Not everyone wants to see you do well, and that includes the closest people in your life. I trusted people easily and shared all my goals, secrets, problems, and everything with others. That only led to them betraying me and ensuring that my life is destroyed. Be very careful because you only have yourself at the end of the day. A friend today might be an enemy tomorrow.
Same! Now I’m wondering if that is an Aries thing lol. Because I’m thinking Idc who knows I’m gonna make it happen. But this makes sense when she explained it.
I'm with her all the way. But the sad part is some people don't really want you to succeed & they'll purposely discourage you SPITEFULLY. I've always kept my mouth shut I guess I always will!🙏
Everything said I have experienced, I realized this just recently how múch energy I wasted on explaining myself, how much I was faced with peoples doubts and opinions and their projections on me, here I am standing and gathering my len strenght and energy, I guess I did it because I didnt know better, only after the experience I see that it was part of the process, next tíme I do it better. Thanks for sharing this video, it helped me to anchor something what I came to realize ❤
The more better you do it just reminds them of what they were not able to do them self could have done it but didn’t . So your success reminds them of what they could have down . And they start to resent your success. So it’s better not to mention your success to them . Be around people that lift you up not drag you down . You don’t want there negative energy dragging you down .
Problem is I only learned how to love people that did that. Took some time and lot of reading to understand it all applying all of very difficult when that negative is stacked against you
To me, never telling people what to do is just as important as stopping people from doing the wrong thing or helping them understand the consequences and working hard at convincing them of this.
This is so true Oprah, you are on point with this. This is something people should listen to once a week, it works every time, every day. Thank you so much ❤
This is a very individualistic perspective. Our visions should be in concert with our communities working towards goals that build all of us up. This is coming from a perspective of famine instead of abundance. Speaking actually helps me develop my vision.
Gosh . This is what my opinion and what I keep telling my children and this thing I learned it from my gramma . But it doesn’t that I went though stupid situations before when sharing my plans with other . True life is a journey not a distension . Love it .
Thank you Jonathan , the message is so meaningful and it validates what Rosie’s Female Minister Years ago , Johnny Coleman said, and I applied it to self and used it as a guide. She said, “Never tell your Dream, because the day you do , there will be many people praying it will never come true. So thank you for your love and understanding, but God ‘s have this!!Amen!!!🙏🏽❤️😍
I have said this since I was born and people never understood this concept. Present your idea or concept once you have internally established the baseline.
I love how she speaks, inspiring to myself. It is really hard to live in todays world full of noise - how to choose the proper way. We need to think about our self to make this world better place to live
Even if it’s her, and she is reading from a script/AI, the information is good and has a very strong utilitarian use in my life for my future plans! I like it!👍🏿
Wow this is brilliant!! Sometimes I think the notion of being 'vulnerable' to connect with others gets miskewed when in reality there is validity and growth in keeping some things closer to yourself
I never tell people anything I think is person to me. I never tell people’s anything! It’s not a secret it’s my privacy of my self and life it’s protecting me my and I! Alway was like that since when I payed attention to not everyone is your friend or wants the right thing to have for you. And it’s funny how people ask the same ???over and over again in different ways trying to get what they want to hear.
Not a Oprah fan but dammit she's 100% correct a very imperative video, appreciated seriously FONTE THE INTROVERTED VISIONARY published poet /diversified ✍️ writer
It's true to certain degree but then again some people are keen on helping you to achieve your goals if they see your enthusiasm and belief ..at the end we are social animals and can go further by collaborating with others rather than on our own
Thank you for expressing my thoughts. 🕊️✨ Grab a boost from people with positive vibes only. Even the ones that don't know how much sweat and tears you put in each day, can give encouragement if they're Really enthusiastic for you.
Sounds like Ai, when Oprah speaks it has energy in her voice, this voice lacks energy it actually lowers the vibration of the speech, which is unfortunate because the advice is actually golden. 😥
I have always thought this. And have witnesses when I have shared how the energy of the room, of certain people shifts. Vs. When I have kept things to myself. There is a difference when I deliver the end result vs the idea, the concept, the process. I dislike the negative feedback from people who think they know me or have a full understanding on the topic at hand. How about when something has happened and people are wuick to crtici? Also another reason why to keep things to yourself. People are quick to add their opinion when they watch a Wins or loss. But they dont care on the efforts it takes to win or even have a loss. Even with the loss we can learn with out negative feedback.
This is definitely AI. The words are on point. If I was just reading them I would never know, but it’s absolutely missing the life force of Oprah herself.
Give yourself the freedom to experience life fully, without the limitations of closing yourself off too soon. Remain curious. 🌿 Build privately.🌿 Become in tune with your intuition.🌿
Something my grandmother instilled in me. "Never tell people what your doing, tell them when its done"
Silence is wisdom. Proverbs 17:28
And 18:2
We are created in the image of God and God SPOKE everything into existence.
