Thank you! All points were spot on. I especially needed to hear the part about them being your kids and setting boundaries no matter who is watching them. I’ve been struggling with this since, like you said, our caregiver options are limited. Our kids deserve the best and we need to advocate for the best care for them. ❤
I am crying. Lol it almost felt like you were giving me validation for all the things I have been feeling. Talking to my girlfriends with a singleton they try to empathize, but it's just not the same. Thank you for this 💕
Yes yes yes!! To ALL these points my twins are the same age as yours and I love watching their relationship grow 💗 but being a twin mom is soooo hard!! Be proud of yourself , you are amazing!
That last point 🤍 so much grief in being a ftm to twins. It’s so hard not to go bitter over it sometimes. Every point you shared I can resonate with 🤍 this **** is soooo hard. But also so rewarding!
you’re not alone in any of the thoughts or feelings you’ve had - we’re all there with you and it doesn’t make us love our kids any less 🤍sh** is most definitely not for the weak 🫶🏼
Thank you Courtney for these words. From a French twin mom of two daughters the same age as yours. Every part of it is so true and it makes me feel understood and not alone. My husband and I, we love our daughters so much, but we often wonder how it would be like to be singleton parents. The love is real, so is the challenge.
Enjoyed listening to this thoroughly from start to finish while agreeing with everything you stated! There’s a reason twin moms congratulate each other after making it through the first year! Appreciate you for sharing this! God bless you and your family!
Literally crying on your last point of can’t imagining a life with only one of them. It’s so so true but also We talk all the time like after changing one diaper like oh wow can you imagine if we had 1, we would be done now but I have to change another etc etc. I don’t know if it’s because we have identical twins but we always tell the story to our girls that our baby a , Frankie was lonely in there and knew she would want a friend so she said copy, paste and made Vanessa 🩷🩷🩷🩷 and I think I feel it most when I see babies at a brewery with just their mom, like I can’t handle them both out like that! But it’s the most special thing 🎀🎀
oh the diaper changing i think about all the time! when mothers say “yes my husband handled all the diapers at the beginning” im like oh did he that’s amazing 🥵🥵 not an option for us with two bums to clean! I love that story oh my goodness I may have to steal that for our girls, how precious 🥺
As a mom of a 5 yr old girl and 15 month old twin girls I have to say I agree with PUT THEM ON A SCHEDULE as soon as you can & embrace the beautiful s***show ❤😂
Love your channel ❤ I'm the only boy and always wanted to have a brother and even wanted a identical twin brother 🤣 and my mom was a twin too. I love twins like Tia and Tamera etc. God bless Courtney and your husband and your twins ❤
The parasocial relationship is strong cuz im replying out loud like we’re having a conversation 😂❤️
Just us gals hanging out!
Thank you! All points were spot on. I especially needed to hear the part about them being your kids and setting boundaries no matter who is watching them. I’ve been struggling with this since, like you said, our caregiver options are limited. Our kids deserve the best and we need to advocate for the best care for them. ❤
I am crying. Lol it almost felt like you were giving me validation for all the things I have been feeling. Talking to my girlfriends with a singleton they try to empathize, but it's just not the same. Thank you for this 💕
Absolutely giving you validation for ALL the feelings 🤍
loved this so much! very much so on the same page as a twin mom as well - my girls will be one this month!
happy birthday to your babes + cheers to one year of motherhood for YOU mama 🤍
Yes yes yes!! To ALL these points my twins are the same age as yours and I love watching their relationship grow 💗 but being a twin mom is soooo hard!! Be proud of yourself , you are amazing!
YOU are amazing ✨
That last point 🤍 so much grief in being a ftm to twins. It’s so hard not to go bitter over it sometimes. Every point you shared I can resonate with 🤍 this **** is soooo hard. But also so rewarding!
you’re not alone in any of the thoughts or feelings you’ve had - we’re all there with you and it doesn’t make us love our kids any less 🤍sh** is most definitely not for the weak 🫶🏼
Thank you Courtney for these words. From a French twin mom of two daughters the same age as yours. Every part of it is so true and it makes me feel understood and not alone. My husband and I, we love our daughters so much, but we often wonder how it would be like to be singleton parents. The love is real, so is the challenge.
“the love is real, so is the challenge” - two things can be true at the same time 🫶🏼 sending you so much love mama thank you for being here
I'm a twin mom, totally agree with you about the schedule, it's just necessary. It's very tough but manageable 😊❤
Wauw, yes, I agree with all your points. The one about asking help really hit me ❤
Enjoyed listening to this thoroughly from start to finish while agreeing with everything you stated!
There’s a reason twin moms congratulate each other after making it through the first year!
Appreciate you for sharing this! God bless you and your family!
I always say happy birthday to the mamas because phew, WE need to celebrate too! 🤭
Literally crying on your last point of can’t imagining a life with only one of them. It’s so so true but also We talk all the time like after changing one diaper like oh wow can you imagine if we had 1, we would be done now but I have to change another etc etc. I don’t know if it’s because we have identical twins but we always tell the story to our girls that our baby a , Frankie was lonely in there and knew she would want a friend so she said copy, paste and made Vanessa 🩷🩷🩷🩷 and I think I feel it most when I see babies at a brewery with just their mom, like I can’t handle them both out like that! But it’s the most special thing 🎀🎀
oh the diaper changing i think about all the time! when mothers say “yes my husband handled all the diapers at the beginning” im like oh did he that’s amazing 🥵🥵 not an option for us with two bums to clean!
I love that story oh my goodness I may have to steal that for our girls, how precious 🥺
I feel so seen! Can you link the video about how you handled sleep training?
here you go! th-cam.com/video/n0uil2nrPi0/w-d-xo.htmlsi=Q_yoO4Ix2FD6EhAQ
As a mom of a 5 yr old girl and 15 month old twin girls I have to say I agree with PUT THEM ON A SCHEDULE as soon as you can
& embrace the beautiful s***show ❤😂
YES MAM!
Love your channel ❤ I'm the only boy and always wanted to have a brother and even wanted a identical twin brother 🤣 and my mom was a twin too. I love twins like Tia and Tamera etc. God bless Courtney and your husband and your twins ❤
Tia and Tamera are the GOAT twins ❤️ thanks for always leaving love on my channel I appreciate you being here!
❤❤😊😊😊