@@rogeliofelix13 : Odd that she didn't say much about the 4 year-old son's father, except that he didn't want to be part of the son's life. So why would he punch holes in the condom to get her pregnant in the first place?
You're still confused because you didn't catch what she was doing. She was blaming one guy for what she did with another guy. She bridged a connection in her head so you should catch that connection and realize that what happened wasn't her fault.
@@newbeginnings3603 The woman know the name of the game is come up with any story where you blame the man and you get a pass. that's what she did. She just wanted you to bridge the connection without her actually pointing it out directly
It always amazes me how a woman will come on a dating show with hundreds to thousands of people looking and you don’t take time out to fix yourself up for the call
Smh! Then she said she was engaged for 7 years, which was supposed to be her last relationship. Her youngest child is 4. Absolutely none of it made sense.
I’m not even trying to be rude but something I’ve noticed is a lot of the people on this show are very classless. I get the typical aesthetic is suppose to be entertaining and all but why would you get on a dating show and not put on a cute top and do your hair and makeup at least a little? The least you can do is take queues from Kendra because she’s never not presentable. Black people in general need to hold themselves to a higher standard. I’ll never put a camera in my face looking like I just rolled out of bed because it’s literally no effort involved. And you want a man to take you seriously??? That’s a huge issue I’m sorry!!
Agreed. Many I times I hear them say while wearing a bonnet "I was just getting ready for bed". I just can't fathom calling into any show, no matter what platform unless it's a radio station while in nightclothes. A 'dating' show no less 😩
Right, because they are untidy. Even if the call comes unexpectedly if you are a neat person no need to go get dressed. I am 70 years old. At no time you will find me not dressed up. People call me glamorous grandma. I always say I am dressing up for Jesus in case he knocked on my door and need to open for him. Please sisters wake up.
@@TBoogie76 I don't think y'all really understand what delusional means. To be delusional, is to be in a state of nothing real. Experiencing loneliness, desperation, and etc. is very real.
That “I was holding him down” statement is the downfall of many black women. How about holding down a man that actually has something going on and not one that’s constantly struggling
Hmm that isn’t her situation tho. She didn’t hold him down: she held onto him for dear life. Nothing she said showed in any way that she held him down. She literally got pregnant by a somebody who never claimed her and didn’t acknowledge her child while dude was in prison and tried to blame him for it. Like tf
@@s.r.hadden525 nobody played her but herself! She literally started this story by saying she went on a date with him and the next day he was in jail!!! Like literally she signed up to throw money at a stranger. He don’t owe her nothing! She was a stranger who was desperate for attention! That’s on her!
If I was on a date with her, and she starts TRYING to explain that crazy shit to me, I would've said "check, please", paid for MY meal, and walked out! Straight up!
And she was so happy to tell this sad tale of holding down some degenerate. She needs help Stat. Nothing about "holding down" a grown man is cute, nothing at all. That story had nothing to do with nothing but she was gleeful to talk about it. Make it make sense.
She's so lonely and she wanted somebody to talk to about her unresolved trauma, so when she got the chance she had to bring up all the dudes who won't even go passed talking with her, including Reggie (which we clearly can't blame them, I had to fast forward through this mess. Mentally couldn't take the confusion.) She needs a friend and a therapist, not a man. No man could deal with this for any time.
She was using it to land a dude. Manipulative. Women who say "I can't stand taking care of men!" translates to "I take care of my men!" and they cant even see that. So quick to tell folks how other people did them wrong but they're actually giving an asshole the blueprint on how to play you. 🤦🤦🤦
And maybe paying to maintain his shit/ managing his finances, paying his child support or other bills for him, figuring out his housing after he’s free for him
Fellas if you give her some, you're gonna have to change your number and move at least 1000 miles away... Leave her be unless you're desperate without options, and can handle a clingy bugaboo. With all that said, she's pretty, seems sweet, and loyal. She's just a bit confused and that's scary with a small child...
Too loyal apparently. The way I see it she needs to change her outlook and look out for herself more than those men she's meeting. Desperation makes you do silly things. I was initially a super kind person to ppl (male and female) and realised being kind didnt serve me well at all. Being too good can be a disadvantage. Nope not anymore I'm being selfish (as best as I can...its hard) and make myself the priority.
Wait... if the guy poked holes in the condom, why would he immediately abandon her? That makes absolutely no sense. That's like ordering a pizza and then immediately throwing it away.
Heres some game...at a certain age when their choices slow down, they're having the next candidates baby regardless of who it is....30 something is a dangerous time for women
Been married over 20 years and it’s not that much conversation in the world. This generation have been confused by Hollywood because marriage is really simple
She has a lot of time alone and creates conversations in her head. Another 10 years she will be responding to her on conversations. She needs more social interactions and activities
Ummm Kendra can’t keep peoples info, job, location, name, number of kids straight and you got she’s a good listener 😂😂 this must be the first video you’ve watched
This is very sad. She sees men through rose colored glasses even after they use her and toss her aside. I pray for her and her children’s protection because she’s a very soft target
It far deeper than that. She goes into bad situations without an ounce of introspection. It is like picking up a homeless man off the streets and taking him home and having a baby by him.
@Big Dawg Ent Y’all are partly to blame. Taking advantage of weak women. Also her father is to blame for not teaching her how his kind are. So yes men and to blame.
