STOP DRESSING YOUR AGE, HERE'S WHY!

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  • @happysunangel1
    @happysunangel1 ปีที่แล้ว +1320

    PSA for younger women, once you reach a certain age you don’t care what anyone else says, it’s irrelevant. You will experience it one day and you will be liberated. In the mean time, don’t waste your breath.

    • @ericka-denise
      @ericka-denise ปีที่แล้ว +44

      PREACH!!!💕💯

    • @jp-pp7wr
      @jp-pp7wr ปีที่แล้ว +112

      I'm 47 and dress however my mood feels. Life is a journey and us older women don't care what is supposed to be in fashion.

    • @ericka-denise
      @ericka-denise ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@jp-pp7wr Exactly!!🥰

    • @shaylow8938
      @shaylow8938 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Let the choir say AMEN! AMEN! AMEN!!!!

    • @MadamMaxine5
      @MadamMaxine5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      You’ve said exactly what I was planning to say! The liberation is real.

  • @tinajoneswilliams4253
    @tinajoneswilliams4253 ปีที่แล้ว +321

    As a woman who is in love with being 70, somehow I missed the memo informing me of the age restrictions on clothing. I wear what flatters me and highlights my style. Xoxo 💕

  • @impatriciaparker
    @impatriciaparker ปีที่แล้ว +601

    I'm 63 and I rock everything from graphic tees to tuille!! I've been into fashion since I was a child and I'm not going to change now..Those young ones need to take notes! 😊

    • @thaliahall4599
      @thaliahall4599 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😊👍🏽

    • @E-Diva
      @E-Diva ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Oh yes, our girl got me into wearing tulle skirts. People love it, it's so unconventional.

    • @sheritacotten5293
      @sheritacotten5293 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      many well said comments many younger ladies need to understand their true value is not in their bodies and how attractive they are to men but their character and integrity

    • @carolcampbell-forrest1546
      @carolcampbell-forrest1546 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too

    • @KBeesn4
      @KBeesn4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same…the only thing i don’t do is the print mix, cuz i nvr really learned how to do it ‘right’

  • @tlove610
    @tlove610 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I am an older man, just turned 70. I always had the same attitude as you do. Everyone should dress how they like. Dress what makes you feel good. The ladies always liked the way I dress.

    • @rosemuthonikarionji
      @rosemuthonikarionji 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What pleases me is my motto to wear what to go where .

  • @therecessionista6271
    @therecessionista6271 ปีที่แล้ว +456

    I wear what i think makes me feel good and compliments my plus size hour glass frame (almost 44). I think some women mess up "not dressing your age" with dressing "trashy". There's a difference.

    • @thaliahall4599
      @thaliahall4599 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Right! 👍🏽

    • @wandasewell3731
      @wandasewell3731 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I agree I'm 68 and I rock my uggs graphic tees my cargo skirts etc as long as it looks good on me it compliment me I'm going to wear never going sag harbor Alfred dinner etc ❤

    • @kimvereen7103
      @kimvereen7103 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I agree,
      I am a woman of a Mature age 🙂my motto is.....if they have my size.....I'm wearing it😂,No,I'm not trying to look like these young girls,but,it's how you style it, Alisha, you hit the nail on the head,I will NEVER dress my age,Thanks for the styling Tips😊

    • @queenjahneen1000
      @queenjahneen1000 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      pretty much came to the comment section to see if this point was made. thank you!

    • @venessiarandle4424
      @venessiarandle4424 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      That part! So cringe to see women dressing trashy. I love seeing older women embrace their sexiness without showing everything.

  • @luanasmith204
    @luanasmith204 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I’m 67 years old, maintain a healthy lifestyle and am a size 8. Yes I have fun wearing what makes me feel excited and current. I love fashion, always have always will. To the younger women, don’t worry, you will get here, just keep waking up everyday!

    • @OlderWomenRock
      @OlderWomenRock 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same age , feel like You do xxx

    • @Goddessrenae
      @Goddessrenae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree 😊

  • @CHICKS7411
    @CHICKS7411 ปีที่แล้ว +366

    I love this video because I refuse to let people put me in a box as I age to perfection. I wear what makes me look and feel good, and even have younger women asking me for style tips. Remember ladies, confidence is our greatest accessory.

    • @vanessabrazelton5158
      @vanessabrazelton5158 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Here, here!!

