MOVING IN NYC ALONE AT 34 (vol. 3) | apartment hunting in new york city saga (its tough out here 😢)

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  • Sooo....we are on the 17th apartment already!! the struggle bus of nyc apartment hunting continues.... feeling very very discouraged BUT not giving up!! In this very chatty nyc moving series, we tour 7 apartments in manhattan, provide insights during the viewings & give updates for my current apartment (1st nyc apartment).
    I will be posting a detailed apartment hunting video similar to the last time ( • NYC APARTMENT HUNTING ... . I thought it would be fun to take you along from the beginning!!!
    My lease ends only end of February but I am breaking my lease early because of the ongoing issues and back and forth with my current building management.
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  • @JemmaPage
    @JemmaPage 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

    The way New York landlords are ripping off their tenants with filthy, unsafe and disgusting apartments infuriates me!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      its crazy out here!!!

    • @roxannegordon6162
      @roxannegordon6162 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      How about the greed that these building owners have to chop up a building into these tiny awkward layouts so they get more money no matter how ridiculous the apartments are for actually living in? No laundry would be a deal breaker for me. But that one apt that had laundry in a seedy looking basement. Not safe at all. Don't give up! The One will show up like a lot of commenters say. We know it will happen 'cuz it happened to us.

  • @erinnorris
    @erinnorris 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I really appreciate how thorough you are on these - such good reminders for checking under sinks, looking for gaps + leaking water, etc, and including tips for looking at rental history and potential issues. Really helpful!!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so so much 💗🙏🏽. Lessons learnt from the first time around

  • @georgiejackpot9540
    @georgiejackpot9540 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    Tisha don’t break your resolve in moving out. Keep looking at places and worst case scenario move back to jc. The waterfront view from jersey is amazing and commute to work will be easier.

    • @dianebaker5243
      @dianebaker5243 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      👍😊

    • @asmahilal239
      @asmahilal239 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes I agree with you too :)))

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Thank you so much for looking out for me ♥️♥️♥️

    • @georgiejackpot9540
      @georgiejackpot9540 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TishaShrestha nix the moving back to jc part. I get why you want to make it in nyc. Respect.

    • @mariaa.5829
      @mariaa.5829 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Is jc Jersey City?

  • @amyfaurote1488
    @amyfaurote1488 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Don't give up. The perfect apartment will appear at the right moment. I'm praying for you and your dreams. Peace 🕊️

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so much 🙏🏽💗

  • @sandynorris1250
    @sandynorris1250 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    New subscriber that loves your vlogs! The honesty and reality of single living in NY is well represented by your personality. Keep on being you, and don’t let the haters into your head. PS. I am 76 yrs. old, still very active, and love to travel. So, your vlogs are spreading out to a variety of ages etc. 👏🏻 Oh! I ❤️❤️ Chappie! He is adorable, and so well adjusted to city life. Please keep on including him in the vlogs. He has the “IT” factor! ❤️

  • @LesleyDodd-l4q
    @LesleyDodd-l4q 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Yuck why are the nyc apartments so dirty and outdated? Don’t landlords do diy?

  • @warmbreeze43
    @warmbreeze43 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Hi Tisha. Take your time honey. The place will come to you. Thank you for taking us along. Happy Mew Year. No walk ups. Ouch on the knees. 💕

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi Linda, Happy New Year 2024 💖
      Thank you for being part of the journey! I dont want to do walk ups but i probably have to do it 😢

  • @TheLuvliiSmyle
    @TheLuvliiSmyle 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Keep going!! As always I'm grateful you're taking us along ❤❤❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for being part of the journey ❤❤❤

  • @CosmicDetective
    @CosmicDetective 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was such a fun and informative video. Really enjoyed it! Best of luck on finding your new spot & hello from Miami! ❤

  • @32446
    @32446 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Keep going. You will eventually find an apartment that you love!! I love your apartment hunting videos.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so much ❤