THIS, I agree with.
I did this mistake so many times in the past, and still need to get better at it. This time, no more sharing before things get real.
Me too
I should have heard this when I was in my 20's
I know 😢 me 2
Honestly, I thought about that. Personally, I wouldn't have heard it it the same in my 20's as I hear it now
Don't talk about it. Be about it.
THIS, I agree with🍉🌈🐾
Not everyone wants to see you do well, and that includes the closest people in your life. I trusted people easily and shared all my goals, secrets, problems, and everything with others. That only led to them betraying me and ensuring that my life is destroyed. Be very careful because you only have yourself at the end of the day. A friend today might be an enemy tomorrow.
I never understood why people always say don’t tell people what you are working on but I understand now
Same! Now I’m wondering if that is an Aries thing lol. Because I’m thinking Idc who knows I’m gonna make it happen. But this makes sense when she explained it.
Same here. Why did I learned that lesson at the age of 44😢. It’s better now than never. 🙌🥂💪
OK April I can’t stand you. You’ve been really brought to us the screws over a whole bunch times yeah and he came after us to only try to kill us.
What if you're an Estate Agent that requires you be out there and tell people what you do.. how are you going to be out there if you do it in silence
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A woman of wisdom always moves in silence for a reason. To protect everything she holds precious….😉
I'm with her all the way. But the sad part is some people don't really want you to succeed & they'll purposely discourage you SPITEFULLY. I've always kept my mouth shut I guess I always will!🙏
Perfect
My parents were extremely evolved individuals 💫💫🌟💫… I was taught this information at age 8.
This is true … It really works !
Yes, don't want putting there negative energy on my dreams and desires
Right ✋✋
Oprah,
Thank you for your insight and this powerful advice.
Real talk, every time I told my older sister 1 of my goals she would bad mouth it
Perfect ❤
Watch that one.
This is excellent advice regardless of who or what is speaking it.
Focus on the words.
It's her voice for me. It resonates within. Very calming.
“Lord I hear you… I understand my ASSIGNMENT!” #YourDreamIsYourAssignment
When I tell you, Oprah said that thang. Strong wisdom reached by many! Thank u for this! I needed to hear this.
Everything said I have experienced, I realized this just recently how múch energy I wasted on explaining myself, how much I was faced with peoples doubts and opinions and their projections on me, here I am standing and gathering my len strenght and energy, I guess I did it because I didnt know better, only after the experience I see that it was part of the process, next tíme I do it better. Thanks for sharing this video, it helped me to anchor something what I came to realize ❤
The more better you do it just reminds them of what they were not able to do them self could have done it but didn’t . So your success reminds them of what they could have down . And they start to resent your success. So it’s better not to mention your success to them . Be around people that lift you up not drag you down . You don’t want there negative energy dragging you down .
Problem is I only learned how to love people that did that. Took some time and lot of reading to understand it all applying all of very difficult when that negative is stacked against you
To me, never telling people what to do is just as important as stopping people from doing the wrong thing or helping them understand the consequences and working hard at convincing them of this.
Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent,
and discerning if they hold their tongues.
This is so true Oprah, you are on point with this.
This is something people should listen to once a week, it works every time, every day.
Thank you so much ❤
Feels like Oprah knows what I've been through and she's talking to me 💖
Wonderful... I always always go through their negative opinions and limitations they make to me whenever I tell people that I start my diet or plan
This is a very individualistic perspective. Our visions should be in concert with our communities working towards goals that build all of us up. This is coming from a perspective of famine instead of abundance. Speaking actually helps me develop my vision.
i respect oprah so much
Wish I knew this before I blabbed…people showed their true colours
Sometimes it’s necessary to see who is really on your side
Gosh . This is what my opinion and what I keep telling my children and this thing I learned it from my gramma . But it doesn’t that I went though stupid situations before when sharing my plans with other . True life is a journey not a distension . Love it .
I appreciate how detailed your explanations always are.
Thank you Jonathan , the message is so meaningful and it validates what Rosie’s Female Minister Years ago , Johnny Coleman
said, and I applied it to self and used it as a guide. She said, “Never tell your Dream, because the day you do , there will be many people praying it will never come true. So thank you for your love and understanding, but God ‘s have this!!Amen!!!🙏🏽❤️😍
I been thinking this . Appreciate the confirmation
This is a lesson and I have learned something meaningful today and I thank you.
I have said this since I was born and people never understood this concept. Present your idea or concept once you have internally established the baseline.
Thank you so much, Oprah, for the lesson. ❤❤Regards from Portugal and Angola.
Thank you!!!!!
