Sir aap ki vjh se m bahut thik ho gai .....aap ki ek ek baat dil ko sukun deti h .....love u sir from bottom of my heart.....aap hm jese logo ke masiha h....bhagwan aapko lambi umr de....🙏❤️
22/7/2023 6:07 pm सर, मानसिक तनाव के कारण अन्याय है जो सभी हक छीने जाते है जिसे अन्याय कहते है तो जबतक न्याय नही दिया जाता तबतक कोई भी दवाए मानसिक तनावों पर असर नही कर सकती मगर न्याय मिलते ही तनावग्रस्त अपनेआप तनावरहीत हो जाते है जिसे किसी भी दवाओं कि जरुरत नहीं पडती ! धन्यवाद
Mere liye toh shaadi hi sabse bada trauma hai.isi ko soch soch kar apne faisle badal leti hoon ki ni Kiya toh ye meri shaadi kar dengey aur ye mere liye maut jaisa hai . Maine kisi ko Target karke kuch bola ni maine apni situation zaaya ki hai toh aap sabke pet me Inna dard kyun ho raha . If you prefer marriage,then just ask yourself is it a conditioning or your conscience.
kyu agar achcha insan agar tuhamari Zindagi me hai to kar lo burai kya hai. Career, Rupaya , Paisa , Luxury life Ye Important hai But ye Artificial Ya man mad made hai, Natural to Food, Air , water, Sex etc yahi supreme hai. Note- Mujhe Gyan mat de mere pass bahut gyan hai, Agar mujhe gyan to Aapaka gyan kutte ke Bhokane ke Saman mana jayega
@@neowjgjdj bhai inni kamzor ni mai jo mar jaaungi .woh kaam natural ho toh hi sahi .Par agar kabhi naubat aaye ki ho gya toh usme kya hai woh kaam khud ho jaayega . Roz hi koi na koi marta rehta hai ,kya hi jaayega.
@@27ritugupta13 Yes. You are right, One day we will die automatically, so no need to take this kind of step. It's your life live it with full of joy, if you think someone or something is not good for you, Cut off all the connections to them, Because in the end you get one life Nobody knows there is next life or not. And always try to be strong as much as possible. And if you think someone or something is better for you, Just Go with it and enjoy. Time and tide waits for none. buddy, I hope you got my point.
@@PramodSinghShekhawat7 absolutely I got it par ek baat poochna chahungi ki jab Hindi me likha toh toh bolne ka style alag tha aapka rude bilkul aur English me inni vinamrta kaise bhai.aise confuse mat Kiya Karo .Maine vaise bhi kisi ke baare me comment ni Kiya tha maine apni baat apne baare me bayaa ki thi . Just simple as that.
@@shubhamvishwakarma3629 bhai dekh liya maine 😂😂mujhe khud samjh ni aaya tha Inka comment kisko bol re maine toh kisi ko bola hi ni tha mai toh apna haal bata ri thi bass.
Am still in depression, just bcoz somewhere to my parents every overcome of the day they realising to me upcoming responsibility. An I just feel heel of my life.
We often talk about depression and anxiety but do not want to understand or listen to the reason behind it. Because we all know the reason for all this somewhere or the other, but we ignore it. Every person is different, their thinking, understanding, mental state, attitude is different from everyone. Then no one has any right to forcefully put his principles, his ideals, his thoughts, his dreams on the children. They also have some dreams, at least listen to them.......😔😔
-Seek privacy -draw boundary so that no one can unnecessary interefere. - think about self i.e., yourself - take action again any kind of abuse as you are not a toy or victim of slave mentality.
Last night trauma didn't let me sleep. In every 5 minutes something kept waking me up. I've suffered from depression and other mental disorders. Trauma is one of outcome of it.