  • @birdeez
    @birdeez 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    HAPPY NEW YEAR Miss Tisha!!! Why aren’t you exploring apartments in UPTOWN, Manhattan--HARLEM, WASHINGTON HEIGHTS (stay west of BROADWAY)!!! There are plenty of large apartments (some apartments renovated with washer/dryer) in elevated buildings with laundry rooms that are within your price range and very close to public transportation (#1, A, B and C trains and several public buses that go downtown)!!! Also WASHINGTON HEIGHTS has a Bus Station with commuter buses that go into New Jersey!!! Happy Apartment hunting!!!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for all the recommendations!! I thought these areas would be very far up and commute would be longer.
      Happy New Year to you too ✨✨✨✨✨✨

  • @Chancharra
    @Chancharra 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Dont lose hope Tisha, I'm sending you so many good vibes! You're going to find the perfect place at the perfect time, i believe it, and you should too! I'm finally flying out to NYC this weekend to start my apartment search! We're both gonna find a place and 2024 is gonna be our year! much love mamas, you got this! 💖💖💖

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so so much!! Good luck with the apartment hunting & the big move. Sending you all the best wishes & I hope you find the apartment you want. I hope 2024 brings us nice apartment, abundance, love, peace & property. We got this ❤

  • @merrybeth627
    @merrybeth627 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Interesting and enjoyable vlogs but understandable that it is all getting inside your head. You can do it, whatever decisions you make. Looking forward to more Tisha vlogs 😊. 💜

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so so much 🙏🏽♥️

  • @Katsbygirl
    @Katsbygirl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am loving all the apartment hunting videos and your last moving series was my favorite!! You always give such good content. Huge fan! ❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your kind words ❤

  • @vinyamee
    @vinyamee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Hello from Poland! I just started watching your videos and I really enjoy them 😊

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so much 🇵🇱 ♥️

  • @patriciahughes666
    @patriciahughes666 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Keep looking until you find the right apartment, it’s out there, good luck ❤️❤️

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank youuu ♥️

  • @Jennn460
    @Jennn460 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Sending you good vibes and positive energy! I hope you will find an apartment that makes you feel comfortable, safe, and at home. Good luck! :)

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 🙏🏽. Sending you all the good vibes and love ♥️

  • @jsmith5509
    @jsmith5509 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    If you find a rent stabilized apartment that you can POSSIBLY make work for you, GRAB IT!!!

  • @lifebyaprilb
    @lifebyaprilb 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I'm loving your apartment hunting saga! I am excited for you even though you encountered some challenges. You will find the right apartment for you. Good luck, Tisha! ❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so much for the well wishes! Really appreciate it ❤

  • @tinawhynot8893
    @tinawhynot8893 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Happy New Year Tisha - all the best for 2024 and best of luck in your apartment search, fingers crossed the apartment you are looking for is soon found 🤞🤞🤞

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so much Tina and happy new year to you too ❤🎉✨

  • @MissFearless
    @MissFearless 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I love watching apartment hunting, that's how I found your channel but I can imagine it can be stressfull so I hope you'll find new apartment soon :) also wanted to add that I got the same hoodie/blanket thingy but mine has boba on it :D

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much for being part of the community 🙏🏽💗
      Hoodie/blanket is so comfy!!! Love it!!!

  • @milly9897
    @milly9897 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    What bothers me about these apartment tours is the simple fact that you are shown units that are dirty with damaged areas. That is infuriating. Do these landlords have no shame? They have a super/handymen. I would be embarrassed to show a property in that condition. Plus, the staircase and outside of the unit was dirty. Eww. That second unit had a decent kitchen. Landlords need to start showing move in ready apartments, not those needing repairs and cleaning. The kitchen layouts are cringe. Are you okay with a higher floor walk-up? Portable washer and dryer might be something to consider. That apartment with the saturation on the hallway ceilings means that it has the potential of caving in and crashing down. Are you looking through StreetEasy as a backup? I would never pay that gas bill for the building. Department of Buildings is your friend. Utilize them.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It’s really rough out here!!! I really don’t want a walk up but now I am open to it if apartment is really nice!!