    • @georgiabrown7452
      @georgiabrown7452 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I Rule My World 🌎 No one No One tells me at 74 soon-what to wear I don’t go around looking half naked-I Rock My World 🌎 🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤ Love ❤️ Me

    • @sariahlace5944
      @sariahlace5944 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yezz

    • @Cloudancer2024
      @Cloudancer2024 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Same here. I wish I could give this video 2 thumbs up. There are certain things I don't wear anymore, not because I'm older but because my personal style has changed over the years. I wear what makes me feel good -- sleeveless tops and tube dresses in the summer, fun hats, ripped jeans, long braids -- you name it. If anybody doesn't like it, they don't have to look at me. I'm doing me! 😁

    • @monaciutiis6349
      @monaciutiis6349 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯

  • @patriciawarsley2146
    @patriciawarsley2146 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    Thank you, I am 72 and I appreciate your support for us older women. ❤❤❤

  • @misskaymbee
    @misskaymbee ปีที่แล้ว +147

    I dress in what I like and what looks good on me. I’m 52 and I still rock distressed jeans, camouflage pants, sneakers, graphic tees, bright colors, shorts, large hoop earrings etc. and I always receive compliments from all races and different genders. I was born and raised in NYC so I don’t think I’ll ever let go of my edgy street but sophisticated style. When it comes to fashion always do you.

  • @One_Flew_West
    @One_Flew_West ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I remember my grandmother rocking jeans and boots in her 80s. She will always be an inspiration to me.

  • @shelivinoutloud
    @shelivinoutloud ปีที่แล้ว +175

    I believe dressing the way we want is why we don’t look as mature as our parents did when they were our age.

    • @lahomajohnson3955
      @lahomajohnson3955 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Exactly ‼️‼️‼️

    • @sariahlace5944
      @sariahlace5944 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Precisely.

    • @pamelabraden8760
      @pamelabraden8760 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am 67 and I wear what is flattering and what makes me feel good. Most clothes that are typically geared for my age are NOT necessarily flattering. I love colors. I've loved reds, blues, greens, orange tones, pink, purple, and so on. Colors make me feel happy and alive. Life is too short. It is even longer, if you're miserable.

    • @annlavender8502
      @annlavender8502 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How can I be 34 year's old and dress like a teenager? I think she should have told us to something classy and elegant that fits any occasion. ... I can't shame my children.

    • @YaYa33.3
      @YaYa33.3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hmmm … 🤔 interesting perspective?!

  • @ccsantana9982
    @ccsantana9982 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you for doing this video. I started thinking age appropriate and now i will dress in my style. The hell with age.

  • @nancygriffith851
    @nancygriffith851 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I’m so glad you addressed this issue!! I’m 63 and in my head I’m still 30 & lately I’ve been wondering if I’m too old for some things,…like jeans, or tee shirts, for example. These Millennials are SO judgmental and SO RUDE.

    • @therecessionista6271
      @therecessionista6271 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Wait til they get to our age...and let's see if they want someone telling them they dress too young!

    • @sylviag59
      @sylviag59 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      I’m with you. I am 64 years young😊

    • @thaliahall4599
      @thaliahall4599 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      I have noticed how judgmental and disrespectful many of them are now. Some of the really crazy ones think 40 is old, sad!

    • @wannabe41
      @wannabe41 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@thaliahall4599ikr? I just want to tell these young girlies “Keep living.”

    • @cherylbuchanan5500
      @cherylbuchanan5500 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      I agree with you. I'm 64 and wear whatever I want.

  • @theresasteiner2748
    @theresasteiner2748 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I'm a 67 year old woman who LOVES YOUR CHANNEL. I'm learning to dig out my confidence and try new things! I love your fashion and I want you to know you've made me feel great!! You have opened up the world for me!

  • @myrajones416
    @myrajones416 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    I love that you said clothes are not made for ages, but style. My mom is 85 yo and she stated that "when you go to a store they don't have clothes displayed by age." And me nor my mom fall in to that trap, we buy what you love no matter our age.

    • @georgiabrown7452
      @georgiabrown7452 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your Mother is a Wise Lady 💗💗💗

    • @maxinesoles5800
      @maxinesoles5800 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I'm 72 n just bought s red top yesterday. I love color. You need to know what looks n feels good on you

    • @maxinesoles5800
      @maxinesoles5800 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I love loafers n sneakers n I am retired n want to be comfortable being a gopher for my grandkids n their after-school activities

    • @4Peaches1
      @4Peaches1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true! I 54 and I wear what I like. You tickled me with the clothes displayed by age 😂😂😂😂.

