ive been working in a restaurant for two years and i still struggle. but ive managed to make the occasional joke and small talk with the guests. not something i couldve done when i first started! its a slow progress. but having social anxiety and working in hospitality really tests you.
Good luck guys. First years are awful lmao but do it at your own pace. Don't feel pressured to try and show your personality straight away. If it takes years for you to open up and feel comfortable to show everyone who you are, then let it take years. I'm now finally able to express myself but I really struggle with burnout from it now. It takes a lot to come off friendly and approachable since I'm so used to being on my own and preferring not to talk anyway. You got this guys. You'll get there. Remember to be kind to yourselves!
Hi Friends, i actually got fired from my first waitress job because i was too shy and did not talk to the guests. Here are some tips to over come shyness you can start to use on your next shift! I hope they help LIKE👍 SUBSCRIBE📢 & COMMENT😎 hugs, Ginny Mae
I've been Serving tables for over 20 years. Great video. But I , personally try a different perspective. I do have an outgoing personality, but I really don't like talking to ppl. I show passion and Enthusiasm about d Food and drink menu. I use Adjectives on d food, ie. Savory,rich,creamy. Tender, excellent combination of flavors, etc. Then run away from table, promptly return get d order, and run away again. This process works. Now, of course if d guest ask or iniate d conversation u want to respond. But if u appear to be busy then u don't have time for small talk. Be ALL about how great d cocktails and food is. Get in. Get out at your tables. Learn at Least 2 cocktail. 2 apps, 2 entrees, and describe them as if it's Diamonds! Good chance, no need for small talk!?. Drop d check say a warm y'all come back and Ty. Then next table, make dat MONEY. GOOD LUCK Y'ALL
ive been working in a restaurant for two years and i still struggle. but ive managed to make the occasional joke and small talk with the guests. not something i couldve done when i first started!
its a slow progress. but having social anxiety and working in hospitality really tests you.
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Good luck guys. First years are awful lmao but do it at your own pace. Don't feel pressured to try and show your personality straight away. If it takes years for you to open up and feel comfortable to show everyone who you are, then let it take years.
I'm now finally able to express myself but I really struggle with burnout from it now. It takes a lot to come off friendly and approachable since I'm so used to being on my own and preferring not to talk anyway.
You got this guys. You'll get there. Remember to be kind to yourselves!
Tomorrow is my first day, and I'm an introvert.. Wish me luck guys
Good luck!
HOWD UU DOOO?
How did it go?
How did it go?? I’m an introvert too lol today was my first day :)
How’s it go
Hi Friends, i actually got fired from my first waitress job because i was too shy and did not talk to the guests. Here are some tips to over come shyness you can start to use on your next shift! I hope they help
LIKE👍 SUBSCRIBE📢 & COMMENT😎
hugs, Ginny Mae
I've been Serving tables for over 20 years. Great video. But I , personally try a different perspective. I do have an outgoing personality, but I really don't like talking to ppl. I show passion and Enthusiasm about d Food and drink menu. I use Adjectives on d food, ie. Savory,rich,creamy. Tender, excellent combination of flavors, etc. Then run away from table, promptly return get d order, and run away again. This process works. Now, of course if d guest ask or iniate d conversation u want to respond. But if u appear to be busy then u don't have time for small talk. Be ALL about how great d cocktails and food is. Get in. Get out at your tables. Learn at Least 2 cocktail. 2 apps, 2 entrees, and describe them as if it's Diamonds! Good chance, no need for small talk!?. Drop d check say a warm y'all come back and Ty. Then next table, make dat MONEY. GOOD LUCK Y'ALL
Thank you so much for sharing your experience! And taking the time to do so - Respect! Wishing you a positive week - ☺️
Today is my first day and I'm a very shy person, wish me luck.
Same but tomorrow, how did it go? :)
@@summakitty Did well, I got the job!
You are so outgoing naturally!! Love you
Another great, positive video!
thank you so much❤ very kind of you☀
I just got a job as a waitress and I start soon but talking has always been hard for me, wish me luck 😩
You will do super! I wish you all the luck 🍀😊👍🏽
Great video
Thank you so much for commenting- 🙏🏼☺️
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James Begley thank you for your comment! ☺️ I hope it helps in some way ❤️
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