4 UPDATES: Step Sis Dumped Her Kids On Me On The Day Of An Important Job Interview & Demanded That..
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- 4 UPDATES" Step Sis Dumped Her Kids On Me On The Day Of An Important Job Interview & Demanded That I Take Care Of Them… So I Call Her Ex Husband & Let Him Know & Now She's About To Lose Custody Of Her Kids But my Dad is Losing His Mind Over This & Has Threatened to Remove me From His Will if I Don't Fix Things For Her
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My step-sister "Lucy" (36F) has ten-year-old twin boys with her ex-husband "Gerald" (35M). My dad married Lucy's mother when we were in high school after they met through friends. Lucy's dad had passed away when she was little and my parents had been separated ever since I was three years old. My dad had full custody and my mother only had visiting rights because she had early onset dementia and passed away when I was in middle school. Lucy is three years older than me and when our parents introduced us to each other, she was fifteen and I was just twelve. She was kind of older than me and had this air around her, as if I was beneath her and she didn't reciprocate my attempts to make friends with her. Our parents were in a relationship for three years but she never tried to get to know me or befriend me, probably because I wasn't "cool" enough for her. I don't know what it was but for some reason, she never seemed to like me much. At first, I thought I was imagining it but with time I realized that she just didn't want me around which was difficult to accept because I had been really excited about getting a big sister. There were times when I would try to talk to her but she would just roll her eyes at me and on more than one occasion, she slammed her door shut when she saw me outside her room. The funny part was that I would just be minding my own business and playing on my own, it just happened to be right outside her room. It felt like my existing around her was a problem, even if I wasn't trying to talk to her.
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So he jumped on his step daughter's side, instead of talking to the father to ensure he and his wife could still them? Now he doesn get to see them and the only chid he has now is the step daughter. And op, who he disowned still sees the kid. Dad isnt bright and clearly hasa fav and it isnt his kid
Step-daughter will drain him eventually and there will be no inheritance anyway. He'd nothing as a family member to begin with as well.
And he would have ended up in that same situation without OP. Gerald was ready to fight and that was the final straw.
23:40 he yelled at you about the importance of family...
After he cut his daughter out of the will.
😂😂🤣🤣
He won the gold medal in the mental gymnastics, this guy 😅
I would have told him "I'll miss you" w/ that threat. These doormats need to grow a spine. Allowing bad behavior begets this type of drama. 😮😢😊
Well in a few years when the dad will need help with his care his entitled step daughter will tell him am not your real daughter then he will regret everything
She will be exactly like that.
Well. You reap what you sow.
OP's former father...is not grandfather material.
I hope Gerald knows that and keeps him away too since he's the one that raised Lucy to be this way.
When OP's dad married Lucy's mom, Lucy was already 18, so he didn't raise her. Her mom did.
@nannettepolcastro4799 He may not have raised her, but he sure as hell enables her. And we haven't heard a single word about the stepmom
@@nannettepolcastro4799he got with Lucy's mom when she was 15.
OP since Gerard has full custody of the kids, tell him to file for child support against Lucy.
What a disgusting father! This op should just tell him to eff off
Taking the “higher ground “ doesn’t always work🤦🏽♀️
“Be the bigger person” is just another way of saying “Be a doormat”.
Not in moral situations. STAR WARS is another matter.
Bye bye dad.
Dad has a golden child und sadly it isn't his biological child. Lucy never considered OP to be family. So why should the OP consider Lucy to be family?
Also it's funny how the scapegoat child is supposed to just bend over und take one up the arse for the "family."
The kid's are better off with their father than Lucy.
I loved how Lucy was bitching about how much she "misses" her kids, but in reality hasn't made any effort to exercise her visitation rights.
Dad cuts his own daughter out of his will, then comes round to lecture about "the importance of family" in order to convince op to go to bat for a woman who abandons her own kids.
I'd have told the dad 'any kids I have are never going to see you' and let him cope with that. Honestly, you can't just order your kids around and threaten them and expect them to still care about you!
I would have had a lawyer draw up legal papers stating that the father had been disowned as well. I mean play stupid games win stupid prizes!
Send photos of the boys and you all together to him. Remind him that Lucy has chosen to NOT ever visit her boys. Just to whine, moan, and complain about it. File a counter suit for at least partial custody at the very least.
But, since she lost, it means that even an impartial judge acknowledged that Lucy was derelict in her duties as a mother.
Sue lucy for her lies and get her charged with child abandonment.
tell ex-father that if he speaks to you again you'll speak to his work about his actions then sue him for blackmail.
Op dad is going to come back crying when the stepsister doesn't want to take care of him
I would have told my father that it was his fault for not being there to watch the kids. And he should have given up his trip to take care of his precious daughters kids. And remind him that he chooses his own bio daughter instead of his real daughter.
