many of us get into relationships sometimes knowing there's a good chance it won't last! but the human heart was born to love, so most of us take that chance regardless!
It's actually refreshing to hear new/younger artists actually put something out other than "bro country". The whole beer, dirt road truck routine is beyond played out. Actually playing instruments and meaningful lyrics, not made up words simply to rhyme, really does work. Hopefully you continue with this path. Great job.
“Even if I knew you’d be my best and worst mistake I’d still make it with you” just hurts in a different kind of way after a breakup. Loving someone who was never yours is the hardest fall you will ever take.
And not finding out they never were yours until the end is the worst part takes the wind out of your gut.... Sucks the life out of your heart and soul... Changes every color in the rainbow and in your vision forever. They all become drab, daunting and hoe hum
I'd gladly have my heart broken a thousand times over and over on the chance that one day we get it right. I will love her forever, even with a broken heart.
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17 years ago today, my first love broke my heart. Yes, I'd go back and do our relationship over and over again. Even though we married other people, I think a part of my will always love him, which is why we can't talk anymore. Wish him the best.
I'd love every memory. I'd feel every pain and remember each moment again and again even though we break up in the end. I'll always cherish what I had and the feeling of completeness I had was confident could never end .. and then we broke up in the end ... But if do it all again .. even tho .... 🎵 🎵
Alex, wherever you are, whatever you’re doing. I hope you’re living life to the fullest. I wouldn’t trade all the times and memories we’ve made together for anything in this life. You’ll forever hold a special place in my heart
7 months can change someone more than than you would ever expect. All the memories coming back every night. All the pain coming back every morning. All still being worth it in the end. I love you Leah. Forever and always ❤️
My mom and dad are separated but my dad loves this song and I think I know why. I try to hide my tears every time he plays it because I don’t want him to know I understand.
As a divorced mom, I can tell you...children are the most precious reason we'd do it over again. Blessings and prayers for you. You will get through this, and your parents will as well.
You brought instant tears to my eyes. I'm recently a single mom of four and I could never understand being from a broken family but I can say that it is without a doubt the hardest thing I've ever had to do not just once but twice. Both your mom and dad love you so much and I hope you never ever forget that. Sometimes we grow apart and sometimes we love so hard that we must love from a distance. My heart goes out to you. Ive been away from my four children for too long and I know not a second goes by that I don't think of them I promise you that you are so loved and when things look hopeless just remember that you are the one thing that your mom and dad did that they will cherish for ever and ever and no one can take that away. You will get thru this. ❤️
My ex wife sent this to me awhile back. I think i sat here and cried like a baby. 13 years and 2 beautiful daughters later. That ment more to me than anything. I'm pretty tough but this one got to me. Thanks for great song Cole...
“You just had one too many tonight. You’re just cause lonely, that’s ok, but you know if you come over I can not let you in” hits me every time I hear it.
I love the meaning of this song, to be glad for the time you’ve had with them and happily pay the price of pain to be able to have those great memories... This song is helping me cope with the loss of my dog.
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This song really touched my ❤. I had to leave my ex back in Sept, but we still love each other and miss each other very much. It's difficult when you love someone, yet know it won't work
I'm in the same boat. We were together 6 yrs and still live each other like crazy..we are divorced now but trying to fix it. IDK why we can't just get along..oh bc he can't do right.. but besides that. I love h and I would do it over bc I have an amazing child out of it.
I watched my older brother go through this exact shit and totally loose himself and wreck his life over a women he was with for 9 years. It’s so sad and breathtaking to see him still struggling with their break up almost 8 years later
This song is just so heartbreakingly beautiful. Even if you haven't had a broken heart like the way this song describes, you can commiserate with it and wish you did.
My ex showed me this song even though he knew I didn’t like country. He said it reminded him of us because we were always on and off. I thought it was so cute and I actually ended up liking the song. I feel now that we’re broken up I didn’t get to appreciate this song back then. I’m just now realizing how deep these lyrics are. The fact that someone would go through the pain and agony of losing the person they love and having their hearts broken over and over, again and again just to experience the love and the good memories with them again even knowing that every ending will be painful is truly heartbreaking and beautiful.
He loved me and somewhere down the line. I think he stopped. But I never have. And I don’t think I will. It’s only been 4 days but after 4 years together it feels like it’s been a lifetime already without him.
I recently broke up with my girl friend and this song is a good representation of how I feel. There is no way I'd ever be able to get her back. I'd do anything for her and me again. Why does life always have something to throw at you to test your emotional strength?
Garrett Sindt It’s a test to develop you into a better, stronger person in the future. Everything happens for a reason or another in my opinion, we might not understand it now, or ever but there’s always a reason. Stay strong brother.
Break Up in the End Cole Swindell I still walk in that bar a little drunk I still ask you what you're drinking, what's your name I still kiss you by the shuffleboard, last call at 2AM Even though we break up in the end I'll introduce you to my mom and dad Say "I think I love her" when you leave that room I'd still not take their advice when I say you're moving in Even though we break up in the end Even if I knew you'd be the one that got away I'd still go back and get you Even if I knew you'd be my best and worst mistake Oh, I'd still make it with you Over and over, again and again Even though we break up in the end I'd still play my favorite song in your car Let you love me to it, 'til it felt like ours Now all I hear is you in it, but I'd still let you ruin it Even though we break up in the end Even if I knew you'd be the one that got away I'd still go back and get you Even if I knew you'd be my best and worst mistake Girl, I'd still make it with you Over and over, again and again Even though we break up in the end You've just had one too many tonight You're just calling 'cause you're lonely, that's okay But you know if you come over, I can't not let you in Even though we'll break up in the end I'd do it over and over, again and again Even though we break up in the end
Saw the news that Cole just got married! Super well wishes! This song is, to me, the antidote to Wallen's catchy, but woman-hating stuff. You go, Cole and Cole's lady!