I also suffered from stockholm syndrom, jin logo ne mujhe emotionally, mentally abuse kiya hai, unki mene baar baar suni, aur unke baare main achcha kaha
This is the reason my life is totally hell just bcz of family and parents I forget myself 😢😢Aab bhi taunting hoti h parents kuch nhi samjhte girls ko chahe wo jaan bhi dede apni …😢😭😭they expect pura ghar bhi sambhale or kahin jaye bhi nhi or gvt job bhi le I’m totally depressed 😢😭😭😢just bcz I’m a girl 😭
🥺🥺hmare 7th eyse hote araha h Sri,,🥺😓😓😥😰bohot disrv ho gye h sir ,,ab aysa situation aa gye h sir mera physical health v Tut gaya,,ehi nhi samjhta h ki hum grow krenge to family ko ek a66e jaga p le ja skte h bt bandh k rkhna chahata h 😢
Yaaa Sir Pitwayaga. I was thinking about showing this to my parents. Then I realised nop lets not put a hand inside the lion's mouth. Traumatic life is better than no life. 🤣😂🤣😂
Ye sari bate right hai ye main abhi bhi jhel rhi hu bss eak bar shadi ho Jaye aur meri jaisi choti girl ko waise v India me koi nhi rkhna chahega aur yahi meri apurchneti hai main bss Apne liye jeena chahungi 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💜🐻🐻💜
ditto my parents😢😢😢 They dont even allow me to go out of my room they just said govt job clear koro...fir freedom milegi😢😢 But i know freedom milegi hii nehin😓😓😓
Mere sath v Aisa hi hua.. 12th me mujhe science Lena pra fir Mera 54 % hi aaya. Graduation bhi kisi tarah pass Kiya... ab berojgar hu govt job ki preparation kr rhi hu... Qki parents ko govt job chahiye... Private me kya rakha hai... I'm so frustrated now. Nai pta kya krna h😂😂😂😂
But ladke hi mental problem face nhi krte hai ; girls also face mental issues in different ways ; ladkon ko atleast bachpan mai har type ka independence milta hai ; but that's not true for every girl
Arey didi kisne kaha ki sirf ladko ko hi mental problem hotey hain.. Ladko ka baat ho Raha hai aur aapko lag raha hai ki ladki o independence nhi mil rahaa... AAP tho gazak ke faminist ho ..
@@sagunsaren5684 ye baat ek fact hai most of society ladkon ko bachpan se hi gender k basis pe pamper kiya jaata hai and har trh ki independence v milti hai compared to girl child
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hlw sir what solution
In today’s date every one talks about mental health, but you are the one who is addressing it and making us understand
Sir aap ki vjh se m bahut thik ho gai .....aap ki ek ek baat dil ko sukun deti h .....love u sir from bottom of my heart.....aap hm jese logo ke masiha h....bhagwan aapko lambi umr de....🙏❤️
22/7/2023 6:07 pm
सर, मानसिक तनाव के कारण अन्याय है जो सभी हक छीने जाते है जिसे अन्याय कहते है तो जबतक न्याय नही दिया जाता तबतक कोई भी दवाए मानसिक तनावों पर असर नही कर सकती मगर न्याय मिलते ही तनावग्रस्त अपनेआप तनावरहीत हो जाते है जिसे किसी भी दवाओं कि जरुरत नहीं पडती ! धन्यवाद
Vo kids lucky hi,jo unke parents selfish nhi hote hai. Aur unki life ka importance sirf kids hote hai. Lekin aisa 80+% parents nhi hote hai,
I agree
Being strict is okay, but controlling someone is not okay.
strictness ke baghier kon control ho pata hai?
Mere liye toh shaadi hi sabse bada trauma hai.isi ko soch soch kar apne faisle badal leti hoon ki ni Kiya toh ye meri shaadi kar dengey aur ye mere liye maut jaisa hai .
Maine kisi ko Target karke kuch bola ni maine apni situation zaaya ki hai toh aap sabke pet me Inna dard kyun ho raha . If you prefer marriage,then just ask yourself is it a conditioning or your conscience.
kyu agar achcha insan agar tuhamari Zindagi me hai to kar lo burai kya hai. Career, Rupaya , Paisa , Luxury life Ye Important hai But ye Artificial Ya man mad made hai, Natural to Food, Air , water, Sex etc yahi supreme hai.
Note- Mujhe Gyan mat de mere pass bahut gyan hai, Agar mujhe gyan to Aapaka gyan kutte ke Bhokane ke Saman mana jayega
@@neowjgjdj bhai inni kamzor ni mai jo mar jaaungi .woh kaam natural ho toh hi sahi .Par agar kabhi naubat aaye ki ho gya toh usme kya hai woh kaam khud ho jaayega . Roz hi koi na koi marta rehta hai ,kya hi jaayega.
