This video's eye opening, it gives me the strength to change, knowing that I'm not the only person in this. I want to change, be better, be what I used to be, i hope i can make it happen❤
There's a saying I heard; 'Your mental health isn't necessarily your fault, but it IS your responsibility' a lot of people could benefit from remembering that imo
I just need to say... when I saw this comment 11 days ago I screen capped it. I cant tell you how many times I've said this to ppl or showed them the pic in these 11 days. Even my therapist lol. You have given me an awesome boundary statement as well!!! This is perfect for adults to hear.💙
this video hits hard. especially to me bc im a person who feels like i can only be good by being good and having no self worth, being ‘selfless’. Thank you so much for making this video. i’ve been trying to make changes. this video really helps. thanks ❤❤❤
I like what you said about forgiving yourself. This is so true. When some people do something bad, no matter what it is, they tend to live with it and it brings them down. You must forget it, forgive yourself and move on. Forget yesterday and plan for Today .
Yes I agree. I used to spend way too much time living in the past - but that doesn’t serve anyone! Thank you so much for your lovely comment. Sending hugs. 🧡
Even when you get older a person always keeps changing and when you get really old you spend a lot of time thinking about the past and wonder what you could have done better or how you could have been kinder. You have turned over a new leaf and sound like a lovely young woman!
When you're in your 20's and 30's everything seems like a rat race; People and social media make you compare yourself with others and all of this can really make you feel depressed and down. I'm 43 and now I live for myself and my family.. I don't care what "the world" expects from me, I'm doing the things that make ME happy. I feel like when you get older, everything gets easier.
@@IamBecca I saw the last video of Ruby Granger, she graduated this month and she wants to take a year off for writing... the poor girl is scared/ uncomfortable to tell people about her plans cos everyone expects her to get a job. That's so sad, she should be proud of herself for following her own path, if this is financial a possibility for her go for it girl! And for you Becca, I wish you all the love and all the luck in the world; Your journey was very different for such a young woman, losing the love of your life is not what you expect when you are so young. Don't be hard on yourself, you did a great job!
u are angel and deffinetly NOT horrible person. I watched your videos and I found there so many beautifull vibes what hit me so deeply and provided me hope,understanding... ...Im glad that exist in our world people like u Becca !
I can relate. When I was young, I wasn’t always a great person. I always ruined everything. When I moved to a new elementary school, I became a better person, and always respected everyone. But one day, I accidentally left class and I wasn’t allowed to have free time. I believed that I was a bad person and started hating myself for a long time. Even though my teacher and my friends told me that I wasn’t terrible. But I wouldn’t listen. I apologized, but I refused to move on and continued to make things worse unnecessarily to the point where I really did become a terrible person once I started grade 8. And for the entire year I acted like a brat and did so many terrible things, I misbehaved in the supermarket everytime we went, being disruptive in class, being racist towards another kid for absolutely no reason, trashed the classroom 2 times for no reason, forcing my beliefs into other people, and always got mad easily. And what’s worse was that I believed I was a good person even though it’s clear that I wasn’t. And to this day, an entire decade later, I still couldn’t forgive myself for those things I did. Knowing I had a change to accept that I wasn’t bad, knowing that my friends were nice to offer me a second chance and all those times I pushed their offer away, knowing that there is no way to undo what I’ve done, it’s been impossible for me to move on. It just depresses me, because I would later to grow to be that exact person 3 years later. But by the grace of god, I’m able to be motivated to live. Just please, don’t make the same mistake I made.
I've had to work on my mental illness, trauma and gear it toward mental health. Just a shift of what is making my mental health suffer or sick, I need to work on it being healthier. trying to think of it like this has helped. I have low self worth still, but have started something new there. Will see how that goes. I am so glad to see you here though. Knowing losing what we know who you have lost, and are here, still stepping one step at a time. That there is hope. And for some, hope is all that is needed to live for another day. So thank you. 💖
You're looking fab Becca, and what a great message to send to everyone. Thanks for your openness and honesty, I know your message will help others a lot - stay well lovely x
I have PTSD and anxiety after being in the military and this video hits the nail on the head. It's so hard recognizing when you're doing it but you can't take your mental health issues out on others around you. Everyone else has bad days too and I had to learn that and it took time but now I'm more balanced and grounded and I find I can handle stressful events alot more better now. That autopilot with a mental health issue actually makes it worse.