    • @sugababe6411
      @sugababe6411 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Haa haa I have always worn what I Like and what suits me . Girl shorts are a must all year round. As regards the caps ohhh I love them all !! Colour is beautiful and we are all amazing. Dress to impress yourself 😊

  • @rositayoung2725
    @rositayoung2725 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am in my 70s and I love when it starts to get cold. People love to see me in Boots. I think its the way I walk when I wear them ( Like I own the world) Thank you.

  • @edenise1004
    @edenise1004 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I used to think I had to dress my age, until I realized it was not my style. Now I wear what looks good on me!

  • @maryannklements8287
    @maryannklements8287 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am 70 and plus size and I wear colors, graphic tees, sequin pants, shirts jackets. I am giving you a huge thumbs up.

  • @bradinabraxton8836
    @bradinabraxton8836 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    I dress in what I like and always look at myself in my full length mirror before going out. I don't think clothes have a age limit. But, I also believe everything isn't made for everyone. Keep on bringing us the amazing content and yes to the colors and graphic tee's.

    • @veussstarr6012
      @veussstarr6012 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Exactly, say that a little louder, so those young women can hear you over at Tiktok.

    • @millettepeay6
      @millettepeay6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree, look in a full length mirror and try different things and be confident in whatever you decide to put together. Also, everybody can't look at a model in a book or on TV, and say I want to wear that; your body size makes the outfit too. I agree that everything isn't made for everyone but you can make a style to fit your body frame. Remember we are all unique and do not let ppl put you in a box!!!! Thanks for the different tips in styles you have expanded my imaginations when looking into my closet. I see clothes and shoes differently; I always dressed different from the norm but I see i can step it up even more; again thanks.

  • @pursequeen6148
    @pursequeen6148 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I found my niche AND my style @ 57 y.o., 5 years ago! Bright colors... High end sneakers-- Kick ass accessories (and a leg baring dress or two)!!! I am FINALLY enjoying myself with the clothes in my closet. Thank you for this Sis❤

  • @abcstyles
    @abcstyles ปีที่แล้ว +96

    Thank you!! Thank you!! Thank you!!! . . . for doing this video!! I’m 66 and I wish I could scream this to all women my age. WEAR WHAT MAKES YOU HAPPY. Life is too short. ❤

    • @petrayoung6612
      @petrayoung6612 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I am going to be 68 in 2 weeks! Life is too short to be concerned with age and style! A lady should wear whatever makes her happy!

  • @CherriBrown-i1z
    @CherriBrown-i1z ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm 65, and you have given great information

  • @veussstarr6012
    @veussstarr6012 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I wore a graphic tee to church today for women's day with heels, jeans and a blazer. 64 and I wear what makes me happy. Great video

    • @stephaniejackson7016
      @stephaniejackson7016 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      sadly, church folks can be judgmental. but as for me & my house.. I dress for me & my comfort & nothing exposed & always appropriate for God's house..

  • @applesbrown7896
    @applesbrown7896 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I was told to stop coloring my hair because I’m in my 60’s. That I should go grey.
    I’ve been coloring my hair since my teen years. I don’t plan on stopping because I’m an older woman.

  • @Treebee6009
    @Treebee6009 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Agree with all your tips. I'm 51, and I dress more youthful now than in my mid-20s!

  • @sherylfarrier8397
    @sherylfarrier8397 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Love this video. I am 68 and I do not limit myself to what people think I should wear. I am respectful in my sense of style but wear clothes to my liking. I loved every outfit you presented and would rock them all.

  • @karenleighhoffman4450
    @karenleighhoffman4450 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I'm 63 and I refuse to dress my age!!! My closet is filled with bright colors, tie dyed being my fav, I find it takes me back and I feel younger. And I've seen those gals berating mature women wearing younger styles and all I can say is their mothers need a smack for raising rude and spoled brats. They need to learn some respect!

    • @therecessionista6271
      @therecessionista6271 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hell yeah, I love bright colors like burnt orange amd golden rod yellow!!! And I loves me a good tye dyed shirt or even lounge set!!!!

    • @hiromi_journeyto6023
      @hiromi_journeyto6023 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too. I'm 60

    • @sheritacotten5293
      @sheritacotten5293 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      im 65 and dress classy and fashionable bright colors, jeans, leather pants too many of them rude and spoiled did not learn any manners until someone hurts their feelings

  • @One4Faith2Hope
    @One4Faith2Hope ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks for sharing! My late grandmother wore graphic tees well into her 70’s. ❤😀

  • @dragons8416
    @dragons8416 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I'm 57 and have always gone against the style norms. I still wear my hair in 'space buns'. At a time when kids weren't allowed to express themselves, my hair and clothes spoke for me. Because I was plus size, as a young person, many tried to pigeon hold me to certain standards (to not bring attention to myself). But I still found a way to be 'Tomboy' chic, in my teens. I learned in college that there was a boldness to my style that was appropriated.