"If you have to wonder whether he likes you or not, then he doesn't. You will KNOW if a man likes you or not." Thanks for the gem, Kendra G. Hopefully it will help a lot of women who over extend themselves when they should be running.
Actually terrible advice. Women play games. A lot of men arent going to play along and chase women or "apply pressure," especially if they have other options. Women will not respond to your call/message then hit you up later calling you stranger and saying how you must have found someone else lol.
Yes!!! And I repeat YOU WILL KNOW.. ain’t no guessing or confusion. No back and forth.. no competing (in a harmful manner- meaning he/she talking to 5 different people at once.. but just being busy with their lives is different) because he or she will let you feel so secure and safe.
True! My now husband was very upfront when we were dating. In less than 3 months without me asking he gave me the keys to his house and the code to unlock his iPad and phone. He made it very clear he was not playing around.
I can tell you right now why she doesn’t have friends. She’s one of those women who are still boy crazy. We’ve all had that coworker or neighbor who’s nice enough, seems cool and down to earth, but only wants to talk about her man issues or wanting a man or looking for a man, etc. No sense of self identity outside of men. And no one wants to be friends with that, it’s exhausting.
My cousin moved her prisoner boyfriend in financed him a Dodge Challenger and if she’s around he’s all she talks about. She bragged that he gives her his foodstamp card. 🤦🏽♀️
Kendra these people are calling into your show for HELP HELP , they’re masking the wanting a relationship thing with “PLEASE HELP ME MENTALLY” it’s actually concerning 😬
She lost me at "I was holding him down in prison..a day after meeting him on Plenty Of Fish?". She dumb as a box of rocks. Time yourself out & Go Get Help!
@sherriew36 Jeeez... we all know "holding him down in prison " meant commissary. She dumb because she just met his azz on POF the day before!! U must be related to her 🤡
She says she likes to communicate😳🤔. And at first men will start talking to her but after awhile they’ll stop…Between the oversharing, not answering questions directly, circular stories with no objective, spontaneous utterances, blaming prison bae for a random man impregnating her, fiancé’s inconsistent timeline (although he was the perfect man, but she left him for prison bae😨), I was thoroughly confused🥴
Out of shape, delusions of grandeur, ditzy, naive, a receptionist, 2 kids with a man who doesn't want her or the kids, dealing with jail birds and holding down strangers? This is an entire mess.
I'm not confused at all; but this lady is confused. She's walking confusion like most modern woman who live based on inane modern woman logic of feelings, zodiac astrology, manifesting and vibes. She's just the worst of what all of them are to some lesser extent.
@@Yobachi2007 yeah maybe, I don't know I'm too old to consider myself a modern woman, well at least I think I am, and I've been with my husband for 15 years married for 10 so I don't know what it's like to be single in these times so I can't judge her
@@Yobachi2007 men are just as delusional however instead of astrology men believe in imaginary earning potential and future riches and worrying about gold diggers with no gold. Or thinking they are more handsome than they actually are.
The question initially was “why aren’t you with the 4year olds father”? She proceeded to talk about being in love with a stranger who went to jail and he’s NOT the 4year old child’s father!🤪
a relationship is definitely not something that she needs right now. She needs standards, self esteem and a therapist . Sis, you also have to learn to put yourself first
"Because I'm 5'4...so I need him to be about 6'2." Why he gotta be damn near a foot taller than you though 🤔? Also. Claiming a prison dude after 1 internet conversion is mad WILD!😅
She seems like there’s some deep healing to do and I just wish that soooo much for her! If you need a friend girl I’ll tell you the truth. 😆 Hope all is well with you now Jovan!! 🙏🙏🙏
I bet he been telling her he didn’t want her for a long time. She don’t seem like she dealing with a full deck. Her conversation was all over the place, from the beginning. Then she talk about a previous guy on the show. Said they had a connection but then said they not talking no more and it was mutual. You can tell he didn’t want to be bother he broke it off with her.
Yeah, he was like _Hey baby, I have 3 babies mommas, three other women on the side and I am about to be locked up...oh and I'm 6'3"_ and all the ladies swooned and said *Yasss, he's 6'3"!* 😍
All she have done was open herself up to be used again. I hope not But I really doubt it! There wasn't any need to tell that story about dude in Jail especially if you didn't count it as a "relationship".
Agreed because that was pointless and super confusing I’m thinking they meet on day one did the jungle boogie and home boy went to jail and she found out she was pregnant weeks later like oh ok. 😂 don’t mention this situation ship 😂
If you can see my comment can you tell me what’s going on with the comment section on TH-cam? It says there are a certain amount of comments but I click on the comments and see nothing
Points for getting on an international show: no du-rags or bonnets, present a bit of your best self, and have a serious point of view about what you are looking for. She has beautiful teeth. That is all I am gonna say.
She's almost 40 and chooses men like a stupid adolescent. Don't like the word delusional? Idiotic, imbecilic, moronic, feckless, reckless also describe this pathetic creature. She practices the self-inflating lies to describe her work: she's a receptionist at a radiology clinic but presents it like she has medical credentials and that makes her DELUSIONAL, TOO.
Multiple kids? Check! Different fathers? Check! Jailbird ex? Check! Bad decision making? Check! Emotional baggage/Unresolved Relationship Issues? Check! What man with any sense (or standards) would be interested in this nonsense?