Oprah God is with you and in you believe this.
at first I didn’t like how repetitive this was but I kept listening bc I know I needed to keep hearing it! ❤❤❤
You don’t have to tell us, we see and read, what you do!!!!
I love how she speaks, inspiring to myself. It is really hard to live in todays world full of noise - how to choose the proper way. We need to think about our self to make this world better place to live
Staying quiet is so lonely though
Means plan alone,people can ruin plans,done to me.
I will come back tomorrow morning to continue the reading.
God of heaven is above all
It's not Oprah though, but it's true
Even if it’s her, and she is reading from a script/AI, the information is good and has a very strong utilitarian use in my life for my future plans! I like it!👍🏿
Thankyou 🙌🏻💪🏻🫶🏻
7:23 this!!!! This is why I regret telling my mom that I was figure skating.
Thank You Oprah
Oprah doesn't talk like this and have these concepts in life. She is a talk show host. She talks about people's deepest desires and thoughts.
So true..keep my dreams private.
Amen and WELL SAID ❤
Thanks Oprah!
Wow this is brilliant!! Sometimes I think the notion of being 'vulnerable' to connect with others gets miskewed when in reality there is validity and growth in keeping some things closer to yourself
I know this since childhood 👌.
On the other hand, I shared one idea with the business owner and she gave me a great idea. I had this idea before, but hesitated. So it depends
Thanks oprah your give good advice for us
Agree to own your own narrative and stop justifying to others about your own decision.
Very true ❤
So helpsom 🙏🏻
AI Voice overs are so dangerous... but the Message is Golden!
Absolutely so true!
Thank you so much for sharing.. you are an excellent teacher.
May God continue to bless you ❤.
I never tell people anything I think is person to me. I never tell people’s anything! It’s not a secret it’s my privacy of my self and life it’s protecting me my and I! Alway was like that since when I payed attention to not everyone is your friend or wants the right thing to have for you. And it’s funny how people ask the same ???over and over again in different ways trying to get what they want to hear.
Not a Oprah fan but dammit she's 100% correct a very imperative video, appreciated seriously
FONTE THE INTROVERTED VISIONARY published poet /diversified ✍️ writer
No. JUST WATCH WHAT THEY DO. That tells a LOT
Wow thank you 🙏🏼 ❤
Great thought process - thank you 🎉
Great video 💯
Thank you 🙏🙏
'Loose lips, sink ships'. My mother would say that. I now know exactly what she was saying.
So true! 🧡
Very true
Perfect ❤❤❤no one really cares
This is so true Oprah
It's true to certain degree but then again some people are keen on helping you to achieve your goals if they see your enthusiasm and belief ..at the end we are social animals and can go further by collaborating with others rather than on our own
You don’t share with people who are only wanting to know so that they can try to sabotage your success.
Thank you for expressing my thoughts. 🕊️✨
Grab a boost from people with positive vibes only. Even the ones that don't know how much sweat and tears you put in each day, can give encouragement if they're Really enthusiastic for you.
OW always has the best glasses.
Profound 🧐
Wow so good
Thank you my nubian queen
Absolutely 💯
❤ this is awesome
Sounds like Ai, when Oprah speaks it has energy in her voice, this voice lacks energy it actually lowers the vibration of the speech, which is unfortunate because the advice is actually golden. 😥
This is AI ,,I could tell 💯
True 😢
Yup. But the message is solid
As for me l tell people what l want to do. I get it done with power of God. If l don’t say it . I can do it. I don’t care what people say.
Spot on
I made this mistake and learned that people will give you advice based on their own fears.
Amen 💜💜💜
Sara Blakely says the same in her masterclass. There is obviously something to it - both women incredibly successful
Very good info
this is sooo sooo good
Nice quote❤️more true🌸
❤❤❤
I have always thought this. And have witnesses when I have shared how the energy of the room, of certain people shifts.
Vs. When I have kept things to myself. There is a difference when I deliver the end result vs the idea, the concept, the process.
I dislike the negative feedback from people who think they know me or have a full understanding on the topic at hand.
How about when something has happened and people are wuick to crtici? Also another reason why to keep things to yourself.
People are quick to add their opinion when they watch a Wins or loss.
But they dont care on the efforts it takes to win or even have a loss. Even with the loss we can learn with out negative feedback.
2:06 my teachings of today - this❤
8:52 yes yes yes... Truth ❤
Wow awesome ❤
This is definitely AI. The words are on point. If I was just reading them I would never know, but it’s absolutely missing the life force of Oprah herself.
This is great but 1 question. How to proceed with potential investors on ideas you have if buisnesmodels done and really just need seed money.
👏👏
great video
Give yourself the freedom to experience life fully, without the limitations of closing yourself off too soon.
Remain curious. 🌿
Build privately.🌿
Become in tune with your intuition.🌿
Amen 🙏🏽