Thank you so much for sharing this with us. Thank you, for everything. Look after yourself and make sure to chat things through if you need to. Sending a hug to you. 🧡
You're not a horrible person, and you never were. We all fall in pits of not being our best selves, but the fact that you can acknowledge your flaws with a clear mind shows you're lightyears ahead of some people.
I noticed all my most toxic traits are magnified by alcohol. Its a horrible drug and you really got to check yourself. But that ugliness exists in me even without it , and I use my trauma as an excuse to be a mean person too.
I watched this video after waking up on a Sunday and it really hits home. This is exactlx the transformation I'm going though Becca! And I so wanna hear about hydration haha. Thank you so much ♥️
Haha I'm glad someone wants to hear about hydration... I'll make the video just for you! Thank you for your gorgeous comment - we are all learning - lets do it together! 🧡
Quality content, beautifully and authenticity presented. Thank you for investing your time in creating these sorts of videos - you have the ability to change the world and help so many people. ❤️
I'm so glad you are on the right path! Please stay on it and you will find the true beauty of yourself and who you really are. It is far from easy, but it is definitely worth it. Regards , a Greek friend.
@@IamBecca I've been on it for many years now, it is tough but well worth it. Just know that only brave at heart people choose to follow empathy, compassion, altruism, so please consider yourself one. All my love, Marios.
Hey Becca. Hope you're doing well. As somebody who is recovering from PTSD and dealing with BPD and trying to deal with these unmedicated. Your videos are great for relaxing and self reflection. You have a really great camera presence and come off so genuine. If your ever in need of a brain to pick regarding trauma I've pretty much been there got the T-shirt so to speak. Keep up the amazing content 🙂
Thank you so much for always leaving such insightful comments and being generally lovely and understanding. Please do look after yourself - you aren't alone. Sending hugs. 🧡
Sometimes you need redemption from nothing at all, Wounds caused without intention, because humans will be humans, Despite this exemption, we carry the burden for weeks, months, years, decades, To the grave, but no further. A half poem I wrote years back, about carrying guilt for small things we do when were less wise. Empaths tend to do this more.
'To the grave, but no further.' What an absolutely gorgeous line that is. Thank you so much for sharing this with me - I love poetry. This is something I will keep with me. Thank you. 🧡
Bless you for your starting sneeze ❤️ Thank you for your very insightful vid. Very raw, very honest and a lot to think about. Much appreciated! Now drink your tea 🤣
Many thanks for this open, honest and heartfelt message. An important step in my life was recognising I am not perfect and in my past I have made many mistakes that could have been avoided. I now recognise others may be on a similar path and try to give allowances for such. Nobody is perfect, so lets all give others more benefits of the doubt, and let's not be so hard on ourselves for the very same reason. Wishing you the very best on your journey 🧡
Martin this is such a lovely message. I think loads of people will find this so helpful. Thank you for deciding to comment - I really needed to read this this morning. Lots of love. 🧡
My mom passed last year from GBM-4 from time of dx to her death was 9months. I was her sole caregiver her last six months. I would do it all over again if I had too. Over the months since then I’ve become angry. I cut off family and I don’t like to do things anymore. My depression is deep. My husband tells me I’m not the only one who has ever lost a mom. And yes I’m not but I feel so angry and stuck right now. There are plenty of days I don’t want to wake up. Becca, I love your videos please continue.
Oh Nancy. I wish I had the words to help and I wish I could take the pain away. But it will get easier - and just because you aren't the only one doesn't mean the pain isn't valid. Please reach out if you need help. Lots of love. 🧡
Hahaha I love that! I didn't even realise?! There was definitely a bee theme in this video - I had bees on my skirt too?! Thank YOU for welcoming me back. 🧡
Hi have missed seeing you, hope your well. Horrible nah there are worse people out there. I know where your coming from ive grown a lot over time too, im not the same as i was when i was a teen. Living is a lesson we all learn.
