Divorce now
Huh? What happened to the "hand under her skirt" and KO?? Besides that, so-so story. Not worth reading.
Blah blah 50 words where 10 would bo
Yuck.
A lot of unnecessary dialogue_