  • @richardguillermovacamaridu5393
    @richardguillermovacamaridu5393 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hey Tisha, I really hope you find a good option. I believe that you should continue looking instead of staying at your place, and I think that any place where you feel a good vibe, that’s the one. You might have to commit certain things but safety it’s never an option.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hey!!! Thank you for the well wishes 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @camilleserrani5888
    @camilleserrani5888 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I’m loving that Lenox Hill apt. Whatever happens, it’s going to work out just as it should. The right place will turn up. Though, you’ll be super lucky if it isn’t a walk up! Your instincts are spot on, I only did the walk up thing (4th floor) on weekends and it is a hassle! Looking forward to more apt hunting videos!😘

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you Camille ❤️. Hoping to find an apartment soon!

  • @Punty050
    @Punty050 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You are so adorable!!!
    I don't know why I can't stop watching your videos...
    👁👁

  • @strawberriesandcream2863
    @strawberriesandcream2863 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    best of luck with the apartment search! i’m looking now too and it’s really stressful. i commend your determination to live in manhattan, i wanted to as well but have since started looking in LIC. i also currently live in JC!

    • @strawberriesandcream2863
      @strawberriesandcream2863 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      also these videos are very realistic and helpful😊

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good luck with your apartment hunting!!!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @DukeBX
    @DukeBX 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Seems any apartment building in NYC is Bugs "R" Us.

  • @lobywang5053
    @lobywang5053 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Why don't you consider looking around LIC or Astoria? They are both located very close to Manhattan.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      for the first few years, I really want to live in Manhattan

  • @suspiciousafternoon
    @suspiciousafternoon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    new subscriber LFG 🔥 love your vlogs & vibes

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yay! Thank you so much for being part of the community ♥️

  • @kbl55429
    @kbl55429 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If you do find an apartment you like but there are gaps between the wall and the floor, you could ask them to put some quarter round down and it will cover them up. Just know that even if you do cover them up you’ll still have a cockroach here and there those nasty things have a way of getting in especially in the city.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’ll probably have to caulk it myself!! yeah there is no running away!! 😬

  • @dianebaker5243
    @dianebaker5243 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hopefully an apartment you like will come up every soon.Happy New Year 🎉🥳

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hoping it comes soon ❤ Happy New Year 2024 ✨

  • @suesmith4289
    @suesmith4289 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You will get there in the end and find exactly what you want and need.😄

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hoping so 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽
      thank you 🙏🏽 ♥️

  • @sauri2005
    @sauri2005 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hope you get what your heart desires this year ❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so much di ❤

  • @kimberlyruiz8643
    @kimberlyruiz8643 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Living most of my life in Florida & seeing how expensive & how much of a difference these apartments are compared to the ones over here I don’t think I could ever move to NYC.

  • @Billy33753
    @Billy33753 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love nyc

  • @virginiafrye4956
    @virginiafrye4956 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Why don't they clean the apartments before they show them.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No idea why they don’t 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @claudiacorral4559
    @claudiacorral4559 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Stop overthinking ✨💜

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hehehe!! Thank you for the remainder ♥️

  • @anitamedic2339
    @anitamedic2339 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I saw that rat in subway station huh😮. Love your videos btw❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      We just live in their world LOL 🐀
      Thank you for the love tho ♥️🥲

    • @anitamedic2339
      @anitamedic2339 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TishaShrestha LOL 😆. Love your videos keep up the good job! Love from Michigan!!!!

