Why Comfort is Ruining Your Life

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  • @LucyAlllan
    @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

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  • @khalilahd.
    @khalilahd. 2 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    This was the tough love I needed because you couldn’t be more right. Your comfort zone is like quicksand it keeps you in the same place and doesn’t allow for growth and change. I’m also going on a language learning journey and though it’s hard it’s been so rewarding 💛

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You got this!

    • @danielacastanoabreu8874
      @danielacastanoabreu8874 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You're everywhere wtf!

    • @bodigames
      @bodigames 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re a fake bot account. You are under every video.

    • @danielacastanoabreu8874
      @danielacastanoabreu8874 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bodigames nah, she's just doing that to growth her channel

  • @riskyjuice5208
    @riskyjuice5208 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I had that past of hiding myself from everything and everyone. It was very tough because no one understood what I was dealing with and it was hard to explain myself at that time. I tried telling someone I can trust the most. From that it didn't really go somwhere. So I had to deal social anxiety by myself. After few years of not facing anything, being disliked by everyone and being scared by their cold stares. Also my family thought I was going crazy and dull. Honestly I was just addicted to social media, depressed, and overhwhelmed by everything around me. The only thing I had to do was get the most tiniest silver needle and pop the thick balloon. That I was in for too long. That was the best decision of my life because I was starting to act normal again. Finally, I felt abit happy. I can talk to people that i was more comfortable with. For anyone out there who's struggling. Try getting out of your own balloon it doesn't have to be the most biggest and sharpest thing to pop with. Start making small holes with it. Gradually, you'll get out there soon as you want it to be. It takes time and patience. Try to blame yourself less. Always be kind to yourself.

  • @nerdcartoon2544
    @nerdcartoon2544 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Imagine you're uncomfortable for years, suffer and struggle with anxiety and panic attacks always feel the fight or flight response for no reason
    I wish to be comfortable again but I understand your points

  • @jonycas2000
    @jonycas2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was in Switzerland just 1 week ago, but in the french part of the country, their's no other place like that in the world. Beautiful country all around. And, as always, great video.

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      what a stunning country but I can't afford to breath there hahah

    • @jonycas2000
      @jonycas2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LucyAlllan same ahahahah

  • @eviec1819
    @eviec1819 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've been working on changing my mindset and appreciating life more recently in the aims of improving my mental health and watching a bunch of your videos along the way has helped so much! They leave my thinking and I appreciate that so much. So far, I have gone on a really great social media detox and have bought A Million Miles in A Thousand Years (have not yet read it though but looking forward to it!). Thank you for these really lovely videos, I'm sure so many more people beyond me appreciate them as I do!

  • @rafael.vitoria
    @rafael.vitoria 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I want to greet you, you're a role model to follow in regard to our generation. Hasn't been the first video I watched from you, I started to face life as it actually is since I deleted my instagram account and did quit an amount of harmful habits. From an 18 year old, 3 things only matter to me, my spirituality and my loved ones and the suffer behind the success. I love discomfort!

  • @El-wx6vp
    @El-wx6vp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This felt very personal to me. As someone who is currently struggling to get out of my comfort zone, and someone who lives in Switzerland. What a beautiful video :)

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ah Switzerland, how lucky are you to have views like that and the freshest water!😌

    • @El-wx6vp
      @El-wx6vp 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LucyAlllan Yes it's amazing to be here :)

  • @timeasleeptimeawake9856
    @timeasleeptimeawake9856 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video spoke to me in many ways. I was always afraid to leave my comfort zone. I remember taking my first solo trip to New Zealand and Thailand and I was terrified!! But I made it through. Now that I am trying a new endeavor, I am struggling to achieve it. Also this video makes me want to visit Europe. I'm glad I found this video. Thank you, Lucy

  • @severinmeli3649
    @severinmeli3649 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I live in the city at 0:02, its my home town :D how cool is that

  • @aubreystewart6210
    @aubreystewart6210 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This channel saved me

  • @Nastiazik
    @Nastiazik 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Greetings from Moscow 🇷🇺 I mount my videos and put yours in the background so that it won't be boring to work

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg i love to hear this, I hope I keep you calm at work :)

  • @paulkirkby4490
    @paulkirkby4490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel the last few years have wacked me out my comfert zone. Pandemic made me leave secomdary pass my gsces under covid and change my start off college. Have moved house twice now living in the herbredies from the south coast of england. Left all i knew. Then been travaling 2 weeks left. Had never left the country before now crossed many borders learnt a lot got stopped and searched in germany scared the hell out of me. If anyone still is scared about going and travaling do it you live once your young once. And everything you said i agree with sooooo much. Gonna be sad when this ends. Smth i didnt expect

  • @MiyagiMugen
    @MiyagiMugen 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Absolutely Marvellous thanks again and again !