I can relate with u on this man... I wasn’t good enough for mine either, she decided to cheat on me, lied to me for our entire relationship, and then leave me for one of her “old friends”... she just changed like a light switch went off in her head one day and then suddenly I wasn’t good enough... even though I treated her like a queen and spoiled the hell out of her. I loved her more than life itself too, and tbh it hasn’t gotten any easier for me, it’s been just about a year for me.
@@rushdowning6916 Its been more than 4 years since me and the mother of my child separated. We were together for nearly 7 years. My foolish pride got in the way of my relationship as well. Now I'm married with another one on the way, and she is engaged to a good man. I love my wife to death, but that first love has a special place in a human heart.
Closure happens right after you accept that letting go and moving on is more important than projecting a fantasy of how the relationship could have been... Defined love ❤️ in your heart and where that love must be...
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Used to hate country music but this song really got me into the genre. I’ve lived in the south my whole life and still do so it always came as a surprise when I told people I wasn’t a country fan, but after this song I’ve been getting into it so much. Beautiful job on the song and amazing lyrics.
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I've never been with anyone, so I have no clue what a breakup is like, but just reading through the comment section, I'm at the verge of tears because it looks like everyone is just so strong when the time came for them to have to split with their better halves, but in reality it must have been hell for all of you to have to go through such a thing. I can't even imagine what it's going to be like for me if I ever go through this. I applaud you all for being able to move on and hope that you are all in a better position than you were when you had to end your relationship(s) with the previous person you were with. 😭
It's almost been three years since she broke my heart. There have been others but she will always have a special place in my heart. And I know someday she will come back to me because of how she acts when I'm with someone new or how she still pops up in places randomly. But I know that it would destroy what I've built without her if I go back.
If you ever truly loved someone and you hear this song, you can't keep a dry eye. First time I ever heard this song? When he sent me this video ending our marriage. And yet I still play it all the time because the words are just so true.
who's here in 2021? i was here when the song first came out.. listened to it so many times to the point it was annoying... here i am now, in 2021.. now knowing what this song is about, makes me wanna cry.. i forgot all about this song and i'm so happy i came back to it.. have a wonderful 2021 everyone. stay safe
I wouldn’t change a thing with my last girl. She healed a lot of a once broken heart. And she helped mold me into who I need to be in the future. I’ll always love her for her dedication to helping me be a better man
Truth bomb. Fell in love with a narcissist. Even after all the bull sh#t he empowered me in so many ways. Hard lesson learned but worth it. Moved on and found the one I’m meant to be with.
This song is the answer to so many questions I have had this past year. Even though it was the worst "break up" I guess. How do you hate someone you've loved for 20 years? How do you just walk away from the realist love you've experienced? Why do they hurt you yet say they love you? Why can't I forget? Would I do it again? The answer is, Absolutely! The good times overpower the bad however, I would have been more cautious and kept the wall up when you continued to tell me to let you in. I guess we live and learn. And I will never be able to believe you or trust you again.
I’ve been split from my ex for four months now and I’ve been fighting a lot of demons and this came on the radio and it let me realize I can move on and still have her in my heart. Like I can have a future and have a family that’s it’s okay to have a very soft spot for one person. Thank you.
Thomas Fowler exactly how I felt I thought it was stupid to still have some unmarked feelings for him but like you said this song helped me come to the realization that I can still have it
Been apart from mine for a year now, this song brings me back to her, wouldn't trade the memories for the world but honestly it's better to move on and just keep them as memories and nothing more
It’s been 8 years now, 6 years since we last spoke. They married someone else this year. Losing them damaged me forever, but I’d do it all again if I could, just to see them and hear their laugh again. I miss you Jamie.
10 years together, and a beautiful little girl together. Still one of my best friends, and an amazing mom. We both have found our new loves, but I am a better man in every aspect because of our time together. I couldn't be happier that we have each found our loves and I wouldn't change a dam thing even if I knew the end. Thank you. :)
Reading all the comments made me worried. I’ve been married for over 3 years. We’ve had ups and downs, some pretty bad but we still love each other and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I just don’t know what future holds :(
I’ve always been the type to move on really quick, but something is different about this girl. No matter how hard I try, I can’t move on. She’s expressed the way she feels (which isn’t the same way I feel) but the thought of not having her breaks my heart.
I have always been like this, I absolutely never give second chance. My husband and I have been together for 10 yrs. Even if it tore my heart out I would still not give him a second chance if we ever broke up. At the point I have left someone they have allready repeatedly not listened, heard, or taken me seriously; and broken my heart a 1000 times.
It's definitely hitting home in my heart, and the one I lose over n over,Tina even though we break in the end we keep coming back again and again💙💔 i love you baby always xoxo 😘 thanks cole for such a great song..your the man💯
Had a breakup around a month ago, this song was playing from the CD album in my truck when I told her I loved her for the first time. A good female friend, long distance. Let's vote for this video for 2019 CMA awards on Wednesday, up for two nominations. Great song and video. Hope to see Cole live at the Wharf in July
This video is amazing! The best music video I have seen in a long time. Cole, you are so talented and the way you connect with your songs is worth way more than I could say. Thank you for being you!