  • @HeyitsDeirdre
    @HeyitsDeirdre 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    nice video I liked some of those apartments

    • @sophieschoices9663
      @sophieschoices9663 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, I think there were 2 or 3 which were quite charming...Quirky layouts but doable...Maybe not as spacious as shes looking for but in the end with these things its really hard to find all aspects you want...Although obv if you still have time its worth continuing to look for a place you really like!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🙏🏽 💗

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah it’s hard to find everything that I want with my price point… let’s see how it goes 🤞🏽

  • @nancybarta8167
    @nancybarta8167 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Yuck to #11! Gaps in the floorboards not good.Oh i like apt 13! 34 and your worried about your knees. Wow Im 73 and Im not!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Please let us know your secret!! 💗

  • @denverdubois5835
    @denverdubois5835 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    None of these apartments are outright terrible, but none of them are great either. I guess I liked #15 the best despite the stinky lobby, with #13 as runner up. (Maybe I just love fireplaces? lol) I get why you want to live in Manhattan even though you could get a better place further out. I would choose Manhattan too. ;-) #16 felt "off" because it was so badly chopped up. Did you notice the big beautiful Victorian window hidden behind the cheap shower stall?-Terrible feng shui AND disgusting aesthetics. I hate that kind of thing and maybe you do too! Even just subconsciously, it feels sad to see lovely architecture desecrated by greedy slumlords. Anyway--whatever flat you get, the first thing you should do when you get the key--besides clean--is CAULK everything! Right?? GOOD LUCK!! I know you'll find the right place for you. p.s. In #16, that was an original Victorian latch on the built-in cabinet!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      #16 had so much potential but the layout was just off!!! Didn’t know it was a Victorian latch!!! Yeah that shower covering up the beautiful window was such a shame!! Thank you for the well wishes 🙏🏽💗

  • @MeliMelNYC
    @MeliMelNYC 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Why don’t you consider Brooklyn or even Ridgewood? You can get so much more space for your budget, in a cooler neighborhood

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for all the suggestions! Appreciate it 🙏🏽✨💗 Ridgewood will be a bit far for my work commute (NJ). Definitely many areas in Brooklyn would work for my commute but I am really hoping for the first few years in nyc to live in Manhattan

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for all the suggestions! Appreciate it 🙏🏽✨💗 Ridgewood will be a bit far for my work commute (NJ). Definitely many areas in Brooklyn would work for my commute but I was really hoping for the first few years in nyc to live in Manhattan. Once I move to other boroughs, I don’t think I’ll move back

  • @magifer2012
    @magifer2012 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Standing water from drips like radiator is huge warning sign for pests. Stay away.

    • @sophieschoices9663
      @sophieschoices9663 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      why are drips from radiators a sign for pests? just curious

  • @RooseyGirl
    @RooseyGirl 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If it got away, it wasnt for you... what is meant for you, no one can keep it from you

  • @patriciateague8677
    @patriciateague8677 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The first apartment looked dirty and the condition of the laundry room and path to it didn't look well-maintained. Window views were dreary. I'd pass on it. Makes me appreciate my 1,800 sq.ft. home in Wisconsin and my mortgage is a 1/4 those rents.

  • @007knick
    @007knick 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    As a non American what is a broker fee? Seems like a way to get more money out of you

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Broker is a real estate agent who handles the viewings and application process. Typically tenant has to pay the broker fee which is sometimes 1 month rent or 10 to 18% of the annual rent. This fee is so bizzare...tenant does all the hard work to find these apartments and the broker shows the apartment (represents the owner) and we end up paying this fee. There are also apartments that do not come with broker fee but majority of it comes with the broker fee

  • @mariaa.5829
    @mariaa.5829 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    A brick wall and/or a fireplace are nice features.

  • @JunipersCancer
    @JunipersCancer 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I dint know if thats the aame feiend that helped you clean that timd yiu bit ti oay last minths rent ir you just lucky in the friends department 😂 good advice maje sure yiu hold into that lease they are a trip

  • @michellealvarez8160
    @michellealvarez8160 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Sorry but I do not think any of these apartments are worth that amount of rent. Keep looking

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Apartment hunting is still going :))

  • @Nelli-TA527
    @Nelli-TA527 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi I just subscribed to your channel. R you still looking for an apartment in Manhattan. There's this youtube channel called ' Cash Jordan' - he reviews Manhattan apartments. One of his video living in Manhattan for $800 . Check it out this woman has great tips on where to find apartments in Manhattan and the best money saving tips.