OP is the bio daughter, making her his real daughter.
Lucy is the step daughter, making her his daughter by marriage.
Your a Door Mate by playing a long with a sister that hates you. When she forced her kids on you here's what you do. CALL THE COPS. Stand up for your self.
Doormat
Not everyone is a landmine.
@@chell807 No Doormate.
Why traumatize them with all that when other family was available? She did the right thing.
CPS not cops
I would told the dad nice knowing you and you made your choice good luck living with it.
Who else is thinking that it would really drive Lucy and Dad insane if OP started a relationship with Gerald?😂
Funny everyone's 'Family' when the main villain needs something selfishly, but not any other thing even when being cordial 🙄 And she's creating mini replicas of herself but make versions?? Lords. And for all the father's talk of 'Family', he seems only keen on it when it benefits him for blackmail (he was wrong for what he says to OP and week regret it) no different than Lucy
Lawyers do not tell people what is in a will or who is benefitting in one.
Thank you! OP would only get notice if the father died.
OP seems to have a romanticized or deluded memory about her relationship with her father, he allowed the stepdaughter to treat her like shite right under his eyes and never did anything about it, just expected his bio daughter to continue to be a doormat. after his demand to make everything right for his step daughter again her response should be to remind him that there will be consequence for his actions and demands and is he very sure about this demand of his because you will give him exactly what he want and completely cut him out of your life forever, block his number and SM and refuse any and all future contact as he never actually supported you in the first place and never will, he will always choose the step child over you, i would absolutely never introduce him to any children you have in the future either.
I’ve been I some really long business meetings, but never a meeting that took all day. Sounds to me like the step-sister used the Saturday for other things too.
Guessing Lucy's "important meetings" are probably Tinder dates and she doesn't want them to know she has kids. Tell daddy dearest to F Off and tell him that "losing him" is no problem because he lost you when he chose Lucy over you. I'm also pretty sure there will be no inheritance since Lucy is probably spending daddy's money hand over fist and there won't even be any left by the time daddy retires. Just because she no longer has hubby's funds to spend, doesn't mean she will stop spending. NTA. Oh, and daddy will come crawling back when Lucy ghosts him after his money runs out, expecting you as his daughter to step up and take care of him in his old age. The age-old story daddy is PW and to keep his 2nd wife happy he will choose her children over his own and would push OP in front of a bus if it would make Lucy happy.
That's the standard trope in these stories.
Story one
I think your father did not care much about you he entered a relationship with out considering you and you are not responsible for being a friend to your step sister and she showed clearly she didn't care about you and your father expected you to do her a favour why would you especially when you have a job interview she only wanted to use you
Basically she a selfish AH you are not her family so you did the right thing,I think your father is behaving badly by threatening you his biological daughter so remember when he needs assistance you are no longer his daughter
If my father had said that to me, I would’ve been like them cut me out because I am not about to fight for a woman or help a woman who doesn’t even care about her kid. She really cares about herself OP father needs to wake up.
Her father gave her an ultimatum. Me - Good-bye. Don't come back now, you hear?
Tell dad Lucy could have asked instead of just assuming you didn't have a life. They should be glad you didn't call CPS.
"Cutting out of the will"
OK, dad, you are dead to me. Have a good life ... and be careful never to need anything from me.
When it comes to "Sacrifice X for 'family' or else we'll disown you", just disown them instead. Giving in just means they know this tactic will work on you, and they'll keep on using it until you reach your limit and accept it having sacrificed too much already to please them, or until they die and you learn that they left most or all their wealth to the golden child anyway. Cutting them off at the start means the worst that happens is you feel bad relative to how much of a relationship you had with them but eventually get over it, and if at some point in the future they reach out looking for reconciliation, you have the ability to gauge if there's genuine remorse and have the deciding factor in whether the relationship can be recovered.
I am beginning to wonder if the father was having an affair with the step daughter, and the reason he is pissed is that some of them are his
The importance of family he doesn’t understand what that means. Lucy is a bad mom just dropping her kids off and leaving them at peoples houses. That’s the one he should be mad at the world does not revolve around Lucy.
Surely OP would be lying if she tried to get the divorce proceedings stopped? What is her father like, asking her to do something illegal, to try and help an absolute horror of a stepsister, who quite obviously did not care for her? Go live your best life, OP and put them all on the back burner. Good luck and God bless.
OP stood there to listen to her “father” emotionally and verbally assault her instead of slamming the door and walking away.
What is wrong with people?!
OP *invited* the low blow. Knowing what we know it’s practically self inflicted.
Just stop listening to angry broken people who show themselves to be terrible and worthless. The power of a slammed door.