    • @tenwaystowearit
      @tenwaystowearit  ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I love it. I feel like you wrote my story there. I have so much in common with you. I too was plus sized as a kid and was always discouraged from expressing my style but I went against the grain always. And honestly I’m so glad I did. 👌🏾♥️😘

    • @dragons8416
      @dragons8416 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I absolutely love your eclectic style; it drew me to your channel. 🤗❤️

    • @jp-pp7wr
      @jp-pp7wr ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I love your style and passion for looking stylish, without compromising your unique cute looks. That's why I was drawn to your vlogs.

    • @cynthiaholcomb8142
      @cynthiaholcomb8142 ปีที่แล้ว

      Not really into sneakers

  • @mariaaurigema6446
    @mariaaurigema6446 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I just happened on your video. I loved it. I am 60 with silver white hair. The brighter colors I wear the more compliments I get. Bright colors make me happy. New subscriber

  • @angelawalker6459
    @angelawalker6459 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Thank you! Thank you! Thank you! For speaking candidly and honestly about this. Mature women can wear whatever! And that's the season I'm in!!! Fabulous Fifty Club. We love you. Keep bringing amazing content for the Grown and Sexy. Blessings to you!

  • @leonnetteleavell2420
    @leonnetteleavell2420 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm about to be 67 & I LOVE, LOVE, LOVE everything you shared. I am a sneaker, tshirt & hoodie girl all day & will wear them until I die. Thanks for sharing & certainly encouraging US to do US.

  • @karenl.forest7083
    @karenl.forest7083 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Alisha, thank you for showing love for the Grown-grown women ❤

  • @teresathompson4555
    @teresathompson4555 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m 56 years old and I feel exactly like you don’t care nothing about age will wear what I like. Great video, especially since I struggle with how to pair my clothing. Thank you so much ❤

  • @yolandadowns
    @yolandadowns ปีที่แล้ว +35

    First thank you for this video! I have always loved graphic t-shirts and happy to hear that mature women can continue to wear them. I had a conversation with friends and just said, “next year I’ll be 60 years old, and maybe I need to change up the wardrobe”? This video just helped me! Nope I don’t have to and I won’t! I love my little comfortable style and you’re right I don’t have to change it just because I’m getting older. Lastly, I love your rings in the video, is it possible to share the details of the rings?

  • @preciouswhite6819
    @preciouswhite6819 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You are so beautiful, I thought you were in your early 30’s. I really loved this because I am in my 60’s . My son is in his early 40’s and my daughter is 29 so she keeps me in style. I wear my sneakers and baseball caps. I kept replaying this video because the pictures were great and I shared it with my daughter.

  • @phatchick820
    @phatchick820 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    THANK YOU QUEEN ❤..you really are breathing life into us mature women..I approve this message.

  • @alicewooley7097
    @alicewooley7097 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Dress those colors that enhances our skin ,bring out the colors more too slayyyyy!

    • @alicewooley7097
      @alicewooley7097 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Dress our womanly too ! I'm so glad I am a woman too jeans forever too sneakers too sweat s too

  • @sharonking4146
    @sharonking4146 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Alisha you said it So Well and All the outfits were 🔥. I'm 65 years old and I am retired. I have become more comfortable in my style the way I want to wear clothes, color, blazers, sneakers Everything as long as it fits who I am,as long as I am confident in it and I feel good that's all that matters we should all dress to please ourselves not make everyone else happy that is not necessary.

  • @dionneshepherd-newton6581
    @dionneshepherd-newton6581 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I totally agree with you and I am surely going to continue wearing such clothes you've mentioned and the hair colours to go with it as well..

  • @dawncoe1293
    @dawncoe1293 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I’m loving this so much. I’m in my early 60s and I wear whatever the heck I feel like. I’ve earned that right. I love color, I wear shorts, minis, and distressed jeans. Hell this summer me and my tiger striped tummy made its debut, lol. I make certain concessions, no 5 inch heels, but I’m still rocking my 3’5. I wear what’s comfortable to me. Hubby also loves the compliments I get. So that’s a bonus.