Loving ur videos n so glad ur back❤ I was literally thinking about u the other day n wondered how u were doing. The world needs a little bit of sunshine in it with all the craziness in it. Another thing that has helped me grow n be a better person is by asking myself why am I feeling this way. It sounds sooo basic but when u reflect on what u are feeling n pin point why..it helps you understand you a bit more 😇
Oh thank you. I think this is so important. Asking 'why' is so so great for moving forward through life. Thank you so much for sharing this. Lots of love to you. 🧡
Sorry I missed this video until now Becca, but thank you again for a really insightful and interesting video. My mental health in the past has been very much the catalyst for me losing relationships but at the time I justified it all because I wasn’t well mentally and they should have understood. In hindsight, I made it very difficult for people to love me and have me in their lives. Some of those relationships will never be repaired and I mourn them everyday but like you, I feel a stronger person, a completely different person and I have so much more empathy than I had at my worst. I also believe now I am a good person (most days)! Omg 😱, water has been a massive part of my development over the last few years and I tell everyone i know now that it really can change how you feel both physically and mentally. Anyway, thanks for another lovely video, that helps me understand you more but also makes me think about my own behaviour and the outcomes in relationships. You are a really special person 🥰🥰🥰. Tx❤️
I always ADORE your comments Tracie. This is so insightful and you really have come such a long way - you should be so proud of yourself. You're wonderful. 🧡
We are all a mess. Just depends on if we claim it as a profession or not.. I do bad or mess up but i dont make a career out of it.. Some people literally dont care though..
You are a truly GEM for this World We need to protect you like our eyes You are an alive blessing Sorryy for my bad english . I am writing like my greeks are
My CPTSD from childhood abuse has ruined me. I trust nobody, i can't get it out of my head that people are secretly trying to f**k me over in some way, or are laughing at me behind my back. Sometimes my paranoia about someone makes me feel angry at them, and at times it's made me say things i later regretted. Idk if it's the low self-esteem, i find it very hard to believe anyone would like me or want to be around me, so it makes me suspicious of them.
Although I can never fully understand, I do empathise with this feeling. Please try to seek help if you have the means - talking this through with someone can truly help make all the difference. 🧡
I'd love to meet you someday. Just it! Meanwhile, It's good to hear you from your videos. I'm from Brazil and I'm trying to pick any of you knowlegde out and bring it to my life. I'm going through tough years and honestly I have no idea how to deal with it. Life punched me so hard!
Hi Becca from the States! Hope you're well this fine Suday! Well it's like 10 at night your time, but 5 pm mine lol. Anyways I'm glad you're doing good!
Strange thing is I have the exact personality problem, I'm short tempered, over opinionated, impatient, easily angered, take things personally. I have very almost no friends, I'm not hospitable. I'm an artist as well, creative and view things my own way. I hate that I'm live this, everyone in my family is the opposite of what I am. I have a wonderful boyfriend who wants to marry me but I'm having doubts because I feel like I'm too bad of a person and won't treat him well. My temper is triggered mostly when people come over to visit. I'm obsessed with personal space. Lately I'm always arguing with family about people staying over. They tell me I'm so unaccomodating and selfish. I have be feeling like I just want to run away and be alone coz nobody should be with a horrible person like me. Sometimes I wish I could die so my family can live in peace
I really hope you find some comfort soon. Please seek help if you feel you need it - I wish I could be of more help but there is so so much help out there. 🧡
Do you have any tips how to communicate with a person who is going through some rough times, being snappy and sometimes quite unfair? I usually try to just endure it because - as you said - people are mortal and I have the selflove and strength to not take it personally most of the times. However from time to time it makes me feel miserable and worthless and so lonely. Is there a good way to get through to someone who is fighting his or her own battles without arguing and without swallowing everything down that they throw at you? I wish you all the best for your personal life and also for your art.
How are your verbal communication skills? You can start off with, you mean a lot to me you know that right? I'm trying to be there for you but it hurts me feelings when you are aggressive with me. I understand you are going through things right now. What do you need from me to feel supported through this? Hopefully they will acknowledge and apologize for how they have treated you if they don't, maybe they aren't a good person and you need to reevaluate your connection to them.
I think this is so important to address. For a start, I believe you have to look after 'you' first. This isn't selfish, or anything other than looking after you to then be able to look after others. I think helping someone else to fight their battles can be hard, as I do believe this is something that comes from within - but you can be there and tell them you are here to listen. Just make sure you get the help and support if you need it - maybe a therapist could help with this a little too? Please do let us know how you are getting on and I am so sorry to only just be replying now! 🧡
I want to thank both of you for your answers and I will think about your advice. I already see a therapist because of some other issues like anxiety. I thought I had gotten through my roughest times in my early twenties but things keep coming back.