Pray for therapy. Praying is fine, But that doesn't do anything in the physical world. Praying allows people to sit around waiting for a miracle instead of studying and working hard for what you want in life. It's a very lazy way of dealing with ones problems. God doesn't just give someone peace and love that they didn't work for. God rewards hard work.
As a black woman, I can assure you that she does not represent me or anyone in my friend group. We wouldn’t go to a gas station looking like this or talking like her. It’s truly embarrassing.
Girl, I believe in you lol. You can do it. Just take short intervals at a time lol. And don't try to make sense of anything she tells you. Just say "Uh huh, yeah, ok" a lot and just impart your own wisdom 🙏🏽❤
Whenever a person says that the break up was mutual, they’re lying. Usually if you ask “who decision was it to break up?” the person that initiated the break up will say “it was me” lol
She's attractive, has a Masters degree and a nice career. She has a lot of potential and is probably a great woman. She seems sweet but too insecure and willing to do whatever. I pray that she heals, grows, and learns what real love is ❤️ she has to also learn how to and set boundaries! God please be with her and her children... keep the wolves away.
@@trigreeng450very true...I was assuming the pay was allowing her to settle. I know in my city those positions cap in the $30 plus range hourly.. but you're right!
Wow This lady puts so much weight on people who barely had any significant standing in her life, which is very concerning. Her desperation to be loved is going to have her continually be used. Therapy is the only thing she should be seeking now. Have to find self love and respect before expecting it from others. People have to appreciate and not take for granted when they find love, because there’s too many people like her who’ve only dreamt about it but never found smh
Um, am not too sure if she is self aware. She needs a dating and relationship coach. Also , a self love coach. Also, she needs to have social interactions so to have something to do other than men. She’s doing too much. Also I think she progresses the conversations in her head before/without them happening in real life.
“Met him on Monday. He was jail on Tuesday. The other poked holes in the condom by Wednesday and was pregnant by dust on Thursday…and Friday Saturday and Sunday was making meals for my kid.” Ooof I need her to get some therapy and not interact with the opposite sex for a minute until her mental state is up to par. Sweet and yet story so tragic. Wish her the best ✌🏾. Never over extend oneself and boundaries, expectations and standards needs to be high. No exceptions.
I’m 5’ 9” and I legit have just heard of this height standard at my big ol age. As long as he was my height I was straight. Height has never been a consideration for me unless he was significantly shorter than me. Even then if he was a great guy and he was not insecure about the height difference then we could rock!
Judge Judy said a long time ago on her show, "If someone is telling you something and it makes no sense, it's probably a lie."
FACTS
RIIGGHHT!!! Tryna Piece that bs together with water. 💩 don’t stick or make no sense😳👀🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙅🏾♀️
RIGHT
Bingo!
It's not a lie. She's desperate and lacks self love. It happened
Holding down your husband could be honorable. Holding down a stranger you met 24 hours prior to him being imprisoned is down right nuts.
She lives in fantasy world.
spot the fuck on
These people are strange
Lmao, this is pure gold 🤣
@@nateword 😂😂😂
She the type who will talk alot and not make sense. And then repeat herself over and over till you just give up and say Ok.
I'm saying ok after the 1st part because this is my second time watching and I'm still confused
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Big fax
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There was absolutely no valid reason for her to talk about the prison guy
Or reggie
Absolutely
She felt validated telling that story. Insane
Preach
@@rogeliofelix13 : Odd that she didn't say much about the 4 year-old son's father, except that he didn't want to be part of the son's life. So why would he punch holes in the condom to get her pregnant in the first place?
She explained herself like 20 times and I’m still confused 😂
I restarted it twice and still confused 🤣😭
She explained herself 20 times and she's still confused.
You're still confused because you didn't catch what she was doing. She was blaming one guy for what she did with another guy. She bridged a connection in her head so you should catch that connection and realize that what happened wasn't her fault.
@@meloran2571 That's what Kendra was trying to solve in this ladies mind. She told 2 stories that don't connect.
@@newbeginnings3603 The woman know the name of the game is come up with any story where you blame the man and you get a pass. that's what she did. She just wanted you to bridge the connection without her actually pointing it out directly
It always amazes me how a woman will come on a dating show with hundreds to thousands of people looking and you don’t take time out to fix yourself up for the call
Thank you. Men like natural not raggedy, lord forgive me.
True but the men on here aint no better my guy. Wear a dingy t shirt, background all nasty, beard not trim etc but want a woman thats a dime lol
@@kant5696 point to the videos of all those men
NOW THATS REAL SHIT ILL NEVER EVER UNDERSTAND THAT THATS CRAZY 👍👍👍💯💯💯😂😂😂😂😂
Me too. I won't even FaceTime a guy if I'm not looking up to par. Let alone a youtube live show
She said he poked holes in the condom... I refuse to believe they even USED condoms
Men dont do this lol.....no man wants to have kids like that.
Right she’s full of it
We def knew that was a lie
She said he poked holes in the condom to have a baby. Then when the baby came he didn’t want to be a daddy. Really sister!