  • @itsbefalcon
    @itsbefalcon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I relate to “the one that got away.” Back in 2020 I found “the one.” Perfect rent controlled, laundry in unit, recently remodeled 1 bedroom apt here in San Francisco for $1995! I hesitated and took the night to think it over. In the morning, it was gone. I kicked myself for years. More so because I have not seen any rents on 1 bedrooms for under $2k since that one. Now, where I live, I have to walk by that apartment on my way to work. I have seen how rough the neighborhood has gotten. The apartment is on the first floor and the windows are always close. I love to let sunlight in and I wouldn’t have been able to in that apartment. I’ve come to realized it wasn’t meant to be and it was for the better.

    • @itsbefalcon
      @itsbefalcon 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Also, not legal advice but for deposits when a landlord refuses to return them, there’s Small Claims. It is rough to invest time and money but it’s an option and it sounds like you have paper trails -Friendly Words From a Paralegal 😉

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So glad at the end it all worked out!! And thank you for the remainder since I was still stuck on it ❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@itsbefalconI have mentioned to them that they can use the security deposit as my Jan month rent.. hopefully it all works out at the end 🤞🏽🤞🏽🤞🏽

  • @BlueFlame377
    @BlueFlame377 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    No human being should have to struggle this much for basic human needs like shelter and food. Capitalism is ridiculous!

    • @sophieschoices9663
      @sophieschoices9663 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Yeah and going through this sort of experence can be so detrimental to your mental health...And you always live in that anxiety of having to go through it again...Its definitely not normal to have to go through such struggles just to have a safe place to live!!

    • @AnnGoldberg-t4c
      @AnnGoldberg-t4c 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just curious -- have you ever lived in a communist country? Or known anyone who has?

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Nyc rental is crazy!!!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Definitely don’t want to get back to this struggle bus this soon again (saying it while I am still on it LOL :))

  • @kapkone
    @kapkone 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    For your budget I'd prefer JC. Some of those apartments look dark and claustrophobic. The prices are out of control

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      JC is expensive too but definitely better & cleaner options compared to the city

  • @kathyscrazylife
    @kathyscrazylife 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My son recently moved to New York- Manhattan. He rented a really cute studio apartment with beautiful hardwood floors and brick walls on one side. He did not notice until he moved in that there was no stove. Frig, dishwasher, microwave but NO stove. I had never heard of something like that.

    • @mariaa.5829
      @mariaa.5829 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Lol

  • @jennifergraham9679
    @jennifergraham9679 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You will find the right one in time, please don't get any walk up,in building laundry should be non negotiable.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you 🙏 💖 for my price point, laundry is a rare instance.. i am going to my best not to do walk ups!!

  • @mystic557
    @mystic557 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I'm really enjoying coming along in your journey of looking at apartments. It's funny because I'm from Texas and when you showed that closet space, I was like, that's huge!! Closets here are typically the size of the bathroom in NYC if not bigger for apartments. I hope you find your apartment soon. The one you really liked that got rented was not meant to be and looking at your commute time and having to go to work more often...it was probably for the best!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for being part of the journey 🙏🏽. I’m still stuck with that apartment and I really needed that remainder. So thank you ❤

  • @Rozefreak
    @Rozefreak 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Hi Tisha! I'm a very recent new follower, discovered you during the holidays. I really admire your resilience with this apartment hunt, isn't easy ;) I'm rooting for you that you can keep your spirit up and will find a place that speaks to you. That's very important, having a good home ;) Love, Marie xo

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi Marie, Thank you so so much ❤❤❤

  • @Simplylakesha
    @Simplylakesha 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Best wishes and good vibes on your apartment hunt, thanks for sharing with us, I really enjoy seeing the options and prices!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so muchhhh ♥️

  • @tyydent
    @tyydent 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    u gotta come to miami... u can get sooo much more for even cheaper rent here

  • @jh7100
    @jh7100 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Hi Tisha! Keep looking, you will find what you want. I think you want something that is charming and feels safe. Keep looking. We’re with you!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for the support & well wishes ♥️

