As a man, I can relate to these lyrics. After 12 years and several children, I walked away from a woman I love and still do. Her love of alcohol exceeded that of me and our children. Loving her has made it difficult to seriously move on but as Mary says, “love will return”, some day. For now it’s me and my babies.
Another one! - DJ Khaled. So ready for this album! This is another great track right in the pocket! Will be bumpin this one and Thick of It til the album drops.
I was in a bad relationship I was never happy I found myself crying over a man that did not love me the way I loved him I heard this song by Mary and it gave me the strength to pick myself up and walk away thank you Mary you saved my life in more ways than one thank you again and God bless this song is a women's anthem.
I behaved stupidly mistaking a long term relationship for real love and 6 years ago while driving in the car with my then 2 year old, his child, I heard this song. He hid the birth of his other child from me for a year. Once I learned of the baby, I could do nothing but shed tears. Praise God for healing through the grace of time gives. I'm better for it. Definitely a love lesson.
This song helped me thru an end to an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship with a narcissist. When we ended I felt dead inside. But this song made me realize why I went thru that trauma. ❤❤❤
I get chills when I hear this melody. Mary out did herself on this song. Every person that have been in a relationship have felt like U + ME Love Lesson. I know I have felt like this... Go Mary....
U + Me was a love lesson. Mary brought the fire once again no matter how long she stay away from the music she always come back on top from What's the 411?, Breakthrough, and my life my Mary J gone always be the Queen of R&B/Hip Hop
This April, "Share My World" Turns 20, In July, "What's the 411?" Turns 25 and At the End of the Year, "Growing Pains" Turns 10. 25 Years In the Game and She STILL Putting Out Albums and Bangers. Been a Fan Since '96. Can't WAIT For This New Album to Come. #THEQUEENOFHIPHOPSOUL 😍👑💯
Man this song is the truth....12 years and 3 kids later. Trust me with every disappointment in life there is a lesson for you to learn. I'm going to focus on the lesson and not the disappointment.
Such a freaking beautifully written song. The lyrics are so relatable, vulnerable, and honest. I love the entire song, but I am obsessed with the ending (4:43-5:00). Like, WOW!!!!! "Think of about how valuable you are. Don't let what he put you through cause you to close your heart."
OH DAMN!!!! I heard this the first time while I was driving home, I had to bypass my house! this shit had me going! I wasn't ready for it!!! I love this Mary J. repeat! sunroof open and mind clear!!!
Angela Ward I know I heard it coming home from a third shift job early in the morning it was stuck in my head the entire day I was walking through Walmart shopping for breakfast food jamming folks looking at me like wth?.😁.
Timeka Green hate to say it but that is when that fire come out I so love Mary sorry that she is going threw this but shit the music that comes out man
Maurice Phillips the same time, and I will be back in jail. the only thing that I,have a friend of mine. I Have to earn a living room. the only way to get around the world. the first time in the morning and evening, but I think I have to earn a living. I have nothing else. I never called me
life time *SPEAK ON THE TRUTH NOW!!!!!* *MY FRIEND JUST BURRIED HER SISTER CAUSE SHE DIDN'T KNOW HER WORTH!!!!!* *REALIST COMMENT I DONE CAME ACROSS TODAY!!!!*
I've been listening to Mary since 1992. As a 9yr old girl at the time I always felt connection to her music not truly understanding this thing called love & relationships; But I always felt the passion and pain she expressed. I grew up appreciating her music. Now as a 35 yr old woman, I have loved,cried,"reminisced" and been inspired. Her music continues to be part of the soundtrack of my life. I hope one day she truly gets the love and respect she deserves.
Getting over a narcissist this song here speaks to me in more ways than one. And just relationships that was always one sided and me always getting the short end of the stick. Thank you MJB
Exactly, even wanna be past friendships where they never saw you, even with eyes wide open. It's like you were never there in their mind but you kept giving your all to them like a fool hoping to one day be cherished and taken seriously. So glad those days are done. Friendless life has been more peaceful than I could have ever imagined.
This song is pure therapy!!! I also meditate to this... NOT ALWAYS GOOD BUT I STAY ON MY FEET!... She help me regain the confidence I need in myself to move on!
Over 25 years in the game and Mary still putting out bangers. People can say what they want to about her vocals but very few females in rnb can fuck with her discography. Facts.
You know I watched her breakfast club interview where she said he used to say things like her fans didn't love her anymore. like how mean was that. We will always love Mary. and this song just proves how amazing she is and always will be. This song is everything 🔥🔥😙😙😙😙
Amber Edwards when you love hard sometimes your significant other can make you feel like your nothing just like kendu he knew Mary was gonna come hard with or without him that’s his lost she knows we as her fans ain’t goin nowhere love you Mary.
Everything she say. I really. Been through it. I choose wrong men's in relationships. I had married wrong man. Getting a divorce. In spite all pain & hurt. I been through. God brings me. Through it. In spite. My loneliness. God only understand me.
When going thru my break up THIS SONG GAVE ME LIFE!!!!! I play this damn near everyday.... Mary is definitely the QUEEN OF R&B I HAVE BEEN A FAN SINCE REAL LOVE❤️!!!! Her music you can really relate I feel her pain in some of her songs and I pray God brings her happiness peace and love!!!!!!!