Man stop it, I damn near pissed my clothes laughing at this delusional broad. Now these comments going ham.🤬🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
She said her deal breakers is a person who can't have a conversation and a liar, but she described herself. Lol
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😂😂😂 OK Libra ‼️
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She blaming the dude in jail for getting pregnant by the other guy! Make it make sense smh no accountability
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Facts
I know right! I was thinking.... What is she talking about - She cant be serious 😮💨🤦🏾♀️?!?!
Smh! Then she said she was engaged for 7 years, which was supposed to be her last relationship. Her youngest child is 4. Absolutely none of it made sense.
Craziest shit I’ve heard in a while 🤦🏽♀️😂
I’m not even trying to be rude but something I’ve noticed is a lot of the people on this show are very classless. I get the typical aesthetic is suppose to be entertaining and all but why would you get on a dating show and not put on a cute top and do your hair and makeup at least a little? The least you can do is take queues from Kendra because she’s never not presentable. Black people in general need to hold themselves to a higher standard. I’ll never put a camera in my face looking like I just rolled out of bed because it’s literally no effort involved. And you want a man to take you seriously??? That’s a huge issue I’m sorry!!
Exactly!!! 👏🏽
Standards??? 😳😳.... be careful, you might get labeled. You're right though.
Agreed. Many I times I hear them say while wearing a bonnet "I was just getting ready for bed".
I just can't fathom calling into any show, no matter what platform unless it's a radio station while in nightclothes. A 'dating' show no less 😩
Right, because they are untidy.
Even if the call comes unexpectedly if you are a neat person no need to go get dressed.
I am 70 years old. At no time you will find me not dressed up. People call me glamorous grandma. I always say I am dressing up for Jesus in case he knocked on my door and need to open for him. Please sisters wake up.
Listen OMG!!! I can never understand this. I know people are trying to be real but dam!!
She isn’t delusional, she is lonely, desperate and lacks confidence
No, I'm adding delusional to that because that only makes sense to a delusional person
@@TBoogie76 I don't think y'all really understand what delusional means. To be delusional, is to be in a state of nothing real. Experiencing loneliness, desperation, and etc. is very real.
@@thefreebabe right. She isn’t delusional lol.
She is delusional, she thought she was in a relationship with a dude she met 24 hrs before he went to jail..
Very much so this is so sad I can't even believe want she is saying 😔
This conversation just took 10 years of my brain cells away…I want them back. Even KG is trying to make sense of it by saying it out loud.
That “I was holding him down” statement is the downfall of many black women. How about holding down a man that actually has something going on and not one that’s constantly struggling
Hmm that isn’t her situation tho. She didn’t hold him down: she held onto him for dear life. Nothing she said showed in any way that she held him down. She literally got pregnant by a somebody who never claimed her and didn’t acknowledge her child while dude was in prison and tried to blame him for it. Like tf
@@terickastidbits2342 Her holding him down was putting money on his books.
@@newbeginnings3603 not to mention she LITERALLY said she was holding him down. Like what.
She got played the downfall of many black women is the man that will provide and protect is corny. SMH Until they hit the wall
@@s.r.hadden525 nobody played her but herself! She literally started this story by saying she went on a date with him and the next day he was in jail!!! Like literally she signed up to throw money at a stranger. He don’t owe her nothing! She was a stranger who was desperate for attention! That’s on her!
Imagine going on a date, and a woman starts explaining all of this to you? I’m ordering water and going to the bathroom.
🤣🤣🤣🤣 Exactly....exit plan
Right! I’m saying I left my wallet in the car and heading home. Lol 😂
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@@kristinamcneil3340 😂😂😂
If I was on a date with her, and she starts TRYING to explain that crazy shit to me, I would've said "check, please", paid for MY meal, and walked out!
Straight up!
The glasses reference had me😅🤣
Poor girl didn't get it😭
Kendra did not wanna know where they came from lol
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 that was unreal!!!
LMAO😭😭😭 DEAD! You're EXACTLY right, she's dingy, goofy AF with no awareness 🥴
She didn’t get it🤦♀️🙈😂🤣😂
I was like damn 😅😂 that all made it make sense
@@BundleOfRolo ikr.bless her ❤ 🤣
The story about the prison guy was so irrelevant and made me feel like I was in the twilight zone 🥴
When the woman has a nice body 🗣”Girl you got a nice body girllll!!”
When the woman is fat 🗣”Look at you. I see you”
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🤣🤣🤣it's true, she totally says that
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🤣🤣🤣she don't want no problems, what she means is big girls need love too but she ain't gonna be the one to give it to dum
💯, 🐷🐷🐷🤬🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This conversation was a rollercoaster of insanity 😂
Absolute madness. 😅😅😅😂😂
Listen…I’m 🤯🤯🤯
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She seems like a sweet chick. Shorty one egg short of an omelette tho.
Lmao 😂 big facts
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She a while carton of eggs short of a omelette
Facts lol
You had me at went to prison … POF = “plenty of fools” !!
😂❤ up there with Ok Cupid = Ok Stupid
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And she was so happy to tell this sad tale of holding down some degenerate. She needs help Stat. Nothing about "holding down" a grown man is cute, nothing at all. That story had nothing to do with nothing but she was gleeful to talk about it. Make it make sense.
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She's so lonely and she wanted somebody to talk to about her unresolved trauma, so when she got the chance she had to bring up all the dudes who won't even go passed talking with her, including Reggie (which we clearly can't blame them, I had to fast forward through this mess. Mentally couldn't take the confusion.) She needs a friend and a therapist, not a man. No man could deal with this for any time.
