I think that this topic is interesting, and I think that once again such awesome work in this topic and video, is at its very truest level professional at its core, I have seen your videos, and the topics you have chosen raises much interest for many. Many of the topics you always bring to the table are very important for many to understand, and even for some be educated about as well, through someone like you. I have always said to my friends here in America who ask me many of the questions about Ukraine or Ukrainians to always ask a Ukrainian, they can and will always, and maybe even love to tell you guys (my American friends) all about Ukraine and Ukrainians, if perhaps they are not too busy. Awesome work Mary, Really Awesome. Thank you again From USA-❤🤍💙 = ❤'s =💙💛
Leadership qualities are looked down on? Oh no, that’s a tragedy! Taking the lead and bring a product or service to the free market is basically the foundation of capitalism. It is exactly what you do to become wealthy. Solve problems for others. You are serving others and making a good living from it. That is not selfish or anything to look down on. I hope the younger generations in Ukraine get this right….
My friends are all ages and many are very different. I enjoy and learn much from all these different world views. I appreciate people who are not interested in conforming 🙂
Mary--I love the way you research and think and you are a very effective communicator... You also have a very likable personality. I grew up in a rural part of the United States near the beach (Grayland, Washington). Some kids left home and became independent as young as 14 but the norm was very much 18. Anyone at home after 20 was considered to have something wrong with them. Actually, they should have also been married by the early twenties. However, things have changed a lot since then. More people stay with their parents long and those who move out tend to have room mates. This is because housing has become so scarce and expensive. When I was in middle or high school, being different might have been a reason to bully but I think that has reversed now. Different is the norm. I actually like it because the world is so much more colorful and diverse. I used to think that a girl wearing makeup was disguising who she really is but now I feel like the body we are born in isn't necessarily a reflection of who we really are. So, when I see colored hair and other interesting visual aspects of a person, I think the person is more open and expressive of who he/she is. I noticed from videos in Ukraine that tattoos are very popular. I also thought tattoos are for people who don't have enough scars. I don't have any tattoos but every scar has a story behind it. I assume every tattoo also has a story. One day, I want to get a tattoo but I always feel as if it has to be for a meaningful event and the design must perfectly match the event. This is similar to how I bought really nice expensive hand-made leather books with blank pages thinking I will write the most profound things in them. Years later, they sit on my shelf and I dare not write anything in them. Maybe I will never get a tattoo. I know I will never color my hair or get any kind of piercing because that is just not who I am. I feel like I am a person who should have short, well-kept hair. That said, I can and do admire the more expressive styles of others. Recently, I started shopping for slightly different styles of clothing because I want to look a little more sharp. My Ukrainian language teacher helped me look for some Italian styles online. Every so often she tells me I am already handsome. I think she senses some insecurity and is trying to make me feel better. In truth, my insecurities are more about making my life more meaningful. I appreciate her, though. She is a great teacher but also a really nice person. As for entrepreneurship in Ukraine, this is something I pay attention to. I have started and run several IT-related businesses in the United States. They are challenging and truly fun. I want to start another and wonder if I could find a team in Kyiv. I know there is a thriving IT and startup culture in the Podil district. In time, I am sure Ukrainians will see entrepreneurship in a more positive light. In a place where nobody has faith, those who do have faith have all the more potential to excel. As for Ukrainian's antagonism toward government and politicians, I think this is unfortunate but understandable. I notice that Ukrainians sometimes gain great hope in a specific individual thinking that person will fix everything only to be disappointed in the results later. From my reading, this seems to be the norm in Ukrainian politics. At the same time, I notice that Ukrainians don't give themselves the credit they deserve cohesively as a people in forcing change for the better. It is not any individual leader who will save the nation. It is all the people with their strong will for change and willingness to sacrifice in order to make that change come true. Corruption in Ukraine is still high by the standards of the First World but the rate of improvement is remarkable and the trajectory is inspiring. I think Ukrainians love their children and want them to live in a better world. Euromaiden made that clear enough. Those who believe they are great stand on the precipice of a great fall. Those who view themselves in humility yet aspire to greatness in terms of love for all are those who will find greatness in nearly every other way, as well. It is not what we have that makes us great or successful. It is far, far more who we are. Ukraine is on the right path. Russia is well into its fall. The United States is at a place where it could go in either direction.