@@27ritugupta13 Yes. You are right, One day we will die automatically, so no need to take this kind of step. It's your life live it with full of joy, if you think someone or something is not good for you, Cut off all the connections to them, Because in the end you get one life Nobody knows there is next life or not. And always try to be strong as much as possible. And if you think someone or something is better for you, Just Go with it and enjoy. Time and tide waits for none. buddy, I hope you got my point.
@@PramodSinghShekhawat7 absolutely I got it par ek baat poochna chahungi ki jab Hindi me likha toh toh bolne ka style alag tha aapka rude bilkul aur English me inni vinamrta kaise bhai.aise confuse mat Kiya Karo .Maine vaise bhi kisi ke baare me comment ni Kiya tha maine apni baat apne baare me bayaa ki thi . Just simple as that.
@@shubhamvishwakarma3629 bhai dekh liya maine 😂😂mujhe khud samjh ni aaya tha Inka comment kisko bol re maine toh kisi ko bola hi ni tha mai toh apna haal bata ri thi bass.
Am still in depression, just bcoz somewhere to my parents every overcome of the day they realising to me upcoming responsibility. An I just feel heel of my life.
We often talk about depression and anxiety but do not want to understand or listen to the reason behind it. Because we all know the reason for all this somewhere or the other, but we ignore it. Every person is different, their thinking, understanding, mental state, attitude is different from everyone. Then no one has any right to forcefully put his principles, his ideals, his thoughts, his dreams on the children. They also have some dreams, at least listen to them.......😔😔
-Seek privacy
-draw boundary so that no one can unnecessary interefere.
- think about self i.e., yourself
- take action again any kind of abuse as you are not a toy or victim of slave mentality.
BAHUT EMOTIONAL THA VEDIO SIR
I TOTALLY RELATE TO IT........
This video should go viral ❤
There's no gender biasness in any trauma
You are expected to do or act in a certain manner, denying that would lead to conflict
This is real knowledge.
Main pichle 9 saal se anxiety, panic attacks face kar rha hu mujhe ab pata chala yh real me cheeje h.
It happens with girls too.
That's my life 😥😥 trauma hi trauma 😫 hamesha dar ka Mahal.
i can feel u
suicide na kr lena, kiun ke stress me wohi krne ka bara dil(emotions) chata hai
This is very important for young generations
Last night trauma didn't let me sleep. In every 5 minutes something kept waking me up. I've suffered from depression and other mental disorders. Trauma is one of outcome of it.
Girls also suffer a lot, no doubt our brothers are suffering.
Our brothers?💀
Girls suffering is just a drop whereas boys suffering is whole ocean
@@Param-x8ethat's not true
Their sufferings are lot more than ours
If we look socially , politicaly
On personal level , both have equal problems
@@Cricholic82 ok I think u have personally experienced that's why u understands better than me....🙏
Men suffers lot more than women...men can't explain to others if they explain they will consider men as weak
Umar k uss padav pee hu jahan har cheez ko apne aap se relate kr leta hu
I also suffered from stockholm syndrom, jin logo ne mujhe emotionally, mentally abuse kiya hai, unki mene baar baar suni, aur unke baare main achcha kaha
Bahut sunder mai upsc aspirant nahi hu per aapko sunti ultimate knowledge.
Imagine having father like Sir
no Thanks, i just want very rich dad 😊
I cried while watching 😢💔
Same bro
sometimes I realize I am not with me , working like a machine day by day
It happens to all of us sometimes, but just take a gap and relax for sometime. Share your feelings and discuss with someone trusted and wise.
Sir, Your children's must be so lucky ❤
Maine ye bachapan se jhela hai jiske intrivert bn gya bat krna chhod doya tha maine, social fobia hogya, ab smjh me ati hai sari baten..
Mein bhi apne room mein aakela rehta hoon koi bhi mere room mein aa jaye to frustrate hoo jata hoon.