She held down the Scranton Strangler for 2 years after one day, he must've broke her back before he went in.
She was using it to land a dude. Manipulative. Women who say "I can't stand taking care of men!" translates to "I take care of my men!" and they cant even see that. So quick to tell folks how other people did them wrong but they're actually giving an asshole the blueprint on how to play you. 🤦🤦🤦
That’s what I’m saying it doesn’t make sense
I have more questions about her mental stability than her dating life
Yup.she constantly talks in circles and has zero clarity over her decision-making skills. The dude in jail didn't need to be mentioned at all.
Hahahah..I jus said we gonna see her pic in the dam DSM
She sweet tho🤷🏾♀️
Fax!!
@@sherriew36yeah she just made herself look worse telling that story.
Because she sees things that aren’t there
Legend has it she still explaining herself 😂
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🤣🤣🤣Dat Prt
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Lawwwdddd she's exhausting 🥴🥴
“Holding him down” is just putting money on his books right?
Yup
Yup
taking phone calls & visiting too…
...and listening to stories and running the phone bill up
And maybe paying to maintain his shit/ managing his finances, paying his child support or other bills for him, figuring out his housing after he’s free for him
Fellas if you give her some, you're gonna have to change your number and move at least 1000 miles away... Leave her be unless you're desperate without options, and can handle a clingy bugaboo. With all that said, she's pretty, seems sweet, and loyal. She's just a bit confused and that's scary with a small child...
🤣🤣🤣 I think you're ✅️
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Too loyal apparently. The way I see it she needs to change her outlook and look out for herself more than those men she's meeting. Desperation makes you do silly things. I was initially a super kind person to ppl (male and female) and realised being kind didnt serve me well at all. Being too good can be a disadvantage. Nope not anymore I'm being selfish (as best as I can...its hard) and make myself the priority.
Wait... if the guy poked holes in the condom, why would he immediately abandon her? That makes absolutely no sense.
That's like ordering a pizza and then immediately throwing it away.
My thoughts exactly
bruh name a friend, enemy, family member, co-worker, neighbor, child hood friend that would actually do that. lol
She’s a liar
Heres some game...at a certain age when their choices slow down, they're having the next candidates baby regardless of who it is....30 something is a dangerous time for women
She might be telling on herself. She probably did it and is blaming the guy for not staying.
What kendra said about the glasses went over her head 😂😂
Completely 😂
It really did and I was laughing hard as heck. Bless her heart. Lol
Lmaooo that shit tickled meeeeee
Apparently, a lot of things go over her head 🤷🏿
lol it sure did
Been married over 20 years and it’s not that much conversation in the world. This generation have been confused by Hollywood because marriage is really simple
She has a lot of time alone and creates conversations in her head. Another 10 years she will be responding to her on conversations. She needs more social interactions and activities
😂 I love your assessment
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Yeah she was acting real slow....
Paul, you ain't 6-2...she don't want us bro. And I thank the Lord for her not wanting me.🤬🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭☠️
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As a therapist I can say, she has some work to do.
This comment is highly underrated 😂
As someone in PHP therapy right now, I can agree 😂
As a bagger at a grocery store, I agree.
@@arod325 😂😂😂😂
As a therapist, what do you think of Kendra's behavior
the way Kendra is able to JUST LISTEN is a skill on its own that she doesn’t get enough flowers for
😂😂😂😂 right!!!!
Some people are good very good listsners like myself!
Ummm Kendra can’t keep peoples info, job, location, name, number of kids straight and you got she’s a good listener 😂😂 this must be the first video you’ve watched
@@lalaess2426 I was thinking the same thing
@@lalaess2426 I was thinking the same. She doesn't listen most of the time. Kendra will say someone's name then say "what's your name baby" 😆😂🤣
Why did she bring up the prison guy if he wasn't the father?
This is very sad. She sees men through rose colored glasses even after they use her and toss her aside. I pray for her and her children’s protection because she’s a very soft target
It far deeper than that. She goes into bad situations without an ounce of introspection. It is like picking up a homeless man off the streets and taking him home and having a baby by him.
Nah.. That’s self inflicted ..
@Big Dawg Ent Y’all are partly to blame. Taking advantage of weak women. Also her father is to blame for not teaching her how his kind are. So yes men and to blame.
B careful she might take of her glasses and check to see if it’s “Rose colored “
"If you have to wonder whether he likes you or not, then he doesn't. You will KNOW if a man likes you or not." Thanks for the gem, Kendra G. Hopefully it will help a lot of women who over extend themselves when they should be running.
Actually terrible advice. Women play games. A lot of men arent going to play along and chase women or "apply pressure," especially if they have other options. Women will not respond to your call/message then hit you up later calling you stranger and saying how you must have found someone else lol.
Totally agree
Yes!!! And I repeat YOU WILL KNOW.. ain’t no guessing or confusion. No back and forth.. no competing (in a harmful manner- meaning he/she talking to 5 different people at once.. but just being busy with their lives is different) because he or she will let you feel so secure and safe.
True! My now husband was very upfront when we were dating. In less than 3 months without me asking he gave me the keys to his house and the code to unlock his iPad and phone. He made it very clear he was not playing around.