Thank you for such an interesting extended comment. I found it interesting and valuable to read your experiences and reflections. And also, thanks for the compliments, it's my pleasure 💖🥰 I too am of the opinion that there is a story behind every action in expressing appearance. In fact, I think people do it for a certain sense of self. When I was a teenager I used to change my looks a lot, dye my hair different colors, I rarely do that now and honestly I think when I did it I was running away from my old self in a way 🙈 I like your thought process. When I thought about getting a tattoo, I wanted it to be something meaningful too. If you decide for yourself that you want a tattoo, that's your choice. And I wish you that everything will turn out easy and you will be satisfied ☺️ As for Ukrainian employees in the IT field, I think it is a good idea, because they cost less than in America, and they will be able to do high quality work. We have developed this direction and many beginners and already experienced professionals. I wish you good luck in your business 🍀 and I was happy to answer you 💖
@@Mary_Yen thank you. I find myself increasingly curious about what your next video topic will be. Also this might sound a little strange but I keep thinking of when you mentioned how Ukrainians like our American holiday, Holloween. You're right. It really is fun. So, I actually dreamed about throwing a Holloween party in Kyiv. In my dream, I spend only $200 USD but threw a nice party providing materials for people to make their own costumes.
One downside of the American approach emphasizing independence and success is that we tend to be more distant from our families. I think a happy medium would be more ideal.
Fascinating insights into the post-Soviet generational divide! It all makes sense. Previously, success could be attained primarily through patronage; everyone else's lot was to work what that generation calls "real jobs." If any of your relatives criticize you, just remind them that the money earned from creative careers spends just as well. 🙂 I hadn't considered the contrast between the US's highly individualistic culture, the conformist culture of the SSR period, and the friction that may result. So, being bullied for standing out (we call this 'crab mentality') makes sense. 18 is the more typical age of independence here too. It coincides with children going to university. Because of the high cost of nearly anything in the US, many kids continue to live at home until they graduate, but many live in dormitories while attending university. It is typical for parents to continue to provide financial assistance (and laundry service) during their children's university years. The "nest is empty" (American expression) once the children have embarked upon careers of their own and have their own places. It's quite rare for children to leave home earlier because they cannot sign a lease, have no credit, and cannot afford to live independently. Thanks for giving us so much to think about, Mary!
Great video. America is big and varies. Many of the things you mentioned up to child independence are actually largely the same in America. The world thinks America embraces the whole "I have to be different" and political correctness nonsense, but basically that's a loud percentage of the big cities. Most of us regard them as morons. As far as independence, living with parents until 18-22 is normal. Later is generally stretching it. Yes, leadership is good. Success is more beloved among older generations.
I worked jobs for extra spending money by around 16 years old, and was living independently at 18 years old. Most people I know left their parents house around 18, as that is when high school ends. My sister lived with my parents for 3 years of college before moving out. But if you’re still living with your parents at age 30, generally you are seen as nothing but a lazy failure - and your parents are looked down upon by society also for enabling it! (American) Дякую за відео
Will Ukrainian women take time getting into a relationship? The few ladies I have met from Ukraine were on average around 27 years old and have only had 1 or 2 boyfriends in their life?
I think that this topic is interesting, and I think that once again such awesome work in this topic and video, is at its very truest level professional at its core, I have seen your videos, and the topics you have chosen raises much interest for many. Many of the topics you always bring to the table are very important for many to understand, and even for some be educated about as well, through someone like you. I have always said to my friends here in America who ask me many of the questions about Ukraine or Ukrainians to always ask a Ukrainian, they can and will always, and maybe even love to tell you guys (my American friends) all about Ukraine and Ukrainians, if perhaps they are not too busy. Awesome work Mary, Really Awesome. Thank you again From USA-❤🤍💙 = ❤'s =💙💛
Dude. Living on their own at 15 is weird in the US. 18 is the norm, although that's starting to change thanks to the ridiculous housing market here.