When she said "think about how valuable you are look at what he put you through to cause you to close your heart" touched my heart honestly I love Mary
This beautiful sister has NEVER dropped a bad album. #IBelieveInNever She will always Hold the title of Queen of Hip Hop Soul & R&B. The alternative music has never missed a beat! You got this Mary! #Always #CapricornSister♑️
This song really helped me to make the decision to leave a relationship that I was in,they were always telling other people about what going on in our relationship making me feel like fool and I was always the bad one in the relationship,always putting the blame on me always telling me to get out especially after the rent was paid it was the most toxic relationship that I’ve ever gone through but it’s finally over now and now I am free to move on there were times that I never knew when the angry would have gotten physical but I wasn’t going to stick around to see it so I have often heard that some women aren’t so lucky but I am definitely glad I started to see the signs this song truly is amazing thank you Ms.Blige for giving me the courage through your song and words
YES I'M GOING THOUGH THE SAME THING LET IT GO AND LIVE WE ARE ONLY HERE ONE TIME MARY HAS GOTTEN ME THROUGH THE WORSE TIMES I'M OK GOD GOT ME HONEY ENJOY LIFE AND YOUR KIDS YOU WILL BE FINE TRUST ME
M is for Magical Music. A is for Angel 👼. R is for Rock that tune👌. Y is for Your the best singer ever. J is for Just sing it. B is for Beautifully done. L is for 💜 your life. I is for Irreplaceable. G is for GODDESS 👑 singer. E is for Everlasting music.
The Queen speaks for some of us broken hearted women again..... She is a true motivator, and she delivers the emotions full stop... I love her know and always!
I'm just going to keep it real with you all Mary J is not the only one that's going through a whole lot of other singers going through also and so are you you and you she just keeping it 100 everybody playing like they're happy.... We all have ups and downs hell who don't have ups and downs Sing Mary I'm down with you with your ups and your downs I know you're not mad get that that money their loss your gain 👀💋💪💯❤️
Facts, this comment makes me wanna have effort to fully get up. I been down bad off and on since 2020 from a bad toxic relationship, it's been so hard, depressing and exhausting.
All of us can relate to the songs this strong woman sings. Never settle down with someone who doesn’t know the meaning of: love for thyself, communication and respect.
That's my girl, rather heartbroken or naw she is still standing strong and represents the truth and strength of a woman going through indifference of a man n woman struggling to love each other
This song resonates very loud for me as going through it with someone who has poignant addiction struggles. it has impacted my personal and professional lives in a plethora of ways. I hear Mary's saga as well as her trials and tribulations as moments in time. I told ppl years ago if we are not growing then time to get going! Not an easy piece of advice to adhere to however when you keep second guessing movements it is imperative to remove self from the damage done. It is so real out here in these streets. This is my favorite song by MJB after her 30+yrs on the block.🤔📣
"Must've been crazy to think that you loved me, I saw all the signs but I just couldn't say nothing. I did the time across the line for you cause I can't see myself with nobody else but you. Tell me what you're thinking 'cause this is what you wanted, should've been the one to hold me when I got lonely, cause every time I think of the lies you told to me. Make it easy for me to leave.."- Mary J. Blige
ZIONOLOGY .. these lyrics speak the words my heart was afraid to share I was really unconditional love in her... everybody says her lost but in my mind I still wanted her until I heard this in an empty bed..
Tammi HatersAreWelcomed amen, she tells the life, of living and struggling going thru changes from beginning to end. Moral of the story is be appreciated what you have. Cause, when its lost its lost
When Mary said..."At Times I Wanted to leave but I ain't wanna be lonely!!! 🙌🙌👣👣This song plus "Thick Of It" has already secured my purchased for the new cd!!
Mary J came back strong, I've listened to this song about 1000 today at work, kept it on repeat. I thought "thick of it" blowed my mind but this one right here tho..........💯
damn I was wondering how she was going top " thick of it" and she did, those low tones notes took me back to the old Mary, we got to support R& B music again y'all.
Mary I been rockin wit you since the Father MC days!!! Your reign will never end until your ready to retire!!!! You are our Aretha to my generation and other generations after!!!!! This album is gonna win major awards and nominations!!!!!Congratulations early on your multi platinum album Queen💣👑🤘👌🔥💯🎶🎵🔊🎼🎤🎧💿💿💿💿📷📸♑👑👑🎤👑👑👑💣💣💣🎶🎼💿💿💿💿💿💿👑
A relationship that turned out to be just a Love lesson. The feeling was deep and was taken for granted. and, landed on my feet. Mary J. Queen of R&B kicking it out. Love this song it has a hell of a meaning. When I hear this song, I know I made a good choice to not take his asset back.
When I went to her concert it was simply amazing and she is stunning in Real life. I walked out that concert a Different woman!! Few will understand this. Pain Brings Change...