  • @rina-nv5yr
    @rina-nv5yr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Can’t wait to graduate and get out of this country next year, I don’t know what exactly I’m going to do but I do know that I don’t wanna get too comfortable here and that whatever my dreams are, I can’t follow them here. Loved the video, thank you!🌸

  • @melaninangel
    @melaninangel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Greetings from South Africa. Your video really helped me realize to step out of my comfort zone. Thank you🤝🏽

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh wow South Africa, I think you’re the first one the channel!! Thanks :)

    • @rvlng7265
      @rvlng7265 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Lucy Allan not true, I’ve been here too :))

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rvlng7265 shout out to my South American people haah

  • @adir1598
    @adir1598 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    hey, Ive been a sub for like a year and really like your content, im a 22 year old from Israel and next year I'm gonna go live in Italy for 5 years and study in vet school. I'm really stressed but I'm chasing my dreams

  • @lidialark
    @lidialark 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Greetings from Ukraine💙💛 Thank you Lucy for the inspiration and motivation! Now I'm starting to work on the Fiverr platform to earn some money and also go somewhere on a trip. Thank you!

    • @The_cool_guy78
      @The_cool_guy78 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love ukranians

    • @lidialark
      @lidialark 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@The_cool_guy78 ♥️
      where are you from?

    • @-p2349
      @-p2349 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lidialark how you fell about the war

  • @Apollo1999xo
    @Apollo1999xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I am so happy to meet people like you, I support you. keep it up

  • @KHALIL_AMINE
    @KHALIL_AMINE 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The videography is so good. You should make a short film.

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I would love to but I definitely need to improve a bit first :)

  • @samosborne
    @samosborne 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow that water looked incredible 🧜🏻‍♀️

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      It was insane!! very peaceful and calming to watch it just fall like that

  • @melonique_dj
    @melonique_dj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    NOOOOOOO you were in zurich omg I would have loved to see you!

  • @spiritualawakening4444
    @spiritualawakening4444 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love ur video always dude ..keep making video motivation productive , lifestyle and overthinking and stress ...💫🙏

  • @Ducky_logan
    @Ducky_logan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is lovely 😊 -- I love your process

  • @ludsi4385
    @ludsi4385 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey, I live there!

  • @contentbygiuse
    @contentbygiuse 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Lucy! Really love your video and their vibes.
    I Just want to ask you something about your creative process.
    What do you make as first? Recording the voiceover or edit the video frames?
    It would be very intresting a video about it.
    Love from Italy ❤️

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I always start with the city or place i have in mind, then I find music to correlate.
      Normally when I am in the city I think of a storyline to follow which helps me mesh them together but I don't script until the week of editing :)

  • @The_cool_guy78
    @The_cool_guy78 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I loved it

  • @digitalpragmatism
    @digitalpragmatism 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah, everybody says that :) including me!

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      get out of the comfort zone :)

  • @jackyergensen8053
    @jackyergensen8053 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What was the name of the piano song in background for the video about 1 year without social media

  • @jackyergensen8053
    @jackyergensen8053 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whats the name of piano music in background for 1 year without social media please? 😁

  • @forhad7394
    @forhad7394 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Take love

  • @fritzkramer8570
    @fritzkramer8570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    that’s a good boyfriend

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      he's the best, shoutout to emilio haha

  • @alicekm4334
    @alicekm4334 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey do you still live in Scotland?

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Not currently but I will go back soon :)

    • @alicekm4334
      @alicekm4334 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LucyAlllan Okay :)

  • @georgiaduncan3283
    @georgiaduncan3283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'd really love to know how you afford it

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Before covid I use to work 30 hours a week whilst struggling (I was on like £5 an hour) and I would stay in the cheapest hostel and eat the cheapest thing on the menu. I did that for probably 3 years.
      Now I’m very grateful because TH-cam pays a lot nicer than my old bar job and I can travel without worrying soooo much about the money- but of course I still budget everything due to old habits.

    • @georgiaduncan3283
      @georgiaduncan3283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@LucyAlllan oh wow!! Tbh I used to work 70 hours on 9£ and still struggled because of where I lived. I then quit my job and am currently travelling for a month as that's all i could afford!! I wish I was able to do what you're doing and you're very lucky as I know I'll have to go back to those crazy hours soon

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@georgiaduncan3283 70 hours?? That's not fair at all. I hope you can find a better balance soon or a job that values you as you deserve! I hope you enjoy your travel though, remember to write down all the memories!

  • @AshWilliams-v3e
    @AshWilliams-v3e 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow water on 4k graphics 🐬🐬🐬🐬🐬💦💦💦💦💦💦

    • @LucyAlllan
      @LucyAlllan  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hahah honestly it looked the same with my own eyes, such a beautiful place

  • @SantiagoSarmiento1
    @SantiagoSarmiento1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    🍀