I'm so sorry he chose too. My ex did as well 4 years ago this August that just past. I felt all that this song says before he took his life. Being that we didn't speak for almost 2 years before he did, I knew we weren't together for good reasons but despite them, I still would do it all over again. Your loss is so much greater so I apologize if my relating made it seem otherwise. Your marriage and his place was so much of your life. I hope you've found your way through grief or are on the way. Xo
This song got me.... my mum and dad divorced and it was one of the hardest things to go through. I don’t think parents seem to understand how much it affects us. People used to say to me ‘oh, you get two Christmas’s, two bdays etc’ but in reality. I wanted happy memories. And I didn’t really get that with my family. Constant arguments. Constant fighting. We’d always have to pick between them. Both mum and dad talking bad about one another to their kids. Sending love out there to divorced parents kids❤️❤️
They are all replaceable..I was by a fat ugly blond who's two years older than him...guess he didn't like the six days older had to go older and fatter...
it's been 5 years since you left, and every time i just think of you, and i remember what it was during the first few years, and how it ended up at 7, that love for you still sits in my heart, and it always will, even when you didn't feel the same way back, If i could, i would, but things would need to change, which you were never fond of, so I listen to this song, wishing it was different, when it never could be....
Dear ex , What came from it was a wonderful amazing son and memories with you that ill always remember we were just 2 kids at the timr and we didnt work out but ill love you for the rest of my life thank you for everything amd the gift of our son
3 years. 4 months. 19 days. You've been my greatest love. I know I'll always be some type of in love with you. I still do. I love you... I miss you. Until further notice, my love... sweet dreams.
The day she told me she wanted to break up I died, my mind raced, I went through every stage of grief 9 years together But… she was hurting, she was depressed and needed help, and didn’t want me She is still a friend of mine, and I speak to her fairly often She doesn’t know that I’ve carried a torch for her since I was a boy, and I still do
This is by far a great song after 8 years in a relationship with you, and you have moved on so quickly with another, I still think about you , like cole says I’d do it all over again even if we break up in the end
When you and your boyfriend just break up and he says he feels nothing anymore and you sit on the floor in your room and just cry and listen to this song I wouldn't take anything back. Even though it took him 4 years to get me,I wouldn't change anything. I love you Drew♡
I was 20 when we met and 25 when I left him. Now I'm 53, married with 3 kids. He is married with 2 of his own. But everytime I play this I think of him. My best and worst mistake. I think we do have soul mates but they just screw up as humans. Even though I left him, I will never stop loving him.
Jim McMaster hold your head high buddy. My wife left me back in August. Just like you said.. when one door closes another opens and it was true for me. I met the most amazing woman of my life.
my husband and i were seperated for three months. I filed for divorce and everything. one friday I took the kids over to his place to visit and had an overwhelming feeling before i left that we hadnt done much to try and salvage our marriage. to make a long story short, the next court date we had, we told the Judge that we wanted to cancel the divorce and salvage our marriage, not for the kids, and not for our friends, but for ourselves. The judge ripped her paperwork in half with a smile and congratulated us. we walked from our seperate sides of the courtroom and met in the middle, I grabbed his hand as we walked down the isle and out the door, leaving behind a packed courtroom of cheering people, most of which were there also for their divorce hearing. My husband and I had been doing a lot of praying that we would end up doing what was right, whatever that may be. That was 6 years ago, and we promised to never let things get to that point again. So this song, as beautiful as it is, is a reminder that if we dont work on our marriage daily, this song could really hit home for us!
Prayer does help. It give a chance to voice out the desires and needs the spouse has. A study in Arizona showed that of the thousands of couples that prayed, 99.8% made it through. The problem with people is they think successful couples don't have irreconcilable difference. The answer is not to change spouses but to work through the difference because part of the difference is you and you will carry it to the next relationship or have new ones. The grass is only green where you water it. I'm going to share your story with my group . God bless you and your family!
Ik how you feel I’m only 15 and she’s the one of my dreams just yesterday we split ways because she’s got family problems and I’m just more stress on her so I’m gonna wait til she comes back running into my arms
My girlfriend and i broke up recently..it pains my heart because we fought alot but i really loved her alot and wouldn't change anything.. we were together for 10 years on and off.. this song made me think about a lot.. my heart will always be broken no matter what because even when I was right sometimes I shouldn't have argued.. arguing is pointless and gets you nowhere.. always Love you Cynthia no matter what..2011-2021 xoxo ❤️❤️
My husband and I have been fighting a lot but I love him more than anything. I'm sure she loved you just as much as you loved her but unfortunately I think sometimes maybe things are not meant to last forever but we sure wouldn't change anything because just to have them in our lives at all is better than nothing. And it can truly be a learning experience like how you said even if you were right, arguing isn't worth it in the end. I know that my husband loves me just as much as I love him but it's hard sometimes because he seems to always need to be in control of every situation but then feels terrible to hurt my feelings at times. But I couldn't imagine my life without him even if I have to go through difficult moments. I wish you much happiness and joy in your life.
I have been listening to this song for the past few weeks--haunting melody; Yesterday, my husband said were over. This song spoke to me and prepared me for this. : (( Here's to new beginnings!
I just got cheated on. And boy does that sting but for my dudes out there going through heart break, one thing is for certain. Time will past and it will in good measure with the strength in your mind and the positivity from your heart and soul. Don’t grieve thinking she was the one because she wasn’t, but it’s definitely okay to be saddened by a lost. It’s only a matter of what you do and how you react in life. It’s all a bunch of comes and goes, things happen without knowing why and I hate to say it but that’s just fucking life sometimes. Please please don’t began to think you aren’t good enough cause god dammit we all have problems and when you start to learn how to heal and deal with them then that’s just baby steps to knowing your true potential. Live now and accept what happens happens. One love🤞🏽
This hurts so bad..Im living this now. Its been over a year now. Don't think it will ever be better. My heart will always belong to you Deb. Love you baby.
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many of us get into relationships sometimes knowing there's a good chance it won't last! but the human heart was born to love, so most of us take that chance regardless!