Must've been crazy to think that you loved me I saw all the signs but I just couldn't say nothing I did the time across the line for you 'Cause I can't see myself with nobody else but you Tell me what you're thinking 'cause this is what you wanted Should've been the one to hold me when I got lonely 'Cause every time I think of the lies you told to me Make it easy for me to leave You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me You plus me You plus me Oh, I was ridin' wherever you going At times, I wanted to leave, but didn't wanna be lonely Can't deny the fact you were my one and only Love that I would do, only love I knew And now I gotta turn my back 'cause you didn't realize that, boy This was a real thing And I just can't deny the fact we don't belong together Guess it ain't the real thing You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me You plus me You plus me Gotta keep on pushing and love myself through the hard times Gotta keep my patience, still a long way to go now There's so much to learn When we trust the love that's deep in us, then love will return Boy this thing was a love lesson You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me was a love lesson In too deep without imperfection Not always good, but I stayed on my feet You had me, should've never questioned You plus me You plus me You plus me You plus me You plus me You plus me
Yasss Mary Love you since day 1! Most high got you, spiritually he will bring you out! He brought me out ,I'm Me! Queen hold your head high,adjust that Crown!!!
This song hits home every time I hear it.. Mary stay on point. smh.. sing it Mary.. And who the hell thumb this song down!! probably the ones going around breaking hearts to good women.. shame on you..
I just seen Mary performed this live on hrr Strength of Woman Tour in NYC a couple of hours ago. i mean everything it was so bomb. The whole show was amazing. WE LOVE YOU MARY
You ever have one of those songs that just wakes you up no matter what time it is? This is one of those songs. Love you, Mary. Thank you for your music. 💙🎶
As a man, I can relate to these lyrics. After 12 years and several children, I walked away from a woman I love and still do. Her love of alcohol exceeded that of me and our children. Loving her has made it difficult to seriously move on but as Mary says, “love will return”, some day. For now it’s me and my babies.
Same exact thing for me with the exception of 22 years and 2 children. I can't do the abusive, alcoholic rollercoaster ride one more day.
Yes, the rollercoaster ride of hell. I’d rather walk, alone as I am now.
Salute
Sorry you had to go threw that drama my heart goes out to you I totally understand where you coming from
❤❤❤you'll be overly blessed 🙌🏽
Another one! - DJ Khaled. So ready for this album! This is another great track right in the pocket! Will be bumpin this one and Thick of It til the album drops.
Ke'Juan Moses no hitboy did this he is working on the new CD love
M.summers Summers he was quoting DJ Khaled by saying " another one " .. not saying he was on the album lol
" you had me should have never questioned"-best line in the song
Yes it is!!
Ms.Douglas I agree with you one thousand about that line in the song and this is one of my favorite songs
Yesssssss
Best line. That and " not always good but i stay on my feet. "
"I did the time across the line for you"..sheesh
I was in a bad relationship I was never happy I found myself crying over a man that did not love me the way I loved him I heard this song by Mary and it gave me the strength to pick myself up and walk away thank you Mary you saved my life in more ways than one thank you again and God bless this song is a women's anthem.
Good for u Amen
Thank you for sharing❤
Trtfeeee
I behaved stupidly mistaking a long term relationship for real love and 6 years ago while driving in the car with my then 2 year old, his child, I heard this song. He hid the birth of his other child from me for a year. Once I learned of the baby, I could do nothing but shed tears. Praise God for healing through the grace of time gives. I'm better for it. Definitely a love lesson.
Hugs💚many humans suck, for real.
Only a few will never do this kind of ish.
Real facts 💯💯💯
Hygyttyf
Whew a whole WORD, sorry to say we bear the same stripes. Upward and ONWARD though ↗️↗️↗️
Screaminggg MARRRRRRYYYYYY COME THROUGH FOR US YESS GAWD!! LOVE THIS RIGHT HERE
Sing it Mary🔥🔥🔥🤣💯💯
Say it👍👍🔥🔥
This song helped me thru an end to an emotionally and verbally abusive relationship with a narcissist. When we ended I felt dead inside. But this song made me realize why I went thru that trauma. ❤❤❤
Sameeee!!!!!! I played this song out!!
@@Luminousone_624 lol yes maam all the way out 🤣🤣🤣
Congrats sweetie, my husband was abusive but I left before I killed him. Hold your head high!
@@rosegibbs5009 I'm so happy you got out my love. Especially before having to kill his butt lol. Blessings beautiful
I'm so glad you got out as well. Keep moving and pray everyday
I get chills when I hear this melody. Mary out did herself on this song. Every person that have been in a relationship have felt like U + ME Love Lesson. I know I have felt like this... Go Mary....
All day Mary j!😘
yessss. i feel like every female should be able to relate to this song
U + Me was a love lesson. Mary brought the fire once again no matter how long she stay away from the music she always come back on top from What's the 411?, Breakthrough, and my life my Mary J gone always be the Queen of R&B/Hip Hop
some guys so blind....don't know when they have a good thing then go and mess it up.
Jacqueline Calhoun
All real Mary fans are bobbing they head right now and remembering when real R&B like this used to exist🎵🎵🔥🔥
bobbin right now
This cut right here is smoovv as fuc if your a stepper
Neena Brown that's exactly what I'm doing reading the comments. Lol!
bobbing head 하고 있는 사람 여기도 있습니다
COME ON MARY I SEE YOU....BRING THAT PAIN
"You plus Me was a Love Lesson", how much deeper of a sentiment do you need? Damn Mary!
She's not nominated as the (Queen) of R&B for nothing... MJ, has been running the game for years!!!