  • @queenbutterfly4888
    @queenbutterfly4888 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I've been looking for apartments and many are so filthy and not maintained at all

  • @marccolomayt82094
    @marccolomayt82094 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Congratulations btw on your apartment hunting, enjoy your cool stay in NYC & Happy New Year, Tish!!!!❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much! Happy New Year 2024 ♥️♥️♥️✨✨✨

  • @karenreichenbach5348
    @karenreichenbach5348 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Good luck Tisha 😊 I hope you find YOUR apartment. Best wishes from Berlin

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so so much 🙏🏽💗 🇩🇪

    • @RosemaryOltarzewski
      @RosemaryOltarzewski 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hi Trish, thank you for taking us along trying to find your next apartment, gosh keep going, you will find the right one soon. You so deserve a clean, warm, tidy home. You will be the perfect tenant. I'm so happy you have a wonderful family to support you ❤sending love and positive vibes from Rosie O from a very windy rainy Devon, England 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁥󠁮󠁧󠁿 x

  • @momohead35
    @momohead35 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Girl, do not do a 5th floor walk-up. I'm on the 4th floor with a puppy (yes i'm the JC transplant from IG!) AND its tough.
    Also, dont move back to JC. Hustle and push yourself, you will find something! You jsut need to move FAST, like, if you see an apt you like today, apply for it, yesterday LOL

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I don’t want to but I might have to!! Not much options out there!!! Thank you 🙏🏽 ♥️

  • @chrissyobermeyer1139
    @chrissyobermeyer1139 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I can’t imagine anyone settling to live in the majority of these spots if these were in Southern California. Holy cow some of them are so dirty looking and dingy! It is so unacceptable to me! What people have come to just accept because it’s New York. I feel like we have so many apartment complex communities that have basically brand new features, it’s become so commonplace!
    I’m so sorry you have to even deal with a landlord like you have been. You def should move to be in a larger space and one you feel more comfortable in!

  • @artsygirlmarilyn6296
    @artsygirlmarilyn6296 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Omg you look 👀 gorgeous. ❤❤❤with the black turtleneck n belt!👁️👁️☕️🎴🥑🥑

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you Marilyn ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chriss312
    @chriss312 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A apartment which is light but grubby is better than a dark newly decorated one If its light with one closet you can clean it or paint but Grubby is relative you can't live with pet cockroach as it will have a little family ie if there's one there's more Small light better large dark Got Luck in finding something

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the best wishes 🙏🏽

  • @jasminej6609
    @jasminej6609 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’ve been following your videos/apt hunting journey. I’m going through the same thing right now. Lease is almost up, overthinking, afraid I won’t find a place in time. Leasing office won’t respond etc etc. actually found the perfect Apt and lost it bc I waited to apply for it. Hope you found a place! I’m still hunting

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oh No!!!! “Feeling of the one that got away” stinks 😢
      When does your lease end? I am still apartment hunting. Haven’t found a place yet.
      Good luck to both of us ❤

  • @jeanmeizel8895
    @jeanmeizel8895 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please check out Queens like Forest Hills...Sunnyside ..Rego Park...so much better then what you are seeing..

  • @Milla-28
    @Milla-28 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm sorry to hear you didn't get the apartment you wanted. Why didn't you apply for it right away instead of overthinking it? Altho.. Maybe something even better is waiting right around the corner! :) That's how I usually think when I understand I have not listened to my intuition. I'm keeping my fingers crossed you'll find a smashing new place! :D Love your videos!

  • @kasandrabrown8611
    @kasandrabrown8611 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good luck in the future. I'm not sure what you're attached to in New York, but all these apartments were very substandard and many barely livable. I hope you will consider some more relaxing parts of the country and your health. It's not necessary to struggle so much for so little.

  • @karongoodine3288
    @karongoodine3288 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Oh my goodness. NY has the ugliest apartments. Nasty and dirty with weird layouts at ridiculous high rent. I dont understand the thrill living in NY. That's just me.