So sweet
Can’t stop vomitting
Right
Yup but 1 time is more than I can handle so no more chases for me
@@jakk9560 your right about that but I got say that it kinda hard to love someone that a ♌ but I know she and I tried. To work out
Cole is so under rated. His lyrics have so much heart and soul. Keep rocking.
Agreed
Love him. I love his full name used it for my son's name.
2023 I keep coming back to this song. Something sweet about the "We," not blaming, hoping.....I would so not let this guy get away!
@@daphnewilson7966 Now it’s November 8th 2024.
It's actually refreshing to hear new/younger artists actually put something out other than "bro country". The whole beer, dirt road truck routine is beyond played out. Actually playing instruments and meaningful lyrics, not made up words simply to rhyme, really does work. Hopefully you continue with this path. Great job.
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Seriously no kidding
Love this comment!!! I totally agree
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I get it. But at the same time that’s what young country people do.
“Even if I knew you’d be my best and worst mistake I’d still make it with you” just hurts in a different kind of way after a breakup. Loving someone who was never yours is the hardest fall you will ever take.
And not finding out they never were yours until the end is the worst part takes the wind out of your gut.... Sucks the life out of your heart and soul... Changes every color in the rainbow and in your vision forever. They all become drab, daunting and hoe hum
"Even if I knew you'd be the one who'd walk away, I'd still go back and get you" 😥😭😭
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Right!💔😞
I'd gladly have my heart broken a thousand times over and over on the chance that one day we get it right. I will love her forever, even with a broken heart.
Same💔
You know it all the way
Same
Never thought it would happen to me really !! U know ? That LOVE THAT U CANNOT FORGET ? don't know y or how...just is 💔💔
Same....
I've never smiled so much with the memories or cried so much just listening to this.
"I'd still go back and get you" hit me the hardest. :(
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Its going on 4 years since I spoke to her... no matter where I go or how happy I may appear my heart is empty without you here
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Go back tell her truth ... Truth sits u free... No regrets
Who else gets goosebumps reading some of the comments! Great song
I do only bc I can relate 😭
Great song bad meriores
I do
I can relate. 13 years here and it's about to be over.
@@StrangeCommenter it's gonna be well
17 years ago today, my first love broke my heart. Yes, I'd go back and do our relationship over and over again. Even though we married other people, I think a part of my will always love him, which is why we can't talk anymore. Wish him the best.
𝑴𝒚 𝒅𝒆𝒂𝒓 𝑰 𝒌𝒏𝒐𝒘 𝒘𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒚𝒐𝒖 𝒂𝒓𝒆 𝒑𝒂𝒔𝒔𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒕𝒉𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉 𝒊𝒕 𝒉𝒂𝒑𝒑𝒆𝒏𝒆𝒅 𝒕𝒐 𝒎𝒆 𝒇𝒆𝒘 𝒎𝒐𝒏𝒕𝒉𝒔 𝒂𝒈𝒐😢, 𝒖𝒏𝒕𝒊𝒍 𝑰 𝒎𝒆𝒆𝒕 𝒂 𝒎𝒂𝒏 𝒘𝒉𝒐 𝒃𝒓𝒐𝒖𝒈𝒉𝒕 𝒃𝒂𝒄𝒌 𝒎𝒚 𝒆𝒙 𝒘𝒊𝒕𝒉 𝒂 𝒑𝒐𝒘𝒆𝒓𝒇𝒖𝒍 𝒑𝒓𝒂𝒚𝒆𝒓 𝒓𝒆𝒒𝒖𝒆𝒔𝒕😊😊..
𝒘𝒓𝒊𝒕𝒆 𝒉𝒊𝒎 𝒐𝒏 𝒘𝒉,,𝒂𝒕,,𝒂𝒑𝒑 𝒇𝒐𝒓 𝒉𝒆𝒍𝒑.
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I get it!
This song makes me think how important it is to appreciate all the good times in life.
Jake Reeson you’re totally right my man
Yeah
Before my dad died
I'd love every memory. I'd feel every pain and remember each moment again and again even though we break up in the end. I'll always cherish what I had and the feeling of completeness I had was confident could never end .. and then we broke up in the end ... But if do it all again .. even tho .... 🎵 🎵
“Even if I knew you’d be the one that got away....I’d do it over and over again, even though we break up in the end”... best 4 years of my life
Best 3 years of my life, waited 2.5 years for her to come back. Never lose hope.
Oscar Arias ...I think dat dis song match ur situation😊😊😊
Oscar Arias .....I didn't hear other songs ... but "Used to love u sober " still my favorite song😊😊😊
Shubham Choudhary when you have time you should they're great songs. Make sure you have beer close by!
Dennis aldrich unfortunately for me the ship has sailed she's long gone married with a family now..
Alex, wherever you are, whatever you’re doing. I hope you’re living life to the fullest. I wouldn’t trade all the times and memories we’ve made together for anything in this life. You’ll forever hold a special place in my heart
7 months can change someone more than than you would ever expect. All the memories coming back every night. All the pain coming back every morning. All still being worth it in the end. I love you Leah. Forever and always ❤️
My mom and dad are separated but my dad loves this song and I think I know why. I try to hide my tears every time he plays it because I don’t want him to know I understand.
As a divorced mom, I can tell you...children are the most precious reason we'd do it over again. Blessings and prayers for you. You will get through this, and your parents will as well.