I can tell you right now why she doesn’t have friends. She’s one of those women who are still boy crazy. We’ve all had that coworker or neighbor who’s nice enough, seems cool and down to earth, but only wants to talk about her man issues or wanting a man or looking for a man, etc. No sense of self identity outside of men. And no one wants to be friends with that, it’s exhausting.
You sound like the type ...that's hangs out with single women all the. Telling each how great it is to be alone.
It’s so true, I’ve had friends like this and it is exhausting. There’s more to life than men.
LMFAO
My cousin moved her prisoner boyfriend in financed him a Dodge Challenger and if she’s around he’s all she talks about. She bragged that he gives her his foodstamp card. 🤦🏽♀️
@@gonegirl9114 the way I just screameddd 😂😂😂
She doesn’t know who the baby daddy is…point blank.
Agreed. Why go into so much detail about prison boy and Reggie, but provide no details at all on the father, or any follow-up on his child support?
She rambles, has scattered thoughts and makes irrational decisions. She needs to be checked for ADHD.
I talk like that at times. Currently getting tested 😂
Agree
maybe autism as well
I have ADHD and I agree.. she also needs therapy because she's super desperate
ADHD is a spirit. Scatter mind, and confusion,
Kendra these people are calling into your show for HELP HELP , they’re masking the wanting a relationship thing with “PLEASE HELP ME MENTALLY” it’s actually concerning 😬
Soooo True!!
Yeah I definitely peeped this with the last couple of videos I’ve watched
She lost me at "I was holding him down in prison..a day after meeting him on Plenty Of Fish?". She dumb as a box of rocks. Time yourself out & Go Get Help!
Ty! Plan dumb
POF is a mf.....lol !!!
He got a commissary dummy.
@sherriew36 Jeeez... we all know "holding him down in prison " meant commissary. She dumb because she just met his azz on POF the day before!! U must be related to her 🤡
I need her in my life , I would be debt free in a Lambo ! 😂
YOU ARE SINGLE BECAUSE YOU ARE ALL OVER THE PLACE WITH YOUR WORDS, ACTIONS AND SPIRIT 😊😊😊😊😊😊
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She says she likes to communicate😳🤔. And at first men will start talking to her but after awhile they’ll stop…Between the oversharing, not answering questions directly, circular stories with no objective, spontaneous utterances, blaming prison bae for a random man impregnating her, fiancé’s inconsistent timeline (although he was the perfect man, but she left him for prison bae😨), I was thoroughly confused🥴
We all were LOL if mentally ill was a person it’s in this video
Eloquent breakdown sis
Thoroughly confused. Sis is all over the place.
My exact thoughts. Then to get on here with a bonnet and a torn shirt. 🤦🏽♀️
She’s self medicating her mental health condition with male attention and getting cross interactions. Then forgets she’s already taken her daily dose.
I feel dumb because I have NO idea what's going on when she starts talking 😬
Kudos to Kendra for being able to get some chronology out of this story.
It’s not just you, I’m beyond lost! 😩
Wat the FUUUUUUUK IS SHE TAAAAKIN BOUT
Yea I was so lost like what are you talking about ma’am 🧐
She's all over the place and can't keep the stories she tells straight.
Dizzy broad 😂 😂 😂
Kendra's face when she said that she wanted a 6'2 man 😂😂😂
She makes the best facial expressions
Out of shape, delusions of grandeur, ditzy, naive, a receptionist, 2 kids with a man who doesn't want her or the kids, dealing with jail birds and holding down strangers? This is an entire mess.
Yepppppp. Say it again for the people in the back!
I'm so confused
we all are because she is speaking confusion
She’s confused too. We all are.
I'm not confused at all; but this lady is confused. She's walking confusion like most modern woman who live based on inane modern woman logic of feelings, zodiac astrology, manifesting and vibes. She's just the worst of what all of them are to some lesser extent.
@@Yobachi2007 yeah maybe, I don't know I'm too old to consider myself a modern woman, well at least I think I am, and I've been with my husband for 15 years married for 10 so I don't know what it's like to be single in these times so I can't judge her
@@Yobachi2007 men are just as delusional however instead of astrology men believe in imaginary earning potential and future riches and worrying about gold diggers with no gold. Or thinking they are more handsome than they actually are.
Laaaawwwddd The stories made no type of sense… then she continued to try to make it make sense..?????
My head is still spinning 😫
Talking to her would drive me crazy
she lying.. when confusion enters the chat, it's a lie(s) mixed in.
This was nothing short of sad and infuriating. I need someone to check on the children.
I need a vin diagram to understand this story. I’m so confused!
"Venn" diagram.
🤣🤣🤣
And even that won’t help.
It seems like she's going around the truth to avoid accountability! 39 is too old to be this confused and distorted.
@@steevehoyoufat9155 thank you, I stand corrected. 🙂
She’s laughing and smiling like this is a joke when really it’s a shame. The decisions our women make is horrible!
Unfortunately she tends to likes men way more than they like her…at least that’s what it seems like.
Cos she's going for the top 5%. "At least 6'2" cuts out most men.
She don’t like herself
RIGHT
Maybe it's her size! She date trash men
Thats most women
The question initially was “why aren’t you with the 4year olds father”? She proceeded to talk about being in love with a stranger who went to jail and he’s NOT the 4year old child’s father!🤪
😂
That part!😂😂😂😂
Kendra never made her go back to the baby's father.