@@Yogendra55Yadav to change krke dekho na aur psychiatriist ko bhi dekha do, kiun ke mere saath bhi dimagh sahi se kaam krna bandh kr deta hai
Dil ki baat keh di sir
You right sir am very mentally disturbed
This is the reason my life is totally hell just bcz of family and parents I forget myself 😢😢Aab bhi taunting hoti h parents kuch nhi samjhte girls ko chahe wo jaan bhi dede apni …😢😭😭they expect pura ghar bhi sambhale or kahin jaye bhi nhi or gvt job bhi le I’m totally depressed 😢😭😭😢just bcz I’m a girl 😭
Don't be anxious, we are here to back you up and you can count on us to be there for you anytime.
Super sir...
Ekdam reality dikha...
Wow real knowledge 👏 👌
🥺🥺hmare 7th eyse hote araha h Sri,,🥺😓😓😥😰bohot disrv ho gye h sir ,,ab aysa situation aa gye h sir mera physical health v Tut gaya,,ehi nhi samjhta h ki hum grow krenge to family ko ek a66e jaga p le ja skte h bt bandh k rkhna chahata h 😢
Nobody ( also media)tell about same like Manipur incident happen in
malda district, Wes Bengal..😔
2 state but different judge angle...why sir?
Abe yar lappadjhandus
Topic se related to comment kiya kar
Bhut accha video hai sir ji ese hi video aap banate rahe 👌
Very very relatable!!!!!!
Yaaa Sir Pitwayaga. I was thinking about showing this to my parents. Then I realised nop lets not put a hand inside the lion's mouth.
Traumatic life is better than no life. 🤣😂🤣😂
Ye sari bate right hai ye main abhi bhi jhel rhi hu bss eak bar shadi ho Jaye aur meri jaisi choti girl ko waise v India me koi nhi rkhna chahega aur yahi meri apurchneti hai main bss Apne liye jeena chahungi 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💜🐻🐻💜
relatable to me
Mere saath bhi yahi Hua.😢. Na idher ke rahe na udhar k..
I dont know but i m feeling crying ,during watching this video
Thankyou so much sir, much needed help
this should have been radio show also
Thanks very much
Very nice bro
Sach me hme pta hi nhi chalta or hm jo hme dukhi kr rha hai use hi hm khush krne me lg jate hain.
to aur kia kren, ye hamme acha lagta hai krna kisi ki madad krna jo suffer kr raha ho 😅
Privacy:- indian parents "ye kya hota hai"😂🤣🙂
Indian parents when you're kid: kab bada hoga tu.
Indian parents when you're adult: Itna bada hogya jaban ladata hai
Depression:- Indian parents “ yeh kya hota hai ” 😢
parents: privacy jesi koi chiz nahi hoti, bache to apni property hi hote hai
This is the Black point of Indian people.
Agar control nehi karenge to sir ji sab nalee banjaenge but proper way, maintain ke sath contol karna chahiye
o yar, control krna chahiye warna bacha kuch nahi krta bus masti krna chata hai
Meri father army officer the wo chahte the me bhi army join karu but height short hone ki wajah se rejection mil gyi 🥲🕉🙏🇮🇳💪
@@souventudubanned 5.15 in male 157.5cms atleast for basic minimum
Don't worry You can contribute for country in any other way.. goodluco
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No words 😔
ditto my parents😢😢😢 They dont even allow me to go out of my room
they just said govt job clear koro...fir freedom milegi😢😢 But i know freedom milegi hii nehin😓😓😓
Sir mere parents khti ke jo tune krna h vo kr pr bilkul me guide nhi krte ke mujhe agae kya krna chahiye
Margdarshan krne vale ke kmi h jindge me
Better to get job and get transfer and move away....peace ♥️♥️
story of my life...
Mere sath v Aisa hi hua.. 12th me mujhe science Lena pra fir Mera 54 % hi aaya. Graduation bhi kisi tarah pass Kiya... ab berojgar hu govt job ki preparation kr rhi hu... Qki parents ko govt job chahiye... Private me kya rakha hai... I'm so frustrated now. Nai pta kya krna h😂😂😂😂
yar tumhari zindagi mere se zeda sakhat hai, me khushi se berozgar hon. 😁
Mujhe sayad yahi Roag he...
Facing this.
Am a Guitarist but,
parents - Will you eat MUSIC in hungry
Music isn't a career, do something else.😭😭😭😭
Asian parents doesn't consider all this debate.
