Divorce Court: Charisma vs. Cleveland - New City Blues

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  • Divorce Court - Charisma vs. Cleveland - New City Blues - Season 17 Episode 91 - Full Episode
    A woman says the father of her 4 children dismisses her feelings, and now she's ready to dismiss their 12 year relationship
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  • @rufinajnbaptiste2163
    @rufinajnbaptiste2163 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    "Marriying the right person doesn't make everything perfect " so true

  • @saggigirl1205
    @saggigirl1205 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I think they are an adorable couple. The issues they are facing can be resolved. Their family is worth saving I hope they are still together.

  • @emilyfeagin2673
    @emilyfeagin2673 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    He is punishing her for not being as emotionless as he is
    She is an artist, a creative soul, trying to make him happy.
    She needs to get her camera out of storage and get to work. I wouldn’t have left without that

    • @spiritschild1
      @spiritschild1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes, get that stuff out of storage. Ultimately, it can also save him some money. No more storage payments!

    • @dawgfacesoldier
      @dawgfacesoldier ปีที่แล้ว +7

      "He's punishing her" wtf? 🤔🙄

    • @JudeGliz
      @JudeGliz 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@dawgfacesoldierRight she sounds dumb

  • @arayaklove
    @arayaklove ปีที่แล้ว +30

    She’s not tryna level up for herself. Sad she will hold him back.

    • @gailsmith836
      @gailsmith836 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is very immature.

    • @ebonyc3751
      @ebonyc3751 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      They both are immature. He should have decided to date other people and figure life out before getting her pregnant. Unfortunately, they didn’t grow up enough to be in a serious relationship. If she didn’t give sex until he’s romantic guarantee he would change his tune. He doesn’t understand woman like romance. She doesn’t understand if she was independent she wouldn’t need him so much for her emotional stability. Growth is needed and counseling I think is needed to help them.

  • @gailsmith836
    @gailsmith836 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I hate when they say I’m the only one working in the household. They have 4 children (which is not smart for people with no money). Does she not do housework?

    • @SRT_DRE
      @SRT_DRE ปีที่แล้ว +7

      When you have 4 children, there should never be 1 income coming in. Women have this 1904 mentality that because they have children they don’t have to work and that’s ridiculous and comedic. “House work” doesn’t create financial stability, it doesn’t put food on the table, and it doesn’t keep a roof over the kids heads.
      I couldn’t be with a woman that strives to be a stay at home wife.

    • @jar7840
      @jar7840 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Don't read into it too much. They mean they are the only one working for money. Not that they are the only one contributing to the household.

    • @LeshaFBaby
      @LeshaFBaby 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@@SRT_DREexactly I love my 2 jobs and side hustle

  • @valdafindlay9061
    @valdafindlay9061 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    He is not warm. He is not in love with her.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I think you're absolutely correct in this point I think that they grew apart and he became more of a business-minded individual in his thinking so everything is overly logical and she's very Disney emotional as a woman... But he's definitely wrong for not getting her car or presents on her birthday I give her that that is crazy😢

  • @Osa698
    @Osa698 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    He comes across as analytical, logical, and not in touch with his emotions. Ppl like that are driven by realism and can be a bit cold. She comes across as a creative, nurturing and warm. Ppl like that are driven by emotions. Neither one is wrong, probably just not a good fit I think. To work, one will have to become more like the other.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did you really say that he's not in touch with his emotions😅 clearly this was written by a woman 😒

  • @dannielleyelder
    @dannielleyelder ปีที่แล้ว +36

    She needs to find herself and then he'll notice her more. She's too much about him right now

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      Your statement couldn't be more spot on at all.. This is a marriage of a woman thinking that it always has to be about her she's even jealous of the children.... The man is coming from work and want to spend time with his kids and you're upset about it....

    • @ebonyc3751
      @ebonyc3751 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@A_Well_Traveled_Manthat is not what was said. Find herself as in get to know herself. What she likes, things that make her happy, a career that she will find purpose and fulfillment in. Right now she wants him to be that for her and he can’t be, he don’t know how and he should’t be because she needs joy outside of who she is with. That is the definition of truly loving yourself.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ebonyc3751 You're thinking with emotions! She's emotionally draining.... She doesn't need a career She needs a father.... What's wrong with the man wanted to come home and chill with his kids... You women all the time say that men don't spend enough time with their kids but here's a man that's trying to spend time with his kids and make time for her and he's still wrong......
      The woman needs a damn daddy!!! Or father figure She can't really discover who she wants to be without that father figure in her life... That's why she's so messed up as it is now... You have to look at things from a logical standpoint This man has far outgrown this woman which is sad because normally women are grow men faster... Just my two cents 😃

    • @OJoy1987
      @OJoy1987 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@A_Well_Traveled_Man You know what's ironic after reading both your responses here and your other comments?You are the one who is overly emotional.