This April, "Share My World" Turns 20, In July, "What's the 411?" Turns 25 and At the End of the Year, "Growing Pains" Turns 10. 25 Years In the Game and She STILL Putting Out Albums and Bangers. Been a Fan Since '96. Can't WAIT For This New Album to Come.
#THEQUEENOFHIPHOPSOUL 😍👑💯
Jalen Hemphill State them facts baby!!! PREACH!!!
Jalen Hemphill say no mo'... I'll be getting this album ol' skool way (physical form of the CD) & download lol... push thru Auntie Mary
Demetrius Tabron That's the Way to Do It Bro. I Still Buy CD's. They Last Longer. LOL! 👌🏾💯
no they dont
Jason Toney You Can Lose Downloads and Easily Replace Them By Ripping and Uploading the CD to Your Library. Yes, They Do. 👌🏾
Her best music has been when she has gone through a storm cause it is so relatable. #SheIsWinningRegardless
Ms Katrena Marie sad but so true! this album is gonna be 🎶👂🔥🎶
Ms Katrena Marie and thats every album she ever done
yessssss 🔥
what's up
MY LIFE .,,whats the 411 she was happy
When you had me you should have NEVER QUESTIONED❤❤❤❤❤😂😢
Lol lls trill u got a point I wish I wuz him&the comment wood'nt have ben made u got the rite nickname lol.
Man this song is the truth....12 years and 3 kids later. Trust me with every disappointment in life there is a lesson for you to learn. I'm going to focus on the lesson and not the disappointment.
Yuup
@@mkflores6777 o
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True
Always focus on the lesson....
Such a freaking beautifully written song. The lyrics are so relatable, vulnerable, and honest. I love the entire song, but I am obsessed with the ending (4:43-5:00). Like, WOW!!!!! "Think of about how valuable you are. Don't let what he put you through cause you to close your heart."
Derrick Douglas well said!
dude I would marry her tonight!!!!😂😂😂
Derrick Douglas that ending is bomb!
+Andrea Williams 10000000000000% 👏👏👏❤❤❤❤❤💯💯💯💯
you've done it again. diva always
OH DAMN!!!! I heard this the first time while I was driving home, I had to bypass my house! this shit had me going! I wasn't ready for it!!! I love this Mary J. repeat! sunroof open and mind clear!!!
Angela Ward girl that was me today 😂😂😂 I went the long way home nd everything song on repeat
Angela Ward I know I heard it coming home from a third shift job early in the morning it was stuck in my head the entire day I was walking through Walmart shopping for breakfast food jamming folks looking at me like wth?.😁.
2023 Everything in life is a lesson learn ,self love is the best love ladies 🎯🎯🎯👑💎💃💃💃💃
Her voice sounds really clear.
Amma Achiaa Asiedu
Amma Achiaa Asiedu I thought I was the only one that noticed. Sounds so good.
Zacch Smith no I didn't know it was her
same.
Amma Achiaa Asiedu
I don't mean anything bad by this, but is it just me or does Mary make AMAZING music when her heart is broken......
Timeka Green hate to say it but that is when that fire come out I so love Mary sorry that she is going threw this but shit the music that comes out man
Timeka Green I agree
Timeka Green Any REAL M.J.B fan knows that's when she puts out the bomb ass music!
Timeka Green genuine fact!
Her and Keyshia Cole makes the best music when tbeir hearts broken. Patiently waiting on Keyshia to come back
she's done it again y'all
Ffffvgcfdfv
Gffffffc
This CD got me through the heartache! She never lied
Fact 💯
Yesss
@@patriceworthen8448you see this song dropped 7 years ago. Baby I made it. I hope you did too.❤❤❤😊
THIS SONG NEEDS A VIDEO STILL........ 2018
Love it..
the reason Mary has been in the game so long she just always different from the rest of the r&b artists, my opinion!
Maurice Phillips the same time, and I will be back in jail. the only thing that I,have a friend of mine. I Have to earn a living room. the only way to get around the world. the first time in the morning and evening, but I think I have to earn a living. I have nothing else. I never called me
Maurice Phillips .
Maurice Phillips that's a fact.
I agree
Maurice Phillips .
mulher pela
mulher pela das
Yo she slayed this track
ZUES Pettaway ...slayed and murdered it....luv this song!
Feddsedsdd
Got to keep on pushing through the hard times.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Know your worth walk away if ur partner is playing games. Your happiness is your responsibility
Hey !!!! Preach!!
life time No doubt!Walked away from her,and never looked back.
👍🏽
Truth
life time *SPEAK ON THE TRUTH NOW!!!!!* *MY FRIEND JUST BURRIED HER SISTER CAUSE SHE DIDN'T KNOW HER WORTH!!!!!* *REALIST COMMENT I DONE CAME ACROSS TODAY!!!!*
I've been listening to Mary since 1992. As a 9yr old girl at the time I always felt connection to her music not truly understanding this thing called love & relationships; But I always felt the passion and pain she expressed. I grew up appreciating her music. Now as a 35 yr old woman, I have loved,cried,"reminisced" and been inspired. Her music continues to be part of the soundtrack of my life. I hope one day she truly gets the love and respect she deserves.
Dammit Mary, I wasn't ready.... Another track is 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
MrThrideye yes I'm feeling this
MrThrideye right
MrThrideye. fire
For real!