You brought instant tears to my eyes. I'm recently a single mom of four and I could never understand being from a broken family but I can say that it is without a doubt the hardest thing I've ever had to do not just once but twice. Both your mom and dad love you so much and I hope you never ever forget that. Sometimes we grow apart and sometimes we love so hard that we must love from a distance. My heart goes out to you. Ive been away from my four children for too long and I know not a second goes by that I don't think of them I promise you that you are so loved and when things look hopeless just remember that you are the one thing that your mom and dad did that they will cherish for ever and ever and no one can take that away. You will get thru this. ❤️
Pray for them, you never know. It makes the world of a difference.
Xinxbos
I would almost cry
I have not been a big supporter of Cole for the last couple years, but this is a GREAT song.
Have u ever noticed how cole sings the saddest songs but he’s the absolute best at it.....good job cole keep it up
My ex wife sent this to me awhile back. I think i sat here and cried like a baby. 13 years and 2 beautiful daughters later. That ment more to me than anything. I'm pretty tough but this one got to me. Thanks for great song Cole...
From reading these comments it’s obvious that there are many broken hearts
“You just had one too many tonight. You’re just cause lonely, that’s ok, but you know if you come over I can not let you in” hits me every time I hear it.
Cant not is the lyric. Means alot different than can not..
yeah, "can't not let you in" keeps going back for more hurt
:(
I love the meaning of this song, to be glad for the time you’ve had with them and happily pay the price of pain to be able to have those great memories... This song is helping me cope with the loss of my dog.
Sorry to hear about that
I can listen to this song over and over again
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Again and again
This song really touched my ❤. I had to leave my ex back in Sept, but we still love each other and miss each other very much. It's difficult when you love someone, yet know it won't work
Why wouldn't it have worked?
Yup i totally understand which is why my ex and i broke up
Yes it's sad to know love ain't enough to stay together and harder to let someone go when you love them but know they don't feel the same
Lierg
I'm in the same boat. We were together 6 yrs and still live each other like crazy..we are divorced now but trying to fix it. IDK why we can't just get along..oh bc he can't do right.. but besides that. I love h and I would do it over bc I have an amazing child out of it.
I watched my older brother go through this exact shit and totally loose himself and wreck his life over a women he was with for 9 years. It’s so sad and breathtaking to see him still struggling with their break up almost 8 years later
13 years for me. Some days it still sucks/stings.
Same
@@braylonplucker873 this may not sound like a long time but 9 months and im only 16 and it still hurts so bad😥😥
This song is just so heartbreakingly beautiful. Even if you haven't had a broken heart like the way this song describes, you can commiserate with it and wish you did.
More often than not it's always better to break your heart trying rather than just letting her walk way.
My ex showed me this song even though he knew I didn’t like country. He said it reminded him of us because we were always on and off. I thought it was so cute and I actually ended up liking the song. I feel now that we’re broken up I didn’t get to appreciate this song back then. I’m just now realizing how deep these lyrics are. The fact that someone would go through the pain and agony of losing the person they love and having their hearts broken over and over, again and again just to experience the love and the good memories with them again even knowing that every ending will be painful is truly heartbreaking and beautiful.
He loved me and somewhere down the line. I think he stopped. But I never have. And I don’t think I will. It’s only been 4 days but after 4 years together it feels like it’s been a lifetime already without him.
I recently broke up with my girl friend and this song is a good representation of how I feel. There is no way I'd ever be able to get her back. I'd do anything for her and me again. Why does life always have something to throw at you to test your emotional strength?
All it takes is a good country song to open up ones eyes about there relationship.
Garrett Sindt I know I feel you
It’s called life bruddah we all go through trials
Amen friend. There are others who feel the same pain. Hang in there!
Garrett Sindt It’s a test to develop you into a better, stronger person in the future. Everything happens for a reason or another in my opinion, we might not understand it now, or ever but there’s always a reason. Stay strong brother.
Four years of ups and downs. The latter finally caught up to us, but the good times were SO worth it. Some of the best memories made. I won't forget.
When you love someone truly and truly suck at showing it. A song can remind you and bring you to your knees.
They say your broken heart will heal but it really never does it will always have that feeling of betrayal
betraly and why
Easily one of the best songs of 2018 so far.
Break Up in the End
Cole Swindell
I still walk in that bar a little drunk
I still ask you what you're drinking, what's your name
I still kiss you by the shuffleboard, last call at 2AM
Even though we break up in the end
I'll introduce you to my mom and dad
Say "I think I love her" when you leave that room
I'd still not take their advice when I say you're moving in
Even though we break up in the end
Even if I knew you'd be the one that got away
I'd still go back and get you
Even if I knew you'd be my best and worst mistake
Oh, I'd still make it with you
Over and over, again and again
Even though we break up in the end
I'd still play my favorite song in your car
Let you love me to it, 'til it felt like ours
Now all I hear is you in it, but I'd still let you ruin it
Even though we break up in the end
Even if I knew you'd be the one that got away
I'd still go back and get you
Even if I knew you'd be my best and worst mistake
Girl, I'd still make it with you
Over and over, again and again
Even though we break up in the end
You've just had one too many tonight
You're just calling 'cause you're lonely, that's okay
But you know if you come over, I can't not let you in
Even though we'll break up in the end
I'd do it over and over, again and again
Even though we break up in the end
Gg
I love Colden and his songs ill never stop listening to his music love you cole
Saw the news that Cole just got married! Super well wishes! This song is, to me, the antidote to Wallen's catchy, but woman-hating stuff. You go, Cole and Cole's lady!
Been a year and a half..still miss you everyday. Nothing like knowing you weren't good enough for someone that you loved more than life itself.
I can relate with u on this man... I wasn’t good enough for mine either, she decided to cheat on me, lied to me for our entire relationship, and then leave me for one of her “old friends”... she just changed like a light switch went off in her head one day and then suddenly I wasn’t good enough... even though I treated her like a queen and spoiled the hell out of her. I loved her more than life itself too, and tbh it hasn’t gotten any easier for me, it’s been just about a year for me.