@@battle-techsshe shouldn’t have to keep her on topic…
a relationship is definitely not something that she needs right now. She needs standards, self esteem and a therapist . Sis, you also have to learn to put yourself first
She seems so sweet and bubbly, I hope her king finds her 🥰🙏🏽
You take here
That's won't be me.
The way Kenda looked to the side after the lady said 6’2”😂😂😂
"Because I'm 5'4...so I need him to be about 6'2." Why he gotta be damn near a foot taller than you though 🤔? Also. Claiming a prison dude after 1 internet conversion is mad WILD!😅
Kendra wears a lot of hats during the show A honest friend , a dating show , counselor , a comedian and than some 🤦🏾♀️I love Kendra 😘
I was this close 🤏 to thinking you meant actual hats. I was like, “ya I really love this whole red look with the beret.”😅
She seems like there’s some deep healing to do and I just wish that soooo much for her! If you need a friend girl I’ll tell you the truth. 😆 Hope all is well with you now Jovan!! 🙏🙏🙏
That jail dude had a bunch of girls, he literally used a dating to find anyone desperate enough😭
It’s a shame how many women are okay with a “prison bae.” 🙄
Right, he knew he was about to get locked down…he set himself up for a cushy bid
Assuming the jail dude ever existed.
I bet he been telling her he didn’t want her for a long time. She don’t seem like she dealing with a full deck. Her conversation was all over the place, from the beginning. Then she talk about a previous guy on the show. Said they had a connection but then said they not talking no more and it was mutual. You can tell he didn’t want to be bother he broke it off with her.
Yeah, he was like _Hey baby, I have 3 babies mommas, three other women on the side and I am about to be locked up...oh and I'm 6'3"_ and all the ladies swooned and said *Yasss, he's 6'3"!* 😍
This lady worked my nerves and needs deliverance from the spirit of CONFUSIA
All she have done was open herself up to be used again. I hope not But I really doubt it! There wasn't any need to tell that story about dude in Jail especially if you didn't count it as a "relationship".
Whoever gets used choose to be used
Agreed because that was pointless and super confusing I’m thinking they meet on day one did the jungle boogie and home boy went to jail and she found out she was pregnant weeks later like oh ok. 😂 don’t mention this situation ship 😂
If you can see my comment can you tell me what’s going on with the comment section on TH-cam? It says there are a certain amount of comments but I click on the comments and see nothing
That’s was her immature way on not be accountable for her mistakes #BlameTheMan#Victimhoodmember
She was talking way too much 🤦🏽♀️
She's too confused to be dating right now. 🤦🏾♀️
I truly thank God for allowing me to dodge all the bullets that I've dodged.
Are you married?
Me too girl. I’m so happy God grabbed me when he did
Points for getting on an international show: no du-rags or bonnets, present a bit of your best self, and have a serious point of view about what you are looking for. She has beautiful teeth. That is all I am gonna say.
well what do you expect? There was a guy and even women who's hated for telling women to stop presenting themselves this way in public.
She is not delusional. she is lonely and desperate 😔
She's almost 40 and chooses men like a stupid adolescent. Don't like the word delusional? Idiotic, imbecilic, moronic, feckless, reckless also describe this pathetic creature. She practices the self-inflating lies to describe her work: she's a receptionist at a radiology clinic but presents it like she has medical credentials and that makes her DELUSIONAL, TOO.
She's delusional
And delusional
She has had at least two men in this story. That is HER MO! SHE IS NOW LOOKING FOR ANOTHER MAN!
"he poked holes in the condom..." Yeah right! Who does she think she is, Oprah???
Sounded ludicrous as hell😂
No one pokes holes anywhere unless it’s Drake
She's telling her side...we haven't heard from him😂😂
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Girl he never put it on 😂
She seems like a sweet lady but she’s gonna hold your ear hostage.
Right… and seems like she has arrested development
😂😂😂
Multiple kids? Check! Different fathers? Check! Jailbird ex? Check! Bad decision making? Check! Emotional baggage/Unresolved Relationship Issues? Check! What man with any sense (or standards) would be interested in this nonsense?
Facts
A guy who needs a place to stay might
She is so freaking confusing!!!OMG, SHE IS TALKING A WHOLE LOT OF NOTHING AND ABOUT NOBODY 😅😅😅😅😅😅😅😅
She needed someone to talk to. 🤯🙄😔
Kendra doing the Lord's work. God bless her!
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I can appreciate Kendra's patience and line of questioning. Thank you for trying to help this woman.
Us fellas aren't even trying to comprehend this malarkey...99.9% of us just said "Aight, that's what's up." 😂😂😂
Why did she even mention the prison guy. What does he have to do with anything?
Everyone is talking down on her but I honestly feel so bad for her and her self worth. I pray she finds peace and love🙏🏾
Pray for therapy. Praying is fine, But that doesn't do anything in the physical world. Praying allows people to sit around waiting for a miracle instead of studying and working hard for what you want in life. It's a very lazy way of dealing with ones problems. God doesn't just give someone peace and love that they didn't work for. God rewards hard work.
Women ALWAYS give women a pass for doing dumb stuff!
praying is good but please slide her a referral to a therapist. faith without works is dead.