  • @susangladstone357
    @susangladstone357 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes! That outfit suits you!

  • @shadowess1961
    @shadowess1961 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I LOVE that I get to see all the apts I've been seeing on streeteasy, in your vlog because I really can't make the viewings lol Apt hunting is a nightmare. I've never had so much trouble finding one in the city. I have found that more buildings on the west side, hell's kitchen, have laundry in the building and some have elevators. You'll find your gem soon.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HAHAHA!! glad these viewings have been helpful. I feel like this year has been rough compared to last year 😅. How’s your apartment hunting going??

    • @shadowess1961
      @shadowess1961 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TishaShrestha Just like yours lol I think I found one I like today. I just have to schedule an appointment to see it. I'm picky though because I don't do walkups over the 3rd floor and there HAS to be laundry because these rents are renting. Hoping your next apartment video is of your new apartment.🤞

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@shadowess1961 unfortunately still searching :(
      Good luck with the application!!

  • @user-wo7dl6tb2q
    @user-wo7dl6tb2q 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ur heart seems to be in Manhattan... i could see you liking Brooklyn Heights or Cobble Hill in a nice space!

  • @Where-u-at-cool-aid-hat
    @Where-u-at-cool-aid-hat 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Love your channel and I want more vlogs ❤ hugs

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank yo so so much ♥️♥️♥️🤗🤗

  • @conisha1000
    @conisha1000 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are wiser and because of that wisdom you will find the right place and it is waiting for you to show up. So excited to celebrate with you 🎉🎉🎉

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      THANK YOU SO MUCHH ♥️

  • @maricor4791
    @maricor4791 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Ugh I hate apartment hunting. Youve got so much patience.
    I cant imagine paying 2500 for an apartment, but then again I live in Wisconsin so everything here is half off lol
    Happy new Year to you and fur baby! :)

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am running out of patience LOL 😅

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much!!! happy new year 2024 to you too ♥️

  • @Freebirddee
    @Freebirddee 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Run from any apt building that has trash cans inside. It invites BUGS!

  • @joannebaker4925
    @joannebaker4925 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Tisha, keep the faith. You will find something. Wishing you best in the New Year and happy apartment hunting.🤗🤗🤗.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much Joanne. Happy New Year 2024 ♥️

  • @soundrasimpson7885
    @soundrasimpson7885 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It sounds like you may need to up your price point in order to get the apartment you're desiring. So sorry youre having a tough time. Things will work out. Dont give up....keep lookin....it will happen. ❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      yeah!! thats what i have been thinking but i really dont want to 💸💸💸
      Thank you so much ❤

  • @lenieamels1270
    @lenieamels1270 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I live in Europe and i find it incomprehensible that so much rent is charged for very small and depressing apartments. You can’t call these kitchens can you. And then the view of some apartments is also strange. Facing a wall and a window with bars. Good luck with your search.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      HAHAHA!!! layout and views are typically very unique 😁
      Thank you so much 🙏

  • @mustlovedogs5569
    @mustlovedogs5569 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Ur not buying the apartment. Think u might be being a bit picky

  • @c_rob1
    @c_rob1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These apts are pretty glum. It's good to see the real deal though.

  • @patriciaschmitt6448
    @patriciaschmitt6448 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Tisha, the 1st apt was awful! Dirty & so small. I see dirty and I'm running!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      hahaha me tooo 😓

  • @brendad3570
    @brendad3570 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Keep looking! Youll know when its the ' right' one!