It will be a year next month since me and my ex broke up i thought i would spend the rest of my life with her but my foolish pride got in the way
@@rushdowning6916 Its been more than 4 years since me and the mother of my child separated. We were together for nearly 7 years. My foolish pride got in the way of my relationship as well. Now I'm married with another one on the way, and she is engaged to a good man. I love my wife to death, but that first love has a special place in a human heart.
^^This
@@rushdowning6916 ... SAME....💔
Closure happens right after you accept that letting go and moving on is more important than projecting a fantasy of how the relationship could have been... Defined love ❤️ in your heart and where that love must be...
Jetnic Badilla Totally agree
The hard part for a lot of us is letting go and moving on
Beautifully said...
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Used to hate country music but this song really got me into the genre. I’ve lived in the south my whole life and still do so it always came as a surprise when I told people I wasn’t a country fan, but after this song I’ve been getting into it so much. Beautiful job on the song and amazing lyrics.
When they matter more than u could've known..damn love is something..
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This song hit hard 😢😢 some many memories
I've never been with anyone, so I have no clue what a breakup is like, but just reading through the comment section, I'm at the verge of tears because it looks like everyone is just so strong when the time came for them to have to split with their better halves, but in reality it must have been hell for all of you to have to go through such a thing. I can't even imagine what it's going to be like for me if I ever go through this.
I applaud you all for being able to move on and hope that you are all in a better position than you were when you had to end your relationship(s) with the previous person you were with. 😭
Whoever you are.. You are amazing for what you wrote..
It’s a pain I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy. Losing a lover hurts, but losing a lover and best friend. It’s life changing!
@@Lakers0olll im 14 i just lost my girlfriend of 4 years this is my first break up do u know any ways 2 take ur mind off of it
Awww, so glad to see I'm not alone in this. We're gonna make it, y'all!
yes
I hope you are right.
Jace everet
Yes.....
Chloe Jones I dunno...this song sure made me want to jump off a cliff
Wow. Good one Cole.I've never seen this video of you before.But you sound great on the radio with this song.I'm so proud of you.
It's almost been three years since she broke my heart. There have been others but she will always have a special place in my heart. And I know someday she will come back to me because of how she acts when I'm with someone new or how she still pops up in places randomly. But I know that it would destroy what I've built without her if I go back.
If you ever truly loved someone and you hear this song, you can't keep a dry eye.
First time I ever heard this song? When he sent me this video ending our marriage. And yet I still play it all the time because the words are just so true.
who's here in 2021?
i was here when the song first came out.. listened to it so many times to the point it was annoying... here i am now, in 2021.. now knowing what this song is about, makes me wanna cry.. i forgot all about this song and i'm so happy i came back to it.. have a wonderful 2021 everyone. stay safe
𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘥𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘧𝘰𝘳 6𝘺𝘳𝘴,𝘣𝘳𝘦𝘢𝘬 𝘶𝘱 𝘤𝘢𝘮𝘦 𝘪𝘯,𝘪 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥𝘯'𝘵 𝘳𝘦𝘴𝘪𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘵 𝘣𝘦𝘤𝘢𝘶𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 .𝘪 𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘦𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘴 𝘥𝘢𝘺 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘯𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘪𝘭 𝘐 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘢 𝘮𝘢𝘯 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘣𝘳𝘰𝘶𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘣𝘢𝘤𝘬 𝘮𝘺 𝘦𝘹 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘧𝘢𝘴𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘱𝘳𝘢𝘺𝘦𝘳. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵,,𝘢𝘱𝘱 𝘩𝘪𝘮.
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Dude is a HIT MACHINE.
Yes he is
Yeah HE IS
Taco Stacks do your neighbors like this song
For sure, wish I hadn't had met her so soon when I was young and dumb
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That should have been the song of the year right there ! ! ! Am I right or am I right ? ! ! !
Saw Cole in northern Kentucky a few years back. It was a damn therapy session, to say the least. He sings from his heart! Great show, worth the money.
I wouldn’t change a thing with my last girl. She healed a lot of a once broken heart. And she helped mold me into who I need to be in the future. I’ll always love her for her dedication to helping me be a better man
Truth bomb. Fell in love with a narcissist. Even after all the bull sh#t he empowered me in so many ways. Hard lesson learned but worth it. Moved on and found the one I’m meant to be with.
This song is the answer to so many questions I have had this past year. Even though it was the worst "break up" I guess. How do you hate someone you've loved for 20 years? How do you just walk away from the realist love you've experienced? Why do they hurt you yet say they love you? Why can't I forget? Would I do it again? The answer is, Absolutely! The good times overpower the bad however, I would have been more cautious and kept the wall up when you continued to tell me to let you in. I guess we live and learn. And I will never be able to believe you or trust you again.
I’ve been split from my ex for four months now and I’ve been fighting a lot of demons and this came on the radio and it let me realize I can move on and still have her in my heart. Like I can have a future and have a family that’s it’s okay to have a very soft spot for one person. Thank you.
Thomas Fowler exactly how I felt I thought it was stupid to still have some unmarked feelings for him but like you said this song helped me come to the realization that I can still have it
Been apart from mine for a year now, this song brings me back to her, wouldn't trade the memories for the world but honestly it's better to move on and just keep them as memories and nothing more
Ben Ramirez you're right!!
The song "With you, without you" made me realise that a few years back. From Brad Paisley.
Thomas Fowler. Rascal flatts
It’s been 8 years now, 6 years since we last spoke. They married someone else this year. Losing them damaged me forever, but I’d do it all again if I could, just to see them and hear their laugh again. I miss you Jamie.