Paying rent to one’s own parents if still living with them seems to be the norm from age 18 or 22. Hard for me to wrap my mind around.
Leadership qualities are looked down on? Oh no, that’s a tragedy! Taking the lead and bring a product or service to the free market is basically the foundation of capitalism. It is exactly what you do to become wealthy. Solve problems for others. You are serving others and making a good living from it. That is not selfish or anything to look down on. I hope the younger generations in Ukraine get this right….
My friends are all ages and many are very different. I enjoy and learn much from all these different world views. I appreciate people who are not interested in conforming 🙂
I love observing and learning new things from people too)))
Mary--I love the way you research and think and you are a very effective communicator... You also have a very likable personality. I grew up in a rural part of the United States near the beach (Grayland, Washington). Some kids left home and became independent as young as 14 but the norm was very much 18. Anyone at home after 20 was considered to have something wrong with them. Actually, they should have also been married by the early twenties. However, things have changed a lot since then. More people stay with their parents long and those who move out tend to have room mates. This is because housing has become so scarce and expensive. When I was in middle or high school, being different might have been a reason to bully but I think that has reversed now. Different is the norm. I actually like it because the world is so much more colorful and diverse. I used to think that a girl wearing makeup was disguising who she really is but now I feel like the body we are born in isn't necessarily a reflection of who we really are. So, when I see colored hair and other interesting visual aspects of a person, I think the person is more open and expressive of who he/she is. I noticed from videos in Ukraine that tattoos are very popular. I also thought tattoos are for people who don't have enough scars. I don't have any tattoos but every scar has a story behind it. I assume every tattoo also has a story. One day, I want to get a tattoo but I always feel as if it has to be for a meaningful event and the design must perfectly match the event. This is similar to how I bought really nice expensive hand-made leather books with blank pages thinking I will write the most profound things in them. Years later, they sit on my shelf and I dare not write anything in them. Maybe I will never get a tattoo. I know I will never color my hair or get any kind of piercing because that is just not who I am. I feel like I am a person who should have short, well-kept hair. That said, I can and do admire the more expressive styles of others. Recently, I started shopping for slightly different styles of clothing because I want to look a little more sharp. My Ukrainian language teacher helped me look for some Italian styles online. Every so often she tells me I am already handsome. I think she senses some insecurity and is trying to make me feel better. In truth, my insecurities are more about making my life more meaningful. I appreciate her, though. She is a great teacher but also a really nice person.
As for entrepreneurship in Ukraine, this is something I pay attention to. I have started and run several IT-related businesses in the United States. They are challenging and truly fun. I want to start another and wonder if I could find a team in Kyiv. I know there is a thriving IT and startup culture in the Podil district. In time, I am sure Ukrainians will see entrepreneurship in a more positive light. In a place where nobody has faith, those who do have faith have all the more potential to excel.
As for Ukrainian's antagonism toward government and politicians, I think this is unfortunate but understandable. I notice that Ukrainians sometimes gain great hope in a specific individual thinking that person will fix everything only to be disappointed in the results later. From my reading, this seems to be the norm in Ukrainian politics. At the same time, I notice that Ukrainians don't give themselves the credit they deserve cohesively as a people in forcing change for the better. It is not any individual leader who will save the nation. It is all the people with their strong will for change and willingness to sacrifice in order to make that change come true. Corruption in Ukraine is still high by the standards of the First World but the rate of improvement is remarkable and the trajectory is inspiring. I think Ukrainians love their children and want them to live in a better world. Euromaiden made that clear enough.
Those who believe they are great stand on the precipice of a great fall. Those who view themselves in humility yet aspire to greatness in terms of love for all are those who will find greatness in nearly every other way, as well. It is not what we have that makes us great or successful. It is far, far more who we are. Ukraine is on the right path. Russia is well into its fall. The United States is at a place where it could go in either direction.