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@OJoy1987 actually I made three comments... But we know you don't know how math works... 😂👋

  • @RacieRain
    @RacieRain ปีที่แล้ว +6

    How do people jump from state to state with no plan at all.

  • @nannynewsviews542
    @nannynewsviews542 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    She needs to find things that make her happy outside of him and the kids. It’s so important as a mom. She might also need a job if money is that tight. She will be just as tired as him, plus they will have more money to go out. And he will probably be more attracted to her. Because right now he is probably resentful towards her and them moving when he didn’t want to it.

    • @xandrafrancois
      @xandrafrancois ปีที่แล้ว +2

      She has something : photography.

  • @sharonewing2284
    @sharonewing2284 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    His love is gone

  • @tiffanyadams2956
    @tiffanyadams2956 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Ionlikedet. Stop minimizing her feelings. If she wants more keep trying to give her more where and when reasonable. She’s probably not even asking for much but to him everything is A LOT. 🙄 I hope she finds her Prince Charming.

    • @Director2024
      @Director2024 ปีที่แล้ว

      Comments like this are toxic! Their problems are not that big and can be worked out. Divorce is not an options for a lot of people, especially those with faith in Jesus!

  • @feliciaharveyfh
    @feliciaharveyfh ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I have an idea: The business camera is in storage, they have no money, get the camera out of storage and start making extra money. Case closed

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      See the problem with your statement is that you're thinking what logic and this is a woman that doesn't think with logic she thinks what emotion... And that is what the man is talking about You can't get through to this kind of a woman I have one... Everything has to be emotion based for her to understand... This is a sad case exactly like the judge stated she's never ever going to be happy

    • @oceanbella
      @oceanbella 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think money was the issue with going back and retrieving the items, personally I would have taken all those things with me in the beginning. But who knows they do have four kids and it sounded like they flew there either which way I hope they figure the s*** out.

  • @shelbypublicover3010
    @shelbypublicover3010 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Judge Lynn I love you

  • @foxyroxy1010
    @foxyroxy1010 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They have too many children and not enough money, some women need to stop having so many kids just because they can. She needs to find herself first and not be so dependent on him.

  • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
    @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The judge hit it on the head she's like a lot of women out here that wants the man to make her happy when she can't make her own self happy! There are so many women like her she's never going to be happy trying to make someone else make her happy😢

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I couldn’t be with someone too emotional, I’m not that way… My ex was a good man but MAN! He was the ‘woman’ in our couple. At the end, we separated. I found it overwhelming to be with somebody sensitive and on edge for nothing and everything.

  • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
    @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The one point that the young lady makes is a very true in telling point is the fact that he doesn't give her presents on her birthday or Valentine's Day or mother's Day That is a serious issue

  • @carren3d
    @carren3d ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She probably on the internet too much comparing her life to instagram couples

  • @just_bee9482
    @just_bee9482 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Dealing with a narcissist woman is not easy. It is draining. Trust me. You cannot satisfy their emotional craving. I have personally given up. I can relate to everything this guy says.

  • @DavidVelasquez9
    @DavidVelasquez9 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Divorce is never the way out, My wife and I have been having issues before I sort out help from a spiritual adviser,i wasnt going to let my marriage of 18years crash

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 ปีที่แล้ว

      amazing,i am kinda in a similar situation,how did you handle it?

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peterwilliams6361 well not the orthodox way but i was referred by a friend to a spiritual adviser and healer

    • @peterwilliams6361
      @peterwilliams6361 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@DavidVelasquez9 please how can i get in touch with the spiritual adviser?

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peterwilliams6361 her name is *Victoria Lee Hess* ,and she is a great spiritual adviser as well as caster

    • @DavidVelasquez9
      @DavidVelasquez9 ปีที่แล้ว

      you can look her name up online and you will find all you need.

  • @Yeshuadaughter727
    @Yeshuadaughter727 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    She needs to level up and find herself be a team.

  • @anikaburrowes3644
    @anikaburrowes3644 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The judge nailed it. She's certainly struggling with postpartum depression.

  • @larhondaodomph.d.4614
    @larhondaodomph.d.4614 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Marriage is just as regular as being single.

  • @alfredthomas4006
    @alfredthomas4006 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    we are caught up in tradition .

  • @larhondaodomph.d.4614
    @larhondaodomph.d.4614 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Why did they stop doing divorce cases with married couples?

  • @Teeyah2
    @Teeyah2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good one Judge!!!

  • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
    @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I always say this:
    It's so funny when the man is in the right how quiet the comment section is 🤔

    • @Director2024
      @Director2024 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Don't you know that women are never wrong Man! LOL

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Director2024 Yes especially here in our country... The comment section is as quiet as a church mouse right now

  • @ttlg-theturtlelordgamging9339
    @ttlg-theturtlelordgamging9339 หลายเดือนก่อน

    His problem is his married a lil kid who thinks life is all fun all the time

  • @roxannadeshong3833
    @roxannadeshong3833 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She is so lucky to have that man!

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

      The problem is that she doesn't respect him... He needs to leave...

  • @petersingleton1141
    @petersingleton1141 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You will make it

  • @larhondaodomph.d.4614
    @larhondaodomph.d.4614 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    How can you get divorced when you never been married.

  • @mariebaldwin439
    @mariebaldwin439 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    HE WITH THE BILLSH.....😮😮IS

  • @tonyaharper2468
    @tonyaharper2468 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Too many women want their man to be a man when paying bills but not when he is working and trying to lead as a husband and father. Judge was so right

  • @tommyGrayRT100
    @tommyGrayRT100 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He not in to you he don’t want you

  • @ToyHigh
    @ToyHigh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel truly they have just grown a part.

    • @Uptownboo84
      @Uptownboo84 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right. Babies having babies. Permanent lifetime connection but no marriage etc.

  • @mearly7047
    @mearly7047 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You were young, she was young as well

  • @ttlg-theturtlelordgamging9339
    @ttlg-theturtlelordgamging9339 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Can’t leave a woman after she has your first child not right after it seems a little off but maybe he seen this coming and they were young

  • @ttlg-theturtlelordgamging9339
    @ttlg-theturtlelordgamging9339 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He gets stuck because he’s not making rash decisions that effects his kids and wife when he’s the only one working two incomes make things like that much easier

  • @HelloWorld-hb7yt
    @HelloWorld-hb7yt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    she got too comfortable..

  • @JamesCraigWhoop
    @JamesCraigWhoop ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I blame Hallmark

    • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
      @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You're absolutely correct You can definitely tell that this woman was fed the incorrect information from birth She thinks that a marriage is like a Disney fairy tale and Hallmark movies... It seem like this guy's a very literal thinker in he needs to be more aligned with.. a boss woman

    • @d820m
      @d820m 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What has 15 actors, 4 settings, 2 writers and 1 plot line? 632 Hallmark Christmas movies🤣🤣🤣.......or 3 Tyler Perry movies😂😂😂

  • @larhondaodomph.d.4614
    @larhondaodomph.d.4614 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yes! That's what a woman wants: to go work with our man. That's the date we want.

  • @victoriabradford6156
    @victoriabradford6156 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She needs a job

  • @larhondaodomph.d.4614
    @larhondaodomph.d.4614 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Why is her Camara in storage? It's so small.

  • @marysteven1701
    @marysteven1701 ปีที่แล้ว

    Instead being emotional with her lazy self, she needs to get a good job. Excuses and wining makes no sense

  • @mearly7047
    @mearly7047 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    He's also cheap. No one needs that

  • @twilderlm2559
    @twilderlm2559 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Y were 📸s put n storage??
    They rn't that big...

  • @jazzy5975
    @jazzy5975 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some women need to find a hobby. Stay busy i love it when we actually have to schedule a date😂😂😂. He is a realist so he probably gives her facts all the time and she seems to be wrong most of the time so it seems like he's always against her when he's just tryna show her another pov 😂😂😂. He needs to baby her a little 😂😂😂

  • @cooblur
    @cooblur ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A young @medium man

  • @xandrafrancois
    @xandrafrancois ปีที่แล้ว

    I do not understand why they do not take their stuff out of the storage unit. The money they have to pay they can use for their bills. And maybe friends can help them retrieve their things.

  • @kgbrown5563
    @kgbrown5563 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    And this is what happens when you babyfy your son.
    He remains a boy

  • @A_Well_Traveled_Man
    @A_Well_Traveled_Man ปีที่แล้ว

    Yeah this marriage is definitely over ‼️ You can definitely tell that she was raised in a household where she thinks that she is the prize all the time... So she'll never be happy no matter what you do for her😢

    • @oceanbella
      @oceanbella 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Lmao how many times are you going to leave a comment on this video 😂😂😂😂

  • @highlander666
    @highlander666 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I take it these people don't know what birth control is, or just don't believe in it🤔 she's just using him as an excuse not to do anything, if it was so important to her, she would've carried the damn camera with her🙄 she is a big one,so working out together would've been good🤷

    • @emilyfeagin2673
      @emilyfeagin2673 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Busy with 4 kids isn’t an excuse, it’s called parenting

    • @vanessakenney3144
      @vanessakenney3144 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was thinking the same thing when it comes to the birth control. Thanks for your comment.

    • @Director2024
      @Director2024 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its crazy that she said she doesn't like her weight but when he offered for them to workout together she was offended. A doubleminded man(and woman)is unstable in all their ways!