Awwww thank you! I have always struggled with my skin (acne and discolouration) but since focusing on nutrition and hydration it has changed SO much! This comment made me so happy. 🧡
At least your eyebrows are looking somewhat better. You use to darken them way too much and you drew them too close together (like when you got married). It looked horrible. Now you just need to let the outer half of both eyebrows grow in more and not be so narrow. They’re shaped like tadpoles right now.
You're so beautiful. Have missed you.
Thank you so much - I’ve missed doing this! It wouldn’t be without your support though. Sending virtual hugs - hope you’re okay? 🧡
This video's eye opening, it gives me the strength to change, knowing that I'm not the only person in this. I want to change, be better, be what I used to be, i hope i can make it happen❤
There's a saying I heard; 'Your mental health isn't necessarily your fault, but it IS your responsibility' a lot of people could benefit from remembering that imo
That is very true - this is a good quote I like it a lot thank you so much for sharing. 🧡
Right, if you’re aware that you have some sort of mental disability or illness it definitely is your responsibility to do something about it .
I just need to say... when I saw this comment 11 days ago I screen capped it. I cant tell you how many times I've said this to ppl or showed them the pic in these 11 days. Even my therapist lol. You have given me an awesome boundary statement as well!!! This is perfect for adults to hear.💙
@@Ginabina76 I'm glad you found it helpful 😊 I honestly think it's a shame more people haven't heard it
this video hits hard. especially to me bc im a person who feels like i can only be good by being good and having no self worth, being ‘selfless’. Thank you so much for making this video. i’ve been trying to make changes. this video really helps. thanks ❤❤❤
I like what you said about forgiving yourself. This is so true. When some people do something bad, no matter what it is, they tend to live with it and it brings them down. You must forget it, forgive yourself and move on. Forget yesterday and plan for Today .
Yes I agree. I used to spend way too much time living in the past - but that doesn’t serve anyone! Thank you so much for your lovely comment. Sending hugs. 🧡
@@IamBecca Thank you Becca :) have a great day!
Even when you get older a person always keeps changing and when you get really old you spend a lot of time thinking about the past and wonder what you could have done better or how you could have been kinder. You have turned over a new leaf and sound like a lovely young woman!
Thank you so much, Susan. This comment makes it all worth it. I hope to look back and know I tried as best I could. 🧡
When you're in your 20's and 30's everything seems like a rat race; People and social media make you compare yourself with others and all of this can really make you feel depressed and down. I'm 43 and now I live for myself and my family.. I don't care what "the world" expects from me, I'm doing the things that make ME happy. I feel like when you get older, everything gets easier.
Oh this is such a lovely comment. Thank you, so much. It’s such a nice insight to have. 🧡
@@IamBecca I saw the last video of Ruby Granger, she graduated this month and she wants to take a year off for writing... the poor girl is scared/ uncomfortable to tell people about her plans cos everyone expects her to get a job. That's so sad, she should be proud of herself for following her own path, if this is financial a possibility for her go for it girl! And for you Becca, I wish you all the love and all the luck in the world; Your journey was very different for such a young woman, losing the love of your life is not what you expect when you are so young. Don't be hard on yourself, you did a great job!
I feel the same and it is a wonderful feeling!!!
u are angel and deffinetly NOT horrible person. I watched your videos and I found there so many beautifull vibes what hit me so deeply and provided me hope,understanding... ...Im glad that exist in our world people like u Becca !
Michal!!! Thank you so so much, you are so lovely. Almost made me cry! 🧡
I can relate. When I was young, I wasn’t always a great person. I always ruined everything. When I moved to a new elementary school, I became a better person, and always respected everyone. But one day, I accidentally left class and I wasn’t allowed to have free time. I believed that I was a bad person and started hating myself for a long time. Even though my teacher and my friends told me that I wasn’t terrible. But I wouldn’t listen. I apologized, but I refused to move on and continued to make things worse unnecessarily to the point where I really did become a terrible person once I started grade 8. And for the entire year I acted like a brat and did so many terrible things, I misbehaved in the supermarket everytime we went, being disruptive in class, being racist towards another kid for absolutely no reason, trashed the classroom 2 times for no reason, forcing my beliefs into other people, and always got mad easily. And what’s worse was that I believed I was a good person even though it’s clear that I wasn’t. And to this day, an entire decade later, I still couldn’t forgive myself for those things I did. Knowing I had a change to accept that I wasn’t bad, knowing that my friends were nice to offer me a second chance and all those times I pushed their offer away, knowing that there is no way to undo what I’ve done, it’s been impossible for me to move on. It just depresses me, because I would later to grow to be that exact person 3 years later. But by the grace of god, I’m able to be motivated to live. Just please, don’t make the same mistake I made.