Thank you for such an interesting extended comment. I found it interesting and valuable to read your experiences and reflections. And also, thanks for the compliments, it's my pleasure 💖🥰
I too am of the opinion that there is a story behind every action in expressing appearance. In fact, I think people do it for a certain sense of self. When I was a teenager I used to change my looks a lot, dye my hair different colors, I rarely do that now and honestly I think when I did it I was running away from my old self in a way 🙈
I like your thought process. When I thought about getting a tattoo, I wanted it to be something meaningful too. If you decide for yourself that you want a tattoo, that's your choice. And I wish you that everything will turn out easy and you will be satisfied ☺️
As for Ukrainian employees in the IT field, I think it is a good idea, because they cost less than in America, and they will be able to do high quality work. We have developed this direction and many beginners and already experienced professionals.
I wish you good luck in your business 🍀 and I was happy to answer you 💖
@@Mary_Yen thank you. I find myself increasingly curious about what your next video topic will be. Also this might sound a little strange but I keep thinking of when you mentioned how Ukrainians like our American holiday, Holloween. You're right. It really is fun. So, I actually dreamed about throwing a Holloween party in Kyiv. In my dream, I spend only $200 USD but threw a nice party providing materials for people to make their own costumes.
One downside of the American approach emphasizing independence and success is that we tend to be more distant from our families. I think a happy medium would be more ideal.
Fascinating insights into the post-Soviet generational divide! It all makes sense. Previously, success could be attained primarily through patronage; everyone else's lot was to work what that generation calls "real jobs." If any of your relatives criticize you, just remind them that the money earned from creative careers spends just as well. 🙂 I hadn't considered the contrast between the US's highly individualistic culture, the conformist culture of the SSR period, and the friction that may result. So, being bullied for standing out (we call this 'crab mentality') makes sense.
18 is the more typical age of independence here too. It coincides with children going to university. Because of the high cost of nearly anything in the US, many kids continue to live at home until they graduate, but many live in dormitories while attending university. It is typical for parents to continue to provide financial assistance (and laundry service) during their children's university years. The "nest is empty" (American expression) once the children have embarked upon careers of their own and have their own places. It's quite rare for children to leave home earlier because they cannot sign a lease, have no credit, and cannot afford to live independently.
Thanks for giving us so much to think about, Mary!
Great video. America is big and varies. Many of the things you mentioned up to child independence are actually largely the same in America. The world thinks America embraces the whole "I have to be different" and political correctness nonsense, but basically that's a loud percentage of the big cities. Most of us regard them as morons. As far as independence, living with parents until 18-22 is normal. Later is generally stretching it. Yes, leadership is good. Success is more beloved among older generations.
Hello Mary. Just watched the video now. Those were some strange ideas you brought up. Thank you
Hey, Antonio 🤗 Glad the weird ideas surprised you 🤪👀
I adore your acent it's fascinating watching you talk
Thank you very much! I’m pleased 🤗🔥
Very fascinating insight
Thank you very much 😍💛
@Mary...love your t-shirt...you are UNSTOPPABLE!
Thank you, 100% unstoppable 🔥😅
Enjoying your videos. Keep at it and dont worry about haters. Слава Україні
I think the differences are as much generational as they are cultural.
I think you may be right 🤔
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I worked jobs for extra spending money by around 16 years old, and was living independently at 18 years old. Most people I know left their parents house around 18, as that is when high school ends. My sister lived with my parents for 3 years of college before moving out. But if you’re still living with your parents at age 30, generally you are seen as nothing but a lazy failure - and your parents are looked down upon by society also for enabling it! (American)
Дякую за відео
True
I'm Italian and we as guys "commonly" leave around 30 years old the house. Why ?
Because mama is sacred and she cook very well.
Will Ukrainian women take time getting into a relationship? The few ladies I have met from Ukraine were on average around 27 years old and have only had 1 or 2 boyfriends in their life?
Lotsa stereotypes huh.
Thanks for sharing your opinion! 🔥