S1 After becoming an adult, WHY did OP keep in touch with the xxxxxxx step sister? I blame OP FIFTY% for what happened.
Family 0P step sister never saw 0PS family. She’s just someone she can walk all over and try to control.
I'd have told him he was and is a terrible dad.
i have had children drop kids off at my place i had a friend that would say she was going to the shops and be 20mins hours a couple of times days. i eventually warned more than 30min i would call cps and two weeks later her kids were removed cause instead of me she left them with someone less competent
I hate how passive OP was during all this. She needed to put her foot down faster
You should have said how your mother would have been so disappointed with him.
Why did the father not look after the kids?
Another deadbeat mother put in her place. Love stories like this. Deadbeat mothers are not held to accountable in the same way as deadbeat fathers so when you hear stories about deadbeat mothers being put in their place and held accountable for their actions It's a Wonderful story because many children suffer the abuses and the neglect of deadbeat mothers but nobody does anything because mothers are the preferred parent when it comes to custody even if the mother is the worst parent out of the two.
She can sue her so call dad
Lucy is not even a good mother but to call her a really great mother you have to be delusional.
23:49 Odd idea, tell him you will do it if he gets you some genuine moon rocks. And make the same arguments to him about why he wouldn't do that for you. The direct way just is not working, so turn his arguments onto him.
20:20 For anyone crying about someone else working Saturdays, think about that every time you sit down in a restaurant on Saturday night or go shopping on the weekend. Just wtf ...
Having a joint acount after she was spends like crazy was his first mistake. 11:05 Why even waste your energy and time?Trying to explain to her why you will not take care of her children Answer is no and then lock your door. Call the police if she doesn't stop.
Why is that OP's in these stories never explain or tell their loved ones the truth about what happened, but instead keep beating around the bush all day long, and still don't tell the truth.
When the stepsister dropped off her spawns in OP's place. (OP should have told her that she was going to call her parents, her Ex. and the CPS)
When stepsister just left without respecting OP. (OP should have called her parents first, and explained what the SS did, and that she will not be able to care for the children no matter what, as she has a very important interview. This would have given a upper hand for OP and better leverage. Sometimes you have to be wise and smart about making a decision)
When the father came to speak with her, he was still behind the blinds of lies spewed by Lucy. (This was a chance for OP to invite her father in, and had a calm and clear conversation, explaining what exactly happened and that there was no way she could have taken care of those kids on that day anyway. And should have explained how OP and Lucy have no relationship whatsoever.)
Learn to be smart, and stop making dumb choices in life and act like a morron.
If I were OP, I would have told Lucy that I would call the cops and the CPS, if she left her kids here.
I dont know if you are translating this stuff or if someone is doing it for you but this story could have been told in 2 sentenses.
Story 1. Get to the point, please edit some of this, it feels like it just goes on and on
I totally agree. I'm like"damn" can you get to the point!
I usually loved these revenge etc videos but honestly through out this whole thing OP keeps saying she doesn’t care about the past etc but keeps harping on it. While no I don’t think the sister should’ve just dropped the kids off without warning she literally said OP was her last choice and it was an emergency. Someone should’ve talked to the sister about putting the kids in daycare instead BUT OP conspiring with sisters Ex (and yes you know they trash talked her Etc) to get the ball rolling on taking the kids away from the sister. Sister may have not been perfect but you don’t know all that goes on.. you helped someone in getting your sisters kids taken away from her! But you still think you deserve to play auntie? I could understand if the sister was out there hooking up with all kinds of men, drinking, beating them or doing drugs but she was literally a single mother working to earn money to support her and her kids! Wtf is wrong with you. The father was right.. she has no loyalty to the family. I don’t care if she hates her sister.. she shouldn’t of done this. She helped in getting her sister kids taken away from her cause she disliked her and then taking no responsibility cause she would immediately play big sis to you when she didn’t even know you with such an age gap! If you notice in her post is liberally sprinkled.. I don’t care but she…. I’m over it but she… completely acting innocent cause she want #1 in her sisters world.. yo! It may not of been she wasn’t hating you but that she was just living her life. You are not the center of the universe lol. The biggest mistake was you sister seeking your help in the first place. The first time she comes (yes she just assumed you’d help n was demanding but family is like that at times) to you for help.. like this was literally the first time she reached out to you and what did you do? Conspired with her ex to hurt her and get her kids taken away. So yes your job interview was super important, she was in the wrong to demand and assume but wasn’t out doing anything immoral but WORKING as a single woman to provide for her n her kids! I hope the sister gets the kids back and arranges help/daycare for the kids. OP is the AH. Her parents raised a viper in their family. I agree with the father. I hope OP never has kids and if she does that one day she will realize what she did when she helped getting her sisters kids taken away from her. My gosh I just can’t imagine smh.
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