I've had to work on my mental illness, trauma and gear it toward mental health. Just a shift of what is making my mental health suffer or sick, I need to work on it being healthier. trying to think of it like this has helped. I have low self worth still, but have started something new there. Will see how that goes. I am so glad to see you here though. Knowing losing what we know who you have lost, and are here, still stepping one step at a time. That there is hope. And for some, hope is all that is needed to live for another day. So thank you. 💖
Hope is so powerful, Wendy. Hold onto it and let it guide you. Sending so much love, thank you for this comment and for your openness. 🧡
You're looking fab Becca, and what a great message to send to everyone. Thanks for your openness and honesty, I know your message will help others a lot - stay well lovely x
Thank you so much, lovely. This is such a kind and thoughtful comment. Sending hugs. 🧡
I have PTSD and anxiety after being in the military and this video hits the nail on the head. It's so hard recognizing when you're doing it but you can't take your mental health issues out on others around you. Everyone else has bad days too and I had to learn that and it took time but now I'm more balanced and grounded and I find I can handle stressful events alot more better now. That autopilot with a mental health issue actually makes it worse.
Thank you for your service. I hope you’re having a good day today. ❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this with us. Thank you, for everything. Look after yourself and make sure to chat things through if you need to. Sending a hug to you. 🧡
I second that. 🧡
You're not a horrible person, and you never were. We all fall in pits of not being our best selves, but the fact that you can acknowledge your flaws with a clear mind shows you're lightyears ahead of some people.
Thank you so much. I hope to continue to learn. 🧡
I noticed all my most toxic traits are magnified by alcohol. Its a horrible drug and you really got to check yourself. But that ugliness exists in me even without it , and I use my trauma as an excuse to be a mean person too.
I watched this video after waking up on a Sunday and it really hits home. This is exactlx the transformation I'm going though Becca! And I so wanna hear about hydration haha. Thank you so much ♥️
Haha I'm glad someone wants to hear about hydration... I'll make the video just for you! Thank you for your gorgeous comment - we are all learning - lets do it together! 🧡
Quality content, beautifully and authenticity presented. Thank you for investing your time in creating these sorts of videos - you have the ability to change the world and help so many people. ❤️
This comment means the absolute world to me. Thank YOU for being the reason I continue to do this. You’re truly amazing. 🧡
Omg that was the most adorable sneeze I have ever witnessed! Hugs to you💕 I absolutely respect and admire who you are
Haha! Thank you. I am so grateful for you. Sending a massive hug! 🧡
Life is a learning process. Keep up the positive content. You continue to inspire us.
Owww thank you so much. Life truly is all about learning. 🧡
It's really good to see you and hear you. I often wonder how you're getting on. You truly are an amazing human ❤️
Thank you so so much. You have to put up with me now - haha! 🧡
Thank you for sharing this Becca ❤️ I've been having mental health for a long time, I feel ya.
You've always been such an incredible support to me - throughout it all. Thank you SO much. I hope you're well. 🧡
@@IamBecca You are certainly welcome
I'm so glad you are on the right path! Please stay on it and you will find the true beauty of yourself and who you really are. It is far from easy, but it is definitely worth it.
Regards , a Greek friend.
Thank you so much, friend. I hope you’re well on your path. 🧡
@@IamBecca I've been on it for many years now, it is tough but well worth it. Just know that only brave at heart people choose to follow empathy, compassion, altruism, so please consider yourself one. All my love, Marios.