MrThrideye I wasn't ready 😄 Yassssssssssss!💯🔥🔥
Getting over a narcissist this song here speaks to me in more ways than one. And just relationships that was always one sided and me always getting the short end of the stick. Thank you MJB
Exactly, even wanna be past friendships where they never saw you, even with eyes wide open. It's like you were never there in their mind but you kept giving your all to them like a fool hoping to one day be cherished and taken seriously.
So glad those days are done. Friendless life has been more peaceful than I could have ever imagined.
What you said!👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 This song hits differently when healing from a narcissistic relationship.
Yes we got this ladies👏🏽💜
This song is pure therapy!!! I also meditate to this... NOT ALWAYS GOOD BUT I STAY ON MY FEET!... She help me regain the confidence I need in myself to move on!
Most definitely I can relate
I was in to deep myself
I way too involved.
I put her ( wife )before me
I felt every word not always good but i stand on my feet #DamnMary
Over 25 years in the game and Mary still putting out bangers. People can say what they want to about her vocals but very few females in rnb can fuck with her discography. Facts.
CJ Say it AGAIN but LOUDER!!!!
I live for the “woahhhhhhhh ooooaaaahhhhh” 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
Yes that's the best part. So smooth
Smh Mary been controlling my emotions for 25 years she sing it I feel it
I feel it and she sings it
I hear that. She does her thing.
I'm here for this 💘 love lesson !! You betta sing that QUEEN !!!
I’m 11 and i absolutely love her music
Time goes fast.I remember the premiere of her first video.
You know I watched her breakfast club interview where she said he used to say things like her fans didn't love her anymore. like how mean was that. We will always love Mary. and this song just proves how amazing she is and always will be. This song is everything 🔥🔥😙😙😙😙
Mary your fans love you and your music especially this song. I got this on repeat baby girl. Tell his ass to shut up and get out your pockets.
Amber Edwards when you love hard sometimes your significant other can make you feel like your nothing just like kendu he knew Mary was gonna come hard with or without him that’s his lost she knows we as her fans ain’t goin nowhere love you Mary.
No need to say anything. This song speaks for itself!..! 🖤
Queen Mary! You rocking this whole cd.....loved it!
Sho nuff
True
The Thick Of It , Too 🎤🎤
Thanks you sis
Everything she say. I really. Been through it. I choose wrong men's in relationships. I had married wrong man. Getting a divorce. In spite all pain & hurt. I been through. God brings me. Through it. In spite. My loneliness. God only understand me.
When going thru my break up THIS SONG GAVE ME LIFE!!!!! I play this damn near everyday.... Mary is definitely the QUEEN OF R&B I HAVE BEEN A FAN SINCE REAL LOVE❤️!!!! Her music you can really relate I feel her pain in some of her songs and I pray God brings her happiness peace and love!!!!!!!
I feel you Tee.
B I
I always have a love for her!!😘😘
@@hermanbrown7858 thank you
I been a fan since What's the 411? I was in high school, had it on tape 1st, then graduated to CD, LOL!! Love me some, Mary J.
When she said "think about how valuable you are look at what he put you through to cause you to close your heart" touched my heart honestly I love Mary
Amen!
This dat type of joint when you're in your car, volume up, windows down, head nodding... Mary, you got another one, sis!
AJH 723 yep I'm doing that now
That is exactly what I will be doing.
yup
AJH 723 or just at home it turned up relaxing and listening can't wait
AJH 723 .right Windows down sunroof open
This beautiful sister has NEVER dropped a bad album. #IBelieveInNever She will always Hold the title of Queen of Hip Hop Soul & R&B. The alternative music has never missed a beat! You got this Mary! #Always #CapricornSister♑️
and she tells(sings) it like it is
We love you but the Queen of Soul is Aretha Franklin.
Capricorn that's me
I love how she uses her beautiful talent to express her pain in a way that only she can. Well done AGAIN Mary! 💯🙏🏽✊🏽
Shae Bae absolutely
U+Me I love that song MARY you is truely talented&beautiful .
Shae Bae ..dam I feel these lyrics I'm the male version of the hurt but if mjb can get through it I'm sure I can..😏
Shae Bae I just hate that Mary's greatest be her personal life bad times...
She beautiful...she represents black well!!😊 go girl!!!!
Charity Holley yes yes
Charity Holley she represents Black Strong Women SURVIVING.. I love her.... and I agree with you 100%
You got my true ring.......that to deep , you bless me....🎤🎶🎶🎶
Meaning you need to talk seriously
Love
Diz Shit need 100 million fuckn views I mean Dam Ain't no other artist dat can take u there like Mary 25 year z strong #RespectDaQueen
u Got Dam Right about that fuckn shit
TRUTH
Facts 💪🏼
Facts💪💪💪
This song really helped me to make the decision to leave a relationship that I was in,they were always telling other people about what going on in our relationship making me feel like fool and I was always the bad one in the relationship,always putting the blame on me always telling me to get out especially after the rent was paid it was the most toxic relationship that I’ve ever gone through but it’s finally over now and now I am free to move on there were times that I never knew when the angry would have gotten physical but I wasn’t going to stick around to see it so I have often heard that some women aren’t so lucky but I am definitely glad I started to see the signs this song truly is amazing thank you Ms.Blige for giving me the courage through your song and words
All the entries are beautiful 🌹❤️ right on point. God bless you all.