  • @deborahmckay3527
    @deborahmckay3527 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing this. I"ve reached my 6th decade of life and continue to wear all of the items you mention. As you said, I dress to please myself.

  • @yahwehisontheway5094
    @yahwehisontheway5094 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    As a woman in her mid forties, I love vibrant colors. I just highlighted my hair a pretty red color, and let me tell you it DEFINITELY boosted my confidence, and made me look younger. I already look younger than my age, so the vibrant colors are a plus. Sometimes you don't come into your own style until you get older. I love when you show those bright vibrant outfits on your videos. Bump those younger girls talking about what we can't wear. I'll rock my ponytail in minute!! I'm going to wear what makes me feel comfortable, what I feel makes me feel and look good. I also go bareface all the time, with a tinted or clear lip gloss, and now a little lip liner. Also, you are so funny!!You go girl!!☺️

  • @ibelieveinmetv6723
    @ibelieveinmetv6723 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I’m really glad I came across this video/your channel.Im 50 years old and can say my way of dressing changed drastically,😂😂😂Coming from someone/myself who pops when it comes to wardrobe.I felt like since I’m getting older I have to dress older.So thank you for reminding me age has nothing to do with me expressing myself in what I love to dress in.Love you channel and your spirit.You definitely opened me back up .Something I really,really needed 👑👑👑👑👑🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @TerryApiyo
      @TerryApiyo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow I love 😘 what I'm seeing

    • @TerryApiyo
      @TerryApiyo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm 44 and I love myself everyday

  • @charlinecartwright
    @charlinecartwright ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I'm so glad you did this video! I'm in my early 60's and I love fashion as a young lady. I was told that I dressed like the young people from a classmate. I looked at her and started laughing. I could see the jealousy. Alisha the girl was looking good 😀 thanks for encouraging us older women.😜

  • @bp-f4824
    @bp-f4824 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks girl! I turn 60 next year and you just set me free! i can wear whatever the heck I want AND dress up in a sweat shirt

  • @andream420
    @andream420 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    PART 2: THANK YOU FOR THE COLOR REMINDER AND YOUR SUGGESTIONS TOO! GOING BACK IN MY CLOSET AND GETTING MY PINK BOOTS! 😂 YES. A BLAZER IS 🔥WITH AN OUTFIT!

  • @mjbritt7394
    @mjbritt7394 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love the hair!!

  • @kwailcamp
    @kwailcamp ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I am two months away from 50 and I am grateful for this talk. So many women in their 20 and 30s tellung older woman all the things that they cant do.

    • @Ashley-qx4my
      @Ashley-qx4my 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      They haven't learned yet, that's all.

    • @Gullahbae-xm6ms
      @Gullahbae-xm6ms 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      30 something year old women don’t care what older women are doing. We are too busy living our lives…

    • @MyrlaPhillips-ig1gx
      @MyrlaPhillips-ig1gx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wait until they hit 40+ the song will change 😂

  • @peggyanglin9650
    @peggyanglin9650 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I was drawn to your title and so glad that I found you! You are adorable! I am 70 and I wear all the things you talk about and if I do say myself--I rock them!! I am always told how
    "stylish" I am and its because I wear what I like and what I feel best in! Thanks for this video!!!

  • @tocanyc1502
    @tocanyc1502 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Sis, you spoke many truths in this video! I wish others would stop putting everyone in a box and age shaming. Personal style does not have to be defined by age! I’m happy to hear you got your mom to change her mind about the item you bought for her.

  • @TheRealEnergyTv
    @TheRealEnergyTv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Loved that blazer, and your saying "Just Have Fun With Fashion"

  • @roxannepayne6705
    @roxannepayne6705 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Love this video girl, you hit the nail on the head, when women think they're dressing to suit their age , little do they know it makes them look older than they are.

  • @mzeboni12
    @mzeboni12 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so glad I found you. I so agree with you. I will 63 in December, and I wear a lot of the things you showed in the video. My sneakers, statement jewelry, and graphic tees. I love my shorts in the summer, especially since I live in Atlanta. You gave me some ideas of how to pair new things to wear. I love and wear the purple almost every day. I have reddish- burgundy hair, and I wear crochet as well as natural hair, and I love it.😊💜

  • @channonwashington6498
    @channonwashington6498 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’m 51 & depending on my mood I wear whatever I like. I feel like age shouldn’t have anything to do with what you wear! If I had big legs I’d wear a miniskirt! Thank you for this it’s long over due. I hope this video helps someone who was wavering on their personal style.