  • @stronggiftfromgod
    @stronggiftfromgod 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    😍😍😍 like listening to a friend! Good luck on your journey and Happy New Year!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That’s one of the biggest compliment! Thank you so much & happy new year 2024 ❤️❤️❤️

  • @yvonneferguson5205
    @yvonneferguson5205 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I caught your face in the mirror in apt 13. 😂😂

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      LOL I didn’t like the bathroom at all 😬

  • @DannyJae
    @DannyJae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Yes getting An ESA Letter is easy! You can do that!!?!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      that apartment is rented now :(

    • @DannyJae
      @DannyJae 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@TishaShrestha 😧

  • @Marissa821
    @Marissa821 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    These apartments are horrifying

  • @MaspethQueen
    @MaspethQueen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I live in the Pocono's after having moved from Maspeth, Queens, NY years ago. Have you considered a move to Queens? Maspeth is a nice place and near Brooklyn and Manhattan (also Long Island). On Grand Avenue there are lots of shops and restaurants. The stores have apartments above them and the buses run along Grand Ave and you can get almost anywhere. Rents are probably comparable to Manhattan, as well. Wishing you lots of luck in finding your new residence! I Enjoy watching your videos.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for the suggestion 🙏 . I have to commute to office 1 to 2 times a week. I work in Jersey and Maspeth would be a bit far me. Certain areas in Brooklyn & Queen should work from commute perspective but for first few years i really want to live in Manhattan

    • @MaspethQueen
      @MaspethQueen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@TishaShrestha Yes, it's a distance from Maspeth to Jersey. My uncle used to commute to northern NJ every day. He took a bus from Maspeth into Brooklyn, then a train from Brookyln to Port Authority, then the NJ transit bus to his job. Hope you find a place you love! Wishing you luck.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@MaspethQueen WOW!!! your uncle seems to be hardworking and I applaud his dedication. Thank you so so much 🙏

    • @MaspethQueen
      @MaspethQueen 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you for your kind words. ❤ He passed away several years ago. He made that commute for about 50 years and hardly missed a day of work. He helped raise me. I am very blessed to have had him in my life. ❤

  • @isismarienn
    @isismarienn 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish I was you ❤

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Nahh!!! No one is YOU & that is your power ♥️♥️♥️

  • @jacquelineharriette2896
    @jacquelineharriette2896 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Apartment 2 is much better than 1

  • @booksnq4388
    @booksnq4388 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    How do you get a broker to call you back??? My daughter needs to move to Manhattan within the month and yet send introduction and no one ever calls or texts back!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I have been using streeteasy and Zillow. I have the same issues. I send a bunch of tour requests for different listing but only few responds. Good luck with your daughters move ✨✨✨

    • @booksnq4388
      @booksnq4388 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Finally started receiving lots of callbacks last week with texts to brokers (50% response rate) in bullet form: credit score, salary, job title, employer, move-in date, pets/no pets, # of tenants applying, children/no children, AND stating have ready to send bank, tax, and (if needed) guarantor information. Nix the tour requests and just direct text the brokers. Hope this helps!! My daughter should be signing her lease by tomorrow. @@TishaShrestha

  • @Thtisha22234
    @Thtisha22234 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    When i decided to live off my security deposit. The management filed a claim of nonpayment and it was reported to my housing credit

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      WOW!!! I didn’t know this can happen. Thank you for letting me know

  • @deborahdallas4773
    @deborahdallas4773 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I pray you find an amazing apartment in a great location. Happy New Year 🎉🎉🎉🎉

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      thank you so so much!!! Happy New Year 2024 ✨ ✨ ✨ ✨ ✨

  • @mollylonsdale7329
    @mollylonsdale7329 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hang in there sweetie! Keep looking and get out of that horrible place. They have not treated you right over multiple things.

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for the encouraging words 🙏🏽♥️

  • @locomotive43
    @locomotive43 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    how much does these studios you are looking to rent cost if somebody wants to purchase them.. just curious 🤔

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Haven’t looked at the prices yet but the HOA is probably very high

  • @joshs.47
    @joshs.47 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I’m excited for your next spot!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      me too 💗💗💗

  • @TimeLapsePlants
    @TimeLapsePlants 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Good luck.. you are doing what you can -- looking for places that may be a fit -- it may take some more time but you will find a solution that works!!

    • @TishaShrestha
      @TishaShrestha  8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fingers crossed! Thank you so much 🙏🏽💗