You not alone stay blessed family
Healing love your way. Hope you are now doing better and realise you are not what they said you were.
I saw all the signs but just wouldn't say nothing....that part is so deep.
Yes it is!!!
Yep..Deep!
Yup!
Yes
Omg, Yes it is!!!
Song speaking to my soul...15yrs together, 5yrs of marriage with 3kids....the fight is over, just gotta let it go...its time
I feel y'all ladies 16yrs marriage 3 kids. I'm done too. love lesson 4 sure
YES I'M GOING THOUGH THE SAME THING LET IT GO AND LIVE WE ARE ONLY HERE ONE TIME MARY HAS GOTTEN ME THROUGH THE WORSE TIMES I'M OK GOD GOT ME HONEY ENJOY LIFE AND YOUR KIDS YOU WILL BE FINE TRUST ME
17 years,two kids one is in heaven and he wants to embrace his "love" child,while the lies keep coming,no thank you
Feel you on that...don't hold on to something that is not holding on to you!...Let go...Love lessons!
11 yrs, 4 kids and I'm over it!! ❤
#LoveLesson✌👋
M is for Magical Music.
A is for Angel 👼.
R is for Rock that tune👌.
Y is for Your the best singer ever.
J is for Just sing it.
B is for Beautifully done.
L is for 💜 your life.
I is for Irreplaceable.
G is for GODDESS 👑 singer.
E is for Everlasting music.
Wayne Barton beautifull 😌
Ernesto Uiterloo Why thank you 😉.
Hey Love yor comment let her know how you feel you must do it. I love her so much Our Queen...
linda gonzales That's what every real KING needs and should do to his QUEEN and make her feel like she's the one.
Wayne Barton 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 nice
When it speaks to your soul! You cant help but to like it
Shandra Adams were
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Mary was writing this Album through all that pain of her divorce . Where in for a treat come April 28th..cant wait.
thanks chris
Kenbeez Ken, I had to get a pre-order after hearing this song on Sirius last week 💰
Ignacia J Being able to hear music like this on Heart and Soul is what keeps me paying that Sirius XM bill myself.
Kenbeez Ken, I know in my JJ Evan's (Good Times) voice, lol
I knoooooooooooooow...lol
The Queen speaks for some of us broken hearted women again..... She is a true motivator, and she delivers the emotions full stop... I love her know and always!
Charity Hanna real i love her💯💯💯💯😘😘😘😘MaryJBlige
Charity Hanna and guys
Charity Hanna no
Yes she definitely speaks to all who are going through something
Charity Hanna ....why ya heart broke mommy.....too many good men out here to give you the support you deserve
2022 still bumping. Mary knows all the feels! And puts it perfectly for everyone to relate to!
Yep I am
👍👍's up Ms. Hutcherson 💯&yes she alwayz do come thru n the clutch⛹️.
Me too on repeat
Frfr going through this now … love lesson in too deep
Love Mary J. I constantly play her songs!
Mary baby!! Let's go out and celebrate the final of your divorce!! Its been rough on you this past year! You deserve to be happy !! We love you girl!!
I'm just going to keep it real with you all Mary J is not the only one that's going through a whole lot of other singers going through also and so are you you and you she just keeping it 100 everybody playing like they're happy.... We all have ups and downs hell who don't have ups and downs Sing Mary I'm down with you with your ups and
your downs I know you're not mad get that that money their loss your gain 👀💋💪💯❤️
Samant
Gotta KEEP PUSHING regardless of heart break 🙏🏻 ALL GAS NO BRAKES!!! 2019’
Very well said!
Sunflower B: "All gas, no brakes," causes a WRECK, you realize that don't you? Keep pushing though, BEST advice 👏👏.
🚂💨💨💨💨
🔥🔥🔥💯💯💯
Facts, this comment makes me wanna have effort to fully get up. I been down bad off and on since 2020 from a bad toxic relationship, it's been so hard, depressing and exhausting.
All of us can relate to the songs this strong woman sings. Never settle down with someone who doesn’t know the meaning of: love for thyself, communication and respect.
beautiful
EXACTLY!!!$
Wow real shit
Real talk
That's my girl, rather heartbroken or naw she is still standing strong and represents the truth and strength of a woman going through indifference of a man n woman struggling to love each other
This song resonates very loud for me as going through it with someone who has poignant addiction struggles. it has impacted my personal and professional lives in a plethora of ways. I hear Mary's saga as well as her trials and tribulations as moments in time. I told ppl years ago if we are not growing then time to get going! Not an easy piece of advice to adhere to however when you keep second guessing movements it is imperative to remove self from the damage done. It is so real out here in these streets. This is my favorite song by MJB after her 30+yrs on the block.🤔📣
This song got me through a horrible heartbreak 💖
MegaKrissy16
Yea Mary told it..we men have Heartbreak..
Me too ;~)
How do you feel about it now?
God bless you. Hope things are better for you. There's always light at the end of a tunnel.
Who else gets the feels
I do too!