    • @lashonhayes7997
      @lashonhayes7997 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hey 👋🏽 queen I'm 50 years old I agree with you I what ever I want on my mood.. I still wear mini skirts.. I love them especially with knee high boots... 💯 Keep doing you queen 👑

  • @motivated2010
    @motivated2010 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi glad I stopped by your channel; enjoyed the content-cute and still classy!.

  • @conniejackson5937
    @conniejackson5937 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I am 67 and I dress to style and be comfortable.

  • @heiditolbert4656
    @heiditolbert4656 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you...been struggling with my style since coming out of the pandemic. You gave me some good ideas for various looks.

  • @happymetee
    @happymetee ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I really enjoyed this luv! I literally had this conversation with my daughter recently. She’s a millennial and is so judgmental about my style when it’s not “age appropriate” according to her. I just roll my eyes and keep looking fabulous!

    • @winsomebarnett7067
      @winsomebarnett7067 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ❤😂

    • @lisasoto3425
      @lisasoto3425 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      As a mid-30s millenial, I say everyone should wear whatever the heck they want! As long as you feel good in it, go ham! 😎👏👏 I'm rooting for you!
      I aldo wear things others say isn't age-appropriate 🤷‍♀️

  • @Mischa808
    @Mischa808 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You have never lied. I'm short (5'3) out of my medical weight range, an large busted. But being born early 60's, we had way to many style rules that I have thrown out the window. I love some platform sneakers usually, Cons, or Van's, and some Levi jeans, Bermuda to long, narrow to wide. My grown kids encouraged me to own it after a bad fall left me not able to wear heels anymore. I feel so freed!
    You have gorgeous legs, energy and beauty. Thanks for sharing the loving encouragement.

  • @grcbass8494
    @grcbass8494 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Loved the video! I agree with everything you showed…I just turned sixty. I look like I’m in my late 40’s . I wear everything you showed in the video.. keep bringing it!❤️

  • @Kimberly-n9p
    @Kimberly-n9p ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm 46 years old disabled with a lot of medical conditions and limitations. I love fashion and have since I was a little girl. Fashion to me is an art piece for me. I have my own style and I put outfits together that are very creative. I love fashion and I enjoy seeing others creativity in fashion.

  • @kimberlyshaffer8342
    @kimberlyshaffer8342 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you for this how to video, love all your content. I am coming up on a milestone birthday and will definitely use your guide!!! 😘

  • @DebbieBevel
    @DebbieBevel ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I absolutely love your style. I love that you encourage women of certain ages to dress with class and to have fun doing it!!!

  • @ladyBloom.
    @ladyBloom. ปีที่แล้ว +9

    My husband got me some burgundy patent leather booties for my 44th birthday, I enjoyed them so much they worked with so many different looks. Well one day my eldest son and I went shopping, the following day at school(high school) one of his classmates said to him “I saw you at the store with girl in dope boots” and he responded that was my mom. Well she just couldn’t believe it, and said that girl couldn’t of been your mom bc she was to fly, moms don’t look like that. 😂🤣😁🥰 He told her well my mom does and it’s awesome.

  • @lindawendling3007
    @lindawendling3007 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just found you and you are AMAZING! Style is ageless, "fashion" is fickle. Thanks for being a voice of empowerment and joy.

  • @nanidogmomstevens6386
    @nanidogmomstevens6386 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m in 70s. Even an old house looks better with a fresh coat of paint. 🥴Wear makeup that enhances your beauty. Love your channel👩🏻‍🦳♥️‼️

    • @Goddessrenae
      @Goddessrenae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Agree 😊

  • @Luvla31
    @Luvla31 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the 1st time I've seen your video and what a great one to start with. I'm of a certain age, I wear what I want in any colour I fancy. Thank you for your encouragement, now I have the cash I'm gonna continue enjoying style in colour.
    I'm a subscriber now all the way from England, enjoy the sun, my wardrobe is my sunshine, much love ❤

  • @vanessabrazelton5158
    @vanessabrazelton5158 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you my sister for helping your mom out... I'm 68 & it's about style and being appropriate for the occasion!!! HELLO!!! It's all about me, & what makes me look cute & feel good!!! AMEN!!!

    • @fee9043
      @fee9043 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm 67 and dress modest yet sharp!

  • @gigilove7266
    @gigilove7266 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so thankful that you've posted this. Sometimes, I feel that the younger generation thinks we haven't a clue as to life and individual tastes, knowledge, etc.