What a gift that you are embracing your journey of change and being brave to share with others. So proud of you. Thank you. Hugs
Thank you so so much. Sending a hug right back at you. 🧡
Hey Becca. Hope you're doing well. As somebody who is recovering from PTSD and dealing with BPD and trying to deal with these unmedicated. Your videos are great for relaxing and self reflection. You have a really great camera presence and come off so genuine. If your ever in need of a brain to pick regarding trauma I've pretty much been there got the T-shirt so to speak. Keep up the amazing content 🙂
Thank you so much for always leaving such insightful comments and being generally lovely and understanding. Please do look after yourself - you aren't alone. Sending hugs. 🧡
You couldn’t have come to this conclusion if you were horrible. You have matured and are doing the best for yourself. Xx
Wow. That is actually such an interesting insight and has made me feel so much better? Thank you. This means the world. Sending an internet hug. 🧡
Sometimes you need redemption from nothing at all,
Wounds caused without intention, because humans will be humans,
Despite this exemption, we carry the burden for weeks, months, years, decades,
To the grave, but no further.
A half poem I wrote years back, about carrying guilt for small things we do when were less wise. Empaths tend to do this more.
'To the grave, but no further.'
What an absolutely gorgeous line that is. Thank you so much for sharing this with me - I love poetry. This is something I will keep with me. Thank you. 🧡
Love this video I also have things in my past that I’m not proud of but I started believing in myself that I’m capable of change
We are all capable of change. Thank you so much for being here. 🧡
Bless you for your starting sneeze ❤️
Thank you for your very insightful vid. Very raw, very honest and a lot to think about. Much appreciated! Now drink your tea 🤣
This was both such a lovely comment and a funny one at the same time 😂 thank YOU!!! Sending a virtual hug. 🧡
"They are mortal." is such an important thing to remember. Thank you. That's something I needed to hear.
It is a difficult thing to remember, but it is great for staying grounded and present. 🧡
Many thanks for this open, honest and heartfelt message.
An important step in my life was recognising I am not perfect and in my past I have made many mistakes that could have been avoided. I now recognise others may be on a similar path and try to give allowances for such.
Nobody is perfect, so lets all give others more benefits of the doubt, and let's not be so hard on ourselves for the very same reason.
Wishing you the very best on your journey 🧡
Martin this is such a lovely message. I think loads of people will find this so helpful. Thank you for deciding to comment - I really needed to read this this morning. Lots of love. 🧡
Plenty of food for thought in this video. Thanks Becca 💕
Thank you for watching! 🧡
This is the first video I've watched this Sunday morning (in America). What a gift you've given me!
Awww David thank you so much for watching! And from all the way across the water too! I'm so grateful. 🧡
I love how you have come out of yourself. Your confidence shines.
Thank you so so much. 🧡
Thank you Becca
Thank you! 🧡
My mom passed last year from GBM-4 from time of dx to her death was 9months. I was her sole caregiver her last six months. I would do it all over again if I had too. Over the months since then I’ve become angry. I cut off family and I don’t like to do things anymore. My depression is deep. My husband tells me I’m not the only one who has ever lost a mom. And yes I’m not but I feel so angry and stuck right now. There are plenty of days I don’t want to wake up. Becca, I love your videos please continue.
Oh Nancy. I wish I had the words to help and I wish I could take the pain away. But it will get easier - and just because you aren't the only one doesn't mean the pain isn't valid. Please reach out if you need help. Lots of love. 🧡
Omg omg omg those bees match your eye colour!! Also thank you for coming back into our lives...🥰
Hahaha I love that! I didn't even realise?! There was definitely a bee theme in this video - I had bees on my skirt too?! Thank YOU for welcoming me back. 🧡
Hi have missed seeing you, hope your well. Horrible nah there are worse people out there. I know where your coming from ive grown a lot over time too, im not the same as i was when i was a teen. Living is a lesson we all learn.
It certainly is! We all learn, grow and change - what a privilege that is! 🧡
I really enjoy your videos and I'm happy that you're back, and feeling better. Lots of hugs. 🤗🤗
Thank you so much! It is so good to be back. Sending you a hug right back at you - and so much love too! 🧡
@@IamBecca Thank you, dear.🥰 💚
Loving ur videos n so glad ur back❤ I was literally thinking about u the other day n wondered how u were doing. The world needs a little bit of sunshine in it with all the craziness in it. Another thing that has helped me grow n be a better person is by asking myself why am I feeling this way. It sounds sooo basic but when u reflect on what u are feeling n pin point why..it helps you understand you a bit more 😇
Oh thank you. I think this is so important. Asking 'why' is so so great for moving forward through life. Thank you so much for sharing this. Lots of love to you. 🧡
So happy to see you again. Hugs 🤗
It is good to be back! Sending hugs your way. 🧡
Sorry I missed this video until now Becca, but thank you again for a really insightful and interesting video.