Potri Diamond's Journal ikr😊mary takes u there!!!FR
Potri Diamond's Journal best part🤗
Girl u got chills of wat
Leave me alone me alone
M.J.B is undeniably the most consistent artist since the 90s. always giving her fans that something special feel good life lesson vibe.
J.T. M. she is truly special and the truth
J.T. M. I agree. Her career has outlasted ALL of the Uptown/MCA artists during that time.
Mary Smith loving this song because I'm going through something rite now it's making me think 🎶
Seneca Williams will
"GOD is LOVE...abide in LOVE" (1 John 4:16)! Man cannot love until he first love JESUS, & man cannot befriend another until he first befriend JESUS!
"Must've been crazy to think that you loved me, I saw all the signs but I just couldn't say nothing. I did the time across the line for you cause I can't see myself with nobody else but you. Tell me what you're thinking 'cause this is what you wanted, should've been the one to hold me when I got lonely, cause every time I think of the lies you told to me. Make it easy for me to leave.."- Mary J. Blige
ZIONOLOGY yessss! that's what I'm talking about!!!
ZIONOLOGY-🤷True Dat!
ZIONOLOGY Love mary
ZIONOLOGY
ZIONOLOGY .. these lyrics speak the words my heart was afraid to share I was really unconditional love in her... everybody says her lost but in my mind I still wanted her until I heard this in an empty bed..
The song for the victim of a #narcissist ....Good one Mary!
The Butterfly Experience LLC: Jaleen Walker YES!
Neecy Carlton indeed!🌟🌟🌟
The Butterfly Experience LLC: Jaleen Walker absolutely true
The Butterfly Experience LLC: Jaleen Walker yes I felt that
So true....narc survivor!
I knew she was gone come hard. She's telling all now. Been a fan since day ☝️ . This album gone be 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥.
Tammi HatersAreWelcomed ikr, she always does real talk!!!💯
+Sharon Horace True Black Woman is Gold
Tammi HatersAreWelcomed fire
good stuff
Tammi HatersAreWelcomed amen, she tells the life, of living and struggling going thru changes from beginning to end. Moral of the story is be appreciated what you have. Cause, when its lost its lost
Even if you’re not going through it she has this way of making you feel it. ❤
I love Mary so much! We separated from our husbands at the same time! Watching her growth and strength helped me grow. #StrengthofAWoman
When Mary said..."At Times I Wanted to leave but I ain't wanna be lonely!!! 🙌🙌👣👣This song plus "Thick Of It" has already secured my purchased for the new cd!!
DanteLovesMusic mines too Lord 2 hot singles back to back
DanteLovesMusic yesssss!!!
DanteLovesMusic. ur absolutely 💯%right
DanteLovesMusic I've been through the same thing scared to leave
This song has been on repeat for the last 4 days straight.
Evan Tucker bout to be me 💀
+Jade Cartej
Special ❤♚💚
Evan Tucker , let me listen to it with you
Man I glued the repeat button down lol it's stuck.
Who's still bumping this in 2020💜
me
🙋🏾♀️
This one for the books
Yes love it 2020
@@dickstertyp7671 omoolololm
God Bless women to know their worth! I Thank you Father I'm finally learning mine! 🙌
Crystal McCall and I am in a agreement with you in Jesus Christ mighty name
Crystal McCall Amen
Amen
Lord, give us to know our worth in YOU and never lose sight of it again!
yass because if we didnt god knows where some of us would be
Mary J I Love this song. I can relate. I Thank God for You.
Safaralen Thomas
this helps me when I'm hurting
Helping me right now, just flipped the him to her and we good lol
Me too
Yes indeed
Love Mary j b
I here that ima start hearing my girl more
The bridge🔥🔥🔥 Lord I love Mary's music!!
🔥
Mary J came back strong, I've listened to this song about 1000 today at work, kept it on repeat. I thought "thick of it" blowed my mind but this one right here tho..........💯
Girl, same here!
Stephanie Martin Isn't it funny how the songs that are pushed first as singles are NEVER the best of the album? They are just a tease.
yes girl
This is my Joint!!!
U have had to go thru something in life to understand and also real and grown and sexy.... #BeenridinsinceWhatsthe411
This track is so smooth and after the chorus coming from the first verse she kills it!!!!😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘
🔥
Still amazing voice after all these years! She keeps getting better with age!
The real queen of r&b
Jeff SavesWithCoupons yea this my favorite song this how I be feeling sometimes💯
Shanita I ove music
It's not time
Stunning
🎉🎉🎉Big fan of MARY. J.BLIGE...she got me Thur some time of LOVE lessons...
R.&B... QUEEN of HIPE HOP
Her pic on her cover fierce... Yes Mary ya slay
Chel' yes
Maturing we all should know her journey..on the real...
damn I was wondering how she was going top " thick of it" and she did, those low tones notes took me back to the old Mary, we got to support R& B music again y'all.
coret serear preach.... I can't get through the whole song because that first verse is everything
Ayana Miller Right!!! Thought I was the only one. The first verse strikes a cord in me and takes me back to when I had my own issues.
coret serear Classic Mary.... Glad she's back!!
coret serear ..i agree, we gotta support R&B
coret serear agree!! that's the old school Mary J. back in the day 411 days
I can't turn this up loud enough I swear!!!!