Convinced Cole only knows how to drop Bangers🔥
Oh fuck... the tears... they're not stopping. The memories are flooding
I've listened to this like 7 times in a row and cried everytime. :(
M.C hits home
M.C I feel ya...this song had me wanting to die
An I not human cause I did not cry
I love you and miss you mc
I cry everyday. I did too
10 years together, and a beautiful little girl together. Still one of my best friends, and an amazing mom. We both have found our new loves, but I am a better man in every aspect because of our time together. I couldn't be happier that we have each found our loves and I wouldn't change a dam thing even if I knew the end. Thank you. :)
I recently went through the same thing... 10 years and an amazing son but we just grew apart.... This song is prefect though
Amazing
Reading all the comments made me worried. I’ve been married for over 3 years. We’ve had ups and downs, some pretty bad but we still love each other and I want to spend the rest of my life with him. I just don’t know what future holds :(
I’ve always been the type to move on really quick, but something is different about this girl. No matter how hard I try, I can’t move on. She’s expressed the way she feels (which isn’t the same way I feel) but the thought of not having her breaks my heart.
I have always been like this, I absolutely never give second chance. My husband and I have been together for 10 yrs. Even if it tore my heart out I would still not give him a second chance if we ever broke up. At the point I have left someone they have allready repeatedly not listened, heard, or taken me seriously; and broken my heart a 1000 times.
How you doing now man, I’m currently going through this
I would choose him all over again even knowing how much my heart would break badly
I remember when this song first came out...and how emotional it made me. ♥️😔
I'm not huge into country but damn this guy has an amazing voice! Deep song too.. Props to him!
I've lived this song. And it fits it perfectly and has help me move on!!
It's definitely hitting home in my heart, and the one I lose over n over,Tina even though we break in the end we keep coming back again and again💙💔 i love you baby always xoxo 😘 thanks cole for such a great song..your the man💯
MusicMan68 and my name is (Chris)Tina... not your Tina but MusicMan68 you got it spot on.
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Had a breakup around a month ago, this song was playing from the CD album in my truck when I told her I loved her for the first time. A good female friend, long distance. Let's vote for this video for 2019 CMA awards on Wednesday, up for two nominations. Great song and video. Hope to see Cole live at the Wharf in July
I just know that one day, the good Lord will bring a love into my life that doesn't hurt. 🙏
Wow what a song!!!! One of his best. Absolutely love it.
This video is amazing! The best music video I have seen in a long time. Cole, you are so talented and the way you connect with your songs is worth way more than I could say. Thank you for being you!
My husband chose to end his life last year and I was the one to find him. There are no words, but this comes close
I am so sorry, I hope you can find closure, peace and happiness.
Stand tall...you got this far...even though it seems the darkest right now...the light is coming
I went through the same situation. This song reminds me of him.
I'm so sorry he chose too. My ex did as well 4 years ago this August that just past. I felt all that this song says before he took his life. Being that we didn't speak for almost 2 years before he did, I knew we weren't together for good reasons but despite them, I still would do it all over again. Your loss is so much greater so I apologize if my relating made it seem otherwise. Your marriage and his place was so much of your life. I hope you've found your way through grief or are on the way. Xo
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This song got me.... my mum and dad divorced and it was one of the hardest things to go through. I don’t think parents seem to understand how much it affects us. People used to say to me ‘oh, you get two Christmas’s, two bdays etc’ but in reality. I wanted happy memories. And I didn’t really get that with my family. Constant arguments. Constant fighting. We’d always have to pick between them. Both mum and dad talking bad about one another to their kids. Sending love out there to divorced parents kids❤️❤️
Truly the pain never goes away .
We just learn to live with it
My last relationship was the best years of my life, and she can never be replaced, and i would do it all over and over again and again, awesome song,,
Kathy Hadden this song for you!! l don't know how 2 let u go! your kids are my kids I love you and our kids! Betina Cobb
kayth Hadden Love you!!
They are all replaceable..I was by a fat ugly blond who's two years older than him...guess he didn't like the six days older had to go older and fatter...
it's been 5 years since you left, and every time i just think of you, and i remember what it was during the first few years, and how it ended up at 7, that love for you still sits in my heart, and it always will, even when you didn't feel the same way back, If i could, i would, but things would need to change, which you were never fond of, so I listen to this song, wishing it was different, when it never could be....
Dear ex ,
What came from it was a wonderful amazing son and memories with you that ill always remember we were just 2 kids at the timr and we didnt work out but ill love you for the rest of my life thank you for everything amd the gift of our son
Cameron Crain i have the exsct same situation i totally get it
This has been my favorite song for so long, every time I listen to it I cry. I don't know why I can't stop watching it.
Just saw Cole play this live tonight and I bawled. Some people are so hard to get over. 💔
3 years.
4 months.
19 days.
You've been my greatest love. I know I'll always be some type of in love with you. I still do. I love you... I miss you. Until further notice, my love... sweet dreams.
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What a beautiful song Cole your just an amazing man with a blessed voice
Hello Loving Life My Girlfriend Just Broke My Heart A Short Time Ago And I'm Listening To Some Sad Country Break Up Songs RSVP
My Name Is John Most Of My Close Friends Call Me Maverick
I'm still friends with my one that got away. Been over 18 years but I'm thankful she still in my life!!!!! Love you, Summer time.
MBailey1977 I Am very very grateful for you and so glad to be in your life!!! Love you big!!!!