My mental health in the past has been very much the catalyst for me losing relationships but at the time I justified it all because I wasn’t well mentally and they should have understood. In hindsight, I made it very difficult for people to love me and have me in their lives. Some of those relationships will never be repaired and I mourn them everyday but like you, I feel a stronger person, a completely different person and I have so much more empathy than I had at my worst. I also believe now I am a good person (most days)!
Omg 😱, water has been a massive part of my development over the last few years and I tell everyone i know now that it really can change how you feel both physically and mentally.
Anyway, thanks for another lovely video, that helps me understand you more but also makes me think about my own behaviour and the outcomes in relationships.
You are a really special person 🥰🥰🥰.
Tx❤️
I always ADORE your comments Tracie. This is so insightful and you really have come such a long way - you should be so proud of yourself. You're wonderful. 🧡
Ohhhh this is so inspiring. Lucky to have your friendship, you beautiful soul 🥺🤍
YOU are inspiring. Love you. 🧡
I love listening to you!
I love that you listen. 🧡
awesome to see you posting again Bexs
Thank you so much Elliot. Lots of love. 🧡
Your very beautiful inside and out!
Awww thank you so so much for this.
This was beautiful, Becca, thank you! ❤️
Thank YOU for watching! 🧡
Bless you
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its been sometime , so happy to see your beautiful face. please don't leave us xo
Thank you! I intend to stay. 🧡
Love your videos! 💙💙💙
And so you should!? 🧡
And so I do?! 🙄😂💙
We are all a mess. Just depends on if we claim it as a profession or not.. I do bad or mess up but i dont make a career out of it.. Some people literally dont care though..
That is very true... I like being a bit of a mess though - as long as it doesn't hurt anyone in the process! 😂
You are a truly GEM for this World
We need to protect you like our eyes
You are an alive blessing
Sorryy for my bad english .
I am writing like my greeks are
Your English is incredible. Thank you, so much! 🧡
You've got such grace Becca. 🧡
Thank you! 🧡
My CPTSD from childhood abuse has ruined me. I trust nobody, i can't get it out of my head that people are secretly trying to f**k me over in some way, or are laughing at me behind my back. Sometimes my paranoia about someone makes me feel angry at them, and at times it's made me say things i later regretted. Idk if it's the low self-esteem, i find it very hard to believe anyone would like me or want to be around me, so it makes me suspicious of them.
Although I can never fully understand, I do empathise with this feeling. Please try to seek help if you have the means - talking this through with someone can truly help make all the difference. 🧡
You are so damn special Becca.
This made my heart so full. Thank you, so much, it means the world. 🧡
@@IamBecca you're very welcome
Love your videos, and your so beautiful!!!!!!!
Thank you so much Jenny! 🧡
I'd love to meet you someday. Just it! Meanwhile, It's good to hear you from your videos. I'm from Brazil and I'm trying to pick any of you knowlegde out and bring it to my life. I'm going through tough years and honestly I have no idea how to deal with it. Life punched me so hard!
Bless your heart, this is a lovely comment - but I hope life isn't punching you too hard. It can be difficult, but it can also be beautiful too. 🧡
@@IamBecca teach me how, plz!!!!! 😮💨
Where did you get the bee mug, I love it!
It is from FatFace, but it was last years collection! They have GREAT bee stuff. 🧡
Hi Becca from the States! Hope you're well this fine Suday! Well it's like 10 at night your time, but 5 pm mine lol. Anyways I'm glad you're doing good!
I am late replying to comments! It is 11:00am here and I am on the train trying not to happy-cry at all of these lovely comments. 🧡
I am late replying to comments! It is 11:00am here and I am on the train trying not to happy-cry at all of these lovely comments. 🧡
@@IamBecca you're fine! Take your time, lol you have a life to live. It's completely ok!! I'm glad the comments make you happy!
You are awesome!
YOU are awesome! 🧡
Strange thing is I have the exact personality problem, I'm short tempered, over opinionated, impatient, easily angered, take things personally. I have very almost no friends, I'm not hospitable. I'm an artist as well, creative and view things my own way.