  • @ThePrayerAdvocate
    @ThePrayerAdvocate ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Hey Sis! I am with you on this 100%. I am 62 and will rock my style. This was a AMAZING video. We still have life.🥰🙏🏽

  • @genalanders2833
    @genalanders2833 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this Blog! I feel the same way, and I am 63 yrs young!

  • @mygoldenlife1862
    @mygoldenlife1862 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thanks so much for this video! I totally agree with you. You can wear whatever you want as long as it fits your body and it looks good on you. I'm in my 60's and wear sneakers, sweatshirts, prints etc. I tend to cover up a little more now, though because I have the middle age spread through my mid section. But I love your style and I take inspiration from alot of your looks. You rock with your beautiful self!✊

  • @caroleroseburgh1344
    @caroleroseburgh1344 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've never cared about what nobody says. I Wear what I feel good in.❤

  • @chipsnana6852
    @chipsnana6852 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Thank you for this. I'm over 50, I used to call my daughter (34) and her is this age appropriate. She always says, "mom it fits your style". I love hats, coats, graphic tees (favorite) and tennis shoes (sneakers) for those who don't know, lol. I wear everything you shared, except for the patterns. So many of my friends dress like their grandmothers. Tfs, blessed be

  • @lindabrown-navilys4844
    @lindabrown-navilys4844 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this one! I didn't START wearing distress jeans and graphics tees until now, and I'm 62 years old.
    I received so many compliments from young folks on my personal stylish combos. I ❤ THEM!

  • @EnterTheUnknown
    @EnterTheUnknown ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I definitely love everything I'm 44 and I still wear everything. Age doesn't determine what I wear I just tailor peices to my style. You soda great job and I love your channel.

  • @prettychamboko6056
    @prettychamboko6056 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sequin hat and short shorts !! Now that's a look and I'm here for it. This is a great video and thank you for reiterating - wear what you want !!

  • @wannabe41
    @wannabe41 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Excellent video! I think a lot of these beliefs about women dressing for their age is rooted in ageism. They’re saying that older women should fade into the background and become invisible or unnoticed. They’re saying that because we’re older or more mature our time to shine is over. I believe that there’s enough shine for women of all ages.
    As for these young girlies on Tik Tok? Anyone with a smartphone can post whatever comes out of their mouths on social media but that doesn’t make it true and it doesn’t make it worthy of sharing.
    The beauty of a woman who has done the work of identifying her own personal style and rocks that style no matter what the trends or what others says is unmatched! I’m not sure what has made some of these younger women think that they have the right to police what anyone else is wearing but I think they should turn in their badges and let every woman live.

    • @valinatoussaint5485
      @valinatoussaint5485 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said. Personally I think they're intimidated by older women, face it , there's nothing more beautiful than a mature woman that knows how to put herself together, they can't take the pressure and it's actually sad because it tells how low their confidence and self esteem is, let's should them that beauty is from within.

    • @maryfields877
      @maryfields877 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@valinatoussaint5485They should be taking notes. I mean, do they think they will stay young forever? In 10 years, some presents day middleschooler will be saying the same thing about them. I never had the gumption to say such things about older women when I was younger; I always wanted to be them. This new generation is something else.

  • @MOLLQUE63
    @MOLLQUE63 ปีที่แล้ว

    SO GLAD you decided to address this issues

  • @januarywaterchild7521
    @januarywaterchild7521 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m a bare-faced woman over 55. I’m looking forward to reaching 60. I’ve never had anyone say to me that I needed to wear makeup. Most people believe that I’m at least 8 years younger than my actual age. 😊

    • @doricetimko5403
      @doricetimko5403 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’ve been bare-faced for about 25 years. I can’t imagine doing all the fuss of today’s makeup trends. To me, a lot of women look like they’re wearing masks.
      I’m 63

    • @januarywaterchild7521
      @januarywaterchild7521 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@doricetimko5403 I consider myself lucky because most of the women in my family rarely wear makeup. I’ve tried for the special occasions, but wearing more than lipstick never felt good.

  • @vamonarch4740
    @vamonarch4740 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Just found your channel. I couldn’t agree more! I’ve moved into my 50s and I engage a lot of the ideas you’ve offered here and have gotten some good inspiration for future outfits…thank you! I think the key is wearing items that fit well, compliment you and make you feel fabulous!