The day she told me she wanted to break up
I died, my mind raced, I went through every stage of grief
9 years together
But… she was hurting, she was depressed and needed help, and didn’t want me
She is still a friend of mine, and I speak to her fairly often
She doesn’t know that I’ve carried a torch for her since I was a boy, and I still do
Takes me back to another time. No regrets! Thankful for those special two who made me the person I am today: married for 23 years now. 💕
I love this song it reminds me of my old high school boyfriend even though we have moved on we keep in touch. we can always count on each other
This is by far a great song after 8 years in a relationship with you, and you have moved on so quickly with another, I still think about you , like cole says I’d do it all over again even if we break up in the end
When you and your boyfriend just break up and he says he feels nothing anymore and you sit on the floor in your room and just cry and listen to this song I wouldn't take anything back. Even though it took him 4 years to get me,I wouldn't change anything. I love you Drew♡
Monica Soular
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That means he found another girl sorry
poor girl. I'm sorry for your pain, i don't know you, but i do know that you're worth so much more than someone to treat you like that!
I love all of Cole Swindell 🎶 🎶 music he has a amazing gift . thanks for all you do .always a fan lots of love to you and the band
I never realized how emotionally romantic and beautiful this song is until it came on the radio earlier and I started paying attention to the words.
I was 20 when we met and 25 when I left him. Now I'm 53, married with 3 kids. He is married with 2 of his own. But everytime I play this I think of him. My best and worst mistake. I think we do have soul mates but they just screw up as humans. Even though I left him, I will never stop loving him.
The video compliments an already amazing song very well. Thank you. I needed this.
Been 3 months since my wife left me. Can relate way to much. But when one door closes. Another opens. :)
Jim McMaster hold your head high buddy. My wife left me back in August. Just like you said.. when one door closes another opens and it was true for me. I met the most amazing woman of my life.
my husband and i were seperated for three months. I filed for divorce and everything. one friday I took the kids over to his place to visit and had an overwhelming feeling before i left that we hadnt done much to try and salvage our marriage. to make a long story short, the next court date we had, we told the Judge that we wanted to cancel the divorce and salvage our marriage, not for the kids, and not for our friends, but for ourselves. The judge ripped her paperwork in half with a smile and congratulated us. we walked from our seperate sides of the courtroom and met in the middle, I grabbed his hand as we walked down the isle and out the door, leaving behind a packed courtroom of cheering people, most of which were there also for their divorce hearing. My husband and I had been doing a lot of praying that we would end up doing what was right, whatever that may be. That was 6 years ago, and we promised to never let things get to that point again. So this song, as beautiful as it is, is a reminder that if we dont work on our marriage daily, this song could really hit home for us!
Prayer does help. It give a chance to voice out the desires and needs the spouse has. A study in Arizona showed that of the thousands of couples that prayed, 99.8% made it through. The problem with people is they think successful couples don't have irreconcilable difference. The answer is not to change spouses but to work through the difference because part of the difference is you and you will carry it to the next relationship or have new ones. The grass is only green where you water it. I'm going to share your story with my group . God bless you and your family!
I feel ya
Jim McMaster at least that is what they tell me.... but after 13yrs... the regrets have never left me alone.!!!
Still in love with the mother of my son. We both hurt each other, but I never really stopped loving her
5 children with 15 years of memories. I will fight until the fight is over.
I have been waiting for about 7 years and yep she never comes back to me it really hard to move on
Ik how you feel I’m only 15 and she’s the one of my dreams just yesterday we split ways because she’s got family problems and I’m just more stress on her so I’m gonna wait til she comes back running into my arms
@@Robloxigb1010 Same thing is happening to me.
Bro I have to know if you got her back?
Amazing this is the only word to describe this amazing song
My girlfriend and i broke up recently..it pains my heart because we fought alot but i really loved her alot and wouldn't change anything.. we were together for 10 years on and off.. this song made me think about a lot.. my heart will always be broken no matter what because even when I was right sometimes I shouldn't have argued.. arguing is pointless and gets you nowhere.. always Love you Cynthia no matter what..2011-2021 xoxo ❤️❤️
My husband and I have been fighting a lot but I love him more than anything. I'm sure she loved you just as much as you loved her but unfortunately I think sometimes maybe things are not meant to last forever but we sure wouldn't change anything because just to have them in our lives at all is better than nothing. And it can truly be a learning experience like how you said even if you were right, arguing isn't worth it in the end. I know that my husband loves me just as much as I love him but it's hard sometimes because he seems to always need to be in control of every situation but then feels terrible to hurt my feelings at times. But I couldn't imagine my life without him even if I have to go through difficult moments. I wish you much happiness and joy in your life.
Awesome
I have been listening to this song for the past few weeks--haunting melody; Yesterday, my husband said were over. This song spoke to me and prepared me for this. : (( Here's to new beginnings!
Never even ever really been in love and this song still hits me like a train.
One of the most relatable songs I've ever head.
I just got cheated on. And boy does that sting but for my dudes out there going through heart break, one thing is for certain. Time will past and it will in good measure with the strength in your mind and the positivity from your heart and soul. Don’t grieve thinking she was the one because she wasn’t, but it’s definitely okay to be saddened by a lost. It’s only a matter of what you do and how you react in life. It’s all a bunch of comes and goes, things happen without knowing why and I hate to say it but that’s just fucking life sometimes. Please please don’t began to think you aren’t good enough cause god dammit we all have problems and when you start to learn how to heal and deal with them then that’s just baby steps to knowing your true potential. Live now and accept what happens happens. One love🤞🏽
Thanks, I needed to hear this. Well said. I hope you're doing well, btw 🥰
This hurts so bad..Im living this now.
Its been over a year now.
Don't think it will ever be better.
My heart will always belong to you Deb.
Love you baby.
Hey thanks for the great love and support towards my music career, I really appreciate 🙏 I hope you won't stop listening to my music and supporting me ❤️
I'm a Ugandan but
Honestly country music is amazing for me it's my only music taste that doesn't lose its power