Aare yea toh meri hii zindagi haii
Meri abtk ki life bta di apne 😐
Brain heal hojata hai chahe jitna bhi trauma milla ho
Mere sath me bhi aisa ho raha hai 😢😢😢😢
Hum LADKE hain na.....
Humare sath ese hi hota hai.😭🙆
Ladkiyo me sath bhi hota hain
yar bus kash bohot ache ameer ghr me peda hote, ye middle class family me peda hona hell hota hai 😀
Problems sabko pata hai
Iska solution kya hai wo btao...
solution ye hai keh isse hi chize chalne do, bus bare hokr khud hi samajh jae ge
Not all parents deserve to have kids
Most parents don’t
Parents ki baaten galat kyon samjhna?
4:16 😂😂😂😂😂 again nd again
Maine ye kam abhi yahi kr rhi hu 😕😕
Kam se kam dusro k parents chahte h ki unka beta engineer bane. But there are parents who dont even want to think about their kids future 😅🥲
3:55 😂😂😂😂
N slowly u hate ur life n future 💔
Isi Tarah shadi karo aur kiya hai to baccha paida karo ye bhi itna hi bada pressure hai..
What if I don't want to go through all this pain.. i
marzi hai yar, agr nahi kr sakte to na kro.
bus beeteh raho akele kamre me ya dosto ke saath lage rehna yar😉
Hee hee I want to be artist in the end now I am engineer 😢
@@Ranithequeenv jobless engineer
At least you're an engineer I did bsc and I regret much much than you 😔
I wanted to be a software Engineer 1year after 12th now doing a job belong a lower middle class family
@@jaymahakaal5354 apke pass job tho hai hamare pass tho bo bi nahi sab mahule bale ajib najrose dekte
o bhai, piase jisme zabrdast kama pao usme jao warna maza nahi ata jab paisa sirf 10000 hazaar milta ho
😢😢😢
Yesi tesi hum toh bihari desi😂
But ladke hi mental problem face nhi krte hai ; girls also face mental issues in different ways ; ladkon ko atleast bachpan mai har type ka independence milta hai ; but that's not true for every girl
Arey didi kisne kaha ki sirf ladko ko hi mental problem hotey hain..
Ladko ka baat ho Raha hai aur aapko lag raha hai ki ladki o independence nhi mil rahaa...
AAP tho gazak ke faminist ho ..
@@sagunsaren5684 this video is focused only as per men viewpoint lgta hai video dekha nhi
@@sagunsaren5684 I am a feminist that's why I am stating facts
@@sagunsaren5684 ye baat ek fact hai most of society ladkon ko bachpan se hi gender k basis pe pamper kiya jaata hai and har trh ki independence v milti hai compared to girl child
@@swatipriya562 achaa achaa ok
This video should be 18 + ...
Child may take it in an other way.
Haha ... high society 😅
Kuch bhi abhi bolunga
Rona ab bhi nahi hai
Aur Barbie toh dekhni hi nahi usse achhi maut hai
Life is unfair get used to it.
-Bill Gates
its so much unfair but what other choice we have
सर जी थोडा हिंदी मैं समझाओ, ज्यादा इंग्लिग word समझ नहीं आते।🙏🙏👍👍🫡🫡
Isi ke upar aamir khan ki ek jabardast movie 🎬 3 idiots
Taare zamin par
galat movie hai yar, us me bataya hi nahi keh paisa hi asal me zarori hota hai health ke badh
bhai aajkal exmushlim bahut trend kar raha hai. Bhai issper ek video to bano na.
@@souventudubanned right brother
@@rajivkumarjayaswal2706
Aacha hai educated muslim young generation aab samajh Rahi hain ki terrorism ke liye religion hii zimmedar hain.
@@Yogendra55Yadav yes brother
😭😭😭
Aur average log kehte hai shadi kro take apni parwa bhi nahi kr sake
He is at is copying Amogh Lila Prabhu from Isckon
To ye hisab kitab hai
He is, as it is, copying Amogh Lila Prabhu from Isckon.
abe SOJA
Don't blame parents
Not all parents are like yours. Some parents are even toxic. Living with them like living in a hell. I've been suffering.
Dude, we know who o blame and who needs to be responsible for our pain.
"Na khaunga na khane dunga" - modi ji ko vi a disorder hai
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