  • @E-Diva
    @E-Diva ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That pink jacket is 🔥🔥🔥.
    I'm 53, and after losing 100 pounds with intermittent fasting I'm able to dress for my personal taste not my age.
    I have some awesome bright blue dress pants from New York and Company. I'm pairing that with a graphic tee for work this coming week, it says Vintage 1970. I love it and I'm proud of saying my age, cuz this black don't crack.

  • @MoDavI-sl7iy
    @MoDavI-sl7iy ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like those two hammocks (I think that's what they are called), in your living room. Where can I get one?

  • @nancygriffith851
    @nancygriffith851 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I LOVE ALL your look’s featured. You got it girl!

  • @GaytoniaFlowers
    @GaytoniaFlowers ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for reminding me to be myself and continue to be bold ❤

  • @andream420
    @andream420 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    ITS "HOW YOU WEAR IT AND HOW IT LOOKS ON YOU!" SOME YOUNG FOLKS LOOK JUST AS BAD AS SOMEONE OLDER AND VICE VERSA. YOUR POINT IS WELL NOTED...😊

  • @RachelC.19
    @RachelC.19 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this! A million thank yous!

  • @Joaquincasanova-p8j
    @Joaquincasanova-p8j ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I'm so appreciative of this video❤ I am one that does not dress my age... I'm 43 now and I wear combat boots , timberlands , shackets and joggers I wear whatever I want... my mom does comment sometimes but I dress for me not for anyone else.. I live for bright colors even though most of my wardrobe is black.. and that's just because I love black.. thank you for this❤

  • @sheilagray3541
    @sheilagray3541 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love you!! ❤❤❤I am 61 yrs. old & I do Not dress my age, I love color & denim!! Especially distressed, yess older women, Please don’t let nobody tell you how to dress, cuz they ain’t paying for your look, you are!!

  • @chinweaniche-hall3895
    @chinweaniche-hall3895 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    So glad I found your channel. I just turned 40 and I still shop at rainbow and forever21. I still wear my earrings as I always have. I enjoy bright colors as well. Just glad to know someone like you is out there encouraging women like me that turned 40 to keep dressing fly and sexy. 😂

    • @velmaholcombe9908
      @velmaholcombe9908 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Baby girl I'm 71 and I still shop at the stores that you mentioned ❤

    • @chinweaniche-hall3895
      @chinweaniche-hall3895 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      wow.. you are my mom's age. i have to buy her items from my favorite items then and she should wear them because she's also got style.@@velmaholcombe9908

  • @lindabenson1237
    @lindabenson1237 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great topic lil sis us OGs still styling ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @thelmayoung1648
    @thelmayoung1648 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Style is ageless! Thank you for this!

  • @Silverwings1234
    @Silverwings1234 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love clothes, I always have. I don’t care what anybody thinks of what I wear bc I have my own style. I watch fashion channels and pick up a little ideas here and there about what’s in style that season. I’m always getting a compliment on something I am wearing. I have a very wild side as far as Style. Fashion should be fun! Enjoy yourself -wear what looks good on you and like Coco Chanel said “always dress like you’re going to meet your worst enemy.” Ha ha! What a thing to say! But there’s a lot of truth to it. Have fun put on clothes you love and enjoy them.

  • @redcrowdmedia
    @redcrowdmedia ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So encouraging! Style is personal and shouldn't end at any age.

  • @AngelRichardson-t9i
    @AngelRichardson-t9i ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ❤❤You are a God sent! I was listening to preaching and ran across your channel. I just turned 63, and my husband says I do not look my age, as a lot of people say. Anyway, continue to do your thing. You have truly inspired me. I work in education, and my children deserve to see a positive role model in fashion , as well as academically. I have some people that try to hate....but my young sister, with your help, I will keep it moving😊 Continue to be blessed. I will share and continue to watch your channel.😊❤

  • @seekingenlightenment2026
    @seekingenlightenment2026 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I tell you what, young women need to take a page from you on confidence!!!! You got us girl! Thank you. ❤

  • @hard2dealwit
    @hard2dealwit ปีที่แล้ว +1

    One thing that I’ve found is, no matter how you choose to dress, invest in getting your clothing altered at a tailor so that they fit your body well.

  • @cattandneil1504
    @cattandneil1504 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved this video! I'm 51 now and had that same idea that I couldn't wear certain things because I got older. Girlfriend, now I'm of the mindset that I don't care what anyone thinks!

  • @juanpedro4347
    @juanpedro4347 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I totally agree with all of what you’ve said , especially that I have not seen the rules about dressing your age written in stone anywhere at all! I’m with you in all of these. Thx.