She too old for that
Thanks for the positivity
She seems a bit codependent. I would focus on healing, getting therapy or take up a creative hobby.
She’s chronically codependent. I feel bad for her!
Face palm, this sister represents so many of us. I'm just gonna pray for us black woman... Let's do better please!
As a black woman, I can assure you that she does not represent me or anyone in my friend group. We wouldn’t go to a gas station looking like this or talking like her. It’s truly embarrassing.
Very educational and entertaining show Kendra. Sending luv from Trinidad and Tobago.
She lives in my city. I wanna reach out so bad and be a friend but I already know my patience aint long enough lol
Good luck get ready for drama
Don’t. 😂
Girl, I believe in you lol. You can do it. Just take short intervals at a time lol. And don't try to make sense of anything she tells you. Just say "Uh huh, yeah, ok" a lot and just impart your own wisdom 🙏🏽❤
Leave that cray cray alone
Don’t even do it to yourself Ms. sky! She will talk your ear off😂
Kendra looked amazing in this episode with her red beret hat and red shirt!!!
It's crazy that she was holding down a stranger 😳 😕 💀 she should have kept that foolery to herself.
She so goofy. Like it was LITERALLY unnecessary to mention.
In my Katt Williams voice, “I don’t think I would’ve told that”
Poor judgement +no accountability + doesn't know what a relationship is = hot mess 🙄🤣
I’ve never felt so lost and dumb in my life😂
😂
😂😂😂😂😂Right
Bruh 😂😂😂😂
Lol same
Facts 😳
This was very hard to watch/listen to. Wishing her some standards, expectations, and boundaries.
Whenever a person says that the break up was mutual, they’re lying. Usually if you ask “who decision was it to break up?” the person that initiated the break up will say “it was me” lol
I can’t watch the whole episode, it’s too painful😮. Prayers for Jovan…
Hear we go. She said fiancé 5 years ago. But your son is 4???
I thought she said 7 years ago, smh! None of it made any sense.
It was 7 years ago but they was together for 5 years
The math ain’t mathing
Graduated but holding someone down that u knew for 24hrs 🤦🏽♀️ tf wrong with her 🤨
This lady bless her heart her story telling is like being on a rollercoaster. My brain cells 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄😩😩😩😩
She’s NOT delusional, she’s just a LIAR‼️🤦🏾♀️
If you think she’s lieing, you are more delusional than her.
She's attractive, has a Masters degree and a nice career. She has a lot of potential and is probably a great woman. She seems sweet but too insecure and willing to do whatever. I pray that she heals, grows, and learns what real love is ❤️ she has to also learn how to and set boundaries! God please be with her and her children... keep the wolves away.
Not taking away from her, I was surprised she was a scheduler… that’s a h.s. Diploma type of job
She's sweet but she looks like someone's grandma
I think she said bachelor's
@@trigreeng450very true...I was assuming the pay was allowing her to settle. I know in my city those positions cap in the $30 plus range hourly.. but you're right!
Sweet? I want other women to see your comment...so women can see what men are dealing with.
She ain’t ready for no relationship outside of a relationship with God and a Psychiatrist
Wow This lady puts so much weight on people who barely had any significant standing in her life, which is very concerning. Her desperation to be loved is going to have her continually be used. Therapy is the only thing she should be seeking now. Have to find self love and respect before expecting it from others. People have to appreciate and not take for granted when they find love, because there’s too many people like her who’ve only dreamt about it but never found smh
Black men, Pookies and Ray Rays are winning.
If she say... holding him down... ONE MORE TIME. It's not cute
I'ma hold your comment down
She has chemistry with some guy from a past show but they didn't workout. Im sorry she is a nice lady but my head now hurts from listening to her.
😂🤣😅
Um, am not too sure if she is self aware. She needs a dating and relationship coach. Also , a self love coach. Also, she needs to have social interactions so to have something to do other than men. She’s doing too much. Also I think she progresses the conversations in her head before/without them happening in real life.
Borderline personality disorder
She needs therapy. Too much magical thinking...
Guys don't poke holes in condoms...
“Met him on Monday. He was jail on Tuesday. The other poked holes in the condom by Wednesday and was pregnant by dust on Thursday…and Friday Saturday and Sunday was making meals for my kid.”
Ooof I need her to get some therapy and not interact with the opposite sex for a minute until her mental state is up to par. Sweet and yet story so tragic. Wish her the best ✌🏾.
Never over extend oneself and boundaries, expectations and standards needs to be high. No exceptions.
Yep u hit it rite on the head 💯😂
😂😂😂😂😂😢
mannnn lololol
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Why would he purposely get you pregnant and choose to abandon the child? She’s clearly lying.
That’s what I was thinking…
Exactly, thats what she keep telling herself because it's probably not his baby
It happens!
@CheekyLovesCheeseCake:) cap. Y’all just lie to avoid accountability.
Exactly
I’m 5’ 9” and I legit have just heard of this height standard at my big ol age. As long as he was my height I was straight. Height has never been a consideration for me unless he was significantly shorter than me. Even then if he was a great guy and he was not insecure about the height difference then we could rock!
She had me confused for a solid 5 min. 😂
It's ok.
I was confused the remainder of the time 😂
I understand Kendra wants to help everyone but some are truly too far gone .