I hate that I'm live this, everyone in my family is the opposite of what I am. I have a wonderful boyfriend who wants to marry me but I'm having doubts because I feel like I'm too bad of a person and won't treat him well. My temper is triggered mostly when people come over to visit. I'm obsessed with personal space.
Lately I'm always arguing with family about people staying over. They tell me I'm so unaccomodating and selfish. I have be feeling like I just want to run away and be alone coz nobody should be with a horrible person like me. Sometimes I wish I could die so my family can live in peace
I really hope you find some comfort soon. Please seek help if you feel you need it - I wish I could be of more help but there is so so much help out there. 🧡
I can absolutely relate with all you said..
I hope you're well. 🧡
💙💙💙..that is all! This vid is 👌
This made my heart so happy! Thank you, thank you, thank you. 🧡
Hi Becca. Whatever happened to your little kitten Poppy.
She is well and happy thank you! 🧡
Great video
Do you have any tips how to communicate with a person who is going through some rough times, being snappy and sometimes quite unfair? I usually try to just endure it because - as you said - people are mortal and I have the selflove and strength to not take it personally most of the times. However from time to time it makes me feel miserable and worthless and so lonely. Is there a good way to get through to someone who is fighting his or her own battles without arguing and without swallowing everything down that they throw at you? I wish you all the best for your personal life and also for your art.
How are your verbal communication skills? You can start off with, you mean a lot to me you know that right? I'm trying to be there for you but it hurts me feelings when you are aggressive with me. I understand you are going through things right now. What do you need from me to feel supported through this?
Hopefully they will acknowledge and apologize for how they have treated you if they don't, maybe they aren't a good person and you need to reevaluate your connection to them.
I think this is so important to address. For a start, I believe you have to look after 'you' first. This isn't selfish, or anything other than looking after you to then be able to look after others. I think helping someone else to fight their battles can be hard, as I do believe this is something that comes from within - but you can be there and tell them you are here to listen. Just make sure you get the help and support if you need it - maybe a therapist could help with this a little too? Please do let us know how you are getting on and I am so sorry to only just be replying now! 🧡
YOU are why I love this community so much. The constant help and support to one another is SO wonderful. Thank you. 🧡
I want to thank both of you for your answers and I will think about your advice. I already see a therapist because of some other issues like anxiety. I thought I had gotten through my roughest times in my early twenties but things keep coming back.
@@LarissaSchiefer it's OK there is nothing wrong with that.
Could you put a link to your website in the Video Description, please?
Hi Patrick! It should already be in there - but if not, here it is: www.minehyde.com/ ☺️ hope you’re well! 🧡
Very Good Video!
Thank you so much! 🧡
Encouraging words. ❤
Thank you Alex, always. 🧡
Bless you! 🤧 lol
Hahaha! Thanks. 😉🧡
Hugs…😊
Sending you hugs Mark! 🧡
Literally the most beautiful girl I have ever seen in my life. Omg. Xx
Awww thank you so much! That is so lovely. 🧡
@@IamBecca You're so welcome ❤️
But have you seen her without makeup? She's even more beautiful!
@@filthiestfish Yeah I think I have. Magnificent. I would marry her. I'm 31 and male. Becca, call me 🙈🤙
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Hi Becca, hugs 🤗 from Italy 🌈💞
Sending MASSIVE hugs right back at you. 🧡
I have that mug!!! It’s from Fatface 💖
Hell yeah it is!!! I love it. They have great bee stuff. 🧡
If that’s where your parents live and now you, gorgeous!
I wish! It is gorgeous isn't it. 🧡
Your skin! Beautiful
Awwww thank you! I have always struggled with my skin (acne and discolouration) but since focusing on nutrition and hydration it has changed SO much! This comment made me so happy. 🧡
Who's "we"? That's all you, lady.
I have had a LOT of help along the way. 🧡
At least your eyebrows are looking somewhat better. You use to darken them way too much and you drew them too close together (like when you got married). It looked horrible. Now you just need to let the outer half of both eyebrows grow in more and not be so narrow. They’re shaped like tadpoles right now.
It's 2022 and you're being mean about someone's eyebrows online? Maybe you need to actually watch Becca's video and let the message sink in...
Go on then Kay Bee, show us your brows :)
You are absolutely fantastic.
Marvellous, both of you.
Tadpoles are cute!