Potri Diamond's Journal REALLLLLLLL
I will for you 💯💯💯💯💯
👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊👊
✊✊✊✊✊✊✊✊✊✊
Not always good but I stay on my feet
Timeless! Epic material!❤
Omg tell me if I'm like the only one that will ride to Mary 🎵🎶🎶all day long?? song for every mood💖💖💖😍😍
This is one that I play on repeat
me too!!!
Santrece Hilliard. You are not the only one. I will ride all the way to ATL with her songs. This is the music I travel with.
Santrece Hilliard ALL day long
Santrece Hilliard MEEEEEE 💯💯💜💙
Mary I been rockin wit you since the Father MC days!!! Your reign will never end until your ready to retire!!!! You are our Aretha to my generation and other generations after!!!!! This album is gonna win major awards and nominations!!!!!Congratulations early on your multi platinum album Queen💣👑🤘👌🔥💯🎶🎵🔊🎼🎤🎧💿💿💿💿📷📸♑👑👑🎤👑👑👑💣💣💣🎶🎼💿💿💿💿💿💿👑
A relationship that turned out to be just a Love lesson. The feeling was deep and was taken for granted. and, landed on my feet. Mary J. Queen of R&B kicking it out. Love this song it has a hell of a meaning. When I hear this song, I know I made a good choice to not take his asset back.
This song makes me cry!!
Wasted 9 years of my life🥲🥲
6 here😢
7 here
Mary ain't playing no games on this album🔥🔥
When I went to her concert it was simply amazing and she is stunning in Real life. I walked out that concert a Different woman!! Few will understand this. Pain Brings Change...
Yes it does!!!
#IUnderstand
Yes it does
Yes song speak too me
mary knows she got it tho
Background vocals in this song was mind blowing. Gave me goose bumps to listen to it.
MsLady2407 exactly
MsLady2407
😪😥
MsLady2407 that's that mjb delivery
Hells yeah!! soothing to my soul
MsLady2407 oh yess its what turned me on to it!!!
Must've been crazy to think that you loved me
I saw all the signs but I just couldn't say nothing
I did the time across the line for you
'Cause I can't see myself with nobody else but you
Tell me what you're thinking 'cause this is what you wanted
Should've been the one to hold me when I got lonely
'Cause every time I think of the lies you told to me
Make it easy for me to leave
You plus me was a love lesson
In too deep without imperfection
Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
You had me, should've never questioned
You plus me was a love lesson
In too deep without imperfection
Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
You had me, should've never questioned
You plus me
You plus me
You plus me
Oh, I was ridin' wherever you going
At times, I wanted to leave, but didn't wanna be lonely
Can't deny the fact you were my one and only
Love that I would do, only love I knew
And now I gotta turn my back 'cause you didn't realize that, boy
This was a real thing
And I just can't deny the fact we don't belong together
Guess it ain't the real thing
You plus me was a love lesson
In too deep without imperfection
Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
You had me, should've never questioned
You plus me was a love lesson
In too deep without imperfection
Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
You had me, should've never questioned
You plus me
You plus me
You plus me
Gotta keep on pushing and love myself through the hard times
Gotta keep my patience, still a long way to go now
There's so much to learn
When we trust the love that's deep in us, then love will return
Boy this thing was a love lesson
You plus me was a love lesson
In too deep without imperfection
Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
You had me, should've never questioned
You plus me was a love lesson
In too deep without imperfection
Not always good, but I stayed on my feet
You had me, should've never questioned
You plus me
You plus me
You plus me
You plus me
You plus me
You plus me
My Name Is None Of Ur Business thankz👍
💯💯💯💯💯💯
I Thank U
Yes
Love Lessons 2019 U+ME
Yasss Mary Love you since day 1! Most high got you, spiritually he will bring you out! He brought me out ,I'm Me! Queen hold your head high,adjust that Crown!!!
2021 still here. These lessons never get old
Ikr🙌🏾
Oh no sis. Mary J music is healing🤗
Never
Big Factz💯💯💯💯💯
Carla Linton. I'm still here in 2021.
This is my shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit!!!!
Naw naw my shiiiiiiit!
Yes suhhhh
U +mii....♍💜👍🏼🍷
🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹☺☺☺☺☺☺☺🌹☺☺🌹☺☺🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹🍹😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😘😳😳😘😘😘😘
Same
Love it!!!! True MJB fans can't wait until this album drops!!! You speak your truth and you own it!!! #TheQueenisback
She still the Queen of R&B
Unique Lyrics are the info
Unique Lyrics to call the
The Queen of hip hop
Unique Lyrics I agree mjb is a BEAST
Unique Lyrics Mariah is the Queen of R'n'B
SHE SNAPPPPED ON THIS SONG ❤
This song hits home every time I hear it.. Mary stay on point. smh.. sing it Mary.. And who the hell thumb this song down!! probably the ones going around breaking hearts to good women.. shame on you..
Mary girl you can surely put out the best real stuff!!!
I just seen Mary performed this live on hrr Strength of Woman Tour in NYC a couple of hours ago. i mean everything it was so bomb. The whole show was amazing. WE LOVE YOU MARY
You ever have one of those songs that just wakes you up no matter what time it is? This is one of those songs. Love you, Mary. Thank you for your music. 💙🎶